This is so relatable. In high school I suppressed my opinions bc of bad experiences. Now I’m in uni, I had an epiphany in class where I realised how bad I am at not discussing things. And I have an assessment soon where you need to participate verbally… so I’ll try to improve 😭
These are some solid tips especially the last one. I've been feeling lost lately and actually started looking within myself, who it is I want to be. I've been binging on your videos to actually help me be more confident and comfortable in social settings, and I've been binging on Kiana Docherty's videos on self improvement, so I can start showing up for myself and live life on my terms.
Wow calling me out right at the start. I am not even that nice or agreeable, but I am afraid to come on too strongly, I sometimes can't sleep at night remembering what I did wrong, upsetting someone or simply not giving my best that day. I hate myself so much at times and the only validation I give myself is work. Work became my only life's content in the last 4 years. I can't form relationships at all...
honestly, I enjoyed this video quite a lot, especially because I could identify with all of the things that you were saying :') thank you for this, it was very helpful ❤
I feel like my personality is kinda loud and energetic so people get me perceive me as annoying so it makes me want to suppress myself all the time 😭😭😭
“Start Swearing” is not something that would help; There is no such thing as curse words for me, as I use words in context: Any word I use to curse/ condemn someone is cursing/ condemning them and that is a negative thing to do to anyone.
I don't like this video at all. You don't need a 'personality' to be worthy. What does that even mean? You're good as you are, you don't have to be more 'spicy' to be liked. Just be yourself and don't take yourself too seriously.
That's the thing some people, like myself, don't feel like we have a personality. I don't want to be seen, in a way, I was trying to hide who I was to keep the peace. We generally lack the self confidence within ourselves that we end up suppressing who we are.
