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How to handle criticism gracefully: verbal and non-verbal techniques that help deal with negativity 

Jamila Musayeva
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@JamilaMusayeva
@JamilaMusayeva Месяц назад
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@thiagotristao1943
@thiagotristao1943 8 месяцев назад
Timestamp of the video (mostly for myself): 1- Ignoring 0:56 2- Avoiding eye contact 4:19 3- The use of language 8:37 4- Taking control over your emotions 13:45 5- Removing yourself physically 15:40
@enginepy
@enginepy 5 месяцев назад
Thanks. She really needs to put chapter markers in when making a 20 minute video.
@leslieuribe6982
@leslieuribe6982 5 месяцев назад
​@@enginepy or preferably get to the point, without overly explaining herself
@enginepy
@enginepy 5 месяцев назад
@@leslieuribe6982 so true. She does go on and on.
@dameanvil
@dameanvil 8 месяцев назад
- 0:23 🤔 How to handle criticism, negativity, and toxic people - 0:48 🙉 Most effective: Ignore negativity, treat it as if it doesn't exist - 1:15 📝 Busy individuals, celebrities often ignore comments for peace - 2:11 🚫 Recent case: Ignored a heated confrontation, focused on reading - 3:00 🧘‍♀ Train to mentally block negativity during in-person encounters - 4:19 🚫 Avoid eye contact with negative/toxic individuals - 4:55 👁 Eyes are windows to the soul, avoid allowing negativity in - 6:00 ❌ Difficulty saying no in person, easier over phone or email - 8:00 🔇 Silence after breaking eye contact sends a powerful message - 8:34 🗣 Remaining calm and composed during negativity - 10:02 🔄 Make them repeat negative statements to make them look foolish - 12:41 🤔 Ask "why" to make them explain or reconsider their words - 14:34 🚶‍♀ Physically walk away or occupy a larger space to assert boundaries - 17:36 🌐 Nobody will protect you but yourself; learn to draw boundaries - 18:46 📈 Enjoy life, be true to yourself, stay away from intentional toxicity
@suem.1392
@suem.1392 8 месяцев назад
16:19 "No one should take your presence for granted. Your presence is a gift to someone else. Your presence in their life, in that room is a moment to be shared. And if they are not appreciating this, they don't deserve your presence. So learn to walk away when you don't feel comfortable." Read that again :)
@JamilaMusayeva
@JamilaMusayeva 8 месяцев назад
❤️
@sherryobar5750
@sherryobar5750 7 месяцев назад
Amen!
@chiancondesa6768
@chiancondesa6768 6 месяцев назад
Gonna use this as a caption on my post❤
@bridgiesue7
@bridgiesue7 8 месяцев назад
I'm so glad you included the part about handling people who are speaking their second language with grace. So many times when I have been speaking Italian (my second language) I realize that I have unintentionally offended someone, and trying to backtrack and explain your intentions when you are embarassed and misunderstood is so hard. My boyfriend and I speak english and Italian together, and sometimes we accidentally say something hurtful because of mistranslation. Whenever it happens, I say "I think you said something you didn't mean, explain it a different way" because I know he loves me and he wouldn't say something to hirt me on purpose. 100% of the time, it was a mistranslation and his words had a different intention. Giving eachother this grace and moment of explanation before getting emotional is a MAJOR KEY in our communication as a multi-lingual couple.
@bighitstannnnnn1203
@bighitstannnnnn1203 4 месяца назад
L
@audreyc3078
@audreyc3078 3 месяца назад
Thank you for this video. It is very useful. I recently had a bad experience where an irate woman ranted at me for a full 5 minutes. I ignored her and she got more furious. I agree with you that arguing with toxic people is not worth our energy. Avoiding eye contact, avoiding the person is the best policy.
@elegancaesthetic
@elegancaesthetic 8 месяцев назад
Young people need to hear this!!!
@komalgupta8528
@komalgupta8528 8 месяцев назад
I always wait for your videos like a kid , yours presence is angelic Ma'am. May god bless you and your family.Please never stop uploading your content. ☺️
@shaydele
@shaydele 7 месяцев назад
The use of language - are you okay? I love this one.
@a.williams9
@a.williams9 7 месяцев назад
Wonderful content and sound advice, Jamila. You're absolutely right. These are golden rules to live by on a daily basis. By keeping yourself grounded, respectful and calm, mindfully self aware of your defined boundaries and detached from negative people in any odd situation is always the best way to keep yourself safe since it could be even life threatening if we engage with potentially highly toxic and dangerous individuals. Self respect is fundamental and time is always worth investing for your own health, well-being and safety. Thank you so much for your continuous educational support 🙏🏻⚘
@JamilaMusayeva
@JamilaMusayeva 7 месяцев назад
Thank you so much for your kind message 🙏🏻
@nefeli61e
@nefeli61e 8 месяцев назад
@ 16:18 " No one should take your presence for granted, your presence is a gift to someone else's life..."
@ranikster9955
@ranikster9955 8 месяцев назад
Thank you so much ❤I will try these with someone who always asks questions like: “Why don’t you have a boyfriend?” Or “Why don’t you have kids?” Or “Why don’t you have a job?” 😅😂
@shakhnozakhonumarkhanova5391
@shakhnozakhonumarkhanova5391 8 месяцев назад
I have been watching you for 3 years. Thank you so much for very important info.
@Avoid_Low_Frequency
@Avoid_Low_Frequency 7 месяцев назад
Thank you for this calm approach to hurtful comments.
@JamilaMusayeva
@JamilaMusayeva 7 месяцев назад
You're welcome❤️
@ajjudge7983
@ajjudge7983 7 месяцев назад
Excellent video Jamila! And I totally agree with the eye contact point. I once was asked for help by someone I knew didn’t have my best interests at heart. They spontaneously video called. I declined the video call, knowing that it would be easier and more effective to keep my boundaries on a voice call. It worked.
@JamilaMusayeva
@JamilaMusayeva 7 месяцев назад
Thanks for sharing!
@tayyabamulla7821
@tayyabamulla7821 8 месяцев назад
Mrs Jamila, Your videos are like a gift, Teaching me to develop, Helping me find new skills. I am grateful to God, For bringing your videos, Your wisdom, to my life. I've learned so much from you, From self-development, To dealing with critics too. I feel blessed to watch your videos, With admiration
@Borromeo377
@Borromeo377 8 месяцев назад
Truly love your content Jamilia. I love the way you present information- succinctly and to the point in a very calm way
@Carmen0777
@Carmen0777 8 месяцев назад
I totally agree with what you said Jamila, personally this is how I handle criticism/negativity both personal and online. Listen, reflect, and respond with grace and humility.❤ I hope you are doing well Jamila, take care. Carmen
@PhilosophyWithLilly
@PhilosophyWithLilly 8 месяцев назад
This is good advice. Thank you!
@JamilaMusayeva
@JamilaMusayeva 8 месяцев назад
You're so welcome!
@DC-jw4jx
@DC-jw4jx 8 месяцев назад
Jamila as always you are a gift for us that we have opportunities to listen to you and watch your videos! Great advices! Can you please make a video how to remain calm and balanced in these times with so many toxic people and stress. God bless you!
@JamilaMusayeva
@JamilaMusayeva 8 месяцев назад
Noted ☺️
@BruceLomasky
@BruceLomasky 8 месяцев назад
You are a very strong and composed woman. Thank you for your talk on such a difficult topic. You have helped me very much to reflect on things that recently happened to me. I appreciate your thoughts.
@JamilaMusayeva
@JamilaMusayeva 8 месяцев назад
Wow, thank you ❤️
@catherinekarenroy8082
@catherinekarenroy8082 8 месяцев назад
Absolutely loved it! You're so elegant and your name reflects the really beautiful person that you are. I will definitely use some of these pieces of advice. Thank you so much!
@CookieCurls
@CookieCurls 8 месяцев назад
This was great! I was actually more curious about how to handle/receive criticism when it is actually valuable? Like at work when your boss is giving you critical feedback about how to improve or grow in your career. Or a partner is trying to tell you how you can be providing more in the relationship.
@theotahiti
@theotahiti 8 месяцев назад
Yes me too! I would love a video on that
@lollyparker
@lollyparker 5 месяцев назад
I love this advice. I hate it when I react to negativity in a hasty way because my instinct is to defend myself verbally. But I love the control in these tips.
@michellecefalu7728
@michellecefalu7728 8 месяцев назад
You are such a blessing! I will apply these principles! Can't wait to apply as situations may arise. Thank you Jamila!
@JamilaMusayeva
@JamilaMusayeva 8 месяцев назад
You are so welcome
@sarahsingh6257
@sarahsingh6257 6 месяцев назад
These are very helpful tips and the last one, which is related open body language is applicable to many format gatherings or situations. Keep going. You are always beautiful.
@JamilaMusayeva
@JamilaMusayeva 6 месяцев назад
Thank you ☺️
@MarieCace
@MarieCace 8 месяцев назад
This video is gold, thank you Jamila!
@JamilaMusayeva
@JamilaMusayeva 8 месяцев назад
You are welcome
@r.m.2502
@r.m.2502 8 месяцев назад
You are such an inspiration ❤️❤️❤️❤️ More videos like these please 🙏🏻
@ilariamasullo3353
@ilariamasullo3353 8 месяцев назад
The "could you repeat that?" and "why did you say that?" technique sounds like a good strategy because it forces them to take responsibility for what they said while the general attention has been drawn to them and their inappropriate words. They'll probably never have the guts to do so, since this type of people are usually cowardly folks.
@JamilaMusayeva
@JamilaMusayeva 8 месяцев назад
They often do not have the courage to repeat now with intention something that they blurred out in hopes to get away with it.
@vanildasonahee6604
@vanildasonahee6604 8 месяцев назад
Instructive guide! Thank you!
@JamilaMusayeva
@JamilaMusayeva 8 месяцев назад
Glad it was helpful!
@mariellegrant6248
@mariellegrant6248 8 месяцев назад
Thank you so much Jamila for these very wise ideas! They are very useful, but now I live a difficult situation with my brother, including a matter of money. I cannot escape! He is mean to me and he doesn't understand why I feel so much pain because if his words. But I'm gonna try what you said, even with him!
@oyswaryabanerjee8673
@oyswaryabanerjee8673 8 месяцев назад
Please do a video on how to handle when people lie about you
@The_best_days_are_yesterdays
@The_best_days_are_yesterdays 8 месяцев назад
There's a great quote "What others say about me is none of my business."
@RashaSmiles
@RashaSmiles 8 месяцев назад
Thank you, Jamila! I really appreciate those tips and will implement them. I do tend to lose my temper quickly, but it's something I'm working on
@roseguilbault8822
@roseguilbault8822 8 месяцев назад
Loved it. Good information.❤
@JamilaMusayeva
@JamilaMusayeva 8 месяцев назад
Glad it was helpful!
@laturista1000
@laturista1000 8 месяцев назад
What an intelligent human Jamila is! Jamila has potential to be a hostage negotiator. Honestly! Being sincere here! God bless you!
@Carmen0777
@Carmen0777 8 месяцев назад
She can be a good ambassador ❤
@laturista1000
@laturista1000 8 месяцев назад
Intelligence agency is hiring smart calm and composed women to be hostage and crisis negotiators. Terrorists will give up hostages more easily when an attractive calm and composed woman is dealing with the negotiation process. Just food for thought. If attractive intelligent women thought outside the box when it comes to their career choices they'd really change the world in a postive way. @@Carmen0777
@chantellewilson9497
@chantellewilson9497 8 месяцев назад
This one was fabulous I believe I will be watching this again.
@JamilaMusayeva
@JamilaMusayeva 8 месяцев назад
Thank you!
@maiaesthetics
@maiaesthetics 8 месяцев назад
Great tips thank you so much💚 I will apply them on those toxic people I know
@JamilaMusayeva
@JamilaMusayeva 8 месяцев назад
You are so welcome!
@SenzekileBiyela-oz9hh
@SenzekileBiyela-oz9hh 6 месяцев назад
You are such an intelligent, elegant lady.Thank you for this information
@JamilaMusayeva
@JamilaMusayeva 6 месяцев назад
Wow, thank you!
@الاءالمهدي-ذ3ج
@الاءالمهدي-ذ3ج 8 месяцев назад
Yeah, definitely your tips will help me a lot in my life
@hhjiokbfdd
@hhjiokbfdd 3 месяца назад
The vibe of this video makes me already feel like an elegant woman
@andrea.szerdahelyi
@andrea.szerdahelyi 8 месяцев назад
Thank you for the valuable tips Jamila! Keeping my boundaries is something I should work on constantly. Off topic question: I have bought both of your books and the Art of hosting at home ebook as well. I highly recommend them to everyone! Is there a chance that the ebook will also come out as a phisical book? I would love to see it on my shelf next to the other 2 books. Thank you in advance!
@punpunr.3703
@punpunr.3703 7 месяцев назад
This is so useful thank you so much ! I really need this right now.
@JamilaMusayeva
@JamilaMusayeva 7 месяцев назад
Glad it was helpful!
@daryakolesnikova6290
@daryakolesnikova6290 8 месяцев назад
If someone is yelling on me , I can’t just sitting and ignoring this person . Because I physically feel bad at this moment , my heart rate increase , I feel tremor on my arms , and I actually can start crying
@lindaalene8372
@lindaalene8372 8 месяцев назад
Thank you for your advices. The video is great! HAPPY & BLESSED YEAR to you and your loved ones!!!💐💐💐🎆🎆🎆🎊🎊🎉🎉🎉🥂🥂🍾🍾
@JamilaMusayeva
@JamilaMusayeva 8 месяцев назад
Same to you!❤️
@wiktoriadermont589
@wiktoriadermont589 8 месяцев назад
Great video ❤ You are so wise and graceful. Perfect example for younger generations 🥰
@JamilaMusayeva
@JamilaMusayeva 8 месяцев назад
Thank you so much!
@vijayaaa324
@vijayaaa324 8 месяцев назад
Very true, thank you ❤😊
@JamilaMusayeva
@JamilaMusayeva 8 месяцев назад
You are so welcome
@loleasalmon1165
@loleasalmon1165 8 месяцев назад
Thank you so much Jamila, excellent video :)
@JamilaMusayeva
@JamilaMusayeva 8 месяцев назад
Glad it was helpful!
@maryanncaridad1382
@maryanncaridad1382 8 месяцев назад
Thank you Jamilya ❤
@JamilaMusayeva
@JamilaMusayeva 8 месяцев назад
Welcome
@Melisa87766
@Melisa87766 8 месяцев назад
May God Bless You !!❤ You are such an inspiration Keep it up !!
@JamilaMusayeva
@JamilaMusayeva 8 месяцев назад
Thank you so much 😀
@noneya-o9g
@noneya-o9g 4 месяца назад
LOVE!
@CorpusLael
@CorpusLael 8 месяцев назад
Excellent video. Thanks.
@JamilaMusayeva
@JamilaMusayeva 8 месяцев назад
You are welcome!
@bahara6850
@bahara6850 8 месяцев назад
I am the crybaby all over the place person. It is so hard change it. I don't look like a grown up and people don't take me seriously.
@Melissa-fz9tk
@Melissa-fz9tk 8 месяцев назад
I completely understand. Its taken me a long time to even start to overcome this. Practice and listening to these types of videos help. You can overcome it!
@giorgiagatti2621
@giorgiagatti2621 8 месяцев назад
Thank you Jamila, I loved this video
@JamilaMusayeva
@JamilaMusayeva 8 месяцев назад
Glad to hear it ☺️
@ayasarsour2860
@ayasarsour2860 8 месяцев назад
Thank you very much 😊
@JamilaMusayeva
@JamilaMusayeva 8 месяцев назад
Welcome
@wafaodix8324
@wafaodix8324 8 месяцев назад
Wooow... u nailed it 👍👍👍👍
@amysho2192
@amysho2192 7 месяцев назад
Also, if we don't look someone in the eye when they are upset and yelling at us, I feel we will make them more upset. It seems snobbish and cold. I would imagine the best time to ignore and look away is after you've already tried and failed at reasoning with the person. Idk. I was raised Christian, so maybe it's still in me to always want to show love. I ignored a girl who was yelling at me and the man I was with (she was his ex-girlfriend) and I avoided eye contact. A day later she called me and asked me why I didn't even give her the respect to look at her that day she confronted us. I was confused because when the incident happened, I felt I was being more respectful to NOT look at her. It seems we are all different when it comes to what reactions and behaviors are rude or disrespectful. Makes it difficult to get along with others sometimes.
@sonaxanmcfrova8330
@sonaxanmcfrova8330 8 месяцев назад
I love you endlessly Dear Jamila God bless you forever 👸💯🧿🙏🥰
@rooseesfandiari9932
@rooseesfandiari9932 8 месяцев назад
thank you so much for your excellent advices ❤
@JamilaMusayeva
@JamilaMusayeva 8 месяцев назад
You are so welcome!
@poisonedchalice
@poisonedchalice 8 месяцев назад
What an invaluable video ❤
@JamilaMusayeva
@JamilaMusayeva 8 месяцев назад
Glad you think so!
@InHisOwnImage
@InHisOwnImage 8 месяцев назад
Proverbs 26:4-5 - Answer not a fool according to his folly, lest you be like him yourself. Answer a fool according to his folly, lest he be wise in his own eyes. The self-confident fool thinks too highly of himself and his opinions, and he shares them freely.
@aristeamandrop5297
@aristeamandrop5297 8 месяцев назад
Thank you ❤
@JamilaMusayeva
@JamilaMusayeva 8 месяцев назад
You're welcome 😊
@ademij
@ademij 7 месяцев назад
I've never seen somebody say "I don't like your face" in a real life. Although it may be a problem in a blogger community. But isn't it what public people sign up for? I mean lots of attention, both positive and negative. Furthermore, trying to look right when you are wrong is hypocrisy. Isn't it better to admit your mistake and apologize? Frankly, after watching this video I felt quite uneasy. Like all the worst situations happened at once. I would like to hear more examples of cooperation and compassion. But that, probably, comes with age. We are not competing in who puts the other down in a most elegant way. It is much better to create win-win situations.
@aramalikvlogs
@aramalikvlogs 8 месяцев назад
Wow... I learnt so much from this video ..❤
@danielmoore9214
@danielmoore9214 8 месяцев назад
Without wood a fire burns out without a whisper a quarrel dies down...
@Rutuja_pawar
@Rutuja_pawar 8 месяцев назад
Amazing video. Very good content you are putting out there!🎉❤
@JamilaMusayeva
@JamilaMusayeva 8 месяцев назад
Thank you so much!
@carolinegregory4956
@carolinegregory4956 8 месяцев назад
I really like this video ☺️
@JamilaMusayeva
@JamilaMusayeva 8 месяцев назад
Thank you!
@communityhealthclinic
@communityhealthclinic 7 месяцев назад
Very nice like always❤
@JamilaMusayeva
@JamilaMusayeva 7 месяцев назад
Thank you! 😊
@communityhealthclinic
@communityhealthclinic 7 месяцев назад
@@JamilaMusayeva welcome
@Ikr_am6064
@Ikr_am6064 6 месяцев назад
The best vidéo ❤
@betula.4899
@betula.4899 8 месяцев назад
Thank you so much for your insightful video! I really appreciate your content 🙏 could you also do a video about how to receive constructive criticism?
@JamilaMusayeva
@JamilaMusayeva 8 месяцев назад
Great suggestion!
@petrieberries
@petrieberries 8 месяцев назад
Fabulous ✨
@lilambalramasawmy5035
@lilambalramasawmy5035 8 месяцев назад
Thank you
@jiarong6315
@jiarong6315 8 месяцев назад
Dear Jamila, thanks for the very useful advice on how to deal with criticism (esp your advice on maintaining silence while looking at the person). Hope to learn from you how to deal with internal anger in a graceful way... and if someone gets physical (eg push you), how can I respond elegantly without resorting to physical means?
@The_best_days_are_yesterdays
@The_best_days_are_yesterdays 8 месяцев назад
I must respectfully disagree with your advice about asking why someone said something or having them repeat themselves. In my experience, engaging these people only adds fuel to the fire and my time, my intellect and my energy ate precious to me. I do not give myself over to negativity; I DO however have a lovely arsenal of non-verbal weapons such as sighing, rolling my eyes, the "stare of death" to name a few. I can employ them separately or in combination before politely excusing myself from the situation and physically leaving. Works very well for me.
@barchagamuhum4000
@barchagamuhum4000 8 месяцев назад
HelloJamila!Please, make a video about classroom etiquette for teachers.
@savitaradhaswami5016
@savitaradhaswami5016 8 месяцев назад
Can i make use of same tips you suggested to handle criticism from relatives??
@paula.pazmino
@paula.pazmino 8 месяцев назад
Please, Do you have podcasts on Spotify? I would love to listen to your information on other platforms besides RU-vid
@lithishaislam0000
@lithishaislam0000 8 месяцев назад
Hi sister ❤️🥰.Thanks much for this video.I also sincerely requested you for this video.First of all,I completely get what you said.So , I'm a teenager and student .So I don't have any part time job.In your last part you told us to physically leave the environment that makes us physically or mentally sick.So what can I do ?I also wanna get out of this toxic environment.But I have nothing to deal with the after hardship if i leave my family.Please give me some suggestions.I really admire you ❤❤❤❤.
@Melissa-fz9tk
@Melissa-fz9tk 8 месяцев назад
Interested in how to handle criticism from a boss who has little to no tact.
@OloveangelinaO
@OloveangelinaO 8 месяцев назад
Mostly they usually do and say bad things behind you! So how should react? Just ignore? 🤔
@ElviraZee
@ElviraZee 8 месяцев назад
What about constructive criticism? Any tips here?
@divencidiaries9160
@divencidiaries9160 8 месяцев назад
What if those toxic people are part of your family? Could be a sister or a brother. How to gracefully or respectfully avoid them ?
@irene4633
@irene4633 8 месяцев назад
I think the same points apply. Make sure to never let them get away with it, stating it's unacceptable. You should prioritise your well-being at all times, too❤
@divencidiaries9160
@divencidiaries9160 8 месяцев назад
@@irene4633 Thanks for taking time to reply.
@shaydele
@shaydele 7 месяцев назад
Are topics like this covered in the book?
@AnkitaSharma1111.
@AnkitaSharma1111. 8 месяцев назад
❤❤
@zabavnaya-xt8tb
@zabavnaya-xt8tb 8 месяцев назад
What a peaceful soothing voice, you can do ASMR videos ⭐️🌟⚡️
@salk2555
@salk2555 8 месяцев назад
Are these techniques grounded in science
@muskan.bansal
@muskan.bansal 8 месяцев назад
T H E G O L D
@JamilaMusayeva
@JamilaMusayeva 8 месяцев назад
🙏🏻
@itsceza
@itsceza 8 месяцев назад
heheh we can see the dark feminine energy come out in this video!!!
@miaz3839
@miaz3839 7 месяцев назад
This seems like a video about how to not take criticism. Not all criticism is negative and they exist for a reason and it can help you improve yourself. I saw the title and assumed that the video would be about how to handle it gracefully while taking the chance to actually learning from them and better yourself. But I guess this is not it.
@charmainebock3079
@charmainebock3079 8 месяцев назад
❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
@tessasense2584
@tessasense2584 8 месяцев назад
Jamila Musayeva do you realize that most of your advice is considered psychological warfare? By not responding the way the instigator wants and expects you to is a form of psychological warfare, and puts you in charge of the situation.
@wolf-cj1eb
@wolf-cj1eb 8 месяцев назад
I think the very first advice was soooo poor If you stop talking and stop reacting to the person you are in a fight with , that represents you are trying to show as if the person is a stupid or just imbesile talking to you There is nothing as such a big insult as not reacting to the person you are in fight with Though Reaction can be- talks about solving the issue Not taking does not salve any problem it just rages the whole situation even more .
@daphnepghil529
@daphnepghil529 8 месяцев назад
She is not that wise..
@Kami-z7f
@Kami-z7f 8 месяцев назад
Could you please translate your videos in Arabic 😩💔
@JamilaMusayeva
@JamilaMusayeva 8 месяцев назад
Subtitles or audio in Arabic?
@Kami-z7f
@Kami-z7f 7 месяцев назад
@@JamilaMusayeva Subtitles🥺💕
@JeanpierreAsana
@JeanpierreAsana 8 месяцев назад
Wratsapp
@andreak1510
@andreak1510 8 месяцев назад
I wish I can teach my kids everything you preach. Such a wise and quality woman. Your partner, children, family and friends are so lucky to have you in their lives.
@TvGunslingeRvT
@TvGunslingeRvT 8 месяцев назад
❤❤
@JeanpierreAsana
@JeanpierreAsana 8 месяцев назад
Wratsapp
@InHisOwnImage
@InHisOwnImage 8 месяцев назад
Matthew 5:43-48 New International Version Love for Enemies 43 “You have heard that it was said, ‘Love your neighbor and hate your enemy.’ 44 But I tell you, love your enemies and pray for those who persecute you,
@danielmoore9214
@danielmoore9214 8 месяцев назад
A gentle answer deflects anger...
@gabriela14413
@gabriela14413 8 месяцев назад
Altough Jamila's approach is very valuable I would like to add that it also depends from case to case. Not everything is black or white and sometimes, an angry person is someone that just needs a litlle bit of attention and love. There are no excuses for any type of abuse and no one should put up with it but I'm speaking from my experience here as I once was very angry (I don't remeber exactly the circumstances) however a lovely eldery lady approached me asking me "what's wrong dear?' and her action immediately softened me...I felt heard and felt seen and most importantly, I'll never forget her and her kindness towards me. Her lovely 'manners' served me as a beautiful example that kidness also goes a long way.
@amysho2192
@amysho2192 7 месяцев назад
Yes, I was thinking the same thing and even left a comment asking if it's OK to try to de-escalate the situation. Ignoring someone might be best if you feel angered and worried about losing composure, but if you are calm, I'd imagine it's good to try to calmly and kindly validate their feelings and then reason with them. If that doesn't work, then at THAT point it seems like a good thing to just ignore. But people that are upset definitely don't want to be ignored...they want to be heard and understood. I know in the past, if I've lost my cool and snapped at someone or yelled/cried about a certain issue, it has been very hurtful and more angering when someone ignores me. It's as if they are saying, "You're feelings do NOT matter to me and I'm indifferent to your existence." Hate that feeling! I had a co-worker respond with such compassion when I was stressed and snapped at her and broke down in tears...She asked me sympathetically what was REALLY going on with me. Was helpful and of course caused me to want to apologize to her. Had a better day after that interaction, which means better interactions with others the rest of the day.
@potospotos4078
@potospotos4078 8 месяцев назад
Hello, please can you also make a video on how to recover from past mistakes, harsh comments and how to move on.
@InHisOwnImage
@InHisOwnImage 8 месяцев назад
Jesus Christ has a great video on RU-vid about past mistakes, harsh comments and how to move on called "The Sermon on the Mount" ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-6aZs5IKiXhY.htmlsi=nAWCHNYbUFfZRFsU
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