WHAT TO DO WHEN NOTHING GOES OUR WAY | Buddhism In English 

“Expectation stands for suffering”. This is so true. 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻

Buddha said, If problem can be solved why worry and if problem can't be solved by us then also why worry so We shouldn't be worried either problem can be solved or not.

This appears in right time when i am needing the most 🙏 thank you so much

Three things to do when facing tough situations 1. Realize what the situation is - analyze and understand the problem. 2. Determine whether the situation is in your control or out of your control. 3. Change the situation if it is in your control or change your perspective if it is out of your control.

His kindness shines trough so much and his smile and dimples are just adorable.

It is a fact that nothing is fair in life . I know that life is full of suffering. I do not expect anything from life. I do what is need to be done . Be kind, be truthful , be helpful to people. Yes I am going thru struggles right now but I accept it wholeheartedly . Just keep going till your wheel of life stops. I try my best not to react on a negative situation . Walk away from toxic people. Thank you for the Buddha’s teaching . I learnt so much and is still learning . I don’t really think much about what people say about me . I focuse on myself and my well-being. Every day I always thankful for the gift of life. I am very grateful for the blessings and graces that come my way.I terribly adore and love Buddha’s teaching . And I applied it in life . Believe me I am so at peace with myself . Thank you . Thank you. Thank you. I listen to you everyday. 🙏🙏🙏

මාගේ භාග්‍යවතුන් වහන්සේට මාගේ උත්තමාංග නමස්කාරය වේවා! උත්තම ශ්‍රී සද්ධර්මයට මාගේ නමස්කාරය වේවා! ඒ මහා ශ්‍රාවක සංඝරත්නයට මාගේ නමස්කාරය වේවා! ඉතා අගනා දේශනයක් ස්වාමීනී. බොහෝමත්ම පින්!

I really needed this. I am going through a situation as you described,. It is out of my control so i will follow your advice and won't try to change the people instead I will control myself n my emotions. I wish someday I will understand life.

I am a Christian that listens to your program and enjoy it very much. Thank you!

Being a Sanatani (Hindu) I think that Hinduism (Sanatan Dharma), Jainism, Buddhism, and Sikhism are looking different but there roots are same we all are One Love from Rajasthan, India 🙏

I am suffering a lot because of situations that are out of my control and also in my control. Thank you for this advice and may all the ppl get a peaceful life❤

This guy is fluent in English. His voice is so clear.

After listening to your words ,I felt stress-free, peaceful and Happy with what I have.😇 Whatever flows ...flows..... If we can't change the situation then We have to change our perspective ✌️💪 It gives me hope to run my life.

What beautiful thoughts..!! The tenderness of your words.. your voice is so powerful, Master 🙏😊 God Bless you...Namo Budhdhay 🙏😊

🇩🇰👑🇹🇹 🫒 Hi Buddha, thank you for your wise teachings👊 I listen, I learn. I love listening to Buddha's messages👌. Greetings from DK 🇩🇰

This is so true. No matter how many good things you do life is not always fair. Its hard but we have to move on .

By listening to you i am at peace...Namo Buddhaya

Expectations lead to disappointment which leads to suffering.. just let go trust the journey 🙏🙏 blessings 💖💖💖

Im at the lowest point in my life right now. I dont remember the last I prayed but a few nights ago I talked to him and said if he hated me THAT much, he can just take away my life right there and then. I asked him to not let me wake up in the morning. But instead, he didnt let me sleep at all. Got 0 sleep 😂

Sir ur teachings hv changed my life to a great extent n helping me everyday to lead a peaceful life. Thank u so much. Namo budhdhaya🙏

අපේ හාමුදරුවනෙ.. අවසරයි.. ඔබ වහන්සේ ඉතාම උගත්.. ඒ වගේම සමාවන්න කඩවසම් මනා පවුර්ශයකින් යුක්තයි. එහෙව් ඔබ වහන්සේ මහන වන්නේ සැබෑම සසර කලකිරීමෙන් ඌ අවබෝදයෙන්ම නිසා විය යුතුයි.. මාගෙ ඉල්ලිම වන්නේ.. බොහෝ සිසුන් සිසුවියන් සිටිනවා.. ජීවිතේ ඉතාම අමාරු අවදීන් වල ගත කරන. මව්වරුන් පියවරු සහෝඩ්නදරයන් අකාලයේ මිය ගිය , අපහාස උපහාස වලට ලක් වූ , නොයෙක් ලෙඩ රෝග, ආදර සම්බන්දතා ප්‍රශ්න ආර්තික ප්‍රශ්න නොයෙක් ආදී.. ඔවුන් මේ රටේ අනාගත වත්කමයි.. ඔවුන්ගෙ එම කඩා වැටීම් ව්‍ර්නුව්‍ර්න් ඔබේ ඉඩ වෙන් කරන්නේ නම් එය මහ අත්වැලක් වේවි.. මන්ද ඔවුන් සොයන්නෙ සිත පිනවන. වැදි බන නොව අර්තාන්විත ගැබුරු දහම තුලින් ලෞකික ජීවිතය ඉදිරියට සාර්තකව ගෙන යෑමට අවස්ජ්‍ය සිතේ සවිය සහ උපදෙසුයි. එවන බන සොයා ගැනීමට ඉතා අපහසුයි.. ඔබ වැනි හිමි නමක් ඒ වෙනුවෙන් කාලය වෙන් කරන්නේ නම් ඔවුන්ට සැබෑම අස්වැසිල්ලක් වේවි..අවසර ස්වාමීන් වහන්ස. (ඔබ වහන්සේ සිංහල හිමි නමක් යැයි අනුමාන කොට මෙය සිංහලෙන් ඉදිරිපත් කරනු ලබන්නේ අනෙකුත් ස්‍රී ලාංකිකයන්ගේද එක වර ඇස ගැටීම සදහායි. ) permission.. you are very educated.. and sorry, handsome and well-mannered. .. This is my request.. There are many students.. They study very hard in life. Mothers, fathers, brothers and sisters died prematurely, insulted, many diseases, broken heart., love relationship problems, economic problems, etc.. They are the future asset of this country. They seek pleasure. The find deep understanding through Buddha s word. And please give some advice and like counseling for student who is suffering like mentioned. Sorry Lord. (It is assumed that you are a Sinhala name and this is presented in Sinhala.

I love Buddhism it has helped me through so much!! Thank u so much for your teachings !

I am a Catholic but I listen to this.... it gives me new perspective. And what he is saying is actually true. You can never go wrong with listening to words of wisdom and do implement it into your life. Expect to Fail but rise up again. In this way, we all learn from our mistakes but gain more wisdom along the way.

Bhikku is like the coolest guy on RU-vid. ☸️🕉

I have my board comong next week and nothing was going ryt and suddenly this video showed up ,ig its a gods sign

if nothing goes your way then stop trying too hard and relax then it may start going your way either through that thing you wanted or through another door. If you want to come out of a difficult situation then you relax like the Chinese finger trap - the more you struggle to escape the harder it gets. You dont run away from your suffering but you remain with it quietly and listen, from that comes the flash of insight - in the last moment the tides can change. The ancient greeks called suffering as passion and passion is energy. There is great energy in it.

I sleep very few hours. The rest of the time in the night I listen to these sermons. Superb.

Yes, If people act thru’ their lenses it is not you or nothing to do with yourself! It is their sanskar! Radiate compassion to those who criticize, & are opinionated ! Obviously they are not happy with themselves! 💓🙏🏼

It is true, I once in my live experienced exactly what you describe. This was the Golf war. We in Germany almost all were depressed, because we grew up with our recent fascist history and we were suffering a war was there again. I lived in Hanover, went to school, had to Referate, usually shy, I did not care. I had been sitting crying, talked in front of the class, sat down and went on crying. A male teacher who taught type writing for a colleague, broke down crying over the type writer. Finally in another class the teacher said, o.k. You can all go outside and join the protest. Walling within the large groups brought some relief as long as we were there. At home my friend and I continued what we did those days! We talked about it, watched TV about it, for the first time in our young life, we could not sleep, for the first time we bought wine, drank it before going to bed, in a way we never did before, to become in a mood where we just knocked out, which was for us both together a half bottle of wine. We woke up again, because that is no real sleep. In the morning we stood up very early to sit in front of the TV, suffering and listening to the horrors that happened. After some weeks I said to my friend, you know what, we will ignore what is happening because we cannot change anything. What if we turn out the TV and read books, go for a walk. We were living in a kind of nightmare, but we were not forced to. We were healthy and outside in our town there was peace. We had good people around us and friends. We changed our reaction to what happened. We slept at night again and felt better. I still think, if one could change bad things that happen, it would be our duty to do what we can. As there was really nothing we could do, it was what helped us. Thank you very much for your advice and kindness. Again a time we all suffer.

Namo Buddhaya. You are God's gift to me. Your preachings have turned my life completely, I just can't explain how much valuable your videos are to me. Very simple explanation.

Namo buddhay. Respected sir how do I not expect from other person. And just be on my own and accept everything that is happening in my life

Listening to your advice made me live meaningful and so powerful.🙏🙏

Millions of thanks for such wonderful service. If possible, Please make us a video regarding 'how to inculcate positive thoughts and ideas in our mind' because mind gets easily indulge in past trauma, criticism, sufferings than living in present moment. Thanks a lot 🙏

Very nice Love from India🇮🇳

Well said! Its completely true in my life... Expectations definitely kill as a person.Its also said that expectation leads to greater disappoinent ✨ Let's feel surprised when unexpected things get happened💙✨

Yes, expectations are killing us.. you are right , expectations are suffering 😢 😔

I am a Christian but I listen to this Man!

You are the most positive thing which I could listen to. Thank you so much ✨

Thank you🌺 You give us joy🍀 There is lot of truth in it. Now the practise must come to the fore 😊😊😁

Thank you Namo Buddhaya

thank you, I needed this!

Your words making me much better... thanks alot

I’m 23 and don’t know where my life is going. This video helped change my perspective on things. Amazing video

Thank you sir for your great teaching

Thank-you so much 💖 this was so needed right now. Blessings 💖

J Yaa this is absolutely right & me personally experienced it more expectations becoming a reason of depression , anxiety,

I love these messages 🙏🙏

Thank you Vanteji.May you live healthy and a long life

So true, very peaceful teaching for your mind 🙏

Right timing, i need this. Thank you.

Thank you Buddha for this message. I wish this message to be spread worldwide to people who need it and May God bless everybody always🙏🙏❤️❤️🤲🤲

Namo buddhay 🌺 Thank you for today's video 🙂

Each and every word relate to my life ☹️ Expectations=suffering 💯%true

I really needed to hear this Thank you so much🌸🙏

I watch everyday your videos because your thoughts is very helpful my life is totally changed and i am so happy ... Changing is more important in our life😊

Thank you🙏 sir. For the video Please🙏 make video everyday your wisdom make our life easy.

This is one of the most valuable videos I've ever seen. Will listen to this again and again ❤❤❤❤

Needed to hear this so badly ... Thank you so much universe for this sign 🌈💕💫

Thank u so much … heard this at the right moment 🙏🏼🙏🏼

Hands off u sir... Ur d amazing motivation speaker.. Well adviser ☺💫

Thank you! 🤗 Namo Buddhaya. 🙏✨✨✨

Simple, yet so powerful and enlightening! Thank you.

What a beautiful thoughts 🙏

First of all I would like to say that I was so happy to see a video put up here after quite a while. Today's video has come at a time when I how been facing such circumstances for quite a while. "If we cannot change a situation we should change our perspective towards it". This sentence speaks volumes and is the best advice to all who are in this situation. It makes me realise that all this while I've been trying to change things which are not in my control. Now I realise that it's better for my peace of mind to let things be as they are and not to let them affect me. Hope to see more such videos.

Thanks a lot for that wonderful explanation. Om Namo Buddhaya

Seems true..hopefully takes me out of my current very hard times

Thank you for the explanation of changing perspective in one moment in our life

Thank you for the wisdom. 🙏❤

You are very greatest people

Thanks for your contribution in this think❤ Namo buddhay

Thank you Bhante for this awesome video and your great teaching. Namo Buddhaya.🙏🙏🙏

Thank you so much for your amazing perspective.. you are truly making a positive impact on so many people.. Lots of love to your channel !

Thank you, this really saved me I have been rejected by many things that I truly put efforts on but didn't get the success from those things.

Thank you, I am learning a lot 🙏❤️

Thank you, I have been blessed to find your channel and you are a part of my daily routine now.🙏

Thank you for your wise words. They helped clarify my approach to a particular situation right now. Grateful for this moment which shows up as it should - for a purpose! 🙏

How sweetly u told...life...nature is unfair...will follow ur words.

This is true words of wisdom thank you!🤗

🌍🙏🙏🙏 one of the great message to whole world.

Upto now this is the calmest Buddha master 🙏 God bless you ❤️ Very happy and peaceful to hear him 😁

Simple yet so powerful if fully actualised! Thank you for your kind words of wisdom

Enormously gratitude 🙏

Nice 👍 one of the most valuable information about our controllable & uncontrollable situations... Thanks Bhanteji🙏 Namo Buddhay🙏🙏🙏

Thank you so much for your videos, i am so grateful and enjoy listening to the buddhism so true to life 🙏

His energy is so soothing

thanks a lot to give big awareness about situations , namo buddhya .

I really can't believe initially . The love and kindness which you are spreading is massive.🙏🙏🙏💐💐💐🕊️🕊️🕊️

just what i needed right now...thank you so much...now i am feeling better after watching this Happiness is inversely propertional to expectations.. Namo Buddhaya 🙏🏻😊

It's really very true. Ur teachings and wisdom are impressive thank u. 🎉

Thank you so much for your wise teachings. Namo Buddhaya

🙏🙏🙏 Thank you so much .. I'm so blessed to watch this.. Namo Buddhaya..🙏

Thank you so much for giving me direction in my life... Before your guidance I was stuck... Thank you so much I love you

Thank u so much for your teachings it is really helpful

Thank you so much Sir for the lovely words 🙏🙏🙏

Take my respect Vante 🙏🌹 It's really hard to control the mind. Hope I will control myself and positive thinking. Namo Buddhaya 🙏🌹

I'm new subscriber. I love your teachings . It guides me. Thank you so much.

We all need to listen to these wise words.

it's so clear explanation, triple gem bless you.🙏🙏🙏

Thank you so much sir Such a wonderful timely message 🙏🏻

Yes ❤️❤️❤️ thank you ..I would like to know how to grow yourself in a neg environment and what should b our approach towards self life🙏🙏