I learned this the hard way.....if you keep the relationship chill YET....keep doing the things you did to get her...that's how to KEEP her. Works both ways too ladies. Don't act ungrateful because you want to test a dudes wherewithal or his patience.
Remember guys and girls you don’t have to have s*x to have a good relationship. Nothing wrong with keeping yourself till you find the one and doing it after marriage. Just my thoughts, have a good day everyone and God Bless
@@Stonks_Stuffif you don‘t keep yourself till marriage because of religious reasons but only because I think it’s „romantic“. Don’t do it.. Good Women want experienced men. No matter what they might say. Also. You can never be sure if she is the one if you haven’t tried yourself out and made experience if you never Date different women. You gotta figure out what you like
If you like *and* love each other, haven't become complacent, don't have toxic tendencies, etc. then, yes, this is the way. Reciprocal love, attention to detail, flirting, etc. On a daily basis, give each other goodbye, hello kisses. Help each other out. Again, this depends on everyone's preferences. Those are things that I like and try to practice in my relationship.
This is a dopamine thing. You get the reinforcement effects of it in pursuit of something. Set goals with her and meet them, small or big, positive or with obstacles.
The thin line between "just treat her well" and "dedicating your entire existence to her happiness" is too thin to be studied by science. Even at a conversation when that awkward silence hits, they expect the guy to keep the conversation going, otherwise he's boring and not worth her time. Whatever we do it's never enough, if we just "try to keep the relationship exciting" then we're not putting our heart into it and we're not trying hard enough. And if we dedicate ourselves to your happiness then we're trying too hard and we're simps. I'm sick of you women. We're not clowns we don't exist for your entertainment
Im a bit in the same position but am a girl. I always keep the conversation going, i then stop, he says “what else” or “say something” when silence bothers him. When we watch a movie, he always chooses, and when i do, he sulks a little and convinces to watch this instead. Im very introverted, so I can handle silence all day long and invest more on my hobbies, if he wants to spend time these days, i let him talk when he wants to. (Shameless vent sorry)
Any tip how to make conversation interesting? I am in long distance and I am introvert that's why @@mau345
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100% true, cause each individual have different persona, and woman can be hard or really hard to satisfy, and something that can make her happy, can cost man whole life existence, for example the girl is demand traveling to 70 country in a years for her happiness, but the least she demands for her well being is 20, which is still to much and cost a lot, especially when man is the one who pay and plans for everything, it's bitter reality, but it is the truth, and in the end 21 floor is looks attempting than spend the entire life with her.
How to keep sparks in your relationship is CURIOSITY, always be curious about your partner, and ask questions. Curiosity is key to have a longterm relationship 💕.
If a partner is not happy with themselves then no one will be able to make them happy. You are responsible for your own happiness. Having another happy person with which to share your life with will make your life sweeter. It's the icing on the cake, but it's not the cake.
I really have to say the advice you share is spot on! When I open an amusement park..I will start dating women that needs to be entertained 24/7 Thanks for the great posts
Best thing to do is be yourself and just remember both people have to make the relationship excited together. Sharing new experiences and making new friends but don't allow people to used you as a tampon or an orbieter. Male and Female.
Example: for my birthday, all I wanted to do was take my girlfriend on a hike to my favorite waterfall. What an amazing way that was to build a deeper connection :) I can’t wait to marry her 😭💛
She's saying that it's the guy's "job" to keep the relationship exciting as if he's a clown. If that ain't entitlement and expectation then I don't know what it is
Impeccable work here. A book I read that was of similar quality changed my outlook entirely. "The Art of Meaningful Relationships in the 21st Century" by Leo Flint
You have to believe youre good company first. You cant rely on someone to do that for you. Both men and women walk into relationships only being 50% of a person and hope their partner is going to make them 100%. That is a co dependant relationship. This idea of "This person will complete me." Really means I don't need to be responsible for my own insecurities, and lack of passion and drive bc im in a relationship and thats enough." Its not it will open the doors to more insecurity, resentment and possibly manipulation and control- However lets say youve done the work, you didn't skip those steps on self esteem and the person still seems uninterested? Then that person isn't for you. Not everyone is going to be. And thats okay. .
(FACTS OVA FEELINGS). One of the Most Common Things Eu Hear Relative to Relationships is it Takes 2 Watt this means is it is Automatically Assumed tha Both Parties r at Fault in sum way r hold sum Responsibility for the Down Fall of the Relationship but the tRUTH of Relations is Much Moor Complicated than that the tRUTH is it can be 2 Ppl who Both Hold Responsibility Relative to Ruining a Relationship but it Only Takes One Person to Ruin a Relationship the Real tRUTH is it Takes 2 to Make a Relationship Work
If she is pre-qualifying you to provide her the financial and emotional security, then you must be pre-qualifying her as to her desire provide/raise your children.
How he fugg does a guy keep a woman every day if he ain't makin' bank. She WILL find a guy to keep her fed and warm if you dont force her to rely on you and dont get wasted by the the constant competion that doesn't love her as much because people will always take the short term fun over the long term stability.
Im not a constant conveyor belt that delivers an infinite supply of entertainment. Thats why i gave up on dating, it takes too much energy and gives too little in return.
Women need to learn wat middle class living is like nowadays. Women need to except middle class living is eat work sleep pay bills. It ant always fun like wat women want 24 7
I'm mesmerized by this. I had the pleasure of reading something similar, and I was truly mesmerized. "The Art of Meaningful Relationships in the 21st Century" by Leo Flint
Yall help a girl out what do you do if a boy constantly stares at you, wants to talk to you but can’t cause he doesn’t want to interrupt your friends, and told me to go up to talk to him…what does that mean!!?!😭
This woman is great looking because she has a high level of natural looks. She can get away with minimal make up which is great but those colored contacts....
for the newlyweds...take it from someone married twice, I get the honeymoon stage but you don't have to walk around the house like Adam and Eve 24/7 , I been there...y'all are like rabbits in the beginning, but that will wear off real quick...leave a little mystery, because soon as those kids come...those Adam and Eve days are OVER! and the day will come when the kids are over at Grandmas for the weekend and she steps in front of that TV in all her glory...and she just made you miss Steph Curry make that 3 point game winning buzzer beater...AWWWW shit!!!
It’s so crazy 2023 people get rid of their lovers for new once and same thing repeat over and over idk what is the solution even if you find the one it will be over after sometime only if really that partner is very innocent and white heart to the point where they stay with you
You def seem like you’re ina relationship now idk you just have a different type of glow about you but it’s def working so maybe you’re happier idk I’ve been watching your vids for a min ❤
Imagine their maternal ancestors looking at these bored modern women wondering why they’re unhappy with too much time on their hands. Women living in the wilderness bearing 12+ kids, washing clothes by hand on a board, cooking on a wood stove, scrubbing 🧽 floors, making all their clothes, and carrying buckets of water 💧 from a well would slap the excitement out of you modern women. 😂
Only date women who are adults. Children need to be entertained so that they don't get bored. Adults know how to entertain ourselves both in and out of a relationship.
