You don't necessarily love her. You love the idea of her. You love your mind's idealization of her. You love her through the act she put on for a while to hook you, when she was dishing out microdosages of her best self, as a potent and addictive drug. Indeed, at one point, she stood before you as a good actress - she showed you what you wanted to see. However, your heart were but a canvas for her witchery. Through your words and subtle cues, she acted the role of your ideal partner. But now she's on to bigger things (at the club!). So leave the witch alone! Maybe love is real, but if I was trying to get over a girl right now, I'd think about how as a man I too easily fall in love and then try to justify things as they fall apart. I think the reality is that as men we are just looking for "good enough", so when a woman is at one time seemingly investing a lot and being a good woman, it's particularly hard for us to forget about her. I think the video is spot on about how a woman is affected by her environment. If you put a goldfish in a shithole, soon it will be a shitfish.
no no no let me get this straight. first 1-2 years are always perfect because she is "in love". she would be perfect gf saying whatever things promises and so on. it always looks like a fairy tale. but ONCE SHE IS NOT IN LOVE ANYMORE everything disappears. no amount of promises matter, no responsibility taken, no matter how perfect your relationships were - in a blink of an eye EVERYTHING gets dismissed. because SHE ONLY DOES AND SAYS whatever she FEELS IN THE MOMENT. females NEVER TAKE ACCOUNTABILITY and they perceive the "not feeling anymore" as a perfect excuse for ANY TYPE OF TREASON. LITERALLY ANYTHING IS JUSTIFIED once she is "not in love anymore". ANYTHING. and there is NOTHING you can do about it. ALWAYS keep that in mind. IT'S TEMPORARY IT ALWAYS IS. however it looks whatever she says in the moment IT IS TEMPORARY. words do not matter. actions do not matter. NOTHING MATTERS EXCEPT HOW SHE FEELS AT A SPECIFIC DAY, tomorrow can change everything at any given moment. ALWAYS KEEP THAT IN MIND.
I walked away when wife changed refused to talk or listen to anything I said. It was the only thing I could do to keep what little respect I had left. You have to walk or you will be forced out and have no respect from anyone inc yourself
Same shit I'm going through currently. But the pull hoping it will change has a grip on me which I know instinctively I need to leave. The biggest gripe I have with them, is they don't understand cause and effect
Is your soul saved from hell? All have sinned (Romans 3:23 KJV). The Lord Jesus Christ died for our sins, was buried and rose again the third day (1 Corinthians 15:1-4 KJV). You must have faith in the blood of Jesus (Romans 3:25 KJV). Getting water baptized DOESN'T save us (1 Corinthians 1:17 KJV). We are saved by grace through faith, not our works (Ephesians 2:8-9 KJV). Only Jesus saves from hell
She's just not that into you if she wants to leave, or she wouldn't... It's not rocket science, you're just not it for her and that's okeeyy... You will be for someone else.....
The "that's okeeyy" sounds so unempathic. Women today aren't kind-hearted like they used to be smhh.. u are the definition of a jezebel spirit. She builds everything up, paint the picture, and the future in ur mind. Then suddenly she's just not interested and wants to leave. Yeah, OK, that's wrong to do that to someone. So self-centered. "Leave" means something was established. If she's not into you then it wouldn't have gotten past the talking stage.
THIS IS AN EXTREMELY STRONG, POWERFUL, FORCEFUL AND AGGRESSIVE MESSAGE TO ALL YOUNG MEN: I AM IN MY EARLY FORTYS AND I HAVE BEEN IN MONK MODE ALL MY LIFE! NEVER EVER BEEN IN A SERIOUS RELATIONSHIP WITH A WOMAN! I PROUDLY PRIOTISE MYSELF-MENTAL HEALTH, WELLBEING AND SPIRITUALITY! I HAVE UNCONDITIONAL LOVE FROM A HIGHER POWER AS WELL MY PETS! I NEED NO WOMAN TO MAKE ME HAPPY! I PURSUE GOD, HIGHER SPIRITUALITY, MAKING MORE MONEY, SERVING REAL PEOPLE, AND MY OWN GOALS! DO NOT WASTE YOUR TIME ON MEANINGLESS PURSUIT! TIME IS PRICELESS COMMODITY AND CAN NOT BE REGAINED! LIVE AND CHOOSE WISELY!!!
U HAVEN'T HEALED FROM THE LAST DUMP. WHAT DID U DO TO CAUSE IT. CHECK YOUR ACTIONS DUDE! MAYBE KARMA? DON'T BELIEVE YOU DID NOTHING,BUT U CAN MEET A WORTHLESS PIECE OF CRAP! HOPE THIS HELPS U REFLECT🎉
Brothers, the more that I train with this kettlebell, the more I run, the more that I see being laid out before me. The day you wake up and understand that you are who you are, and that if nothing changes then nothing will happen. I want to be able to say this. “I ran the distance, and I still can swing like Arnold Palmer” 40, 50 years from now. I refuse to stand by and let my life go right before my very eyes. Fellas. The future is so much greater then what meets the eye.
Facts speak for themselves, but we ain't in person. I'm a part of the 1% who is the best out. I only gotta say it since we ain't in person. Only quality knows quality. Only the Real recognizes Real!
Bro! U are right on the ball man. Exactly. That's what happen to me😂 wish it happen earlier so happy I am single. Leveling up hard. Keep spreading your knowledge, people need to hear this shit. Good work.
Perhaps it might help future relationships if you put forth more effort to please your partner. A relationship should be about mutual caring, effort, and responsibility, don't you agree?
Yes, it should be about all that. But reality looks a whole lot different… If a man shows a woman „mutual care“ or „effort“ she will disrespect him and leave. And „responsibility“ is anyway foreign for women.
I use the wave 🌊 🏄♂️ and surfboard analogy when it comes to women. Once you meet a woman and there is mutual interest, the wave forms. The height and length of the wave is determined by the environment. Depending on your skill as a surfer with your surfboard you can extend the ride on the wave, but it will eventually end. Men make the mistake of believing this wave will last forever. Once the woman's wave falls and disappears, the pleasant, enjoyable and exciting ride is over. Get off that wave before it falls and you crash out. Move on and wait for the next wave with the next woman.
@@Himunich that’s a projection women think because it’s so easy for them to get men it’s the same vice versa with men getting women ,even great men struggle to get women in this day and age
It's simple we just want to wake up to a Good Morning did we sleep well text not wake up with something that will upset her and ruin our whole day say something that will make her smile and don't make her jealous that will push her away and fight for her she loves don't pull away when she becomes distant men need to stop taking bad advice from their friend your friends don't want to see you happy
I feel bad for people like terry , he must have been a sensitive emotional guy once who got betrayed however the fact that he still is crying the same thing repeatedly shows he is weak and fickle minded in nature, its because he was weak earlier is the very reason why he got treated badly in the first place , he needs to understand that being nice and emotional is not always the issue but being weak is and now he is doing the same thing. This won't end for him unless he breaks free from the cycle of his own weakness and toxicity.
He’s speaking for the voiceless whos been abused by women who plays the victim the rate of narcissistic women are climbing hes only warning us and we’re thankful for that because everything he says is so true and relatable but being stabbed in the back by the love of your life is very damaging
You’re right to an extent but he’s talking facts 😅 it’s not easy with these relationships you do your best for someone and they betray you either way. Developing a strong sense of self is the only thing to do
