How To Know When God Doesn't Want You With Someone

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How To Know When God Doesn't Want You With Someone... In this dating advice video, I will share with you some Godly dating advice that will help you determine when God doesn’t want you with someone. Many people are finding themselves in relationships that God doesn’t want them to be in, but the hard part is understanding how to tell when God doesn’t want you in that relationship. Take heed to this Christian dating advice and be sure to watch the entire video.
Many of you lean on God when it comes to health, career, and other stuff but when it comes to dating and relationships you leave God out making you miss out on Godly dating experiences. I want you to embrace these Christian dating tips that I share in this video so that you can experience Christian dating and have healthy fulfilling relationships.
If you don’t understand how to connect with your spirit in a way that you are comfortable with hearing God’s voice it will be difficult to know when God doesn’t want you with someone. However, in this Christian dating advice, I will help you understand how to get in tune with God so that you can know what God wants you to do and when God doesn’t want you with them.
As a certified life coach, relationship coach, and dating coach, I want to make dating and relationships easier for you. I pray that you find this video helpful and that you will receive the man who is truly best for you.
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@MeetStephanSpeaks 2 года назад

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@georgeperez8171 2 года назад

I need advice and I was wondering if you have a way to direct message people

@georgeperez8171 2 года назад

I have so many questions and I truly feel that you can help answer them for me

@Gloria_All_Day 2 года назад

Thank you for an awesome message. Well said!

@rochellemcghee573 2 года назад

Have multiple questions for you

@dallasmosley4859 2 года назад

@nkemchorduru9243 2 года назад

I remember once praying to God. "Lord if he's not the one never let this relationship work out" God honored that prayer. The warnings came in so many forms. God is faithful!

@MeetStephanSpeaks 2 года назад

Thank you for sharing, I appreciate your feedback.

@DavidMatias79 2 года назад

Always a good prayer.

@charrasmith908 2 года назад

It was a guy that I met last year but now he's being persistent this year and I asked God to remove him if he is not the one for me and not allow him to still be in contact with me daily and he still been in contact with me and he even came by and saw me one day last week when he was in the area so would you think that God could be saying that he could be the one since he has not been removed because usually when I asked God to remove somebody that's not for me I would say by the next day or so something will happen to where they do something to upset me or they block me or I blocked them but that didn't happen he still calling and texting on a daily basis, but the irritating part is that we've been talkin as friends for a little over a year now and he still talking about relationships take time he is not trying to rush into a relationship he said that he has to see how things go what do you think but God hasn't removed him I want to be more than friends with him and I want to know that I'm not wasting my time what would you do in this situation?

@charrasmith908 2 года назад

I know I was married for about 11 years and our marriage was on the rocks on the brink of divorce my ex-husband was trying to divorce but I was trying to fight for it and I prayed hard even pleaded the marriage the blood of Jesus that our marriage is saved and he still divorced. And he is a Believer like I am but we were not getting along and it's like there was nothing I could do to make him change his mind I asked God to put it on his heart to change his mind and he still divorced anyway what do you think of this knowing that God is not for divorce and that he would rather us reconcile a marriage then get divorce that's why I was confused. What do you think about this situation? I really wanted my marriage to work. Divorces are very painful!

@Servant_of_TMH 2 года назад

Same here Sis!!! So very true!!!!

@liamsimpkins7043 Год назад

Lord if it’s meant for me, bless it, if it’s not, let it slip through my fingers and give me the peace to accept that

@kannnbabyyy2121 9 месяцев назад

🙌🏼 AMENNNNNNN 👏🏼👏🏼💯💯💯

@barbwireb7779 8 месяцев назад

Lord I want to make my own decision you only led me to abusers narcissists and I’m still si fle at 40 so please god stay out of my life !!!

@MindSetReset 6 месяцев назад

Amen 🙏🏾 🙏🏾 🙏🏾

@mariahmejia1679 3 месяца назад

In Jesus mighty name Amen❤

@christiangracedelacruz5311 3 месяца назад

Amen

@evatejeda5042 2 года назад

Last week I asked God “if it isn’t in your will, please end it for me.” I was too afraid to ask that question my entire relationship. I asked God for discernment, but I turned my eyes away. But that night, my relationship ended. He ended it. And I’m still processing it and trusting God through the pain

@melianameliana186 2 года назад

Always pray that God will reveal your partner's true colour. You'll be very surprised at what happened next. I have men confessing to me that they double-timed me after praying this

@andylauren373 2 года назад

@@shellbelll760 omg what happened

@shedagirl1726 2 года назад

Same here!! God knows best and he never leads me wrong. Trusting God!

@Pipsterz Год назад

HE is faithful & true. Always. Never changing. He's the same yesterday, today, and forever. ❤️👍👍 I prayed asking him to close every door he wanted closed and poof... gonezo! It hurt bad but better short-term pain than lifelong agony and heartache.

@SKINxChina Год назад

That’s a scary prayer to say and I know how done you must have been to ask for that. Been there for sure, ended for me too! We gotta learn to trust God more! ❤

@meviews8216 2 года назад

When I was with the wrong person, I just constantly felt like I had this massive hole in my heart that only God could fill

@MeetStephanSpeaks 2 года назад

It definitely isn't an easy situation, but the focus should be on doing what is truly best 🙏

@abigailmwaba790 Год назад

That's me right now. Married for 14yrs and I feel so horrible

@MrDavidgiar 7 месяцев назад

@@abigailmwaba790 remember divorce is a sin unless your significant other was using you or a criminal, , that was manipulating and abusing you or even rape, you or others. was just a nasty person who took advantage of you financially, and physically and mentally.

@MrDavidgiar 7 месяцев назад

@@abigailmwaba790 he’s talking about before you get married, but then most relationships would not work out because you’re never having sex with each other until you both are one committed and married. Now and days based on what women are wearing and what we’re used to modern hook up culture or having sex in relationships it seems almost impossible and very few respect that..

@estherbeautiful 16 дней назад

@@abigailmwaba790Neglect IS abuse.

@sashamarieMFT 2 года назад

"God is not going to allow you to be in a relationship where he's going to be second" This is why I stay on my face before God about my next partner. I cannot afford anything less.

@angiebabe8351 2 года назад

Wow never saw it that way!

@crazzzeeej 2 года назад

Beautifully said, Miss Sasha!!

@MzNina 2 года назад

ME TOO!!!!!

@michanneldrunkbitch 2 года назад

That’s my exact plans

@lahlahluv8380 2 года назад

Amen 🙏🏽

@riahs.7578 2 года назад

I finally broke things off w/ my “situationship” that was keeping me stuck. Yes, it hurts for now. But it won’t hurt for the rest of my life bc I’m pursuing healing.

@amandathemystic1828 2 года назад

🙌👑💕

@cheelight 2 года назад

@Riah S. Same here..I did a week ago and I felt like I could finally breath, he constantly tore me down with words. I'm 27 and choosing to heal and be a better woman. And I trust God to perfect all that concerns my 'romantic relationship'. Cheers!

@riahs.7578 2 года назад

@@cheelight I felt this! Be blessed on your journey.

@Angelicateamjesus 2 года назад

I was there as well. It gets so much better when heard and lean onto God more.

@truarnett5519 2 года назад

Way to go, Sister! Father, please heal and protect her heart. 🙏💙🙏

@3DSuccess 2 года назад

The heart can be deceptive, who can trust it. Jeremiah 17:9 Our emotions can sometimes outweigh our logic.

@MeetStephanSpeaks 2 года назад

Thank you for sharing, I appreciate your feedback ❤

@butterification 2 года назад

Amen 🙏

@vh7223 2 года назад

So true. All the more to lean on God.

@Heyu7her3 Год назад

In ancient times, they thought the heart did the thinking and sensing. So this verse might actually mean that the mind deceives. Because of these differences, we must analyze scripture based on the knowledge or cultural context.

@3DSuccess Год назад

@@MeetStephanSpeaks You're Welcome. Thank you for such a great platform

@ariellechanel1 10 месяцев назад

Anytime God removed me from a relationship he always revealed why. It’s always the hardest in the beginning trying to understand why and even why you even met this person to begin with but trust me there’s always a reason it didn’t work out . God is protecting you and he loves you. Rejection is protection!! Sending well wishing to all hurting at this very moment including myself 🙏🏽❤️❤️❤️

@mindstein2823 9 месяцев назад

im hurt and she actually broke up with after 3.5 years of relationship my first time being broken up with O_o i really feel like she was fucking this ugly dude which i thought was my friend but the vibe was off plenty of times i just wishfully igbore ore repressed the signs

@janachavez5396 8 месяцев назад

Thank you for your comment! I am going through that right now... I thought I met a special guy, then I call him out about not calling or texting me back... Then he deletes me on Instagram and blocks my number with no reply. It really hurts, but I am glad to know sooner than later. I know God was giving me discernment in the form of feeling sick to my stomach and anxiety about the guy, but I blamed it on other circumstances because I didn't want to see the truth.

@brittanysands3012 2 месяца назад

Thank you for this 😊❤

@ariellechanel1 2 месяца назад

@@janachavez5396 I went through the same exact thing! It’s an awful feeling to feel abandoned and rejected, but know that God is there and showing you how you should be treated and what you need to work on in the process. Do your Christian duty and pray for this person as they have obvious emotional abandonment issues their-self and need healing. I hope you’re OK!!

@ariellechanel1 2 месяца назад

@@brittanysands3012 you’re welcome love!!

@caraainsley78 2 года назад

When I was getting married both my mother and grandmother were against it. They did not come to the wedding. My mom said we were unequally yoked. They were right. 23 years later I am divorced from a man who lied and cheated repeatedly during the marriage. In the end he became toxic. Your relatives know you better than you know yourself.

@MeetStephanSpeaks 2 года назад

I'm sorry to hear about that and I pray that you heal from all that you have been through 🙏

@nadialasster3149 2 года назад

I'm learning this too after almost 2 years of marriage. My family didnt support or talk to me after I eloped.

@lindagithaiga1974 2 года назад

But we all make mistakes-even the best of us.Shouldn't family love you and pray for you as you go through the fall 🤔🤔

@Caisee 2 года назад

I experienced the same thing. His family wasn’t involved in the wedding and my family wasn’t involved in the wedding. I didn’t feel right. He became abusive, was a cheater, and a liar for 17 years. I am divorced from him now. He always had a issue with me going to church.

@premesupreme713 2 года назад

💪🏽💖💪🏽

@Shine.Briight.Blessed.Faith.33 2 года назад

Sometimes We Gotta Lose People/Possessions In Order to Gain Relationship with Father God.. & He💕 Love Us More Then We Know how to Love Ourselves...

@MeetStephanSpeaks 2 года назад

You're absolutely right thank you for sharing!

@sandyhagans556 2 года назад

True

@kameaokalanikalota-uzia5985 2 года назад

Nuns and monks do this; they take a vow of "poverty".

@islandangelgypsy 2 года назад

Beautifully said ❤️

@kadianbrown4007 2 года назад

Amen so true

@meviews8216 2 года назад

The closest you can ever get to another person is in your mutual love for God.

@MeetStephanSpeaks 2 года назад

Thank you for sharing, I appreciate that ❤️

@Weareloved3 Год назад

Yes!!!🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾

@jadeacampbell5206 Год назад

Amen

@hawlatoub8803 Год назад

Before my 22 birthday I prayed to god if he’s not my man make it stop and he ghosted me on my birthday he didn’t call he didn’t text he didn’t do nothing that’s how I know that God answered my prayers and now I’m happily in a new relationship being treated like a queen and being respected and he make me closer to God and I can only say thank you God❤

@MeetStephanSpeaks Год назад

Thank you for sharing your experience! Hopefully, it will help others learn from it. I appreciate that 🙏

@christinadavis3084 Год назад

Sounds so Similar to mines , except ALL he did was call on my birthday but didn’t do anything , get me anything and his response after I told him I was done with him was “ I took too many losses and been hurt and I’m scared of commitment BUT God told him I was his wife .. I’m like BOY get on ✌🏼 So glad God hears His daughters

@kristenellis9657 2 года назад

God please help me get through this. I am tired of being weak minded....continuing to chase after someone toxic because I fear of being alone & crave the attention.

@Bmitchell10 2 года назад

Your not alone. Concentrate on you what you gotta fix in your life and what makes you happy. Keep God 1st and you'll attract the man God's has for you! Get Stephans books all of them and also read the word of God it gave me clarity. Know its not you its these toxic dudes I'm praying for you Queen🙏🏾

@shellyspiropulos9456 2 года назад

I feel the same way I get so mad at myself ☹️❤️

@godsgirl1860 2 года назад

🙏🏾❤... bless you sis. God please hear our cry!

@lennyladd3253 2 года назад

I'm so angry of my self, I chace just to get breadcrumb's, hope we heal from this BS.😥

@lynzypooh80 2 года назад

Praying for your strength in that area.

@YaYa-ke1zr 2 года назад

Beware of partners who pretend to align with your Christian beliefs... If they are saying all the right things, going to church (but an hour later, can’t discuss the scripture from the sermon, lol) with you, etc but NONE of their actions line up or their actions pull you away from God, then pay attention.

@MeetStephanSpeaks 2 года назад

Thank you for sharing, I appreciate your feedback.

@tometta43 2 года назад

Ha ha yep facts. And to add to that. I’ve met some people who know the Bible backwards and forward. The problem is they didn’t have the Holy Spirit, so they had no personal relationship with god at all. Matter of fact, they were the spawn of satan because they knew better but they use their knowledge of the bible to persuade Christian based women they wanted . Be cautious out here y’all lol

@swtladysoul7339 2 года назад

So true💯

@chaseback5102 2 года назад

That’s right… Bible says to know them by their fruits.. They say they are an apple tree like you but they are a bush that grows poisonous berries…. 😳

@godsgirl7201 2 года назад

True

@god563616 2 года назад

There was a man that God had me pray for. He showed me his heart and I started developing GENUINE feelings for him and I intercede for people all the time and this has NEVER happened. I found out by praying to God he felt the same and I started getting excited thinking he was the person for me and I have never felt this feeling before for anyone,but God gave a Word to my sister ( who had no knowledge of any of this going on) and it was to tell me yes both of you guys feel the same way about each other but no he is not the one. I felt so devastated and disappointed with God considering he had me pray for him and confirmed he liked me as well and feelings matched but God said no. I went to my closet and told God my disappointment and sadness and why was he torturing me like this. God says point blank HE (THE GUY) NEEDS ME NOT YOU. He needs to build his own relationship with me. I was speechless. I still don't know if its a NO or Not now. As this was recent I still feel sadness but I am trying my best to give it too the Lord because he's never steered me wrong.

@MeetStephanSpeaks 2 года назад

❤ 🙂 Thank you for sharing. My video He's the RIGHT GUY but it's the WRONG TIME will help tog give you more clarity you can check it out here 👉 ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-LabQf9WYfb0.html 👈

@god563616 2 года назад

@@MeetStephanSpeaks thank you man of God. I appreciate it!

@toyablue82 2 года назад

I'm going through a similar situation. I met an amazing man but he has a lot of complications. I believe we met for me to guide him to God and strengthen my connection with God in the process. We've done devotionals together and Bible plans for over a year but I know I was distracted by my own doing. He encourages and supports whatever I do so I know it was me. The Right Man Wrong Time is so relevant, great video! We benefit each other's lives, we're very connected but we both have a lot of inner work to do before we can truly be together if that's God's plan.

@alexanderolkhovskiy8272 2 года назад

@@toyablue82 I have a similar situation, I really believe it’s Gods providence but this young woman I am talking to isn’t born again. The thing is she doesn’t find anything wrong or shameful etc about my views. What do you reckon are chances that she becomes one with the Lord and we would marry? How’s your situation going sister?

@godsgirl7201 2 года назад

From my experience you'll hear a audible voice from god I had god tell me if we keep having sex my partner isn't going to believe that I'm a real Christian but he only spoke one time that was a year ago but I've never heard that voice for a relationship it was clear and loud as day... Signs can be misleading they can be from the devil but gods voice is God's voice ❤️

@TebogoMagagane-dd5oj 3 месяца назад

Remember one afternoon I just asked God to remove anyone not for me...2 weeks later she decided to leave me...blessed be His mighty name.❤

@Preachman82 Месяц назад

Did you guys merry?

@NiaBalcer 2 года назад

Oh wow. I used to pray to God to remove the person from my life. I mean over time He did but if I used my discernment, I could’ve left before getting hurt

@MeetStephanSpeaks 2 года назад

I pray that you heal from all that you have been through 🙏

@NiaBalcer 2 года назад

@@MeetStephanSpeaks thank you 💗 very insightful video thus far. Thanks for sharing

@CharlenePBlair 2 года назад

Right Nia. Wrong situations end a lot faster too using our discernment. Congratulations on your revelation.

@srishti6274 2 года назад

Same Sis. Yesterday only he walked away..

@JBLAQ 2 года назад

I prayed for my eyes to be opened because I could feel something wrong in my spirit but I couldn’t put my finger on it because everything was going well, but soon enough, I caught them in a lie, then another one, then another one then I realized he was not who he portrayed himself to be…hard part was obeying the instruction to walk away when God opened my eyes. If I had obeyed right away, I could have saved myself so much pain! But thank God for rescuing me.

@karijaye52 2 года назад

I once went down that rabbit hole but thank God I jumped ship, sailed solo for while and after realizing my true blessings... 3yrs later I fell into the arms of my Boaz, a man who prays with me 🙌🏼❤💪🏼 #WhoelsebutGod☝🏼

@MeetStephanSpeaks 2 года назад

Glad to hear that, thank you for your response!

@nimcoBeauty2346 2 года назад

@@MeetStephanSpeaks You are great believer! May Allah(God) lead us to the right path. Ameen. Great video. Thank you.

@mo0729. 2 года назад

3 years? How old are you?

@dorthannrobinson3034 2 года назад

That’s a blessing I am so happy for you

@Dulce13928 2 года назад

God, the Lord of lord's. Bless me too like Kari😢

@richricogranada9647 Год назад

The pain of a break up makes us wiser and stronger.

@SewwandiWaduthanthri 2 месяца назад

100% true❤

@MichaelMyers-tg9uh 23 дня назад

CORRECT , also makes u not trust people no mo😂

@already8use Год назад

Tbh that prayer”remove him if he s not for me” worked every single time. Even though I wished it didn’t - so quickly it got me scared and sad

@tonid773 2 года назад

It really is quite simple. If someone is not supporting your positive goals, not respectful, don't care about your relationship with God in the first place, just overall you don't feel happy with them or around them, then that's all the signs you need. Sometimes people look for this big revaluation because they trying to hand on themselves hoping the other person will change. Just leave be patient, work on yourself and be happy.

@jayc5756 2 года назад

EXACTLY!!!

@musicmaker1311 2 года назад

🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾👌🏾

@tahaishawilliams2171 2 года назад

Amen

@kadianbrown4007 2 года назад

This sounds exactly like me so true very well spoken 👏

@angel888Abundance 2 года назад

Agreed

@lesego5718 2 года назад

Yes. I love the last part. When you pray and ask God for something, you will hear it in your spirit and even if you're confused and not sure if it's the right decision, you'll always feel at ease and the peace of God will be with you.

@MeetStephanSpeaks 2 года назад

Thank you for sharing, I appreciate that!

@TheShellybaybee 2 года назад

Yes I prayed that my now ex tell me exactly how he feels and the next day we talked and he told me. He didn’t want to settle down anymore and he wants to be friends .I’m cutting him off now and it’s painful after 2yrs but it’s crazy how soon as I prayed I got my answer

@Mind-H-Walk 2 года назад

That last part is true, the ease, burden you’ve been carrying lifted.

@cookingwithlove5132 2 года назад

Yes I prayed if I should stayed with my ex husband and the very next day I found a email he sent to a friend a male talking so much crap about me and I mean it was so nasty and hurtful. That was my sign and I took and never looked back. He came back and tried apologizing. I accepted and told him to never hit me up again we have no kids or anything so I’m so glad I listened to god

@thesocaltrojan 2 года назад

God shows us all the signs but it is up to us to listen… never ignore your intuition. That is divine intervention!

@marqueedahudson1815 2 года назад

"THE SPIRIT KNOWS THE TRUTH! WE JUST HAVE TO KNOW HOW TO EMBRACE IT!!!" AMEN!!!🙏💙😇

@lamonicahayes8766 11 месяцев назад

Amen🙏🏽

@youcme1972 2 года назад

NOBODY is above GOD...Hallelujah

@lahlahluv8380 2 года назад

Amen 🙏🏽

@kimberlyoliphant7137 2 года назад

God kept telling me "You gotta release to increase!" SO I DID!

@MeetStephanSpeaks 2 года назад

Thank you for sharing, I appreciate your feedback.

@alexisthib98 2 года назад

Before watching this I even asked God “why is he still in my life after years of praying that You would take him away from me if it’s not meant”, but the real problem is that I’ve been ignoring what God constantly puts in my spirit. Thank you for this video, it opened my eyes to what’s been in front of me for years.

@Aquablu39 2 года назад

I didn't understand why God wasn't answering my prayers until he gave me strength to walk away. Then it all finally made sense.

@MeetStephanSpeaks 2 года назад

Thank you for your feedback I appreciate hearing from you ❤

@AshleyCherv. 2 года назад

I relate to this 💯

@joeweider4896 2 года назад

I was very much in love with a girl 25 years ago and I saw some signs that I had to ask God to remove her if she was not ment to be with me. And God removed her. It was very painfull but he removed her. 25 years later I see why he did it. Time justified God's act. Thanks for it!!

@MeetStephanSpeaks 2 года назад

Thank you for sharing, I appreciate your feedback!

@dramacydal1776 2 года назад

why did God remove her?

@joeweider4896 2 года назад

@@dramacydal1776 because we weren t ment for each others and God didn t want to let me distroy my life with a toxic relation.

@MA-yc7pz 2 года назад

Signs God has told me they ain't it: 1-He was extremely jealous:Check my phone when I was at the bathroom. 2-He didn't want me to go the gym cuz there were men there. 3-He didn't want me spend time with my friends just with him he used create a crisis over it. 4-He used to get annoyed by me being christian 5-His mother hated christians 6-He only compliment my external looks nothing in the inside 7-He never pay attention to what I say 8-He used tell his mom about our arguments (Never mentioned the whole story we were both 30) 9-He never communicated 10-He didn't like me to wear skirts at work 🙄 11-He said at the beginning he was the one for me and after 3 years of relationship told me it was too soon to think about marriage (Again we were both 30 years old) 12-He turned his own mother against me cuz he wanted me to submit to him 13-He Made fun of me one time I was crying 14-He basically asked me to leave the dream of my life in order to be with me but with no warranty of a marriage in the future 15-He told me he was scared to stop seeing his parents if ever he get married and asked me to visit them every day if we get married.(a 30 year old man) 17-He used to complain about his job but never wanted to look for another one 18-He didn't wanna grow in general only be with his parents (spiritually, emotionally) 19-He was judgemental 20-He asked but never offered anything 21-He never made any efforts 22-His mother blocked me from what's app when we broke up .... 23-He gave to his only friend which a common friend a different version of the events of why we broke up and said he is more at peace now 🙄. 24-He was a hardcore mama's boy who didn't want to grow up neither commint (31 year old man). I lost 3 years of my life I hope if you see these in early stages take notes

@MeetStephanSpeaks 2 года назад

I'm sorry to hear about that and I pray that you heal from all that you have been through 🙏

@ladyrose7015 2 года назад

mines was the same way like this. all of the signs.

@LovelyLife35 2 года назад

Wow, beautiful... some of this behavior sounds narcissistic. I just got out of a relationship with a Narcissist and it was highly toxic. He embellished some of the things you've outlined and many MORE. So grateful you found the strength to recognize it and move on. Thank GOD!

@MA-yc7pz 2 года назад

@@LovelyLife35 Amen to that sister it was hard God didn't want me there I prayed for strength to leave ...the guy didn't even care I broke 6 months ago haven't heard from him ever since and all the doors started to open when I left

@deedeelove7213 2 года назад

Sounds like someone I meet recently, long gone now.

@MzLena2You 2 года назад

“When he gives you the answer within your spirit”.. 🙌🏾 I had the opposite situation, I felt unsettled about someone and had to pray that I wasn’t being petty or just looking for something to end things. I won’t bash him, but our energies weren’t parallel. These videos are great and help provide insight on dating and how to best approach dating. I have to watch them with a notebook in hand. Toxicity comes in many forms, it doesn’t always have to be abusive or self destructive. A a person’s mindset and POV can pose red flags 🚩. As the saying goes “when a person shows you who they are, believe them”.

@LittleMissSunshine721 2 года назад

Literally feeling this right now. “Our energies weren’t parallel.” This…😮‍💨

@alexisw6214 Год назад

Yes Lena!! I literally just went through this exact situation. Toxic relationships can be mindsets that don’t sync and POV’s. He was/is a man of God so I figured that we are just different people and brushed it off. However, there is no way that we could grow because of it. His way of thinking and emotional disconnect was actually detrimental.

@jenniferransomart Год назад

Thank you Lena for your insight! I'm currently in a relationship where I have broke up with him about 5 times now but he keeps coming back and I allow it. I keep praying about it (in various ways). I feel peace after I break up, and I just don't feel that we are to be together, if course he doesn't agree with me. He IS a Christian man but everything we do does not honor God either. I definitely feel like my purpose (art and writing) has been pushed to the side since we've been together (about 4 months). I'm wondering, how did you break up and stick to it. 🤔

@MzLena2You Год назад

@@jenniferransomart Honestly, I took the easy way out and I just ghosted him. Fortunately we have a little bit of distance between us so it was a little more easy to do so. Ultimately I did have to block him because he sent a toxic text message which actually reconfirmed my thoughts on him. But, when I part ways, I pretty much stick to it just by not entertaining or responding to messages or phone calls. Ridding them on ALL social media. Pretty much using an out of sight out of mind method.

@jenniferransomart Год назад

@@MzLena2You, thank you, I have blocked him before on my phone but he doesn't have social media and he lives 15 minutes away. He comes to my house after a few days and give in. 🤦‍♀️

@tiqueen2047 2 года назад

My husband and I, I believe rushed into things. I was ready for growth, getting closer to god, and wanting to set up a foundation. I’ve spent years being rapped up and forgot what was my purpose always have to pull him out of situations. We tried to give this marriage a second chance too soon but I never got a chance to heal. So I couldn’t be happy anymore because I never felt secured (safe) with him. I’m going to heal this time in peace with God.

@jmar385 2 года назад

Your blessings start drying up & they send the wrong energy towards your mental health. Jonah disobeyed God & it affected the people on the ship & made them furious. They even knew someone disobeyed God, so they threw Jonah off the boat, so don’t ignore the signs. Just like COVID-19! You get around people who are infected. Mostly likely you’ll get infected. You don’t need anyone to drill holes in your lifeboat. Love should be demonstrated like the love of Christ daily. Never let someone abuse your forgiveness & take advantage because of what you stand for. Respect is a requirement. Peace of mind is a must! Elevation required separation!

@MeetStephanSpeaks 2 года назад

Thank you for sharing. I appreciate that!

@lisae3357 2 года назад

🙌🏽🙌🏽

@aura5944 2 года назад

Thank you for your wisdom.

@ramonacooper5407 2 года назад

So true I bought my home had money had him and my brook start drying up!!

@hotrodsmith270 2 года назад

You DAMN RIGHT BRO!!!! Respect is a must.

@teresacody5188 2 года назад

By their fruit you will know them, good trees bear good fruit!

@MeetStephanSpeaks 2 года назад

Thank you for sharing, I appreciate your feedback.

@jamiejackson1780 2 года назад

I LOOOVE THAT HE ACKNOWLEDGED HOMEMAKERS!!! 🙌🏾 😭 society devalues ALL the work, love, purpose and training “child-rearing” & more that goes into taking care of the Home and pouring into the children ie:raising them to be healthy WHOLE adults.

@lynnmuthoni2786 2 года назад

This video was released a day after i ran away from my ex's house. I was bleeding, had just lost my baby, mentally breaking down and just ready to give up on life. I am better now and I also see now that I WAS NOT IMAGINING THINGS... Something was waaaaaaay off. I cannot thank God enough for leaving. Thank you Stephan especially for confirming what God whispered to me the night before i ran. God bless your ministry.

@findingdori6219 2 года назад

I have been exactly where you are. My heart and prayers to you. God has us 💜

@1bbybl.u 2 года назад

Sending you many prayers, hope the situation has turned for u! InShallah

@lynnmuthoni2786 2 года назад

@@findingdori6219 Thanks so much. How are you now? I am much better and you were right. God really has us. I even forgave and pitied him... Now in a much better place and in healthy relationships. God truly is a healer. This is my story and song.

@lynnmuthoni2786 2 года назад

@@1bbybl.u Thanks so much and yes... the situation has turned. I never knew I would say this ever but I healed and got happy. With my lessons and God, I am in healthy relationships. I am happy and rested.

@findingdori6219 2 года назад

@@lynnmuthoni2786 sorry about my typos, I’m so happy to hear you are better 💜 I’m good. I’m focusing on God, work, volunteering for now. God will open the door to the person I’m supposed to be with 💛

@kineamcallister8894 2 года назад

💯 I ignored the signs…until one day I didn’t. Thank you for this.

@MeetStephanSpeaks 2 года назад

My pleasure ❤

@tahaishawilliams2171 2 года назад

I did to

@veliciaprice5063 2 года назад

That was me I can’t deny. Better believe this last time around he bailed me out the toxicity I stayed out. A hard head makes a soft behind I’m over being hard headed💙

@MeetStephanSpeaks 2 года назад

I'm happy this has been helpful to you and I pray that you heal all you have been through 🙏

@veliciaprice5063 2 года назад

@@MeetStephanSpeaks your forever welcome 🙏🏾

@shalondamornes6243 2 года назад

Amen.

@blondiequeen55 2 года назад

Yes I’m in one now I’m trying to get out of 😞

@awadoll222 2 года назад

My therapist told me “love and a relationship are 2 different things”.. it’s a simple phrase. But when you really think about it it hits hard.

@MeetStephanSpeaks 2 года назад

Thank you for sharing, I appreciate your feedback.

@dukekamau7772 2 года назад

Exactly what I needed to hear, thank you so much. May God give everyone who needs to break off a relationship the grace and willpower to do it.

@MeetStephanSpeaks 2 года назад

I'm happy this has been helpful to you don't forget to share so that others can receive love and healing!

@ohemaadeyemi5233 2 года назад

Amen amen ameeennnnn

@deianelliott5006 2 года назад

Finally found the willpower to say no more.Thank you Jesus.

@peep4674 2 года назад

Amen

@migdalialmt Год назад

Lord help me

@athenamartin712 2 года назад

We have to look at the signs and receive and act in them ... remember love is patient it is kind... love does not harm and does not detour our walk and purpose instead it encourages and cultivates 💕💕

@MeetStephanSpeaks 2 года назад

Thank you for sharing, I appreciate your feedback.

@prayalways 2 года назад

He brought me closer to GOD and open my eyes that he is NOT for me. I thank God for the experience and the breakthrough.

@MeetStephanSpeaks 2 года назад

Thank you for sharing, I appreciate that!

@amp1984 2 года назад

Andi D. What exaxtly do u mean? Im interested in ur story if u dont mind sharing ❤

@traceylum7809 9 месяцев назад

I went to a Christian school but lost my faith 30 years ago. You popped up, so I listened and you've touched something in my belief! This resonated, thank you 🙏

@thechroniclesofblove3189 2 года назад

I remember being in a relationship that had many happy moments. But something with in me, so strongly didn’t allow me to be in the moment to embrace the happiness. I felt this immense feeling of sadness and “hes not the one”. Logically he was perfect, but deep with in holy spiritual was convicting me in such a way that I wasn’t able to be at peace with him even in good times smh. 😩 oh glory be to God. I needed this video today. Thank you 🙏🏾

@krissyhall2838 2 года назад

Same here that’s exactly how I’m feeling Literally all boxes are checked but I have a uneasy feeling any time I talk to him.I might just have to walk away.

@Claudia-yc8xk 2 года назад

I've been through the exact thing, he was a lovely guy and would treat me so well but I never ever felt at peace in his presence. I would feel overly irritated and very snappy whenever I was with him I just couldn't shake it off. I believe this was a warning sign. I recently broke up with him and it's been so so rough. I pray for God to help me to move on cause I just can't.

@mayacokie4811 Год назад

Did u ever find out what the warnings were about. Are u at peace bow?

@ignazs.5816 Год назад

I felt the same way. I wanted him to be my dream man but I could not feel at ease in his presence. I started to feel afraid being around him after an anger outburst. I wanted it to work but it just didn't. I mourn the loss of the relationship. I cry every day but I know one day I will wake up and realize it was for the best. It's very tragic, but time will heal the pain.

@OCTAVIAakaQueenO 11 месяцев назад

This is what I'm feeling in this exact moment!

@ooowatshername2946 2 года назад

I can’t thank god enough for the toxic situations he took me out of!!! and thank you for these lessons they always on time 🙌🏾🙌🏾

@MeetStephanSpeaks 2 года назад

Glad to hear that, thank you for your response!

@lc5255 2 года назад

Amen..God did the same for..it almost cost me my life.

@musicmaker1311 2 года назад

🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾

@thezanarose 2 года назад

Why does He give us the toxic situation in the first place then remove it? Why do we need toxic people?

@thezanarose 2 года назад

I went to god for a husband and it happened. I agree, if you’re a believer it’s important that your partner needs to have some of the same philosophy or respect for your beliefs.

@teaminnerpeace6279 2 года назад

This was real and so true because in the long run if we don't listen to God we are hurting ourselves and stopping the blessings from God. Everyone be blessed and wait on God that person is coming. Thank you Stephan blessings

@MeetStephanSpeaks 2 года назад

Thank you for sharing, I appreciate that!

@janjISMYname 2 года назад

True. I paid a heavy price (in the past), for my hard head. I wanted what I wanted. It wasn't what God wanted for me.

@teaminnerpeace6279 2 года назад

@@janjISMYname That's why God is a forgiving God. Have a bless day sis and keep your head up your a Queen of the most high God

@lahlahluv8380 2 года назад

That’s why we gotta be patient and wait on GOD because if we don’t we could be blocking our blessings 🙏🏽

@bertaalvarez8134 2 года назад

For now I am just seeking God now.

@billienicoletull2692 2 года назад

Currently dealing with a hard breakup. There were so many red flags in the beginning, including his aversion towards God and religion. He broke up with me a few days ago and I am beyond hurt, but I have a sense of relief because now I can serve God without judgement …

@MeetStephanSpeaks 2 года назад

I'm sorry to hear about that and I pray that you heal from all that you have been through 🙏

@ChocQT26 2 года назад

This is a GOOD word, my goodness. We have to get away from the "remove them from my life if they aren't for me." Because these folks will STAY as long as you allow them.

@kerennongho 2 года назад

One partner growing faster than the other they suddenly don't speak same language when the other partner refuses to intentionally grow..it's a huge problem there

@MeetStephanSpeaks 2 года назад

Yes, it definitely isn't an easy situation!

@topaz44niki53 2 года назад

God just literally drag me out of a situation like this I was growing faster and my partner not moving and God step in and take me out of it . But as a human the pains are there but God is helping me

@oliviachavez7011 2 года назад

Currently in this situation not that i dont care im just tired of trying to talk to someone & it go in one ear & out the other so God made me come to him so now he's my focus which should of been in the 1st place but had to see it the hard way but im glad now im growing closer to GOD to help me through this marriage all i can do is pray & talk to him he will hear me & guide me🙏🙏🙏🙏

@topaz44niki53 2 года назад

@@oliviachavez7011 so true yes he will

@wandataylor3227 2 года назад

God's plan will ALWAYS go forward no matter what... Isaiah 55: 8 KJV For my thoughts are not your thoughts, neither are your ways my ways, saith the LORD. God is in control of everything.

@MeetStephanSpeaks 2 года назад

Thank you for sharing, I appreciate your feedback.

@wandataylor3227 2 года назад

@@MeetStephanSpeaks you are welcome brother.

@tjsproles4992 2 года назад

My experience has been that if we both had to do too much "thinking" about being in a relationship with each other, it's probably not a compatible relationship...even if the chemistry is off the chain! 😍 The song, "Neither One if Us Wants to be the First to Say Goodbye", captures the essence of our experience together at this time. 😥👋

@adamsheldon4507 Год назад

The thought of 2 people having to do to much thinking regarding a relationship hits hard…had to search for said song and it’s a beautiful song 😊 happy I read your comment tonight 🙏🏻

@dianakurland2500 Год назад

I’m an older female who just started dating again. He’s my age and after a very short time things have gone sour. This video of yours soothed my heart to understand that it’s just not meant to be.

@sharonhaynes7898 2 года назад

Nothing should separate you from God’s love. If a relationship is meant for you then God will orchestrate everything for that relationship to happen. Be patient. Patience will protect you from deception. God is in control. It’s our heavenly father’s will to give us the very best. Let God lead and guide. Don’t lean on your own understanding. Blessings.

@goodrayoflight9135 2 года назад

I love this response. My question is how to fall into deception when your impatient.

@BellaFront9 2 года назад

Amen 🌈❤️

@godsgirl7201 2 года назад

True

@godsgirl7201 2 года назад

@paniq_fnite 2 года назад

Truth. Must be willing to walk away from ANYONE who takes us away from God and our purpose.

@MeetStephanSpeaks 2 года назад

Absolutely!

@premie33 2 года назад

One of my favorite prayers, “I give everything and everyone to you God.”

@spiritualari 2 года назад

Wow that same thing happened to me but with domestic violence 😩. I’m glad I’m seeing my dignity and value as a woman 🛐

@MeetStephanSpeaks 2 года назад

I pray that you heal from all that you have been through 🙏

@mwhite805 2 года назад

Trust in the Lord with All your heart and lean not to your own understanding, because God will show you , when you trust Him, Very good advice Mr. Stephan

@MeetStephanSpeaks 2 года назад

❤ 🙂 Thank you for watching, I appreciate your feedback!

@charlottetheartist327 2 года назад

This made me almost cry. This was what I needed to focus on and focus my self and pour my energy into....this. point thanks for sharing both. Hugs. Peace. Self perfection and acception.

@Courie11e 2 года назад

This helps. I'm single for a purpose and God doesn't want me to get distracted for the plans that He has for me. Plus I am working on healing and being whole again. Prayerfully He can match me with the man that can support me

@MeetStephanSpeaks 2 года назад

Thank you for sharing and I pray you’re able to keep moving in faith 🙏❤️

@avafrett8455 2 года назад

You’ve said it, sister! I couldn’t have said it better myself. God made a way out of the toxic relationship and I took it. I am now cultivating my relationship with God and growing! Thank God…I’m at peace and much happier! 😊❤️ #ButGod

@Angelicateamjesus 2 года назад

Amen!!!!!!!!

@lorealdrayton6164 2 года назад

#14 is a hard hitter...

@stacywilson1275 2 года назад

@NH-oh7me 2 года назад

I've prayed too many times " God change his heart or take him out of mine. " I hear now that I've already known and need to be responsible and respectful of my own heart and give it fully to the One who truly loves me...God!!!

@MeetStephanSpeaks 2 года назад

Thank you for your feedback, I appreciate hearing from you ❤️

@finegal.fineartist1894 Год назад

I am having a hard time recovering from a 9 year relationship. He left me because his love for me is going away and does not see a future with me. Many things to consider. We were both supportive of each other, very understanding, etc. I became complacent during the 9 years, compromising what works best for the both of us. The moment my faith became too close to God, that's when he left me. I know God has prepared a much better man for me. I am claiming my breakthrough in life. I don't know God's reasons, I even got disappointed with Him for a time for removing this guy from me, but I will claim His promise. Please pray for me as I badly need strength and courage to move on.

@Elle_Asu 10 месяцев назад

I join my faith with you sis🙏🙏God never fails,he knows what’s best for us,and he’ll heal you,just don’t stop believing

@ms.fabulous2555 2 года назад

SUPER deep! Just had a breakup a few days ago because our values did not align. I think ACCEPTANCE of a breakup helps the recovery process. I had to let him go!

@MeetStephanSpeaks 2 года назад

I feel you, it's not an easy situation but you need to focus on doing what is truly best!

@ms.fabulous2555 2 года назад

@@MeetStephanSpeaks I totally agree! I’m on a personal journey that requires growth in every sector of my life. It was the relationships that taught me a lot about myself. I have no regrets because I learned so much. Thanks for your wise words! You are a gifted man that’s serving his purpose.

@vashtikelly6837 2 года назад

WHEN GOD DOSENT WANT YOU WITH SOMEONE THAT PERSON HATES YOU FOR LISTENING TO STEPHAN......THATS A TALE TELL SIGN FROM GOD.....

@vashtikelly6837 2 года назад

@@MeetStephanSpeaks STEPH THANK YOU....YOU KNOW I'M HERE FOR YA....

@truarnett5519 2 года назад

🤣🤣🤣 That is a good one!

@kimc5390 2 года назад

Very true!

@mikomelandro 2 года назад

😁😁😁✨❤️👍👍

@tanyaholt7451 2 года назад

Ain’t no man stopping me from serving the Lord

@turner2952 2 года назад

Amen. In the Book of James, God tells us that we have not, because we ask not. But when we do ask, we ask amiss, that we may spend it on our pleasures. We all need to check our motives when we ask God for things. We should seek His will for our lives, first and foremost. Ask God to create in us a pure and clean heart. If it is from God, everything will fall into place and there will be peace. We won't have to struggle and experience frustration from trying to make something happen in situations. Thank you, Stephan, for your awesome wisdom and timely advice. God bless you!

@MeetStephanSpeaks 2 года назад

Thank you very much and may God bless you as well 🙏

@imeldalouis1884 Год назад

❤❤❤

@nieyshabrown9578 2 года назад

God’s timing is key! Our way, we pay; His will, His bill❣️ 🙏🏼

@MeetStephanSpeaks 2 года назад

Thank you for sharing, I appreciate your feedback!

@nieyshabrown9578 2 года назад

@@MeetStephanSpeaks Keep doing what you’re doing! You’re definitely a blessing to God’s people! Continued blessings and favor to you! 🙏🏼

@MeetStephanSpeaks 2 года назад

Thank you very much, Im happy to hear that 🙌

@truarnett5519 2 года назад

Well said Sister! Super Amen! 🙏💙🙏

@nieyshabrown9578 2 года назад

@@truarnett5519 Blessings and favor to you always! ❤️🙏🏼

@sebringlady01 2 года назад

This is right on time! I usually sit back, listen and read comments but today, I had to say this: I am truly thankful for this message. I’ve been going to God and doing my best to honor and obey him and I truly feel like this is a sign from the most high! I have some healing to continue and that is fine. I receive that! 🙏🏾😇 Thank you Stephan! You are a blessing! 💯

@MeetStephanSpeaks 2 года назад

Thank you for sharing, I appreciate your feedback.

@honeydove_4844 2 года назад

I love that you said motherhood and taking care of the home can be a purpose 💕

@janelantano3328 2 года назад

Thank you for this wonderful message. This is what I needed most right now. I know God has His purpose of everything that is happening in my life right now, I believe and I have faith that God has a better plan for me. I may lose someone very special to me but I know God has prepared someone better for me.

@patriciascorner4686 2 года назад

Great advice.... I liked that you touched on not asking God to remove a person if they're bad for us. I believe God gives us clues and lets us know when a person is not good for us and empowers us to make the decision to walk away - this gives us the confidence that we can make the right choices for us. And it definitely helps us mature.

@MeetStephanSpeaks 2 года назад

Thank you for sharing, I appreciate your feedback!

@axellesaupek9921 2 года назад

Yes, raising children and homemaking is a mission too. A mission many women have and in many cases feel the need to do. It’s a job and it is indeed completely devalued. A reflection of how in today’s society anything having to do with the feminine is under appreciated and shamed. Even women shame other women for wanting to raise their own children, never mind taking care of a man. The self esteem of the feminine is demolished, has been for an eternity, way before the feminist movement ever came along. Don’t get me wrong, I am a feminist, women should be free to do with their lives what they choose. But how did we end up making women feel guilty for staying home to care for their families. And why do women feel they can’t ask for financial equality with their men inside the family dynamic even when she does not work outside the home. Is her work not equally valuable? Thank you for saying this.

@MeetStephanSpeaks 2 года назад

Thank you for sharing, I appreciate your feedback.

@sandral5086 2 года назад

I became a stay at home mom after my 3rd child, people constantly ask me when I’m going back to work ☹️ ( maybe because they see I’m on a tight budget or maybe it’s because they don’t see the value of a mom staying home, I’m not sure)…… I have 3 children under 11 and I have a house with a big yard to take care of 🤯

@erykahjones2361 Год назад

Greetings ! If I may say so, out of ALL of the messages/ teachings I've listened to from you, THIS is the only one that resignated & penetrated my spirit ! GOD won't be second to ANYTHING or ANYONE. . .thank you. May GOD CONTINUE to use you for His glory. 🙏

@harriettedawson7072 2 года назад

Stephan, you are truly wise and spiritually lead! I appreciate you! Many years ago I couldn’t decide what to do about my relationship so I prayed often… Lord, show me if he is the right person for me. (we were in a long relationship and I needed him to take it to the next level). Then, I saw many signs that he wasn’t, plus he was not supportive of my walk with God nor was he interested in God. So God answered and made it easy for me to move on🤩🙏🏽🙋🏽‍♀️😊👍🏽

@chrissyqueen8407 2 года назад

This video is spot-on, especially idolizing people or even the thought of a spouse can take the place of God in your life if you allow it. In Matthew 6:33 it say, "but seek first his kingdom and his righteousness and these things will be added unto you. Pray, have faith and be purposeful and God will take care of you. Love you Stephan this was another great message. 🙏🏽🙌🏾

@MeetStephanSpeaks 2 года назад

❤ 🙂 Thank you I appreciate your feedback!

@chrissyqueen8407 2 года назад

@@MeetStephanSpeaks your welcome!

@sandramoore1391 2 года назад

Facts .There’s no man/woman who’s going to question or pull me away from my walk with God. NOPE. Matter of fact it’s my personal relationship with him

@MeetStephanSpeaks 2 года назад

Glad to hear that, thank you for your response!

@ember1665 2 года назад

This is so powerful. I've recently broken off a unhealthy engagement as I've come back to my relationship with God, he moved me into a new season so that I can recommit myself and follow his word. He has perfect timing; we as imperfect humans, created in his image, we just need to not ignore the signs even when it's hard and always put Him first in everything because without Him we are nothing and without Him it won't work.

@ntokozonkosi390 2 года назад

You know how many many you are helping outside here and I myself you have helped me. The relationship did not feel right and I could tell God was trying to tell me that it is not going to work, I knew the relationship will end but I was just not ready to leave him and now I finally did and before I left him I listen to your videos, I want to thank you for the helping us and shedding light. The sad part is I gave him myself but I know God renews and heals. He has healed me before and will heal me now. The boyfriend I had came as a blessing in disguise only to find that it the opposite.

@anquinetteharri 2 года назад

So true, you can't force religion on your partner, yet they should respect your stance on your faith. Once that is done, you'll start to see a change in that person without even asking them to change.

@MeetStephanSpeaks 2 года назад

Thank you for sharing, I appreciate your feedback.

@kimtaylor2406 2 года назад

About 6-7 years ago, I was in tsunami of toxic relationships!! God had to step in & calm the waters. Thank ya 💃🏾 Today, I have healed & had to learn exactly what Stephen’s speaking. Thank you for speaking.

@MeetStephanSpeaks 2 года назад

My pleasure ❤

@musclegurl8302 2 года назад

Thank you Stephan you hit a number of key points. For me hearing from God entails me quieting my spirit, praying and fasting, God will then show me something's that I wouldn't have seen or even behaviors and conversations that differs. He gives me discernment which allows me to have clarity and understanding. It's when I remove what I may want and ask God what do you want for me. I asked for his guidance even if its not what I wanted and I accept with humility the answer I receive. When you talk to God he will communicate with you, however, you have to ask him for His will for you and not expect him to stamp approve your will. This has helped me tremendously in my life and my walk with God. Sometimes the answer doesn't come right away, there is a process, you have to willing to wait, you have to be willing to hear what you may not like to hear and you have to ask for the courage to change whatever it is that God is wanting you to change and finally I pray for peace about the situation and/or the circumstance . I hope this helps someone . Thank you Stephan appreciate you 🙏👏👍😊💯❤

@livyogilife Год назад

#3!!! Finding a partner who understands this and willing to invest and do the work is the challenge!!

@michellereeves3337 2 года назад

You always verbalize the hidden corners of a Christian's heart so well. You bring to life the complex relationship or worries we have with God, but sometimes aren't even aware of.

@MeetStephanSpeaks 2 года назад

Glad to hear that, thank you for your feedback!

@blacklovematters7374 2 года назад

Christianity have nothing to do with this, God is not in religion.

@ILoveMyFro 2 года назад

God is NOT the universe. God created the universe; he is outside of and not His creation.

@MeetStephanSpeaks 2 года назад

Thank you for sharing, I appreciate your feedback.

@jennifersnelling1265 2 года назад

Amen!

@tanyatanya9492 2 года назад

Excatly.Some are praying to objects and then speak of God's will🙄

@TaishaArena 2 года назад

Amen!

@msrenee23 2 года назад

My GOD is BIGGER than the universe!! Yes ma’am 🙌🏾🙏🏾

@aneshamcdowell3308 2 года назад

This TEACHING IS SO ANOINTED A SPIRIT OF EXCELLENCE! I LOVE IT!❤️❤️

@Notbothered1 4 месяца назад

Its a inner knowing that that man should be bringing you peace and comfort not conflict and confusion.

@strongwarrior3579 2 года назад

This message was great to hear for me because I was out here with someone and have my all to him and he just took it and never put anything into it relationship. I rushed into things so fast and when it didn't go right, I was praying to God to get me out. Now I'm on the healing train and I'm happy where I am.

@786min 2 года назад

I’m Muslim but I needed to hear this 🙏🏽 May God always bless you and preserve your brother Stephan!

@MeetStephanSpeaks 2 года назад

Thank you very much I'm happy to hear that 🙌 and may God bless you and preserve you as well!

@royaltykonceptz 2 года назад

I'm Muslim to brother salaam

@jesuslives5846 Год назад

Jesus Christ is coming back soon and God is calling everyone to repentance (2 Peter 3:9 KJV) *** Prayers for all, message for all: Please Get in the Ark of Jesus Christ now. We all must Repent and be Born Again of the Holy Spirit of Jesus Christ to see God:: Jesus answered and said unto him, Verily, verily, I say unto thee, Except a man be born again, he cannot see the kingdom of God. Nicodemus saith unto him, How can a man be born when he is old? can he enter the second time into his mother's womb, and be born? Jesus answered, Verily, verily, I say unto thee, Except a man be born of water and of the Spirit, he cannot enter into the kingdom of God. That which is born of the flesh is flesh; and that which is born of the Spirit is spirit. Marvel not that I said unto thee, Ye must be born again. John 3:3‭-‬7 KJV bible.com/1/jhn.3.3-7.KJV*** Then Peter said unto them, Repent, and be baptized every one of you in the name of Jesus Christ for the remission of sins, and ye shall receive the gift of the Holy Ghost. Acts 2:38 KJV bible.com/1/act.2.38.KJV

@josephinempundu4205 2 года назад

I have always prayed to God in many situations including love and i can attest that he never fails. God has given me strength to say no and walk away.

@theannruddgroup Год назад

God must have placed my name on your heart when you were filming this video. There isn’t one part that wasn’t meant for me. Thank you for taking all my jumbled up feelings and thoughts and laying them out in such a simple way that I could understand. I know God had his hand on you filming this and I thank you from the bottom of my heart. I needed this today ❤️.

@MeetStephanSpeaks Год назад

I'm happy this has been helpful to you 🙏

@cocoleluz 2 года назад

I woke up yesterday with the name Boaz in my spirit. I don’t know what it means but I read Ruth story and how she was blessed with her Boaz.

@alumanidavid 2 года назад

Thank you for obeying God's voice. This was directed to me.😭

@MeetStephanSpeaks 2 года назад

Glad I could help!

@Angel_eyes___ Год назад

God please help me remove the breadcrumber. I need your strength to get out of the rabbit hole . I want a gentleman who respects and truly loves me. Been a long time. Thank you . Keeping the faith praise God 🙏

@rezetkina Год назад

I love to listen about relationship in a light of God. So refreshing ! 🎉

@ericahenry2900 2 года назад

I have to say how helpful THIS video was. It was delivered with perfect timing as this has been the battle for the last 3 months. It said everything I knew BUT was hesitant to accept. I truly appreciate the knowledge and wisdom that was shared.

@MeetStephanSpeaks 2 года назад

I'm happy this has been helpful to you and don't forget to share so that others can receive love and healing!

@jannaw9000 2 года назад

Oh my , this speaks to me strongly. He has taken me away from God . It been toxic, and painful. Thank you for this video.

@WhatsUpWithSheila 2 года назад

Feeling unsettled about a person = *absence of peace* At least now I know it's a *REAL THING* & I'm not just being *sensitive* Thank you... looks like I can trust my instincts after all👍😊

@TheGlamAgent 2 года назад

Yes it’s a real thing AND it’s okay if you’re being sensitive. It’s a gift! ☺️

@marlobx7442 Год назад

@@TheGlamAgent facts

@carolyndelong4737 2 года назад

God this was so good Stephan !! I needed to hear this thank you so much !! I have been pressured for so long about getting A full-time job and I know that the kids are number one. I have a three and a six year old. I do work but it’s part time. The father of my children does not participate in anything . I am a full-time mom from getting the kids up in the morning for school , to packing lunches, laundry, dinner, pick up and drop off and so on , household duties all that stuff . I have found a really good church and I really want to spend more time being the person I know God wants me to be , he has no interest in being the man of the house and help leading our family to God so that’s on me as well to get the kids to church and myself . I find myself struggling so much because I’m so overwhelmed and then I have my , I don’t even know what to call him, because we’re not together but we live together. he just does his own thing he works he brings home money but that’s it and I’m struggling and it’s hard I don’t know what to do . I honestly want him out of the house because I can handle everything except for the finance part and he knows that anyway thank you for this video. I was crying in Winn-Dixie listening to your truth lol !! God help us !!

@MerciGloreino 2 года назад

Love the message you gave today. I thank God for the toxic relationship He brought me out of and God showed me every time. You have to have faith and be strong to walk away. Every time I tried to walk away things like feeling embarrassed people who told you that it wouldn’t work you didn’t want them to be right so pride, or thinking you won’t make it YES YOU WILL soon as I left everything I put my hands to God blessed it !!!!! I had got the job I wanted I had got the car I wanted most of all I had PEACE! Thank you Jesus❤️

@MeetStephanSpeaks 2 года назад

Thank you for sharing, I appreciate your feedback.