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7 REASONS Why You Can't Get OVER HIM! 

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7 REASONS Why You Can't Get OVER HIM!... In this dating advice video, I will give you the 7 reasons why you can’t get over him that you should not overlook. You may wonder why you can’t get over your ex and this may be during your first dates, online dating, or even somewhere in the dating process. Take heed to this dating advice and be sure to watch the entire video.
I understand that getting over a breakup is not an easy task, however, I don't want you to keep asking yourself why can’t I get over him? I want to be able to know the reasons why you can’t get over him so that you can improve your dating experience and relationship.
I want you to understand that it is normal to struggle with getting over a breakup because many people go through breakups in relationships. In this video, I will focus on helping you to learn how to get over him by letting you understand why you are struggling to get over him. Be sure to embrace this relationship advice so that you can make the process of getting over heartbreak easier for you.
As a certified life coach, relationship coach, and dating coach, I want to make dating and relationships easier for you. I pray that you find this video helpful and that you will be able to enjoy dating and have fulfilling, healthy relationships.
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@MeetStephanSpeaks
@MeetStephanSpeaks 2 года назад
❤️ Get your copy of "Love After Heartbreak" here 👉www.loveafterheartbreak.com 👈 this book will lead you to finding peace and happiness in your life.
@lorettatripodi4440
@lorettatripodi4440 2 года назад
Yes. There is NOTHING worse than feeling your time wasted
@lauratimal5258
@lauratimal5258 2 года назад
@@lorettatripodi4440 the same 88yiy
@preciousrobertson3985
@preciousrobertson3985 2 года назад
What if you work with him?
@namibiael3267
@namibiael3267 2 года назад
I read this book, watched all of the videos, and each time I think I’m ok, something triggers me. I even met a nice guy and went on a couple dates, but I feel stuck. I blocked my ex on FB bc he kept telling me how much he loves me. Then I unblocked him. It’s been 5 months. How long will it take for me to heal And move on?
@cynthiasmith1583
@cynthiasmith1583 2 года назад
I'm. Finding. Trusting. God. Helps my. Reality
@GurlPlz4321
@GurlPlz4321 2 года назад
I broke into tears when you brought up that you invested so much time and energy into him. I made many sacrifices and was always there for him, and hurts when they do you wrong. Had nothing but genuine love for him
@MeetStephanSpeaks
@MeetStephanSpeaks 2 года назад
I feel you, it definitely isn't an easy situation, but we need to focus on doing what is truly best!
@divyaramani9983
@divyaramani9983 2 года назад
I went thru same thing last year and he came back he basically cheated and came back and still continues to hide his relationship till i exposed him to his gf he cheated me on ... well she is still with him. But what he put me thru has caused me to hate him so much
@prettyInPink624
@prettyInPink624 2 года назад
Girl it HAPPENS TO ALL GOOD WOMEN... LIVE AND LEARN.... I MARRIED A NARRSISTICS LEARNED IT OVER COVID 19 LOCK DOWN...... I KNEW I WAS CRAZY..... IT WAS A HARD PILL TO SWALLOW... BUT IM A NEW WOMAN AND ITS BEEN MONTHS NO CONTACT AND ITS STAYING LIKE THAT.... HE WEARS OLD SHOES FOR WHORES...IM WEARING New SHOES WITH CLASS AND I WAS BLIND AND STUPID IN LOVE WITH THE DEVIL.... BE STRONG AND GOOOOO BC YOUR WASTING TIME AND YEARS... KNOW UR WORTH AND PLACE.... NARRSISTICS READ ABOUT IT ON RU-vid... YOUR NOT CRAZY..XXOO AMG
@shutit4024
@shutit4024 2 года назад
@@divyaramani9983 same and this dude tried to record me when we had sex , it’s been 4 years and it still hurts
@kendatpg
@kendatpg 2 года назад
Completely understand. Going through the same thing. It hurts bad. It's been 4 months and it's still crushing. We were supposed to get married and left me cold...for somebody else. Shit is gut wrenching.
@ginamitc7462
@ginamitc7462 2 года назад
The pain from letting go is a blessing, why the hell you want someone who doesn't give a damn about you or your feelings, dont let that person use you. STAY AWAY FROM USERS!
@georgannkingsland767
@georgannkingsland767 2 года назад
I have not had many men in my life a handful I was married for many years
@nimfavargas57
@nimfavargas57 2 года назад
Correct!!
@maudavercher6418
@maudavercher6418 2 года назад
Yes Lord!! Especially, as an independent woman. They want women that need them. As a woman, if I’m in love with a man, I don’t mind helping him to meet his goals also. However, it 100% turns into the nxgga that just wants to USE ME UP! Since then, I’ve enjoyed celibacy and inner solace and peace that I don’t want to ever risk losing again. I’ll wait until God leads my HUSBAND to (ME). 🙏🏾
@joywilliams5861
@joywilliams5861 2 года назад
That part!!
@dainiebunoluwa135
@dainiebunoluwa135 2 года назад
It's not easy to identify a user when one is in love
@n1godone9231
@n1godone9231 2 года назад
“New beginnings are disguised as painful ending.”
@damarish.torres145
@damarish.torres145 Год назад
@beautifulforthee1
@beautifulforthee1 4 месяца назад
Yes. So true
@oliviadart612
@oliviadart612 Год назад
I pray for everyone to break the soul ties and find love in yourselves
@oliviadimock8202
@oliviadimock8202 11 месяцев назад
Love in Jesus Christ is always the best foundation for a successful relationship! :)
@lizkim1546
@lizkim1546 11 месяцев назад
Thank you so much!! I really need the prayers
@ManuelaAyr
@ManuelaAyr 8 месяцев назад
thank you@@oliviadimock8202
@hadassahmohale9138
@hadassahmohale9138 2 года назад
"The sex will be better, when you align yourself with the person that you should be with" 🧘🏽‍♀️ Repeat! 🤭
@maryamadamu2636
@maryamadamu2636 2 года назад
I can recommend you to (Mr Ose )who was able to bring back my ex husband and it works, I believe he can solve your relationship problems.......
@maryamadamu2636
@maryamadamu2636 2 года назад
Whatsazzz him👇👇👇
@blovr333
@blovr333 10 месяцев назад
True 🥰
@KathrynCummings1
@KathrynCummings1 6 месяцев назад
Idk.. I think that when we find ourselves stuck in a committed relationship, especially with children, we can make it all about great sex. After numbing myself out to how bad it was and failed attempts to leave, I decided to make the best of sex…It’s called disassociation and even that gave way. Funny and not funny. In a relationship, the lack of a love/soul connection is a sad, empty existence and takes its toll. Get out sooner than later. Save your heart! Save your soul! Save yourself! The longer you stay the more beaten down your self-respect will become , making it more difficult. It takes a lot of Faith and Strength to put your life back together. Don’t let distractions cost you years of your life.
@kaztazable
@kaztazable 2 года назад
Ladies, always always ASK what a guy is looking for before you invest time, effort and feelings into him. If he is not on the same page as you, stop it immediately no matter how much you like him. There should be zero tolerance for ambivalence✌🏿
@maryamadamu2636
@maryamadamu2636 2 года назад
I can recommend you to (Mr Ose )who was able to bring back my ex husband and it works, I believe he can solve your relationship problems....
@Honeycombe88
@Honeycombe88 2 года назад
Men will rarely admit in the beginning that they want an exclusive long term relationship. They don't want to give the woman hope, when he doesn't even know how he feels about her yet. Men also rarely start out wanting to get married or live with a partner. So you have to go out with them a while and try to tell what he wants through his behavior, offhand comments. Later you can ask and expect an answer, when he has an idea whether you'd be the sort of woman he'd want a long term relationship with. If he doesn't have an answer at that point, it's best not to waste more time on him.
@oliviadart612
@oliviadart612 Год назад
It’s the worst when they say they are looking for something serious and are saying they want to live with you in the future after 6 months of relationship and then they do not act accordingly. I’m done with missing anyone…
@Anna-fm7hh
@Anna-fm7hh Год назад
Yeah, like they will tell you the truth at the beginning or not change their mind during the relationship
@dollyjohnson5848
@dollyjohnson5848 Год назад
@@Anna-fm7hh and you changed it by walking away
@Bee_licious92
@Bee_licious92 2 года назад
How many times does a person start over though? How many heart breaks does a person go through to find the right one? I've prayed so many times asking God to bring the right person HE feels I deserve. When this guy came into my life, I honestly felt like he was the one. He did everything right( at least that's what I thought). Our issue was communication, which is why I chose to let go. If we couldn't communicate about our problems, how could our relationship grow? I was single 7 years before this recent relationship. I gave myself 7 years to heal, focus and pray for the right guy and the outcome was still bad. Sometimes I even questioned myself like " what did I do"? Dating and relationships are so bad this day in age and it's sad. One thing I do know is if GOD is not 1st, nothing in your relationship will succeed.
@yusufabubakr3608
@yusufabubakr3608 2 года назад
If you want your lover to come back to you and stay forever💯💯
@yusufabubakr3608
@yusufabubakr3608 2 года назад
Wh'stapp me💯💯
@thisvetwantsyoutoknow
@thisvetwantsyoutoknow 2 года назад
Stephan says we always know when something isn't right. We need to trust our intuition and end things before we get this attached. I wear my heart on my sleeve and get attached quickly, but we need to move on faster to prevent ourselves from getting so devastated when things don't work out.
@kudalavida3494
@kudalavida3494 2 года назад
@brandi I feel you. I had 9.5 years and we met in church dated 11months of absolute bliss before he cheated on me with and left me for a woman old enough to be his grandmother whom he made official 2 weeks after we broke up. Broke up with me 2 days after we "celebrated" our 1 year anniversary. Been 4 months since the breakup. I feel like I am just done.
@JennHerz-HTX92
@JennHerz-HTX92 2 года назад
All what you said is how i feel too
@jenschue
@jenschue Год назад
Notes: The 7 reasons you can’t get over him are: 1. You haven’t gotten over the fantasy to face your reality 2. You've invested so much time and energy into this man 3. You’re afraid to start all over 4. You’ve developed a sexual attachment 5. You don’t believe better exists 6. You are fighting how you feel and not resolving it 7. You do have a genuine connection
@teabiscuits1611
@teabiscuits1611 Год назад
Truth.
@KedKexKevin
@KedKexKevin 9 месяцев назад
Are these reasons also responsible for feeling jealous all the time? Even though it was not the best relationship and we both agreed on breaking up, I sometimes feel deeply jealous when thinking of her with someone else or moving on. Heck, even the thought about her body makes me jealous.
@maryamirfan9197
@maryamirfan9197 3 месяца назад
is it any better now?@@KedKexKevin
@lmiller1413
@lmiller1413 3 месяца назад
Believing better is out there is a real fear.
@classychula3522
@classychula3522 2 года назад
This hit home. I lowered my standards ,because I was hungry for love. But from the beginning , I should have left it at hello and good bye. Our lifestyles, upbringing, values were so opposite... smh but he did say all the beautiful things my heart was hungry for. Live and learn. At the end of it all the saddest thing, getting dumped after I lowered my standards. Go figure
@quin8463
@quin8463 2 года назад
This i can relate I have two kids with them own a home and he went back to his dads and mom house
@kristinwalker8090
@kristinwalker8090 2 года назад
Understand
@maryamadamu2636
@maryamadamu2636 2 года назад
I can recommend you to (Mr Ose )who was able to bring back my ex husband and it works, I believe he can solve your relationship problems.......
@maryamadamu2636
@maryamadamu2636 2 года назад
Whatsazzz him👇👇👇
@afrobetty4847
@afrobetty4847 2 года назад
ouch!!... cold-blooded
@chiqui0816
@chiqui0816 2 года назад
The pain from letting go of someone who's toxic is the worst😔 There are days that are harder than others but The Lord is near to the broken-hearted🙏 Have a blessed weekend Stephan❤
@MeetStephanSpeaks
@MeetStephanSpeaks 2 года назад
Thank you I appreciate that!
@tanyatanya9492
@tanyatanya9492 2 года назад
Yes,it is hard cause brain got used to the uncertainty and unpredictability and it behaves like on addiction,but it WILL get better with time,just keep no contact,none whatsoever.God bless🙏
@JWW77
@JWW77 2 года назад
@@tanyatanya9492 so true
@landers127ify
@landers127ify 2 года назад
Wow...I love everything you said
@crystalnyla
@crystalnyla 2 года назад
yep trained the good bye with 2 children and 10 yrs ... I had to end the chaos
@sandraliang9036
@sandraliang9036 Год назад
He wasn’t truly pouring into me, he wasn’t truly making me happy. This is not for me. This won’t truly work. It’s not sustainable. He is not the right guy for me. I will keep reminding myself until I get over him. Thank you so much Stephan Speaks.
@velvedermskin2371
@velvedermskin2371 2 года назад
"Embrace the process of getting over him...ACCEPT how you feel but don't react to it....DON'T CALL HIM OR SHOW UP AT HIS JOB!!!"🤣🤣🤣🤣
@ArshennaHines
@ArshennaHines 2 года назад
Lol 😚😃🤣 so true because pain can cause you to lose yourself..sometimes...
@sdmims1
@sdmims1 2 года назад
I might get him fired from his job
@shrinidhipatil335
@shrinidhipatil335 Год назад
@@sdmims1 totally 😂
@shrinidhipatil335
@shrinidhipatil335 Год назад
I d k but atleast for last two times i blown up the phone with worst words what else do u call mfs as? babyy? naah! bitch is a bitch and he better know that i k he's one
@ReneGarcia-vx3id
@ReneGarcia-vx3id Год назад
😂😂Don’t stalk him on social media
@molove4029
@molove4029 2 года назад
6 years of being single. When I thought I found someone special I was feeling good finally. Then bull shyt happened and I’m back to square one. Dating sucks.
@nomessnostress
@nomessnostress Месяц назад
That's why now I do not even thing I need long breaks like that anymore because it doesn't change the outcome! I'm not going to jump around, but I won't take years off anymore.... I'm going to heal and move on this time.... its been almost 2 months and its getting better
@shawanahickman6952
@shawanahickman6952 2 года назад
Nope he never loved me. And i can accept that now
@MeetStephanSpeaks
@MeetStephanSpeaks 2 года назад
I'm sorry to hear about that and I pray that you heal from all that you have been through 🙏
@babygurll2923
@babygurll2923 2 года назад
Really good timing i needed to hear this! It’s been 3 months since I broke it with him and it seems like everyday gets even harder than the day before. I miss him soo much😔 we’ve had such an amazing connection💔 I’m hurting so bad I don’t know what to do. Sometimes i wish I didn’t meet him so I don’t have to go through this pain💔 I’ve never loved someone like this before and it hurts soo bad😭
@missworthy6554
@missworthy6554 2 года назад
We are going to be ok
@MeetStephanSpeaks
@MeetStephanSpeaks 2 года назад
I'm sorry to hear about that and I pray that you heal from all that you have been through 🙏
@mizstrickland
@mizstrickland 2 года назад
You're not alone
@yessi4113
@yessi4113 2 года назад
I feel you when you say that you wish you didn’t meet him..I be feeling the same..it’s hard getting over someone..I hope for healing hun ❤️‍🩹
@rhondarenee3954
@rhondarenee3954 2 года назад
Im going thru the same thing! Praying it gets better.
@shawanahickman6952
@shawanahickman6952 2 года назад
I just want to know what true love feels like
@beefaye6861
@beefaye6861 2 года назад
It consistently feels good....it doesn't hurt 👍🌹
@latoyadavis8542
@latoyadavis8542 2 года назад
Fall in love with God give him your heart completely. You do that you definitely will know what true love is.
@rachelfinney1774
@rachelfinney1774 2 года назад
Me too
@GGGG-uj1no
@GGGG-uj1no 2 года назад
Start looking in the mirror
@LadyYella
@LadyYella 2 года назад
@@latoyadavis8542 amen
@tiffanywest1057
@tiffanywest1057 2 года назад
I started crying while listening to this...you were truly speaking to me today. I've been having sex with a man that doesn't pour into me at all, on top of that the sex was just average at best. I recently let him go and this video is confirmation that I did the right thing. Thank you🙏🙏🙏
@MeetStephanSpeaks
@MeetStephanSpeaks 2 года назад
I'm happy this has been helpful to you and I pray that you heal all you have been through 🙏
@tiffanywest1057
@tiffanywest1057 2 года назад
@@MeetStephanSpeaks Thank you so much!
@MeetStephanSpeaks
@MeetStephanSpeaks 2 года назад
My pleasure ❤
@Aquariuswonder86
@Aquariuswonder86 2 года назад
I’m going through the same thing right now too. Attempted to break up with him last week and he roped me back in with false promises to change smh.
@shanicespencer8159
@shanicespencer8159 2 года назад
Omggg this is what I'm going through right now , I'm going to break it off
@AnA2o13
@AnA2o13 Год назад
“Holding on to what you wanted to believe it was “ 😩💔 I’m going through this now , very painful 😓
@MeetStephanSpeaks
@MeetStephanSpeaks Год назад
I'm sorry to hear about that. I pray that you heal from all that you have been through and be able to keep moving in faith 🙏 ❤️
@dimplesp4046
@dimplesp4046 2 года назад
When you recognize he isn’t for you, you have to end it then. This hit me hard. I saw so many flags initially, glad I have moved on. Thank you
@MeetStephanSpeaks
@MeetStephanSpeaks 2 года назад
Thank you for sharing and I pray that you heal from all that you have been through 🙏
@claudieC.
@claudieC. Год назад
Me too. I knew it and still tried to make it work. What a waste of time. I was discarded and it was the best thing that ever happened to me becuase I was fully invested in making it work so I would had not initiated a break up. So he did me a favor because I wouldn't have left him, I loved him and cared for him and gave so much into him in every way. Waste of time. He didn't realize what he had and he was an unhappy person with unresolved issues with women and had no friends.
@biruruth5956
@biruruth5956 2 года назад
One thing I love most is time, it heals everything. Take you time working on healing you self.
@MeetStephanSpeaks
@MeetStephanSpeaks 2 года назад
Thank you for sharing, I appreciate your feedback.
@biruruth5956
@biruruth5956 2 года назад
@@MeetStephanSpeaks my pleasure brother
@gabriellove8488
@gabriellove8488 2 года назад
Truth
@biruruth5956
@biruruth5956 2 года назад
@@gabriellove8488 yes dear
@Keonahawk24
@Keonahawk24 2 года назад
@@biruruth5956 Well excuse me, how much time do I need? It’s been a year and a half. I’m sick of feeling this way!
@heathersmith9777
@heathersmith9777 Год назад
I felt THIS SO MUCH!!!!!! This is hitting me so hard.....I need to let go. I'm still attached but pretending to be ready to move on. I'm holding on to the fantasy....the situationship was great for him. I never got the commitment but he got all the wifey benefits. I feel foolish for giving my love.
@aazmeer1000
@aazmeer1000 Год назад
So how u got out please tell me
@aazmeer1000
@aazmeer1000 Год назад
How did u get over please tell
@heathersmith9777
@heathersmith9777 Год назад
Well, I'm still having some bad days. More good than bad, but what I did was NO CONTACT. It's horrible. It goes against everything my heart wanted to do, but if I were to contact him, he'd push further away.....and I'd look desperate, which is not what I am. I cried when I felt like crying. I entertained EVERY THOUGHT & MEMORY until I was numb to them. That way, if something popped up that reminded me of him, I felt a little less hurt. I talked to people about how I was feeling.....anyone who would listen. I made a journal/slam book about the situation. I accepted dates from other men....which helps with self-esteem and loneliness. None of it is easy, but eventually, acceptance comes around and you'll begin to feel more like yourself again. It took exactly a month after my 10 month situationship came to an end. Its gonna be okay. Hang in there.
@lindaholder2466
@lindaholder2466 Год назад
I know what you going through
@cajunscorpion
@cajunscorpion 2 года назад
Keep busy. Meditate. Get a daily routine going. Self care. Manifest your healing.
@MeetStephanSpeaks
@MeetStephanSpeaks 2 года назад
Thank you for sharing, I appreciate your feedback.
@micheleprice9771
@micheleprice9771 2 года назад
AMEN! SO TRULY RIGHT! VERY INSPIRING AMAZING ENLIGHTENING WORDS OF WISDOM! GOD BLESS US ALL! GOD LOVES US ALL! SELF LOVE! BELOVED! LET YR LIGHT 4EVER SHINE BRIGHT! HOLD ON TO GOD ALWAYS! PRAY OFTEN AND DAILY TO GOD ALWAYS! GOD IS OUR EVERYTHING! GOD CAN HANDLE ANYTHING! GOD HAS US COVERED! GOD IS ALWAYS WITH US! GLORY TO GOD ALMIGHTY! GOD WILL SEE US THRU ALL THINGS IN YR LIFE RIGHT NOW AND ALWAYS! GOD WILL NEVER LEAVE U NOR FORSAKE U! TELL THE LORD THANK U FOR THIS BLESSED TODAY! TELL THE LORD THANK U FOR EVERYONE IN YR LIFE RIGHT NOW AND ALWAYS! BE GRATEFUL AND THANKFUL FOR ALL THINGS AND EVERYONE IN YR LIFE RIGHT NOW AND ALWAYS!
@wandresaboss7084
@wandresaboss7084 2 года назад
I love that. That's what I do. I get into a daily routine. Walking, studying, go be the water, go to an outside restaurant. Just to regain peace
@shawanahickman6952
@shawanahickman6952 2 года назад
I'm over him I'm more pissed at myself for allowing myself to let it go on for so long. But no im not still inlove with him don't even want him. Wishing him the best for him. Im trying to fix me
@MeetStephanSpeaks
@MeetStephanSpeaks 2 года назад
You have to forgive yourself so that you can fully set yourself free 🙏❤️
@MeetStephanSpeaks
@MeetStephanSpeaks 2 года назад
I pray that you heal from all that you have been through!
@thisvetwantsyoutoknow
@thisvetwantsyoutoknow 2 года назад
I stayed too long too. I think by the end I was just looking for a return on my investment.
@landers127ify
@landers127ify 2 года назад
Yes me too. I am so mad and angry with myself for getting so prone to something I had no business doing from the get go.
@nella116
@nella116 2 года назад
This relationship has been so stressful. It’s draining me it’s time to let Go.
@MeetStephanSpeaks
@MeetStephanSpeaks 2 года назад
I'm sorry to hear about that and I pray that you heal from all that you have been through 🙏
@beefaye6861
@beefaye6861 2 года назад
Awwww....Im sorry....yes, don't let your mental health decline....there is something better....I was in a horrible marriage....it got so bad it was making me sick....I was breaking out in hives....I lost so much weight I didn't want to come outside.....get out early sis....its not worth it ....be blessed 🙏
@nella116
@nella116 2 года назад
@@beefaye6861 thank you, yeah call myself dating a busy man. Always to busy for me. I just want better. Thank you, we got this sis❤️
@beefaye6861
@beefaye6861 2 года назад
@@nella116 Yes.....you deserve better ❤
@ambiecats6189
@ambiecats6189 2 года назад
Your body tells you when your mind doesn't want to believe it. I know mine did. When he would do things that he knew would bother me my insides would vibrate. That was something that never happened before.
@beefaye6861
@beefaye6861 2 года назад
I DON'T CARE IF IT HURTS....WE NEED THE HARD TRUTH.... 😵😖
@MeetStephanSpeaks
@MeetStephanSpeaks 2 года назад
Glad to hear that, thank you for your response!
@thaliya9339
@thaliya9339 10 месяцев назад
Its not the good times, its the loneliness, the fact that you lost your bestfriend and someone to talk to each day...
@Christy-he6ry
@Christy-he6ry Год назад
Ladies my heart goes out to you all May we all find peace & healing
@janiellemarahulme4735
@janiellemarahulme4735 Год назад
I hate all the ads. Literally balling my eyes out and a fricken insurance ad pops up.
@tonyahunt1126
@tonyahunt1126 2 года назад
Sometimes it's how they made you feel alive again, even if deep down you knew it wasn't real. It's difficult to sit with the pain of losing that.
@kellyparadis1039
@kellyparadis1039 2 года назад
Thank you for putting it like that. It makes sense now.
@maryamadamu2636
@maryamadamu2636 2 года назад
I can recommend you to (Mr Ose )who was able to bring back my ex husband and it works, I believe he can solve your relationship problems.......
@maryamadamu2636
@maryamadamu2636 2 года назад
Whatsazzz him👇👇👇
@iamindiachanae
@iamindiachanae Месяц назад
Thissss‼️‼️🙌🏾
@countcrow
@countcrow 2 года назад
It's not necessarily a fantasy but a feeling he created, you both created that is so hard to let go. That feeling remains even after the fantasy crumbles
@MeetStephanSpeaks
@MeetStephanSpeaks 2 года назад
Thank you for sharing I appreciate that ❤
@cammyTalksLife
@cammyTalksLife 2 года назад
The best feeling is when you healed and you run into an ex . Free from that hurt , and you can keep it pushing . It’s beautiful . Thank you 🙏 for class and the video.
@MeetStephanSpeaks
@MeetStephanSpeaks 2 года назад
Glad I could help!
@sarahn3794
@sarahn3794 2 года назад
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@sarahn3794
@sarahn3794 2 года назад
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@sarahn3794
@sarahn3794 2 года назад
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@LadyYella
@LadyYella 2 года назад
💯💯 it happen before I ran into a ex I was fully healed praise God he wanted to get back together only thing I could tell him that I forgive him for everything that he did to me and we move on from there in life but not be back together just friends
@missieedwards5472
@missieedwards5472 Год назад
Man! This hit home for me! Not only did I "over invest" in a "masked man" I stayed because I didn't want to take the loss. Thats important. I should've left a long time ago. I kept giving what was already not being reciprocated. I won't trash my ex but I will say this, im glad to finally be free physically of him- now I'll emotionally detatch myself. Moving forward is exciting! I'm ready to treat me right! Im ready to move past the pain and heartbreak of the lies I accepted. Im ready to heal!
@lesego5718
@lesego5718 2 года назад
I think one of the biggest struggle is separating the emotion and the memory as one can trigger the other. Knowing how to extract the lesson learned from the previous relationship without getting attached to the person and always thinking about them can get difficult.
@MeetStephanSpeaks
@MeetStephanSpeaks 2 года назад
Thank you for sharing, I appreciate your feedback.
@micheleprice9771
@micheleprice9771 2 года назад
AMEN! SO TRULY RIGHT! GREAT INSPIRING AMAZING ENLIGHTENING WORDS OF WISDOM! YES INDEED! GOD BLESS US ALL! GOD LOVES US ALL! SELF LOVE! BELOVED! LET YR LIGHT 4EVER SHINE BRIGHT! GOD IS WORKIN IT OUT! ON HIS GOD GIVEN RIGHT TIME! HOLD ON TO GOD ALWAYS! PRAY OFTEN AND DAILY TO GOD ALWAYS! GOD IS OUR EVERYTHING! GOD CAN HANDLE ANYTHING! GOD HAS US COVERED! GOD IS ALWAYS WITH US! GOD WILL NEVER LEAVE U NOR FORSAKE U! GOD WILL SEE US THRU ALL THINGS IN YR LIFE RIGHT NOW AND ALWAYS! GLORY TO GOD ALMIGHTY! TELL THE LORD THANK U FOR THIS BLESSED TODAY! TELL THE LORD THANK U FOR EVERYONE IN YR LIFE RIGHT NOW AND ALWAYS! BE GRATEFUL AND THANKFUL FOR ALL THINGS AND FOR EVERYONE IN YR LIFE RIGHT NOW AND ALWAYS! GOD WILL NEVER LEAVE U NOR FORSAKE U! PEACE AND HARMONY TO EVERYONE IN THE WORLD RIGHT NOW! ENOUGH SAID! THATS IT! SEPT 2021
@ghanaianqueen7891
@ghanaianqueen7891 2 года назад
I was with my ex for about 8 months. Our families loved us togeter . I ignored the red flags in the beginning . He was in his 30s, still lived in his childhood bedroom, had no car, only worked part time, yet went out everyweekend! I made him feel like the man of my house , let him use my car whenever he needed , paid for dates so he wouldnt use his money, paid for us to go to Universal studios . Did all of this all for him to break up with me ! Im like wait what’!? I got closer to God and honestly this had to happen because i wouldnt have walked away unfortunately. This relationship was an eye opener ! I was going broke being with him
@MeetStephanSpeaks
@MeetStephanSpeaks 2 года назад
I'm sorry to hear about that and I pray that you heal from all that you have been through 🙏
@yusufabubakr3608
@yusufabubakr3608 2 года назад
If you want your lover to come back to you and stay forever💯💯
@yusufabubakr3608
@yusufabubakr3608 2 года назад
Wh'stapp me💯💯
@yusufabubakr3608
@yusufabubakr3608 2 года назад
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@thisvetwantsyoutoknow
@thisvetwantsyoutoknow 2 года назад
I carried the majority of my 8 year relationship and now I realize he wasn't pouring into me at all. I was just taking care of him. I didn't think the red flags were that big of a deal, but they never got better and ended up being the reason I ended things. My relationship was an eye opener too. I'm glad we both got out so that we can find better.
@dare2bda137
@dare2bda137 2 года назад
This is freeing. This message allows me to escape the confinement of my own thoughts. The feelings are real, the thoughts created were fantasies. Just fantasies.
@MeetStephanSpeaks
@MeetStephanSpeaks 2 года назад
I'm happy this has been helpful to you, be sure to share so that others can receive love and healing!
@phoebekachala3457
@phoebekachala3457 2 года назад
I needed to hear this. Letting go of this one is killing me inside. Thank you Stephan.
@MeetStephanSpeaks
@MeetStephanSpeaks 2 года назад
My pleasure ❤
@beefaye6861
@beefaye6861 2 года назад
Oooh....been there....but I did it.👍
@candican9853
@candican9853 2 года назад
💐
@Sunsea-er4nf
@Sunsea-er4nf 2 года назад
It's truly frustrating and heartbreaking. But this woman here, isn't going to fall again in the toxic cycle . We deserve better. I've learned that most of the time a relationship goes sour and you have to invest your energy is someone that only puts you down , the best thing you can do , is to walk away. Remember discernment never fails, if you feel something is not right, it ain't. Be grateful that you'll have the opportunity to find the right man and be happy. Sending positive energy, and remember that you are not alone. 💕
@MeetStephanSpeaks
@MeetStephanSpeaks 2 года назад
Thank you for sharing, I appreciate that!
@joyjessica1774
@joyjessica1774 2 года назад
hello friend, do you wish to manifest your ex back or someone you loved dearly??💕💕💕
@joyjessica1774
@joyjessica1774 2 года назад
I can recommend you to father EDIALE his spells and manifestations are the best 💯💯💯💯💕💕💕
@joyjessica1774
@joyjessica1774 2 года назад
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@joyjessica1774
@joyjessica1774 2 года назад
+2348110501742⏯⏯💕💕💕💕
@misskaykay1856
@misskaykay1856 2 года назад
This kind of pain is one the hardest to get through. I feel like am worse today than I was yesterday. It’s such an uphill battle. One step forward, 15 backwards. So damn hard 💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔
@chiadaphney3453
@chiadaphney3453 2 года назад
I can relate sis
@leslieweir7051
@leslieweir7051 2 года назад
This to me is the hardest part is letting go of a toxic man, I have been in a situationship for the past 2 years, and I guess my "place" is this off and on, trying to break free, but wont let me go, but wants to see other people and me be their whens hes done playing, come back and me living in "hope" mode that things will get different and this man will change, but in reality it will never change and like you said, I struggle emotionally inside not moving on.... I know that I need to move on and look for better but my attachment inside me wont let me do so....I struggle with letting go and accepting things for what it is and not what I want it to be...... and threw listening to your messages over the past 3 years is that if a man truley wants to be with you and be committed to you, he would do so, you would not haft to wait for him to "come around," or " see your worth or value," because in reality hes already "categorized" you in a department in his mind and its not the department of being your man and being their for you..... accepting you are a form of "convenience," because he knows you have feelings for him and he uses that to his advantage...because in his mind , you have been here this long, putting u with his behaviors, why would you stop.....
@aprilyavon4886
@aprilyavon4886 2 года назад
I needed to hear this! My struggle is getting over him. It's so hard. He didn't see my value at all. I gave it a year and gave him somewhat of an option he choose to walk away. That spoke volumes. He never wanted me nor saw me in that light. I was his experiment making ready for his next relationship
@eekandem
@eekandem 2 года назад
This makes me sad. I'm so sorry. It happened to me 20 years ago too but I realize that he wasn't best for me because he used me.
@aprilyavon4886
@aprilyavon4886 2 года назад
@@eekandem yes it hurts I'm working on me but I do see in my future that I won't be dating for a very long time or ever again.
@ikr2377
@ikr2377 2 года назад
Spot on .for some men women are no more then an experience which means an experiment
@maryamadamu2636
@maryamadamu2636 2 года назад
@@aprilyavon4886 I can recommend you to (Mr Ose )who was able to bring back my ex husband and it works, I believe he can solve your relationship problems.......
@maryamadamu2636
@maryamadamu2636 2 года назад
@@aprilyavon4886 Whatsazzz him👇👇👇
@shawanahickman6952
@shawanahickman6952 2 года назад
I can't wait to start over. Heck im a lover not a fighter
@MeetStephanSpeaks
@MeetStephanSpeaks 2 года назад
You got this ❤
@nomessnostress
@nomessnostress Месяц назад
This! I used to take years off out of fear... but with this relationship we did love each other, I knew he did.... we just wasn't good for one another... we trauma bonded.... I'm ready to move on! He showed me I can have love and move forward
@Lavish_Kat
@Lavish_Kat Год назад
me crying knowing i did his resume lol, We’ve been together 5 yrs and your videos have helped me accept that you cant always get what you give. Sometimes its a blessing in disguise to leave. Time to invest in myself
@HD-xb9mj
@HD-xb9mj 2 года назад
Its harder when your older from being used, rejected, devalued. Especially by someone I've known since we were teens
@jackeyalvarado2506
@jackeyalvarado2506 Год назад
Just gone through a break up, it’s been 4 months now and I swear I come back to this video each month
@brownshugakale2410
@brownshugakale2410 2 года назад
Some may question how do you know that you've healed from the past and/or past hurt ? ....how does that look and feel??? ...I would say that you're no longer triggered by the person, their actions, their words... You don't continue to talk about them or how they hurt you... You've fallen back in love with you - doing things that align with your purpose, passion, and goals. God bless all who are experiencing the pain of a breakup. May He bind the broken 💔 & grant a peace that surpasses understanding 🙏🏾
@RhondaR4
@RhondaR4 2 года назад
You are always on point! So many of us need this moving forward.💯
@MeetStephanSpeaks
@MeetStephanSpeaks 2 года назад
Glad I could help!
@tiatianaajournee
@tiatianaajournee 2 года назад
Yesss so happy I’ve came across his social media platform.♥️ He reallyyyyy a blessing💯🖤
@tiatianaajournee
@tiatianaajournee 2 года назад
Platforms**
@Blazedbarbie333
@Blazedbarbie333 2 года назад
@@MeetStephanSpeaks Thanks so much for this Video I needed to watch this again and again! Cause man they are wolves in sheep's clothing it's insane
@RhondaR4
@RhondaR4 2 года назад
@@tiatianaajournee AMEN! BLESSINGS COMING YOUR WAY❣️
@spiritualqueen3423
@spiritualqueen3423 Год назад
When you feel that spiritual connection it’s real it’s like losing your other half and you can’t have them anymore. I don’t know I felt like I did everything I could to make him happy but we were both going through a difficult time there was just no open discussions in the house. I just want us both to heal from our traumas and maybe it is right person wrong timing. 😢💔
@feddyotieno3431
@feddyotieno3431 2 года назад
You're such a blessing Stephen
@MeetStephanSpeaks
@MeetStephanSpeaks 2 года назад
thank you, I appreciate that
@RhondaR4
@RhondaR4 2 года назад
I AGREE!💯❤️
@outsidethebox8406
@outsidethebox8406 2 года назад
You truly are. Thank God for giving you this gift to help others.
@velvedermskin2371
@velvedermskin2371 2 года назад
"REBUKE any ex that tells you you cannot find anyone better than him"👍🏾👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
@divinedigitalpro
@divinedigitalpro 2 года назад
This message was meant for me. I'm having a harder time than most, because my ex and I work for the same employer; different departments. He comes to my department on his lunch break to workout. When I run into him...lord help me.🤦‍♀️
@MeetStephanSpeaks
@MeetStephanSpeaks 2 года назад
I feel you it definitely isn't an easy situation but you need to focus on doing what is truly best!
@outsidethebox8406
@outsidethebox8406 2 года назад
I'm praying for you Sis. You'll get through it.
@ariondavis9144
@ariondavis9144 2 года назад
Praying for you 🙏🏽🙏🏽 It’s going get better
@yaniquewanliss1801
@yaniquewanliss1801 2 года назад
I went through a similar situation. Trust me I have learned my lesson. It was so hard remaining professional and even when I just wanted to cry. I managed somehow with the help of God.
@divinedigitalpro
@divinedigitalpro 2 года назад
@@outsidethebox8406 Thank you.
@millicentmotloung8505
@millicentmotloung8505 2 года назад
I just let go and I feel so free and liberated. Self love is so important.
@MeetStephanSpeaks
@MeetStephanSpeaks 2 года назад
Thank you for sharing, I appreciate that!
@yusufabubakr3608
@yusufabubakr3608 2 года назад
If you want your lover to come back to you and stay forever💯💯
@yusufabubakr3608
@yusufabubakr3608 2 года назад
Wh'stapp me💯💯
@yusufabubakr3608
@yusufabubakr3608 2 года назад
+2348110501742⏯⏯💕💕💕💕⏯️⏯️
@kellyparadis1039
@kellyparadis1039 2 года назад
Truth. Proud of you
@christinelynn2577
@christinelynn2577 2 года назад
I was meant to see this because I’m struggling even though I’m really trying and taking the right steps.
@MeetStephanSpeaks
@MeetStephanSpeaks 2 года назад
🙏
@outsidethebox8406
@outsidethebox8406 2 года назад
Praying things get easier for you...
@christinelynn2577
@christinelynn2577 2 года назад
@@outsidethebox8406 thank you so much
@ambiecats6189
@ambiecats6189 2 года назад
I feel ya Christine. Its been since April for me and I could cry at the drop of a hat. Not sure if its because of him or my hormones. Lol.. Think its the fact of everything I put in it. I didn't get it back not all anyway. Like Stephan said it wasn't even about the sex because it wasnt great I must say. All about him. 🙄
@christinelynn2577
@christinelynn2577 2 года назад
@@ambiecats6189 yeah it’s honestly the most difficult breakup. We definitely had a spiritual connection and even tho it’s over I’ll always love him. I do wish him well with everything. I’m ready for my peace so I can find my true love.
@taneciadavis6970
@taneciadavis6970 2 года назад
He May Not Have Everythang You Wanted..... But He Has Everythang You Need.... This video was 100% straight Facts and 100% on point !!
@MeetStephanSpeaks
@MeetStephanSpeaks 2 года назад
❤ 🙂 Thank you for watching I appreciate your feedback and be sure to share so that others can receive love and healing!
@shanyiataylor3223
@shanyiataylor3223 2 года назад
Man I’m so hurt🚶🏽‍♀️🖤💔
@user-pd4zr4rb9c
@user-pd4zr4rb9c 10 месяцев назад
"In your Spirit you know you don't belong there." I DON'T WANT A "SPIRITUAL" Connection with anyone again. My "Spiritual" Connection is for me. Anything that my Spiritual "eyes" come in to play lets me know something is wrong.
@annywalessa6433
@annywalessa6433 2 года назад
Point 5 resonates so much with me. "He treated me so much better than the others...but the bar was set low! Ouch. Praying God for discernement to avoid misinterpreting Point 7. Thank you Stephan. Stay blessed 🙌
@marymitchell6494
@marymitchell6494 2 года назад
This was so good! Thank you Stephan.. You put to voice so many of the underlying issues that I can identify that I've been struggling with in trying to get over my x. Its been almost 2 years, 2 very painful years for me. But I know at the core this man is no good for me and would likely do me much harm and cause me much pain and suffering. After watching this video, I'm realizing that my attachment to him stems from these other deeply rooted underlying issues and have little to nothing to do with the man himself. This is freedom for me. Thank you so much!
@virgiltheodore4206
@virgiltheodore4206 2 года назад
My God Stephan! What are you? Psychic? This hits different. How are you able to tell my truth? God bless you 🙏 I always knew why but having someone else explain it and be so spot-on, is everything! Thank you 😊
@MeetStephanSpeaks
@MeetStephanSpeaks 2 года назад
My pleasure ❤
@lisaj3639
@lisaj3639 2 года назад
So true!
@Carleen02
@Carleen02 2 года назад
Very true
@swtladysoul7339
@swtladysoul7339 2 года назад
Truly appreciate everything you pour out for us subscribers! Glad I found your channel a year ago and still here for healing. Love this journey 💯🙏💪🥂👌☺️
@aS-qu1vp
@aS-qu1vp 2 года назад
I cant stop thinking about him bc at the end of the day we were friends. Talked every day but he projected his interturmoil onto me. He broke me emotionally. Letting go and walking away was necessary
@keeyahnacaver6411
@keeyahnacaver6411 Год назад
This literally planted my feet on the path to be free! Thank you Stephan. Thank you God for using him as a vessel. I feel so much lighter when I understand the root cause of life’s situations… Thanks again 🙏🏽❤️
@CobaltLobo
@CobaltLobo 2 года назад
I know I've said this about your other videos but man, I keep coming back to yours cause you're so good at laying out the reality of it may not work but it also MIGHT. giving that message of hope, whether it's for ourselves, for the future of being back with our partner (like my case- Definitely feel like its right person, wrong time), or being with someone else. You state it all in such a way that makes sense and word it in such a mindful and deep way, where it doesn't sound like all these other cliche surface level BS relationship coaches that talk out of their ass for views or subscribers. You're a genuine one dude and I can't thank you enough for how much you've helped me. I'm gonna keep watching your videos to help me through this break up and keep working to better myself and have faith that me and my previous partner will do the healing work that must be done for ourselves and hopefully ultimately for each other and will be together again one day soon. We're both still madly in love, just have a ton of baggage and personal issues to work through....❤ keeping the faith.
@maryamadamu2636
@maryamadamu2636 2 года назад
I can recommend you to (Mr Ose )who was able to bring back my ex husband and it works, I believe he can solve your relationship problems.......
@maryamadamu2636
@maryamadamu2636 2 года назад
Whatsazzz him👇👇👇
@tishasherman9030
@tishasherman9030 Год назад
I liked point 7, he has cross your path so you can see what out there waiting for you! He was everything I loved, hard working man, good morals, love family, loved his mother, love taking care of his home and I loved his funny looking face, true connection but it wasn't our time 😢 💔 thank you LORD for decerment
@astridhanl4861
@astridhanl4861 10 месяцев назад
You can't imagine how much your clips, also this one, about break ups and getting over break ups resonates and helps me. It's such a huge support to have something like this on my side, when during a break up or after sometimes you're so overwhelmed and really unsure and insecure if you're doing the right thing for being happy in the long run. Being healthy in all aspects. I am struggling to step back from a real connection, but the timing ain't right. There is so much commitment and live bit we both need to work on aspects of our life's on our own. And still I am attached and grieving for the break up... Trying to find the right balance to stay connected and also healing. It's a trial and error thing.. It's hard and there's a lot of hope that I will find the right way. And your clips help me a lot with That. Thank you so much
@narviaflournoy3869
@narviaflournoy3869 2 года назад
Thank you for opening my eyes, defining strict structure, boundaries and what steps to take moving forward IN a health relationship looks like !! 🌃🌇🙏
@MeetStephanSpeaks
@MeetStephanSpeaks 2 года назад
Glad I could help!
@sassygal4727
@sassygal4727 Год назад
I absolutely have mad respect for your candor and sincerity. I came across this and I really needed to hear this today. 😢 It does hurt. Thank you for all you do
@Tonilyn13
@Tonilyn13 2 года назад
You are truly walking in your calling. This message came at the right time. Helped me to understand why I couldn't move on and now that I do understand my emotions are no longer governing over me. You are a God sent for us woman! God Bless you my Brotha!
@joebobbitt7331
@joebobbitt7331 2 года назад
It's been a week from a 10 year relationship...moving on so I can get who is really for me is the best thing you said. You were on point about everything thank you!
@MeetStephanSpeaks
@MeetStephanSpeaks 2 года назад
I'm sorry to hear about your breakup and I pray that you heal from all that you have been through and receive the man who is truly best for you, the man God has for you!
@joyjessica1774
@joyjessica1774 2 года назад
hello friend, do you wish to manifest your ex back or someone you loved dearly??💕💕💕
@joyjessica1774
@joyjessica1774 2 года назад
I can recommend you to father EDIALE his spells and manifestations are the best 💯💯💯💯💕💕💕
@joyjessica1774
@joyjessica1774 2 года назад
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@joyjessica1774
@joyjessica1774 2 года назад
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@ymiranda13
@ymiranda13 2 года назад
This really hit home for me. Thank you. Love your channel and your wisdom.
@RhondaR4
@RhondaR4 2 года назад
WOW WOW WOW!! CONFIRMATION! I know GOD is using you to teach me! Just yesterday I said in conversation with THE LORD I do deserve better and I will receive better if it’s from GOD. I instantly became nervous and overwhelmed! All I ever wanted and still want is to feel loved. I DON’T care about material things.💯
@Mekia-hr8qh
@Mekia-hr8qh 2 года назад
I had a conversation with God yesterday also . When I saw this video I was like Wow Thank you God
@MeetStephanSpeaks
@MeetStephanSpeaks 2 года назад
Thank you for sharing, I appreciate your feedback.
@ambiecats6189
@ambiecats6189 2 года назад
I think thats what most of us want. I could care less about stuff either. Just want the feeling of being loved and safe. Not too much to ask I don't think. 💐
@micheleprice9771
@micheleprice9771 2 года назад
@@ambiecats6189 AMEN! SO TRULY RIGHT! GREAT INSPIRING AMAZING ENLIGHTENING WORDS OF WISDOM! GOD BLESS US ALL! GOD LOVES US ALL! SELF LOVE! BELOVED! LET YR LIGHT 4EVER SHINE BRIGHT! GOD IS WORKIN IT OUT! ON HIS GOD GIVEN RIGHT TIME! HOLD ON TO GOD ALWAYS! PRAY OFTEN AND DAILY TO GOD ALWAYS! GOD IS OUR EVERYTHING! GOD CAN HANDLE ANYTHING! GOD HAS US COVERED! GOD IS ALWAYS WITH US! GOD WILL NEVER LEAVE U NOR FORSAKE U! GLORY TO GOD ALMIGHTY! GOD WILL SEE US THRU ALL THINGS IN YR LIFE RIGHT NOW AND ALWAYS! TELL THE LORD THANK U FOR THIS BLESSED TODAY! TELL THE LORD THANK U FOR EVERYONE IN YR LIFE RIGHT NOW AND ALWAYS! BE GRATEFUL AND THANKFUL FOR ALL THINGS IN YR LIFE AND FOR EVERYONE IN YR LIFE RIGHT NOW AND ALWAYS! SMILE ALWAYS!( EVEN IN STORMS THAT U GO THRU!) PEACE AND HARMONY TO EVERYONE IN THE WORLD RIGHT NOW! YES INDEED! ENOUGH SAID! THATS IT! SEPT 2021
@michellesimpson4093
@michellesimpson4093 2 года назад
Thanks so much this has truly helped me gain clarity! You are such a wonderful blessing
@ecaldwell9
@ecaldwell9 Год назад
I’ve been watching u for about 2 yrs Stephan. Didn’t know that u were divinely guided until now. It explains why the advice is so good. I’m glad that you’re a believer & using your gift to help heal the world. Thx U.
@womenwhodate7643
@womenwhodate7643 2 года назад
Great content as always, so honest and different angles. Keep it up ❤️
@MeetStephanSpeaks
@MeetStephanSpeaks 2 года назад
Thank you! Will do!
@melr1280
@melr1280 2 года назад
I really needed this 🙏 i run his business that i helped him start up. Having to be the one thats in constant communication with him kills me. Watching him move on so easily while im still struggling. But i agree that what hurts the most is the attachment to him and everything i put into the relationship (and the business, with hopes of it being "ours" in the future), not really about him cause in all honesty i knew he wouldn't be the one for a while but kept holding on. When i tell you this man hit every single point on im going through, this man seriously hit every single point of what im going through.
@MeetStephanSpeaks
@MeetStephanSpeaks 2 года назад
I'm happy this has been helpful to you and I pray that you heal from all that you have been through!
@thisvetwantsyoutoknow
@thisvetwantsyoutoknow 2 года назад
You are stronger than you realize! I couldn't imagine not being about to cut an ex off to help get over them. Stephan nailed this list. It was hard to hear but it was needed.
@melr1280
@melr1280 2 года назад
@@thisvetwantsyoutoknow Thank you so much! It definitely sucks but I agree, needed to hear it. Gotta REPLAY to it sticks 😂🤭
@aze7324
@aze7324 2 года назад
Just a question why would you help him continue running it
@melr1280
@melr1280 2 года назад
@@aze7324 maybe cause im weak 😂 ...but for real no one out there will pay me what im currently making with him. And im investing most of my income on something til the end of the year. So ywah im trying to set myself up so i can leave. Its been so many times that i will judt break down cause i cant just up and leave.
@veedimples1
@veedimples1 2 года назад
The timing!!! This message was literally for me. Thank you, Stephan. Just yesterday, I was talking to my therapist, trying to figure out why I can't seem to let men go, even after I find out they are not what I want for me. I'll tell them I don't want this but will think about them every day, crave their attention, etc. We could not come up with an answer, but some of what you mentioned here makes sooo much sense. You are a blessing
@MeetStephanSpeaks
@MeetStephanSpeaks 2 года назад
I'm happy this has been helpful to you don't forget to share so that others can receive love and healing!
@gorgeous183
@gorgeous183 2 года назад
You took me with the last one. Because I need to let go, I’m struggling with recognizing if it really was a genuine connection. On another note, I felt when you said that I may not have what I want, but I may have what I need. Made me reanalyze myself!
@teabiscuits1611
@teabiscuits1611 Год назад
This gave me a moment of clarity. 🙏 The investment, the fantasy, the desire, the hope. Jeez. I give so much. Because that’s how I feel a relationship should be. All in, love, commitment, support, showing up. It’s how my 15 year relationship was before him. Our attachment styles are repelling each other.
@arundhatibanerji8317
@arundhatibanerji8317 2 года назад
Greetings from India 🇮🇳 I'm so glad I found your channel. I broke up recently with my boyfriend of almost three years and he was my best friend for three years before the relationship. Need less to say I'm heartbroken however your videos are a God send. Thank you for talking facts in such a detailed manner. You have been a great source of comfort and wisdom for me at this unhappy time of my life. I can't get enough of your videos.
@Cora_is_Thriving
@Cora_is_Thriving 2 года назад
I just can’t let go of my ex🥺, I have never love that deep before. I have never had an issue to get over an ex, it’s been months. I don’t want to accept the fact that it’s over even if I was the one who initiated the break up. He played so many mind games, he put me into depression. I had to walk away for my own sake. I’m so glad that I have found this video.
@anaj7214
@anaj7214 Год назад
Hi have you got over him? 😔🥺 I really need hope rn
@fabiennetoko7612
@fabiennetoko7612 Год назад
So much truth in this.I have never cried during a RU-vid video,but this video is really speaking on what I have endured with both of my daughters father. Especially the saying of know when to let them go asap when you notice things are going wrong.
@deidra8952
@deidra8952 2 года назад
OMG!!!!! Stephaaaan!!! I promise EVERYTHING you spoke of was my life with my ex! I wished I had known about you when I was struggling to understand and let go of that narcissist. Thank you for your openness to provide information to open our eyes to avoid toxic relationships. You are amazing! Blessings to you💕.
@thisvetwantsyoutoknow
@thisvetwantsyoutoknow 2 года назад
I watched this twice so that it wouldn't sting so much to hear it the second time. I needed to hear this today and it addressed all of the reasons I have ever struggled to get over someone and why I'm currently struggling. It also helped me understand why unhealthy attachments develop and why situationships are bad ideas. Thank you ❤ You were made for this. Thanks for helping me so much over the past year. I know he's out there, I just need to pour into myself first and prepare.
@MeetStephanSpeaks
@MeetStephanSpeaks 2 года назад
I'm happy this has been helpful to you don't forget to share so that others can receive love and healing!
@nadinemelameka2684
@nadinemelameka2684 2 года назад
Love me too, I actually took a piece of paper 📝 to write word down so I can remember
@fatimatubah15
@fatimatubah15 Год назад
The hardest reason amongst the 7 reasons you mention is when you have a genuine love for him. It's really hard to let go of a man you genuinely love.
@lupitadiaz1932
@lupitadiaz1932 2 года назад
I love the way you explain things Stephan !!! 👍🏽 Direct to the point . Easy to understand with real empathy grace and compassion. Very thankful for your gift to people . I sense you as a honest man . God bless you 💜💜💜
@cyndigooch1162
@cyndigooch1162 2 года назад
Thank you very much for this helpful and insightful video and I'm aware that it's an old one, but want to mention that it's extremely important to grieve, which involves feeling pain and crying a lot at first, hence why many prefer to use distraction instead. I've noticed that people are often advised to keep busy by well-meaning friends etc too! I've also found that doing healing work on childhood wounds assists in the process, which is the main reason why I'm at the stage where it doesn't matter if I never see the last highly narcissistic man I got caught up with ever again. I've learnt that I didn't love him like I thought either, as he wasn't genuine and admitted that he was only using me and didn't love me in the end. I'd been able to clearly see that he wasn't capable of loving anyone, including himself, when he stayed at my place and didn't have anything to give anyway, so it wasn't personal, even though it sure felt like it. ❤
@fateemahsaniminkaila2479
@fateemahsaniminkaila2479 2 года назад
I can recommend you to (Mr Ose )who was able to bring back my ex husband and it works, I believe he can solve your relationship problems....
@fateemahsaniminkaila2479
@fateemahsaniminkaila2479 2 года назад
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@tubadurantdoda
@tubadurantdoda 2 года назад
Wow! I feel so heard! I felt like you read my thoughts throughout the whole video. You just touched every single detail that's been going on on my mind with great advice. My husband recently left me out of the blue, despite me sacrificing a lot and giving lots of time and energy, so both in shock and despair, i still try to get over the trauma and this video is really helpful!
@user-ux5uz7wi6o
@user-ux5uz7wi6o Год назад
I hope you will heal soon
@danijasthestylist1991
@danijasthestylist1991 2 года назад
Yes great points,definitely needed this extra push Thanks so much Stephan you’ve done it again😩🙌🏾💪🏾🙏🏾
@MeetStephanSpeaks
@MeetStephanSpeaks 2 года назад
❤ 🙂 Thank you for watching I appreciate your feedback!
@atention33
@atention33 2 года назад
Brotha.... Your 🎁 is a blessing.. The big Brotha I know I need. I pray as much as you pour out, you are being poured into. #4 is my true battle.. The struggle is real.
@MeetStephanSpeaks
@MeetStephanSpeaks 2 года назад
I hope this has been helpful to you and I pray you are able to keep moving in faith 🙏
@Magstar757
@Magstar757 2 года назад
This video really hit home. Thank you. I know I will emerge stronger and better after this and it's a blessing.
@colleendaniels6884
@colleendaniels6884 2 года назад
I really needed this! God led me to your channel and all your videos have blessed me but this one came at a time when I really needed this. Please keep letting the Lord use you 🙏🏽
@LaTrav08
@LaTrav08 2 года назад
I really needed to hear this today. God does not want me to settle and who he sends may not be in the package I want but he will be everything I need🙏🏾
@MeetStephanSpeaks
@MeetStephanSpeaks 2 года назад
Thank you for sharing, I appreciate that ❤️
@Princessfrmalmighty
@Princessfrmalmighty 2 года назад
Yes amen I have this same mind set
@samranabraham1843
@samranabraham1843 2 года назад
I can recommend you to (Mr Ose )who was able to bring back my ex husband and it works, I believe he can solve your relationship problems.......
@samranabraham1843
@samranabraham1843 2 года назад
Whatsazzz him👇👇👇
@samranabraham1843
@samranabraham1843 2 года назад
十13609219711♻️♻️🎦🚻识你
@melissasantangelo7524
@melissasantangelo7524 2 года назад
I was so in my feelings and came across this video you are spot on spot on!!!! Got me out of my funk - I spent years on the siutaionship as you call it - I agree 💯 with you - great information
@yalvia
@yalvia 2 года назад
I can't wait until i heal. Thank you for this message.
@MeetStephanSpeaks
@MeetStephanSpeaks 2 года назад
I pray that you heal from all that yo have been through 🙏
@yalvia
@yalvia 2 года назад
@@MeetStephanSpeaks Thank you. I'm reading your heartbreak book. 😊
@MeetStephanSpeaks
@MeetStephanSpeaks 2 года назад
@UCRZ_o5ilqAK8oZs54GM%F0%9F%99%8FH24g I hope it will give you the clarity that you need and you will be able to heal from all that you have been through!
@landers127ify
@landers127ify 2 года назад
Same here. It's long over due for me
@qwkslvr586
@qwkslvr586 2 года назад
It's been six years since my ex, never have I ever heard of anything like what you've said in this video. Your words are profoundly impactful and bathed in wisdom. Thank you for helping to provide insight as to why this past situation has been so difficult to move on from.
@fateemahsaniminkaila2479
@fateemahsaniminkaila2479 2 года назад
I can recommend you to (Mr Ose )who was able to bring back my ex husband and it works, I believe he can solve your relationship problems....
@fateemahsaniminkaila2479
@fateemahsaniminkaila2479 2 года назад
十13609219711♻️♻️🎦🚻识你...
@jkalous100
@jkalous100 2 года назад
Exactly the message I needed to hear! Thank you!
@sctc7102
@sctc7102 11 месяцев назад
Wow, this hit home for me. The moment you said, You’ve invested all these years it’s hard to let go, it’s not the love for him it’s the time invested. For me is the idea of him. The memories of those few good memories but looking back I evaded them red flags. A 15 year marriage. 17 years invested. Thank you so much for these words. Also the sex talk wow, spot on in everything you said. Sexual attachment not because of the act but the intimacy/ sacrifice. Praise God for coming across your channel.
@teresadiaz4542
@teresadiaz4542 Год назад
So thankful for this video. I’m not even finished but it’s spoken so much truth to me already. Literally would cook every day in hopes he sees I’m good for him but like I never thought about it he was good for me. I thought he liked me a lot and valued me but he didn’t. I let the bare minimum reel me in. We live and we learn I guess.
@amab1853
@amab1853 2 года назад
This video was much needed and came right on time. You are right, Stephan. For me, the challenge with moving forward was that I kept holding onto hope. Because I kept believing that he would change and value me and rebuild things to be more positive. But I realized the reality was that he did not treat me the way I deserve. As a result, I have to remember the bad, and remember why I have to walk away
@yvettewilder4425
@yvettewilder4425 2 года назад
You expressed my sentiments. Coming from a woman who was married 26 years.
@jahnaesjourney4752
@jahnaesjourney4752 2 года назад
Yes i feel the same way 😩
@llainascurls3381
@llainascurls3381 2 года назад
I was there too. I kept trying to forgive all the while hoping he would return to the man I fell in love with. The truth is I fell in love with his representative and after a while the waters became so muddy, I could not find me anymore. After years of investing I finally walked away. It was not an easy decision, but I had to finally start loving me more than him.
@christianamatthew9213
@christianamatthew9213 2 года назад
I needed to hear this thanks so much. God bless you
@MeetStephanSpeaks
@MeetStephanSpeaks 2 года назад
I'm happy this has been helpful to you may God bless you as well and be sure to share so that others can receive love and healing ❤
@sarahsanders5549
@sarahsanders5549 2 года назад
Absolutely loved this video . Everything u spoke about hit straight home. Breaking up with a person ur still in love with is very difficult, but allowing yourself to go through the grieving process and acknowledging ur true feelings and connection with that person makes it a little easier to start healing. Love all ur advice.
@maryamadamu2636
@maryamadamu2636 2 года назад
I can recommend you to (Mr Ose )who was able to bring back my ex husband and it works, I believe he can solve your relationship problems.......
@maryamadamu2636
@maryamadamu2636 2 года назад
Whatsazzz him👇👇👇
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