HOW TO LIVE A SOFTER LIFE (PRACTICAL TIPS) 

“A soft Life” 1. Rejected struggle love 2.Making Good decisions 3.Moving away from toxic people 4. Throw money at your problems 5. Ask for help 6.Take breaks , rest.. 7. 8 hours of sleep 8. Have a routine , schedule 9 . Living intentionally 10.getting dressed up Be happy for others Your Time Will Come ❤️ Hotel music 🎵 Jesus loves you …..

I know your channel is geared towards women. But you have gotten me through some hard times Breeny. Love you!💕

I’ve lived my entire life with a poverty mindset. And you’re right every financial problem I’ve had in life worked out in someway! Appreciate the advice!

One of my favorite things to do is take myself on dates. I start with flowers, a long hot bath, a delicious meal (even one that I prepare while I listen to music and drink a glass of wine), I hug myself, kiss my reflection and sing “here and now” by Luther Vandross to my reflection, looking myself in the eyes the entire time.

I adore that you pointed out the difference between a SOFT life compared to a LUXURY life. Hopefully this will stop people from only thinking their life is worth living once they’ve achieved that level of success. A soft life is already tangible to you, you just have to activate it.

My mom is one of these people that seems everything soooooo hard to do, to solve. And unfortunately I learned to be like this too, everything stresses me out, every little thing seems to be soooo big, soooo difficult, but I wanna change it. I wanna have a stress free life, a softer life. Thanks for this video.

Such a good reminder when you said, “PAY THAT PARKING TICKET”. I got outstanding medical bills that I haven’t dealt with. Went straight on the phone to apply for financial assistance. So good to remember that we don’t need to stress over things! Get it done little by little and stay on top of it! 💖 thanks for the message girl UPDATE!! The medical bills I had were over 25k in debt, I had no insurance, I was working a minimum wage job. After I applied I waited two months. The letter came back saying I owe now owe ZERO DOLLARS!! I have a huge weight lifted off my shoulders now! God is good!!! 💛

I be throwing money at my “problems” my whole life 😅 …it never seemed to be an issue when my parents did it, so I did it too and like you said, you ALWAYS get the money back because God ALWAYS provides 😌

Yessss this outfit and the couch is giving luxury

I've started going to bed by 8:45 PM each evening since March 12. I feel so rested, and I love it! I set my alarm for 5 am.

My life is so serene it’s almost scary 🥴🤣 literally filled with peace. Being comfortable living in peace is important too. Self destruction and addicted to the dopamine drama and chaos brings is real!

Who else drops everything to watch a new Breenly Lee video? 🙋🏻‍♀️ 🙌

Breeny. I don’t often buy nice, fancy things for myself. But I’m getting the satin pink jammies I’ve been eyeing up because I’m worthy of spending MY money on silky, beautiful things.

I like the part of the abundance mindset. Most people have a poor mindset. I'm not saying be frivolous, but enjoy your money and spread your money. By paying people to do things you need you are creating jobs and money for others as well.

Okay!! I didn’t know there was a term for what I was doing lol. I’m currently working part time as a break from the corporate burnout. It’s remote so I’m working from overseas. My family doesn’t really understand why I’m not grinding while I’m still young, and I try to explain that I’m just trying to make my life easy, and that I’ve hustled enough. And now I have a term for it. Thanks Breeny!

I agree with a lot of these tips, especially the one about having a routine to add structure to your day. I just had that epiphany these last few months lol Because I am not tied to a 9-5 job, I just started doing things whenever since I didn't feel pressured by time. Pretty soon I started feeling like I couldn't get anything done because I had all these thoughts of what I needed and wanted to do listed in my mind with no kind of organization. I realized I had to be more intentional with my days.

Yes, it's lovely to have silk pjs touch my skin, but *how beautiful it is to notice when the sun is shining and you just stop for a moment to really feel it on your face.* Loved this video and reminders that we don't have to wait to truly enjoy our lives. Let's live beautifully and let's not get into debt doing it 💸

I love how you mentioned rejecting struggle love! I recently learned that part of rejecting struggle love means rejecting watching things that make it a source of entertainment (crazy “funny” story times on RU-vid about a messy ex, trashy/messy tv show moments, song lyrics etc), and that’s really helped me repent (‘turn around’) my way of thinking in this regard. Also sidebar: I love you so much Breeny! Your transparency and wisdom as well as you detailing the realities of your walk with God have helped me through so much over the past 5 years! I’ve been watching you since your Soul Surgery series as well as your celibacy talks, and your most recent videos have changed my life once again all the more so. You are a blessing, may God continue to hold you close to Him, blossom you, grow you in divine wisdom, and help you wax stronger and stronger in Him in Jesus Mighty Name Amen!!!! Love always, Molayo

Yes Breeny, we all can have a soft life, no need to be super wealthy to achieve it.

Have An Abundant Mindset, Constantly. 💎💎💎

This is a topic that we should teach in school, instead I think the reverse is taught to us. Struggle, work extremely hard with no breaks or little returns, put yourself last, and love people through their toxicity even if it's making you mentally unwell. BEAUTIFUl video!

Breeny I can't wait to see your solo trips!!! Im 32 and planning 4/6 weeks around California on my own this year. People are like 'OMG!! How can you want to travel alone? Aren't you scared?? Can't you wait till you're not single??' 😩😩😩 I'm honestly so fed up of other people's opinions. We only get one life, we need to get out and do what we want to do, even if it's on your own!! Anyway, can't wait to see your adventures when you go!! Brilliant video - AS ALWAYS xx

You’re literally like the older sister I never had, already love this series! Also this fit and set up is a 10/10 from me 😍 love it thanks Bree ♥️

"Throw money at your problem" is my biggest takeaway. thank you so much Breeny!!

Thank you for this Breeny! I think we are on the same season right now. It's been 4 months since I broke up with my boyfriend. Moving on is really tough. But I thank the Lord that He is giving me some time for myself. The relationship really emptied me out. It took a toll in my life. Now I'm in phase if peace because of God. This video helps me a lot! I'll try to travel more ❤️

nah bc i feel so much more calm when i sleep in, I've structured my life where no one suffers if I fall short/ overwork myself and need rest

This! I’ve been living this soft life for a bit now and it’s so freaking amazing. I thank God everyday. To be able to live my life abundantly is better than words can explain. I wake up every single day and choose how I want to live my life. When I said I no longer was apart of the 24/7 grind/all gas no breaks culture I meant it. I love living with intention and in love and grace. I don’t struggle I work smart not hard. It all just looks and feel well on me. I’m wishing that for others too, thanks Breeny cheers🥂to a soft life 💓💓💓

I love the all white lounge set 💋

Enjoying The Small Things With Intention. Love In The Moment: (Church, Dinner with Friends, Day Cruise Getaway!) Your Life Will Be More Happier, More Fulfilling.💎💎💎

i think the maternal instincts in women make so many want to be praised for being the one who tamed the lion. but we lose ourselves at the end of the process, if we ever do succeed even. A 'soft life' is a conscious attempt to stay with you, love you, do you, fill up your tank and also re-evaluate where you are, who you are with and what's next. unfortunately we cannot remain there, because living is an active process. Soft life is self love. thanks for this one Bree. lovely PJs, they are indeed soft on the eyes😂

My roots are in Ukraine so my heart has been breaking and to top it off, I'm one week into a break up with someone who deserted me in my worst crisis. I needed this video Breeny ❤️ please post a part two. Especially when the world is so cruel that's when we need to be soft to ourselves.

When it is right it is light!!!! Struggle love is no love at all. Amazing video!

Ooof the ask for help one was the message I needed. My fiancé is always trying to help me, whether it’s big things like finances (he has a steady job, I’m freelance) or even carrying my shopping and I never want to let him help. Thanks for the reminder that it’s not a bad thing to ask for or accept help - it just makes things easier! 💖

Throw money at good shoes. That's been my lesson this year, cheap shoes break fast you end up buying 2, cost the same as buying it better quality 1x that'll last longer in the first place. #softlife lol

This is my ultimate goal. I come from a very aggressive background. It’s tough to get rid of the tough cast

Do your hair, Do your makeup, even if you are not going anywhere! Get Dressed Up Anyway. You will feel better, more happier, more together, you will feel good as a woman, even if it's the weekend! 💎💎💎

Just has to pause the video to let you know you look supper gorgeous.😍🔥🔥🔥🤞🏾 definitely theeee black barbie ✨love it sis

Bre : *stop going to bed at 3am when you have work at 7am* Why are you shouting at me😂😂😂

I’m sitting on my white couch with my iced matcha and PJ’s , enjoying watching you !!

Im sat here in Nandos on my own listening to every word while I eat , thankyou girl I needed this ❤️💋

I love this location, it’s so lovely to see you relaxed on your sofa ! Makes me feel like we’re chatting as mates haha

Less Stress, Pay Someone To Do, Eliminate Your Poverty Mindset. Whatever You Spend Don't Worry, The Money You Spend Is Coming Back! 💎💎💎

So good that someone actually thought to give us practical advice on how to live a calm life. Like, whoa, I've just exit chaos. Now, what do I do, because I only know chaos?!

Choose The People To Be In Your Inner Circle, Be Picky About It. 💎💎💎

Omg, this is amazing. Breeny you should write a self help book for all of us,. I would be buying it. You are so amazing, comforting and totally inspiring. Love your PJ's so glam.

Needed this, as a Sickle Cell survivor thank you 😘👑

I realized struggle love can be in any type of relationships even friendships and other relationships. My handyman has been trying to flip it and break me down to date me. I found myself having to chase him down to keep the appointments. He sends me all this dating coach mess. I'm like I need a light put up. I just fired him and got someone else. These guys can be sneaky.

I feel that with the getting dressed part. For me it's more of doing something to make me feel productive. Doing my make up is a step already so if I can do that and get dressed up then I feel like I'm already on a roll, I can do anything!

Have A Plan! Know What You Are Doing Tomorrow, Next Week, Next Month, Know What You Are Doing By The End of The Year. 💎💎💎

Reject Struggle Love At All Costs, Brilliant Advice. 💎💎💎

Throw Money At Your Problems 💸💸💸 Spend The Money You Are Working So Hard To Earn. Invest In Yourself! The Money Is Gonna Come Back.💎💎💎

Gurl I just discovered you, and I swear I watched like 4 videos in a row hahaha. I think the main reason is because you talk to us like a friend, you project confidence and draw our attention with your contagious energy. New subscriber here! ❤️

I don't watch the news either. I stopped many years ago. Not with my mental health diagnosis. Currently, I'm amazed that I'm actually doing do well mentally despite, Covid/Ukraine/Energy prices/low income.

I needed this so bad! First off, I loooooove the way you express these ideas and thoughts. But I am terrible with imposter syndrome. I grew up poor but I have worked my butt off all of my life and my brain knows I can afford things. But I have so much guilt thinking, who am I to spend what I learned was “frivolous” growing up. Very rarely I will make an “extravagant” purchase like my recent Tiffany’s “divorce” ring to replace the engagement ring I was in love with looking at all of the time because I just felt it was so pretty. I stalked the Tiffany’s ring for 2 years. I had the money the whole time but I didn’t finally buy it until I started working a second job. I’m in love with the new ring because I BOUGHT it, ME…and it’s so pretty. But when you say how you know have the money, stop making things hard (which I do), have an abundance mindset (which I don’t), you really hit home. So thank you so so much.

Your not lying … I’d be happier if everything was free I don’t even treat myself but I’m signing up for OT every week 🤦🏽‍♀️

I just realized I’ve been living a soft life since about 2016.

Hey Breeny!❤ I'm a 17 year old girl and I am absolutely inspired by your videos.I cannot explain it. You are such an inspiration🙈 I just wanted to let you know how gorgeous you are❤ love love love ya!!

Absolutely LOVE THE SETUP, Breeny!!!! And this topic was right on time!!!! No more struggle love and living a hard life! Soft life is the life for meeee!!!

Haven’t watched it yet but I already appreciate the video 😂

I really do desire a soft life and slow living but absolutely first I need to get my finances in order once I’m stable I really want ease and peace of mind love your videos

I think I smiled through most of this video,thanks, loved it! Felt like a lil girlie catch up chill session kinda vibeyness! You look and seem soo radiantly happy,it's beautiful!

Loved this! I felt like you were speaking directly to me. Lost my gran and I have been so lost feeling like nothing and this video cheered me up. I am about to start throwing money, reducing my stress, changing my wardrobe, being grateful for the people I have in my life who love me and I love them and resume living a soft life! Thank you ❤️

I loved this style of video THE VIBES IMMACULATE

YAAASSS, QUEEN! Live the blessed life, live the #SoftLife, and never hide your abundance, financial or otherwise. Love this!

I just want to thank you so much for your channel, videos, and your work. I am in the midst of a very tough breakup right now. And you’ve been reminding me that I can still build the life I want without anyone else. I will just nurture myself and everything else will follow.

This video is perfection♥️Such an amazing reminder to be gentle with ourselves and not to feel guilty for enjoying life. We can be so hard on ourselves and I can’t wait to embody being soft💕

Wow, I definitely enjoyed this video because I look up to you, from growing up poor to living the life of your dreams is beautiful. I also have faith that one day I'll be living the life of my dreams.

You look glowing and AMAZING Breeny!!!! God bless you!

just know when breeny post, i LISTEN!!!

I've discovered your channel at the beginning of the pandemic after graduating high school and you literally forming me to becoming the woman i need to be. So thank you for your wise words and everything!

Whewwww, I needed this! When I say this speaks volume especially for me a WOMAN OF COLOR! Baby, Im young and TIRED of living this hard life that I watched my mom, grandma, aunties, cousins, friends, etc, live. Most people think living a softer life means spending lots of money, like the luxury lifestyle is suggesting, but you hit every point exactly that it is NOT the same at all. Take a breath, love yourself, trust in GOD and cherish every bit of your life. Great content Breeny, as usual! 🤎

Good stuff Breeny. Your tips are amazing, as always your articulation and delivery is awesome. Here's to living a soft life!

You’re literally my new favorite chanel. I’ve only watched you for a week and I already feel better about myself and also left a f-boy that I knew wasnt good for me from the start. Love your videos❤️❤️

Thank you for all you do. In this world it can make you feel alone with your thoughts and feels and it nice to see a truly open hearted person that wants the best for all. Thank you Breeny

Thank you Breeny, I had a very stressful day, and watching this video already felt so relaxing. It was so soothing watching you. It's like I haven't seen this side of you before.

THANKS BREENY!!!! I always catch a nugget from you. Keep living and loving. God bless you.

You’re so beautiful Breeny. Thank you for all your videos and all the positivity you share ♥️

YES to throwing money at the problems! I'm always finding joy looking at my bank account with the money sitting there but CHIIILLLLD when I have to reach in there for a ticket or a minor inconvenience, I'm there fuming!

Will definitely be rewatching this as a reminder.... I get so overwhelmed by plenty tasks literally affecting my mental health Thanks for this ❤️

I'm currently going through a break up and I just want to tell you that your videos mean a lot to me. You've made this process so much easier for me and I honestly don't know where I'd be mentally without being able to watch your content when I'm feeling down. Thank you so much for what you do, you are truly making a difference ❤

Love everything about this video! Been heavy about this soft life only! Glad you touched that it doesn't mean purely luxury!!! This was well received. 👏🏿

The solo trip thing! Love this!

The hotel music is such a great tip on romanticized life ❤

I love this!!! I really needed this laid out for me. I finally have come to a place (not without hardwork) where I am no longer struggling to survive and am working on breaking that poverty mindset. I want to live a soft life. I am super creative and my husband encourages me but I kept finding I was having an inner struggle. These points will help me untangle that inner mess. Again, another awesome video Breeny! And you look on point in all your videos Soo pretty.

Yes ma'am, I definitely love this new setup. ❤️❤️❤️

That hotel music suggestion is brilliant ! The preview you shared even sparked something in me ✨ thank you. This video definitely made me subscribe

Breeny you look Gorgeous loving the Silk fur trim PJ's and best friend sofa scenery, i'm here for more sofa talks with Breeny *!!* Yes #softlife is just changing the mind to an abundant mind, no matter how much you give or spend you will lack nothing because you are living a abundant mindset. x

Omg, this is great advice, love, love this video Breeny Lee, wishing you a continued Soft Life. 💎💎💎

Thank you so much Breeny, for the value you share. Love from Nigeria❤️

this was amazing! super enjoyable listening while taking a walk. would appreciate a part II💗

Thank you Breeny! Always giving the best advice❤️

Omg yes, this is a whole vibe! You look beautiful as always!!

I want more! Oh Breeny, girl you got me hooked waiting for more of this. Load it up soon please.

Love your setup, love the feathers 😍

Yesssss to all of this ♥️ Soft life is definitely feeling peace

I’m loving this

there is truly no creator like you. you're incredible

YAAAAASSS. I am so here for this. We NEED to stop glamourizing struggle

I’m after a messy break up and every day I watch your videos whenever I feel sad or depressed. U have no idea how much it helps

The thumbnail is everything!!! 😍😍👏🏼 THE FITTTTTT!!!