"But you get ready, you get all dressed up, To go nowhere in particular, Back to work or the coffee shop, It don't matter because it's enough, To be young and in love" (Love, Lana del Rey)
“Working hard” also does not resonate with me. It almost feels like it’s a bad thing to admit in this hustle / girl boss culture, like it’s admitting to laziness or a lack of ambition. At my job people are always trying to encourage me to push myself, get out of my comfort zone and climb the ladder… but I have zero interest in that. I want to do my job and have a great work / life balance! I want to take my time; I don’t want to be stressed, and I don’t want to put in any more effort than I need to. I care far more about my personal life, and that’s what my job allows me to enjoy. I’m all for that soft professional life!
I never go shopping or out to eat. I don't necessarily have the money to. But I do stop and get myself a coffee or a matcha a few times a week before going in to work and lately I've been feeling ultra guilty about it but the other half of me says Hey this gives you something to look forward to, it brings you joy and and is one of the very few things you do for yourself. Don't feel guilty! Then I see this video and just knew it was a sign. I will 100% keep buying the iced latte ❤
oh, that's so me... I used to save joy so much, but today I continue encouraging me to stop it and kinda am better at this. thanks for this video! love your way of thinking and presenting your ideas and opinion!
Alessia🥰, I have precisely the same reasoning around speciality coffee shops. I also love being in beautiful design places. In that type of set-up my soul and my mind become elevated, inspired for life. It's almost like the best thoughts come hand in hand with a high quality coffee and a great energy coffee shops. and it's priceless. It's precious. It's actually magical❤
9:40 gossip girl is truly my show...the character blair waldorf motivates me everyday to become better ! also I agree with your opinion about gilmore girls 🥰
you genuinely have such amazing energy like whenever i just feel super disconnected with everything watching your videos always make me feel so much better, you are seriously so so gorgeous n i appreciate you a bunch>_
I just found your channel and I have to say i felt good when that ended. I always watch shows in the morning but today I wanted something different and I feel so refreshed.
I love your videos Alessia, I love the warm and kind-hearted community you are developing here 🫶 I wonder if you are thinking of doing any more meet ups? I think there was a picnic a while back which I was so disappointed to miss! I think with horror films for me, I have ADHD and anxiety so it provides stimulation sometimes when I'm bored, and also allows me to live vicariously through the character, which helps process my anxiety in a way !
