How To Love Without Losing Yourself | Eckhart Tolle Teachings 

For me and all the dark nights of the soul, since I left an unhealthy marriage 23yrs ago, I can confirm that the only love that fills the soul is unconditional love…it’s the flow of the universe. It does exist, it does not exist in the other ( although it can, if they work on their inner wounded child triggers…I often find myself in bliss and joy…took a long time to get there and you get a deep sense of “knowingness” that previously was not there…I don’t need “ another” to fulfill me…I can reach that love within me myself

Love is letting go, Love is forgiving, Love is non judgemental, Love is a reflection of you!

I am always astounded by his ability to translate truth into language

"When you no longer have a relationship with yourself, you are yourself. I am." Thank you.

To the person reading this message, I wish you great success, health, love and happiness........

Love and attachment (needing/thirsting/longing/craving/clinging) are two very different things. Love dissolves the ego and is a giving...attachment feeds the ego and is a taking.

Love is removing the barrier of your mind, and allowing your heart to express its true nature

For better or worse Eckhart changed my world. Still get lost from time to time. A lot easier now to bring myself out of thinking. Amazing how it can creep in. Love is not in the hand of others.

Doggies are always egoless and they know how to love and how to be loved. They have the most sincere eyes and loyal face on this earth. I have never had my own doggy but still, whenever I have a chance to get in touch with doggies around my place, I can feel their kindness and love.

What people usually call „love“ is mostly just ego-possessiveness and infatuation.

“When you realize how perfect everything is, you will tilt your head back and laugh at the sky.” - Buddha 💜 Heart-Based Manifestation RU-vidr

I love his explaination of transcend: "it doesnt mean that it excludes it or it comes to an end, it means it contains it but its much vaster"

You don't have to look for love when it's where your coming from.

This is the best definition of why love for a child is different. It's not just the emotion, it is because it is the window to what is possible when we see each other as presence and one.

Just listening to his voice has a huge relaxing effect😊🌹

”Happiness comes to you when you accept yourself the way you are, allow yourself to be you and, feel happy and satisfied as you stop depending on people or circumstances to define your own happiness.” - much love from a spiritual advisor

When you fall in love with the fullness of your being you begin to rise in love. ❤ Love all Serve all ❤

That's so funny with the voice of the mother. I've started speaking to myself in a very loving and humorous tone which is very unlike my mother's tone and it has really enriched my relationship with myself. And as myself I am enjoying loving my lover unconditionally freely and truly

I love this man he speaks words so true!!! The power of now changed my life thank you 🙏🏽

Now love is a pretty strong thing... for most people, it is already difficult enough not to "get lost" in the pull of much weaker distractions in day to day life

You can keep watching your pain and thoughts for the rest of your life, or you can actually end your emotional backlog by accepting and letting your feelings hurt you. Then the upset feelings and and noise in your head ends. Take the situations in your past (breakups, deaths, insults, people you are angry with), one at a time accept what happened and let the feelings hurt you... I suggest making such a session every day - for some this can take a long time... But it is the real solution.... I tried Eckhart's advice for years - its only works when you don't have much emotional backlog/debt.

I always had a very strong relationship with myself and recently I was feeling a little bit "strange" as I noticed that the relationship was no longer here. So I was not sure what was happening to me until I watch this video. It's always a blessing to hear the wisdom of God flowing through You. Thank you very much!

For me loving my self is to be compassionate with my self in every time I make a mistake and not blame my self for it,in other words I AM the consciousness being compassionate with my human self💙

Wishing you all a life full of happiness, light, love and abundance.

Gurdjieff describes ordinary love as being rooted in all things exterior and based on the temporary "feelings" of the moment whereas objective or divine love is perfect and forever and endless, without condition....working on oneself, wishing to find objective love or creating that within that represents divine love is a way not to lose oneself in all the mistakes and confusion as we seek love.... thank you so very much for this beautiful video Eckhart! 💞🕊🙏

Here are my 10 extra tips to INCREASE your daily manifestations that I’ve learned over the years..👇🏾 1. Practice gratitude every morning. When you wake up, list everything that you are grateful for and feel that gratitude in your core. Feel free to write things down in a journal so it is easy for you to remember. 2. Replace your negative thoughts with positive ones. Every time you feel a negative thought coming on, make a positive spin on it right away. 3. Take ownership for things that happen in your life. It's easy to blame others however you will feel much better when you realize that most issues stem from us. 4. ALWAYS believe that good things are about to happen. By being open to new possibilities you are inviting abundance into your life. 5. Remember that like attracts like so you get back whatever you put out, whether it is good or bad. So do good AND received good. 6. Meditate for five minutes a day. During this time focus on how you want your life to be; but place your focus on how you feel AND feel that feeling as if you have already accomplished those goals. 7. Step outside of your comfort zone. Stop playing it safe and make that decision to finally go for your dreams. 8. Focus on activities that make you feel truly happy. When you are truly happy you have the best vibrational frequency to manifest your desires. 9. Avoid the naysayers and surround yourself with people who only lift you higher. Downers will be downers, don't let them drag you into their misery. 10. Don't be afraid to dream and know that you are always supported by the universe. Hope this helps! - Your Friendly Neighborhood Coach ❤

As you awaken spiritually, you stop having a relationship with yourself. This is when you become you 5:44-7:00

Wow, just wow! Finally, a clear explanation of what exactly it means that we are all one!

What a calm, soothing speaking voice. The subject matter caught my interest. The way the information was presented kept my interest throughout.

The greatest love of all is happening to me,learning to love yourself is the greatest love of all

This was one of the most beautiful set of words I’ve ever heard. 🌹 ❤️

To see yourself in others - to bond a little - compassion - to see others as souls more. So easy to judge on appearance - which is a block - to feel their presents.

This video came at a right time for me!

Έρως και αγάπη...such a great example 🤍

I'm here because Damien Echols recommended his books. I'm German, so gonna read it in German soon. What a revelation!

Returning to unconditional love within myself and being one with consciousness feels safe, pure joy, peace, and abundance of infinite possibilities. There’s no other. We are all connected. We are love. ✨❤️🦋🔥🥰✨

And he said to all, “If anyone would come after me, let him deny himself and take up his cross daily and follow me. For whoever would save his life will lose it, but whoever loses his life for my sake will save it.

I love this so much and exactly what I want in my life! Thank you so much for sharing your wisdom on this topic Eckhart 🙏

Thank you for your teachings. I have come back, after doing a bit of spiritual gymnastics, because I now see & hear you! 🌬🙏💞

those who suffer will find their way those who live in comfort will lost their way

Love this ❤️ thanks so much Eckhart Tolle you're teaching has helped me so much on my awakening

I just adore you Mr Tolle. You are not only So On Point in All your Teachings, but you are also incredibly Funny.. and your Warm Humor just makes your teachings so much lighter and easier to digest and integrate. I laughed several times during this video. 😆😅 Thank you again So much for your Service to Humanity and for sharing Your Wisdom with Everyone. Much Love you brother. 🥰🙏💞

This may be one of the most beautiful and important talks by Eckhart. Thank you.

🙏I am what I am!! You are a joy Eckhart xx

Recognition of yourself in the other was shown in the Alchemist book by Paulo Coelho. In the updated version's preface. In the Narcissus story it was given a higher spiritual love meaning. Narcissus recognizes himself in the lake. When he dies, the lake cries because it too used to look in his eyes and recognize itself.

What an incredible man Ekhart Tolle is. He makes you actually live his explanations and teachings. Would love to see the audiences faces. Hundreds of people looking back at him with pure fascination and admiration. Truly wonderful.

thank you for making things so easily accessible, comprehensible for all ..

"Blessed be God, for so bountifully providing for us that He even bestows on us His very Self. The Son is given to us, and through Him the Holy Spirit, and with Them comes the Father." ~John of Avila. Letter 25

Getting out of a relationship that no longer served me and his words mean even more now.

Thank you Mr Tolle 🍃🍃💙🍃🍃

Thank you dear Eckhart Sir for your teachings. 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻

It's wonderful to have fellow humans to lean on. Not so much as a crutch, but more of a broom. Thank you Eckhart.

Life is guiding you in the right direction ❤

Thank u Eckhart 🙏 . This message is such a GIFT to all of us 💮🎁🏵️

"I haven't experienced a mother's love" I feel that

This is so true. Thank you for helping me. Truely

Eckart Tolle talking about Unity right there. One consciousness.

I love you, Eckhart!

Beautiful video 😍

Thank you so much. Your teachings are very valuable

This lesson I needed in this moment and there is it. Thank's for this lesson at the right time. Kai 😌🍀

This is exactly what I experience he explains it so well.

Beautifully spoken, Thank you

I can't thank you enough for your wisdom! ❤️❤️❤️

Thank You & yes been there done that !! Healing from betrayals from the People closest to me. I have no negative, I understand we're all on Our Solo path in Life. Unconditional Love just IS !! GOD BLESS YOU !!

Real life Yoda hits me with the well-needed wisdom again. Cheers!

My First love session viewed so learned the many ways we love. Thank you Eckhart 🌷

I love this man! Soo much respect for you ❤️❤️❤️♥️♥️♥️

No one has seen God. But as we love one another, God lives in us. "You yourself as much as anybody in the entire universe deserve your love and affection". Buddha

Thank you. This brought me back to myself.

Brilliant! Total TRUTH! Thank you Eckhart Tolle!

Yesss please, this is definitely a MUST WATCH!!! I could just look at him and listen to his beautiful and deep voice all day 😃🥰 Thank you! You are one of a kind ❤️

That was simply beautiful 😍 Thank You so much🙏😊

This spiritual talk is golden 💙

thank god this stuff is on youtube, if this couldn't be rewinded/rewatched I'd miss out on so much tiny details

Than you so much 💜🙏🏼 needed to be reminded of this

Thank you for this, i really needed it!

ET is bringing the new manifestation of Consciesness to the planet awakening of being

I love this so much 🙂✨💖✨ I love you Eckhart, you have given me so much Joy and peace.✨ I feel in my heart exactly as you describe, I love everyone all life and animals, nature but I have personal emotional bonds as well. 🙂💖✨

Thank you for your teachings. "I am" so grateful.

Thank you so much, Eckhart ! 🙏😍 ….

Ultimate therapist 🥰

I love you Eckhart!♥️

Thank you so much!!

Thank you so much for this video,you inspire me to dedicate more time to myself. I was so worried and depressed before doing it. I feel amazing. Thank you so much!

Thank You

Thank you. Perfect timing

You radiate (= attract) what you are in the now .Be like a flower in the frequentie of love! Emotions are created by thoughts (delusion) and feeling is knowing without thoughts! we absorbe and search (hallucinate) instead of observe and experience (awareness). Feel, know and see in all facets! 3,6,9 the Divine. It takes two to become one (3x). Bless you all!

Thank you!

Such an in depth examination of what it is like living as a goblin.

Very profound explain in simple way❤️

Thank you fully Eckhart!!💕 I really appreciate the succinctness with which you explained this. You are such an enjoyable cooperative component in my life experience…probably have been for more than just this lifetime-lol. Thanks for acknowledging your worth and providing us with your heartfelt extensions of the truth and knowing 🙏😄🎢💫💕

This is wayyyyy over my head

Love is Golden Ratio, Scalar Energy. 💞💫 I AM MY HIGHER SELF!! Everyone and everything is interconnected so agape love + compassion with strong boundaries to remain sovereign is best.

Really really fascinating. I understand and it is beautiful. I hope I get there, that we all get there.

Thank you Eckhart 🙏❤️

When Eckhart says 'look into the eyes of another you are the other' this is a profound notion for if this can take place there is freedom from the sensation called I, Me, Self, for there is an unguarded receiving of the other person (or animal or object). That seeing, sensing takes place from here, from where the eyes are and not on the subject, as over there.

Love to listen to you Eckhart 🤗

thank you

Wonderful explanation of the ego and spiritual love. I really like this video.