Everything worked the no contact and everything. It worked and it took like 3 months but everything feels different. Anyways thanks Brad. This guy is legit
I'm glad my advice has worked for you. Remember that getting an ex back does not mean the work stops there. You have to do more work to ensure your relationship stays healthy. Review my guide and/or watch these video to help you further: ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-jjrOpxa-wfI.html and ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-v9mVzh2NVAc.html All the best! :-)
Bachelor Frog like i got used to being single,doing stuff without her and dating other people. But we got back together. It was weird just weird like I felt like I didn't love her. But things are better now we're together and I learned to love her again
Brad Browning hi Brad,, my ex nd had a talk and I found out that I had sex with a girl, is not his girlfriend but just had sex and he maybe still has it,, will that make him forgot me??
Can someone explain WHY acting desperate or emotional is always a "turn off" ? I feel like if I had someone in my life that acted that way I would appreciate the hell out of it.. people who show true emotions are rare
It's NOT a turn off if you're in a relationship and showing each other how much you love and care for one another. The only time it becomes a turn off is when you've been broken up with and basically forcing yourself to someone who shows you they don't want you by dumping you.
1) recovery phase -No begging or pleading no contact hang out with your friends join a club or sport focus on a hobby or a passion 2- rekindling phase- establish a connection with your ex in a fun and attractive way how to reach out without letting them know that you miss them and want them back? you want them to think you're not interested in getting back together -help date meeting- setting up a meeting because you need help with something like remodeling your kitchen 3) reattraction phhase- flirt like crazy -make eye contact -touch your ex -just smile -drop subtle reminders of your shared memories
Thank you for your kind words, Andrew! People like you are rare to come by. :-) Anyway depending on the damage done, it may or may not be too late…but don't make the same mistakes! On the flip side, however, you could just be overreacting, so don’t be so hard on yourself. Most people are guilty of this at some point. So if you'd really want to gauge your chances of getting back together (it may not be all doom and gloom after all) I suggest you take the free quiz on my website and answer as honestly as possible, at www.breakupbrad.com/quiz Good luck!
Brad Browning I Really need to invest and get your book! I watch and love all your videos! (Almost makes me want to get a masters in psychology! The mind/brain, thought process is such a powerful tool and organ! Pretty incredible!)
Just watching 4 of these videos makes me confident and I have been watching them over and over again to gain that confidence when I don’t feel it. I am only on the non contact phase and I am going out with my mate later so these videos have told me what I got to do over the next week. I will keep watching them until I win her back. Thank you!!!! They are so useful
Hey Brad I just wanted to say a huge thanks to you. Your videos not only helped me get my ex back but also helped me to become a better version of myself and I thank you so much for that. You are a truly inspirational man.
You're welcome! Hey, you never know who else can benefit, so if it’s not too much to ask and if you haven’t already, please like, share, and subscribe to my channel so you won't miss any of my upcoming videos. I'd really appreciate it! 🙂
Lol I did the no contact and recovery phase with no intention of getting him back. I never once expected him to reach out. He ended things because he wasn't in the place to date and wanted to be friends but I was too devastated to be around him so I sent him a polite message saying no thanks. Five months later he is contacting me again with all the sentimental stuff. 😂
That's honestly inspiring. I know my ex wasn't right for me and him breaking it off will actually prove to be a good thing, but my ego is crushed. I secretly hope he'll reach out to me eventually so I can shut him down and make him realize what he lost.
Same, my ex reached out to me a year later expressing regret & wanting to be w/me, etc. A year! I never responded, no contact really helped me to realize I was completely done.
Hey Brad, you are a genius! I did the no contact for 2 months, we saw each other this past saturday (we were drunk) and made out. But the next day she face timed me, we have been face timing for 4 days in a row. Back then we would facetime but it wasn't fun. I was so boring. Now I flirt with her & she and I just keep smiling over and over like we did a year ago when we barely began talking. Tomorrow we are having lunch together.
Another success story! Happy to hear that. Congrats! :-) If it’s not too much to ask and if you haven’t done so yet, please like, share, and subscribe to my channel so you won't miss any of my upcoming videos. I'd really appreciate it!
I agree totally distracting yourself works! When I did it I spent to with my family and it made me feel happy that I was around my family. And I was able to forget about that depressing feeling for a while :)
It's important to balance things out and not be all sad, although you ought to spend some time in isolation and process the breakup as well. Balance is key, :-) Take care!
The Cowboy That's not necessarily true. I broke up with my ex, and although it was necessary at the time, we both needed time to grow . It's still one of my biggest regrets, I still love him deeply, and hope we one day find our way back to each other
Hey Brad! Thanks for another video. I'm no longer trying to get my ex back, but I still like watching these for general knowledge and possible future tactics. I did end up seeing my ex in late December but she started bringing up all same bad stuff that happened in our relationship. I got fed up with hearing about it so I cut the outing short and I stopped talking to her afterwards. She helped me realize why I broke up with her in the first place. Good riddance! On to bigger and better things. But goes to show you that when you say "dont bring up old arguments from your relationship" that it is definitely a major turn off!
yes this is true, my ex and i are talking again, we are not back togther yet but it's like we are back as strangers. The feelings were no longer there, but at least we are in good terms now, no hatred or resentment.😊
I stumbled upon this video just a few hours ago and the advice you've been giving your subscribers are the best! I'm going through a recent (long distance) breakup. I talked to him on the phone recently - and he says he's planned to visit me end of Jan or early Feb next year. I, of course, don't want to bring my hopes up too much. I did the no contact thing right after that and funny enough - he texted me a week later asking how my day was. Although I made the silly mistake by texting him back and having a few more conversations with him & facetiming him once - He seems to be more open to me than before and has asked me about what I've been up to and the plans I've made with people! Hoping that things will get better!
Thank you, Jannah! ;) You're a smart girl for being realistic through all this. Although I think it's too soon to be in touch with him, if you just remain sensible in dealing with him, you'd be fine. Just keep in mind though about how messed up things are when a breakup is still fresh. Employ the 30-day "no contact: rule first and after that, keep contact to a bare minimum and let him approach you first whenever possible. Let him do the chasing so he can start to see your value and won't be so quick to dump you again, but meet him halfway from time to time by initiating contact yourself. Try to achieve that balance. I suggest you meet up with him come next year, though, when he visits, which is barely two months from now? Let me know how it goes! Since your situation may be unique, you can work with me one-on-one so I get to learn more about the situation and therefore be more equipped to help you out, at www.breakupbrad.com/coaching
Hey Brad,It's me again i got a text from my ex 1 month 4 days after no contact saying that she is extremely sorry for whatever she did and she treated me really badly and was really guilty.First of all i would really like to thank you Brad for helping me you've really been a major support,It would be a real help if you could advise me how to react to this situation now. Thanks again man you're the best
Hey man, you're welcome but I'm sorry... Your name looks familiar, but I can't exactly remember or track down what your situation with your ex was really like. There are comments on here added daily and as you can see, I can't remember each one. So take my advice with a grain of salt because I can be way off. Your ex reaching out to you is a good sign though! Rebuild your communication with her, especially if you've already completed the 30-day rule. Use the texting tips I posted on my channel. Okay? Look it up. Be patient and don't rush things. Once you start to see a significant progress, sign up for my coaching program so I can help assess your situation clearly, look at all the other factors at play and see things you might have missed, then guide you accordingly on a regular, ongoing basis at www.breakupbrad.com/coaching
@@BradBrowning My bf is not talking to me, he disappeared about 2 months ago,i textex him occasionally and he did reply a few times, he wanted to see me in person to explaim his behaviour , i agreed on meeting up, but he has not contacted me again, it was 8 days ago that i texted him how he is doing n if everything is fine, he hasn't read my whatsap text, he keeps watching my whatsap status. I love him deeply, so i don't text him again n again. How can i bring back his desires for me.
hi Brad. me and my ex have 3 moth relationship.. me and her different nationality and she broke up with me because of my angry. she told me she need some time and we went for friend zone but I keep push her and beg her to come back. now she told to my sister she don't want to see my face even. and she told me her love for me 0% and she block me on whatsapp and she unfriend me in Facebook. but she didn't block me in face book she unfriend me. please help me.. i need her so badly .thank you! god bless you
Sorry to hear. Depending on the damage done, it may or may not be too late…but don't make the same mistakes! On the flip side, however, you could just be overreacting, so don’t be so hard on yourself. Most people are guilty of this at some point. So if you'd really want to gauge your chances of getting back together (it may not be all doom and gloom after all) I suggest you take the free quiz on my website and answer as honestly as possible, at www.breakupbrad.com/quiz Good luck!
Love these tips Brad. I’ll try all the flirting tips when I see him soon, after 3 months apart. We have so many memories after a long time together. We used to flirt like crazy back in our late 20’s. I’m sure we can make it happen again. Thank you so much! 🙏🏻💞
Hello dear I know you lost your lover, Don't Tell me you have not heard about Mr osek, he is the one that helps me with my relationship problems whtxapp him +23.4905:5:574:944
Damn, is that right! I had a really hard time completing 28 days of no contact because of this. And now I even think she gets more "power" the more she meets with our common friends... but well, I just stick to the plan and put a huge smile in my face like nothing's wrong every time we hang out with our friends...
im failing at acting ok. i keep feeling terrible around him, i try to act ok but I break and all in the meanwhile he is fine and happy and says hes lost feelings for me.. its sucked.
small update: my friend has tried to help ( i didnt tell her to) but she did, telling him i miss him and im hurt and stuff, and hes said he doesnt love me anymore and is happy without me and wants me to move on. And at school seems to act like us being together never happened. Should I just give up? we were together for over a year and he suddenly lost feelings.
I have been desperate and emotional just like your video says, and begging and pleading, and you are right, it just pushes him away I think, he acts like he doesn't care, he never cries over me or begs and pleads. He is only mean and cold.
Depending on the damage done, it may or may not be too late…but don't make the same mistakes! On the flip side, however, you could just be overreacting, so don’t be so hard on yourself. Most people are guilty of this at some point. So if you'd really want to gauge your chances of getting back together (it may not be all doom and gloom after all) I suggest you take the free quiz on my website and answer as honestly as possible, at www.breakupbrad.com/quiz Good luck!
Thanks, helped me. Break up is the worst thing that can happen to anyone, and I am glad that i found this video, it made me at least feel little bit better, and gave ma nice advice. Thanks man.
Video games are the quickest and painless way to get over any exes lol trust me guys online gaming can help you ezy past any pain you feel they :D try it if u can lol i always do but i'v been gaming for over 15 years haha and i always tend to use gaming as a way to remove thoughts and pain or any of that kind :D
If gaming is your passion (which I can tell from your username) then it's worth delving into indeed! :-) Keep up the passion, but try to balance it out and process the breakup as well and feel the loss and move on so you won't be carrying that unnecessary baggage into your future relationship. Make sure you aren't escaping the pain while following your passion. Thanks for your input!
Hey i most enjoy playing FPS games due to always been around other players from community. such as counter-strike diablo 3 h1z1 lol games that have good player base that i interact with. Whenever i feel pain these dudes help me ease the pain and thought away its a blast. Keeps your mind of so much things and you can enjoy yourself because when you hear other people laughing smiling it makes you do the same. That's why i enjoy gaming because its a big community and lots of friends to meet and talk to you. Your never alone and plus all it takes is one person to make you SMILE and make your day. :D I Do play lots of other games as well from time to time but mostly the games i stick to are friends i'v known from online for 16 years haah Yes i'v been around for 16 gaming and always had a blast.
kurz0r Gamer world of warcraft always has been my 'back up boyfriend'. Online gaming really is the way to go and a lot better than hooking up with someone else.
Thank you very much, Brad, for the set of techniques. The NC rule you present has already worked out for me, and I am in the final stages, and I think I have to be even more cautious than before. I was patient enough to wait for her for two years. It was my fault and I know it and I will do anything to make it up for her in a heartbeat, way better than she expects.
Sounds promising! Good luck, hey! :-) And you're welcome. If you still need my help further on this, however, then you and I both ought to take a look at a lot of various factors at play, so sign up for my coaching program so I can help take a look at all the various factors at play including your overall relationship history, issue/s, among many other elements, and to find out what’s really going on, monitor your situation, and guide you accordingly on a regular, ongoing basis. Please check on availability first because I only have a limited number of clients I can realistically manage before I go into spontaneous combustion. :-) Here’s the link: www.breakupbrad.com/coaching
thank you brad! your video helps me a lot, 'no contact and work on your self' works so perfect. my girlfriend brake up with me 3 or 4 months ago, i begged her so bad 4 several times but it doesnt work then i saw your videos and start the no contact period and work on my self, i dated girls spend a quality time with friends, then i forget all the pains and feeling normal again. then after 2 months she start contacting with my best friend and u know try to create connections and stuff, one day they plan three of us to go out 4 dinner but i purposely stayed at home giving lot of reasons not to go.Then after that day she knows i was comfortable and confident about my self and she gets obsessed with me (She tries different thing to get my attention like showing up so often in my working area, liking my fb and instagram posts, asking my friends about me ... ) but she still dont text anything or no form of communication in face to face. then i keep ignoring her for another month and weather u believe or not, yesterday she came (in a restaurant where me and my friends usually hang out) and cries for forgiveness in front of my friends and i dont remember being so happy when someone cries on me but this time i feel so happy that she regrets for what she has done wrong in-front of my friends. therefore now evtg is in my hands weather to get back to her or to move on. most importantly, if i dont get the chance to see this video i will totally screw thing up. i hope my story give lot of brake up victims a good confidence and support to get there GF back or moved on. please guys believe me it works, just avoid any form of contact and work on ur self, its just a matter of time! i really really owe a grate dept of gratitude to brad, u r z first person came in my mind yesterday, bless u!
You're welcome! I'm glad my advice has affected you positively. Please keep in mind that getting an ex back does not mean the work stops there. You have to do more work to ensure your relationship stays healthy. Review my guide and/or watch these video to help you further: ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-jjrOpxa-wfI.html and ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-v9mVzh2NVAc.html All the best! :-)
Once you start to see some progress, sign up for my coaching program so I can help assess your situation clearly, look at all the other factors at play and see things you might have missed, then guide you accordingly on a regular, ongoing basis at www.breakupbrad.com/coaching
Hey Brad, my girlfriend recently broke up with me after 2+ years of being together. I have had issues with controlling emotions and self-confidence. I have caused fights and have drove her away many times. After a recent fight she decided that she had enough. I have had my wake up call and decided to deal with my issues and resolve them. We talked about the future together and loved me a lot and told me we had amazing times. But I think the bad outweigh the good memories. I was her first love and during our breakup she told me she needed time and space to trust me again. But a few days ago she wrote a letter, basically saying that she's proud that I am more controlling of my emotions and that I should keep my head up and be confident and I should continue to improve. She says she will never forget me and won't love someone as much as me. I asked my friends about it and they said that they think it was a letter for closure. I am unsure if this is just a way of her coping with not talking and hanging out with me. I am taking on the NC phase, but we have every class together and we sit next to each other (can't move). I don't think that she is willing to throw away what we had so easily. She wants to see me grow and make myself better, but I don't know if she wants a future with me or not.
I definitely agree with continue to work on yourself, man. Give her time as breaking up hurts both people in it, regardless of who did the breaking up, okay? Anyway this is one of the cases where the “no contact” rule is actually an exception...but DON'T initiate random contact in any way and don’t make any unnecessary chitchats, all right?I've discussed it in these videos, as well as how to handle it: ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-zKhNHhEmYMg.html and ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-ydeES3WU1Uc.html but read my Ex Factor Guide so you'll have an in-depth view on how to go about it, what to do after each phase (there are three phases in total), including what to say, do or not do, etc. since good timing is essential at www.breakupbrad.com/mbuy Okay? Take care!
All right that's the spirit! :-) You're welcome! If you haven’t already, please like, share, and subscribe to my channel so you won't miss any of my upcoming videos. I'd really appreciate it.
What if some people are just cold and being in a previously abusive relationship they lack empathy and seriously moved on from a relationship where they previously displayed high interest and now probably replaced you like it was nothing?
The situation you've described is pretty common scenario, believe it or not. But here's how to draw your boundaries though: ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-e3l5KWEpIpw.html
Videos like this have really helped me to not contact my ex just yet. I'm feeling so much better about myself now. the breakup was at the end of november. I feel like I'm gonna be ready to contact him again probably. I'm feeling so much more like myself again. If getting him back won't work I can now keep my head up still. Thanks for the advice!
Attagirl! You're welcome! If you haven’t already, please like, share, and subscribe to my channel so you won't miss any of my upcoming videos. I'd really appreciate it! :-)
My ex and I broke up 3 weeks ago after 4 weeks with a break. I had struggled the previous months and had made him unhappy. I have realized my mistakes and I'm much stronger now. I really want him back. He said when we broke up that he didn't want to lose me. That he cared deeply for me. I believe he is "the one" for me. He has texted me a few times. I'm doing NC, but I'm not ignoring him. I have heard that he is staying occupied with work and partying with his friends since the breakup. That he hasn't coped with his feelings. Is there a chance for us to get back together? If I prove to him that I'm stronger.
I did the no contact rule, now i was the one who started the talking and he replies me postively and very fast but when i stop texting him he also does not text me and i dont want to be texting him evryday, so what should i do and do you think he will fall again for me?
Brad, thank you for all these videos that you do. they are full of good supportive advice that is useful in trying to get an ex back and priceless should one not successfully get their ex back. thanks again Brad for all the useful tools you share!
You're welcome, man! Thank you for the kind words. That's pretty hard to come by nowadays. :-) Anyway if you haven’t already, please like, share, and subscribe to my channel so you won't miss any of my upcoming videos. I'd really appreciate it!
What are the things to do and not to do when you have already been with your ex? And should you let them know you've been meeting and getting to know other guys? Thanks for all the help until now!
These should help: ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-L9XcUEIGK38.html AND ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-5tNRL7dWCTA.html
I'm a very young guy I'm still in school but this is great advice and if in the end it doesn't work keep in mind that there will be someone better but I want mine back and I have very high hopes for this so thank you for the advice and I'm sure it will work, I will tell others about your channel to spread the word of your great advice
what if your ex has a "crush" or someone has a feeling for ur ex... how can u go up to your ex if he or she has a "friend" hanging out (friend= basically someone is trying to get ur ex as into relationship ) how can u go there and be natural ?
The same thing you do to re-attract her back, man. Use my 3R system. Here are the basics: ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-aeGNPBdpnsI.html
I watched your videos the first time my ex broke up and I got her back because of your videos and now she broke again and now I applied the no contact and she texted me but I didn’t answer and she called me at night but I didn’t answer, so I just keep watching your videos and it keeps me relaxed and chill and makes me want to change everything I was doing wrong from being needy to being available for her all the time
Good. Looks like you're all set! My other videos should help out a bit, too but if you still need my help further on this, however, then you and I both ought to take a look at a lot of various factors at play, so sign up for my coaching program so I can help take a look at all the various factors at play including your overall relationship history, issue/s, among many other elements, and to find out what’s really going on, monitor your situation, and guide you accordingly on a regular, ongoing basis. Please check on availability first because I only have a limited number of clients I can realistically manage before I go into spontaneous combustion. :-) Here’s the link: www.breakupbrad.com/coaching
Believe it or not guys, but it works. Thank you brad , just because of your advice, we both are back again with love more than before. Thanks alot. No contact worked like magic. May God give u whatever u wish for.
Congrats! I'm glad my advice has affected you positively. Now please keep in mind that getting an ex back does not mean the work stops there. You have to do more work to ensure your relationship stays healthy. Review my guide and/or watch these video to help you further: ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-jjrOpxa-wfI.html and ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-v9mVzh2NVAc.html All the best! :-)
Brad Browning bro I'm into no contact period. it just passed a week and as you know few days later it is valentines week so what should i do?? i use to wish her always
Hey Brad I Broke Up with the Love of My Love and Was going Nuts Reading about Relationships and Breakups. Him and I are going Strong, Things are Just as If We're a Couple except It's as If He Seems Afraid to Say It. The Intimacy is There, It was Alot of Fighting. I have gotten the Help I Desperately Needed and It's Helped so Much I was Always Angry.
Actions speak louder than words, so perhaps learn to enjoy the moment and stop trying to put a label into things? Don't obsess over it since these things should happen naturally and not forced. What's important is you continue to build positive rapport with him. :-)
My videos should help out a bit but if you still need my help further on this, however, then you and I both ought to take a look at a lot of various factors at play, so sign up for my coaching program so I can help take a look at all the various factors at play including your overall relationship history, issue/s, among many other elements, and to find out what’s really going on, monitor your situation, and guide you accordingly on a regular, ongoing basis. Please check on availability first because I only have a limited number of clients I can realistically manage before I go into spontaneous combustion. :-) Here’s the link: www.breakupbrad.com/coaching
We have met us at one party, 8 months after the breakup, he came to me to ask me how am i, what is new in my life etc....and he was doing all these things to me: -make eye contact -touch your ex -just smile
Watch this first to help set your expectations: ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-OzVymYnQFTk.html and look out for the signs that your ex has moved on: ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-TnZzeEIPEik.html If you see only one or zero signs, then this vid is for you: ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-9LC1ewgBkIQ.html If the conditions are right, then make sure you tick off the checklist here as well: y2u.be/BAhMrmw3Sms It's important to rebuild the attraction naturally so your ex will be amenable to working things out, eventually. This is what my guide is for but you can also learn the basic principles of my 3R system here and watch the vid til' the end so you don't end up missing the important points: ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-aeGNPBdpnsI.html and the golden rules here: ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-1kJ1ybuFIHE.html
Hello dear I know you lost your lover, Don't Tell me you have not heard about Mr osek, he is the one that helps me with my relationship problems whtxapp him +23.4905:5:574:944
Not very subtle, are you? :-) Go by the golden rules here as much as possible: ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-1kJ1ybuFIHE.html It may or may not be too late, but it’s definitely time to move forward from those mistakes and not repeat those! Don’t be so hard on yourself, though, since this is a fairly common issue and most people are guilty of this at some point. If you'd really want to gauge your chances of getting back together (it may not be all doom and gloom after all) I suggest you take the free quiz on my website and answer as honestly as possible, at www.breakupbrad.com/quiz Good luck!
Brad! I always here "make them love you again" what if they never did? I did and said it out loud. he always said "i want to love you. you deserve it." he has deep rooted trust issues, and said he was finally going to get counseling. I feel like he's trying to become better but I don't know if it's "for us". I've worked alot to be a better person but he never made changes for us.
If he has gotten into counseling for his deep rooted issues, then that's at least a good start. It may take a while. Once you start to see a significant progress, sign up for my coaching program so I can help assess your situation clearly, look at all the other factors at play and see things you might have missed, then guide you accordingly on a regular, ongoing basis at www.breakupbrad.com/coaching
Depending on the damage done, it may or may not be too late…but don't make the same mistakes! On the flip side, however, you could just be overreacting, so don’t be so hard on yourself. Most people are guilty of this at some point. So if you'd really want to gauge your chances of getting back together (it may not be all doom and gloom after all) I suggest you take the free quiz on my website and answer as honestly as possible, at www.breakupbrad.com/quiz Good luck!
Hahaha, I did the exact same thing. 3 fucking weeks straight of emotional drivel and excuses to contact her. It only pushed her further and further away, and now I don't expect the NO CONTACT strategy to really pull itself off anymore. Oh well.
When my ex-boyfriend broke up with me I totally broke all the these rules. I poured my heart out to him, called him crying, and even actually went to his house in hopes he would talk to me. No doubt I looked desperate and weak to him. Did all these actions ruin a chance to get back with him and how do I avoid him if we work at the same place.
Try to put your focus elsewhere because your ex is likely rebounding and it won't do you any good to keep worrying about it. Watch this: ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-TBtb34gy6zw.html This should hopefully get you back on track with what you ought to be doing during this time: ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-obBIttQSak4.html
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hey brad ...my ex had blocked me from her previous account ,when we broke up..and i'ts been more than 5 months that we've not contach each other and now I have found that she has made just new fb account ...should I sent .her request ....hoping for ur advice ...
It’s most likely just your ex’s way of coping. More about that on here: ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-5UT92IB5ugs.html Anyway social media should be the least of your concerns. Focus on all three phases and your ex may naturally unblock you, in time, as you learn to rebuild that attraction and re-attract this ex back to your life.. Here are the basics of all three phases to getting an ex back: ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-aeGNPBdpnsI.html and social-media wise, here (but then again, don't let it become your sole focus) : ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-D1GpR5MApQk.html Good luck!
She thought I avoided her (actually I did during the NC) and now she absolutely ignores me and hates me .She thinks I was playing some dirty tricks and I'm totally confused now . If I continue the NC , it will make us be strangers for sure . Any suggest now , Mr.Brad ? Thanks alot.
She broke up with me and it's 2 months since the breakup but I only did NC for 1 month. The first month I was pleaded , begged...all kinds of mistake :(
now she won't reply my message and won't go anywhere I go with our friends (we have a lot of mutual friends) . I have no way to get in touch with her then how can I reattract her when she hated me already ?
Was she reaching out to you about something important?If not, then you did the right thing maintaining the "no contact" rule. If your expects for you to keep in touch after she has dumped you (I assumed she dumped you), then she has a long way to go in terms of maturity. That's not your problem, man!
It's still important to put the "no contact" rule into priority because if you've been in touch after the breakup too soon, then you BOTH aren't taking the time to process the breakup and been acting like it hadn't happened. Burying the problems which had caused the breakup in the first place is the first step towards a doomed relationship. Make sense now? Sign up for my coaching program so I can help assess your situation clearly, look at all the other factors at play and see things you might have missed, then guide you accordingly on a regular, ongoing basis at www.breakupbrad.com/coaching
Hello , my ex broke up with me in November and I did ni contact rule, but he never talk to me after , I 'm very depressed I miss him so much it's killing me I want to talk to him but , it's been 3 months , he never talk me what should I do ? Thanks
Here are the basics to help guide you: ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-aeGNPBdpnsI.html and use the text messaging tips here to reach out to an ex: ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-uN_XAgHjaFM.html or better yet, read my Ex Factor Guide since that’s much more detailed and so you'll know how to go about it, what to do after each phase (there are three phases in total), including what to say, do or not do, along with free bonus materials for texting, and the psychology of how a man thinks and understanding men in general. Good timing is essential! Check it out at www.breakupbrad.com
Wow, I started to do all of these things before I had heard of you! I'd never been dumped in my life and we are talking a lot of boyfriends. Lol. Our relationship ended due to a terrible tragic fire at my business/home. Long story short he wasn't paying the insurance on the building, was worried he would get sued bcz he only cares about money and tossed me out. Lost my successful doggy daycare and boarding business, 9 dogs were killed in the most horrific way by suspected arson, lost all my belongings, my income, my bf of 6 yrs i thought I loved all in a matter of seconds. I had to live in my vehicle because I had a few dogs to take care bcz the owners were out of town so I didn't want to impose on anybody and lived in my vehicle for three weeks and then the motor blew!! So I've been couch surfing for the last four or five months trying to get my feet back on the ground with a broken heart and just the absolute hell of the tragedy with the news and Facebook and people saying horrible things about the dogs dying. My one and only answer for a long time with suicide, I think it would be the only thing that would make some of the dog owners happy.I wanted to call him so bad but I'd bite off my fingers before I would let them touch the phone. He would check in from time to time and get rude if he thought I was talking to a guy etc? I've had found out he's had a girlfriend this entire time, but has been messaging me now. She is literally a low rent version of me, I would be the first to say she was cute if she was, thats always fun. LOL Even when I'm miserable and depressed and feel ugly I tell him I'm doing so damn good and I've never been happier. LOL it's amazing how well that works. Now he's even sending me emojis with sad faces meaning he misses me. Coming from a guy that's never used an emoji. As much as I miss him and want to go back I don't think I could ever forgive him for many things. I will say though it is very very satisfying! I knew he would come back I knew he would never have anybody treat him as good as I did. Oh well she can deal with his problems now, I win!!! So you are right it does work if done correctly you need a lot of willpower! Many times you don't even want to bother going back like you thought you wanted to. Just having the satisfaction though it is extremely helpful to move on. I've got a long ways to go and get asked out plenty but no I got to deal with that headache. Not a lot out there at this age.😞
Lot of willpower indeed and the courage to face adversity, too... which you all seem to have, thank goodness! What you've been going through is awful and I'm sorry to hear that. I'm sorry to hear about the dogs, though. Poor thing. I do hope for a speedy recovery on your end! You have the right attitude, so it should be a breeze! Take care!
Brad Browning Awe thanks for the reply to my novel! It's a tough story to tell shortly. I FINALLY hit my "I'm done and over him!" two days ago after a mean message from him bcz he is mad that I'm happy. Trust me it's tempting to go back to him and my comfortable life and not have to do this dating crap. (I just can't do a dating site.) So it's time to be the bad ass I am capable of. Might be rough on em' for a bit but I'm honest about not wanting to settle down and I'm convinced men are worse about being brushed off! Lol Thanks again for your kind words Brian.
hey Brad so after a month of no contact she texted me she told that she missed me and I appeared in her dream for 2, 3 times and I too told her that I missed her and then the next day she asked me to stay friends and I somewhat agreed to her and now it's been a month we are just friends and then I started to rarely available for her and disappeared for some days and again I was back and within a day she asked me like where were you from so many days and asked me to be with her and she added we are best friends, meanwhile her birthday was nearing so I casually asked her what gift do you want..and her answer was 'your never ending friendship' and when I sometimes flirt with her she teases me with another girl I really donno what to do Brad.
Have you been actively trying to get your ex back, before you fall deeper and deeper into the friendzone? Don’t wait for this person to have an epiphany. Keep track of what you've been doing to see if it's productive or not, as far as getting your ex back goes. Have you checked out my guide yet? It may be time to revamp your techniques. Before anything else though, take the free quiz on my website to gauge your chances of getting your ex back. Answer as honestly as possible, at www.breakupbrad.com/quiz Good luck!
Hi Brad! Is it a good idea to delete old pictures in social media? Also, is it a good idea to change all my passwords such as Netflix which my ex boyfriend and his family shares?
Yes, change your passwords. Unless he's paying for Netflix, you're well within your right to change password anytime. As for the pictures, it's up to you but I suggest you wait until you're more ready and so you won't appear bitter by trying to delete everything all at once as if he never existed. :-)
Hey brad, first, thanks for your videos, it’s very interesting! I have a question: my ex girlfriend want to me to kiss her forehead every time we met. Do you think it’s a good sign that she will come back one day? We are separated since 3 months now.
Haha all of these tips i already did😁 Before watching this video !!! Haha.thinking now why my ex contact me again and asking me to go out with him😂😂 I didnt even know im already a coach haha.,.
Brad should i post anything on social media during our break up? I havent been posting ever since... I went ghost on social media is this the right way to go?
Not if you normally post regularly but then stopped altogether. Watch this vid as your guide: ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-D1GpR5MApQk.html
These videos are for you: ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-GQY4N04uvtA.html and ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-5nfWRJRrnAs.html
Brad Browning. what if i said terrible things like..i will find someone exactly your opposite .😟😟 i didn't mean it i was so mad . its been 3 weeks with no contact .We still follow each other on. IG and after a weeks of break up he rarely post pics on IG .i need to know if there a chance brad
Nobody's ever too busy... its all a matter of priority. :-) The question is how can you make him prioritize you? The answer is to take steps to rebuild the attraction so he'll have a reason to do so. Here are the basics: ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-aeGNPBdpnsI.html
Thank you so much yes its been two months I'm on nc and we were old close friends too before all so do you advise me to wish him a birthday or I should ignore all..
Nayha Chaudhary went through that .If they really like or love you they shouldn't be too busy for you they will make time. If not find somone that will make time.
Loll my ex is busy. Omg I thought they never text me. But they actually reached out to one of my friends and told em to text em. And I guess we are like friends! :)
She's gone. A mutual friend of ours told me that she told him she's happy not being in a relationship and she's happy she can do whatever she wants. She's living it up and she's happy without me. She's never coming back.
Hey Brad, I've got a question, my girl left me claiming she wasn't happy because of how much we fought and she wants to go party etc and thought I was too jealous of her male friends etc. So at first I couldn't help it and was very upset and even begged and pleaded but finally she and I agreed to just be friends(her idea). She has contacted me damn near all day, every day since our breakup (3 days ago) and now I'm wondering should I implement the no contact rule? Because she seems fine with the breakup and happy etc but yet I've noticed when she's sick(like now) she's facetiming and texting me for comfort etc. and she seems cold when I tell her I love and miss her. She acts like she isn't affected at all..I'm confused because I love hearing from her but I feel if do the no contact she'll just move on and be happier... please help.. do you think she actually misses me and or would in a bit? We were together 6 years. Yet she acts as though she's happier than a pig in shit while I'm miserable as hell.
Get out of the friendzone first, man. It's a terrible idea to be friends with her. The boundaries won't be clear and you're technically both free to date other people. Wouldn't it be pure torture if your ex dates someone else in front of you because you're only "friends" now, don't you think? So it’s not a good idea, especially if you want this ex back. Watch these two videos so you’ll know why being friends won’t lead you anywhere you wanna be with your ex and how to get out of this trap, respectively at ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-yd6pvNVeHjI.html and ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-sS4V4IOcOgs.html but read my Ex Factor Guide since that’s much more detailed and so you'll know how to go about it, what to do after each phase (there are three phases in total), including what to say, do or not do, along with free bonus materials for texting. Good luck!
I just texted her that I don't think it's best to be friends anymore and she got really pissy so hopefully that's a good sign. I'm taking a leap of faith here Brad, thank you for your help man.
Brad Browning I have a question -- the reason I'm using no contact is because I'm in a long distance relationship with a girl who says she really misses me and likes me but doesn't know if she can be exclusive. After just 2 days of no contact she's been messaging me nonstop how she misses me. Should I say anything back yet or should I continue to make her miss me? I'm afraid completely ignoring her might be not the best move. Please let me know what you think brad
Hi Ariel! In contrast to what most people believe, it's still possible to get your ex back even if they get into a rebound relationship. I think you should watch this video: ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-rXvU6PShWbg.html Good luck!
Hey brad just a quick question... I was watching your earlier videos and you said that trying to apologize or even just having a "heart to heart" after the break up will not help my chances. Well I did this right before I had your video and I was wondering how much of an impact it has on my probability of getting back with her?
It differs each time, man, since there are a lot of factors to be considered in every relationship, but if you'd really want to gauge your chances of getting back together (it may not be all doom and gloom after all) I suggest you take the free quiz on my website and answer as honestly as possible, at www.breakupbrad.com/quiz Good luck!
Question: So this guy I was talking to for a few months "broke up" with me. Since the first of this month June , I guess without realizing it the no contact phase kicked in. However, we still have each other on IG and I post often and he doesn't so much. Regardless he still has some type of access to see what I'm doing and what not, and vs. So with this no contact thing, should I also drop the posting stuff? or not post as much to give that real absence feeling?
Not really. Here's how you can handle the social media aspect: ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-D1GpR5MApQk.html or better yet, read my Ex Factor Guide since that’s much more detailed and so you'll know how to go about it, what to do after each phase (there are three phases in total), including what to say, do or not do, along with bonus materials for texting, and the psychology of how a man thinks and understanding men in general. Good timing is essential! Check it out at www.breakupbrad.com/fbuy
maybe time will change the deep feelings, i mean i started to feel hate... but i actually love him, i just want to forget the bad stuff... hope in the future we both grow up and can get along like it should be...
So I was dating this girl for a year and a half and things were great. We had great chemistry, she was beautiful inside and out, and she was the girl I always dreamed of. Last October she broke up with me because she felt I didn't put her on top of my priority list, lack of effort, and lack of time and affection. I'm not going to lie as a man who takes responsibility for his actions I did take things for granted and I did get complacent. It was also kind of hard balancing the relationship since we went to different colleges in different cities. 3-4 months after the breakup the saying was true "you never know what you have until it's gone" I really did try to make things work and rekindle our relationship because I didn't want to just throw away everything we built. She was flattered by my efforts but she wasn't ready to jump back into the relationship and wanted to focus on herself. Recently I've been okay until two weeks ago I saw she has moved on with a new guy and I was devastated. It felt like I caught a bullet to the heart and I was in an emotional roller coaster because it really hurt seeing the person I love happy with someone else. I knew it was a chance that it might of happened this semester I mean she's beautiful and guys are going to try to talk to her, and she might come across one she likes. I just wasn't mentally/emotionally prepared for it. I didn't want to start over with anyone else because girls like her don't come around often. I've tried to move on and talk to other girls since the breakup but I just haven't found one that I have a connection with and nothing has worked out. It makes it hurt more because I don't think I will ever find another woman like her. I just want feedback on how to handle this situation and if there is any chance of us getting back together in the future?
In this case, an apology may be due, man. It’s important to rebuild the attraction naturally so your ex will be amenable to working things out. This is what my guide is for but you can also learn the basic principles of my 3R system here and watch the vid til' the end so you don't end up missing the important points: ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-aeGNPBdpnsI.html but before anything else, try to determine if you really want her back for her and not because you want something you can't have, basically. This should help guide you: ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-m27TLeyUmwg.html Best of luck!
A suggestion for the rekindling phase would be to try and arrange a meeting where you give his or her things back. If your ex refuses to meet up, then you pretty much know you don't stand a chance of getting back together.
That's possible or he just simply isn't ready to meet up. Some people are sluggish when it comes to this. It may stem from being too hurt, afraid to try again, still having below attraction for you, or all of the above.
Did all of your tips and it worked like magic! however, things are somewhat different. I don't feel like i'm her priority the way I used to be. What can be done? Thanks a ton.
If you've recently reconnected, don't expect your ex to warm up easily. Getting an ex back is a process. Are you sure you're not trying to rush it? Setting a deadline is a good way to fail when it comes to exes, so I highly discourage it. What steps have you taken to get your ex back? It's time to re-assess those and see what's working versus what's not working. You're welcome to sign up for my coaching program if you're unsure how to go about this or you're planning to do something but not sure if it's a good idea or not, etc. but I would have to look a the situation as a whole in order to give solid advice, at www.breakupbrad.com/coaching
Hey Brad, me and my gf recently broke up about 3 weeks ago now. The first 2-3 days we talked a bit over text and I think it was because she genuinely cared about me and she didn't want me to entirely be hurt. We are both young, around 18 years old so I know the emotions are a bit more fragile I guess at my age. But anyway we had a great relationship, very healthy. We dated for almost 6 months and we would always help one another with HW and so on and so forth, just be there for one another you know? She never dropped any hints of wanting to break up she just sort of did out of the clear blue one day. In fact she always used to tell me that other men might as well not exist cause I was special to her. But she still broke things off. About a week after the break up I committed one of your DON'Ts which is asking for her back. She said that she didn't think it would work out, however I'm thinking since it was only a week after the event that she may not have made a clear decision, that she might have just acted off emotion and natural impulse. Course it was wrong for me to ask in the first place. I have decided, after slowly fading away for the past few days, that I'm going to implement the NC rule. I just wanted to know, the fact that I committed that one DON'T, is it too late?
Give her time to think things through first and don't rush it. Depending on the damage done, it may or may not be too late…but don't make the same mistakes! On the flip side, however, you could just be overreacting, especially with all the stuff that’s been going on… so don’t be so hard on yourself. Most people are guilty of this at some point. So if you'd really want to gauge your chances of getting back together (it may not be all doom and gloom after all) I suggest you take the free quiz on my website and answer as honestly as possible, at www.breakupbrad.com/quiz Good luck!
Why am I like this? Why do I have a caring heart I try not to talk to him but he looks so unhappy and so disturbed I hate seeing him so hurt. It's so easy for him to find another woman to love and for me, it's so hard because I give my all into everything I do I always accept my wrongs I am so hurt I lose him forever he's sleeping with her and now I have to accept that he doesn't want anything to do with me.
Really sorry to hear that. Your heart does need time to accept things for how they are right now and not what it used to be. Love yourself first, yeah? Take care!
Dear Brad, my ex did block me on facebook and whatsapp after 8 weeks of no contact from her part after breaking up. In the beginning I did send some desperate messages she did read all of them but did never reply. Last 3 weeks I did not send any message to give her space. She also just yesterday started to post new things on her facebook again. Casual positive comments like before. What does it say that she block me now and what should I do to make my chances of getting her back the biggest? Thanks in advance for some advice.
Hey there! It’s most likely just your ex’s way of coping. More about that on here: ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-5UT92IB5ugs.html Anyway social media should be the least of your concerns. Focus on all three phases and your ex may naturally unblock you, in time, as you learn to rebuild that attraction and re-attract this ex back to your life.. Here are the basics of all three phases to getting an ex back: ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-aeGNPBdpnsI.html and social-media wise, here (but then again, don't let it become your sole focus) : ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-D1GpR5MApQk.html Good luck!
I'm glad my advice has worked for you. Remember that getting an ex back does not mean the work stops there. You have to do more work to ensure your relationship stays healthy. Review my guide and/or watch these video to help you further: ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-jjrOpxa-wfI.html and ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-v9mVzh2NVAc.html All the best! :-)
Hi, Brad. Great video, as always. My fear with the no contact rule is that in the time we don't talk he's going to stop loving me and start developing "friendly feelings". I'm afraid of that.
The harsh reality, however, is that most dumpers already have the "moving on" mentality or looking to a new direction by the time a breakup happens or even way before they drop the bomb on you. It’s to your best interest to accept that there's nothing you can do about that for the time being. Cutting off contact for around a month is the best choice because doing the opposite will make you look pathetic or clingy... and those traits are very unattractive…as opposed to being happy. If you act happy, your ex will wonder what he/she’s missing. Quite frankly, who doesn’t want to be around happy/fun people? Make sense now? The bottom line is you ought to show that you respect their decision and you're mature enough to deal with whatever comes your way and that you're taking care of yourself and putting you first - irrespective of what your ex does. Read my Ex Factor Guide so you'll know how to go about this at www.breakupbrad.com and pay attention to the stuff I talked about here: ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-T_W_ilf9x6w.html
Hey Brad, I've applied No Contact for 2 weeks now and I was wondering would it help to deactivate all social media so as to further enhance the feeling of me "disappearing" out of her life? Would it make her miss me more or think about where I'm at and stuff like that? I plan on being doing this for like 2 to 3 weeks and then coming back to social media but I just needed your advice. Thanks.
Not really, man. Just make it a point NOT to look at your ex's profile. If you have to use social media, though as a means to get her back, then follow the tips here: ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-D1GpR5MApQk.html
hey brad, after doing the non contact, my ex is coming back to town, as an act of care, i was thinking to leave some products and stuff for her not go to the market (after the flight) outside her door, would this affect my progress?? should i just wait for her message? (she has some of my stuff), it's been 3 months since i havent seen her and 1 that i been doing NC thanks a lot you are the boss!
Rudo, I'm sure you mean well and that you love your ex very much... however, continuing to show your devotion to her when she's already ended the relationship with you will NOT serve you well. To you, you're showing love, but to her, you are really becoming this girl's doormat. And trust me when I say you don't want that. What I'm saying is doing that is simply an overkill. :-) Try to take it easy first. Focus on the second phase and eventually the third phase when the time is right. This won’t happen overnight, of course, but it’s something you ought to continue to work on to the point where you’re gradually building attraction again. This is what my guide is for. Have you checked it out yet? It's too complicated to explain everything on here, but here's an overview of these phases and what to expect in each one: ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-aeGNPBdpnsI.html Good luck!
Will this still work even if she's in a relationship with someone? @Brad Browning, all I can tell you even though we broke up 3 years ago her last text question was how often I think about her, thanks Brad.
Is she showing any of the signs here: ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-CsVR7yV4X8k.html because unless she did, then chances are she's trying to assess her power over you and whether or not she still has a hold on you. Good luck!
im loving all your advice but time is kinda short. do u have any ideas on how to get your ex back in a timeframe. she is moving far away soon. she broke it off. any advice if she's moving away in two months and currently wants nothing to do with me or so she says. actions have said otherwise
Unfortunately, no. In fact, the surest way to sabotage your chances would be to set a deadline. It simply doesn't work that way since rebuilding attraction is complex. It depends how smoothly you go through and how receptive she is through these phases: ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-aeGNPBdpnsI.html
hi brad..i will just ask..how many times can i use the no contact period?,,because the last time i used it,,he contacted me..we reached out w/ each other..but i think its not enough..i need to do it again..but he keeps on sending me msgs only when he wants to..so i need to do it again..will it work again for the second time around?,,thank u brad for helping us..instead of crying and dying,,im watching your videos..and u make me feel better and motivated..
Well, if you've only recently reconnected, then don't expect your ex to warm up easily. Getting an ex back is a process. Look out for the signs that your ex has moved on, though: y2u.be/TnZzeEIPEik But evaluate things, too. Are you sure you're not trying to rush it? Setting a deadline is a good way to fail when it comes to exes, so I highly discourage it. What steps have you taken to get your ex back? It's time to re-assess those and see what's working versus what's not working. Sometimes, getting an ex back is like trying to fit a square into a circle, but oftentimes, chances are you're letting emotion dictate you and therefore end up making the wrong choices. Have you checked out my guide yet? It’s ultimately up to you to act (or not act, depending on which phase you’re in) on getting your ex back, but it helps if you read it to know that you’re on the right track. Check it out at www.breakupbrad.com
Hi Brad, Im going to send the good reminder text in a few days, and its actually a concert that I want to go to also! Im planning to go with a friend. If it works out with my ex, would it be too involved to go to the concert together. Its technically only a few days after the no contact period, and would require a road trip. Would that be too much too soon? I was going to consider yes if kino 3 was established..
Not at all... but feel out your ex first. Is your ex open to the idea? And are you sure you're now emotionally capable of getting on a roadtrip with your ex for however long it takes without having a nervous breakdown because you wanted to get back together asap? A lot of people fall victim to it. Just be mindful of your words and actions and you'll be fine, especially if you feel you're ready. So go and try to invite your ex, but don't push it. These should help: ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-JbEoz81in-Q.html AND ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-L9XcUEIGK38.html Best of luck!
Hi brand! My bf and I dated for 3 years and half but he broke up with me 4 days ago. And I'm doing the no contact rule for 30 days but I still have his apt key and my stuff at his place. Should I go get my stuff or leave it there till he say something to me? Also I deactivated all my social media but my friends told me he still have my pics as his profiles and he's relationship status still say that his in relationship. I'm so confused. THANK U DO MUCH FOR UR ADVANCE. Just watching ur videos made me I realized i was doing too much for him and I deserve to be treated way better!! Because of u I got a personal trainer, registered to belly dance classes, and went shopping yesterday 🙌🏼🙌🏼. If I didn't find u on RU-vid I would have been crying and begging him to come back to me like I used. Lol Thank u so much again! Every time I feel down I watch ur videos and they give me life!!!!!! 🙌🏼🙌🏼🙌🏼🙌🏼🙌🏼🙌🏼🙌🏼 💙💙
Hey glad to have a seemingly positive effect on you, keep it up! :-) Sorry to hear about the breakup, nonetheless. I suggest to not look so much into what he's been doing since it'll only increase your chance to overanalyze. Keep the focus to yourself instead, okay? You're also welcome to sign up for my coaching program if you're unsure how to go about this or you're planning to do something but not sure if it's a good idea or not, etc. but I would have to look a the situation as a whole in order to give solid advice, at www.breakupbrad.com/coaching
