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How to Overcome Fear 

Brendon Burchard
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@Cornellah
@Cornellah 7 лет назад
F.E.A.R ... Forget Everything And Run...OR...Face Everything And Rise
@Lostery
@Lostery 7 лет назад
C Nell yep
@skornie123
@skornie123 7 лет назад
First Encounter Assault Recon
@Isabel-rt8th
@Isabel-rt8th 7 лет назад
C Nell I saw that before
@choppsyche8243
@choppsyche8243 7 лет назад
skornie123 *hi five* mah man
@sue6862
@sue6862 7 лет назад
False Evidence Appearing Real
@TheActionBrick
@TheActionBrick 10 лет назад
Don't focus on the fear… focus on the SOLUTION.
@MrBrooklyn4lyfe
@MrBrooklyn4lyfe 9 лет назад
Great quote.
@theanimalkeaper
@theanimalkeaper 9 лет назад
I like you're comment pall :)
@noorazira4544
@noorazira4544 9 лет назад
Hey , that's my motto ! I use it almost every single day :)
@rowanx4621
@rowanx4621 7 лет назад
what about fear of death?
@jessicajenkins4844
@jessicajenkins4844 6 лет назад
The Action Brick ❤❤❤
@LessonsInLife
@LessonsInLife 5 лет назад
“Living in fear is not living at all.”
@mercedsotelo2055
@mercedsotelo2055 3 года назад
True my freind
@mercedsotelo2055
@mercedsotelo2055 3 года назад
People have to learn to stop living in their mind but live in reality
@cal.p7776
@cal.p7776 3 года назад
Merced Sotelo true
@mercedsotelo2055
@mercedsotelo2055 3 года назад
@@cal.p7776 Yes my friend to get over this I would write all your worries on a piece of paper and tell god to help you and leave it somewhere safe and don't forget about god
@youngballer5252
@youngballer5252 3 года назад
@@mercedsotelo2055 isnt that also not living in reality?
@elledarling5562
@elledarling5562 5 лет назад
When a situation came up where I wanted to do something but I was afraid, I would stop and ask myself, "what would I do if I wasn't afraid" and it's been very helpful for me
@elledarling5562
@elledarling5562 Год назад
@@josellebolden578 My pleasure ☺️
@IntuitiveWellnessAdelaide
@IntuitiveWellnessAdelaide Год назад
Yesss another comment that is more useful then the two videos I just watched!! Thanks hun I think I’m gonna try this .
@elledarling5562
@elledarling5562 Год назад
@@IntuitiveWellnessAdelaide Thank you :) I hope it helps you too!
@bernardwright891
@bernardwright891 Год назад
@freemanbooth Thanks for sharing this financial insight. I currently make 106k/yr. No home or Iπvestment and I work from home. I need to do something quick or else I’m goiπg to be paying a lot to the IRS come tax season.!
@bernardwright891
@bernardwright891 Год назад
You have done great for yourself. I have heard many good recommendations about Rochelle Dungca-Schreiber by some YT channels, Seminars and other platforms.
@BestEDMToday
@BestEDMToday 7 лет назад
I learned that fear is just lies holding you back once you overcome it you will feel fantastic
@tommychappell6359
@tommychappell6359 7 лет назад
Best EDM Today but what if fear wasnt the problem, and there was a very real thing to fear?
@desirewilliams8606
@desirewilliams8606 7 лет назад
Best EDM Today I'm scared of gohst
@eveyjohnson2714
@eveyjohnson2714 7 лет назад
yes because today is my best friend's 10th birthday but i'm at home freaking out about serial killers so i'm so scared that one is going to go to her house even though she has a security thing so it beeps when some one comes.
@SFraxure
@SFraxure 6 лет назад
Best EDM Today I don't think you have any idea what I'm scared of. Facing it will just make me question living
@luciatat4084
@luciatat4084 4 года назад
So true!
@AS67
@AS67 2 года назад
This video changed my life. Back in 2015 I had moved in to a complete different country and was on my own. A lot of things messed up with my mental health but anxiety and fear specifically left me broken and unable to make any progress in my life. After watching this video I made the decision that I won’t stay captive to my own mind. 6 years later, I am now a lawyer married to the love of my life and doing a masters degree in law. Don’t let fear stop you from living your life and achieving your goals.
@Philanthropyuae
@Philanthropyuae Год назад
I’m sure your comment will make a difference on how I perceive the information in this video. I will be doing my masters soon! Hope you are doing well🌷
@melanatedgoddess7743
@melanatedgoddess7743 6 месяцев назад
Wow!! That’s wonderful
@juliekhoo1467
@juliekhoo1467 6 лет назад
I have fear of facing people. And I feel like I'm not enough. No talents, skills, passion & interest. I'm a total mess.
@blackblood6663
@blackblood6663 6 лет назад
Same. T-T AND IM ALSO SCARED OF BEING SCARED :(
@juliekhoo1467
@juliekhoo1467 6 лет назад
BLACK BLOOD666 It's very frustrating!
@nipundelhite1623
@nipundelhite1623 6 лет назад
Hii if i may ask what do you do ?
@Subscribersnovideos-zs2sy
@Subscribersnovideos-zs2sy 6 лет назад
Everybody has a talent, whether you realise it quickly or not. Stay strong hun :)
@RellyrellREACTS
@RellyrellREACTS 6 лет назад
Then you honestly don't know what you should Know...It's not a bad thing at all it's the powers that be fault you must dive deep into known you will experience confusion but you will adapt that's the way of life you should consider
@EllaBella-gm1dv
@EllaBella-gm1dv 6 лет назад
1. Fear of loss - focus on what you can gain. 2. Fear of the process pain/ hard work it will take to change - know that challenges will help you reach your highest self and you can find some challenges to be fun 3. Fear of outcome pain (afraid that you will do everything that you should've done but still won't reach the desired outcome) - Visualize and attract the positive outcome, don't obsess over the negative outcome. You will find a way and grow more competitive to achieve the desired outcome through the process.
@pratikghosh1995
@pratikghosh1995 4 года назад
in short we fear the truths like loss ,hard work and outcome
@sabuhassabaah2913
@sabuhassabaah2913 4 года назад
Very good thank you but always not look me 👆 🙏👍😆😂
@somefrenchdude9439
@somefrenchdude9439 2 года назад
What is the difference btw « what you gain » (1) and « positive outcome » (3)?
@fcmck4011
@fcmck4011 2 года назад
I find that moving my eyes laterally helps me overcome my fears. I kind of roll my eyes at a comfortable pace and try my hardest to do what I want to do at the same time and it usually works. Andrew Huberman has some videos on it.
@digitalsketchguy
@digitalsketchguy 8 лет назад
This guy is better than a £100 ph psychotherapist. Priceless therapy and it;s FREE! I need to pinch myself
@no0bzer0thepsycho14
@no0bzer0thepsycho14 7 лет назад
I'll get over my fear of falling off a mountain in fact I'll jump off a mountain right now
@IleanaAngeles
@IleanaAngeles 6 лет назад
Actually psychotherapy is different but I get your point.
@potatolover228
@potatolover228 7 лет назад
Im scarred of being alone. Because then im alone with My toughts. I'll start thinking of death,the future, money,social anxiety, school, having to meet people, existential crisises and more. I always end up crying and i hate it.
@potatolover228
@potatolover228 7 лет назад
Scared*
@sja6331
@sja6331 7 лет назад
Its not uncommon, also the current state of the world is centred around distraction. But think of it this way, you will never be this young, you may not have the same oppertunities. I like my own company, you learn about your capabilitiesyour prefrences... Just witness the sun coming up in the morning and realise the world didnt crumble overnight. The universe and life have a balance, you are going to be ok through it all, just like the rising sun manages to come up every morning no matter what happens.
@TheLadynamaste
@TheLadynamaste 7 лет назад
well look at ur picture its happy
@-taylor-9980
@-taylor-9980 7 лет назад
it is not good to daydream while forgetting to live. :) i had these problems when i was a child, sometimes still stop and think alot but need to get out and do things keep the mind at bay.
@musimax1878
@musimax1878 7 лет назад
This is just what I feel like, my mind shuts everything out and I just have to think about what if my parents die, what if I don't get a job, why do I need to grow up so fast. It's like a storm, I'm 12 and going to the doctors to see what it it, I hope it's just puberty and that it'll go away on its own. I don't mind if I need any kind of medication, I just fear along with all of my thoughts that I'll have it forever
@kme5190
@kme5190 4 года назад
F.E.A.R - - F = False - E = Evidence - A = Appearing - R = Real
@wariepic7572
@wariepic7572 4 года назад
Thank you.
@stuntclub1526
@stuntclub1526 4 года назад
fear f. forget. e.everything. a.and r.run fear f.face e.everything a.and r.run.
@justmeandmyhomies1533
@justmeandmyhomies1533 3 года назад
@@stuntclub1526 na man Fear comes with a lot of meaning sooooooo
@acceptancebelieves1908
@acceptancebelieves1908 3 года назад
Fail Elevate And Realize
@aryarai5933
@aryarai5933 2 года назад
@@justmeandmyhomies1533 yes👷‍♀️👷‍♀️
@mohammadbloxxz488
@mohammadbloxxz488 5 лет назад
Fear is an illusion...it's actually just your imagination the real thing that existed is nervousness
@crymeariver546
@crymeariver546 3 года назад
So you doing the gainer off the 50 foot cliff?
@56username
@56username 3 года назад
Fear is unbelief
@funnyandvidsforkids9247
@funnyandvidsforkids9247 2 года назад
Yeah I believe in you
@siddusiddu7215
@siddusiddu7215 2 года назад
Yeah I belive 👍👍
@jackk2694
@jackk2694 2 года назад
@@crymeariver546 i’m here for same sorta thing
@jermainejohnson209
@jermainejohnson209 8 лет назад
I'm afraid of being alone but I also feel deep down that I'm destined to be alone.
@jaydon60555
@jaydon60555 7 лет назад
nobody is destined to be alone. you'll find someone
@BlutigMorgen
@BlutigMorgen 7 лет назад
I feel you there
@nikhilsukumar23
@nikhilsukumar23 7 лет назад
Yes me too, actually anyone can manage alone but society and media has created so much fear around loneliness that we have forgotten to experiment it.
@relaxish8362
@relaxish8362 7 лет назад
My Name Is My Name I feel you bro
@nikhilsukumar23
@nikhilsukumar23 7 лет назад
Mrs T_9807 yes Ty that was so kind of you to explain, yes what I do is eat early dinner by 6 or 6.30 and gradually work my eyes to get tired and sleep by 8 or 9.
@KimunyaMugo
@KimunyaMugo 10 лет назад
Fear has held me captive for a long time... but no more. I am sharing my voice with others. I have taken a bog step. It is challenging, frustrating, and sometimes can freak me out. But my creative juices are flowing like a raging river. I can't be stopped by anything, not even the moments I feel like giving up!
@JanH1961
@JanH1961 10 лет назад
We can do what we set our mind to do and push ourselves to achieve. Bottle up that raging river to tap into at the low times...good luck.
@KimunyaMugo
@KimunyaMugo 10 лет назад
Jan Hoadley, thanks :)
@Vivungisport
@Vivungisport 10 лет назад
Thanks buddy ! ,for sharing your opinion, I can relate to what you said.
@carolasandrakaty
@carolasandrakaty 5 лет назад
This video changed my life some years ago. Thank you so much, Brendon! I remember I listed all my fears for each category in excel 🤣😂 and then in another column I have put an idea that helped me overcome each fear. I looked on that list enough times until I have found my courage. Life saving! I have quit my job and started living my dream. It was hard, but it was the best thing ever! I have also become during this process a lot more healthy, more mature, aware, self-confident, helpful for my family, my house is cleaner (as I have time for it), I lost weight, I have better relationships with others as I discovered nicer people... It is incredible! You are amazing and this advice is gold! There are no words to thank you enough! God bless you!❤🤗😍💋
@Philanthropyuae
@Philanthropyuae Год назад
Please tell me more about your experience going after your dream. I have resigned from my work recently, it’s not approved yet as I have a meeting with the HR director tomorrow, but yeah!
@richardharringtonofficial
@richardharringtonofficial 2 года назад
Wow I love how deep this video went, no fluff, love it! 1. The fear of loss 2. The fear of process 3. The fear of outcome Thanks again Brendon! Much love from Bali ❤️
@FivestarBranding
@FivestarBranding 9 лет назад
What most people really want is a feeling. True mastery of life comes from understanding how to create these feelings in a healthy way. Don't be fooled into creating a life that you think will make you happy, first understand what makes you happy, then build your dreams around it. For me my deepest sense of happiness is in singing praise and worship songs to God.
@pascualjhonryan
@pascualjhonryan 8 лет назад
well said bro :)
@irishblasco9294
@irishblasco9294 8 лет назад
For me what makes me happy and makes me feel like myself is when I sing and dance and so I realized my dream is to become a singer, to do what I love. The fear that I have tho is following or reaching this dream would mean messing up the relationship I have with my parents. I am not from a well off family so my parents wants me to be practical in everyway so I chose a job that is very far from my dream but compensates very well. The thing is I suck everytime. Why do I get stressed over something I don't want inthe first place? But bcoz parents has huge expectations from me I just followed what they want. I've been through this for more than 3 years and during these times I decided to forget about happiness. My Mom even said that I should not work to be happy bcoz we work for money. It sounds crazy but I did not contest her, I understand where she' s coming from. Surviving everyday is difficult specially for a family of 11 people. Its reaaally frustrating tho that they care less of my feelings. They seem to understand the importance of being happy and being yourself. So If I chase for my dream, for certain I would not have good relationship with them anymore. I say this from what reaction I saw from them when I gave them hints. They take hapiness as simply leisure. And if I just let it be, I feel like dying. Its like I'm digging my own grave. I'm ... miserable. When I think about it family should be your first and biggest supporters but they are actually the ones pulling me down everytime I try to climb and the weight is too much for me to carry. Do I really need to choose who to save between myself and my family??? Sorry for this looong story. I just somehow needed to vent out. I have no one to speak about this so ... I would be truly grateful If anyone can give me an advice about my horrible situation. Thanks!
@kerasme9749
@kerasme9749 8 лет назад
+eros blasco Even my life is this crazy. Going for the more practical solution like going for the money making job with more security. I think u can lose this mentality only by doing what u love and become successful in it.Just start taking these small tasks as challenges and the freedom you will gain when u overcome them. I understand what u mean by family holding u back and the constant worry u get about their well being.
@irishblasco9294
@irishblasco9294 8 лет назад
Yes, I get a different feeling when I do what I love. It feels like I'm complete and tho life is hard, I am still genuinely happy. All I ever want is a chance to follow my dream bcoz I hate to grow old looking back, regretting the things I haven't done but sadly I couldn't get that one chance. I couldn't even tell my parents how I truly feel because they constantly speak about how life is harder when they were young. There is a saying " It is not your fault to be born poor but you will be solely responsible if you die poor." My parents failed to see their future and didn't plan our family thus our situation is like this. I want to break this chain and become successful. What is my first step? I've been thinking long and hard but I just got doubtful and confused. I don't want to be a failure for my parents ( already am in the eyes of my father ). I feel so helpless. I always hope I can talk to someone about this and get encouragement and enlightment. Thank you so much for responding!!!
@csillafekete5738
@csillafekete5738 8 лет назад
+eros blasco Reading your story I felt like you were describing my situation. I can totally relate! My mother always wanted me to be perfect, to have good grades, to always excel in everything. I know that her intentions were always good, but she knew that my true passion was drawing, creating. She didn't want me to choose an art career, though. She said that I was capable of more (and choosing art equals an uncertain carreer path) but I just simply wanted to create art, to draw, because this is my passion. After graduating high school, I chose to study fine arts and graphic design, even though my mother didn't want me to. She accepted it after a while, because she saw that I really wanted to do this, and more importantly, I loved doing this. I will graduate this year from university (it was my greatest decision so far), but my family is still doubtful about my career, because they don't believe that there is a way to make money from art. You know, I think that you should pursue your passion as well, for example, going to music school would be a great start. You should definitely practice a lot, sing a lot, and DO WHAT YOU LOVE!!! I understand that you don't want to be a failure for your parents (I am also a failure in my mother's eyes because she doesn't believe in art), but the point is that you should take the first step, and just do it. They will realize that you are driven, passionate, because you are doing what you really love. I really support you, I suggest you practice every day a lot, apply to music school practice an instrument, upload videos of you singing on RU-vid, gain a supporting team... I've heard you singing, you are really talented!!! I subscribed to your channel, hoping to see more. I really hope that you will follow your dreams and start doing what you really love. P.S. : I really recommend you to watch videos like this one, they can help a lot.
@LearnEnglishESL
@LearnEnglishESL 7 лет назад
One way to overcome fear is by saying prayers. It's high positive thinking: "O Lord! Protect us from what lieth in front of us and behind us, above our heads, on our right, on our left, below our feet and every other side to which we are exposed. Verily, Thy protection over all things is unfailing." - The Bab, Baha’i Prayers, p. 133
@maddiedaddie8135
@maddiedaddie8135 7 лет назад
Blah blah God ain't real
@rndm-r1dr905
@rndm-r1dr905 7 лет назад
that doesn't help athiests
@LearnEnglishESL
@LearnEnglishESL 7 лет назад
See the world's order. Basic logic reveals that all thing have a Maker. The Maker is superior to that which is made. Superior Messengers are sent every 500-1000 years to guide & help us .
@shmellyable
@shmellyable 7 лет назад
dude I think you are so right
@rndm-r1dr905
@rndm-r1dr905 7 лет назад
+LearnEnglishESL define messengers
@mchlrae7
@mchlrae7 5 лет назад
I literally failed at Nursing School in Undergrad. Fast forward 11 years later and becoming a nurse is all I think about, but I am scared shitless. I must focus on the rewards, not the process. I needed to see this video. Thank you so much!
@luciatat4084
@luciatat4084 4 года назад
Wow, this helped me so much! Today I overcame my fear, and did what I was afraid of. I was so surprised to see how amazing it felt!
@Elizabeth-lf6mc
@Elizabeth-lf6mc 9 лет назад
My fear is talking to people or in front of a lot of people....embarrassing myself, waterslides, spiders. But most of all losing someone I love
@Elizabeth-lf6mc
@Elizabeth-lf6mc 9 лет назад
omg thanks! do soo did help i have a speech today that i have to say in front of hundreds of people and everytime i do this i get REALLY nervous.... and when i talk i swallow IN THE MIDDLE OF A WORD i swallow while i'm taking in the middle of a word. and i remeber the first time i did the swallowing thing and i keep doing it EVERYTIME!
@loh1110
@loh1110 9 лет назад
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@romanali7443
@romanali7443 9 лет назад
Ii
@mascara7757
@mascara7757 7 лет назад
I'm so afraid of the dark. I turn my light off and finally start to relax and then I panic and turn my light back on.
@shivamkaradwalmusic2182
@shivamkaradwalmusic2182 4 года назад
Same
@chiefmen749aris6
@chiefmen749aris6 4 года назад
I watched pennywise and since then im so scared
@santoskaiky7324
@santoskaiky7324 3 года назад
You aren’t scared of the dark.... you’re just scared about what could be in the dark, scared of what lives in the dark and that is a fact.
@artwithmamafairybreadd
@artwithmamafairybreadd 3 года назад
Don’t worry about it....lots of people are afraid of the dark...truly, not a big deal...just keep a light on...I’m a teensy bit afraid too, I need some sort of soft light streaming into my room....and I freak out more if I watch a horror movie....then I need to sleep with the room light on....but I think it’s a non important fear....it’s like being afraid of moths....big whoopie
@user-sj3zl5qu3v
@user-sj3zl5qu3v 3 года назад
I had a dream or nightmare I should say I was in my bed I woke up a dark figure is starting at me this has happened for a long time everyday I see this when I sleep I stopped sleeping correctly it feels like it's killing me I feel pain.
@Wishfulthinker24
@Wishfulthinker24 2 года назад
In all my years of struggling with fear, I’ve never had anyone explain fear to me so well. It makes so much sense! God bless you!
@TaraWagner
@TaraWagner 5 лет назад
There are so many paralyzing fears I’ve faced and had to overcome. I had no choice because the fear of an empty life is far more terrifying. After doing this work for so many years (and coaching women in it), I’ve come to see exactly what Brendon’s saying here: it’s JUST a thought. My brain has random thoughts all the time. The difference is which I give time and attention to. With practice, the thoughts/fears don’t go away, but they do lose power. You start to realize you’re trying to ignore or reason with or “overcome” a monster under the bed, when there is in fact no monster at all. 😆
@DayoSamuelMastery
@DayoSamuelMastery 5 лет назад
Tara, that's a super illustration of what I call Anticipatory Fear.
@ryanlewis194
@ryanlewis194 7 лет назад
The problem is "fear", feels really bad.. Very sick to your stomach and many body symptoms.
@ingridroyston5905
@ingridroyston5905 9 лет назад
This man is such a blessing! Thank God for him.
@thenewcedric
@thenewcedric 3 года назад
The thing is that, your fear is only on your mind. You are letting your mind consume you. You should be in control of your own thoughts, do not let your own thoughts startle you. You are way bigger than what you fear.
@sophienavarro4317
@sophienavarro4317 6 лет назад
This is true! Feel the fear and do it anyway. I am at a point in my life where I can no longer live in fear. Just be who you are authentically and live your life. It's amazing once you stay connected to who you are. Your videos rock Brendon! Thank you! :)
@miamaynard6690
@miamaynard6690 8 лет назад
I have a fear of standing infront of people or talking to other people or asking ppl if i can join in
@pk_lo4638
@pk_lo4638 7 лет назад
Mia Maynard that's normal you just have to believe you can do it
@NeilGriffin
@NeilGriffin 10 лет назад
This message deserves to be repeated regularly Brendan...
@12vak
@12vak 3 года назад
6 Years ago, you inspired me to think positively. Through these 6 years I experienced my worst deppression. I consistantly devalued myself, telling myself that what I did was not enough. It was all because of fear. I was fearfull of being nothing while at the time I had the most I could ever want. I remember every night crying and every day thinking if I should quit what I am doing. My self esteem wrecked itself and my body already had really bad stress symptoms to the point where my hands where shaking daily. I quit all of my daily routines and ignored reality for half a year. Now I am standing stronger then ever but today I felt that fear again.
@Philanthropyuae
@Philanthropyuae Год назад
Hope you’re doing much better now!
@joyteodoro7822
@joyteodoro7822 5 лет назад
This is my favorite video. I will always come back here and watch you bec I can relate. I’ve been a super positive person before until I have to deal with adult responsibilities. It consumed me, made me a worrier, made me a different person that I know I’m not. Until when I woke up this morning from nights of less sleep bec I’ve been worrying about things in life, I woke up tired of feeling like this... so now I’m going to try one day at a time to change my mindset and deal with everyday in a positive way. Thank you for sharing your positive, light and bright personality.
@lakishakendall6785
@lakishakendall6785 9 лет назад
Great video I enjoyed it, my greatest fear is coming out of the box (coming out of my comfort zone) being fearful of how others will view me
@vanarno7156
@vanarno7156 8 лет назад
Man, you are so motivational!!!
@thomasscott3912
@thomasscott3912 8 лет назад
true
@GenerationX1984
@GenerationX1984 8 лет назад
Only people with money can start a business. Us poor people have to rob banks to get things done. It's a conundrum, isn't it? I don't know if you can change your paradigm to become rich or not.
@alleks3
@alleks3 5 лет назад
I needed this video to personally overcome fear and that piece of art just helped me ! Thanks a lot Brendon . Blessings for everybody !
@s-s7579
@s-s7579 4 года назад
I listened to this before but I wasn't READY TO LISTEN TO THIS until now. You have to be mentally ready and boy did this hit home! Thank you!
@zevenzavonis6389
@zevenzavonis6389 8 лет назад
I'm really afraid of the dark or living in a big house because in a big house I think someone will break in or in the dark I think there is someone there like a ghost
@zevenzavonis6389
@zevenzavonis6389 8 лет назад
Looking at me
@telepathykid8627
@telepathykid8627 8 лет назад
same bro
@bingo2433
@bingo2433 8 лет назад
Just think about it with logic ghosts make no senes and are made up by humans that that thought helped me get over my fear of the dark. The big house part i cant answer since i do not fear death.
@TheLadynamaste
@TheLadynamaste 7 лет назад
OMG I KNOW
@chairy_playzmspx9372
@chairy_playzmspx9372 7 лет назад
Zeven Zavonis JUST LIKE LIGHTS OUT, IM NOW SCARED OF THE DARK, TO KEEP MY LIGHT ON I WILL HELP PAY THE BILLS
@Mari14333
@Mari14333 7 лет назад
Thank you so much for sharing your knowledge with so much people like me Brendon. I'm taking advantage of this.Thank you again!!🤗
@jeetkaur6568
@jeetkaur6568 6 лет назад
You've improved my life a bunch and i've only started watching you 2 days ago. Im so thankful i came across this youtube. Starting every morning out with one of your videos. Thank you so much.
@motorcycleadventuresperu5979
@motorcycleadventuresperu5979 3 года назад
Crazy how this video has 7 yrs of being posted but still it's the most helpful I´ve found! I am afraid of heights but I am slowly travelling to this places that are really high above sea level and on Wednesday I will try the most difficult road until now for me. I used to think the what if and the negative thought but now I only think about the what if and immediately see myself admiring incredible landscapes as well as visualizing myself finishing this trip and not being able to stop smiling!!!
@Philanthropyuae
@Philanthropyuae Год назад
Tell us about how that experience went! Or I guess you had so much more trips that you don’t remember now what was that trip!
@Philanthropyuae
@Philanthropyuae Год назад
God bless you
@TinaCook
@TinaCook 10 лет назад
Yes! Tune out of the networks and the constant bombardment of fear-talk and tune into Brendon! You rock as always Brendon! Thank you.
@lr22294
@lr22294 9 лет назад
I've been sick all year long with anxiety. Im nauseous every day and my biggest fear is throwing up. I hate my fear, my fear makes me feel so weak. I can't stand it. I'm embarrassed to even talk about my fear to anyone. Please someone, anyone give me advice on how to conquer my fear 🙏
@cylechamberlin6369
@cylechamberlin6369 9 лет назад
Just throw up when you throw up you'll be like woah it feels better
@lr22294
@lr22294 9 лет назад
thats the thing its just nausea every day
@willisdooner
@willisdooner 9 лет назад
I suffer from the same thing! If u live in a medical marijuana state you can try to get your hands on a prescription for cannabis. It really helps with anxiety especially for stomach pain. If your anxieties. That in your stomach is flaring up, the medical cannabis may help you keep your food down and get a start to your day. It is medicine its not a druggie culture anymore
@boobalan10
@boobalan10 9 лет назад
watch videos of Jiddu Krishnamurthi about fear. The only way is to observe fear as it happens. Then you'll see you are not the fear. You are the one who sees fear... as you accept fear, it no longer disturbs you. This applies for any condition such as stress, anxiety, etc. also i suggest osho and mooji
@boobalan10
@boobalan10 9 лет назад
***** Accept your anxiety and stress imma. Totally. Let it flow all towards you and you just be the witness of it. Accept yourself as you are. Dont try to relax. Accept the way you stand,Breathe, feel. Accept everything thats happening inside you.
@chiachiarare
@chiachiarare 5 лет назад
Thank you Brenden, this was exactly what I need before launching a new stand to my business. Process pain everywhere. Look at me growing!
@SillyKoala
@SillyKoala 5 лет назад
I needed to hear that today. Thank you!
@andrewclouse8797
@andrewclouse8797 9 лет назад
Just everything that comes out of your mouth is so powerful! Some people need that last extra push to get them going on the right path and you give it to them! Just from this past month of continuously watching your videos ive truly realized what my goals are in life and to continue to pursue no matter anybody's opinion or judgment thrown at you....and to think millions and millions of people let the negative what ifs control or dictate what theyre going to be at life! Its absolutely crazy thank you for not only teaching me about overcoming fear but for helping me see what life is really about! THANK YOU!
@andrewclouse8797
@andrewclouse8797 9 лет назад
Me*
@andrewclouse8797
@andrewclouse8797 9 лет назад
In*
@Vicvines
@Vicvines 9 лет назад
My biggest fear is being alone and unloved. But it comes from a rational place because I haven't had a girlfriend in years and it gets harder to talk to women, not out of fear, but out of not knowing how. That's fucking scary.
@pammartinez5400
@pammartinez5400 9 лет назад
With God in my life, I may be alone but I am never lonely.
@southpaw602
@southpaw602 9 лет назад
Do not make excuses for your failures. Thats unacceptable. Go out and do it. It's ok to have fear, but it's not ok to yield to it. Good luck to you, my brother from another mother :D
@bethanykievit
@bethanykievit 9 лет назад
Same
@lexieluthor
@lexieluthor 9 лет назад
I say this carefully to Vic. If its rejection you fear - by choosing not to reach out to someone, you are only rejecting "taking a chance". Good things seldom happen without a chance of some sort taking place first. If someone says no thanks, its better to know than to wallow in self doubt and wonder if the chance was ever there. As long as someone is kind, and polite, you may be surprised who will be impressed by the confidence alone, taken to merely say hello. Other people are lonely too. Ask someone, may I buy you a coffee? Is this seat taken? Gee, the weather is rough today ... anything ... do it for you ! If you were happy being lonely - you would not have reach out on here - I have my fingers and toes crossed for you ! And it is tough at first, but the more you try, the more natural things will feel. Challenge yourself.
@Vicvines
@Vicvines 9 лет назад
Lexieluthor You're amazing. See, when somebody smarter than you comes along, it serves you well to listen. So I am all ears right now.
@elizhaqie97
@elizhaqie97 Год назад
Thank you for this. Imma face my fear's now coz I've been having this fear in me ,the fear of failure and being laughed at and the anxiety too... Soon ill be back here and say I did it
@metrotechnet
@metrotechnet 5 лет назад
I am genuinely surprised at how good the advice is in this video. Not filled w/ stereotypical phrases & platitudes but a great assessment of what fear really is & what it prevents us from achieving.
@soniakhalid3202
@soniakhalid3202 10 лет назад
I just found your videos, and I love them!!!!!!! Thank you so much for changing my perspective on so many things!!
@mariozammit7065
@mariozammit7065 9 лет назад
Loved it! I've personally learned to overcome fear however I really appreciate the way you articulated it for others to benefit from!
@TheLisaTorres
@TheLisaTorres 2 года назад
I so agree with you. Fear gets way too much airplay. Change the perspective. Thanks for sharing!
@mirrahalchemy7779
@mirrahalchemy7779 5 лет назад
the most practical advice on FEAR ive ever seen! Thank u Brendon :)
@Dave11078
@Dave11078 6 лет назад
Pray for God to heal you.
@jamboy1843
@jamboy1843 4 года назад
Jesus doesn't exist though
@itshannah8071
@itshannah8071 4 года назад
@@jamboy1843 you believe that, I do believe that he exist
@mozart7074
@mozart7074 4 года назад
Is this supported to 5 religions?
@arememesdead4008
@arememesdead4008 4 года назад
Ethan Botes shut up do you atheist
@jamboy1843
@jamboy1843 4 года назад
@PoLISh JeRRY nice dude you just convinced me the tooth fairy exist as well as Zeus exists because they're in books as well.
@Bibimbapski
@Bibimbapski 8 лет назад
Is anyone else afraid of the ocean and the depths of outer space like there being multiverses out there?
@siavashkharasi3209
@siavashkharasi3209 8 лет назад
+Bibimbapski yes - via YTPak(.com)
@finn4375
@finn4375 8 лет назад
nope. im afraid of all the animals and fishes what we dont know yet in the depths of water
@thesoulthatburns
@thesoulthatburns 8 лет назад
Sunlight if it makes you feel better.
@noeliarodriguez5092
@noeliarodriguez5092 7 лет назад
Fr
@JazzyJ96771
@JazzyJ96771 7 лет назад
I'm afraid of drowning.
@atplus2101
@atplus2101 6 лет назад
Thanks a lot for this vlog. I find it so instructive. Past years FEAR lay me back so that i was acting like a litle boy so now i will stand and keep moving on with a new statement. NO MORE FEAR
@seanmyes2650
@seanmyes2650 7 лет назад
Bad management of our own mental faculties- wonderful description and also relieving to hear it named like that. thank you
@FunkyMeauxMoney
@FunkyMeauxMoney 10 лет назад
Very well said; you clearly have passion, talent and wisdom. Thank you Brendon!
@LVnthelife
@LVnthelife 8 лет назад
I feel like you have helped me overcome my fear that I feel like was created when I was a child!!!
@Baby-su5rm
@Baby-su5rm 6 лет назад
Fear is so real to me the feel is so real and over powering for me . Its a struggle but this helps me look at it in a different way . The pain I felt makes fear so powerful.
@anushkaagrawal776
@anushkaagrawal776 5 лет назад
This video is great. Thank you!! Explains very well.
@trishakeel
@trishakeel 10 лет назад
I love these bits of wisdom and encouragement. Tucked in are solid gold nuggets we can use to move away from fear and towards a joyously charged life. I really appreciate your time and effort on our behalf, Brendon. Very nicely done. Class - nothing but class.
@trishakeel
@trishakeel 10 лет назад
Thanks James. I hope you'll pass 'em on to whomever might need them. Thanks for taking the time to say so, too. I appreciate it.
@ozairraja9379
@ozairraja9379 Год назад
The ones who offer others valuable advice and encouragement are true heroes, thank you sir for this great video. Life changing!
@saifuldigital
@saifuldigital 10 месяцев назад
This video is one the Gold mine on youtube, Thank you, Brendon.
@scarfacereivax7857
@scarfacereivax7857 5 лет назад
Thank you for clearing my mind..
@helencurry3801
@helencurry3801 4 года назад
My fear is so powerful that even when I am so blessed with so many people who truly Love me, that in my mind I still feel unworthy. Nobody really sees this because I am a great actress. My closest loves ones say I am a tower of strength and love. I believe I have it in me to feel worthy. But there is a constant war within me.
@randysweeney8854
@randysweeney8854 4 года назад
I believe if you listen to what God says about you, you can learn to be more confident in yourself on the inside. I to also do the same thing but my God tells me I am enough and it helps calm me.
@emeraudehime2431
@emeraudehime2431 3 года назад
This is just what i needed to hear to remind myself of why have these fears thats keepinh me from the life I want. Thanks for putting it into words Brendon.
@Whatisthis154
@Whatisthis154 2 года назад
Thanks a million. So beautiful and so true. What a wisdom.
@paulschmidt8742
@paulschmidt8742 7 лет назад
Every time i watch this my stress and fear just flows away.
@JazzyJ96771
@JazzyJ96771 7 лет назад
I am afraid of drowning, having a serious physical injury, being shot when I talk down the road, losing all of my friends, spiders, dying alone and never having enough money to live happily in my own place.
@choppsyche8243
@choppsyche8243 7 лет назад
Started watching this because I've been dealing with what people call HPPD. Ever since bad molly and LSD trips last year in October I've been dealing with a lot of crazy visuals and feelings of depersonalization. I'm unemployed at the moment and I'm usually home alone which makes my anxiety worse. This video really helped me get my head together on the days I've been home alone. Thanks Brendon! You're better than any therapist I've ever had.
@TogetherforGrowth
@TogetherforGrowth 3 года назад
Thank you, Brendon, for always sharing your insight. You are such an inspiration to me.
@fabulous55641
@fabulous55641 7 лет назад
The only thing I'm afraid of, is that something happens to my family. Family has #1 priority!
@sampradashrestha06
@sampradashrestha06 3 года назад
Sooo true ❤️ same here ❤️
@MrNitin360
@MrNitin360 9 лет назад
Love the way he speaks..
@tshepomoleke1492
@tshepomoleke1492 6 лет назад
I have so many self help books in my life that I though success will just be automatic but yet I still haven’t progressed in my life and I couldn’t understand why until now. Thanx for the revelation Brendon. God bless!
@dubsax1668
@dubsax1668 8 месяцев назад
learning to focus on what we will gain, not what we lose. Thank you for sharing. WELL DONE
@asudarashid3154
@asudarashid3154 8 лет назад
This is one of the very beneficial videos on RU-vid. I am one who afraid of many things in my life. I couldn't control my fears. I don't know what to do and how to get rid of it. May Allah help us all to overcome our fears and grant all of us a happy and fearless life. AMIIIIIIN YA RABB.
@Philanthropyuae
@Philanthropyuae Год назад
any update? God bless you
@tanakaharutora4309
@tanakaharutora4309 6 лет назад
I'll just say this is that “what if” didn't do anything "what if" is just an excuse so when u say "what if" think what ur gonna do and do it
@questionresearch8721
@questionresearch8721 Год назад
I had a breakthrough. And this is exactly what I could not verbalize. 👏👏. This is on repeat. 😊
@YoumnaSSheta-cw7ze
@YoumnaSSheta-cw7ze 6 лет назад
Thank you so much! That's exactly how I feel!! I'm not feeling an alien anymore and you also suggested the solution. Thanks!
@shirektft6055
@shirektft6055 Год назад
To overcome fear : 1. What is your fear ? 2. What is the bad things will happen? 3. How to deal with it ?
@astrid5366
@astrid5366 7 лет назад
At first I was super skeptical of this guy. I thought I had hit the weird side of RU-vid. (I'm a 13 year old girl, for crying out loud!) But what he was saying started to make sense to me. I had/have a REALLY bad irrational fear of big, open spaces, or rooms with high ceilings, like auditoriums and gymnasiums. Gym class and assemblies were practically torture for me. But after I watched this video, I realized how silly and irrational my fear was. I realized that I wasn't scared of the thing itself, I was scared of the fear that came with it. This really helped me. Thank you SO much.
@nataliepitt2283
@nataliepitt2283 6 лет назад
charlea brooke I'm a 13 year old girl to
@adriannunez2276
@adriannunez2276 5 лет назад
astrid I’m glad you overcame your fear! Great job! Adrian N
@angelaekemezie9515
@angelaekemezie9515 2 года назад
Thank you so much for this wonderful piece Brenden
@mariakiran2643
@mariakiran2643 6 лет назад
my eyes are crystal clear now! wonderful thoughts. thanks a ton.... would like to see more videos in upcoming sessions.
@Alexa-kb7xz
@Alexa-kb7xz 7 лет назад
I'm scared of being alone and the dark. So if you lock me in a dark room I may pass out
@susannabriones935
@susannabriones935 6 лет назад
Alexa same
@betweenasecond2213
@betweenasecond2213 4 года назад
*you know darkness cant beat the light💡 so there nothing in the dark can do something to you because guess what you are the light...*
@darkyvaded1371
@darkyvaded1371 3 года назад
you're not afraid of being along you're afraid of not being alone
@aliyadiena7430
@aliyadiena7430 3 года назад
Skskks same, i can't stop screaming until im really tired
@rigelaltair465
@rigelaltair465 8 лет назад
I wish i had no feelings.. anger, fear, hunger, pain.
@usmanmaroof6023
@usmanmaroof6023 8 лет назад
Happy joy or hope
@horuzz2009
@horuzz2009 6 лет назад
Feeling of hunger? Your body will still get hungry though but you wish to not feel it, so its possible you will die from hunger
@asmitachatterjee5146
@asmitachatterjee5146 6 лет назад
You mean you wish you weren't human? :)
@PhilominaKontoh
@PhilominaKontoh 2 месяца назад
Thank you so much Brendon, I ready to be on top of my nursing school game. We got this💪
@KaleidosonicDreams528
@KaleidosonicDreams528 4 года назад
Thank you...needed to hear that this morning.
@dakotavsz
@dakotavsz 6 лет назад
My anxiety causes my fear and makes it stronger.I cant overcome.I tried to get over it.I still do.Thank God,I'm ok.
@harijukublackbarbie182
@harijukublackbarbie182 2 года назад
same here, how have you been holding up ?
@arieszne
@arieszne 5 лет назад
I’m afraid of the truth. I still don’t believe my mom passed away...she’s alive..just..lost...
@theknight3093
@theknight3093 5 лет назад
Yeah she lives in you...she s not lost,she is with you...more than you realize...that s true...be well friend
@stormbreak7003
@stormbreak7003 4 года назад
Your mom ain't coming back
@luciatat4084
@luciatat4084 4 года назад
You are not afraid of truth, you are afraid of feeling certain emotions that come with accepting the truth. And most probably afraid that you won’t get over it...But trust me, you are able to overcome those emotions and that pain. And you are able to be happy after that sad moment in your life. We all have a hard time saying good bye to loved ones.
@satis7561
@satis7561 4 года назад
She is alive because energy doesn't die ,it just transforms.The spirit is forever.
@legacybike3313
@legacybike3313 4 года назад
Rafael Herrera that’s mean
@syedshahidiqbal9994
@syedshahidiqbal9994 4 года назад
Brandon! How can I ever repay you for making this video. Bro after watching this video, I literally overcome my biggest fear of scary things
@ludmilaniculita3303
@ludmilaniculita3303 5 лет назад
Brandon, thank you very much for your enthousiasm, it's so affectious. But not only. You are so right: understanding is power. Now that I understand what was stopping me, I can calm myself down (instead of beating myself up because I was trapped in fear) and shift my focus from fear to the desiared outcome and make my dream come true. Thank You!
@shaboatrad4066
@shaboatrad4066 7 лет назад
I was like sooooo stressed out but now I'm sooo calm
@_lailah7237
@_lailah7237 8 лет назад
I'm scared of my future👎🏿
@guitarsz
@guitarsz 3 года назад
this is truly amazing. Brendan is the best teacher.
@EmbodyYourDivinity
@EmbodyYourDivinity 6 лет назад
great point! We put so much emphasis on fear.
@sammyplayspokemon3124
@sammyplayspokemon3124 7 лет назад
I came here after watching clown videos
@tabithareid6576
@tabithareid6576 7 лет назад
Me to
@chairy_playzmspx9372
@chairy_playzmspx9372 7 лет назад
Sammy Plays Pokémon i came here after watching lights out lmao im done
@Lostery
@Lostery 7 лет назад
Sammy Plays Pokémon I came her after watching oksman
@maceproductions4973
@maceproductions4973 7 лет назад
I came. Here after watching rezident evil
@plasmetal8225
@plasmetal8225 7 лет назад
I came because I was watching Markiplier play SCP containment breach.
@get_nerfedmazzy9168
@get_nerfedmazzy9168 7 лет назад
FEAR has two meanings fear everything and run or face everything and rise use this to life and you'll succeed trust me
@jazlyn2159
@jazlyn2159 5 лет назад
You are so caaaaalming to listen to. Thank you so much Brendon! One day, I'm going to see you in person.
@fitnessandlifecoaching6716
@fitnessandlifecoaching6716 5 лет назад
Excellent. A simplistic yet detailed description.
@MiyaBubbles
@MiyaBubbles 9 лет назад
I have a fear of ghosts, spirits, ghouls, dolls etc. I tried watching more horror movies but I'm really scared that I can't sleep without a light or someone I trust near me... Every time I hear a noise I just freak out, and it's not fair
@ResanChea
@ResanChea 9 лет назад
I have the exact same thing, everytime I close my eye alone I will see a ghost or something near me, so I can't sleep alone or in darkness
@tachyon6376
@tachyon6376 9 лет назад
***** LOL
@ItzPikachuGirl33
@ItzPikachuGirl33 8 лет назад
TWINZIEESS LIKE HECK OMG EVERYTHING YOU SAID WAS SAME AS ME!!
@rmpgleason
@rmpgleason 8 лет назад
I have a fear of going to 4th grade tomorrow
@ItzPikachuGirl33
@ItzPikachuGirl33 8 лет назад
Renee Gleason LOL good luck with that just stay calm xD
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