I've never seen a discussion that is so brutally honest, so in your face, and so very relevant to these times. Ek hi video mein aapne past se le kar present, karma se lekar dharma, psychology se lekar legality aur bhi jaane kitne concepts ko itne simple tarike se interweave kiya hai, aur saari baat itne simple aur "tark sangat" tarike se samjhai hai. Hats off to you Sir...
Sometimes I feel our Indian culture is so complicated. We are so mean to each other in fly for money and property and then we judge westerners for having no values Such an irony
मैं एक एडवोकेट हूं और आप जो जो उदाहरण दे रहे हैं ऐसा लग रहा है कि आप और सारे उदाहरण मेरी निजी जिंदगी के दे रहे हैं वास्तव में हर इंसान के जीवन में ऐसा ही होता है आप बहुत बधाई के पात्र हैं कि इतना जीवंत और वास्तविक उदाहरण प्रस्तुत किया है
I wish, we had more people like you guiding the society on sensibility and practicality in our day-to-day lives.we as a society could make so much of progress. Thank you.
Looking g after the well being of old parents is a thankless job. Even the law does not allow any extra gratification to the Shravan kumar and his wife. That's the reason parents are taking shelter in old age homes.
I don't see any problem in giving more to the child who takes care of parents because parents also need a child's care and support. Love and care are valuable but if parents want to give something in return for it without being forced or influenced there's nothing wrong
@@annsgal2025 He didn't share the scenario when the child is taking care of the parents because of good values and he is equally doing good but he is supportive and well cultured wife, however other brothers are there in the same old building but are not taking care of the parents , he is compromising with his freedom, privacy etc and have good nature thats why parents want to stay with him , mother has option to live in separate floor/room and everyone take care of her
Adorable Sir you are very practical man..... your suggestions are very useful but people don't change they are selfish specially old generation....they are scared of situations Old generation never changed... practice makes man permanent .
Sir, I have been watching your videos from last one week. I agree with all of your views🙏🏻 Your content is unique and awsome. It has instantly brought positive changes in me . Keep going 👍🏻😊
Smaller family ...good parwarish ........ property division is more clearer as division less hota hai ...less chance of dispute.... . Aaj kal purani property ka dispute ka bahut bada kaaran large number of family hee hai....most cases....
your content is well researched and touches the core of many north Indian Households and reveals the truth which has been prevalent but no one openly talks about. Thanks for bringing light on such topics. Keep sharing your valuable* insights with us.
One absolute benefit of ur videos is Not ki ye families ki problems solve karega. More than that , It is teaching the present generation about ---- what r the real issues in a household . Specially after 50 s and 60 s. So the present ( 30,s 40s 50 s) vaali generation now know what issues r . Very clearly thru ur videos. And for sure. Whoever is watching these. Will not do the same with their own kids. When our kids grow ,problems will b different n these Problems of property , parents dominance etc. Will b already solved becuase of ur videos ( whosoever is watching these) A great service u r doing atleast to indians 👏
I have a different opinion in this. Money can't replace everything. The couple staying with elderly parents adjust their life styles according to the whims and requirements of their elderly parents. There are many untold sacrifices from both sides and misunderstandings between couples who are staying with old parents. If according to the law property has to be distributed evenly then according to the law the nalaik son must have the right to leave his parents with the so called elite,efficient and moneyed sibling for few months and enjoy a stress free life with his family.Now a days personal nurses are earning a fortune only for having a companionship to the line senior citizens. But when a nalaik villager son does the same then why he should not get some extra ? I think a portion of the share should go to the daughter in law ( or son in law,if the daughter is keeping the parent ) of the son who is looking after the parent.
To be honest even the son who stays with parents does not pay rent or emi.If he would have option then he may go out to pursue his career.He is not willingly opt to serve parent ..this is most of the cases happening
I know of a relative in my village who has never gone away from village since 20 years because he has to be with his bed-ridden chacha at home. People sacrifice family holidays, family outings because there is a bed-ridden parent at home. Even the parent do not want to be left alone. The child living away is enjoying life without a care in the world, not even calling and asking the parent how they are doing. But they want barabar barabar. Barabar should be in everything, then? Yes, 75:25 ratio may be ok in such cases.
@@rahulchandra2164 - Hopefully the man taking care of village property welcomes all his nephews and brothers with love every time they go to visit and doesn't sell the land.
@@anushuks Yes my [eldest] grand father is died but his children taking care of everything in village. And we now don't go to village because of habit of living in Bombay. But my other relative go there yearly.
Mere ghr main he aisa hai main or mere husband dosri city main rehte the but hm logo ne sari jimedaria pori ko mere MIL bimar hoyi six month unka dhyan rakha bad main unki death ho gyi meri devrani ne kni job se chutti ni le jab saas bimar thi..uski beti ka bi maine dhyan rakha ...abi main apne bete ki study ke liye ghr pr as kr rehne lag gyi ...papa ka bi dhyan rakhti hu baki sab kaam bi krti hu ..rishtedaro ko bi dekhti bu ..ab devrani chahti hai k yeh ghr main vhi log rehge ..kyuki vo log shru se rehte aye hai ..job krti hai to vo sham ko 7vje atti hai aor main pori din ghr sambhalti hu ..ab papa un logo ko jada property dena chahtehai aor hme kaam ... reason hai k vo kam kmate hai ...main bahar jror rehti thi but maine sari jimmedari pori ki hai ..but ab hm es kamm property lene ke liye bi ready hai ...saas ko usne sambhala ni but saas ki property jror leni hai
You are so so right.. my father inlow is a boneless man my mother in low tell her where to sit whom to talk she don't even allow him to talk my husband his son ..above all he transfer his all ancestors property to my mil...and my mil transfer that to her 3 daughters...my husband now suffering...
You bring out in open what is happening in our families , I have not come across any such videos on You Tube … That’s why I llike your good work sir … I appreciate all your videos !! Thank You!!
To avoid these issues in my peaceful life I opted for single child. This is one of the many reasons I opted for single child. Whatever i earn or get it will be for that child. I don't need the drama for my child.
And the girl is someday going to marry a boy who has such disputes and may have to suffer ...so there is no escape from the reality of the society we live in ..one way or the other It has to be resolved from the core.
I agreed with what you say but also who is providing care to parents day in and out is also compromising on many aspects of life e g going out on vacation or outings and care giver stress is also there hospital stays during hospitalisation monetary involvement may be there may not be there but day in and day out taking care itself is stressful daily monitoring of food acc to their choices med and their social obligations
What happens when all brothers live in same house with parents? And one brother is not ready for partition/distribution due to Jeaolousy and comparioson for everything and just develop intution and percetption that other one is doing more good however that is not the case , when Jealousy and comparison takes in ones mind solution is difficult. It is not always nikamma is taking care of parents , it is about values of the Son and his wife otherwise he is ready to equal distribution today itself and let others also take care of parents he is not saying that son is very much only interested to take care of parents , All four brothers are living in the same building
I live in Mumbai but my mother's parents were in Pune, they passed away without will, my mom has 2 sisters and 2 brothers. Brothers assume all the property belongs to them both. It's agricultural land , they have sold some part of it already, they just call my mom n her sisters for their signatures cuz property is still not distributed among them. I told my mom that she should ask for her share, she knows I'm right but since so many years women were not given the part of the property she hesitates to talk about it with her brothers, she thinks it'll cause many problems in the relationship. How can I get her part of the property?
@@Inspector1987 I am the elder Son having 1 younger brother, 9 years younger to me &2 sisters born & bought up in a lower middle class family but my father gave us good education within his means, although studied in Govt Schools but with dedication & with the grace of Almighty did my Engineering & had to leave my home town for Job & benefits of the Family as a whole including Brother, Sisters & Parents but in the process did not get even a single penny from my Parents including my parental house which was built up mostly out of my hard earned money My father gave every thing to my younger brother which I came to know only after his death
@@anilbakshi4505 hope you are financially well off. Consider you could build a house for your family members especially parents who could live comfortably during their old age. Let your sibling live there peacefully. God will give you n your family peaceful life
sir as you are describing about partiality between sibling, its happening with us also. But situation is completely opposite, Me and my wife is taking care of my parents all the time but they are always supported my sister who doesn't care at all. She just called up every week on Sunday as a tick marking activity. but my parents have always felt that she also their close to heart kid. we are feeling very frustrating in that situation. pls. suggest.
Agar parents Ameer aur powerful hai to budhape to aur bhi mazaa loot te hai. Ye sab love shove sab bekaar ki cheeze hai. You cannot depend on parent's wealth, jaise life change hoti hai waise waris bhi change hote hai. Yehi atal satya hai
Actually ulta bhi hota hai. The son staying with the family may be more qualified, earns more and does not keep any of his salary and invests in family. The other may be earning more or less does not matter, never looks back at the family and contributes neither time nor money. But pata chala parents sab kuch dusre wale ko de gaye because usko jarurat hai, tu to qualified hai, wo jyada udata hai 😂. Tu apna dekh le. This guy has no where to go, no savings in his 50s. And he may even lose his earning if he was running a business kyoki Bina money ke business band. This is real life. Parents do it just for fun.
