How to react when ignored in France 

At the same time, you should also never assume someone doesn't understand you. Someone has done that around me before, and trust me, you will feel very embarrassed to be called out. As they did.

@@Cabbage7Patch in what language was that?

​@@Cabbage7Patch when you speak 4 languages in Central Europe it happens alot actually, especially in a city. I don't tend to eavesdrop but if someone is badmouthing or just being a dick then I'm more than happy to just say have a good day in their language when i/they leave, not a fan of embarrassing people but people like that gotta get checked.

@Kaas I'm half English half German and speak both fluently. When I was visiting family in the UK we crossed paths with German tourists who started bad mouthing everyone and everything around them including us. So I called them out in German.

French people use that too - to talk infront of people who are trying to be part of a conversation, so they can't follow what's being said and know they can't follow what's being said

Very true, and so beautifully put!

That's an excellent analysis!

could watch hours of this

What he doesn't show is how you should order in France.... These places are busy af and don't have time to talk with people and explain the entire menu. Also they're not tipped like in America so they don't have to act nice either.

@@cycloneranger5354what a bad excuse…

But which one offers servers with a scintilla of understanding of what it means to be in customer services? :P

true and I also experienced this so many times in South Korea

out of the hundreds of french restaurants I have been to in the country sides and the Capital , honestly you can never be sure . Most of the service is good and frendly , but it might be because we are used to it lol what I said aplies to custormer service . I cannot find a law on how to find good customer service out of the experience i had , my only advice for that is looking in your apps for ***** customer service .

@@tttetra1507 yes this "law" probably works everywhere , but I can attest after eating in hundreds of french restaurant in Paris up to remoted part of the country side that it works quite well here. But you have to always look at the review, thats for sure.

you forgot to mention that the tourist focused places put lower quality food at higher prices. Or simply any restaurants in the uk

you mean he splashed the cash ordering expensive bottles of wine Zzzzz

it's pretty tragic tho how she mentioned if you're introverted, you'll have a very hard time. kudos to him for having that great extrovert charisma and her for coming out of her shell, but she brought up an excellent point that introverts don't deserve to be treated like trash simply because they're introverts and have trouble with social interactions. it's just as much a problem in the US as it is in Europe.

That’s his wife man

@@NativeAsElizabethWarren in that case, his BEST friend.

@@flannelpillowcase6475 @flannelpillowcase6475 No not just in EU. Here in phillippines its the same if ur somewhat introverted or cant catch up with jokes(insulting jokes) with other people. School or work or even in the streets its the same. I am currently working as a utility on a manning company soon to embark on ship. I'm a quiet man but talk to me and we'll talk for hours if I enjoy the chatting, but man..I don't get it, When people get too comfortable with you they just disses you out of nowhere when there's a chance.

I seriously started tearing up because it's so nice when you find these rare few out there that know it's much better to handle things gracefully as a default and reminds me of all the sweet people I've stumbled into in life. Reminds me of all my favorite regulars when I was in a restaurant for a few years, who were all similarly charming, considerate, and kind. Good morning 😂

한국식당에서 같은 대우를 받아도 그 감정에 매몰되지 않고 자기감정을 유지하면서 식사를 하게될까요?

@@jinulee7299 한국이면 더 가능하지 않나요? 이모님들이나 할머니 할아버지 뻘 사장님이 무례하게 굴어도 “뭐.. 어르신이니까” 하고 대수롭지 않게 넘기는 경우 많잖아요. 오히려 외국에서 저렇게 하는게 더 힘들 것 같아요

한국식 표현으로는 능글맞다 ㅎ

@@jinulee7299 한국에선 저렇게 늦게 주문하기도 전에 이미 손님이 여, 주문 좀 합시다! 하고 사태정리되겠죠. ㅎㅎ

@@jinulee7299 ㅋㅋㅋ 일단 5분이상 안기다림...

A lot of old people in the restaurants are rude toward the waiters in France. It's difficult for them and they tend to show the poker face/cold face when you arrive in a restaurant. And if they feel that you're not an ass, they lower their guard !

@@foufou81 Are you French? I notice this too. I’ve been to France 3x. I won’t say it’s a lot. But I do realize that French have a deadpan and sarcastic humor. It’s just them and nothing discriminatory I feel. When I join in their antics they are actually very friendly and warm, well still that French airs but it’s the culture and I’m ok. Anyways most recent trip last year I met so many friendly French people especially the younger ones. Even in Paris no one was unfriendly. Maybe we were lucky idk… I think it’s changing…

​@@EVL-xj5vc ​ That dude arrived with multiple cameras and started being loud and filming people. This isn't, Los Angeles,California, people are not huge fans of being filmed by vloggers while eating.

Really enjoyed it. He made me open a wine and drank it along with them😊.

seriously, i only planned to skim through but it's so nice to watch!!

Yeah, that waiter isn't the best at her craft to say the least 😁

I noticed that too, absolutely disgusting! If I had been the original consumer of those drinks I would’ve been highly embarrassed. If I was the recipient of those glasses on my table, I would’ve been out of there!

Or you could just talk shit about them in Korean or in any other languages you speak

cool story Karen

Yeah, that blew me away. So rude.

The waitress was kinda annoying but the neighbours were lovely

​@@Gontrz Thats because the neighbours are Dutch, not French

@@Billdijk000 the one from the off camera table were French

I experienced the same rudeness in France

@@lennylennington Imagine saying that after getting demolished by everyone in the last century.

한국에 저런 종업원이 있었으면 진상할줌마, 아재, 맘충들 융단폭격으로 참교육되었을텐데😅

그니까요!! 저도 기분이 너무너무 좋아지네요😊

사소한 행동이나 매너 하나에서도 그 사람에게서 드러나는 기품이라는게 있죠 단시간에 만들어지지 않는, 그 사람이 살아온 인생과 안목을 모두 보여주는.. 영상에 부부 분들이 확실히 좀 내공이 깊으신듯

닮고싶네요 ㅎㅎ 여유와 유머, 소통능력이 정말 대단하세요 !

한국어 놔두고 서버니 매직이니 테이블이니 이러니까 ㅈㄴ 없어보인다 ㅋㅋ

This is a video. It is like photographs that people always smile in. Nice short movie.

Yes and no. There are people out there just trying to catch clout by spreading drama and negativity. The fact that he remains polite and personable without batting an eye despite being treated like shit makes him 10x a man most people are admittedly including myself. And if it's all for the camera at least it's positive.

@@chrisbarbz9238 Fake positivity for his own glory?

@@vi683a It's not fake positivity, he genuinely is happy and an optimist and clearly a successful person in life to be spending that much on eating out.

@@michaeljackson8002" Believe nothing you hear and only 50% of what you see"

What shocking?? I only see normal interaction

@@thisnthat7760mainly the part about the lamb. If this is what you’re used to then a typical American dinner service would be a life changing experience

My Filipino friend says that if you hear Asian people speaking their native language, they're probably throwing shade.

@@allanturmaine5496 as a korean absolutely my parents know english but when the start speaking korean they dont hold back bro

That's the beauty of speaking languages that not many people understand, lol😂

cowardly behavior

@@pacepicante6952 non, vous êtes un petit cochon qui pu. That's French for "I'm pretty sure it's not cowardly."

Fuck the fact that he had to overcome discrimination or had to work for fair treatment. White ppl don't ever have to work for it. That's why I stick to Asian restaurants at least half the time.

Even with the same level of manners and EQ, I wonder if someone who spends less and yet to have such high level of food and wine knowledge would be able to regain the service and respect they're supposed to have from the waitress though

In my experience, when you are just give it a joy. The rude staff would change suddenly reflecting your energy. Well, it is what it is

the rude waitress didn't deserve it. she deserved a bit of cultural enrichment instead

Something to learn from this man. Dont let the servers or anything else ruin your enjoyment of food and the process of eating it. He make his own joy. Cheers for him

Why not nice husband and wife?

@@vanlifebae ooh is this a joke? i don't know, why? i can't wait for the punchline!

@@mowvu5380you could say nice men and women but the way you say it sounds like women are wifes and that men can just be men.

@@user-et2yn5hx9o i really don't mean to sound rude, but i could not care any less about what you just said haha

Can you explain where the funny part is

yep!

i found it cringe

They were actually dutch but we speak french and (better) english.

En tant que francais, je trouve ca génial, il a tout compris a l'esprit convivial francais, et c'est un veritable gentleman ! Il sera le bienvenue partout ici avec une telle mentalité :)

everyone but frigging staff

Good that you work on yourself. Always be kind to others even if they don’t give you the same friendly service. Those people need your smile the most actually, if you think about it ;) and never take it personal, they don’t even know you. They act like that with everyone. But your smile can activiste something in others. Like how this Asian dude made everyone smile around him, even the rude waitress. The power of always being friendly! It is what Jesus taught us. Even love your enemies, he said. They need that love the most.

Honestly, customers shouldnt need to emotionally coddle rude people to calm them down. Especially when they were already neutral and nice

私はルフトハンザ航空機に乗った時に乗務員から差別を受けました。それまでドイツには何の偏見も持っていなかったのですが、そのことがあってからドイツが少し嫌いになりました。ドイツはトランジットで数時間しか滞在したしかありませんが今後ガッツリ旅行するということはないと思います。この動画では店員さんの接客が悪いのは差別ではなく誰に対しても、ですが差別となくとまた話は別だと思います。

共有していただいてありがとうございます。もしよろしければどちらの地下にお住まいですか？私は北の方に一年ほど滞在し、帰国したのですがまたドイツに戻ろうと思っており、地域によって全く差別や思想が異なると聞いておりまして。実際に私はほとんど経験しませんでしたので、次回の移住時に参考にさせていただきたくお聞きさせていただきたいと思いました。

i am sorry you guys were treated like this. i am shocked, since i have never seen this behaviour from younger people. sadly its a senior issue a lot tho. i feel due to covid many people became more of an asshole towards people from asia.... its stupid and sad

As someone who was born and raised in Germany, I understand your issues too😭. People are rude in some places....

Please don’t feel bad. Yes there are racists towards Asians but just as much as any other race that is foreign to that country. Generally customer service is horrible in most European countries. But it is not you nor is it your fault, so please don’t feel bad. We’ve all been there. 😉👍

It's not their table, it a 'helper table' that's smaller usually 1/3 of the length of the table it's being set up next to. This table is made precisely for this purpose, to put empty wine bottles or extra cutlery or china. Although in this case, this seems to be a normal table next to their, which can also serve this purpose. It's a bit distasteful and antique when it comes to current times but this restaurant has horrendous service as it is, so it doesn't come as a surprise.

@@SeriousSam2 THE REAL FACT.. IT WAS THERE FOR SOOOO LONG! 😂

Wherever they just plonked the bottle it was extremely rude No manners !

@@SeriousSam2 No it's an actual table with seats and all...

@@WENDIGONEMAD They literally typed "Although in this case, this seems to be a normal table next to their, which can also serve this purpose."

2번에서 너가 저런 사람이 되라 바라지 말고 ㅉㅉ

@@user-wd5qs3zr7k 안그래도 저런 아내가 되려구용~~ ^^감기조심하세요??

@@user-wd5qs3zr7k 참 꼬였네. 많이 힘들어요?

@@user-wd5qs3zr7k 어제 바지가랑이에 실어온 노가다 흙량이 보인다 ㅋㅋㅋ 교양없는것

천성적으로 베베꼬인 사람중 한 사람인듯 그렇게 살면 안 피곤한가요? 밖에 나와서 햇빛좀 쐬고 공원좀 걷고 그러세요

@@loveisforu 의도적으로 던진건 알 수 없지만 보통 그렇게 할 경우 사과를 하죠? 그리고 영상 보면 점원이 그닥 친절하지 않다는 건 알 수 있으니 메뉴판도 일부러 떨어뜨린건지 실수로 떨어뜨렸는지도 확신할 수 없구요,,

나 같으면 메뉴판 집어서 날렸다라고 하려고 들어왔는데 딱히 점원이 던진건 아니지만 불친절하긴 하네요.

멋지십니다.^^

@@loveisforu 님 말씀대로 분명 낚시성이 없다고 하긴 힘들죠. 그런데 내용도 자극적이던가요? 근데 내용자체는 느낀바가 많네요. 종업원도 인종차별을 한게 아니라 자국민이든 외국인이든 모두에게 공평하게 불친절 할 뿐이더라구요. 옆테이블 남성분은 불쾌감이 표정에서 숨김없이 드러나는 반면 영상속 두분은 끝까지 위트있고 매너있는 분위기가 한순간도 무너지지 않더라구요. 오히려 종업원이 다른테이블에선 여전히 불친절한데도 이쪽테이블에서 만큼은 약간이나마 친절을 탑제하고 표정도 밝아지기 시작했죠. 그런면에서 영향력이 있는 분이라고 느껴져요. 그래서 감명받았습니다.

@@loveisforu 정확한지적인데 유튜버는 이렇게해야함

이렇게 또 한국의 품격을 올려주시는!

@잼민이 • 228만년 전 평등한 불친절은 괜찮음~이 아니라 인종차별은 아닌거 같다 인데 우리게이는 닉을 잼민이에서 국어9등급으로 바꿔야겠노ㅋㅋ

@잼민이 • 228만년 전 닉값

댓글들만 봐도 프랑스는 정말 가고 싶지 않네요

불친절이 아니라 막장 수준인데, 음식 퀄리티는 좋다고 하는 거 보면 제대로된 식당인 건데. 왜 저런 사람을 쓰는 거지? ㅋㅋ 양고기 미소가 뭐냐는 질문에 양고기지 뭐냐라고 대답하는 건 최소 사장 딸임 ㅋ

맞네요 … 부러울정도에요 ㅎㅎ

프랑스하면 바께뜨👏👏

Captured the essence of what I also wanted to say. Learned a lot from this short clip.😊

Exactly my thoughts!! I have a lot to learn from someone like him, such a delightful personality and character 😊

Magentic?? How?? This guy and his wife and basically bitching the waitress and the restaurant in Korean while smiling and laughing! Hypocrisy you mean!

@@haikaikokoni369_ ahhh u mad! 🤣🤣 u mad!! french d!ck rider 🙌🏼🤭

@@haikaikokoni369_ They were discussing factually about the service lapse. The point is they made something good out of it instead of taking it negatively and throwing a customer tantrum.

돈의 가짐에 따라 인격이 대부분은 달라져여! 서민들이 성격이 괴팍한것도 못살아서 그렇습니다! 그런걸좀 이해해주세여

어디서 서빙하시나요? 아웃백?

일본에서 한국인이라고 차별하는 식당에서 웃으면서 굽신거리며 주문 엄청했더니 싱글벙글하며 잘해줬다는 일화만 봐도 한국인 승질머리만 죽이고 오히려 더 친절하고 정중하게 대해주고 돈도 더 많이 써주면 되죠

@@GFD0116 ㅋㅋㅋ그저 웃지요

@@user-ns4lz5vd3v 괴팍한 사장님들은 돈이 없어서 그럴까요? 개뿔 아무것도 없는데 생각도 없는건지 밝고 친절한 친구들은 진짜 왜그럴까요? 당신의 글은 생각도 깊지 않고 배려심도 없으며 공감도 못할 내용이네요. 교양을 좀 쌓으세요.

프랑스새기들이 인종차별 졓됨

ㄹㅇ 나같으면 뒤통수에 메뉴 던졋을텐데

인종은 모르겠고 차별의 종류는 맞죠 실수하고나서 표정이나 사과하는 태도를 보면 고의성이 있었다는 게 보이죠

한국새끼들은 뻑하면 인종차별이래 ㅋㅋㅋㅋ

​@@user-qm2dh9up9j 차별이 아니라 모든사람에게 동등하게 저런다네요. 프랑스사람에게도 그외 모든 사람에게요. 프랑스 사람 파비앙 유튜브에 설명이 나와요. 그 이유와 함께..

👆 👆 진짜 검색해서 영 상 보고 화 보 보셈~ ! 👆 👆 올 노 ㅊ 개 지림 👆 👆 검색 ㄱㄱ 👆 👆 못보던거 많음요! 👆 👆

물질의 강함의 최고봉은 단단함보다 유연함인 것 같네요

이분들이 대단한거지 미달이라고 자책하실 필요는 없어요. 손님이 왕까지는 아니더라도 기본적인 대접도 안해주는데 정상적인 식당은 아니죠 구글 리뷰는 괜히 있는게 아니니까요

@@jinyoon7163 저였으면 저기서 깽판치고 나왔을듯 ㅋㅋㅋ주목받는거 싫어하는데 한국 서비스직에서 저랬으면 뉴스감임 ㅋㅋㅋ

본 댓글이랑 진윤님 댓글이 요즘 유튜브 댓글답지 않게 너무 예의가 바르네요.. 저까지 마음이 따뜻해져요

If they hadnt understand a word french they would probably been still sitting there waiting for food🙂

@@donaldliden4545 lmao

His emotional intelligence is at genius level .

The man genuinely has good social skills, but his wife is just like a typical korean personality constantly judging and too sensitive abt what others think.

@@Aeybiseediy I completely disagree. She was very mature and cool about the situation. What did she say that makes you think that?

Are you asian ?

Believe me my friend that their are many other countries then european nation that worth your money without any extra headache of the bad behavoir , racism and attutide

@@aidenwillim6595 Nothing to do with racism (at least not more than in any other euro country), it's just that this kind of services can happen in France. Once my table was kind of ignored and served very slowly compared to the people around us. If I had been a minority with a victim complex (quite common these days), maybe I would have assumed it was some kind of racism. But comparing that with other experiences, it's pretty clear it's the same treatment for everyone.

Same! We had ordered 2 beers when we sat. No one came over to us after our drinks were empty. Sat for 45 minutes then left 10eu in the table and left. Half a block later we were chased down by the owner, saying we never paid. We told him the money was left on our table because no one came over to help us. He put more effort into chasing us down the road than to just be a decent waiter... Lmao.

@@xenotypos so people are just generally bad at their jobs/don't give a shit?

크! zzu님 댓글도 넘 좋아요 !

글에서 사람이 보인다더니 작성자님께서도 상당히 배우신 분 같네요

저는 이런 글을 쓰시는 분들도 너무 존경스럽습니다 글로도 배워가요

@user-jj1ne4ht8i 영상은 제대로 보시고 그러시는건지 모르겠네요. 누가봐도 부당한 대우에 항의 한번 못해서 쿨한척 넘어가는 그런 분위기가 아닌데.... 그리고 세상 살아가며 화내는 것만이 능사가 아닙니다. 내게 정신적으로 여유가 있으면 부정적인 상대방마저 감화시킬수 있는거구요. 그런데 알면서도 보통의 경우에서는 실천하기 어려운 방법인데 영상에 나오시는 분들은 그에 대한 부분을 실전에서 보여주시니 감탄하는겁니다. 부정적인 시각을 강요하지 마시기 바랍니다. 언제나 화내고 싶으시면 본인만 그렇게 사세요.

@철민 이 부드러운 카리스마가 훨씬 인상깊은걸 모르시는군요

철민 이가 아니라 '잼민 이' 이신가봅니다

@철민 이 그릇의 크기는 어쩔 수 없나봅니다

@철민 이 인종차별 씨게당했나보네요 ㅋㅋㅋㅋ

It's a french thing. Worst country I've ever been to.

Ya France is definitely the worst, they are known worldwide for this

Yeah in Italy we tend to love when foreigners try to speak our language as it’s a really nice gesture

france is known to be snooty there's something wrong with their culture

I really don't want to make it sound like I'm bashing French people but I've yet to meet someone who was from France that I actually enjoyed their company. From working at hotels to retail to just meeting new people, French people always made everything very difficult.

진정한 와인"킹"이네요

Ew he is rude and insensitive. Please do not make fun of others and talk behind their back in a language that they dont understand. Then even upload the video on the most famous video sharing platform😅. They got 5.9 millions view. That is disgusting. Did they say apologize and send all the money back to France government and the restaurant and the waitress. Poor the waitress. 안내분이 “조금 심해”.

Ah look at the Korean living like that. Huh Korean mindset is weird and scary. How you guys are cruel to others and at the same time good at faking.

@@onunim5133 넌뭐냐?

At least the food was good

@@matt_warren it's still France we're talking about :)

I mean Its French, so no surprise

I watched at least 10 times of these kinds video on YT. France really needs to change

@@WooSup111 I mean to be fair there are bad restaurants everywhere, Ive been to places outside France that were just as bad. And there's also the clickbait factor of falling into the stereotypes France being impolite or unwelcoming etc, which is mostly untrue. But the reality is a majority of restaurants have normal service like everywhere, and if you read some reviews before going to a place you won't get bad surprises.

꿈보다 해몽이라더니 해석시 너무 좋은데요? 배우고 갑니다

진짜 공감함. 근데 이게 말로만 쉽지 실상은 그렇지 못한다는게.. 분노>잊자>분노>잊자>부글부글 아니 내가 왜? 참아야지?

오늘 여기 오지 않았으면 평생 내 인생에 등장 하지도 않을수 있는 사람의 작은 언행 하나에 내 하루가 휘둘린 다는게 너무 억울 하더라구요 이제는 그냥 넘깁니다 바보같이 붙잡지 않고 그냥 바람처럼 스쳐가게 냅둡니다

난 아무리 노력하고 연습해도 저 상황에서 못 웃을 듯.. 부럽다

와 ~ 하나배워갑니다

우와..제가 딱 그런맘에 댓글달러 왔는데..역시...ㅎㅎ

미투입이다. 참교육보러왔다가 그냥 편안하게 봤네요..ㅎㅎㅎ남편분 부드러운 목소리에 낮이라 커피내립니다...ㅋㅋㅋ

저도 이 긴 영상을 스킵없이 봤구나 라는 사실을 지금 깨달았네요.ㅎㅎ

인종차별 없이 모두에게 불친절한 영상 ㅋ 웃고 갑니다 ㅋ

저도 정말 많이 배우고 갑니다. 나이가 들었을 때 저 분의 반이라도 따라가고 싶네요.

긍정의 힘에 감화됐네요

안그런 사람이 99.99%에요 ㅋ

멋있으세요 !!

In my opinion, you ARE a cool adult! And even though you still feel negative emotions inside, you have learned to manage them, and that is emotional maturity. However, I do hope you find a way of releasing those emotions. I am confident you will. Thank you for inspiring me as well!

원래 그러는 척 하다보면 그런 사람이 된다고 하더군요. 그렇게 되실 것 같습니다.

이제는 화를 당연히 내야할때 화를내면 교양없는 사람이 되는구나....

@@user-vg9uk3fh9y 위 문장의 어느 부분에도 화를 내면 교양이 없다는 말은 쓰여있지 않습니다. 하물며 은유적으로도요. 단지 대처하는 방식이 부드러웠기 때문에 신사적이라는 걸 강조했을 뿐이에요.

@@user-vg9uk3fh9y 화를 내는게 잘못된게 아니라 화를 내도 누구도 이상하다 생각하지 않을 상황에서 분노에너지를 유머와 여유로 승화해내는 어마어마한 교양에 놀라는거임. 화내는게 교양없다가 '이녀석 화를 내도 되는 상황에서 여유롭다니 교양력이 대단하군' 정도가 될 듯

@@user-vg9uk3fh9y 그런 상황에서 화를 안내고도 해결을 했으니 '더욱 교양있는' 사람이 된거죠

@@user-vg9uk3fh9y 꼬여있는걸보니 현실이 힘든가 봅니다 힘내십쇼

"because I eat a lot of French cheese" 😂 I swear some people can crack a joke and make the doctor laugh the moment they were born

@@c4un544n5 I love that. Not only is he funny and makes everyone laugh but he also laughs at other peoples jokes and tells them they’re funny, which makes people feel so good about themselves.

Precisely. But his laughter already filled my stomach. What a lovely couple.

아 표현 좋네요. 저도 진짜 테이블에 같이 앉아있는 것 같았어요 생각해보니

Quite shit 😂?? Dude the waiter is literally devil

indeed!

You're right .i've learned something from this man . Loved it .

As a French I’m wondering what everyone is talking about tho. Where is the bad service besides being slow? Maybe I missed something

@@DavidWongTianyu are you serious? You can't see racism? Id like to be as innocent as you

@@DavidWongTianyu Il explique son point de vue au fur et à mesure, ça donne déjà plusieurs indices en réponse à cette question. Je trouve aussi que la qualité du service n'est pas là (en tant que française). La serveuse n'est pas sensée expédier les questions à propos de la carte ni demander aux clients de lui faire signe quand ils ont terminé, ça fait partie de son travail. C'est son rôle de venir vers eux et faire en sorte que leur dîner soit agréable. Là au contraire, c'est le genre de situation où en tant que client on a presque l'impression de déranger parfois, elle ne les met pas à l'aise et leur laisse même faire son travail, c'est à lui de faire les efforts pour passer un bon moment, et même si il le prend bien et que tout se termine bien, ça ne correspond pas aux attentes qu'ils avaient au départ. (En espérant que ça répond à la question :)

이게 단순하게 너(서버)때문에 나의 지금 이 즐거운 마음을 망치고 싶지 않아. 넌 너, 난 나. 이런 마인드가 있으면 되는데. 나같으면 팁주기도 싫음

Was a joy seeing them brighten the mood of the next table. They seemed confused too, by the haphazard service. 😭

그러게요 진짜 멋있네요

진심 공감합니다.

그게 가스라이팅 ㅋㅋ 뭔 비싼돈 주고 밥먹으면서 눈치보면서 밥처먹냐 ㅋㅋㅋ 식당은 개꿀이다 호구들아

이게 신사?

​@@deux07150716en méxico chinguamiga dijo que korea es un país de xierda xD y estoy totalmente acuerdo de eso 😂

本当に素敵な方ですよね❗

As an introvert I admire this guy for being able to speak of anything and not being like, ‘hmm”, “uhh”, “give me a minute while i come up with an answer”, *nods head*, “mmmm” 😢 my brain is fried and damaged but trying to repair the damages.

I feel you. I’m an introvert too. And I’m like oh I wish I knew more than one language. And then I’m like wait for what… who do I even talk to =\

Conversation / communication skills can be learnt. Practice helps improvement. Introvets can be excellent conversationalists too. They just enjoy much more to unwind in solitude in their personal time.

@@teatea1115 well learning another language is not necessarily that bad even if you never use it with someone, I have been trying to learn some German and Japanese too just for the fun of learning it

@@sukiyu.g oh god those all hit me straight in the heart with how accurate they are tho I have stopped say "give me one minute" I still can't start a convo it takes me like 30 minutes to get to ask a question which I hope starts into a convo 😅

공감하고갑니다.와이프도격있으시네요

덩치가 크면 어느 나라를 가든 무시는 안 당합니다

@@2biorap308 그얘기가아닌데;; 말하는 분위기와 태도, 제스처, 웃는표정 이런 게 멋지다고하는건데 무시와 덩치얘기가 왜나오는지

글쎄요.. 와인? ㅋㅋㅋ

그리고 치즈..? ㅋㅋㅋㅋ

yeah really why do so many french people so hate their jobs? i found germans in the north and north east are like this too.. as are polish people.. but mostly only older ones but with french its all ages...... the thing is polite articulate friendly french are so decent and interesting its such a bazaar contrast.

@@manchagojohnsonmanchago6367 servers arent really treated well and often pushed to be fast and have a fast service if this makes sense. Specially in touristy area :/

@@pookpook3891 naar many french business staff and owners are very rude, germans are also very rude at times.. Depending the ages of the people.. Younger people are nicer.. But young french in such jobs are insane sometimes.

@@davieee1168 no i found many german and french budiness owners are even runde.. Its a cultural thing.. "german restaurant owner" its a meme at this point.. French too. Youd never find a norwegian act this way

@@manchagojohnsonmanchago6367 owners maybe but servers are usually nice in germany. very much so

맞아요 그냥 일을 못하고, 자기 기분안좋다고 일하는데 투덜거리는느낌

as a French I am so sorry. French people are rude to French people too so please don't take it personally. Not that this helps.

@@juliad368 haha no worries I was based in northern France (Bretagne?) and I really tried but yeah no one gave me a chance there 😂😂

하지만 저렇게 좋게 잘 풀어나가더라도 굳이 서비스 안 좋은 곳에 다시 갈 이유가 없는 것은 여전한 것 같습니다.

한국은 달라요 ㅋ

@@user-fo2dm3ez6y 의견에 동의합니다 내가 지불하는 금액엔 내가 받아야하는 권리 즉 서비스 비용을 포함하고 있다고 생각합니다 허나 안타깝게도 현실에선 타협하게 되는 부분이 있더군요.. 모든 가게가 내가 원하는 만큼의 서비스를 제공하진 않으니까요 ㅎ

@@impact-ij5ps 한국은 서버에게 팁을 지불하는게 의무는 아니니까 맞는 말씀입니다 조금 불친절하더라도 그 가게에 다른 부분이 마음에 들었다면 내가 조금 불편하더라도 찾게 되더라구요 예를들면 이미 맛으로 정평이 나있는 가게는 조금 불친절 하더라도 찾게되는 안타까운 현실이지요 만약 비슷한 맛을 지닌 가게라면 당연히 조금 더 서비스 마인드를 갖춘 곳을 찾게되는건 당연한 것 같네요 ㅎㅎ

그래도 프랑스 저건 정상이 아니죠

저는 10대 중반 청소년인데요.

@@soeulpictures 근데요