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How to Respond to Sexual Abuse Disclosure 

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No one wants to hear that their child has been sexually abused. But if they have, it’s important to know how to respond, what to say, and where to find help. Find tips, tools, and resources to help keep kids safe at hotchocolatetalk.org.
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@justagrumpystarfish2536
@justagrumpystarfish2536 5 лет назад
I was so convinced that my mother would believe me. But instead she keeps saying my Father loves me and would never do anything that makes me feel unsafe. She keeps saying that she’s been with my Father for 13 years and she knows him. She doesn’t understand. I don’t know what to do. I noticed my Father secretly sexually abusing me by “accidentally” touching my butt. I don’t like the way he always stares at my butt and discustingly stares at me. Then whenever i shower he would “accidentally” get in cuz he thought i was not there. Same things happen whenever im changing in my room since i share room with my parents. I told him i was changing and he cant go in but he always bust in saying he forgot. I feel unsafe whenever im around with my father and i feel discusted towards him and myself. I love him so much and i just want a normal life and feeling the care of a loving Father. I cant trust anyone. No one to talk to. Please help me
@rhondahoward8025
@rhondahoward8025 5 лет назад
Unfortunately, it's hard to get the people with the closest relationship with the abuser to believe you about the abuse, which is why I recommend telling others who are less attached like a teacher, counselor, or police officer. Students would usually disclose to me in my classroom either before or after being rejected by their parents and as a mandated reporter, I HAD to take them seriously and report it to the proper authorities.
@committeeforchildren
@committeeforchildren 5 лет назад
Hi, Khei: What's happening to you is not your fault. You are doing nothing wrong. No one should ever touch your private body parts or ask to see them except a doctor or a nurse. We are so sorry this is happening to you. We would like you to find someone who can help you. Tell an adult you trust about what's happening. This could be a family member or a teacher. You can also call the National Sexual Assault Telephone Hotline at 800-656-HOPE. There are people there who know how to help you. You are brave. You can do this. Please tell someone today.
@hibri1
@hibri1 Год назад
im really late from responding to this, but im so sorry that happened to you, remember that all this isnt you’re fault at all, i recommend telling a related family member you trust, a teacher, police officer or a trusted adult/ friend that you know who could help you, dont be afraid to tell someone whats going on, no one should feel like this, i hope your doing okay today.
@shadowclock770
@shadowclock770 4 года назад
i was sexulluy aboused from my step dad and he did some realy bad things to me its lasted for a year and i told my real dad and soon as posibule he drove to the hospital and to the police and i had a preg test and it was neg so i was happy but now the police are affter my dad and my mum is trying to snach me from my dad but im safe with my dad hes the best and im happy now because i get to go to my friends school and im having a great life now no yelling now pain and no abouse (:
@emilycantrell1580
@emilycantrell1580 3 года назад
Child stars are always having these problems just like me😢🥺😭
@costulogarcia5763
@costulogarcia5763 5 лет назад
I feel so bad poor little girl
@saudad3_
@saudad3_ 3 года назад
@@samuelprusa817 true but even if it’s fake i still feel bad for anyone who’s dealt with this
@isabellawilkes9618
@isabellawilkes9618 5 лет назад
I wish my mother would've reacted the same way whenever I finally told her I was being sexually abused. Instead, she ignored what I said and completely dismissed it.
@committeeforchildren
@committeeforchildren 5 лет назад
Thank you for your bravery in sharing your personal experience. Sorry the response you received from your mother was not helpful. That's why we want all parents and families to pay attention and understand how to respond to sexual abuse disclosure. It is so important. We have a whole website dedicated to information and videos around preventing child sexual abuse. Visit www.earlyopenoften.org or www.abiertoyamenudo.org/
@crazyfrozenlady1057
@crazyfrozenlady1057 5 лет назад
Mine too. I told her twice and she still didn't believe me.
@tanjimahmed9707
@tanjimahmed9707 5 лет назад
Same thing happened to someone I know....her mother didn't believe her....I really get surprised when a Woman doesn't believe her daughter just because of her blind love for her husband! Well, I guess we need really some superheroes who will kill secretly those kind of man who abuse their daughter sexually!
@mia-rq7hp
@mia-rq7hp 5 лет назад
Wow. All you guys have terrible parents! My dad would be there for me always. I'm sorry that happened to all of you. May God bless you all with a good lifee
@Sav-lt2xc
@Sav-lt2xc 4 года назад
Get rekt
@GeishaDoll
@GeishaDoll 5 лет назад
How do get get justice for my kids abuser?? My local law enforcement did nothing
@emerybinghamsdog3806
@emerybinghamsdog3806 5 лет назад
What sick monster would hurt a child?
@lollia61
@lollia61 5 лет назад
my dad
@Gaffein
@Gaffein 4 года назад
is this rhetorical or u findin a partner?
@floraxx299
@floraxx299 4 года назад
My cousin is one of them😔
@fatdicksydrome
@fatdicksydrome 4 года назад
Scarlett Is Singing 😅 not funny 😞
@okoschandorf4180
@okoschandorf4180 2 года назад
my brother in-law
@mikaylagallery8534
@mikaylagallery8534 Год назад
I told my mom. She helped. But then she told me not to tell anyone else because they would be upset. I was upset. She told me not to talk about my problems because other people would react badly. I was 13. Parents: Let your kids talk to people.
@wendsr1615
@wendsr1615 3 года назад
When I was a small age I was about 7 or 8 years old we were in the sea and I was with my sister and my sister was helped me in swimming I wanted to bend with her girlfriend to swim but my mother cost her to keep me but I had left me with a man and I was touched. I was afraid that I was told to tell my mother will limit me hated me. I asked me my mother if I do something I said to her, I did not do anything because I was afraid I mean I have to touch and I do not know my one and always destroy myself and always Tell why I am confiscating when I told her and these things do not believe me and increase if your situation will destroy me more ...
@demajionwallace6285
@demajionwallace6285 2 года назад
Wake up all the pants down the girl you
@spencerbrown6214
@spencerbrown6214 2 года назад
I worked at a children’s shelter for years and any type of physical, mental and especially sexual abuse is so horrific!!!!!!! It does damage that is irreversible. Why in the hell is society so lenient with all these molesters?? If you suspect a child is being abused you’re most likely right. Please speak to the child to try to protect them. We need tougher laws on the planet 🌎 We need to protect future generations from all this evil and damage!!!! Why is this not the worlds number one priority…to protect our children???😫😫
@izukumidoriya4238
@izukumidoriya4238 3 года назад
I got raped from my “grandpa” my mom reacted the same as her mom did and she almost called the police bit my dad his son told her to calm down and not too he tried to do that to me again but my mom kicked him out and he is homeless now
@SKYLORD-oq2iv
@SKYLORD-oq2iv 2 года назад
Such a bad things 🥺🥺plz don't lose 💔
@MJFan625Moonwalker
@MJFan625Moonwalker 5 лет назад
0:18-Why is it always the uncle?
@Sav-lt2xc
@Sav-lt2xc 4 года назад
Ok cool
@MakelBelieve
@MakelBelieve 3 года назад
🤣 uncle boby
@maxcovfefe
@maxcovfefe 5 лет назад
I know it's hard, but if your kid/spouse/friend tells you this, please stay calm, stay calm, stay calm, and breathe! Your kid needs that more than you need to blow your top. One of the key reasons your kid or spouse may not tell you is because they don't want to upset _you._ Think about that for a moment: this victim/survivor doesn't wanna upset _YOU._ I know this is ninja-level emotional maturity, but just keep breathing and stay calm at least until you have the time to process this new information.
@committeeforchildren
@committeeforchildren 5 лет назад
Thank you Max for your thoughtful comment! For parents and families, remember that we have a whole website dedicated to information and videos around preventing child sexual abuse. Visit @t or @t
@prabhnoor8177
@prabhnoor8177 3 года назад
I was sexually abused by my sister's cousin , he's 1 or 2 years bigger than me He said that we will play hide and seek One was me , he and his smaller brother He gave the turn to his brother and told me to hide where he was hiding And then he started touching my body parts and I just wanted to slap him hard at that moment 😢😔 I never want to meet him again Whenever he comes to my house , he always asks me to play hide and seek
@Jhinezen
@Jhinezen 4 года назад
Is always a uncle or cousin ;'(
@captaindeadpool1287
@captaindeadpool1287 3 года назад
well i was sexually abused by a women when i was 13 or 14
@UIAL570
@UIAL570 4 года назад
Thank you for providing this
@agnesm8740
@agnesm8740 5 лет назад
Uncle Bobby.... sounds creepy
@dorothyhoward9809
@dorothyhoward9809 4 года назад
what is going on TODAY ?
@imarandomgirl.
@imarandomgirl. 3 года назад
Sad that many clicked on this video 😔
@1.922
@1.922 3 года назад
Hey How are you?
@bbkivinesproductions4830
@bbkivinesproductions4830 2 года назад
My frnd Amit also was a victim of it .. I understand amit it's not your fault ...
@Roscoesadie
@Roscoesadie 2 года назад
Uncle?
@fintech2863
@fintech2863 3 года назад
Good
@maryamsham1724
@maryamsham1724 2 года назад
if anyone anyone abuse your sexuality Stay quiet time will teach them.
@ANN0YED_B1TCH
@ANN0YED_B1TCH 3 года назад
If I was a mother and she said what are you going to do my mind . I WILL BEAT HIM UP SO HARD Me . Don’t worry I won’t do anything
@suzantsolo8897
@suzantsolo8897 2 года назад
This sexul abuse video is a great idea for kids who would kindly be sexul abuse
@gloriarivera9004
@gloriarivera9004 2 года назад
God proctor all children from sick people 😪🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼
@user-mt1bw1tl2d
@user-mt1bw1tl2d 3 года назад
STOP! 😭🚫✋
@leandroms7905
@leandroms7905 2 года назад
Leandro
@dro2893
@dro2893 Год назад
💖💖💖
@Slayyy_girlll
@Slayyy_girlll Год назад
If my child told this I would do the same and after i would do this and I'll make it a story time (Me as a mom)Me:sweetie stay here My kid: yes mommy Me Gos to her uncle* Me:EXUSE ME U BISH DO NEVER DO SEX WITH MY CHILD Uncle:THATS NOT UR PROBLEM Me:SLAPS* I TOLD YOU IM THE BOSS! 60 likes for the rest
@pastorofmuppets363
@pastorofmuppets363 Год назад
Lmao that was dumbest thing I've read in a long time.
@Slayyy_girlll
@Slayyy_girlll Год назад
@@pastorofmuppets363 XD
@nivujas
@nivujas Год назад
UK police is not helpful for anyone.
@jeffreyrichardson
@jeffreyrichardson 4 года назад
jodys creamcicle doug brothers ant lifecycle debbies bicycle
@Dab0cmt
@Dab0cmt 2 года назад
I sussssssss in shcool
@raiaaaa963
@raiaaaa963 5 лет назад
LOL UNCLE BOBBY...:-: that stupid name
@meljax1658
@meljax1658 5 лет назад
Back in long years of 20th cenrty that person Go to prison depends on the assault from a child. Also he also register as a sex offender. Now laws changed that person get slap on the wrist, the age 20 years old that person Sue the abuser.
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