No jokes but I daydreamed that I was the master of day dreaming and I would write a comment like this ever since I was young currently I’m in year 7 I always day dreamed every single place I went I always wanted to break out of it but it keeps getting to me even now I need help
One of the most effective way to stop daydreaming is meditation. Daily meditation greatly helps to bring you into and appreciate the present moment. I would recommend giving it a try once or twice a day for at least a week. (And whatever you do, do not give up. No matter how frustrating it can be at first, it will get easier)
I am currently crying over this so much i have a very very important exam in two days and i can't have my brain focused on my exercises whenever it becomes just a bit tricky i find myself walking in circles and i lose 30min each time without being conscious of it and the interval between each is minimum 5min max 10 ! I tried to talk about it to a friend then 2 both of them told me the same thing : do not tell this to anyone they will instantly believe you are crazy and lock you up , they are quiet right in my country there's not much of understanding or anything you're either sane and lazy that's what's keeping you from achieving your tasks or totally crazy and then you're just disabled.
I daydream because i dont have any girlfriend and i imagin that one girl and escape into another world with her... Thats the most beautiful video i have seen about this topic.. thanks man
Man.. Thank you so much for your good and calming attitude. Yesterday I had the realization that I've been having Maladaptive Daydreaming all my life and it made feel overwhelmed completely
Oh man you just scanned my brain completely.. and infact after wasting years in day dreaming, recently from few months i have committed to convert my day dreaming ideas into reality. Thanks for the video.
@@macie-maex895 you have to know that you are day dreaming my trick is when ever I am day dreaming I just say no loudly inside myself and will snap back to reality it takes months to ditch this problem it is literally hell for first few weeks you will get adopted to it afterwards
I daydreamed a lot and I encountered once in a social media that this is actually a disorder. I've been a daydreamer since when I was a kid and it actually makes me happy to daydream because it is something that I really want in the reality. Sometimes I daydreamed of telling someone my problems and thoughts because I can't tell it to someone else in the reality (I feel like no one is interested to listen to me). It really made me nervous when I knew this is a disorder because I really want to have a peaceful life. I sometimes lacked sleep because of this-- but actually I do have insomnia because I changed my body clock last year (I ruined my health pretty quick). When I encountered about this issue, I feared alot and I can't sleep last night because of that. Well, I somehow survived having a longer time of daydreaming by acquiring some skills. It's like I have learned all the things just to escape anxiety, deppression, fear, sadness....ALL OF IT. So yeah, here comes this another challenge again. I want to slowly stop this habit by being very positive. Last day, I was so scared because I thought I've gone crazy but now, I 'am ready to overcome it little by little.
I agree with you; I emphathize with you; I tried building and pursuing my passions to live in the moment. It takes a while and I feel urges like withdrawal symptoms but I’m having faith I can live a better life. It helps to meditate on sensations and your senses and how aliveness one feels with their body in real life.
People think i am mad, i have maladaptive day dreaming disorders, i focused myself on my passion and once i did it often and now i visualise engines to the last nut, i visualise new equipment that i want to build for anyone suffering the same, you need to be conscious about your unconsciousness(day dreaming) then apply your self to apply on it your will it might take 6months to 2 years but you will make it....
Before this video, I didn't think that I would be able to stop, but now I feel like I actually have a chance of overcoming this. Thank you so much. I can't even begin to appreciate your video enough. Truly, thank you.
Man, I love you man. You are a real motivator. You didn't say any rocket science, but just small important stuff. But it hit me in my heart. You cleared it up. Thank you, really, THANK YOU THANK YOU THANK YOU
Thank you for this it really helped me because I thought daydreaming is negative until you flipped the whole thing into a positive thing Truly thank you♥️
You are able to imagine entirely new worlds and realities. You know how when you're daydreaming you can just sit there maybe in class, you're bored when you used to be in you know literature class or something in high school you were so bored you would just sit there and stare out the window and just daydream as a teacher was yakking on about Shakespeare or something and you were sitting there. You're just daydreaming about some videogame world that you wanted to inhabit and you just got lost in this sort of reverie of this sort of fantasy world you went into this world. You were running around as an elf doing something. Fighting somebody whatever. That is a little taste. A little microcosm of what can really happen. What God is doing on the macro level. So when you crank up the consciousness and you crank up all these other dials. Your imagination goes through the roof. your creativity goes through the roof. You literally tap into the source of creativity. Pure infinite creativity which is responsible for the creation and the imagination of all of material reality. This pure creativity is responsible for creating atoms, molecules, planets, galaxies, science, mankind, languages, animals, you name it and you're tapping into that and it feels so surreal and unbelievable because it's too good to be true. Here you were living this ordinary life. Thinking that reality is just material and physical and now one day you find yourself in the nexus of creation where God's mind is creating the entire fucking universe.
I m from india.🇮🇳🇮🇳🇮🇳 I also day dream.recently i noticed that music is the trigger for me so i boycott headphone for a month not even touch that. After this i spend time with friends when ever i walk i count my foot steps and try to see the thing like trees house's and more to avoid day dreaming.and after @ month i day dream less then 90% .i now i am in a new world( A real world) .you all can control day dreaming just take a step and go for it world is waiting for you.👍👍👍👍
YOU are a GREAT man and a SUPER coach, period. Wonderful presentations. I wish that every money worshipper of this world was exposed to this teaching. I am absolutely sure that it would give their life so much more balance, a real meaning to it. From this would result a better appreciation of life both for them and for everyone else on this earth. Much Respect and Very Best Wishes.
i have half daydream half visualize and if the feeling is strong enough i can almost make it like a lucid dream i am able to almost be a very real virtual reality that i make almost like the matrix
your eyes make me wanna daydream. Jeez, are you hypnotizing me or what? it looks like I'm staring at an endlessly deepening abyss. All i see are two black dots with white circles in them and it goes on forever. shit is trippy af!
thank you for this amazing vedio 👍yes, intentionally visualizing truly works.. and as the saying goes... what you think about, you bring about in life... hence, we are the creator of our future, it sounds so good☺
Is it possible to daydream while you are listening and talking? Because for some reason I still daydream even though I'm listening to my teacher, but I still understand and am able to remember her words.
RedFateMon It probably means that what he's talking about is easy for you. I could do this in high school, but not at university and it's becoming a problem.
you might have something that is called Maladaptive Daydreaming - which is excessive daydreaming, that becomes almost more real than living in the present. There are a few youtube videos on it - you should check them out, to see if that sounds like something you are dealing with - best of luck
I was gonna almost cry because since I vê remembered I am a daydreamer and I ve always realized that I have to stop it but whenever I tried I just failed and started to daydreaming again and again but tonight after act like I am dancing in a crowd very well, I decided to find people who share the same problem with me to find a solution for this damned thing. So I m here and it will be the last time that I stayed in room to daydream refusing to hang up with my friends
The same is said about materialism... Extinction will crush such "purpose". But isn't existence reason enough?... To change the world without creating temporary kingdoms. If humanity even exists by then.
I wish i found this video when i did my GCES'S. This video it's amazing soo inspiring and understands me, i haven't been my self and allowed this image to make me even more sad the fact that i don't have the things that in the image, why I've been soo upset lately .
Aaron Rambo I think it's because he's very close to the camera and wants to be engaging with the viewer. But he has to look directly at you. But I get what you mean, I just pictured you sitting and thinking can he see me 😂😂😂
awesomee!!! awesome video as always. I'm actually a daydreamer and now i ill change it to people who visualizes and put effort to make this things happen :))) thank you so much for ur video @Rafael Eliassen
What is day dreaming if you gonna ask me it's a a gift that you have got use it for ur well beings I thought it was my biggest weakness but when I have watches this vedio... Mah biggest disadvantage became my key to succeed..... ThanKS u r great
okay, no lie I rarely cry on videos but this vid hit me hard. tysm this is really something for me... But, what if one of my dreams include having a large group of friends? and, ik ik I could always make friends and I do, and I have been. But, the friends in my head which I fantasize about I've literally grown an ACTUAL attachment to them. Honestly, I've cried because they aren't real and I've been trying to find them irl. But it's so hard. oof
I'm a maladaptive daydreamer myself. But one thing I know for good: *The best way to stop consuming a thought is to replace it with another one.* Continue daydreaming but try to induce a new dream. That'll slowly pull you away from the old one and hence, it'll get easier to leave that imaginary person you created. Worked for me though. :)
Thanks.. I don't know how to act over my visualisation. It's very difficult to do what actually I visualised. It requires a lot of money and people's support, Which actually I don't have. One more thing, in terms of career when ever I visualise or day dream for a certain achievement, I never get that even after going through all the requisite or hard work . Ultimately it comes as my bad luck. It is very different.
I have unrealistic dreams. For example: winning a 10 Nobel prizes or running a marathon under 1 hour. I also change my dreams really quickly. They get boring after a while. They also distract me from work. Fortunately they get less and less frequent.
When I was a too young I am very afraid to be fail in exam so I started daydream.i did not enjoyed my school life because of daydream. I want those days back but it's to late. I don't want to daydream but I can't 😥😥😥😥😥😵😵😭😭😭😭😭
Ok. But I can daydream and can also be very concentrated. I also don't switch up things from my daydreams and reality if you know what I mean. Is daydreaming bad tho? I mean, I have a goal, and I try hard to achieve it.
Whenever you daydream about something random as soon as you caught yourself doing just ask yourself once "Is this useful ?" And you will be out of it back into the real world You don't have to be a victim of maladaptive day dreaming This three words sentence will put you into the drivers seat of your mind Just check it once for youself Stay awesome... 😊
@@RafaelEliassen 😇😇 Well actually I got this advice from a guy running a youtube channel named as depression to expression If you want you can check out his channel It worked for me so I thought of sharing it Keep doing the good work 👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍
