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Sagans Run i am

I gave birth to evil incarnated

For a lot of parents it was the biggest mistake of their lives having children

@@vanja2500 No, I did. You can't get worse than mine. A living hell on a daily basis.

@Truthseeker ohh man you wouldn't believe.... If I hear one more time someone tells me children r innocent I F SLAP HIM.

I feel the same way. I can’t wait to be free and live my life. Children destroy your livelihood especially as toxic ungrateful brats who feel they are entitled and who manipulate at your expense. I’m going to set so many boundaries…starting tomorrow.

What about teens under 18?

@@monicabelle8581 curious, why did you have kids in the first place then?

I feel similar to you. My teenager fill entitled, and they don’t contribute at all to the house. I don’t like telling my kids to do what they know they should be doing everyday like I never said anything. They walk around with attitudes when you tell them to do what’s right as if you’re disrespecting them. It’s stressful for sure.

I have been feeling very low that I am on antidepressants. I have 3 and the older 2 has given me enough problems now my youngest 13yr who I use to go to for cuddles it following the same. Rude, disrespectful and talk down to me . I question my parenting my sanity. Being a single mum I tried my best going with out so I could give them everything. I haven’t bought new clothes for myself in 5 years. So they could walk around in the latest tracks . I’m waiting for the day the leave home. They all say they hate me, fair enough

It is heartbreaking going through this. It is nice to be able to see hopefully what might help. I never ever thought this would be a problem.

@@SherryLea don't feel bad, the bad thing to do would have been to do nothing, imagine an adult version of this? they would have zero friends and you would the to deal with them forever as most of the time people like that can't find relationships because they generally turn into unlikable people.

You did the " right " thing. It was the best thing my parents ever did for me, and they had done a TON. They spent hundreds of thousands of dollars trying to fix me and make me happy and to do right. Turns out, all they had to do was absolutely nothing. I know it was tough, But good on you!

My wife allows my 19 year old to say and do anything he wants to me. Our couples therapist told my wife in his 35 years as a therapist he's never heard a son speak to his father the way my son speaks to me. My wife makes excuses, like "his brain is still developing." I filed for divorce and my wife didn't want a divorce, though she kept making excuses for him. The therapist told her she must have my back and support me or lose her husband. She doesn't get it and the only thing she's really concerned about is her receiving all our assets in the divorce.

Yeah alot of times the issue is the parents man, you were probably a shitty parent yourself and are projecting the issue to be that of the minor and the minor alone

Did it get better?

I did that last week I stayed in a hotel

Make them leave your place by going to court and filing for eviction.

I've left unannounced to get a pizza and ice cream when they won't cut the crap after I take insulin for meal. I'll bring back leftovers.😅

In the same boat.... it's horrible. She's destructive, abusive, lies, does drugs.... there's no resource for those of us who aren't rich or low income. I'm constantly told I don't qualify because I'm middle income.

Am I required to take my daughter at 17 to work every morning while not in school? Should I make her uber?

Take everything away. Feed them oatmeal 3 times a day

Sucks!

@@GodWokeMeUp I’m sorry you are going through this with your daughter. I’m sure she has the potential to contribute in a positive way to society. Have you ever considered boot camp? Something of the sort.

Jess h. How she doing now?

Jess h. My educated guess is the way your daughter was raised.

Jess h. You are doing the right thing! Just had to do this with my 19 yo

Jess h. Oh yes my 16 yr old is out of control. I can't wait to kick him out 18. I know he won't change.

@@honeybee1226 tell him he ain't worth shit without you keeping him in your own house, he wont have a house he wont have money to buy food and i bet he wont be out of control anymore if he knows he will become homeless. maybe he will think twice now about being out of control

This🙏🏽❤️

This made me cry. I feel this way so much. Thank you for sharing.

exactly, i came here to see if anyone thinks nowadays teenagers are so fucking toxic too, the reason of this is because they are changing by social media like instagram and shit they copycat someone else and try to act like them but they are a puss inside of them

cinnygames I applaud you ! You will run into many people in relationships ships who think otherwise.

You’re a traitor! Here we have an apparently nice jolly old man, but imagine the type of miserable sod he must be in his household! (You don’t know) We must support our teenage comrades and never permit older generations to belittle us! We must stand united!

Yeah Dr is right all he saying but single moms are stuck now with so much street knife crime happening on a daily basis

Me too

I'm totally going through the same bit I'm a single mother. No hope is there that's how ot makes you feel.

Same!!! I notice this was posted a month ago, any change?

So sorry, we have same... our daughter is like that. I have fibromyalgia and back problems, she is cruel about anything she can come up with. But she is so nasty to me about it. She said she hopes I die today. She just popped into our room we were just spending time together, she started screaming at us. She targets me because she wanted to shave her hair off and we have been telling her to just let it grow out. Because it's somewhat damaged. That was it ,nothing else caused it .She said disgusting horrible stuff, went on and spewing vile and just really nonsensical stuff; treating her dad and I in a way thats disgusting to treat anyone. Because of her hair,she's done this for a week. She is ok with behaving terribly breaking rules not listening or stopping when asked and told...but just going ahead and cutting it was not ok? I just wonder what that is about. She's 15 and so mean and immature. She makes so many bad decisions. She makes life so hard on herself especially and us.

@@SherryLea I totally get it. My daughter is sixteen and see finally just let her go. She's living with her dad now and my mental health the health of the entire family is so much better for it. If she ever wants to come back in the state she is in I'm not sure I can do it.

@@casualobserver4536 yes she moved in with her father. We are much better. Thanks

Debbie Belden, your situation is heartbreaking. As someone who has seen all manner of out of control teens, when I am faced with a situation like yours from a parent, I try to remind them that despite how bad it is right now, MOST of them still have a long life ahead and change is always possible. As long as you've provided a foundation of love, no matter your mistakes, your child has something to come back to once the world breaks him, which it will. Think about it, parents are told to NEVER break their child's spirit, but some spirits need breaking. Such as the spirit of disobedience and selfishness. We are told to ALWAYS listen, negotiate, and placate children as though they are equal partners who make money, build homes, and contribute to the business of maintaining a household or establishing order in a complex society. They are born selfish so that they can survive infancy, not because selfishness is a human virtue. So part of parenting is breaking them appropriately along the stages of development. Why does our culture want to cripple them by making them believe every feeling and thought they have is more important than rules, respect, and doing the right thing? That they are entitled to have their immaturity ignored, their lying believed, their rages satiated by attacking other people, often those smaller and/or more vulnerable (parents)? And we are parent-shamed and parent- blamed for trying to raise them? Why? So our children can go out into the world selfish, narcissistic, psychologically fragile, and weak of will and be completely exploited. And sometimes, we have to watch it happen in horror. Stay strong. You did the right thing.

@@creationevolution315 I know what you say is right . I learned he was found unconscious by side of road, taken to ER and released, that was 6 weeks ago. With his limited resources , on foot and several freezing nights ,I truly fear he may be dead. I am broken

@@debbiebelden4359 hold on. If you can make sure he is alive and relatively safe (hospital or even jail) but just hold on! It is always darkest just before dawn.

Debbie, I'm so sorry about your situation. You're not the only one parent, dealing with such problem. I know how it is having a difficult teen.. sadly. Please don't blame yourself. As parents we may do some mistakes, but it's really confusing how our children can't see and appreciate all hard work and sacrifices that parents are doing, while raising them. It's heartbreaking. But you did what you could. Keep praying for your son, God can do what we can't.

@@mahaonexpress thank y'all , still no word. Prayers appreciated

@YourBakaSenpai Well, my brother kicked himself out and was homeless for a few months before he learned how to fly, and boy did he fly

Hi, I saw that your comment was written 4 years ago. May you share how is it now? I have 14 year old daughter and me and her dad are not together about 10 years now and he used her agains me and manipulated her agains me and she seems like she is enjoyng make me upset and snile to my face and then if i get upset she is taping me. I am so devasteted and she pit blame on my about everything. She treat me like i am 0 to her and its super painfull so i was wondering if it s better now after 4 years since he was too young before or its worse or same because the way my daughter is, i am just her bank and taxi driver it seems amd she is aleays only if she want something. I tried to stop that but its worse. Her father is a malignant narcissist and i am affraid she will be just like him. 😢

@@zdepav2609 I’m so sorry you’re going through this too. Things have not gotten better. Her dad made sure of that behind the scenes. He’s very good at that. Even tho I’ve been the one that’s done everything for her and made sure she had everything and even tho she saw and lived here during the manipulating and abuse, everything still turns out to be my fault and I’m the worst person. I would take her phone when she’d be failing all her classes he’d pic her up on the weekend and buy her a new one and he’d have her keep it a secret. He lets her do whatever she wants and I’m horrible/evil for wanting her to do good in school and be respectful. That I won’t budge on. We got into an argument right before school started last year over money and she left with her dad and they enrolled her in another school without even telling me. Things haven’t gotten better. She only talks to me when she wants money or her holiday gifts. If I say the wrong answers the texts of trying to crush my soul start. She knows I’m a softy and I take that stuff to heart. She had a great teacher. She even used to say the exact same things her dad would to hurt me. I’ve finally had to pull back the last few months, because it was like being in an abusive relationship all over again just with my daughter instead. She treats me the same way he did. Talks down to me, lies and twists things, tells me I’m the worst mom. It’s really sad. She has no empathy or regard for anyone but herself or whoever is giving her what she wants. So many of the same traits are there. It kills me. My two other kids he couldn’t manipulate, because they wanted nothing to do with him after he almost killed our little pom fur baby because he trying to protect me from him. She knows what he’s like. she’s seen it and still always protects him, but it’s easy when only one of you is dragging her into things showing her court papers. Smh. The only time things got better is when had 3 months no contact per CPS only supervised phone calls . She was making huge progress with her siblings, she was listening better, but the second that ended he’s kept his claws in her. It’s really sad to say, but it’s a lot more peaceful around the house now. Esp for my youngest. No arguing or yelling. Her breaking my cabinets because i told her no. It got to the point thati couldn’t trust her around my youngest if she got upset. My son is a straight a student my other daughter works FT and just started college. I’ve never even heard her swear in front me. I have a very close relationship with both of them so I have to remind myself I most not of been that horrible. I don’t want to give you advice for down the road if things don’t change because stepping back from your child is the must heart breaking decision, but it was toxic and hurtful. I’m hoping that everyone is right in that in time as she gets a little older, she’ll look at the whole picture and realize how much I loved her and how I tried everything to get her to a better place once I got us out. I think I lost her to narcissism. She idols her dad. Her older can’t even be in the same room with her over the past couple years because she’s so rude. I guess if it gets to the point where mine got the only way to have a normal and abuse free life is to distance yourself and hope they eventually see the through the brainwashing. I wish tons of luck and I’m sending you hugs during this heart wrenching time. Just remember after you’ve made yourself miserable for years and you’ve tried everything possible and she still continues to treat you awful and you are tired of walking on eggshells… that you deserve to be happy too!

@@zdepav2609 If you ever need anyone to talk to or even vent with someone who understands how awful narcissistic abuse is and having a child follow in those footsteps just let me know. I won’t pretend to have all the answers or great advice, because I didn’t get the ending I wanted. As of yet. 🤞 everything I tried was a short lived band aids, but I definitely can share mistakes I made and I things I wish I’d of done sooner. Just make sure you don’t forget to take care of your needs too. You deserve to be happy too!

well to something or he'll end up as a deadbeat who hits women. kick his ads out and let him learn about life

Not the subject

He mentioned 16 my girl abuses me won't pick in and has no respect for boundaries she is going to stay with friends and she's safe there I felt really guilty till I watched this

I have a 17 year old like this. I have gotten him all kinds of therapy. Does not work.

I’d like to know the answer also. Mine is 17 and grossly abusive

Ours is 15 and terrible if she gets a no she goes into rages,if something frustrates her she screams at us. Random verbal assults bordering on physical. I wish she had a friend to send her to for a break.

💕💕I know how u feel, stay strong and pray xx

@@angela-zz6bd thank you so much. I am praying, and wright now rosary. So so hard breaking. I am very hurt. My soul is broken. My son is my everything...💔

@@katarina0000 I pray the rosary too nearly every day! It's hard for women to turn off their soft nurturing side but very necessary at times. You are a great parent don't be too hard on yourself and do things you love and that make you happy too, try not to obsess over your child and hand them to God x

@@angela-zz6bd God bless you. 🇭🇷

I feel your pain, I'm ready to throw my 17 year old out!! Hes so rude and disrespectful

How are you doing now? Best wishes. I have a handful of narcs in my family. I can't imagine having your own child being this way. Life is full of hardships... I'm starting to wonder whether i'm the problem

@@InshasChoice thanks for your reply. I sent him to live with his dad for a week and ever since he’s been a lot better. In the past six months he’s been brilliant. It’s just hard work coparenting with a malignant narcissist. He was always going to go one way or the other, thankfully it looks like all my hard work paid off ❤️

I’m so sorry hun, it’s not your job to parent your sister though. Just keep doing your thing and take care of yourself

I’m going through the same thing and my sister’s only 14, take care of yourself and show your parents lots love

My nephew continues at age 17 to bully and be physically and mentally abusive. His mom refused to get the school of anyone involved and protects him. I don't see his behaviour changing and she's stressed out all the time. I'm wondering how to help.

@@comfortcountry9695 I told her to report it to the police.

It's a pisstake

It does not get any easier. My EX is a narcissist & he has trauma bonded my daughter, my son does not stand for it but, with her its disturbing. We call it the world of make believe, "blindfolds, earplugs & bobble heads." Lol My daughter does not get called out on any of her shit at his girlfriends house & is turning in to a self centered narcissist herself. It's sad to see.

Maybe you need to use whatever levers you can to get him to do what you want? A specific list of what cleaning his room involves helps with understanding, but levers like no internet/cel phone or gametome til he complies might help. His dad needs to parent with you on this, even if he's an ex. Be consistent, be firm and be safe. Good luck.

If I was him, I’d beet u up too

Take me with you 😩😩😩

I’m moving out the country to Portugal. I don’t want to be found either when my youngest turns 18

Wanna be roomies? Mine are 18, 16, 14....its my 14yr old though. Once she had growth spurt, spankings and grounding don't phase her.

Real Deal You are very fortunate to have another parent to send him to as not all parents have that option

I’ve been wrestling with the same option. I can’t have a child in the home who absolutely refuses correction or obedience. But he doesn’t want to go to his dads because of the smoking

@@catlady7135 it hasn't always been that way

@@realdeal7074 Oh I see

Keep calling the police until he or she becomes a ward of the State

Go to court and file for eviction.

@@luciepepe1322 its 2 years later and yes that us what I finally ended up doing last year

Sounds like someone I know but he’s a covert. Same background, he’s a sadist and a piece of shit.

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@@benleichtling4776 thanks but it wasn't for me it's for a friend that lives far away from me.

It’s like an older toddler. You keep at it, or send them somewhere to protect yourself

I feel your pain. I am a loving stepmother to two boys and a bio mother to my own children, I have done so many great things to show oldest SS that I love and care for him and want what's best for him only to have everything positive sabotaged and told with clenched fists to get out of his house, now it's well you can't do anything and when I move out at 18 your kids won't be around so.. He clearly stated that he will continue with this no matter the consequences until he is 18 and that he intends on pushing a wedge between me and my kids so they won't want to come around me and then he is choosing to put a wedge between his father and I and laughed about how we are always fighting and it hurts him but he caused it. He said he doesn't care and when I asked why, he has many different reasons for it so it's not just something that can be worked on and handled. He just continually states because I want to do it, or because you won't give me what I want, which is to do what he said in the beginning, pet his head tell him he's handsome let him have what ever he wants and be his friend, translates I want the T.V. Mom fantasy or I will make your life hell! and so far my life is hell because I won't do those things for him.

Amanda Thank you for your story, Amanda. I think we are too angry 😡 On the contrary, we should be zen as much as possible, show them another way at solving the conflict, remain calm and use some sense of humour! We can make it 🌿 Everybody tells me that it’s normal at that age! We should really be calm and firm. Soon they will change

in order to learn to fly.ABUSER MOTTO YOU JUST NEGLETFULL PARENT

I need advice on this one to my daughter 17 and very volatile abusive emotionally and physically won't keep a job and won't go to school I had to kick her out of my house because she broke my boyfriend's wrist because we asked her to make her company leave she's very controlling and every situation but herself she's been diagnosed with dmdd which is a disruptive mood disorder so she goes into Tantrums and fits and can't get herself out of them I need to know if kicking her out of my house to live with her 80 year old grandparents was the right thing cuz I'm at loss and I'm ready to give up

@@bethpetty5941 She will use that diagnosis to her benefit too just avoid accountability for her intent to do harm to others when not getting her way.

Probably should’ve closed ur kegs

You can't guide a teen who doesn't want to be

@@ladybird491 truth some want to learn the hard way....

@nikie van sinderen I can feel your desperation. That is exactly the behavior of my daughter. Screaming and yelling like I am beating the living daylights out of her. Then my neighbours start to complain (who can blame them). I moved out repeatedly out of pure shame and embarassement. She is verbally but also physically very abusive and hostile. She already has broken my ringfinger age 12. I needed surgery. Go figure. She acts as a victim. As a single parent I am often baffled at the way she is able to tell lies in a very convincing manner. But now at age 17 i decided to kick her to the curbs. She just kicked me yesterday so hard like a move from The Karate Kid that she has broken my rib. I could hear it snap. I am not able to move, breathe properly and I am in terrible agony. I went to the ER. Yep, X-ray, yep broken. The worst is the swearing via Whatsapp so the neighbours can't hear her. She's clever. She behaves like I am her slave who has to be there at her beck and call. I can write books about this devil. We had 1 year intensive counselling. Didn't help. I think she might have a mental disorder. She also doesn't have any friends and puts all her anger and frustration out on me. She doesn't accept any authority nor discipline. My daughter came literally from Hell. Sometimes I think I am living with a demon especially that conniving smile she gives me after the police write her report. She describes me like a monster while I litteraly do everything for her. I buy anything she wants to avoid more yelling and drama, I helped her many times with her homework so she can binge watch Friends on her Ipad. I am High Sensitive and reached the limit. Sorry to say but there is no improvement. Better to part ways the minute it is feasible. Don't blame yourself as you did as a parent the best you could. The guilt was killing me for a long time in order to take any action but now with a broken rib no more. Enough is enough! Start living your life and enjoy it the best you can. She soon will be out. It is now just a matter of formalities. She terrorized my life and I don't feel any love for her anymore. I have been through hell and back. Don't blame yourself.

Same thing omg she did it for 2 years n she would stand near enterence door scream leave me alone don't touch me ....n nobody EVER touched her . spc declared me psych parent . at age 9 she started conspire with her father total psychopath to get rid of me PPL TAKE MY ADVICE I SPENT ALL I VE TO REACH HER . SHE IS MASTER MANIPULATOR . THEY KICKED ME OF MY HOME REPORTED ME EVERYWHERE AS DANGEROUS pERSON I M HOMELESS. HE LEFT ALL TOGETHER MADE DEPTHS TO ME SO I CAN T WORK . N SHE HAVE THIS SWEET OHH DEAR IE FACE IN PUBLIC . SHE LEFT ME WENT TO HIM N TOGETHER TWO OF THEM ABUSING ME INSOUKTS HUNGING UP SINGING ME SICKO . IF SHE SAID IS OVER IT S THA IT S THAT ... LAST NIGHT I talked N SAID ENOUGH WITH IT ....WE R TALKING SHE LEFT PHONE OPEN LET ME LISTEN TO SHOWERING N THEN WHEN FINISHED SHE HUNG UP . humiliations IN EVERY WAY .. I ASKED WHY WHY WTF I VE DONE TO YOU .YES IT S SLAVE TREATMENTS N IN MY CASE WORSE. SHE TOLD ME I LL ALWAYS GIVE U FEW DOLLARS WHEN U BEG ON STREETS . I raised HER ALINE SINCE SHE WAS 3 ....IS THIS DEMONIC OR SONE BRAIN PROBLEM? BUT SHE KNOWS WHAST SHE S DOIN .. HOW CAN IT BE BRAIN ? PURE F PSYCHOPATH. SHE MADE WEB OF LIES AROUND ME . USED MY PUREST LOVE TO KILL ME . MY DAUGHTER JUST TURNED 13 KILLED BY PROXY HER OWN MOM.I TRIED SUICIDE FEW TIMES . HER DAD N HER MADE A PLAN N PUTTED ME IN REMOTE VILLAGE 24\7 IN ROOM . BOXING ME . DESTROYED ALL MY PROPERTY. .....DEL ALL PHOTOS . EVERYONE IS HATING ME EVEN MY OWN MOTHER . I CAN TAKE IT NO MORE . SHE CARE NOT IF I DIE . I SWEAR I COULD .....N DO NIT REGRET .

@Truthseeker look it up RAD disorder . one woman have channel HER stepdaughter POISONED HER N HER HUSBAND . R U DIVORCED .?

@@vanja2500 I feel very sorry to hear your sad story. You are not alone suffering. Her father abandoned me when I was pregnant to show up after 6 years when he learned that I was trying to seek a partner to live my life with. I raised her all by myself plus went eorking. I had a severe burn-out. I've always wanted more children and I didn't want my daughter to be an only child. She became the worst spoiled brat ever. Mine is doing EXACTLY the same as yours. Yelling very loudly DONT TOUCH ME MAMA! STOPPP!! AWWWW YOU ARE HURTING ME!! While i am sitting, crying in my own room. Then the doorbell goes. My neighbourlady very concerned as she can listen and repeat my daughters words ad verbatim asks "Do I need to call the police!" The walls are very thin. Everywhere people think in the village that I am the culprit because she manipulates them with her angelic, cute face. They made anonymous reports about me because she tricked them all. I am now moving out for the last time in my life to a nice place and area and there is NO ROOM IN MY HEART OR IN THAT HOUSE FOR HER! This demon has ruined my life completely. She acts like a shapeshifter. Moodswings, hysterical anger outbursts. My rib aches so much. She has a very negative energy vibe around her. I can't stand to be in 1 room with this Devil. My prayers are with you. As a single parent I know it is very hard to survive this ordeal. It is hell on earth! Where is justice when you need it the most? My name is trashed forever because of her antics. Be brave sister. My thoughts and prayers are with you.

@@nandinibandhini, good Lord.. no one should be going through what you are. I'm deeply sorry for your suffering. Please keep praying for her soul. May God help you dear..

You did nothing wrong! neither did I where it concerns my SS. That's the problem nowadays it's always the parents who didn't do this enough didn't do that enough, why didn't we just spend a 100 dollars on the cell phone they wanted, maybe if I did they wouldn't be this way, we just want them to be happy.. Sound familiar? Society today doesn't want us as parents to correct or enforce anything, just let them choose and it will be okay mantra, but then child chooses this what happened to you or me, then It's our fault they are the way they are now, rude, disrespectful false sense of entitlement etc, we try to correct we are bad, we don't correct because we will have DFS CPS cops telling we are wrong, then we are wrong because they are in a prison, we didn't love them because they would be better if we did, WTH! I'm here too no matter how nice, friendly, playful and positive we are as parents or the opposite, negative, neglectful, harsh etc, we are bad parents, it boils down to what the kid wants point blank, and the only way is their way, parents are told it isn't about you, it's about them all the time, this gives kids leverage because society loves to scold you in front of your kids which sets to the relationship into constant turmoil and conflict. You're a good mom don't forget that!

you shity negletcful parent

I am on the same boat. What solutions have you found?

@@miladycernuda1 for my part thinking about sending him to the army or navy

Jackie Reyes . On his 18th birthday put his stuff out by the curb.. with a note. You're an adult now. Time to live like one.

It’s time to make him appreciate you. Put him out! You can’t live like that. It will only get worse.

Sagans Run ... Good advice! This is what i plan on doing w mine

Jackie Reyes my 17 year old told me to go kill myself last Mother’s Day. I am married to a narcissist and he has made her the golden child I got to get out of this place it’s a living hell!

This is a hard situation but there are many things you might be able to do. Since all situations are different, I offer individualized help to get strength, courage, determination and skill, and to create and carry out an effective plan. Please, email me at Ben@BulliesBeGone.com to schedule Zoom, Skype, Messenger or What’sApp counseling/coaching. I’m in Denver, Colorado (Mountain Time) so we’ll have to adjust for the time zone difference but that should be no problem. You can pay easily through major credit cards or PayPal (Ben@BulliesBeGone.com). What’s the price of putting up with bullies? Slow erosion of your soul! I can help you work through a complicated situation. Best wishes, Ben

Did you change the lock?

Hi Sorin, You have a real problem. If we don’t find a way to change the situation, you’ll be doomed for life. Here’s what I do: Since all situations are different, I offer individualized help to get strength, courage, determination and skill, and to create and carry out an effective plan. Please, email me at Ben@BulliesBeGone.com to schedule Zoom, Skype, Messenger or What’sApp counseling/coaching. I’m in Denver, Colorado so we’ll have to adjust for the time zone difference but that should be no problem. You can pay easily through major credit cards or PayPal (Ben@BulliesBeGone.com).. What’s the price of putting up with bullies? Slow erosion of your soul! I can help you work through a complicated situation. Best wishes, Ben

I am in the same boat! Mine is 13 and is a step child, I didn't do anything wrong, loved him as my own and he knows he can do anything he wants because I was told the same thing, no help, MY SS told me this is the way it was going to continue to be until he is 18 and moves out, he caused his younger brother to be on board with him and now I have a tyrant 5 year old on my hands and DFS in my face because I scold and punish the 5 year old for throwing tantrums. Every time I get this house calm and my kids and him and his brother are working in harmony, he starts the crap all over again to get the family fighting and at odds, He told me he was going to make my life miserable, when I ask why, what did I do? He never tells me he goes silent, makes excuses blames others for his actions, then expects me to love on him and spend time with him, when I do spend time with him, it isn't enough because he gets angry and forces himself into my time with the other kids and says well I should be included too, but when I say wait I spend time with you by ourselves they need that too he says oh I deserve your undivided attention. The cops won't help parents anymore and we are abusive if we so much try to teach the kids any way of the world anymore. Our society has made sure that the kids are in control and are in power and the parents are forced against their better morals and judgement to submit and enable them for fear of being arrested or having our kids taken away.

Oh my I felt that : I love him but I dont like him Everything is a battle

Regina Jackson I have the same question. That’s what I was looking for. All of this makes sense for a teen over 18 but not very helpful for teens under 18. What can we do besides kicking them out?

My question too. She's 15

@Patriarchy Is Idolatry Man Is Not God just sent my teen to her dad. His house is just as good as mine a s she treats him better even though she says she doesnt like him neither. She hates rules, expectations, and authority.

Just kidding. Though it's tempting right?

😱 that's awful... So what happened?

Tell them teenage crisis is yt thing I told that to my son yesterday night I call him the priviledge kid now He is everywhere pretending is from the streets SMDH