How to talk to Anyone, Anytime, Anywhere

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Most people want to be spoken to, flirted with, teased and given the chance to escape their continuous mental chatter and dull existence.
But oftentimes we have no clue how to begin such interactions or, worse yet, we're terrified to do so.
So we remain in silence, stare at our phones and are the first ones to frantically press the button to open the lift.
And it's because of our reluctance to start the interaction that we cherish those few individuals who take it upon themselves to initiate the conversation while they’re standing in an elevator, queuing in line at a cafe or simply passing us by on the street.
So how do they do it?
0:00 Your worst nightmare...
0:57 (1) Go first, go positive & be constant in doing it
1:44 (2) The multidisciplinary approach to socialising
2:36 Allow me to share a secret with you...
3:41 Don't worry, you don't need to be a dog
4:45 The ultimate hack to talk to ANYONE
6:15 Outro rizz
Title ideas:
The social hack which changed my life
How to become a social magnet
How to socialise with anyone
How to improve your social skills
#socialskillscoaching #flirting

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@NewelOfKnowledge Месяц назад

1 month later, allow me to clarify some things... The main counter-arguments to this video in the comments are: - "I couldn't think of anything worse than someone trying to talk to me all the time, let alone start a conversation with me in an elevator! Plus there's not a one-size fits all approach to socialising! Anyway, who cares?" So here's my response: - To interpret this video as "this guy is just saying we should ALWAYS avoid silence" is missing the point. - Silence is sometimes necessary if what you're after is a sane mind. - The example of the elevator was an example (emphasis on the word "example"). I used it to illustrate any scenario you might find yourself in where you might want (key words "might want") to spark up a conversation with someone. - However, if you're an unsociable fellow who prefers his own company to some random British man with a moustache trying to talk to you about god knows what in the hopes of having a lively conversation, that's fine. Knock yourself out with your solitude. - But for those of you who do want to occasionally speak to strangers and improve your approachability, I made this video for you. Regardless of what camp you fall into, Thanks for watching. Lewis

@maddscientist82 Месяц назад

Great video, saw it the first time you uploaded. Anyway, LOVE your content, dude. Also, I joined your Discord and emailed you looking for ways to aid you on your journey. Let me know!

@NewelOfKnowledge Месяц назад

@@maddscientist82 Thanks brother! And sounds good.

@4D-Weather_Man Месяц назад

Yo I love your vest, is it tailored or just store bought?

@NewelOfKnowledge Месяц назад

@4D-Weather_Man thanks brother! I bought it from a small independent tailors - it’s a hand made Portuguese tweed suit - not sure on the brand

@Kajenx Месяц назад

We all can say it, but if you really feel the need for this ban we will support you.

@user-tx3wt3gw7t 24 дня назад

moral of the story: choose stairs

@irinthur 17 дней назад

Thank you... I needed this comment

@joshholmes322 16 дней назад

I literally died laughing at this my wife thought I was choking in the other room

@user-td3dq3gq3c 15 дней назад

@@joshholmes322 😂

@tieschawasilisa 12 дней назад

😂

@moonchildeverlasting9904 10 дней назад

this _USE_ to be right. Now its def. isnt.

@therambler3713 Месяц назад

The oldest trick I've learned is treat every stranger like an old friend from high school. Absolutely works wonders and immediately breaks the tension.

@dxnvxr Месяц назад

This is the key! That technique helped me to make lots of new friends lately

@a21123 Месяц назад

isnt that how every guy treats each other if they are not in work

@matheussanthiago9685 Месяц назад

@@a21123 the universal bro code

@mikec2845 Месяц назад

what if you had no friends in high school

@thenoodlebuddy Месяц назад

@@mikec2845touche

@jamesnewham7125 Месяц назад

First 15 minutes after arriving in the US for the first time, a woman got in the busy elevator and faced everybody instead of the door and was just talking at everybody. As a Brit, I've still not recovered from this.

@evgeniizaets9243 Месяц назад

😂

@123simenHP Месяц назад

You never went to an elevator again, right? Just imagine the same torture happening again 😬

@magyarbondi Месяц назад

You're not a Brit. It's a lift. 😄

@heavenlysteel8337 22 дня назад

@@magyarbondi maybe they stayed quite a while in the US and picked up the American term.

@faruambient 9 дней назад

was about to say the same. As a german. ... why is there always the need to talk? people can just be quiet for 2 minute in the elevator 😀 In the US it wont stay silent for a second from my experience, but I dont mind either.

@JakeDevs Месяц назад

Finally realized I have to go bald before I can talk to people ty

@NewelOfKnowledge Месяц назад

shit, forgot to mention this!

@tng3100 Месяц назад

@@NewelOfKnowledge noted..

@GuidelinesViolater Месяц назад

@@NewelOfKnowledge policeman,firefighter,doctor.

@Morph-ek4ij Месяц назад

@@NewelOfKnowledgeyeah then you have a conversation started everywhere you go😂 “Hey Hey miss/Mr have you seen my hair? It seems to have grown legs and jumped off my head!

@JonnyD3ath 22 дня назад

He hasn’t went bald, he’s shaved his head 🤣

@ac5788 Месяц назад

I don't like to make conversation in a place where it is liable to be cut short permanently. What is awkward is people's intolerance of quiet.

@NewelOfKnowledge Месяц назад

Fair point.

@siyanda_mpanza Месяц назад

That's good! Make it part of the 'taking in your environment' exercise, but careful not to use it as a cop out either. Even if we only spoke for ten seconds, that's enough to make someone feel noticed, heard and, as a corollary, special. It's actually enought time to make a first impression. Perhaps a change of objective might enhance your experience(s). So, spread some cheer! Well, if that becomes your objective, tight time horizons will only motivate you to be more creative/ witty. 👌

@kalla103 Месяц назад

you meant to say prematurely instead of permanently, right? hard agree though, i would not try to start a conversation in an elevator when we'd part ways before i could reply to my partner in a proper manner. but that is fine and ok. we don't have to talk all the time.

@javi___ Месяц назад

yet you had to say something now

@mac19999x Месяц назад

theres always the option when you dont end the conversation and just keep talking... but i get it, whatever excuse will do.

@S_H_A_N_E_ Месяц назад

Silence doesn’t have to be awkward. Silence just is

@user-br6ve4lz6n Месяц назад

Sounds like a cope, friend.

@blaz1641 Месяц назад

@@user-br6ve4lz6n you never had enjoyable silence with someone you are close to?

@takeuchi5760 Месяц назад

@@blaz1641 that's not the kind of silence being discussed here. Of course, that is not awkward.

@user-br6ve4lz6n Месяц назад

@@blaz1641 Sure, I guess. That's not what the video is about though, this video is about connecting with the people around you. You can't do that through silence unless you are already very close to them.

@johncharles.5087 Месяц назад

@@user-br6ve4lz6n Yes but what if it's clear the people in question have no intention of connecting and only speak because of the implied cultural pressure, the forced conversation that arises is always more awkward than the silence that should have been

@127Kronos Месяц назад

I actually have friends who are masters at this, hence why they're loved by everyone. They are super positive and make you really feel heard and understood. I don't know anyone as energetic, positive and "safe" as them. One day I'll ask them how do they do it, but maybe I already know the answer...

@princealmighty5391 Месяц назад

I'm that friend

@vackor Месяц назад

do they make you feel heard or are they litsening?

@thecrystalliaguild Месяц назад

'energetic, positive and safe' sounds like me, but I am not a master at the topic of this video since I'm super bad at having conversations

@jamessmithson-br7rm Месяц назад

They aren’t loved by everyone. They sound intolerable.

@127Kronos Месяц назад

@@vackor They're listening. Idk how they can keep information even after I forgot what I said.

@ianmuhota Месяц назад

Hey Lewis! My name's Ian. A while ago I came into the gym u used to work at and wanted to say thanks for being really nice to talk to! Best wishes for your RU-vid channel Ur content is really helpful!

@NewelOfKnowledge Месяц назад

Ian, how could I possibly forget you! The mature young man, hustling with homework, gym and always about his business. It's great to hear from you mate. How did you find the channel? I hope you're doing well and maintaining your hustle with much deserved relaxation ;)

@jamessmithson-br7rm Месяц назад

Anyone who talks in the gym should be taken out and permantly silenced. I’m there to work out not have a chat.

@SjorsHoukes Месяц назад

@@jamessmithson-br7rm Lewis *worked AT* the gym, and was apparently a friendly staff member. I’d throw myself out of any gym where the staff didn’t talk to me. ;)

@katherineh.9379 Месяц назад

To each their own, James. If I can't chat a bit at the gym, I don't want to come there. For me, it's also a time to socialize a little. If you don't like it, don't talk to people

@LazarTheMaster 24 дня назад

@@jamessmithson-br7rm Bro 60% of working out is sitting around doing nothing waiting for your next set... It's not a library...

@ballistic2527 23 дня назад

I relish the moments you guys call "awkward silence". I live for that shit

@JonnyD3ath 22 дня назад

I have a mate that loves it as well. Bathes in it like it’s glorious sunshine and works towards it like its the ultimate conversational goal. It has made me appreciate silence in a different way and not feel as awkward with it sometimes 🤣

@jaxter6037 21 день назад

Why?

@meyr1992 13 дней назад

dont worry some of us are isolated anti-social hermits like you and thats okay

@DJNikSonic2000 5 дней назад

Hahah you are king 😁

@Novalty_ Месяц назад

remaining silent or not greeting someone when you feel the tension like you should always makes it more awkward in the future.

@lavatr8322 25 дней назад

I have been through this in the lift , almost everyday in the gym Mostly with women , men are absolute bros anytime. But women are extremely guarded everywhere

@jdanielortega 10 дней назад

THIS !

@synthozy Месяц назад

Hey, mate! A similar situation happened to me today when I was in the elevator and this pretty girl entered it. I managed to find her during lunch time and we started talking. Well, we gonna go out for a walk tomorrow, since she’s new in the city. Cheers from Brasil, mate! All of the best

@NewelOfKnowledge Месяц назад

Awesome stuff brother! Glad to hear it. I hope the walk goes well ;) Tell her I said "tudo bem!"

@lavatr8322 Месяц назад

I saw my crush everyday in the gym and sometimes in the elevator... And I didn't even say "hi" Neither did she. Last month I just saw her getting engaged to the biggest Deckhead dude in my same gym session. And it absolutely SHOCKED me.

@Tuber-sama Месяц назад

Que homem.

@aurcut1178 Месяц назад

How’s the date been ?

@agzone7226 Месяц назад

Boa sorte, parceiro! Tomara que dê tudo certo pra ti.

@capricciosity Месяц назад

I've never fully understood why people trusted me so fast. People would tell me i'm their only "safe place" or i would meet someone and they would tell me later they immediately felt comfortable. This really broke it down for me and helped me understand what I do. I am the type of person to toss compliments at people, go up to a stranger to say they look like a celebrity (i do this very often) or something random to make them smile, and try to, at least once a day, verbalize how much the people I'm close to matter to me. Sometimes in a small speech about how much I love them and appreciate them, other times just a quick "thanks for being there for me, man." I love the feeling that I'm helping people around me. I love knowing someone smiled for just a few seconds after walking by me because I said i loved their new hairstyle or their outfit looks especially good. I love knowing people feel like they can trust me without any fear I'll break it. I love to love. Thank you.

@ameliaheart5091 Месяц назад

You sound like such a genuine and amazing person. I feel like I love you already just reading this! 😂 And not because I am ‘craving’ the validation in some way, but because people who bring positivity and love into the world, I just love them. I feel the same way. I like to give random people compliments and make their day. Not to get anything back from it, though I must admit seeing them smile or be happy because of it makes me more happy :)❤

@uchihadna920 Месяц назад

Always felt like this. When i read the book How to Win friends and influence people, most of the book already felt natural and intuitive. People don’t understand this is the key to getting anything you want in this world, but you don’t do it to gain, you do it because it feels right (being a genuine and loving human that is)

@NewelOfKnowledge Месяц назад

Some wholesomeness happening right here in this comment thread and I love it.

@jamessmithson-br7rm Месяц назад

Honestly, you sound intolerable.

@airr01 Месяц назад

Wow man I was literally smiling throughout reading your whole comment. Imma try to be more like you :)

@wizcatcheslightning Месяц назад

Interestingly enough, you can also use mirrored reciprocation to better negotiate/avoid conflict. For example, if someone says something, anything really, you mirror their response back at them. Person: "I'm so frustrated with your department" You: "You're frustrated with the sales department?" Person: "Yeah, our VP of project management is telling us to try and align with with the expectations your department is setting for the clients. And those expectations are unrealistic for us to fulfill." Next, you never ask a "why" question. "Why" questions make people inherently defensive because they sound accusatory. Instead, ask a "what" question... You: "What makes you frustrated specifically?" Person: "Well this employee of yours promised this (goes into detail about an unrealistic expectation that was set)". You: "Ah, well if they had attended that enablement workshop from last week, they should know better. Thanks for bringing this to my attention. I'll correct their course!" Issue resolved in a mostly non-confrontational confrontation, all because you mirrored their frustrations and gave them an opportunity to elaborate without making them feel the need to be defensive.

@NewelOfKnowledge Месяц назад

Ah man this made me happy! It seems you've been reading some Chris Voss (or perhaps not). Your knowledge of communication is awesome. Thanks for sharing this.

@wizcatcheslightning Месяц назад

@@NewelOfKnowledge "Never Split the Difference" changed my life, yessir! Right back at you! I watched this video, and was like, "I know exactly what he's talking about!" That dog example was a chef's kiss 🧑‍🍳

@NewelOfKnowledge Месяц назад

@@wizcatcheslightning Awesome stuff. Love to hear appreciation for that book. Thanks again sir ;)

@princealmighty5391 Месяц назад

Source?

@turtlec7140 8 дней назад

Great comment! As a counsellor, this is one of the first basic things you learn - WHY is often interpreted as an accusation so people get defensive, hence we ask WHAT or HOW if we want to help them express themselves and open up. It's a great basic communication technique and helps people feel heard and valued.

@rodkata6367 Месяц назад

This man right here deserves all the love and attention

@NewelOfKnowledge Месяц назад

Likewise comrade!

@4D-Weather_Man Месяц назад

I try to start conversations but ppl just ignore my existence💀

@delareiflaventitus5966 Месяц назад

Same bro 😂😂. But I just put into my mind that it doesn't matter if I'm thought of a fool... I already accept I am. That freed me from social anxiety lol

@das_sar 24 дня назад

😂😂

@EliezerRenato 23 дня назад

Basically

@blizzard2099 20 дней назад

Most likely you are not doing it right. Go to 4:45 and see if you do the things he suggests (I know I should too...)

@sourishhazra2636 11 дней назад

Not everyone responds and that's totally fine. That doesn't make you incompetent.

@gustaveriksson113 Месяц назад

What's funny is that in my adult life I've found these conversations easy to start and get into. My mindset is basically that it won't matter if that girl doesn't like me or will continue talking to me, she doesn't know me so the "me" that's rejected is just what she thinks is "me". Quite frankly I've had a lot of success with people doing this. It helps that I'm naturally friendly, curious, social, and interested in what they have to say.

@ServantAleksandar 21 день назад

Yeah good luck with that in Scandinavia. Here it' like 80% reject your positivity and 20% wanna talk to you, where out of those 20% only 5% end in good conversations with strangers.

@hellonihaocomoestas Месяц назад

that dog conversation had me LOL

@freddo9377 Месяц назад

Ive listened to alot of these kinds of videos, but ive never come across the "give them something to solve" idea. Thats a very easy way to start a fun interaction. Thanks man!

@Vsimpro Месяц назад

Absolute gem of a channel you have.

@NewelOfKnowledge Месяц назад

Thank you sir!

@EcomCarl Месяц назад

Peter's insight on mirrored reciprocation is a powerful reminder that the energy we emit is often the energy we receive. Starting with a positive, caring attitude can transform our interactions and bring about mutual respect and love. 🔄

@rickclick8359 Месяц назад

Long ago I made it an exercise to talk to everyone I meet. If you keep doing this habit it gets very easy to talk to anyone.

@fflxres Месяц назад

what do you mean and how did you do it??

@anttif. Месяц назад

wow, this is interesting, does it really work?

@rickclick8359 Месяц назад

@@fflxres It's very simple if you are sharing an elevator with someone, just make an opening comment. If you are at a party join a conversation, where every you see an opportunity don't wait, you start the conversation with anyone, its' practice. If you meet a stranger say good morning, try and be funny, kind or light hearted. I live in Thailand so I imagine it would be harder to do this living in a city where people are more guarded. I should of said most people in my original comment, use your discretion.

@rickclick8359 Месяц назад

@@anttif. Yes if you do this over years, you will find it easier to approach and talk to anyone. Sometimes you need to challenge yourself. Just go with no agenda other than to practice starting conversation. Just talk with anyone don't save yourself for certain people, make it a habit. It's really helpful so that when you have to speak for business or to someone you would like to get to know it makes it far less daunting.

@anttif. Месяц назад

@@rickclick8359 Thank you for the response, it's motivating.

@javachopTV Месяц назад

I do this all the time, it’s pretty fun. I’m more connected with strangers than my own friends at times.

@envar1 24 дня назад

For those who are curious, elevator walls have mirrors to help remedy the claustrophobic nature of them. Mirrors seemingly make a room visually larger

@NewelOfKnowledge 23 дня назад

WE HAVE THE ANSWER!

@meentage Месяц назад

Your channel came to me as a blessing. Been needing so many things u say

@mkhululimunjanja7388 Месяц назад

Dude I love how authentic you are with your presentations, keep it up man 👊🏾

@orangus_8302 Месяц назад

give them something to solve is actually really good advice thanks bro

@BorisBidjanSaberi11 Месяц назад

Learning to make convo with strangers led me to the most beautiful conversations

@LuCk3rLive 19 дней назад

This was genuinely one of the best videos Ive seen in the past months on youtube. Charming, funny but still concise, you deserve more subscribers. I'll start. Subscribed.

@merchrich9758 Месяц назад

honestly, this is superb advice. when you begin to try to lift peoples' day up just a little with a genuine smile and a good will for them, that does reverb back either quite soon or eventually. that can definitely work in all sorts of aspects like starting a conversation to help people let go of some steam or other things alike.

@Meyer-gp7nq Месяц назад

Keep making these videos. I subbed a couple weeks back, it’s kinda shocking to find such an intelligent person with such a small RU-vid following and yet this high production quality and dedication

@NewelOfKnowledge Месяц назад

Welcome aboard comrade! Thank you for your confidence :)

@aajustgirls3000 Месяц назад

Because you get what you give. In all the friendships I had, I noticed that when you give from your soul without expecting a payback, you get nicely rewarded.

@AndreyRubtsovRU 15 дней назад

You are confused. Friendship and ephemeral small talk are not the same

@chipmunk786 Месяц назад

Such a simple tip, but still genius. Not only is it a good ice-breaker, it also makes you aware of your surroundings so you might notice things that others don't.

@leta8796 7 дней назад

The first time I visited Denmark, for more than a decade ago, I said Hello to everyone at the bus station. Everyone seemed either shy or surprised and no one responded back . I felt so awkward and stopped saying hello from that day on 😅. Until I met an old lady who said Hello and had the hugest smile ever (unexpectedly) 😄

@somethingsomething2541 Месяц назад

I apprroah people alot, but a problem i find is that, if u live in a society and u have met everyone in s cheerful way, they expect you to always be like that, whenevrr you go out, u have to put up a face, because now everyone knows you, when i walk around in my community most people smile and wave at me, and say hey, but sometimes i just want to be left alone, sometimes im too tierd for human interaction in any shape or form, but because i have already had conversations with them in some way they all know me. And now i cant escape that whenever i go out. There is beauty in being left alone too, the problem is that we dont really get a choice.

@debosir Месяц назад

Nah, i think... you should be yourself. It's definitely not weird if someone changes their emotion, everyone does that, everyday. And, if they want you to always be the same, well... they are weird. I mean like, what's the worst thing if you change ur characteristic? The minimal thing, is for them to ask "what's wrong?", and better, they understand your situation and they exude their empathy and respect you. So, the point is, just be yourself :] Both being alone and not alone has both upside and downside, so, "nothing stays the same". And that alone, is also the beauty, get it? yeah no, idk what im saying. have a gr8 day

@ju999X Месяц назад

Wow i’m so glad someone else understands this feeling ! I often think there’s something wrong with me because yeah somedays i wanna be talkative and interact with the community but like you said there’s also days that i just wanna fit into the crowd like i’m no one ….and so i have to go to lengths of avoiding …like going to a different grocery store rather than the one 3 minutes from my home

@Rosyandguildy 2 дня назад

I totally understand but...just don't, don't give in to that expectation it's unrealistic, unfair and kind of stupid - hit them with your range of emotions and they're just gonna have to get used to it or keep it pushing :D

@oxymoron2349 13 дней назад

A scenario like this always reminds me of how few people are actually free in our society, mentally.

@repakore Месяц назад

never has a video made so much sense and so easy to understand. I thank you sir

@something5032 День назад

Man just comes from nowhere and gives life advice. Hope mirrored reciprocation will happen soon

@truesight5968 Месяц назад

Thank you for putting such a great message in such a short video, loved it. There's nothing to be afraid of, especially if it's casual communication. A few days ago, a girl from my university needed help with her survey for her senior thesis, and without even noticing it, instead of silently filling out this survey, I asked her a few questions, and we had a pleasant 5-minute talk :)

@NewelOfKnowledge Месяц назад

Awesome stuff! Good job man. Proud of you. Thank you for the comment :)

@parkmel7019 Месяц назад

Wow! I'm rarely amazed by the quality of youtube videos! Good job man, please keep making these!

@OliverBenz-cx4lw Месяц назад

I'm really happy to have watched this video. I generally enjoy smalltalk with strangers but sometimes don't have a good way of initiating conversation. Looking forward to trying out your trick of just observing something in the environment

@jakubkarmowski2416 7 дней назад

Short and sweet! Great job - Thanks a lot Man, may you have a blessed life

@silkeizer698 29 дней назад

Ever since i’ve seen one your videos, i’m hooked. I love your videos. Keep doing what ur doing and i wish u the best of luck.

@wer2006 Месяц назад

The one thing that immediately kept me to continue watching this video was that you're so charismatic and entertaining to watch :)

@TrustEngineers 22 дня назад

I'm probably the only socially adept person in the world who finds it absolutely non-awkward and natural to just stay silently next to a random person for a prolonged period of time. There's no need to have a conversation or a small talk if you don't feel like it. No need to awkwardly lower your sight or look around, or look in your phone even if you don't need to just to look busy. Just wear a confident face expression, slightly smiling, lean onto the wall and look straight. You don't have to apologize or feel awkward just because you HAD to be in this elevator with a stranger. There, in fact, very little situations in life where you HAVE to feel awkward. In most cases, you CHOOSE to feel awkward. Just remember that. Also, 4:13 -- That number is SIGNIFICANTLY understated. I don't think the author of the video followed his advice in real life, because most conversation starters he mentioned would be considered cringe in real world.

@wolf_biter Месяц назад

Silence need not be awkward. Sometimes silence is just silence.

@lecobra418 20 дней назад

You can't ask extroverts to understand that. If they stop speaking for a minute they have to think, can you imagine that? THINKING. Insanity!

@maximilianomorganti7639 18 дней назад

Two donkeys have gathered

@Agropio 11 дней назад

I agree. Whenever I hear someone say that silence is awkward, I feel like "Maybe you're just bad at silence".

@klosnj11 Месяц назад

I was taught that it is almost always good to notice something about the other person (generally something they seem to have put thought and effort into) and mentioning it, coupled with an open ended question. But I can see how observing the enviroment would give you a lot more to play with. And I guess I do this without really thinking about it. Love the video. Consider me subscribed.

@alien_in_white_3 Месяц назад

Short, simple, but to the point and delivers critical information. Great video! Now i need to stop procrastinating and actually start to be the 2% who initiate conversations

@NewelOfKnowledge Месяц назад

Get straight to it brother!

@AliveClint 23 дня назад

Killer topics and efficient teaching of them, brother. Thank you a ton. The “solve a problem together” method is brilliant.

@_rana_09_ Месяц назад

love your videos man, keep it up !

@hansmuller5165 Месяц назад

This is the first video I ever watched of you and I loved it! You have such a great energy, I immediately subscribed

@bikshmeister8710 Месяц назад

Thank you Lewis!

@urfriendlyrat Месяц назад

Most underrated channel on youtube

@randomlife9584 Месяц назад

thank you for making this dude

@steepescrr3278 Месяц назад

What helped me a lot where two things. 1. Try to understand the fear or anxiety you have towards talking to strangers. For me it was important to understand what hold me back from doin it to understand, that there is really nothing to worrie about and nothing to Lose. 2. To understand, that talking and not talking are equally good. You dont have to talk. But if you feel like it, Just Do it. Takes the pressure out of it. 3. Be authentic. Ask things you really find interessting. Talk about stuff thats really funny/interessting/deep/meaningfull to you. The third Was a Bonus :)

@NewelOfKnowledge Месяц назад

Great stuff! Thanks for sharing :)

@kari.ethereal Месяц назад

This is so good man. I'm gonna be consuming your content daily now. ✨

@tristanlanphere7736 Месяц назад

Bro you really deserve more subscribers

@tr0ublegum Месяц назад

So happy I landed on this video. You should have more subscribers.

@anonusniogsonisrgnip Месяц назад

Honestly I just want to be left alone 99% of the time if I am in a public setting, would be annoying if random people were trying to smalltalk constantly, but I appreciate your thoughts :-)

@NewelOfKnowledge Месяц назад

True. Silence is much appreciated sometimes.

@koadl77 20 дней назад

I really can't relate to the "awkward silence problem" with complete strangers. Most of the time I don't speak to strangers because I'm just not interested in them, their opinion or stories. I even try to get rid of people who force you into an conversation in such moments, which, to be honest, I find way more awkward than just minding your own business. Not everyone needs your attention. Not everyone is flirty 24/7. Not every person you meet wants to get to know you. At least I don't.

@andrewleonardi3351 28 дней назад

This. Is. Brilliant.

@BillWidmerBlog Месяц назад

This is so true and excellent advice! I absolutely love when people are willing to start a conversation with me, so it makes sense that people would love if I do it for them. I'll make it a point to try this in the future, thank you for the video! Also subbed to your newsletter, excited to see what you're about.

@jaym3034 Месяц назад

Dude, your channel will blow up!

@pepijnbedert Месяц назад

How did i never see this guy? You're amazing!

@neldino1251 Месяц назад

underrated channel

@gavinbroccoli3660 5 дней назад

Thank you, this was helpful

@KoteGreen Месяц назад

This was incredible man! I love your energy

@ericsong8398 Месяц назад

Such an underrated video

@syed4194 26 дней назад

why does this guy look like a character from witcher 3 ???

@wholesomematt Месяц назад

Lewis! You’re a captivating speaker brother. Great videos on this channel. A HINT for others who want to have better conversations with people they sort of know (someone at the gym you maybe wave or nod to and so on) I always after saying hello and asking how they are will run that sentence and say what are you excited about. “hey how are you today (the slightest pause) what’s exciting today” either we talk about a thing in the gym they are excited about or I’ll hear about something in life and the conversation can just FLOW cause someone is talking about what they are excited about. Which you can do anywhere in life.

@NewelOfKnowledge Месяц назад

Matt, all I can say is thank you. Not only for your comment but for the solid conversation starter of "what's exciting today?" I absolutely love it and I'm going to use it from now on. Another one similar to that is "what do you love most about your work?". Keep up the good work mate!

@Calnurious Месяц назад

Haven't watched any other video of yours yet, but I intend to. Already subbed and look forward to watching your other videos. I hope they have as much or more wisdom as this one. Thank you for this content, I very much need it!

@marsdriver2501 Месяц назад

Love your energy and attitude, it really put a smile on my face

@NewelOfKnowledge Месяц назад

:')

@TheLotusRitual Месяц назад

I've been thinking about this a lot recently, this video came a long at the perfect time, thank you!

@abrahammorales3266 Месяц назад

This is amazing!

@futuretrunks749 22 дня назад

Go first, go positive! ❤ I love this. ❤

@calleausmalle5466 2 дня назад

You are a brilliant man

@HumanDoing 20 дней назад

I've been doing this for a while, just noticing strange stuff and pointing it out or asking a question about it. It's an amazing conversation starter, I didn't know it was an actual technique😂 I always felt kinda weird doing it, but now I'm gonna do it more often, thanks!

@DCZ745666 Месяц назад

Wow... great video mate! Recently switched jobs from a front facing service role to office work. Its been a bit of a struggle to acclimatize ngl. I've been really missing all those fun, little interactions. Clearly I need to make more of an effort to talk with everyone. Just what i needed to hear today, had me smiling ear to ear by the end 😅 cheers!

@ademomdd Месяц назад

Hey Lewis, i came across your video on the churchill principle which was fascinating to me, as i had been asking myself so many questions about balancing those aspects of my life. i ended up watching a lot of you’d videos and fell in love with your content, you’ve quickly become one of my favourite youtubers, you have a great energy and really interesting subjects 💪 Keep up the great vids coming brother you’ve inspired me to get back to making youtube videos

@NewelOfKnowledge Месяц назад

Demz! Welcome brother. Great to hear you find value in the content. Get back on making videos for sure. There's a lot in store for you. :)

@FabianMepic 25 дней назад

The master of Storytelling

@tobeij237 26 дней назад

Thanks I will definitely try that!

@SulfurOxigenSulfur 4 дня назад

He said amigos, good enough you have earned a like

@lindamarietravel 25 дней назад

Thank you! Great advice. I'm going to start action and doing this! 😀

@marcofaedda3118 Месяц назад

00:52 the awkward silence was gonna be lifted in a way or another

@VonPete105 21 день назад

Heyy, met you on Brandon Hill last year - awesome to see you conquering RU-vid! Keep it up!

@LiveLooseLeaf Месяц назад

This is a great video man. Well done.

@LastChip Месяц назад

This video is amazing: entertaining, useful and with a pinch of humor!

@doojin1146 Месяц назад

Man I love your vibe. How did I not not know this channel?

@NewelOfKnowledge Месяц назад

Welcome sir! :)

@raulsimms4399 Месяц назад

Another banger video. Keep it up bro, you’re very enlightening👍🏼

@NewelOfKnowledge Месяц назад

Thank you sir!

@itsmerose1995 Месяц назад

This video is on time. I am having social anxiety. SWEAR! I am nervous with people. thank you for the free class lessons today sir. Keep on sharing your videos. All the way from Philippines 🇵🇭

@voted Месяц назад

This video was like a breath of fresh air from everything else on youtube! Love your personality man. Im subbing :)

@NewelOfKnowledge Месяц назад

Welcome! :) And thank you!

@Uriel.982 Месяц назад

I'm in the highest difficulty then since i live in France and people here are generally a bit closed/shy, always in a rush, never smile, it is quite sad actually but still I try to engage and some people are quite wonderful like a sunshine after the storm. I believe that ram dass said that you should treat your relationships like a meditation, you discover yourself while discovering another human being, you have to be open and without judgement whatsoever to truly know someone in all their shades. ❤

@user-rw3vq9tv5j 9 дней назад

very warm and funny) thx a lot! ❤

@JennyT101 Месяц назад

This is good advice. My stepdad was a master at this. He struck up conversations everywhere. If he had to queue up for something you can guarantee he would start chats to the people. around him, and people responded so positively to him. He made so many friends.

@NewelOfKnowledge Месяц назад

I'd love to meet him in an elevator