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How To Get Respect Without Being A Bully - Jordan Peterson
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Jordan Peterson recently expertly handled a debate during an interview with BBC's Channel 4 news (The video was called: Jordan Peterson debate on the gender pay gap, campus protests and postmodernism). And JBP did it without being a bull or being aggressive. So how do we get respect without being a bully? Well, we often think that getting respect and being aggressive go hand in hand. Because unfortunately, it’s often the bully that gets the most respect in the schoolyard and even in the workplace. But Jordan Peterson is an exemplar of a different way to generate massive amount of respect. So in this video we’re going to explore 3 main things he does that force people to respect you WITHOUT being a bully.
Now, we focused a lot on respect in this video but that's actually just one out of four emotions that are going to create an amazing first impression on anyone cross-culturally. Now, if you're curious with the other three emotions that you want to create in that person are to make an amazing first impression, I made a video on that that breaks down what those four emotions are so that you can start using them today to consistently make killer first impressions.
0:30 Jordan Peterson calls it "pacing your reality"
4:50 Jordan Peterson tells stories effectively
6:54 Jordan Peterson uses archetypal stories
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@Charismaoncommand 6 лет назад

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@ArronLukeMusic 6 лет назад

Charisma on Command strange how your video just came up. Would love to see you do a dissection of his recent interview with Cathy Newman on channel 4. (Body language etc)

@pluginleah 6 лет назад

Why is it that Peterson's fans are only anti-feminist, anti-trans, anti-"SJW"?

@sdjafhasdkg 6 лет назад

Charisma on Command can you do a video on A$AP Rocky

@uprightkiller394 6 лет назад

Jordan Peperson...

@Sam-ng3of 6 лет назад

I think JP, being a psychologist, would be impressed by your channel if he knew of it!

@lokanoda 5 лет назад

You forgot one of the main reasons Peterson commands respect: his thorough knowledge of the topic, he knows his stuff.

@redhotchilibitch 5 лет назад

lokanoda yea, people quickly sniff out ignorants (lots of words with 0 substance)

@joncoish 5 лет назад

Yeah exactly, he is extremely intelligent and well read. This also raises another point, you probably shouldn't argue about things you know nothing about. People are too willing to do this nowadays and should probably just sit back and listen more rather then arguing and fighting.

@katiest.vincent4283 5 лет назад

Except his continued insistence that "Postmodern Neo Marxism" is a thing when both terms are in direct contradiction of each other.

@humantacos9800 5 лет назад

@@katiest.vincent4283 It is a contradiction, but many of the socialists and Marxists he debates consider themselves postmodern, which is probably why he uses those terms together.

@katiest.vincent4283 5 лет назад

@@humantacos9800 No. He uses them because the term is the new boogeyman to western conservatives. If he truly cared about facts and intellectual integrity he wouldn't repeatedly use it in his writings or his debates. Peterson is the master at using "intellectual" sounding words to talk in circles.

@infintittie 5 лет назад

"Build your opponent a golden bridge to retreat across"

@Headcasehacker1080 5 лет назад

Manipulating people like this isn't always the best strategy. Usually it's something very clear like: I heard what you said (restate it), however, here's what I need, here's how you can benefit, you do a, b, c very well, it's been 5 minutes, hope [insert childs or spouse name] is doing well... oh... gotta run.

@halcioncocaine2096 5 лет назад

Opponent already dead 💣

@inevitablecraftslab 4 года назад

@@Headcasehacker1080 i think he means it like in lay them a path where they can change their mind without losing their face

@steffenvergeylen475 4 года назад

I was the 1000th like. Bet you didn't care

@BlackAdder665 4 года назад

What about a wooden bridge? With nice carvings and stuff. Does that count? Or does it have to be golden?

@lynnmcgown2451 Год назад

My husband son & I went to one of his lectures. It was full of couples, whole families with their young teens girls & boys. Lots of older people both sexes and we were expecting it would be an audience full of young men. It was so diverse races, & genders. What a fantastic thinker for our times.

@vickiehenshaw1890 Год назад

comma

@annhenry3135 Год назад

Oh please. You have fallen into the ‘woke’ cesspool. It doesn’t matter who comprised the audience and you evaluated their value. A ‘woke’ tactic that you bought hook, line and sinker. Dr. Peterson would shake his head at your post as he would feel all his talks came to naught.

@found-it0620 Год назад

Peterson should run for Prime Minister....great thinker.

@michaelboyd959 Год назад

Yes yes!! All of us together, as we are, Humans!!!❤

@roberti8116 Год назад

These days he is a total right wing grifter and seems totally nutty. I don't know where he pivoted into insanity, maybe cuz he needed a paycheck? But a Canadian spouting off about American politics and preaching his new mssg on the Daily Wire isn't exactly a great source for critical thinking and societal improvement.

@berthzy537 2 года назад

One guy parenting millions of adults. Congrats Peterson, love from Norway.

@jeffmoss118 5 лет назад

He also purposely appears weak, then proceeds to cut people down if they come for him. But, he lifts them back up with empathy. One of the most charismatic people of the new millennium.

@justinz9225 4 года назад

Rope-a-dope, baby.

@markboggs746 4 года назад

Meh. Like those are new ideas! This dude "Jesus" came up with all that years ago. Jordan is just copying him and passing it all off as his own material!

@Mrhellslayerz 4 года назад

@@markboggs746 As a devote christian myself, that makes absolutely zero sense. I would love to know what kind of mentality it takes to think Dr.Peterson is copying Jesus, and somehow lying about it as well.

@markboggs746 4 года назад

@@Mrhellslayerz It was a joke. I'm shocked you don't get it and took it seriously. LOL.

@Mrhellslayerz 4 года назад

@@markboggs746 1: You'd be surprised how many "Christians" would be serious with that statement. 2: It may have been obvious and/or funny from your perspective, but from from me, an outsider, that joke was rather mediocre. (No offense.) While I apologize for not considering the possibility of it being a joke, you certainly could've written it better.

@Atreus21 5 лет назад

People will argue that 2+2=5 if it means disagreeing with someone they dislike.

@MrJmayes23 5 лет назад

Ahaha! TRUE!

@jagman84 5 лет назад

@@MrJmayes23 I see that you have heard the Brexit debate in the UK. A lot of it, currently.

@brandonasif4074 5 лет назад

WRONG - donald trump voice

@1unknowntalent 5 лет назад

Well said!

@pivotmartuX 5 лет назад

But the Big Brother says so.

@blackbirdpie217 Год назад

He's a psychologist, and a good one because he thoroughly understands psychological principles in practice. He understands how people communicate and how to listen. Also his vocabulary is amazing, instilling respect for his mind, and it's all natural for him because he is in fact very intelligent.

@Damon369DivineAxiom 7 месяцев назад

He's also intuitively connected out of complete linear construct. His spiritual and physical reality is balanced.

@shmevanriceballz2857 Год назад

That’s why he’s a 1 in a million talent. Truly a legend in terms of charisma and speech

@KaiserSoze679 7 месяцев назад

Except he's really not. Charisma is literally defined as a compelling attractiveness or charm that inspires devotion in others. When more than half of the people who are aware of your existence hate your guts, and the only people who seem to see that charm or attractiveness in you are the ones that already agreed with your obvious prejudices, clearly there's nothing "compelling" there. You wanna see real charisma? Look to guys like The Rock, Terry Crews, Keanu Reeves, Chris Hemsworth - the kind of guys that next to nobody has a bad word to say about, no matter what walk of life they come from. That's charisma. I guess I'd give you speech in that he has a good vocabularly and speaks with confidence and conviction.... but I mean, so do dictators. So do sociopaths. So do cult leaders (which frankly I'd argue he's verging on himself.) That's not only not always a good thing, but in the wrong person it's a very dangerous quality.

@vxlley_flower5672 5 лет назад

As my Leadership/History/Philosophy teacher once said: "Argue to learn, don't argue to fight".

@johnstorton 4 года назад

I DO THAT! I've argued with my teachers, and I've argued with various professionals, knowing I was wrong. I find it an efficient way to learn. (It usually becomes apparent to them, especially the teachers, what I'm doing.

@daviesdavies538 3 года назад

I was always taught by my parents to understand where the opposing side is coming from, even of you don't agree. That way it's a less hostile anf respectful debate

@philiplathrop9250 3 года назад

Amen

@xentiment6581 3 года назад

Peterson: "You should argue, but you should argue toward peace"

@joelstephenson8017 3 года назад

That's what I like to do!

@robbiejelsomeno5679 4 года назад

<a href="#" class="seekto" data-time="142">2:22</a> Regular person’s brain: “Jordan peppers in...” My brain: *Jordan Pepperson*

@joshuanickle8187 4 года назад

RobbieJelsomeno that's what I heard😂😂

@micanikko 4 года назад

Even the captions heard Pepperson. lmaoo.

@4_times_college_dropout_tr24 4 года назад

that is one fat comment rant for some white kratom. This stuff is better than coffee and modafinil, on levels replicating some seriously powerful stimulant drugs. Has white kratom brought me a gift to actually have the energy to connect and talk with others? since this is fairly new to me, I need to learn the art of harnessing that power and making a more impactful comment than an essay.

@arrianne311 4 года назад

Me too man, me too.

@StamperOSRS 4 года назад

I’m so glad someone else caught that lmaooo

@nightcall7398 Год назад

Yeah...I need to work on this. But its hard especially when people are being unreasonable...and in this day and age, RIDICULOUSLY unreasonable! Thank you for the advice! Love you guys!

@danarzechula3769 8 месяцев назад

Yes it is hard so much easier to box their ears and tell them to make sense or shut it😂

@11kwright Год назад

You shouldn’t have to use tricks to con people into respecting you. Respect is earned and Jordan Peters have earned his respect by putting a lot of effort into his craftsmanship.

@dehartfamily3091 Год назад

these ‘tricks’ seem to me more likely to be proper ways to converse in a debate.

@kathleencook3060 Год назад

The key is: How to respond in dialogue!

@elisa.r.g 4 года назад

When Jordan said “the nazis asked you to violate your morals a tiny bit at a time” That has affected my life so hard. I think about that quote all the time

@matajadu9521 4 года назад

Elisa Grace in what sense has it affected your life?

@elisa.r.g 4 года назад

Mata Jadu it’s made me more aware of what I am comfortable with, and I no longer allow people to take me out of my comfort zone without my full knowledge of the consequences.

@matajadu9521 4 года назад

Elisa Grace thanks, I like that

@randomuser5443 3 года назад

Like intersectionalism

@amazingyear9042 3 года назад

like a frog in a pot of water where the heat is being increased in small increments to the boiling point.

@tek87 5 лет назад

One time I saw a kid being bullied by 4 kids so i decided to step in He didn't stand a chance against all 5 of us

@BartholomewSmutz 5 лет назад

Hilarious!

@8bitmagic 5 лет назад

Ohhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh "unfortunately, I didn't know they were beating up the next Bruce Lee"

@marvinogah 5 лет назад

@@8bitmagic Plot twist.....

@hriata168 5 лет назад

@@McconneIIRet rinse and repeat

@squeet6831 5 лет назад

Did you steal that from Jimmy Carr?

@psychlos21 2 года назад

When meeting someone for the first time, I have found it very effective to build rapport and get to know them first and not address their political/religious views out of the gate. Because if you disagree and let them know right away, a wall is built up and there is limited opportunity to move ahead in the conversation.

@KaiserSoze679 7 месяцев назад

....which immediately makes you a better person to use for a lesson like this than Peterson.

@annabellabowes6852 Год назад

Great clip that summarises most of his work. The bottom line is that he has mastered the art of communication - he moves comfortably around people of different ages, levels of education and level of consciousness / beingness. Thanks for sharing - from South Africa.

@MDJiang 6 лет назад

I love this. Regardless of whether or not you agree with Dr. Peterson's philosophical/political views, there is much to learn about his ability to deliver compelling arguments, a skill that every aspiring professional should learn to cultivate.

@Charismaoncommand 6 лет назад

I very much agree. I don't agree with him on a fair amount of points, but he seems like he'd be a pleasure to speak with

@HxH2011DRA 6 лет назад

This

@fernanditonh5994 6 лет назад

MDJ love your basketball videos! And yeah, Peterson is a master level speaker.

@jeanraspail2979 6 лет назад

I have yet to find something disagreeable in what he says or at least hear a convincing argument against any of his points from those who disagree with him.

@GaryMcCaffrey 6 лет назад

CoC, out of interest, what are some points of his you disagree with?

@gabymey3964 6 лет назад

basically: to get respect, be respectful

@lucasmaria9730 5 лет назад

thank you!

@DeadlyAlienInvader 5 лет назад

Too bad my mother doesn’t seemed to understand that.

@vinodkumaraug 4 года назад

Cops need to learn this

@ninjaartist1235 4 года назад

This means we need to shut down tumblr.

@foliageinfall8387 2 года назад

That’s not always true.

@onagoodday5557 2 года назад

So the idea is to not to want to make people respect you, but to learn to listen and engage with the ideas of others, even if they counter your perspectives, and allow the one with the more compelling ideas to influence the other. Behaving in this manner will foster respect from those around you because you will deserve it.

@CLKiang-cm1pn Год назад

You have to have respect for other people and you have to have respect for yourself. If you are missing either one, other people will not respect you. And believe it or not, those two can coexist.

@barbarabukovssek7062 2 года назад

To gain real respect from others, there's need to be equipped wit : 1.vast knowledge and experoences 2.mature personality 3.communicational skills 4.empathy

@aynaasif1766 2 года назад

Also good grammar and spelling skills

@barbarabukovssek7062 2 года назад

@@aynaasif1766Probably. In your country😊

@boxoffisa 2 года назад

👍

@abdullahiahmedmohamed3925 2 года назад

@@barbarabukovssek7062 amazing answr to the guy who's talking about spelling. i almost falling in love with u

@thanosnoctem4473 2 года назад

@@abdullahiahmedmohamed3925 Bat aare yu taalkng boute? I cn alo pheak ringhlish

@SargonofAkkad 6 лет назад

What a coincidence, I just got back from Peterson's London lecture. I couldn't recommend him more highly.

@theramblingliberalist6504 6 лет назад

Make Jordan Peterson a liberalist! I'd love to hear you and him have a discussion!

@HxH2011DRA 6 лет назад

Sargon of Akkad Woah it's actually Sargon XD!

@SwagMoney420 6 лет назад

Woke Sargon

@diegobotto6245 6 лет назад

Pinochet was evil

@Cemtexify 6 лет назад

Didn't expect to see you here

@af186 6 месяцев назад

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@thesalanian 5 лет назад

Funny how everyone who dislikes Jordan Peterson just accuses him of being fake. Hardly seen a more real person in public discourse.

@radiojet1429 5 лет назад

You don't get out much, do you?

@Bonez0r 5 лет назад

@@radiojet1429 I knew it was you before i opened the comment. When will you clean your room?

@mephybooks7309 5 лет назад

he's a liar and a shill and also a fake

@thesalanian 5 лет назад

@@mephybooks7309 What exactly has he lied about substantially? I'm willing to open this dialogue. Please outline your accusation. In regards to being a shill, who is paying him. Lastly, how do you categorise a fake man? Then we can get somewhere.

@AltCTRLF8 5 лет назад

thesalanian notice that his haters call him a liar and a nazi but can never provide a valid example.

@InevitablyCliche 5 лет назад

“It’s very difficult to understand Jung outside of a narrative context. And so I’m going to walk you through The Lion King today.”

@ph0non 4 года назад

That's a classical JBP... and one thing I like and respect about him 😂

@themilkman1275 2 года назад

The objective isn't to win the argument, it's to help the other person become a better person

@dumdum9367 Год назад

Nah you carry yourself respectfully, you get respect back

@danarzechula3769 8 месяцев назад

And learn to be better yourself

@danarzechula3769 8 месяцев назад

@@dumdum9367you may be confusing fear and loathing with respect

@allenh7835 8 месяцев назад

SHOULD be the objective, but it never is.

@Chad-bc9vi Год назад

The first point is what I have learned from many good debate session and I have been using it ever since, it is easier to change people mind that way, by seeing things through others point of view, try to understand their points, looking for a common ground in an argument is very important

@ladywintergreen3780 3 года назад

Jordan is such a gentleman, without being a pushover in any manner. He’s a complex, brilliant, strong and sensitive man. Absolutely love him as a father figure in psychology and philosophy. He’s constantly growing himself, even at his level. That’s true humility

@kiwiwifi 2 года назад

When did you get to meet him?

@wiseonwords 2 года назад

@Lady Wintergreen - Written like a lady! ;)

@fcos9704 2 года назад

he isn't a father figure at all lol, he is just known by the media that's all.

@williammunny9916 2 года назад

*_John 3.16 For God so loved the world that He gave His only begotten Son, that whoever believes in Him should not perish but have everlasting life. 17 For God did not send His Son into the world to condemn the world, but that the world through Him might be saved. 18 “He who believes in Him is not condemned; but he who does not believe is condemned already, because he has not believed in the name of the only begotten Son of God. 19 And this is the condemnation, that the light has come into the world, and men loved darkness rather than light, because their deeds were evil. 20 For everyone practicing evil hates the light and does not come to the light, lest his deeds should be exposed. 21 But he who does the truth comes to the light, that his deeds may be clearly seen, that they have been done in God.”_* _Jesus Christ loves you. Only Jesus Christ saves. Repent and be saved. God bless you, and the grace of the Lord Jesus Christ, and the love of God, and the communion of the Holy Spirit be with you and your family._ -

@bidenpoopants130 2 года назад

@@fcos9704 not at all he just gives people advice to change and improve their lives or feel better about themselves. You know like a father does. Lol you have head in anus syndrome

@stereofect 2 года назад

I met Jordan Peterson. It was brief, unexpected and unrehearsed. It was in the middle of the week in the middle of the day in a common area of TGH. I was in a very elevated state of anxiety at the time. My condition would be obvious to someone like him, but for me, from the moment we shook hands I felt the immediate change in my demeaner. An immediate calming down, foot off the gas, take a moment to breath type of change. The type of antidote a guy like Jordan Peterson is very good at administering. It felt real and it felt sincere. Like he took the weight from my shoulders and carried it away. Apparently it was noticeable 'cause when I went back upstairs to my son's room I had quite the glow on. I was asked "why so happy all of a sudden?". I met Jordan Peterson.

@kathrynj.hernandez8425 2 года назад

stereofect: You are an excellent communicator. Peterson would be impressed.

@katemiller5990 2 года назад

Love it

@deidrestadler8823 2 года назад

Where did you meet him? Im jealous!

@rosiemackenzie5976 2 года назад

Jordan Peterson is one of those rare human beings who actually thinks beyond a surface level and has the wisdom to see what is seen. Lucky you! I would love to speak to him.

@stereofect 2 года назад

@@deidrestadler8823 Toronto General Hospital (son was in the ICU). I don't know for sure where as there are so many hallways connecting so many buildings. But somehow I ended up rounding a corner going one way and he rounded a corner coming the other way.

@dumdum9367 Год назад

You give love u get love, you show respect you get respect. The way you carry yourself will take u a long way in life

@jeanholtz579 Год назад

Unless you are in love with a manipulating narcissist!!!!!

@thelukeewan7602 7 месяцев назад

Unless the person you are speaking with has mental illness on some level

@ogerpinata1703 Год назад

Don't mistake respect with fear. Fear can only keep people in line as long as it persists. Respect does not need constant show of force if even at all. That is why those who fear you, will betray you the moment there is nothing more to deter them. Those who respect you, will stay loyal or at least neutral.

@AnAcousticCow Год назад

Fear and respect do go hand in hand, however it's not as simple as it sounds. Fear(itself) is not respect as it invokes pressure and an uncomfortable, defensive yet cautious mindset into people. When feared, people listen to you indefinitely to avoid confrontation and truthfully lack affection and *Respect* towards you. Respect is when someone projects your worth and has affection for you because they feel you are affectionate towards them yet they *Fear* the absence of your affection for them. I respect God so I hold fear towards him. Fear is the absence of respect. Respect is the absence of hatred.

@Tass1919 Год назад

@@AnAcousticCow oh yes I agree with ur statements. Love invokes respect and love what is love? I see that love is respect, he first loved us and respected us, now we love and respect (fear) him!!

@devinal6183 5 лет назад

When I'm in an argument I always make sure the other person feels heard and understood. I validate their opinions but what usually happens is they think I'm agreeing with them and they start to act even more smug and be all "see, I'm right you're wrong." And that right there just makes me want to punch their face with a chair

@daddypoker23 5 лет назад

most people just want to hear that their right but continue being you and hopefully little by little it rubs off to some ppl.

@islanderboi89 5 лет назад

Punch away.

@ACTHdan 5 лет назад

A good listener/debater concedes to the other argument. Also ask questions that demand evidence. The goal is not to make them feel stupid but remind them of their burden of proof if they’re debating something.

@gymmouse8153 5 лет назад

U have to explain ur own story the way they will believe you more.

@bryantav6843 5 лет назад

Watch Jordan Peterson in these interviews and watch and imitate. Learn from the best

@wheelzwheela 5 лет назад

Peterson will be seen as one of the most influential people of the decade without a doubt.

@Awseswa 5 лет назад

that gave me a good laugh :,D I thank you.

@michaelregis1015 5 лет назад

wheelzwheela what are you talking about? He already is seen like that.

@karthikrangaraju9421 5 лет назад

Nah it’s Kim Kardashian!

@enibeni3783 5 лет назад

wheelzwheela make that century! It’s been 60 years of “group think” thanks to advertising

@mbogucki1 5 лет назад

Peterson will be seen as the charlatan of the decade, without a doubt.

@RoamFree1866 Год назад

Great video. We very often pick up an argument just to win, when actually it should be about helping each other grow, and society at large in the process.

@jamesbaker8076 Год назад

To express your differing opinion but leave listener feeling validated is my aim in any discussion where there may be conflict of idea or beliefs or learnings.. And for me to learn.. I do know it can be difficult.. I feel proud after constructive chats like that

@TheWinterShadow 6 лет назад

One key point is the fact that Jordan Peterson is a highly educated doctor in academia. A lot of people who try to argue their point are not 'that' well educated. Their egos are not controlled by their intellect. Dr. Peterson is in control of his ego. That's power.

@jeffyboyreloaded 5 лет назад

TheWinterShadow this.

@aliciafraser1835 5 лет назад

To be fair, a lot of incredibly intelligent people are still incredibly egotistical. They see that intelligence as putting them far above anyone else, and thus no one elses point matters. I am glad that Doctor Peterson is not one of those people. I don't agree with a lot of the things he has to say, scientifically backed or not, but I will always respect the man for how he handles matters.

@cjpatz 5 лет назад

I believe what helps him is his genuine need to understand life and people.

@TheEternalOuroboros 5 лет назад

TheWinterShadow ~really well said. Just because someone isn’t winning a debate doesn’t mean they don’t know what they are talking about. Emotion can control ones views to the point of them being crippled by the means of communication and confrontation.

@felix64able 5 лет назад

LOLOL your response reminded me of my oldest brother, exmilitary, in charge now of a school districts computer system, well he and his wife were arguing, his wife only has a high school diploma, he was yelling at her say "I can't believe you don't know how a nuclear bomb is contructed" and she responded "can you tell me what ingridients a chile relleno requires?" that shut him up real quick!!!

@sapien377 6 лет назад

Dr Peterson is a societal necessity.

@theprevailingorthodoxy7417 6 лет назад

One could say he's an antidote to chaos... roughly speaking

@radiojet1429 5 лет назад

In 1843, slavery in America was considered a social necessity. Mr. Peterson's atavistic views belong to that era.

@ryancarroll2886 4 года назад

@@radiojet1429 please elaborate

@Tallonest 4 года назад

Radio Jet I see you’re throwing out baby with the bath water, like communists always do

@nyreggie Год назад

knowledge comes with respect, Most times it amazes me greatly how I moved from an average lifestyle to earning over $33k per month, Utter shock is the word. I have understood a lot in the past few years that there are lots of opportunities in the financial market. The only thing is to know where to invest.

@bjoe631 Год назад

That's awesome to hear. I invested 5k in Robin hood about a year ago and it steadily went down, now my portfolio is down $800. I don't know what to do and i am in between jobs.

@nyreggie Год назад

@@bjoe631 That won't bother you if you trade with a professional like *Mr Gary Mason Brooks* my coach, you may have come across him on interviews relating to bitcoin and stocks. He trades, manage trading account and offer mentorship program for clients who wish to become professional investors.

@bjoe631 Год назад

@@nyreggie You allow people to trade for you? that's interesting, I would love to learn, hope it’s safe?

@nyreggie Год назад

@@bjoe631 It's 100% safe and legal, He’s an expert trader on stocks and bitcoin. I basically do nothing but collect profits, he was able to get me in early on most of these stocks and I exited just at the right time, his analysis was really on point.

@bjoe631 Год назад

@@nyreggie I'm glad I stumbled on this today, how do I get in touch with him?

@addamhellie8478 6 месяцев назад

Respect breeds respect... actively listening and trying ti understand someone/ their point of view...a respectful action... will ultimately bring respect

@miarinnes3134 5 лет назад

His 20 years of Clinical Psychology really paid off.

@spirit9871 5 лет назад

@@himanshunaidu389 He hasn't cleaned his room yet.

@dss6209 5 лет назад

Peter Jordanson is everyone's daddy

@thomaspick4123 5 лет назад

Nami Erins. Really? How much money has he earned? Lifetime pension too? Marriage material!

@Daniel_Anthony 5 лет назад

Why does that bother you?

@netflixandkill8364 5 лет назад

it wasn't doing much, so he turned to pandering to fragile schoolboys, aka the nazis of new, with lobster diagrams of manliness to feel some sense of success

@ikm64 2 года назад

"How to make people respect you?" Why on earth would you care what people think about you?..." I remember what an old guy once said... When I was 20 I was obsessed with what people thought of me... When I was 40 I stopped caring... But it was only when I was 70 that I realized people weren't thinking of me in the first place...

@itisfinishednowtimetoclean2723 2 года назад

LOL 😂 SO Darn True, Love it!

@afterburned06 2 года назад

The irony is not caring what other people think will earn you more respect than caring ever will. Many pioneers and great minds wouldn't have gotten where they did if they cared what others thought or let others opinions affect them.

@americanpatriot7247 2 года назад

We are herd animals and relationships are one of the basic "life blood" for humans. That's why we care. And.... that said, the comment about the ages 20, 40, then 70 of how we react to others caring about us is totally accurate! I am the oldest I've ever been (obviously, still alive.... grin) and caring about other's perception of me and respect they give me is down to this in my life..... "Sure I'd prefer people to respect and like me as opposed to not.... but .... if not.... some will, some won't.... and life goes on." Blessings everyone. Have a good one.

@itisfinishednowtimetoclean2723 2 года назад

@@afterburned06 after many years trying to “spin plates”, in an attempt to keep others happy, I have learned my happiness needs to be more important and I spent years fighting the good fight, to keep myself happy! Your comment is helpful, also very true! I am no longer that girl. As my daughter used to say; “check yourself before you wreck yourself!” By George I Think I’ve Got It! 😎🙏

@ikm64 2 года назад

@@americanpatriot7247 Wise words... Now not too sure about "herd" though... definitely more "pack" man, me. But to be "your brother's keeper"and "caring"...now on that I stand with you 100%. Now standing together or standing alone...I know which I'd prefer. ...and I certainly know which makes me stronger... Like the name by the way us Irish love our American 'bigger brothers'...

@shariheiser3470 Год назад

Fantastic person to use as an example. Dr. Jordan Peterson deserves every bit of credit where its due. And then some. He's defended the rights of everyone tirelessly. He is the epitome of courage in the face of adversity. A true pit bull.

@juanmoralesvideo Год назад

I'm commenting before watching the video, which is wrong but here we go: If you don't respect yourself, like true respect from the bottom of your heart, then nobody will. Maybe some will pretend they do, but that's all, no true respect. Here is the thing: love yourself, then you will respect yourself and others as a consequence. Then, you won't need others to show love or respect to you anymore. Another key point: respectable individuals will respect you. Assholes will disrespect you, no matter what. Peace.

@BangMaster96 5 лет назад

I am an atheist but i watch Peterson's philosophical lectures to gain a better perspective of the world and human life

@idleeidolon 5 лет назад

some would argue that peterson himself is atheist... at least towards the fundamentalist conception of god.

@tbranch74 5 лет назад

This is the 1st time I heard he is religious. Had no idea. Logic can still be gained by those who have an opinion or belief in religion or spirituality. Not everything is based on religion. Truth exist on.many.levels.

@wesbilly 5 лет назад

Tara Holt yes. Very true. I believe every word of Jesus. I don’t believe he actually existed.

@tbranch74 5 лет назад

@@wesbilly Jesus's teachings were basically about being a decent human being. Help others out. And just do good for the sake of doing good. One doesn't need religion to do just that.

@wesbilly 5 лет назад

Tara Holt exactly what I said.

@rhyswilliams6271 6 лет назад

Big respect for JP. His book is out tomorrow, go get it!

@zeldabaws98 6 лет назад

Rhys Williams It comes out next Tuesday the 23rd..... one more week

@rhyswilliams6271 6 лет назад

Martin for me it's tomorrow. I'm in the UK and when I went on amazon US it said 23rd, different release dates maybe?

@zeldabaws98 6 лет назад

Rhys Williams Aww lucky! Yeah I guess in America it releases a week later!

@alphanotmale1847 6 лет назад

What’s the title of the book? I’m interested!!!!

@rhyswilliams6271 6 лет назад

Alpha Notmale 12 rules for life, an antidote to chaos

@user-qg5wg9ut2o 8 месяцев назад

Thank you for giving us this opportunity to get to know Jordan Peterson. Knowledge is Power. Now I understand & like him.

@123tanjad 10 месяцев назад

Thank you for this video, you are truly talented in pulling this together!

@Roockie117 4 года назад

I had an English teacher who used to connect the contents he was teaching us to archetypes, using stories like Star Wars and Harry Potter to help us get into it and understand it better. Sadly, he was let go because my school apparently couldn't afford to pay some of the new teachers they hired and I was transferred to a different class. Mr. Lee was awesome.

@colt2274 3 года назад

I had a History teacher who used Jurassic Park and Star Wars to teach us about US History. He was an amazing person

@Grandmaster_Dragonborn 2 года назад

@@colt2274 My gosh! How did he do it?? My history teachers never did that :D

@PhilippeLarcher 5 лет назад

"Seek to understand before being understood"

@CharlieBrown-nu2zb Год назад

I always wondered 'how do these simple people become gurus to the masses?'. After watching Dr. Peterson for so long, I must admit he shows the answer again and again. He must've found the jewel in the heart, the source of all knowledge. If so, it wasn't easy, it took hard work to get to the top of his field, and then boom! Illumination. (I'm sure he doesn't have all the answers but the sensible truth flows right out of him).

@allamerican3118 2 года назад

Dr. petersen is a good teacher on many varieties of subjects. It’s true on this too that we need to have the other person speak & have their opinions listened to & respected.

@jacobisPlayR3000 5 лет назад

One of the best, and honestly hardest to implement, pieces of advice I've gotten is to talk to other people as if they have something important they could teach you.

@justinz9225 4 года назад

Just to be clear, not everyone has something important to teach you. But act that way. People try to pin JP down on that one all the time. "Aren't you supposed to act as if someone has something to teach you?" Sure, but that doesn't mean you're obliged to automatically agree with them. You may never. It's just a concession that you don't know everything.

@americanpatriot7247 2 года назад

Well, everyone has something, positive, negative, as examples that one can learn from. Every person, no matter their intelligence or education or life's circumstances was made as an individual.... with no one on earth being 100% identical. Every person has value.... maybe some contribute to mankind more than others, but there is a takeaway, large or miniscule from everyone. Hard to remember that sometimes for me as I let other things become more important than people sometimes. I need to be cognizant of that always. Have a good one, friends.

@satanaka2011 4 года назад

Jordan Peterson's ability to converse with hostile people is a great lesson- I have learned from him.

@Sovereign_Citizen_LEO 2 года назад

That is truly a gift and an art form, when many of the best of us would eventually give up (on someone perhaps simply to irrational and emotional to tolerate any further [after a while]).

@DELANADINE 2 года назад

It looks like a background picture.

@juneallan4903 2 года назад

Ah dear now where was I ??😴😴😴

@williammunny9916 2 года назад

@tabascofaith 2 года назад

I always get the impression that he never enjoys it, finds it somewhat exhausting, but despite that, he holds fast to his value of seeing the conversation through as respectfully as possible

@timelkin838 Год назад

You are exactly right. Thus isn't a fight but a way of going into discussion together.

@nickacelvn 7 месяцев назад

This sort of content is exactly why I'm a subscriber and listen closely to people like yourself and Mr Peterson. Bravo.

@JakeVoorhees 6 лет назад

Such a good topic, thanks so much for adding the part about "..and not being a bully". You can lead with empathy and still command awesome respect!

@Charismaoncommand 6 лет назад

Yeah it's truly remarkable how a non-aggressive college professor has captivated the attention of so many people - I love it :-)

@JakeVoorhees 6 лет назад

@Consolous 6 лет назад

My favorite and personal kind of leadership, empathetic leadership

@yogabbagabba2202 6 лет назад

Not lead with empathy but sympathy I think

@Blox117 6 лет назад

non-aggression makes you look weak! it leads dishonest people to try and bully and slander you

@ElishaLong 6 лет назад

JP about to drop the hottest book of all time....ALL TIME!

@Ziallow 6 лет назад

Ma boy Elisha

@eli8069 6 лет назад

You need to read the Gulag and repent.

@ElishaLong 6 лет назад

Eli Eli pls

@willbee21 6 лет назад

My boi eli long here 👊

@pixieseyz 6 лет назад

Got it preordered and cannot wait!

@sherrylynn4632 Год назад

Jordan is such an amazingly, kind and intelligent person. I love to watch his videos and to the narrator for lack of better terms of this video, you too are a very intelligent interesting person as well. For you to be able to interpret, express and explain, wow just amazing! Thank you, 😇♥️

@Mossyrocklove 8 месяцев назад

I was expecting this to be another silly video but it actually made so much sense! And made me realize that when I argue, I really work to explain why the other is wrong, which puts people off and they shut down!

@energyhealing11 2 года назад

Being able to listen to others and not just react is a number one leadership skill 👑

@andrelemelin3787 6 месяцев назад

Trudeau has none of the qualities mentioned here. Narcissists are not leadership material.

@timothywait9457 5 месяцев назад

energyhealing one must react

@jamesl8640 5 лет назад

"he's extra careful to not make you feel stupid about it" Flashbacks to the "ha gotcha" moment.

@joelblanco3777 4 года назад

everything has its exception, dude! hehe

@cleitonoliveira932 4 года назад

She deserved that so much. That interview is historical.

@tiagorodrigues515 4 года назад

Ahah good point, but even that I think was a gentle move. He couldn't help it, after that woman was agressively trying to turn him into a villain the whole interview. And after getting to know the dude a bit better, I am now absolutely sure that, if he wanted, he could have absolutely humiliated Cathy and end her career on that interview.

@postmanscott767 4 года назад

Well, she deserved it

@elisa.r.g 4 года назад

The gotcha was an out for her. Because her job was to dislike him, and without the “gotcha” she would have gotten in trouble in the court of public opinion.

@richardbayer5702 8 месяцев назад

To me it sounds like the key is humility. Speak with humility is the best way to make a point. -Richard in U.S.

@swampholler 2 года назад

I loved this! A lot of what I'm hearing here, I learned by stuudying the work of Dr. Haim Ginott and his two students Farber and Mazlich. One title says it all, "How to talk so your child will listen, and how to listen so your child will talk." Changed my life. Three tools I learned there were 1. Realize that you want to understand how the other person is feeling and thinking. 2. Speak softly so that the person has to engage with you to hear you. 3. "Allow people the dignity of forming their own conclusions." Dr. Haim Ginott.

@timfrye3586 Год назад

Jordan is a poisoned dwarf and near hopeless drug addict

@stephenm3874 2 года назад

It's taken me over two years of watching Jordan to not only understand, but to be able to start incorporating his genuine concern for others while effectively communicating. Genius.

@williammunny9916 2 года назад

@stephenm3874 2 года назад

@@williammunny9916 Seriously you shouldn't drink and post. A character from a Clint Eastwood movie mindlessly proselytizing on RU-vid has nothing to offer but their own delusions.

@nicolejegathesan7056 2 года назад

I know exactly what you mean, Stephen. I see that dear JP is constantly suffering and transforming. He teaches with such coherence because his life goes before his words - he walks to talk. Bless him

@timfrye3586 Год назад

Jordan is a poisoned dwarf and near hopeless drug addict

@timfrye3586 Год назад

Jordan is a poisoned dwarf and near hopeless drug addict

@Valerie-fi9bx 6 лет назад

This is great. To earn respect you must first give respect.

@Charismaoncommand 6 лет назад

Exactly :-)

@FrozenFox20 6 лет назад

i read a book about emotional cogntion and it made me realize that respect, just like happiness or sadness is an emotion that is influencial. So if you feel respect towards others or feel happiness towards others, they are very likely to feel that same emotion when they see and recognize it in you.

@SamJewel Год назад

you do amazing amount of research and edits for these videos!

@mfuentes3113 Год назад

I dare say he is the most claver man alive!!! God bless him and keep him safe

@davidbrunik 6 лет назад

JORDAN IS THE HERO WE NEED

@SNinjaQK 6 лет назад

no he's not

@alespider9905 6 лет назад

Mugiwara no Link how messy is your room?

@WorldCrafterPrime 6 лет назад

No, you're the hero you need, you just have to save your father from the belly of a dragon first!

@ChimiChanga1337 6 лет назад

Alespider thank you for asking the right questions.

@koentjuh782 6 лет назад

But not the hero we deserve

@TestingChannel1407 6 лет назад

It looks like Jordan Peterson has a permanent furrowed brow. He's always concentrating fiercely.

@sapien377 6 лет назад

Henry Peter that's his job lol

@Lurch685 6 лет назад

That’s because his mind is always running in overdrive.

@radiojet1429 5 лет назад

No, he furrows his brow because even he can't believe you buy all his crap.

@geraldfitzpatrick9123 8 месяцев назад

Dr Peterson has been studying peoples perspectives and the human condition for a long time. He has done so much research and he never goes out to fight or argue with anyone, but he has a lot of mad dogs that are out to get him. He's a very good honest man and we're lucky to have him around.

@nicoledeloncrais5940 Год назад

Jordan Peterson, pays attention and listens very very well. By listening so well, he hears the words being used, then he moves in to gain clarity, understanding and truth. And to top it off, he is genuine and totally invested in assisting others to open their eyes wide open generally with kindness. He is so damn sincere and deeply well informed while being sage in his application for wisdom. Brilliant 👌, fabulous and almost mesmerising. Thank you sir 😊🙏

@Peter_1986 3 года назад

_"I will teach you about Jung today - so let's talk about the Lion King"._ The Jordan Peterson we all know and love.

@lilypowell1123 2 года назад

I DON'T KNOW WHY IT IS ..BUT, I GET THIS AWFUL BAD GUT FEELING, WHEN PEOPLE REFER TO MOVIES AS A EXAMPLE OF 'ANYTHING' ?! I ONLY FIND FEW " MOVIES " INTERESTING, OR EVEN ENTERTAINING ! RARELY, IF EVER, WOULD I RECALL SOME LINE FROM A MOVIE AS ANYTHING WORTH REMEMBERING , FOR ANY GOOD REASON !! MAYBE THAT'S JUST ME ..BUT I GUESS I DON'T SEE THEM AS IN ANYWAY 'REAL' ..OR HAVING ANYTHING TO DO WITH THE 'REAL' 'WORLD' !! MORE LIKE 'CHEWING GUM' FOR THE 'EYE BALLS', A WAY TO PASS SOME TIME ,WHILE YOUR WAITING FOR SOMETHING TO HAPPEN, OR YOUR BORED , HAVE ABSOLUTELY NOTHING AT ALL TO DO, NO READING MATERIAL WORTHWHILE AROUND , OR TRYING TO MAKE A LONG WAIT, NOT SEEM SO LONG !!? I GET ANNOYED WHEN PEOPLE WANT TO POINT TO SOMETHING THEY HEARD OR SAW IN A MOVIE AS A REFERENCE ..MAYBE I DIDN'T SEE THAT MOVIE ! OR IF I MIGHT HAVE, JUST NEVER GAVE IT ANY REAL THOUGHT OR ATTENTION !! I WOULD RATHER READ A GOOD BOOK WELL WRITTEN ..AND GET MY INFORMATION, INSPIRATION , IDEAS , THOUGHTS ON " THINGS " FROM THAT AS APPOSED TO A "MOVIE" !? I THINK OF MOVIES AS MORE OF , IT WAS ENTERTAINING ,FUNNY, SCARY , SAD , INTERESTING, STRANGE , DIFFERENT, BORING , BAD , POORLY MADE , ON VERY RARE OCCASIONS WOULD I REMEMBER ANYTHING FROM A MOVIE AS IMPORTANT , UNLESS IT WOULD BE A DOCUMENTARY ..A TEACHING MOVIE , HISTORICAL , "IF" AND ONLY "IF" IT WAS ACCURATE !! I JUST DO NOT HOLD MOVIES IN HIGH ESTEEM ! AND I HATE TO WATCH A MOVIE MORE THEN ONCE .. MY RECALL IS VERY GOOD ! SO I DON'T WANT TO SIT THROUGH IT AGAIN !!! THAT'S THE VERY "HEIGHT OF BOREDOM" TO ME !!

@davidbutton8497 2 года назад

No mention of fishing for the fish that can’t be fished before fishing Jordan’s loves horses rideing every Thursday morning regardless of his daylight working schedule Jennifer please diocesan the fence 🌹🎲🌹

@IndestructibleMandelbrot 2 года назад

Omg Laurelindo, I'm so sorry this trainwreck of a reply thread happened to you. This is madness! I hope you heal well

@tobylinville182 4 года назад

I love how you break down Peterson's effectiveness. After losing my temper during a real estate deal, and feeling like a fool after, I googled for insight and found your channel thus discovering the badassness that is Jordan Peterson. Keep up the good work!

@bryanwirthlin4444 4 года назад

Wow. I'm also Googling "Jordan Peterson communication" after losing my temper in a real estate deal.

@lawdogwales5921 3 года назад

@@bryanwirthlin4444 Wow! Me too.

@sebbilah 3 года назад

@@lawdogwales5921 me too!!

@bradharold4000 2 года назад

Me too 🤦‍♂️

@joetrolo7076 2 года назад

Good for you, that was your reaction!

@karenerivera4127 5 месяцев назад

Thanks for this valuable info!

@SD-fl8zl Год назад

This man is respectable and he's good people. Hopefully he sticks around and takes care ❤️. Also cool videos!

@RookieN08 6 лет назад

As a non-native English speaker, I have difficulty understanding JP sometimes but when I do understand him, he makes a lot of sense with what he's saying. I love the way he explains philosophical ideas from psychologist perspective.

@Dave_AI 6 лет назад

You write English better than a lot of native English speakers I have encountered.

@malteeaser101 6 лет назад

I think there is some prerequisite information needed for some of the things he says to understand him. He uses a lot of metaphors, too, but they are explained elsewhere, or in his books.

@fullup91 6 лет назад

garrulousglandarius ... exuse me, but my englrsh iz pufect 😋😋😋

@Clepston 5 лет назад

I saw something from Peterson in one of those final clips that I don’t think I’ll ever see his contemporaries, specifically people who specialize in “owning” their opponents (biggest example in my mind being Ben Shapiro), he’s just standing with his hand on his chin, calmly listening to the opinions of the person who’s talking to him. It conveys a deep respect for not just the person, but for their intelligence and right to have an opinion, and I think that’s what gains him respect during and after debates. Unlike people who indulge in shouting matches to feed their ego or widen their echo chamber, he appears to have a deep respect for the other person, which makes it easier for them to respect him in turn. Tl;dr: An easy way to gain respect is by first showing someone else that respect, people are more likely to show you respect if they themselves feel respected.

@rodneyisaacsisaacs6638 8 месяцев назад

its good to be able to present your point and apply your listening skills to the other party opinion

@JaneEva Год назад

THANK YOU SO MUCH for not using that manipulative background music (tinkling piano or weird violins) to try and evoke certain emotions... and instead, just narrate your video! I'll be watching a lot more of your videos because of this!

@germantruthseeker 6 лет назад

Jordan Pepperson is a really smart guy

@phatcrayonz 5 лет назад

Mark M. Peterson not pepperson.

@rose-id3xh 5 лет назад

PhatCrayonz It’s a joke 😂

@abhhinnav 5 лет назад

I think he said peppers om

@noel2577 5 лет назад

2:22

@ritzliszt2873 5 лет назад

Hahahahahaha I just came down here to see if anyone else got it too

@marleneg7794 5 лет назад

He is very knowledgeable..so he has confidence which in of itself commands respect.

@CanadaDan 8 месяцев назад

In a world where most people are trying to "one up" the other person, JP is trying to educate AND better the world around him; he's doing that by making each person to be responsible about their own lives and with time they will improve their families, friends, communities. That by itself could change the world but unfortunately the world is against that type of mentality

@reconquistaahead1602 Год назад

someone said: "love your neighbour as yourself" and added even "love your enemies." I think that Jordan Peterson made these statements a rule of life. That's why he's so successful and revered.

@sherinegatewood4756 Год назад

Jesus said , love your enemies!

@Ravit_Thukral 4 года назад

If you want to be like Jordan Peterson... Read more

@smitasuhas7981 4 года назад

Haha, underrated comment

@arikakarin2323 4 года назад

Ssshh~ 😂

@Qwerty95ish 4 года назад

Amazing

@realJimMarshall 4 года назад

You magnificent bastard. Thank you.

@KamaldeepSingh7 3 года назад

Hi Ravit, what should we read? Any suggestions?

@Sumiyeco_boutique 2 года назад

The best 3 things you can do to make people respect you is to 1) listen actively, 2) apologize when you’re wrong, and 3) lead by example, especially during difficult situations.

@thinktankcritic5267 Год назад

I ve seen pple command respect without doing any of those things. It’s not really what you do or say but HOW.

@Legbreaker1 Год назад

Or what you can do is repeat what you thought you heard back to them and say so what I hear is you are telling me this is what you see or what you feel if he say yes now you have a basis to respond in which they’ve agreed to your thoughts on what you heard and are more likely to understanding hear you out

@KibyNykraft Год назад

@@thinktankcritic5267 Pt 1 depends on the other person. Some are silent ,others are talkative. The majority is inbetween. Within both these groups there are bullies, actors but also gentles. The majority is usually inbetween these. If someone is talkative one has to listen for a while. If the person when done talking suddenly wants to do something else, he or she is either a narcissist or has ADHD disorder. In that case you won't be able to talk rationally to them. If needing to teach them something you must use other approaches.

@spicyirwin5835 10 месяцев назад

Trump gets respect from his cult tho & has zero of these traits.

@JamesCAsphalt8 8 месяцев назад

You forgot the most important one. "Make your commentary about them, not about yourself."

@elizabethchavez6597 Год назад

I love this!!!! Especially the fact that you mentioned people trying to downplay their opinions which in reality only keep those agree with you too stay in line with you and doesn't mean your really making any change?

@alexandriafitts9262 Год назад

Man, I feel so much better prepared for any future conversations. I did also pick up on the interviewer slightly too aggressive with that young girl. It wasn't necessary so you really have watch what you say, and have levels of passive aggressiveness, which you said that already. My brother does that or used to and it's really easily spotted. It made feel confused and anxious. As you said, consider who your concerning with.....I just learned something that will really help me. Thank you so much!!

@EXXTSON 6 лет назад

I got a sudden urge to clean my room...

@unpluggeddogdreams 5 лет назад

EXXTSON What to do when you share a room with a careless slob? Ooh wait, I will get a new room/mate? Nevermind let them all live in their filthy pens. My side is clean. Next lesson....

@ryry5249 5 лет назад

Do it! You'll feel better after

@darylallen2485 5 лет назад

I got a sudden urge for lobster.

@saemushailstorm3135 5 лет назад

hah - good one !

@becker2278 5 лет назад

EXXTSON thanx 4 reminding me that I need 2 do the same. 😊😅

@wesleypatterson3286 6 лет назад

"You have to consider the other person." Its so sad we have to point that out in our culture. Though this is on both sides of the political isle.

@wesleypatterson3286 6 лет назад

oh, ok. isle must be island, then, right?

@MisterTutor2010 6 лет назад

It's also very common to notice nastiness on the other side but at the same conveniently fail to notice it on one's own side or otherwise make excuses for it. In-Group/Out-Groupd Bias I think it's called.

@kayewinks 6 лет назад

Your comment is unfortunate as it exemplifies what this video pointed out as being unpersuasive to those who don't agree with your point (and the whole intention of making a point is to persuade, no? Unless you just like beating people over the head with your unaddressed self-righteousness which is unhealthy to you and annoying to others). You are not considering the other side and have automatically crowned yourself the moral and intellectual superior with zero to learn. Clean your house first. Your side is not without blame WHATSOEVER. No one is.

@billbill3890 6 лет назад

It may have something to do with people identify too much with their opinions. With the demise of many social institutions in many people’s lives. - religion, the local community, ethnic identification even their family - people form their sense of self around their opinions and become very emotional in defending them. Little realising that they’re going to at least modify their opinions throughout their lives through experience and learning if they are a person open to change. There is nothing sadder than someone in their 50s and 60s with the same opinions as they had in their 20s.

@salvatorethomas9546 Год назад

Good show. You picked the perfect person to represent your points. Very helpful. Thank you

@UncompressedWAVmusic 4 месяца назад

I enjoyed this video, it helped me, entertained me and made me a better person. All in 11 minutes. That is smarter use of my time than watching the endless bad news videos. Thank you.

@LegoSnakeproductions 6 лет назад

Jordan Peterson, the most respectable man in modern politics/metapolitics, finally a video on the myth, the legend that is Dr. Jordan B. Peterson

@Cascadianwa 6 лет назад

People who believe in religious superstitions are not respectable. Facts over feelings

@radiojet1429 5 лет назад

Hi, I'm Michael J.L. and I get a real big stiffy just drooling over laughable, posturing males like Mr. Peterson. I have no real personality, you see, so I cop one from Jordan..

@Tallonest 4 года назад

Radio Jet hi I’m radio jet and my biggest contribution to society is leaving sarcastic RU-vid comments

@Tallonest 4 года назад

Cascadianow who are you?

@AscendedMasculine 6 лет назад

About Damn time!

@seanhenrynewman5181 6 лет назад

Charisma had to clean his room first, don't wanna end up like those bloody marxists who are resentful and bitter.

@Wingedmagician 6 лет назад

Preach

@Wingedmagician 6 лет назад

Takar 109 lol nice

@sylvieis 6 лет назад

Sean Henry Newman wtf? You clearly don't understand Marxism. Peterson is a wonderful speaker and sounds so smart and reasonable he appears to make sense, just think it over a bit, go a little deeper and you'll start to question his subtext. He's really very simple and not all that helpful for most people

@sabretooth9136 6 лет назад

sylvieis agreed. Peterson also often sounds very bitter and angry at colleges - he doesn't come across well at all imo. He has a very rabid cult though who seem to believe he's God and can do or say no wrong.

@melissaok9713 Год назад

Came across this video and I must say, I am impressed at how thorough the information is. This is a niche area of study that embodies skills of perception, emotional health, interpersonal communication, and body language. Its a vital skill and essentially what a "spokesperson" or a representative/mascot does. I learned something today and appreciate the hard work it must take in providing this needed info to the public.

@fai97003 Год назад

I totally agree, thank you for pointing out how well done the video is!

@seanivanhernandez4349 2 года назад

When arguing don't assume that you are always right, always be open on the possibility that you might be wrong, and constantly criticize or question your own beliefs so that if you enter an argument or a discussion, you'll be more likely to answer any questions against your beliefs as you probably already asked those questions to yourself before.

@sebastiann7883 3 года назад

"Clean up your room" means also to start getting your live in order in little steps. It's the idea that if your life is a mess, surely there is always one little part that you can do to make your life a little better. This in the end spirals you upwards. You don't just go out fight the dragon, you first get your armour fixed and think about what exactly you will do, which ultimately raises your chances of killing the dragon.

@timfrye3586 Год назад

Jordan is a poisoned dwarf and near hopeless drug addict

@timfrye3586 Год назад

Jordan is a poisoned dwarf and near hopeless drug addict