High value men don't text a lot either. They call when they want to talk to you, and they only use texting for planning dates, so that they can spend time with you and get to know you in person. Endless text conversations are for teenagers.
I agree. But it seems even men my age or older text the crap out of me . I am very tuned off by that because what if you’re excited, sad or need to have a conversation on the phone or in person to get their opinions, have deep talks , etc. I miss those days of when people actually had the balls to call you up and talk for hours or call you multiple times a day. I remember my high school sweetheart and I would talk for hours on end if we weren’t together. We ALWAYS had something to talk about. It’s very hard to even try and figure someone out without that these days. I other you don’t text enough, that person is waiting on you to text or you’re waiting on them to text . Nobody is picking up the phone and asking , “Hey gorgeous! How was your day? Tell me about it. What makes you comfortable or what messes you uncomfortable? “ I want to learn people I’m spending time with deeply and have a trusting relationship. Like a bond that nothing can come between or mess with. It’s been years since I’ve felt completely secure with someone else. And the number one issue is not enough communication. I need to hear someone’s tone of voice. Screw a bunch of ridiculous texts. I’m in my mid 40’s and really don’t find it helpful unless it’s just a simple hello or I love you or you’re my best friend or maybe an emoji of a bouquet of flowers or a heart or something happy.
@@DanniBby if that’s the case then there is going to be one major key thing lacking in a relationship and that would be the lack of communication. Would you continue a long relationship with someone if they could only express emotion in a text?
Feminine energy dating coach here. Never initiate - a man knows if he wants to talk to you. Don't do small talk, as men don't fall in love over text, but through SHARED EXPERIENCES (shoulder to shoulder experiences). Prefer phone calls to texts. Don't be so available. Don't play games, but be genuinely busy enjoying your life. Focus on being high value and hard to keep, not hard to get.
There are so many men who have given women money and liked them just from texting, look at only fans, many men pay just to talk to them in a text message
In the past I use to make the mistake of low value efforts such as texting a guy constantly who never responds or used to text then ghosts me. When social media came around I used spend hours chatting to these guys thinking I knew them well enough to develop romantic interests. Now I’m free of all that. I drifted away from all of them. Deleted and blocked them. I’ve moved on. Now I’m no longer burdened with that unnecessary anxiety
@@mayradayful You have to text less and increase your value with focus on your Personal life, meditate, and anxiety sing songs to reduce depression , stop overthinking...Be mysterious don't reveal...be less available to assholes who are Men ..don't be nice...they will walk away from you..Have little haramipan...and selfishly love yourself...3 words text is enough...he is playing mind games with your emotions have strict boundaries...don't hurt yourself ..be independent
1. A high value woman does not initiate all texts; 2. A high value woman does not engage in constant texting; 3. A high value woman waits until she gets a response before texting again; 4. A high value woman uses texting as a revealing tool; 5. A high value woman does not engage in sexting; 6. A high value woman does not engage in late texting; 7. A high value woman builds attraction through texting; 8. A high value woman does not text low value men.
@@amalpsunny watch your mouth and stop generalizing all high value women being lonely and alone. I’m a happily married woman of 20 years …. You told a lie and need to stay off the internet and not engage in grown folks conversations.
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I made the mistake of casually texting him a lot but I didn't know he was trying to pursue me because he's a friend that I've known for 10 years. So it's awkward asf. I'm embarrassed for sending so many texts, bc we used to talk like that 🤷🏻♀️ I'll be gentle with myself. ❤️ I'll learn for the future.
100%👍🏾I don't text men after 9pm. Some guys will test you. Probably every guy. The constant texting is annoying af. That's what going on a date is for. I'm not a time filler for his downtime. I also know never to send the first text after the first couple of dates. All that reaching out and initiating is masculine energy and I'm enjoying being the feminine in this life lol.
@@deepquotes3319 Being single is good. I don't understand why women like you are so desperate and accept low value men who treat you poorly just to avoid being single.
The not texting back and waiting is a major turn off. I don't tolerant those games. I appreciate women who are direct about what they want and are straight forward. This doesn't mean that you have to message constantly, but when you have the time (at least a couple times a day). Even if you're busy you can always make time to send a reply letting the other person know what's going on etc. I don't chase, I show my interest in someone if I like them, but if they don't feel the same or give back the same energy then I'm done trying.
You're right and I do the same as a woman. If I didn't see the message it means I didn't see it (I was working or away, working out, getting a spa treatment, out with a friend so I don't check my phone out of respect for people with me, etc), if I see it I answer immediately and if I'm working but still I hear the notification , I answer but I write that I might be late replying because of work. But I notice that most people (guys and girls) see this type of behaviour as being "too available" because we don't play games they way they do, even some guys interested end up playing these games but I don't have time for that, I give around three chances to avoid misunderstandings then I cut out the whole thing, cold turkey.
I don’t own a smart phone so therefore no texts and I love it… I see people constantly texting back-and-forth with eyes always on their phone… not for me!
The only dating advice one needs to know is that there is nothing you can do wrong or turn off the other person if and when they are also crazy about you.
At 43, I'm ashamed that i made late night message to a linkedin contact, Immediately replied to messages Since the ghosting started, was clueless about the reason Now I'm getting answers. My god how did I end up here
Thank you for the food for thought ☺️. Now I know what I hab been doing wrong in the past, thus wasting my time and energy with low value and cheap men: I kept the conversation in texting long hours, for days or initiating conversations and waiting to be asked for a date or worse asking for that. I'm glad that now I am getting better at understanding the flow of energies plus respecting my self and my time more .
Well said, Im on a dating site and wont spent money just to talk with men, a high value lady/ woman is reserved/ has aprivacy she knew her rights & value for the right person. She is a woman of valor! Amein.
You are always a low value to the wrong man. But nowadays due soc media era some feelings are being invalidated. Being a woman is already a high value but it takes a right man to understand that. And since it is difficult to know whose genuine or not ,just stick to the rules above and guard ur dignity most of all maintain ur self-respect.
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Thank you so much for your encouragement and I will certainly make more videos as I see people like what I have to say and get value from it. If you likes this video you may like my other video about the 9 mindsets of a high value woman, Check it out ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-DbFOYjqauVg.html&ab_channel=FromWithin
I don't have enough words to express what your comment means to me. I am so happy to see that people get value from my video. This encourages me to make more videos.
Exactly. I find it sad that we have to be so strategical about our relationships and how we interact and approach them I feel like theres counterintuitive repercussions either way for us: whether we follow these habits or not I hate the idea of even being emotional manipulative on purpose all the time just to get to and end bc then we're just like you said "bullshitting". Although at the same time it does hurt to put yourself out there and be genuine even if it means taking the initiative and being reachable for th person--just for it to hurt you in the long run
0:30 does not take initiate all texts 1:34 no constant texting 2:32 waits for his response 3:34 values actions more Does not engage in sexting or late night texting Keeps a mystery Cuts off low value men
@@eveline-d1p She shouldn't sext with anyone. Sexting is a cheap and low effort form of intimacy. A high value woman should treat intimacy as special and valuable.
@@eveline-d1p I don't see a problem with it. Especially if it's with someone that you have been talking to for a while and you both like each other or you are already dating someone and you have mutual love for each other etc. It's a form of expressing that you desire that person sexually and who doesn't like feeling wanted?? Especially by someone who you feel a connection with.
@@ag-88802 I respect your point of view and you might very well be okay with a woman sexting and this behavior wont detract from her value in your eyes, but it's not the case with most men in my opinion and this video is made to cover the majority of men.
Women, stop taking dating advice from each other! The men in your life, who aren't trying to sleep with you, will provide you with the most direct, honesty, and unbiased advice. Most women tell you what you want to hear and are only honest when you're in a fight with them.
Well, the only men in my life that aren't trying to sleep with me (my male relatives) are too old to know how technology works, so their advice is outdated. Every time I thought I had a male friend, it turned out he was just patiently waiting for me to be in a weak moment so he could try his moves on me. And I'm average, not beautiful. However, I noticed her advice works. Try and see what is working for you.
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1. Do not make the first move or take initiatives in text, what does it say about his interest if you are always making the first move. 2. Do not constantly text him or try to get his attention. Protect your privacy and make it seem like you have better things to do. Less is more. If there is something important to say, it is not through text. 3. Wait for his response, again do not initiate. 4. Value actions over words, use texts for red flags instead, use it to see their intentions, hookup or real date. 5. Sexting is not what a value woman does. 6. No late night texts, usually leads to sexting. 7. Build attraction through the way you text, make it seem you are unavailable. 8. Do not respond to low value men.
To be honest I no longer care for rules ..I just do me ..I text , I enjoy I drive in the ocean , as long as I have no aota of feeling for any man at all ..they label me toxic , bully , Tom boy , insensitive ! Please am not high value , am all the bad names as they wish !
I appreciate the comment but I have to disagree...in today's world, if you don't play the game of texting you will come across as 'difficult' if you have that kind of attitude. I see where you are coming from but the way to convey that vibe in a high value way is not by saying " I dont text " but rather is by texting in such a way that the person realizes that they wont be getting much from you through texting
@@Theblackswan55 Yes and no. Texting is fun and flirtatious. But you should NEVER discuss anything serious or have a conversation. If he can't call...you need to Higher your Standards. Love your Channel. I'm also a Dating Coach...But there's room for all of us. 💞
@@CrystalDatingCoach Got you and I have to agree with you here. Appreciate your comments on my channel btw 🙏🙏 and I am always open to learn from other people. Do you have a channel of your own?
@@CrystalDatingCoach sorry I just realized that you do have a channel...by clicking on your profile 😊. will definitely check out your content. Again thanks for watching my videos and feel free to share your thoughts...I'd love to share and debate
Well sorry but ... ahahaah where you learn or read this High-Value Woman definitions ?! You indeed make my day ahahah I can tell you what is one High-Value Woman, she touched me ! Never in my live thought or saw and felt, the existence of a woman with these qualities !!! She don't have rules she have Boundaries, ahahah knows her worth and exudes an energy that goes beyond the physical. A high-value woman is many things, but above and beyond, she is a woman who knows her value and only wants people in her life who values her, too. Now sit next to me and listen. :) A high-value woman is many things, many ... the takeaway, She Knows Her Worth, She Loves And Respects Herself, She Is Kind And Compassionate, She Is Committed To Learning And Growth, She Is Self-Aware And Empathic, She Is Grounded In Maturity, She isn’t Afraid to Ask for What She Wants, ( She Is Not Afraid To Speak Her Mind ), She Is Passionate, ( highly excitable and almost insanely ), She Has Class, ( Classy and sexy, charm, femininity ), She Takes Care Of Herself ( Emotionally, Spiritually, Physically, Living a Balanced Life ) And for the first time in my life I know for fact what is one High-Value Woman !! This is a faithful representation of feelings and ideas according to my perspective about this amazing woman's, they are much deeper than what I wrote here ..... what you’ve written, intend that you’re someone who’s never read or know what is one High-Value Woman !!! Happy with my treatment Madame From Within ?! Does my narrative become easier to follow? Is it made less or more interesting for you Madame ?! Thank you all, kind regards.
Well everything yu said I agree with yu I coiled have been that woman but I made mistakes on my way but now I see iv taught my 2 daughters the highe quilts woman and iv done a good job thank gid one is happy married the other is in live with her boy friend adore each other. Loves comes around once in a life time if yu have it never let it go that’s live that’s class my belive anyways but yes I love what yu said all trew god bless yu ❤️❤️❤️❤️
Lol men dont care about any of that exceptn empathy. Men are simply just be kind, feminine, submissive and obedient. It's so easy but so many women make it hard for themselves.
Recently i was harassed by someone over text i never expected ..after reading it i seenzoned it and didn't give a reply and i now truly believe there are certain ppl who will tell you they love you the most and will do anything to make you happy but it's not true alwayz ..they do these becz it makes them happy ...
Hello I'm so excited my relationship was fixed back again my ex is back to me we loving and happily together, l got help from a great man who brought us back together ..
Sad that someone out there is soon going to start playing games just to act high value lol. Please be yourself or els youll lose good people with these delusions.
I'm curious, I feel its very much possible to start off as high value. Like avoid the late night texts, immediately blocking intrusive men who show obvious signs of insecurity and disrespect for your boundaries, and avoiding to speak of them to friends etc. But as months go by, if you are texting a man you genuinely like and is starting to make you blush and giggle after a few phone calls, I think its human to feel pain if they play disappearing acts. Its attachment theory and if you don't feel pain it quite literally means there is something in you that needs to be healed, or you barely have feelings for him anyway. I know it takes a lot of courage to take the high road in this situation and understand logically that you are not who they seek for love, but it may be confusing in that situation. You may have had multiple positive experiences already to clue in that they value you. Its one thing to change your habits around early dating in letting men in or men who come back months after a disappearing act, but its very hard in between where they are showing the first signs of distance after many pleasant experiences.
Some men also like to entertain themselves at a woman's emotional expense. They have double standards, and you won't know that if your easy to bait through texting. They claim they care, and all the words are on a screen but they easily manipulate your emotions and then will use it against you when they stop respecting you. Words on a screen can be misinterpreted and they can judge you by their interpretation. You can't take it back or correct yourself after the die is cast.
A high value woman requires that texting be used to set up in-person dates & will not be relegated to a being someone’s texting buddy. The phone should be used to set up real life dates anyway, not texting for no reason. Texting nonstop out of boredom is low-value behavior.
Hello I'm so excited my relationship was fixed back again my ex is back to me we loving and happily together, l got help from a great man who brought us back together ..
Thank you for this video very helpful as most communication are now now done via texting . And I'm old school ,. I gotta a smart phone very late in life . , I'm used to connecting with guys at parties or get togethers etc ... Now times have changed so much .. I'm already doing most of the things you mentioned here'. I just need some tuning and tweaking Thanks a mil
Hello I'm so excited my relationship was fixed back again my ex is back to me we loving and happily together, l got help from a great man who brought us back together ..
Hello I'm so excited my relationship was fixed back again my ex is back to me we loving and happily together, l got help from a great man who brought us back together ..
My friend said i was such a snob for blocking guys right away that msgs me, cus I don’t rly like courtship on social media, bc as what on this video said it is a low effort and everyone can act nice... I AM TOTALLY EVERYTHING WHAT THE VIDEO WAS TRYING TO EXPLAIN… and one time I decided to play along and give it a shot with this guy … he is persistent and when i fell into him i ddnt realize i wd be desperate i was just having fun talkimg to him iddnt realize im an adult now and i am now feeling the pressure, i kept msging him, talk to him on late hours, and etc and he really got turned off… ofc ik but i was so mad and i regret it bc isnt unfair that even if he is as imperfect as me, i never judged him and accepts, and understands him for who he is, it’s like I can’t do something wrong that i mist always act LIKE A COMPOSED LADY… we know each other for a year so even if at times i am high i wd realize it and be better again but he is so COLD ,… ihateee
Dear women, good advice to you is just do whatever you need to do. That’s it. If you think it’s necessary to text the men, text them. If it’s not, don’t text them. Simple
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Set your minds on things above, not on earthly things. For you died, and your life is now hidden with Christ in God. When Christ, who is your life, appears, then you also will appear with him in glory. Colossians 3:2
Hello I'm so excited my relationship was fixed back again my ex is back to me we loving and happily together, l got help from a great man who brought us back together ..
Hello I'm so excited my relationship was fixed back again my ex is back to me we loving and happily together, l got help from a great man who brought us back together ..
Hello I'm so excited my relationship was fixed back again my ex is back to me we loving and happily together, l got help from a great man who brought us back together ..
I was initiating all text.. we txt all day., but I've known hee for years.. maybe she ia jst putting me in the friendzone. but she is nore receptive in conversations at night.. I wonder
I may not get an answer because the video is a bit old. But my question is what if I'm aiming at a foreigner man which means a long distance separates us, so the only way through I will get to know him is texting and at early stages we can't have calls immediately..what to do in this case ? + Just so I put you in the right picture ( Im trying to get to know him through a language exchanging app not a dating app ) which means that I can't expect too much of what you mentioned from him like always initiating convs while we re on a language ex app, but I want to keep the conversation going so I try to ask about some of his interests related questions and because of the time difference I get a late answer and he gets a late one from me too and we end up only having short cut talks and the moment I stop talking and asking questions he doesn't bother to ask questions too while we re practicing the language for example..I don't know if that makes him uninterested or smtg else..What should I do in this case if I really liked the guy and wanted to know him more through this app ? 🤔 Thank you in advance 😊
Generally, I do not recommend long distance relationships, precisely because you can't get to know someone really just through texting or even phone calls. The person you are interested in is a construct of your mind and not really him and only when you will meet him and get to spend substantial time with him will you adjust his image in your mind and discover the real him. Your particular case is even more difficult because you are chatting through a language app, which means there is nothing that indicates he is interested. If he was, I would say he would have offered to exchange numbers and chat through whatsapp. If you want to find out if he is potentially interested, you could do that move and ask to move to Whatsapp but I do not recommend as I never recommend to make the first move. Best wishes.
@@Theblackswan55 Oh god this is the longest message I sent, I apologise 🤍Thank you, I really appreciate your answer, and I do agree that you can't know a person well from behind the screen but if at least I had a good close image of who is he like ( through his daily posts, through how he talks during phone calls or even video calls,his ideas etc..) and we both got interested to each other later ( this man or any other foreigner man ) then we could move on to whatsApp and maybe even meet in real life..(he comes to see me for example)..I mean I know a lot of girls who had these kind of experience of a long distance relationship with a foreigner and it was a success, they are happily married. Plus 😅 Im an introverted person who doesn't go out a lot and be in the picture for other people ( men ) to notice and interact with me, so to increase my chance to meet good people who of course match the expectations I have, I decided to go through online, I tried using a dating app but it didn't really workout for me and since Im using a language app ( I used it at first for real learning of a language and simple interaction with people from all over the world but then I thought that at least in the languages app you get to know a side of the person through a lot of his posts and you already know if he speaks English and many things about him before you start talking..and most of the people in language apps aren't perverted..anyway I get that it isn't a the best way and strategy to build relationships but I would really appreciate your advice on how to approach a man I like and keep him interested and whether in my case I can keep initiate conversations from time to time when Im available ..sorry for the long message 🌸 have a pleasant day
No.1 seems quite egoistic to me To be honest it's never bad to initiate text... It doesnt define your value or class. Even you can text 1st for enquiry as everything is not about love affairs
Why is there so much game. If so much strategy to be used in a better way then world hunger could be eradicated. I think we as human loose a lot of energy in playing such games. Relationships are to love care and support each other.
Here is the thing, if you want to use your energy for these causes, you are free to do so. But if you want to have a successful relationship you have to learn game...it's all about knowing what you want, there is no judgment or moral to be have in this topic
Erm not initiating all texts but the person texts you Everytime you're online and it hurts the person when you don't reply but they still text so when you reply is it constant texting?
Hello I'm so excited my relationship was fixed back again my ex is back to me we loving and happily together, l got help from a great man who brought us back together ..
Pointless.. the idea of high value woman should be of her awareness of what she wants. Instead of using texting as a tool to notice.. high value or low value is only used to determine the value a placed on themselves. I’m not gonna judge a person of the value through texting for sure ! This is an ego boost probably.
Hello I'm so excited my relationship was fixed back again my ex is back to me we loving and happily together, l got help from a great man who brought us back together ..
Hello I'm so excited my relationship was fixed back again my ex is back to me we loving and happily together, l got help from a great man who brought us back together ..
Ohh! 100% RIT VID ON HIGH VALUE MENTALITY.. SPECIALLY SEXTING WITH AN UNKNOWN! OR WHO'S NT UR BF/HUSBEND IS JST BIG-BIG NO... THANKS FOR MAKING THIS TYPE OF 1VALUABLE VID...
