How We Fell In Love 🏳️‍⚧️ 

Happy Valentine’s Day 💖

I love that Shay told you not to wait, that is so loving. Shows how much Shay loved you then and clearly still loves you now.

I was raised Mormon and everything you talked about is giving me flashbacks 😂😂 I left the church because I didn’t feel like I fit in. Not for the same reasons as Shaye, but I still didn’t fit the typical/ideal “Molly Mormon” image. I’m not romantically/sexually attracted to either men or women, or really anyone. I’ve always been this way but just in the last year or so I’ve really embraced this and realized this is who I am. I’ve always questioned Mormonism and had doubts, and I’ve never aspired to the traditional female role: homemaker, mother, quiet, dainty, etc. I’m the complete opposite. I’m loud, crude, outspoken and I have no plans to be married. I never got any major pushback or criticism because of this but I always felt out of place. So much so to the point that around COVID when everything shut down I decided not to go back to church when things went back to normal. And now here I am. I’m still struggling with my decision and feeling isolated and out of place but I’m slowly working towards accepting my decision and who I am in this new chapter of my life. Thank you guys for this video. It was very sweet and eye opening

As someone who gas been married for 50 years and also shares intersex gender development my marriage has been wonderful

The roses/tulips exchange is my favorite... I'm glad you found your people so early in life.

14:11 Yes! We need a part two about the dating and when she came home from her mission!!!! Please!

"My love for Shaye isn't very pure, either..." is the most wholesome teen journal entry ever, especially considering the 22 years you've shared since! 😇 💕

How beautiful and what a journey. You know what Id like to see/hear is Shaye playing something on the piano that goes for more than a couple of minutes. Big piano fan.

I love them and while i know she is supportive of the wife's transition i hope she has given herself the room and space to grieve or process her sadness. Centering both peoples feelings and emotions is important. I am not saying they arent doing so clearly they love each other but in a society that promotes toxic positivity and suppressing certain emotions or fears....i do love the grace exemplified by both but its like i want to ask "how are you really doing" "did you grieve truthfully" "did you do therapy"...regardless i wish you both well...beautiful and graceful.

Ok Girl,..."Shaye is so sweet". Not,... I'm 60, and I'm laughing my butt off over here,..."Shaye is what?...Sexy". In your own writing! You both are so genuine. The way you sit and chat with each other and let us listen in, is so sincere. It's beautiful really. I'm also impressed with your Brother-in-law and his strength for standing up for truth. What a great family ❣️ By the way, I'm still laughing. Thank you for sharing the LOVE ❤️ Many Blessings.

8:30 the moment according to Shaye made me cry 😭 absolutely beautiful ❤️

As someone who is older, and trans, and who has avoided dating and intimacy most of my adult life, out of fear of rejection (for being trans) your ❤️ story is beautiful and inspirational! The fact that your marriage endures and thrives, is sadly still the exception rather than the rule. I do however see more and more relations surviving post-transition, so I am hopeful for the future (even if it’s too late for me!) Thank you for sharing your story! True love is such a beautiful thing! ❤❤❤

When I saw you for the first time, it was in your video “Why We Left.” A few days later I was telling my husband about your story. I will never forget that when Shay finally told you (Amanda) about his gender dysphoria, your reaction was to feel so sad that Shay had been carrying this on his own for so long. And I felt the sincerity of that-nothing like “he deceived me,” or anything about yourself-all about Shay, the person you have loved all your adult life. My husband and I were both raised Mormon and we’ve been married 35 years, together 38. I remember talking with one of my siblings about unconditional love. I said that there is nothing I could do that would cause Cameron to stop loving me. He would do absolutely everything in his power to meet me exactly where I am. If you have that, you are unbelievably fortunate, and it’s the thing I wanted for each of our 3 children, for them to find someone who loves them like that. Both of you are beautiful, inside and out, and I am sending our very best wishes for your continuing happiness.

The opera over reading the diary is top notch content creating. Love yall!!! lol

Thank you so much for your videos, both of you!. I have recently started my transition and your channel has been a beautifully realistic view, seeing your family grow through this wonderful experience brings hope!

so much love!!!! I'm glad you found yourselves and extricated from mormon views. I have loved following your journey. lots of learning and heart opening moments.

My twin brother is trans so this story makes my heart flutter ❤ I know he will find love

Hi Scotts, I have been following you for awhile. I have enjoyed watching your family and your growth. I have mentioned before how so much of what you have said about your journey is really familiar to me. This evening I watched a couple of the older videos from when you first came out to when you had your ffs. When listening to both of you answer questions it just was really thoughtful and affirming. In a world where our journey is being used by bad faith actors for their own gain, it`s reassuring to listen to a positive message about being ourselves. I hope you all are well and extremely happy. Love Marie

Shae has the most hilarious sense of humour. You two are so sweet. 💝

The ending XD I had to watch it multiple times!!! I loveeeeeee watching your videos. Shaye I couldn't be happier to see you living your life authentically. It feels like this is who you were all along and you just look so gorgeous and happy!!

A friend of mine who transitioned moved to Utah. They been married with kids many years. Kids are older and moved out now. But they've stayed together through it all. She is so very happy now. Their love is amazing. I've followed her story for a few years now. Wonder if you live close to them. Would be a great friendship going through the same things. They are both amazing people.

Your story is beyond beautiful, so glad the algorithm took me here!

Yes, more stories of her return from her mission, your engagement and marriage please! ❤🎉❤🎉❤

This was beautifully produced. Thank you both for sharing your story ❤️

Happy valentines' day to you both. Thanks for sharing and being so vulnerable.

hey ladies, I am a newbie & I am SO INCREDIBLY HAPPY I found you 2, this is my 1st video I'm watching. I adore your connection & agree with Shaye that you are both so lucky to have found eachother so young, grew up together & are still in love.. Your are the true meaning of dedication & love. Also your both stunning women. Thanks for your time I so look forward to hearing more & learning more about your love as well as adventures. Kat ✌💜🙃🙏

I very much enjoyed this video ❤ super well done, relatable, and candid. Thanks for sharing!

Gosh I loved this so much. Your story had me grinning ear to ear.

The editing voice over / animations / visuals made this story one of the best. Thanx for giving us a glimpse of your life.EDIT: Definitely need a part2

I honestly loved this video so much I watched it twice 😂😂 but what a beautiful love story! So glad you guys are a family ❤ By the way, just wanted to say you two are both beautiful women inside and out, and wow is Shaye ever a striking beauty! No wonder your children are so gorgeous.

This is an example of soulmates. I especially loved seeing Shaye's memory of those moments, it gave such a beautiful insight into who you are.

Shaye your hair looks amazing!!!❤

Wow! I haven’t watched for maybe 6 months - and Shaye (sp?) you’re So beautiful!!! 😍😍😍 And you’re Both just beautiful inside and out. 💕

it's so damn evident that y'all love each so much~ and that's what matters, the PERSON you love, not what 'suit' they are in. when you find that, not much else matters, and you'd best hold onto it for dear life. i'm so glad you stayed together. much love

Hi Ladies, you are absolutely wonderful human beings. I've been watching your videos for a couple of days and your journey together has completely amazed me, there is so much love, commitment, acceptance and openness. I look at you and think, I would like the world to be like this. I wish all the best to your entire family.

This is so beautiful. I'm richer for having heard this story.❤

What a great story on so many levels. Full of love, courage and emotional maturity. I wish both of you continued love.

What a beautiful loving couple. I've already watched several videos of them - leaving the church & transitioning.. and what strikes me every time is there raw honesty and humility and ultimately that love conquers all ❤❤❤

Animating Shaye as a girl in the flashback scene brought a little tear to my eye.

Omg this is such a beautiful love story ❤❤❤ Hearing it brought tears to my eyes. You both make such a beautiful couple. May God always shower his blessings on both of you.

Oh my goodness that is the sweetest story of how two hearts became one. Love the innocence and the respect, the world needs more of that for sure. Happy Valentines to true love!💕💕💕

Really enjoyed this. Its amazing that Amanda still has her diary from when you all first met. And what Shaye said about relationships and people always changing is so true

It’s Shaye bear! Love you guys and loved this video.

What a great video! Thank you! I cannot wait to hear the rest of y’all’s story!❤❤❤

Aww what a lovely story...you two are so beautiful. xxx 🥰

Wow you two were made for eachother! Happy you guys are still happy together yrs laterxx The artwork is beautiful too!!! Who did it?

Oh my goodness yes Gillbert Blythe. I see it. And I think many of us boy-crazy girls of that age and time put Gilbert at the top of our crush list.

I’m jus gonna say it! Sister you won the lottery lol!! No wonder you stayed! I’m not surprised at all! You are both beautiful🥰💜🥰

I'm so happy that you are both still together, Love is love, regardless!

I would really love to know the rest of your love story 💖 thank you so much for your videos 💖

I absolutely loved hearing your story and hope you have a part 2 soon. I’ve been following you since your first vlog and love your family. Skyler and his family got me hooked on your channel too. Love to you! ❤️

Watched u both for awhile this is the best era of u two truly beautiful watching u two blossom

It's so wonderful to see your happiness!

This was so incredibly sweet, thank for sharing your story with us! 🥹💕 I’m 32 and still waiting for my first and forever love. People who get to meet theirs so early on in life, like you two, are incredibly lucky!!! 🍀💕☺️ Can’t wait for my turn 🤞🥰

I love how you all edit your content such class and top notch storytelling. It’s as if we were there in the moment with you all. Love is love that is how it should be. Genitalia is only God’s way of accessorizing ❤

That was greatl with the little glass piano. ❤️❤️ Happy Valentine’s Day!

You two are just the sweetest! 😊

I’d love to hear more about Shaye’s mission & return home. You are both looking so very beautiful! Your light shines when you’re living your truth! ✨❤️✨

I love your story! I think it's so wonderful and brave of both of you to share this with everyone on RU-vid! I started watching you about 17 months ago when you left the Mormon Church. Which I sure was hard and then transition which must have been even harder. I see this as a blessing. Native Americans called this two spirits that a person has, one Male and one Female. It's to be celebrated and I think you both have this special gift! Blessing and hope you have a wonderful life together!!

Omg the ending with the flowers cracked me up 🤣 you guys are a real example of soulmates.

What a sweet story. True Love!

Awwe while I have to say I am conflicted about transgender your love is so beautiful and can’t be denied ♥️. Also everyone has the right to be their authentic self. I just struggle with feeling like God makes us our authentic selves. God Bless yall ❤

Yes, we need part two!!!

I think your story will s so inspiring. I feel so much love and you definitely make me smile when I watch your videos ❤️❤️all the best to you both

This was so lovely. Shay has the most grounded energy. I'm so glad you both have each other. ❤

Definitely want to hear about how it all went down when Shay came back!!!!

Yall are the cutest ❤

Awwwwww! Happy Valentine’s to you both!

Am loving your story! You guys are an amazing couple, great parents, and I’m so pleased you have the courage to inform those of us who really did not understand “trans” what that means. I knew “gay”, have no problem at all with them, and am now understanding trans, am happy to be educated. Thank you for your videos. Love you both!

You guys have the most beautiful love story!❤

I love this story. Y’all warm my heart every time. Also lol, my ex Jill literally looks exactly like Jennifer Connelly from Labyrinth.

Simply sensational love ❤️

How romantic ❤️❤️ i loved it. I feel motivated now as i am similar to shaye

Loved your storyline, it was beautiful. Happy Valentines Day 🏳️‍⚧️🇺🇲❤🏳️‍⚧️❤

I love you guys! you never fail to make my heart smile in a time and world climate when so few things spark joy. Thank you for sharing yourselves 😘🥰💗

Happy Valentine's Day, you lovely lovebirds!

My husband and I went miniature golfing too. We've been together for over thirty-five years. All the best to you both.

You are a very beautiful couple. You are each other's strength. You are each other's support. You are each other's rock. You are each other's heart. It proves that even transgender people can find love with a partner that supports them to the fullest, without any strings attached. I hope that you two stay together forever. Love is love!!

So glad your love is carrying you through these changing times. Happy Vaentine's day.

God bless this family ❤

Shay is so beautiful!

I love your love story. Thank you for sharing.

Oh gosh , love the read from the diary ! I used to have them in school as well, journals all that stuff. I am a few years older than y'all and I really didn't think folks did those anymore, or they just translate it to a phone ! Lol You all could make a movie out of this ! I had so hoped that one of the magazines I sent your gay parade pride day kiss would be picked up and put out there ! It was such a statement and love ! I also see that I was taken off your RU-vid channel, I hope it was something I said or anything? Or maybe it was RU-vid ? Not sure ! Just let me know if it's issues or something. Until the next video take care !

Aww! More please!

What a beautiful family you are 💕 truly love ❤️

So beautiful! ❤

When you read the journal oh my gossshhhh I am crying!!!! Such a special time capsule

A most wonderful couple walking through life and living truth! Beautiful!

I love you two I think your story is beautiful ❤️

Best couple EVER... I'm in love with your being in love!

Me and my wife are so in the same moment as you. We just don't post supporting and upholding encouraging vidéo like you two. You are an inspiration to us all. We should form a club to share.

I love your relationship so much!

Love you guys. 🤗🤗

It's not a matter of genre, it's a matter of soul, of deep essence. Love is that.

Ohhhhhh how beautiful a glass piano ❤

2 beautiful people, happy valentin's❤

Beautiful! 🥰

I love your story. You were meant to be together. Happy Valentine's day 🥀

I havent been this captivated by a love story for a long, long time. Thank you, how beautiful you both are, thank you! Granny from South Africa. 🇿🇦💜

Delightful. I want to hear more. I need some vicarious romance in my life. I identify with both of you. Love to you both and blessings to you and all you love. Cheers!