How we Met Gay Family values 

I am not lying, it is 1 a.m. and I watched this video while playing the Titanic hymn to the sea instrumental in the background, let me tell you. it will make you cry,

Thank you guys so much for being so honest and allowing us to share your journey of love and family. I really needed this video today and I appreciate your life stories so much. Thank YOU :-))))

WOW! WOW! That was the cutest "How we met" I 've ever watched on RU-vid. Brian and Jay you're an AMAZING COUPLE.

i really love how you guys are always holding hands in every single one of your videos :D YOU GUYS ARE SOOO CUTE :D

Hello there! Featured this week on OutMaturity. Your family is just wonderful and I wanted to share with your readers! All the best to you all! Michael OutMaturity

i just came across your channel this afternoon and i instantly subscribed..it's so heartwarming to see what you guys have been through these years and how loving your family is..but at the same time it makes me feel hopeless cause i still have a long way to go...and i'm watching this video crying at midnight LOL as a gay teenager in Hong Kong, i could feel that most people here are very judgemental and so is my family. anyway you guys inspire me so much! plz keep on making more coming :)

Reading that was like reading poetry. Seeing the strength you two have makes me feel confident and proud of my sexuality. You two inspire me.

This was very cool to listen to. I enjoyed it very much. Even from the videos I could tell Jay is more extroverted and Bryan has always seemed more reserved. Thanks for sharing! Erik

Awww, you guys! Like you we are also both I would say very similar. Dane my husband is very calm and at times meek. When we first got together I was a rowdy guy. Throughout our 8+ years together he has become the ying to my yang in every aspect. Your openness to share your life is absolutely amazing and very much appreciated.

You guys rock! As a gay teen myself, i find your videos really inspirational and i am begining to convey a sense of hope after all. You guys are amazing parents and people overall. I'll stay in tune for more of your videos! Take care.

Y'all are so inspiring to me. I look up to you guys, a lot. I'm 20 years old and going on six months (tomorrow) w/ my boyfriend and I hope that we can be everything that you are. Thanks so much for putting these videos up. I can't express how much they mean to me. -Chris

Thank You for sharing this intimate part of your lives with us..........:) I love seeing the 2 of you and your family.

Thank you so so so so much for posting this video! really! I feel like now there is hope for me hahaha this is so inspiring

ive been following your videos since 2011... i loved to see you here i youtube...you wereman inspiration....

ok towards the middle I noticed I was smiling all through out this video and at the end I had teary eyes, this is just beautiful to me.

I'm greatful you guys still keep these videos up as I'm trying to figure out whether I'm an android or a person. I'm still dying, combusting inside. Still coming to terms with my confuscius, asian (robotic), christian environment and how peace and living out my true self can work out in a jobless debt. I'm a dude, but it's not that I want what's between people's legs either. As you can tell, very conflicting feelings on all this. Sometimes it's extremely hard to not to talk about any of these ideas to people I can interact with on a daily basis outside of help phones and monthly appointments. I'm sure things will work out even though I have no job after being a failure to the family with at least a college degree and no idea how money works. Anyways, wish you guys the best.

From 4:00 onwards is so cute I almost died... You guys are obviously meant to be, and you are an absolute inspiration to me. I want what you have one day, a man and a family of my own... All the best for the future...

I loved to hear your story and quite frankly...I want to hear MORE! More details! More stories! Trust me you probably don't have to request people to watch your 2nd video too. You should be worrying about people complaining that there's not enough! ;P But seriously, if you're willing, I would like to hear more about how you guys met, dated, and fell in love. I love hearing about these things lol. If not, that's cool. I know it's a personal thing. Either way loved hearing about you guys!

LMAO i love bryans face during this video, and this makes me have gr8 hope for my current relationship :) we have some amazing moments but we do vary on how we view things and we do have different interests but I sure hope our relationship is as great as yours! thanks for sharing guys :)

You're so sweet guys, I wish for you the better things you want in your lives. Congratulations for the beautiful family you are!!

Jay and Bryan, I can't thank you enough for being so open and sharing about your personal life. What you're doing is so important in showing those people who don't have any gay friends or family that we fall in love, make commitments, and build lives together just like everyone else. Maybe that will prevent a few more from trying to equate us all with pedophiles. And, younger gay kids need to know that it's possible to find someone to love for a lifetime and that there will be arguments.

Dude, I just cried. I don't usually cry. Not that I find it a sign of weakness, but don't find enough reasons to cry, usually. But your story, beside being beautiful, reminded me of something I haven't had for a long time: the feeling of being deeply attracted (or however you wanna call that step before "being in love") to someone. I live in an environment where I'm "weird" to gay people and gay people is very stereotypical, so we don't like each other pretty much, nor share interests, values, likes or whatever so it's been a long time since I'm not deeply interested in someone. And dude, it's so bad dates are old-fashioned. I love the concept of dating, but it's nearly impossible to get a date in my country nowadays, people feel it's an "old men's thing"... but I love your story, specially how it starts. So natural, no Internet, no forced meetings, no asking everything before it happens, just how it should be...

lol. I loved the eye flip when he mentioned the crying. XD It was funny.

Beautiful story. I'd be the luckiest guy if I could even have a fraction of what you guys have found. Thanks for sharing.

Your video really touched my heart, and made me wonder if there still might be hope for me! Congrats on everything, and always remember how fortunate (I don't like to use the word "lucky") you are. :) Peace.

Beautiful guys! Appreciate the honesty and you both tell it how it is! Relationships don't just happen but take time and that's why you both have a strong relationship based on love, respect and communication! May your relationship continue to grow and get stronger and stronger!

You guys really are an amazing couple :) I just hope to be as lucky as you guys one day. Thanks for sharing these videos!

I think you two are absolutely amazing, even though you only show us what you want us to see. You guys are really an inspiration to young people who are trying to figure out who they are - in a way of their sexual preferences. Even though I'm not gay, I respect you guys in so many different ways. You're amazing parents and amazing role models. Keep up the good work.

Hi bryan and jay i've been watching your videos (there is a lot of them) for the last couple of days now and so far so good. I just want to let know that i'm officially a BIG FAN of your beautiful family. You're doing the right thing by showing how a gay couple live, you're showing how "normal" you are and i just wanna thank you for that, thanks for sharing with the whole world I hope my english is ok (i'm french) merry christmas and happy new year from france bye

The way Bryan rolls his eyes sometimes makes me giggle! As a twice divorced mother of 3 girls, I dream of one day having the type of loving supportive relationship that you two have and I pray that my girls have as much happiness. I've always raised them with the sure knowledge that now matter what their orientation or gender identification I would always love them and support them and their partners.Your family is beautiful and I wish you all the best.

Thanks for sharing I really enjoyed it. People often ask how Dan and I met they're surprised to find it was at a church pitch-in diner. I knew he was the one the moment I met him. 21 years ago. He's a major part of my family and I his. again Thanks for sharing.

I absolutely LOVE that movie!!! Thank you so much for sharing!

This is fantastic! Thanks to you both for sharing!

I can only wish that i find the same kind of happiness that you guys have found in each other, best of wishes

That's how great relationships develop, by being true friends and staying that way always..

This remarkable video is strong i feel so much emotions about this video. There's so much love between you two. I wish i was part of your family there's nothing much greater then love and peace in a family. My best and strongest regards to all those who fights for equality. I love you both. Hugs♥ and kisses♥

I am a HUGE sucker for romantic stories I could listen to you talk about this all day! *sighs*

Thanks for the post...My partner and I have been together for 25 years. I think the elements that have kept us together is Love, respect, and exceptance. We dont have the law to keep us together which makes are union even stronger. We dont have to stay together we choose to...Thanks guys and keep up the strong relationship. Harvey Tampa Florida

OMG!!!!!....After 14 years sparks are still flying off.....amazing. This you don't see often in any relation (gay or straight)! You 2 make me believe in love again...THANX!!!!

I love happy gay stories, its good to see two happy people in love, its sad people are afraid, and discouraged from showing such loving relationship, I am pleased that you all have shared this maybe it will inlighten someone that just doesnt understand. Love is around you and surronds you.

Hey guys I love your vlog. I have just come out and i think you are both an inspiration to the Gay and Lesbian community. hope we can be you tube friends

I applaud you guys. It's hard to deal with the fighting which is really important in any relationship. I'm dealing with that right now in my fairly new relationship, How to fight properly, its like you need to draw up rules of engagement which is really hard when you are in the middle of something heated.

I just wanted to say this.. i absolutely love how un-stereotypical the two of you are as gay men. Most of my male friends are gay and.. not many of them like star wars. :) So I have to give you guys props for that! you're awesome :)

What a beautiful story you guys! I wish I could meet you one day. I know I will say nothing for a few seconds. Probably will shed a tear of happiness that you actually are real, that there is hope for me as a gay man.

i think your story is beautiful, it really moved me and inspired me as to the potential relationship that i could share with someone in the future. i know i dont know you and i wont know you much better from watching 1 video but i can truly see that you both really love each other and i hope im as happy and as content as you both seem to be. just one question if thats ok ? your video title says "family" do u mind if i ask do u have any children ?? thanks Josh xx

I just saw you and your son on CNN. What a smart kid you two have raised! I have been with my hubby since 95 so we are heading toward 17 years together. No we aren't perfect by far we have this theory that two guys filled with testosterone are gonna butt heads here and there. I think it's great what you are trying to do with these RU-vid videos!!! I have feel like as a gay person you have to be a teacher to everyone that you come across in life so it will b easier for the next gay person. Thnx

guys please please please show your star wars stuff up close ! and i am so glad you made down that long road !

I suscribed to you guys, I've loved this video. beautiful story. I feel you guys, because I'm so in love with my boyfriend and we want to spend the rest of our lives togheter. thanks for the videos!

This video is so sweet!!!! I wish you the best :3

13 yrs in 2009 so now 22 years together in 2018 - congrats

really great video guys... you bring a lot of inspiration for other gay men

So Bryan was in Jay's friendzone at first?! Congratulations on overcoming it! You two are the cutest couple!

You guys are amazing together..my hubby and I are going on 3 years..God bless you guys many more years.

A "little bit" of love for Star Wars? Hahaha. We've all seen your wall already.

Thanks for sharing your story, guys! Thirteen years together is awesome, no matter the genders of the people in the relationship. (And it doesn't look like you're ready to call it quits any time soon either. :-)

Hey there Jay & Brian! I am so glad to see your unconventional family living a VERY conventional life. Your family clearly shows that being a family is NOT by having a mother and a father and kids. it's LOVE what makes a family. I simply adore your kids. How you make them so secure by your love and caring. Wish i had parents like you two. You are way better being parents than heterosexual couples. More power to your family and i'll be looking forward to your new blogs. God bless you all.

Thumbs up if you think Jay and Brian are the cutest and most inspirational gay couple on youtube!

Great couples, I just come across the videos of you, really great, I want to chk out all of ur videos here guys..... God bless you. I am really proud and very very happy to see you all. Actually, I am basically frm Indian Sub continent, It is hard to see guys like you all over here, so, I am really happy to c u all and follow up ur videos.....

Very sweet story, guys. Thanks for sharing!!

I think you two are great together. Your both very gorgeous! I love watching your videos. Congrads on Life together!!

these videos give me hope that one day me and my boyfriend can start a family and have beautiful lives, children, love and hope just like you.

You are sooo lovely, I can feel the love between you two. Keep it strong!!

I'm a seventeen year old young man, and you give me a lot of inspiration. Please, keep with the videos. Also, how could a man physically abuse you? You're gigantic.

Hi guys, your videos are indeed awesome. How did you guys maintain the relationship for more than 13 years if i'm not mistaken? I mean in a year you will be enduring pain, hurt, joy and so on but still you guys are still together. What will be the key element apart from the love you feel for each other. i am so happy for both of you.

Thanks for your honesty.

I have never had a relationship like yours...I guess I was never really willing to compromise. But, at least I knew that about myself. In many ways now that I am older I wish I had an established relationship. Not sure why but I feel like it is too late. I have much respect for you two and wish you the best.

You two are an amazing and inspiring couple. I look to both of you as my role model. I only hope that I can be as fortunate and lucky as both of you. Thank you for being the inspiration that you. And I wish you both and your family all the best.

My partner and I have been together for 15 years and we also started out as just friends. Actually we started out as just roommates. Nothing sexual but we dated other people and we were friends and would go to clubs etc.. Over the course of a year I began to fall in love with him. I broke down on New Year's eve and told him how I feel. I used the "Ross and Rachel" story from Friends. He was shocked and felt the same way. It was weird for a few months but we love each other! :)

I also hope I find love like this. After spending 4 years in unrequited love with another guy, videos like these give me hope that there might be someone out there for me.

You guys make it seem like the perfect fantasy.....i want one lol you inspired me and i thank you...congrats

Such a touching story. Thank you for sharing.

You guy are such a inspiration to me and my partner .... u guy are fantastic

thanx for sharing your love story ..... it's really cute to find even the perfect couple had some issues in the past

Wow, you guys are goals ;-;

What can I say?, I simply love you both, you are just wonderful. Hope you be happy together for the rest of your lifes. Thanks again for this great video

Seems that love from the first sight is not always a rule for a long lasting relationship. I have a friend who didn't have a crush on her boyfriend at the beginning It kind of grew with time. Your story seems to confirm that pattern. I tend to be a romantic person who believes in destiny and that special feeling you get when you meet that person which makes you nervous and makes your heart beat faster. Perhaps it's time for change? Thanks for sharing your story because I find it very inspiring!

I am so impressed; sitting here witnessing love at its gayest is a wonderful thing for this old guy. Blessings on you both

I am so inspired, thanks guys, if you are ever in NZ with the family, please come and visit...love to share a bit our our beautiful with you all..

ahhh, this is so wonderful. Thank you so much for making these videos. I hope I can find a lovely husband one day soon. :D

I just congrats for both of you also your little family Your story really inspired me I never thought that relation like this can be survive I was worried But now After watch all your videos Im sure i can be Maybe just waiting a little bit for someone right Who love me as i am In a good or bad Thanks Jay & Brian I just wish the best for you both also your little family God bless you in every way

such great stuff! thanks for sharing!

I want to see a picture of you guys when you just started dating!!! :D

Hey guys. I don't know which one is your latest video but I have something great to share with you and your family. Yesterday Dec.28 the Governor of Tierra Del Fuego, the near Antartic Province of Argentina married the couple that was denied access to marriage in Argentina, making Tierra del Fuego the next jurisdiction after Mexico City to have Same-sex marriage. This is great, I live in Puerto Rico and I love this is now happening in Latin America.

congrats!!! you guys are awesome together!!!

You guys are inspirational for all of us. I pray to God that one day I'll have a relationship like yours,,,,,,and yes it's never too late not even at 47 :-)

now is 17 years, right????? you guys are so happy :D

So happy for you guys, what a great couple.... I luckily know that kind of love now -- got married to my prince last October! :)

Jay, you and I are much alike, I also was used to jumping into relationships, my wife actually thought i was unattractive at first because of it.

My partner and I are complete opposites, but we do share common values and goals.

The Force is strong in these two!!

Thanks guys for sharing this video with us. That is am awesome Love story. 💙💙🌈🌈

It's so cute how they hold hands

I need to say, you two are my heroes!

this made me smile :) btw u guys rock togather

@FurryDude360 I do and will continue to do so, thanks for the support

This is great, I wish I had a relationship like you. but it wont come until I get older because my type is more of the guyish type and not the flamboyant ones. Any tips on finding these types would be greatly appreciated for a guy that is 17 and turning 18 this year

@camdoshol I meant to say, it's wonderful to see the love between these two guys. Sorry if that was unclear, English is not my first language.

WOW, great story. I doubt you guys will get to see my question, but I'll give it a try. Jay you do mention that you had a girlfriend; what about Ryan, did he ever have one? Also, Ryan seems a bit "uncomfortable" when talking, as opposed to Jay. Keep up the great work.

So sweet!!!! I am almost crying ... I wanna feel that too >P Hugs Guys!!

@HousedanceTanL Hello there, if just a few more people thought like you do, this wold would b a lot better to live in, blessings and cheers mate!!!