Chile, i woke up feeling real reflective this morning so I figured I'd journal visually. Careers, lack thereof, and the confusion surrounding people getting their career life together is what was on my mind. So here are my thoughts...
I was struggling with this exact thing about 3 years ago. Here i was, 2 years til 30 and i had no clue what i wanted to do. I was the girl that everyone thought was gonna be that doctor, or lawyer,or teacher, but there i was doing absolutely nothing. I was good at everything, but passionate about nothing. Not until it was my nephew's birthday and i suddenly wanted to make him a spongebob cake. I took to youtube and made a FABULOUS cake. It was so amazing that i immediately got orders and yet i had no clue about running a business. But here i am now 2 years later with my own business and im doing really well. It was not what i had expected me to be doing, but i absolutely love it!
I went back to school when I was 27 I am now 30 and I’m graduating this year! I’m proud of myself and I am continuing on with my education! #MasterGoals it’s never too late!! Don’t use kids as a clutch, they’re the motivation!
I'm here to hear you say "when I went down to Florida State University and got my degree in economics" . Please don't let me down girl...LOL. 11:35 Yes Dineva!!!!
I loved this video! I’m 35yrs old and until I found myself I didn’t find my purpose. God was showing me this entire time my spiritual gifts and talents through things I naturally liked. I made my own walk difficult by doing things MY WAY, until I finally had enough of walking in my own confusion I got studious and heard my calling I had no clue I’d be on this path today. But I’m beyond thankful I got my ass together this was just what I needed for motivation to get it together and keep going I have a purpose and will fulfill my destiny. Thank you so much🙏🏼✨💙
If you NEVERRRRRRRRR EVER do a another video, you have PREACHED one of the most AUTHENTIC messages I have Ever heard! Coming from an experienced Professional Hair Stylist of 23yrs!! It's Not as easy as it looks or seems!!
HighMain10nance Tara Cosmetology school was going to be my last option because I like doing hair for practice, but I heard that being a hair stylist you are paid on commission
Renee Sanders Hi I'm my own Salon owner, & before that I was a Booth Renter! No commission for me, just straight HUSTLE, ADVERTISEMENT, CHANGING MY HAIR STYLE WEEKLY, PUTTING CARDS IN EVERY HAIR STORE, Etc! Now you can start off the Commission eat by working under someone if you haven't gotten your Clientele up during Cosmetology school & after! It truly depends on YOU & or your PASSION for it baby! If you love it, go for it! But you have to be a people person w/ a great patience. That's any field when wanting to be an Entrepreneur ok😉
One thing that I have learned in my 31 yrs of living is that entrepreneurship is NOT for everyone and its soo many ppl saying that making someone else rich is just a waste of your time and I am here to say that is absolutely false. I am ok working my 9-5 without the stress of taking work home and stressing over managing and dealing with making folks happy to keep my business afloat. Too much b.s. on social media that portrays entrepreneurs to be more morally and intellectually superior to the avg worker. As long as you have a career, who cares what others got going on. Too many ppl keeping up with the Joneses not knowing they broke!
Shakiera Wright Thank you! I know a few people who had their own businesses in the 80’s and 90’s and found themselves w/no retirement or healthcare in the 00’s. They’re entering the workforce at 50-60 yrs old trying to get some piece of a retirement plan and insurance. Self-employment is not for everybody 😒
I dropped out of nursing school to pursue my passion of being a makeup artist. I knew 20+ years from now I wouldn’t be happy. Family and friends told me I was dumb and that wasn’t a smart decision. I was doing makeup in my small home studio. Again, frowned upon for doing makeup “out my house.” All the while I was saving money( $30K) to open a makeup bar. We opened Nov 2017 and I have my own team of artists. Now I don’t have to work as much and can concentrate on other businesses. I said all this to say there are a lot of people who don’t dream in color. Don’t let that stop you from pursing your passion. Only you and God need to understand your vision. SN: It was not easy but I can say I’m happy😊
GinaGlam05 I really needed to read this, I just left a medical assistant program because I knew I wouldn't be happy. My mom was very supportive but I still felt bad. She knows I've always wanted to sew and go into the production part of theater. I've been to afraid but, reading your story has made me very hopeful. It's so inspiring I'm so happy you succeeded.
I literally had to delete my Instagram, Facebook and Snapchat because it started to become a Miss Universe competition. And I saw myself becoming something that I was not. I felt like I needed to have a bomb ass car, inches, nails done every week and poppin clothes. But now I just don’t give af! I spend my money on things I need and occasionally some wigs 😂😂.
You put on your Loretta Divine wig to give up a word today. This video is so timely. We live in such an artificial culture. Folks want accolades for the most hollowest of things.
This my “The kids missed the bus, and I gotta run and drop them to the school. And I might as well run by the post office and get me a book of stamps, Look”
Shit. I'm almost 60 and still don't know what I want to do. I have been a scientist, gallery owner, cosmetologist, bartender, poet, author, perma culture designer, interior designer, I'm a great cook, antiquarian, finish carpenter, bibliophile... etc. I have made millions. Nobody has to "pick one". Be a renaissance person. Be a lot of things. I advise people not to target wanting to be a certain thing. Instead, I ask them what they like to do and what they want to have. I live to read, eat, travel, cook, and wear beautiful clothing. I did it all and did it without being a model, cook or travel writer. BE as many things as you can dream of. It is unnatural to simply choose a certain career and stick with it all your life. Also, in the nitty gritty..almost no career is as fabulous as tv or media makes it seem. For instance, epidemiologists. Everyone thinks it is like tv. It is not. Most epidemiologists stay in a cubicle creating graphs. Math intense. No glamour and jumping into hot zones. For whatever you THINK you want to do, find out a REAL PERSON with that career and talk to them. It is NOT what a college, or a tv show pushes. Just BE. ..and yes, you can be successful and never decide on one thing. I did it. I agree with this vlogger..just persevere.
Loving this video! I swear you were talking to me, Chile lol. I know what I DON'T wanna do 😂😂 But I'm not sure about what I DO wanna do 😴😭...I'm 33 btw.
Chitown ShaSha Same here and I’m 31. I have always wanted to be a lawyer. I can argue down to the T with facts but as I’m getting older I don’t care for it that much. But I’m growing a love for DIY. But it don’t pay as much. 😂😂
Im 25 and done changed my major four times and I feel like its over for me. But he said 30! I judge my life based on what I see of my peers saying theyre graduated I should've been graduated too. But I Do now know everyone path is different and a degree doesnt mean PAID hustle and heart does
I just turned 34 and I have a career in management but I still am finding myself and have other talents.... just still on the fence about what I want to do I just know its not what I’m doing right now
Everyone comes to this in their own time. Best believe not everyone just knows what their purpose in life is. I have struggled with this question since I turned 30 and I am now 34, but I trust and believe God will reveal my purpose to me when I am ready to receive it. So just keep moving forward and it will come to all of us.
Im 27 and Im tired working jobs that not fulfilling. Lately God been pushing me with my gift. Mostly because people played me in past that why I pit a pause on it, and my living situation.
Well im 22 and a 9 to 5 is not for me. I want to be a author (writing has always been my passion) and after doing a few videos on you tube I think I could make it. One even made it over 10k views ( though that is low it's a lot to me) but like he said passion and persistence are key to making it in entrepreneurship.
Bralon Thompson I also think by not engaging in the workplace. People miss out on opportunities to network and make connections in the industry they desire. People close the door on themselves literally trying to make it on their own.
going through this now! Im 27, 2 kids, 1 baby daddy and a ex husband, flunked out of school sooo many times, and finally had to do a self evaluation and really tap into who am I and where my passion was. I thought about when I was a child and what I was great at. and that was writing. I would write short stories and songs but lost that passion along the way. so now, I am starting my career as a freelance writer and writing a book thats been on my spirit for years. great topic!
I've been a makeup artist for ten years, I do it because I love it. It DOES NOT pay the bills. I have a full time job & I love that too, but you are absolutely on point. Someone had to say it. Find what you love & make it happen!
Marina Nunez Always have a plan B. Something that gonna pay the bills. I reading about this actress that finally got Netflix series, but she said she kept her waitress job, because acting can be very unstable
Lawd this video was for me. I have been putting off going to school for nursing bc I’m scared of failing. Dineva done got my ass together with this video.
bee shar don't be scared of failing because if your passionate about the human body and dedicate to reading and studying you'll pass! I didn't graduate nursing school yet, only because my finances became scarce after my daddy caught a bad stroke but I'll never give up.
bee shar thank you but I think you'll be very successful in nursing school mainly because you will develop a family and support system with people in nursing school with you. You'll be just fine don't even get nervous just ask God for endurance to finish!
All I can say is ..... “Bravo!”..... I’m 55 years old coming off a job of 20 years and you talked to me too! I applaud your transparency... multi-faceted, I love it. I have sooooooo many people to share this with. 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
I'm 44 and wrapping up my MA in Nonprofit Management in June. I took every route and reroute I could (Like Dineva said) until I finally acknowledged what I was supposed to be doing. Once it clicked I was off to the races!
I haven't yet started this video, but before I do.... PREACH Doll!!! Preach! I often hear that this is the "age of information" but it seems more like the "age of I DON'T KNOW"!! I teach ELA and my students aren't allowed to say, I don't know! Giving up should be harder than trying!! And to anyone reading, you don't have to pick A career or 1 thing to do! Exercise all of your gifts and do what brings out the best you!!!!
Dineva listen believe it or not you help me get through Monday-friday. I just started following u and you are literally on my work schedule lol .you are extremely funny, intelligent and relatable. I went to look at your subscribers and am mad you don’t have a million yet . People need to find you . I think I have watched all your old videos already. Keep the good work. 😍
Omg I almost got in trouble at work last week listening to one of your old videos about DMV workers. Am telling you I burst out laughing and everyone turnt around looking at me like I was high . I told them no just go on RU-vid and type Funke Dineva and I promise u will feel the exact same way lol . I even listen to some of your reviews on shows I have no idea about just for laughs and commentary
At 27, I went back to college. I’ve always known writing and tv were my passion, and after seeing 40 year olds in call centers and getting laid off, I knew then I needed to concentrate on college and get the hell out of that environment.
"Just Do It!" is a noble idea in theory. It's a great slogan, in practice - it doesn't always work out that way. This is a great motivational video, but you can't always point to someone's lack of motivation about the job that they do for a living as the overall motivation of the PERSON. I live in a house. I have car notes. I have a family that I help (way too often). I have a lifestyle. What I would love to do with my life, doesn't necessarily pay all the bills at my house. Because of that, I get up daily hating to go to work, but I look at the trade-off... is being happy at work, but cash and house poor worth it? I'm not willing to give up my house and my car and my financial stability in favor of writing for a living. I'd like to have both, but if I have to make a choice between being financially comfortable and not to happy and super happy, and making payment arrangements with Sprint - I'm going with stability.
Ms Dineva, you need to understand that there are valid reasons and circumstances in which why some people actually CANT and won’t do most things for a reason. Put into consideration that they have anxieties, mental illnesses or financial disadvantages or even family obligations that keep them from achieving something so “simple” to you as getting a “real job” or staying in schools. Also Please PLEASE be aware that SUCCESS HAS NO EXPIRATION DATE. Sure You have people who are 30+ with a struggling IG account/music career/ etc. and have no idea what they want to do in life NOW, but then fast forward and they’re either making it BIG or graduating college with an associates in medicine at 50! Shit, you have celebrities who did that mess, Like give people time Dineva everyone’s on their own life path with obstacles you don’t even know about, and you’re here judging them! Let them be, You don’t have to agree with what’s going on and how they live their lives but at least THINK reasonably on WHY some people can’t and won’t live the life that seems so “achievable” to others instead of judging so quickly.
YASSSSSS, Bravo! Exactly what I was thinking. This is why people give up on life, because they are judged and if they don't achieve certain things at a certain age they feel worthless. It's not cool at all. I hope your post reaches and encourage others that want to give up.
This is super true! Mental illness can be in the way a lot of times. I was in school for something I loved and stopped because of mental health reasons. Thanks for touching on that.
If Instagram disappeared tomorrow them insta-famous people wouldn't know WTF to do. Like Instagram done pissed me off so bad cause I wanted to become a makeup artist but so many hos on IG do it and got everyone thinking they can do makeup and it done saturated the field so damn much that I can't nobody make no money off the shit.
Warning: Paragraph Below! 💃 Don't let negativity overtake you. Constantly chip away at getting into your passion. Prepare. Buy books. Get a mentor. Intern. Something! **Just don't let your talent die.** Invigorate yourself and your passion weekly, but slowly. Too many people get a great inspiration, a bit of business, and a supportive word from family & friends, then taking a flying leap off of a tall building. Success, no matter the industry, is more about productivity, progress, and patience. People saying they are "overnight successes" won't tell you the rest of what they've had to endure. Don't believe the hype. Lots of people have "sponsors." Don't let these people who have someone else helping them pay all their bills convince you that you should leap like that. Be mindful and know that people ALWAYS leave parts out of their story. Build, keep your eyes open, don't become complacent, finish something, network, and smile at work about the talent you have that will one day become a self-sustaining career. *If you need a visual, watch more Shark Tank*. Focus on establishing regenerative income (like royalties, dividends, or stocks). Fix your credit and get a loan. Work hard at being smarter; at having income that is not solely based on going in to work. Diversify your talents (learn something) and assets (buy something). Study the field. And, most of all, when the time comes, be ready. **"If you stay ready, you ain't gotta get ready."** So until then, I'll just go ahead, make my money and enjoy it... as long as that job/career ain't killin' my soul...(But that's a whole 'nother conversation ((from a former high school English teacher 😉))). **"Living today ain't living tomorrow"**
lacebabydoll Be great!!! (But slowly!) Be busy. Don't settle. Practice your craft. Hone it. When you have your wits about you, when it feels wonderfully comfortable, and when you have a damn good safety net, STRIKE! If you want someone to listen, I will.
I agree to an extent, but I think for many of us RU-vid and other social media mediums look really good when you're considered overly qualified or not qualified enough in the corporate world. I have a Master's degree, 4 insurance licenses, and an IT certification and have found myself at a crossroads because I'm either too qualified or not qualified enough depending on the positions. I have a slew of talents and have found myself contemplating walking within a creative spectrum because I'm tired of the mess. I'm wanting to relocate (Atlanta)but even with that you still have to find resources, networks, and connections to even get your foot in the door.
THIS WAS GOOD, I STAY ON MY LIL COUSINS AND FRIENDS IN THE STREET, HOW YOU 35 IN THE STREETS HANGING OUT ON THE CORNER POSTED IN THE DAMN SNOW, ASKING YOUR GIRLFRIEND TO PUT MINUTES ON YOUR PHONE, CHILE BYE LOL, GET A DAMN JOB OR SOMETHING, GOOD MESSAGE
I'm a career advisor at a non profit that's what I'm here for. People who have been fired laid off terminated or just want to change careers. I kind of help guide them through the process and provide encouragement them on the joirney
So here for the CEO comment. CEO's are more common in corporations that have a board of directors to report to. SO its best to just say your the owner NOT a CEO LOL LOL
When dineva said “many of you hoes not looking for success, you looking for popularity” I felt that in my spirit. I can’t stand my generation for that, want all the perks but don’t want to put in no damn work. Thanks dineva for always speaking the truth. I’m a mommy to a 1 year old, working on my second degree. And I will absolutely do everything in my power to give my son the world 🌎❤️- nessa
Exceptional advice/commentary but everyone and everybody’s circumstances/upbringings is different so take the advice and do you. Live your life and don’t get down that you don’t know what you want to do. I’ve been to college 3 times and still work a crap job. I want to go back to school. I just feel feel like there’s no understanding or compassion when people address this subject. People are just categorized as lazy or whatever. Or they want it easy. Oh well.
LazloSon Agreed. I agree with Dineva, but I also feel that people feel that your lazy and comfortable with your situation when your not sure about your path.
Katharine Alexander Yes I understand what your saying. Also there are so many people who don’t make it big or find their passion until later in life. Vera Wang became successful at 40 I believe. There are many people like that.
Hol up.. let me hook this up to the Bluetooth speaker. My cousin Miranda is here & she needs to hear this. She in the bed but my speakers get loud, she gon hear this
I know folks pushing 30 that still dont know what they wanna do. High school was almost 10 years ago & they've done nothing. But you covered that in your "Sorry 20 something year olds" video
I believe you should do more videos like this I am 27 years old I work as a custodian at the local University I am blessed to have my tuition waiver at 100% I am going to school to study neuroscience but everyone around me is resistant to positive change and fear of growth this video is very inspiring and motivating
“Easy come, easy go” 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾 Patiently waiting for you to have your own show one day (when the situation is right). Also, are you still doing the reality show? (Not being nosey just eager to see you on TV) ❤️
Oh is that all I have to do is find my passion..people kill me with this. It’s like telling someone, “just don’t care what people think”. Oh is that all. I’m going to start on that. SIMPLE DOESN’T EQUAL EASY!
I don't agree with you. I started a business at the age of 34. Why? Bc I really didn't know what I wanted to do. You yourself have started a few business ventures that haven't worked out the way you wanted. Hence you had to start over. People change careers and start over all the 🕙. And it may not be the ideal thing. I personally think that people can do whatever they want to do at 40 50 60. 💋
I think he is talking more about the people who haven't completed anything but are 30+. Those who have no degree, nor trained in anything, nor have even tried to complete anything because they don't want to do the work.
Omg..i love the way you keep it real...Instagram offering a pension plan? You netter be smart and have a plan B, here today gone tomorrow, be smart people and get a real education that no one can take from you!!
Im 30 and this has been my whole life since I was in HS. Even in HS I was like WTF am I gonna do when I get out of here? Ive been at my job for almost 5 years, I got a lot of shit wrong with me medically and I Know I use it as an excuse as to why I don't try to create and do better for myself. The other issue I've always had is that I feel like IM NOT GOOD AT ANYTHING. My friends would beg to differ, they say oh but you know how to decorate so well. You know how to set up a beautiful table and make a great party. You know how to dress people and yourself so well (but thats when it comes to vintage style). So its like yeah maybe I am good at a few things but nothing that can actually afford me a living. So I work at my little job that gives me benefits and vacation ect. But don't really pay me enough to live on my own Because I happen to live in an area that has gone crazy with housing prices. Im for sure not moving hella far that I could afford, just to commute 2 hours to this job. Im not really qualified for much else. I feel you on the youtuber thing (I thought about it a few times) but I don't think Id be good at it. I have friends who have and do follow there passion and its hard for them. I think my fear of being in a worse situation that what I am in now because of the uncertainty of if I fail. I've got people I know who've struggled there whole lives and never got it together and There old now and sick and broke and I am like I don't want to be that ever (which is why I try to not spend myself broke or go into to debt). Im a mess always have been.
Jonathan Belmares HI, I just read your post and I think you’re selling yourself way too short. I understand your sense of security at your job and you may fear leaving it for the unknown. Just ask yourself whether you want to work for someone else and give away your youth over the next 30 years or do you want to begin taking baby steps toward a career that you’re in charge of. Interior design might be your calling. I’m sure you’ve considered that. Have you posted any pics showcasing your decoration skills on instagram and Facebook? If not you should and provide your contact information for potential clients. Also, have some business cards made and carry around a portfolio with pictures as well. Attend open houses and go to networking events where you can distribute your business cards. Sorry if I sound too preachy but you seem like you’re sitting on an opportunity to capitalize off off something you already know you’re good at. Be brave and do it. Plus you’ll be working with high end clients who can continue to refer you to their peers🙂
Im 43 and just move to boston to be the best hairstylist that i feel im and your right 3year ago i was looking in the mirror and tell myself that new york is not for us we is not cutting here its time to make a move ....and i did and its working for me ....cause when i was in the bronx i was working 2 jobs ,one i have my 2 kids 2 take care of but now that one is in college and my older one is 23 its my time .
I usually don't go up for your "preachy" videos, but this one got me together. I got a career in Human Resources, but everyday in my mind I'm thinking "Momma, I wanna sing"...but I'm past 30 and ain't in the mood to be a struggling artist like I'm 18. This motivated me to get up off my ass and pursue my dream while I keep my lights on at the same time. Much Love!
somethingaboutmary 12 This is basically that a-hole line self centered line rich/privileged folk ask homeless/ underprivileged people: “Why don’t you just stop being so poor and get a real job instead? I mean I did it look at me”
Cheyenne Colin I'm not privileged, but I have the same opportunities like everyone else, I applied myself and now I'm educated with a great career. Sweetie please miss me with the BS, some people are just LAZY!😒
Sometimes you gotta do whats practical to increase you finances imstead of something you have passion for, especially if you over 35 in my opinion. I have a dream career but i feel it will be too hard to attain at this point. So i will choose something practical
Dinvea I am blessed to say that at 24 years old I know where my true passion resides. You really was giving the word and keeping it honest as usual! 🙌🏾
Everyone is different and goes at their own pace. Some don’t make it until later in life. www.businessinsider.com/24-people-who-became-highly-successful-after-age-40-2015-6
I needed to hear this. I mean I know what I want to do in life I just don't know how to get started or into it if that makes sense. I also think my fear gets in the way. Always thinking about the obstacles and then I get scared.
I just subscribed but Im so glad to see you speaking truths and talking to us about real life issues along with Reality Tv show reviews, it’s the total package! Thanks Dineva!!! 💋💖❤️💕🎉
You just spoke to me...I will be 50 this year and I am really trying...I have written a book and have 2 more coming out...I wish my RU-vid channel was more popular but I know I am not for everyone...I will continue to press forward...
Chai's Room thats great ! You written two books what type of books are they romance drama crime drama biography or etc . I wouldnt mind reading your books and what is your youtube channel aswell i watch are you entertaining are you giving game advice etc about your history with things
I do agree with 98% of what was said in this video. But, there is a percentage of women that feel like they're good at a lot of things and are even passionate about some of the same things that they're good at, but what they really don't understand is how to get started on doing those things and/or how to monetize those things. I can't say that I'd chalk it all up to laziness just ignorance or miseducation. You did speak a word in this video though. I do get a good keke on the reality show reviews, but these are the types of videos that I enjoy most from you.
Everyone's journey is different therefore its quite unfair and belittling to judge someone because there career is not where its suppose to be at the age you think they should be. I'm a FD fan and have defended him from other vloggers, however these last two videos (rape allegations and this one) were a bit insensitive in my opinion.
Stacy Robinson I can agree it's a tad belittling, but I think he was primarily digging in the ass of these illusioned people who indulge so much in social media and see some with assumed fame and monetary gain that they put God given potential and ambition on the back burner or exclude entirely bc @xxxmua has 3.2 million followers taking trips to Dubai and only doing makeup. Not knowing @xxxmua depressed bc she fucking far and wide to pay bills and screwing old men to take trips JUST to post a glamorous pic on IG!!!! There are so many talented creative souls that could do flips as far as success around most these IG famous people but bc IG the "forever fantasy frame" only discloses the pretty, the popular, the perfect ;most say welp fuck XYZ bc it'll take too much effort, let me go make a RU-vid video. Although Dinevas delivery wasn't as sensitive as we'd like it's accurate AF and made me look in the mirror.
Funky Dineva I didn't think it was appropriate to tell me "go away" because I stated how I felt. One of the reasons I like your videos is because of the open and direct communication provided with a comical twist, however would like to think once the comment section is enabled, I'm free to react or comment without being dismissed. If there is some guideline on what we can or can't say in your comment feed let me know .
I needed this, I'm only 23 but I was stuck in a rut for a year and I couldn't figure out what my purpose is in life. Not because I don't want to work but I was afraid of committing to career and being unhappy. Nonetheless I got my degree in psychology and I going back my masters. You hit the nail right on the head in this video and the video you did a while back on this subject when you bought up IG models. People want quick, fast, easy money but this social media life isn't for everybody.
"What is your passion" - We live in a society, where the need for $ supersedes passion & for a lot of people $ IS their passion! Most people we see "made it" come from generational wealth OR strife and poverty - why? When you have nothing or you have it all, it isn't so simple to find your "passion" - Look at wealthy well to do people - their offspring is often lackluster or not as "talented" - their parents gave them everything they wanted and as a result, that is what you get - look at the "middle class" - most times you have some form of education, and lived a pretty good life so you take the "safe" traditional route which doesn't always lead you to stumble across your TRUE desires or passion - I Am on the belief that, to have a "passion" so to speak one must be of this world - My passion could be reading - watching fish swim - the issue is $ , bills, all that comes before "discover" so it could be argued you do yourself a disservice if you have a "charmed" life where you don't know what it is like to have "nothing" and you got a lil something whether ya parents worked a steady job or they have 6 figure incomes your MIND isn't from someone with nothing BUT their "dreams" or "passion" they are not blinded by "success", steady housing, food, decent "education" etcetera...
DINEVA !!!! it's because this generation has been sold the dream of #socialMedia!!! Git with a rapper,get surgery, get on IG, get on #realityTV starting thinking u better than & talking salty to the same ppl u LIVE next door to last yr , get & JUST BE CUTE let's see how that works out for you when u need that 401k, retirement plan bishes u won't be young 4ever heffas.
