I love the two of you talking, diving deep into your fears (weaknesses), with us (let alone all the preparing and discussing late at night you did over the pillows). :) What I'm taking away here is that a lot of people seem to have a lot of fears, and that's what rules them. The biggest problems seem to be our fears about the other person's fears... True, we need to know and be sensitive to the other person's fears/weaknesses. But the point is we need, each of us, deal with our own fears (esp. not ignore them, hide from them, etc.). Hopefully the person we're with is doing the same. Rob and Chrissy, you did a whole lotta work on yourselves before you met and *after* you met, getting your thoughts and fears squared away. Trust in that. I honor you for that most of all. You're both VERY thoughtful people and heart-stable... Trust in that too. The scariest thing in our relationships is dealing with someone who doesn't know themselves all that well. (Regardless of age.) They don't know enough to be making promises about their future, how they'll act under pressure. You two are solid, if you can get out of the way of your fears, like a bullfighter dodges the bull. Much love and respect to you both.
He does talk a lot through his fears. If he could just listen to her more, their relationship would look much better to the people who they want to hear their stories. Carl Banks Jr., Vietnam Veteran😊
You are asking & answering all the questions I have in my head (and I'm sure most other older guys. have) that no other channels even touch on, let alone openly discuss about age gap relationships. Thanks Rob & Chrissy !!
If a man doesn’t look at women walking by out in public there’s something wrong with him. Who you go home with is all that matters. There’s also a difference between gawking at a woman and glancing. Women are Work Of Art, that men should admire.
Well I look And I’m married But my Filipina wife is very attractive and beautiful. I never need another woman as I’m very happy and content with my wife ❤️❤️
@@FlyMeToThePhilippines I also agree (and I'm 82). Rob, if you will allow me the freedom to Comment my thoughts about Chrissy: As I watch Chrissy's reactions to your comments and questions, I see at first "eye candy." Seriously, she's the kind of woman that I am attracted to. Now, I'm also attracted to buxom women, as well (EXTREMELY). And I really like blondes, too. Now, there's much more in my reactions than the above. She REALLY appeals to my intellect. She's intelligent, astute, articulate (English for her is a bit of a foreign language), and very sensitive emotionally. What a package! She's exactly the type of woman I want as a life partner and lover. As to the concept that women are Works Of Art, that men should admire, I greatly admire women on what I just admitted, plus the whole idea that women create new life with childbirth. That alone is a stunner. I'd say that due to our early sparse chances to survive, men chose women for their childbearing abilities as well as their catching the eyes of a future father to their future children. It's developed as a mutual symbiotic relationship. Hallelujah!
I'm 52, divorced, and never had kids. Personally, I would think myself fortunate if I found a nice woman who had a young child I could help raise and provide opportunities for. To each their own, I guess! Great video, as always. I spent many years in medical device sales before going back to the clinical side of healthcare, and hope to utilize your tips and methodology when I begin my search in a few years for someone special as I near retirement. Looking forward to more content.
Rob, stay there in the Philippines. Im 67, my wife is 35 and our son is 7. We live a normal lifestyle and marriage in Pasig. I don’t notice any issues because of our age difference. When we are living in New Hampshire we get a lot of looks and muffled comments when we are out in public. We both feel uncomfortable at times. The only benefit to me is now my wife doesn’t have such looks of jealousy. We are moving back to the Philippines as soon as our assets here are liquidated. We love your stories.
The fact is women want security. A single mom has less options and wants the best for her children. An older guy also has less options and she knows that. She is comfortable with a guy that see's her as the prize.
Recent subscriber and I must say you both do such a great job to enlighten my preconceived thoughts on the Phillipines and culture. Awesome stuff, and to go to so much trouble to inform, film, edit is above and beyond. Five Star 🌟 channel. 🤙🏼
Why in your videos do you continue to focus on your age? It is obvious she loves you and doesn't look at your age so why do? I love lots of your videos but you need confidence in her love. Just my opinion. I wish you both so much happiness.
Thanks for watching and taking the time to comment. I appreciate the feedback. Normally I don’t push back when I receive feedback - this video subject was specifically the result of a survey viewers wanted to hear Chrissy describe dating a man in his sixties. I tried to drill down on the topic and use self deprecating humor and draw Chrissy out, not easy to get her to focus on my age, takes some prodding and exaggerated questions to get a good response. However I will ponder the feedback.
It seems Rob is feeling his age and thinks he does not deserve this amazing young beautiful Filipina who finds him attractive! They are looking for other attributes obviously. Chrissy said it so eloquently. Maybe Rob needs to get and maintain the best shape of his life staying fit and young and maintaining muscle mass. Make your 70’s look like your late 40’s! 💪💪🙏🙏
Why do you think everyone has seen his previous videos on this subject? Just because you saw his videos on this subject doesn’t mean we who haven’t seen him talk about it be denied to see what he has to say!
I've dated 23 Filipina"s in my life. I married a beautiful Filipina and devoriced a angry feminist. Every filipina lies to you. It takes 3 yrs to figure out her lies. I will date more filipinas for the rest of my life. You sir are letting your love blind her faults. Im not a bitter person, just a educated man, who can no the lies from the truth. Good luck I hope she is the one.
Dude 😮 I just kept watching and you are really only 9 months into this 😮 you are hopefully not heading for a world of hurt where you not only lose the one you love but her child that you have formed a protecting and providing relationship for 🙏
I am dating a single Filipina in Manila and she has 2 children aged 10 and 13. The problem at the onset is when I fly 7k miles to visit I want to spend time with my girlfriend but I have to contend with the kids. They do not have family near by so the visit has to be planned to keep the kids occupied. If you want a younger girl, mine is 35 and I’m 64, then they either have kids or want kids. It’s hard to find one that doesn’t have or want kids.
What I find different about your channel is the honest focus. Noticed you have recently put out a personal consulting offer. I can just imagine all the calls and requests advise and help.
I know how it feels to have a young, gorgeous, kind, and loving wife. People most of the times gives us the stinky eyes and at first we both felt uncomfortable. But the most important thing is that our love for one another is true and pure. They can say and think what they'd like, it doesn't bother us because it boils down to me and her and our pretty daughter that is smart, happy and so adorable.
I’m 55, and my Filipina fiancé is 30… 25 years younger. She has the same view. She prefers a mature man, and a man who is faithful and kind. We have talked about plans for when I get into old age, expected changes in our life as we both age.
Unlike others, I found this video to be extremely interesting. It is great to hear Chrissy give very honest and straightforward answers to these questions.
Good job of drawing her out, and really interviewing her! As for kids, i believe once you know you're a couple, and want to live together, bring them! Love that she chases you! That young lady must have an old soul. She's a very savy woman.
Thanks that was my goal. I really appreciate your feedback. I’ve heard from some other people that I focused too much on my age and need to get over it and other people thought I cut her off a little bit however, she is not inclined to speak to the age issue, and I was probing and probing and using self deprecating humor about my age to try and draw her out seems like you got it. Thanks so much for the feedback.
It's each and every person choice and beliefs if they want a single woman with children. My Wife has two children from previous relationship. I accepted and they both call me Daddy. Even now 10 years later, they still call me Daddy. Their ages now are 16 and 18. I Love them both as my own.❤
My 25 yo Filipina’s older sister has been in a foreigner relationship for over 15 years. I think she saw how well they work…even with an age gap. Don’t be blinded. Always keep looking for the red flags.
Thanks for another great video, I love you guys. I can relate in many ways, and I think that people should just live and let live, and do what they think is right. A lot of it is in the attitude.... a positive attitude goes a long way. Rob, we're too old to have young kids, all we really want to do is enjoy life, and be happy. And, yes, age is just a number. We can't conform to society all the time. We just have to remember, as people who have much higher living standards, that many of these Filipinos have almost nothing. Many of them are literally sleeping on floors with nothing but thin foam for comfort, and eating rice for every meal. Despite that, they're happy and generous, even if they have little to offer. So, why wouldn't we, as people who have so much more, not want to help them when we're able to? I think it's terribly selfish not to help. Thank you for the content, it's always thoughtful and well presented!
"You're like my battery". I love that. Sound like the title of my next song! What a great way to describe the need for someone when that "thing" is something that really can't be described.
great vid brutha. im a 68 year old retired dude in cold snowy East Lansing, Michigan. i enjoy your vlogs. looks like you got a good thing goin with Chrissy. i have a filipina friend in Togoloan, not far from you. i would be there now but im getting medical treatment for prostate cancer. you give lots of great advice with all your travel experiences. and you tell it to us straight. i appreciate that. keep up the good work👌😊
I keep noticing your incredible views. What a winner of a house. Both of you seem much more relaxed because of your beautiful environment. I very much enjoyed this video. Yes, I was suckered in by your innuendos. I was glad that it was bald humor, but, the subject was broached obliquely. It was done in good taste and with intelligence, and as always, Chrissy was graceful in her delivery. She was also very sincere in all her mannerisms and speech. Although Chrissy is young, she is very mature. Her views on life in general, and especially for the long term, is one of an old soul, someone of uncommon wisdom, regardless of age. I think you are so fortunate to have a woman who cares enough to be jealous. It is not only cute, it speaks of how much she values her man. What I think gives your relationship such a good chance of succeeding is that neither of you are so arrogant as to think that the other is lucky to have you, but the other way around. You both seem to feel lucky to have the other, and so, you appreciate and respect each other, and so, the conditions for love to continue to blossom will always be there. I’ve said it before, Chrissy’s great feminine beauty, of which emanates from the inside and manifests itself in her every action on the outside, is also magnified by her natural physical beauty. She takes care of herself. That is key…only a person who loves and respects him or herself, can truly love and value another. Chrissy is a true gem of the Philippines, and just being her natural self, is one of the greatest spokesperson for the great feminine beauty of the Filipina. Of course, as a man, you also show the qualities a man should have to be worthy of such a great woman as is Chrissy. A man must have a solid plan for the future, and must take into account all foreseeable variables, as well as having built in redundancies and contingencies for uncontrollable variables, as so many times happens in life. A man must be orderly, disciplined, logical, and at times…stoic, and yet, must have a good heart. Both of you have such winning qualities, and it bespeaks of what it takes to be in a successful relationship, no matter where in the world. The both of you have an enviable relationship, yet, not one which is unattainable for others to have, so long as each develops the same winning attitude as the both of you demonstrate. I must state, that with all of both of your winning attitudes, they would have come to naught had the both of you not had the resilience to bounce back from failed relationships. That is what distinguishes champions from others. While everyone gets knocked down in life, it is only the champion who once again rises. I loved this video. This touched on issues of the heart, and it was done with class and light humor. I am a writer by passion, and as such, it is about issues of the heart and mind that so intrigues me about others. I love what I see in the both of you. You seem to be living the almost fairytale like relationships I love to write about in my novels…only, writing is easy, to actually live it is truly special. The both of you are my favorite couple on RU-vid. I am a romantic at heart, and through what I see in your videos gives me hope that what I write about is not pure fantasy.
Wow, I am totally blown away by this essay and fine commentary and that’s incredible since most of your commentary is beautiful and poetic. Taking the time to write this is really touching. Chrissy and I are both odd by your ability to put down on paper your thoughts, and we really value you as one of our subscribers, thank you again
Yes I’ve flown there for the last 3 years and stayed a few weeks each time and from the first visit I was blown away by the love and acceptance. I know have 12 children 😂 wow God is Good!
I try to watch every video? Chrissy said divorced? Did she get married? How did she get divorced in the PH? My Filipina was very young with her first time at 15 with a 20 year old BF. I’m happy to pick up a package deal and hopefully add to the package for my dream if I can. Online dating is less than 15% legit. In my experience. It takes a lot of filtering and some luck. 🍀 🍀
I have learned to take "advice" more so as comments. Everyone's experience is based upon their perceptions. Chrissy hit a homerun with her comment for Expats to be smart
So glad I found your channel you are seriously knowledgeable I stopped watching some of the other vloggers some very popular but they started talking politics and people come from the West to get away from that stuff thank you for all the advice you really give step by step on how to take care of business even though I'm 60% knowledgeable about the Philippines but that's not enough
The funny opening was a great intro to this subject. I found it super-relevant, as some of this runs through my mind. I'm 76 and will be meeting women in their late 30s and early 40s... maybe one who's 55. This gave me some ideas on an effective mental approach to meeting one-on-one and going forward with the BINGO woman! I'm glad you covered whether Chrissie wants to have a child with you. It would be a wonderful genetic mix! As to whether she's "the best actress" or real, my feeling is, "If you can't tell, it doesn't matter!" Thanks! PS You are a very attractive couple. If I saw you at the mall, I'd stare too, but with a smile. PPS I like shorts if well produced and not too-loud audio, esp. the music. I watch your and other longer-form videos, even the Pea, at 1.5x. Maybe it's my short attention span, I go 1.5x AND skip forward during the Regular Guy.
You do great videos together you both and i believe you an awesome couple .. Rob you are fairly fit or even way over average fit for your age .. big respect ! And Chrissy is of course a gorgeous lovely and very beautiful Filippina .. with brain !.. that a perfect combo ! Vmbut a small tip to you Rob .. try not to always interrupt your lovely lady when she just talks or you even give an answer to your questions to her .. well, that’s a small thing but it would show even more respect to her ! Keep on rocking you bith and I also gonna travel this year again to the Philippines .. been there often 12-16 years ago for diving ..
I enjoy your format guys, it is a little unique to everyone else's. I have been in the Phillipines for a year and have experienced some different relationships. I can relate to the challenges of meeting girls. Online it is true, they will ask for money very quickly. not all but 80 percent. If they are working...they are working 6 days per week and 11 to 13 hours a day. They are tired and little time to date. Most of them will also have a child at home to take care of. It is not so easy.
In life, nothing is ever guaranteed. If you find someone who loves you for who you are, then you are the luckiest man in the world. Even if it's short-lived, it's better to have tried than not tried at all. Sitting at home criticizing people who put themselves out there seeking love, is nore pathetic to me. Loneliness really sucks, especially when you are older. Finding love with someone younger will always make you feel younger and happier. Good luck Rob and Chrissy. Enjoy what you have, life is so short.
Dear Bob, get over your age problem and be happy that you have found such a lovely woman. You're making her upset by constantly bringing it up. Best regards from Denmark
A lot of good questions and answers Chrisy answers were so clear and articulate. And you bat those questioins off so efficiently. I feel compelled to offer what you call the "religious" perspective. As a man of faith, (I do not say religion because religion is how the secular world understands people of faith but it fails to diffierentiate other problems such as hypocratic beleifs which are so prevalent), faith is a personal relationship with the living G-d and that in it self orders things toward righteousness and completely mitigates insecurity of age and all other things. "surely goodness and mercy shall follow me all the days of my life..." Age is irrelevant. Age happened as a result of sin. If born again, in the life to come those elect we will be ageless in their new glorified body which is not an old one. I say that with confidence it is the spoken Word of G-d. Regarless of how old we are we are all eternal beings. The securlar world cannot overcome age because it has no confidence in it's future because they do not have a living relationship with G-d and are blind to these truths. In the Bible no man marries an old woman because marriage is for family and child raising. Regardless of what age a man is the instruction from the Bible does not change. Obviously there is much more to say about the purpose of marriage... but i focused on age insecurity here.
How did you deal with your kids when you decided to retire in the Philippines? How did they react to the news of living with a younger Filipina? ? Might be a good topic of conversation in a future video, if you haven’t already discussed this. Enjoyed the video.
Rob, something I just thought of after hearing you talk about Chrissy being a licensed teacher - several rural schools in the Midwest, Colorado coming to mind from a video I watched earlier today, have brought Filipinas to the U.S. on work Visas to teach due to a shortage of teachers. It might be an easier and quicker way for the two of you to come to the U.S. than the typical marriage or fiance visa if you ever become so inclined.
I believe that many Western residents do not realize the different culture in Latin America and southeast Asia. Very common to see the man much older than the female in relationship. 😏👍💕
According to the PSA (Philippine Statistics Authority) they say that 1100 young girls & women are giving birth to a child EVERY DAY who have been abandoned by their boy friend! So, Chrissy situation is Very Common. Young, rural Filipinos, if without a college degree will probably be a farmer or a fisherman, and with those wages, it is difficult for them to support a family! So, if their girl friend tells him that she is pregnant, many will run away! If you are looking for a young Filipina, if you see a pregnant girl who is by her self, walk up to her and ask her if she was been abandoned by your boy friend? You may find a beautiful & sweet girl who is now starving, if she has no family and would welcome your help. This is just another way to meet a Filipina who may make you a wonderful wife and you will also get to be a daddy for her child!
That was me sorry if I hurt your feelings. I'm just looking out for you. I do have a question. I have watched other bloggers and one of them had a lawyer talking about weird Philippine laws. One of the laws was expats are not allowed to babysit or be left alone with their girlfriends kids at home even if she is just going to the store. Is that law real?.
I don’t believe in waiting a set period of time…you size up her honesty, family, etc and make your decision. Of course I have hard experience from blond hair blue eyed America girls. Both failed marriages both deceptive in a way. First was over 7 years dating and she had a boyfriend for the last 3 years before we got married. 2nd was unconscious deception I think, she agreed for advanced fertility treatment and after 2 IVF failures she decided I would NOT be a father. Sorry she was wrong! I hope Chrissy and Rob get married sooner rather than later. She is so amazing!
Hi Ron & Chrissy, 👋🏼, I can see why one/some of your readers feel, you repeat it too much, about your age difference. What they might not understand is, that some of your readers might be watching you, for the first time. So, it’s important to share by your example, that age gap relationships, ❤️can work❤️. Having said that, I have a suggestion for a future topic. Chrissy is the “epitome” of a true, down to earth, good, traditional Filipina woman. She’s the kind of woman, we’d want to bring home, to meet our mother. Rob, why, oh why, did you limit her to share the “one thing”, that Filipinas value in a man, at the end of this blog??? You guys need to produce a blog, where she shares, the “TOP TEN” things, traditional Filipinas seek in a man. And Rob, let her completely “finish” talking about number 1, before moving to number 2. When she says number 2 ( and only when “she” says number 2 ), we’ll all know, she’s done with number 1. Do you remember how on a plane, or in a restaurant, everyone stopped and leaned in, when someone said: “Well, E. F. HUTTON SAYS???” Well, Chrissy is “our” E. F. HUTTON, whenever she has “anything” to say. Love you guys, keep em’ coming, 😎😉👍🏼❤️.
I think the "news" thing is cultural as much as age related. I get the idea that most, (not all) Filipinos have been to raised to conform, go along, not question, etc. etc. which rules out analysis, argumentation, and debate. Much of the news deals with society, how we view society, and what changes need to be made for the betterment of society. Politics; which is how policy is decided and implemented that governs all of our society and life from using a no.2 pencil or black ink, to dealing with corruption that spends society's money (taxes) on personal projects instead of infrastructure and healthcare. Foreigners are cautioned to not "speak their mind" or be "confrontational" because that isn't the way things are done in the Philippines. That is my opinion. But I'm sure that is just one facet. Love your videos guys!
Crissy is so positive. I apologize for saying this Rob, but I genuinely hope some of that fibs off on you. You are a great and smart person, but when Crissy talks I lean in.
Age is a mental as much as physical. Subtract 10 … and be done with it. I’m being literal. Own it. Must always shape the ship too Don’t relax that Rob. Strong work, Chrissy. Another vid that kept my attention you two 😎🤙🏼
You are a lucky man, seems as if you have found a beautiful and sincere young woman. I live in Mindanao as well, just not full time as of yet. I have pretty close to the same situation as you, I’m 60 and my gf is 32. We have a 3 daughter together that is my super angel. I love both of them more than anything. We met while I was doing some island hopping 7 years ago and we got serious about 3 years in. To me, online dating doesn’t necessarily have to be a “watch out” for the filipina scammers, but also “watch out” for the westerner guys that are just false advertising and could end up visiting for a month then leaving the woman high and dry and pregnant. It happens plenty. I love your story and seeing a western man fulfilling a Filipina’s dream and his own as well. Good luck to both of you and your new son.
I just finally married my Philipina in March in Alaminos San Pablo after 3 1/2 years we’ve been promised to each other. I was there to get married together in person yet online via WebEx from Utah. So the original marriage certificate is from the USA. We’ve had a complicated time for the past 3 years I can share with you for some future vlog. I can give some insight to marrying and taking on 2-4 additional children 13,19 21 and 31 (last 2 grown and out of the house). We have overcome many challenges if you would like to hear.
Age gap is not an issue in Philippines as long as both are legal to get marry. Also, Filipino family values is strong. And it breaks our heart if we can't help our family even small things. We love and care our family ❤️ and, we love our partners, husband or wife so genuinely. And it's normal to a Filipina to get jealous specially they are young. Anyway , it's a matter of respect both sides.
My filapina is 56 and I am 59 we met and started talking 7 years ago. I will be back in march. She is an OFW with world travel and I am a USN Navy VET. we have alot In common. I dont tell her I will be back I tell he I will be home soon again.
This was my first time to watch your video and I got so tired of hearing you beat yourself up about your age difference between you and your gorgeous woman. Please understand I’m not being critical or disrespectful of your thoughts about being with a younger woman but it was very obvious to me that you have a very intelligent woman who is also very beautiful and it’s also obvious to me she is very in love with you. How lucky you are to find real treasure in such a woman. Honestly, it’s not my business to say you should lose your age fear and settle into being in love with this amazing woman before you lose her. I’m 74yo and I’m coming to the Philippines later this year to find the love of my life like you but my age is my asset because I know I have a lot of skills and talents to bring to the table in a good loving relationship. I don’t fear being with a younger intelligent woman and actually it’s why I’m coming there. I wish the two of you lots of success in your future and I’ll start watching all of your future videos. I do hope you gain more confidence about your age difference so it doesn’t become a wedge in your relationship. Maybe this video discussion was purposely about the age difference between the two of you but honestly it got old and boring the more you talked about your age difference and it felt to me as a lack of confidence on your part. I hope I’m wrong but like I said…this is my first video I’ve watched of the two of you so I don’t have any history from past videos to know any different.
Thanks for your feedback. Yes it was specifically a video requested in a survey by viewers on Chrissy dating older man. Took lots of exaggerations to get Chrissy to speak to subject
Ask her to explain the Philippine saying that goes like this: "Old men die easy in the morning" and watch her squirm and try to laugh and play it off. It's an inside thing that everyone knows about.
I loved seeing this video. It shows me that my way of thinking about this type of relationship will work great if your partner has similar thoughts and feelings. I am really impressed. My only bad thought on this is what happens to the young woman when you die from old age? Her life, her life's expectations have been changed and are now shattered?! Do you have insurance that is left to her to help her continue the lifestyle you two have created?
Rob, I’m subscribed to several channels related to the Philippines and your channel among one other, are my two favorite channels, I been thinking to retire to the Philippines when the time comes and rest assure that I hope I can reach out for advice and maybe your wife could be a match maker. Keep up the great work
Hi Ron & Chrissy, Another great blog, way to go, guys, 😉😎👍🏼❤️!!! I’d like to share 3 points, if I may: 1.) One of your subscribers makes a valid point, to stop pointing out the way you do, about the “large” age gap between you, and Chrissy. I respectfully disagree with him. It’s a known, psychological fact, that if you hear something often enough, you’ll begin to believe it. So I think you need to continue driving home the idea by your actions, and videos, that when a great guy like you, Pete, an amazing woman like Chrissy, Great and beautiful things are going to happen, 😎😉❤️!!! 2.). You made another valid point, that other expats took “years” before they finally found the ❤️right❤️ woman. Possibly, because They “were” meeting the right woman, just not the right woman, for “him.” Another words, there were both wonderful people, just not the right one, for “each other.” You and Chrissy, are Romeo & Juliet, but with a 💞happy💞 ending. And finally: 3.). Another known psychological behavioral fact. Women all over the world, not just Filipino women, have always been, and will always be attracted to older men, because they see us as attractive man with our gray/silver hair, that makes us look distinguished. Secondly, women across the world, not just Filipino women, and here comes the magic words, they are always going to feel “more secure”, with an older man. I have no doubt that when Chrissy reads my comments, she’ll smile, not her head, and agree with me. Keep up the great work guys, 😎😉🙏🏼👍🏼❤️.
This is so funny 🤣🤣😂😂. Ron, that line in 1.), Was supposed to read: “When a great guy like you “RON”, meet a wonderful woman like you, “Chrissy”, wonderful, amazing things are going to happen. That’s what that line supposed to read, lol, 😂🤣. Call it a Freudian slip. When I moved to the Philippines in about six months, I’m praying to the Lord, that I’ll find “my” Chrissy, 😎🙏🏼❤️, amen, 😌😌🙏🏼🙏🏼.
Thanks for your comment a lot of people thought I walk around being overwhelmed and just thinking about the age gap instead of getting the point that the entire video was about age gap and trying to illicit responses from Chrissy so I really appreciate your comment
@@FlyMeToThePhilippines You’re welcome, Ron. Judging by the comments from other men, they agree with me, that you should stay on point, emphasizing, to “continue” sharing, that a good & patient man like you, “can” find the “right” woman, and not necessarily, have to wait “years”, before finding her. Stay with it Ron & Chrissy. You guys are are an inspiration, a great team, and we’re all happy, you found each other. See you both, in about 6 -7 months, 😎😉🙏🏼❤️.
Rob is very fit for his age and mature and organized same personality that Chrissy has ...u both are very educated...and have the same goals...😊diet is very important...u both understand this...😊chrissy is very mature and understanding 😊
I feel like your focus on your age shows how hard it has been for you to realize is that Filipinas are looking for security and happiness. Those are not the perspectives you have based on USA values I am 74 year old white USA male dating a 35 year old with a girl who is now 10 years old. We have an 8 year relationship. I am older then her parents but they are not uncomfortable with my age gap so why should I be bothered by it
"Yeah but". Meeting a 66 year old woman is comletely different than a 66 year old man. A 66 year old woman has been through menopause. Not allot of energy and the effects of no labido leaves no motivation for her or you. Basically its a friendship.
As a single man in the usa, i can't date a women with young children. I want to be her priority and she will be mine. I had a past experience where I wasn't a priority. Not for me.
You guys look happy but you sir talk way too much. You ask your woman a question and then you answer for her. Learn to listen rather than talk so much with your opinion.
I have nothing against single mothers but children will always change the dynamic of a relationship. A good mother will always put her child ( ren ) first and the man who is NOT the father of the child ( ren ) second. This is only a natural state of the human experience. I have kids and they will always be my priority over a new woman albeit my sons are grown men. Unless both parties agree on this then getting married is a precursor for failure. Unrealistic expectations never turn out well.
@@FlyMeToThePhilippines Yes sir you actually get it !!! By watching these vlogs I am amazed by how many men do not comprehend the pecking order. Kids and dogs are loved unconditionally but adults must bring something to the table. Best of luck to you and all of yours.
When I see interviews with filipinas, I'm always impressed by their practical nature. BUT they are also romantic in a way they WANT to love the person they are with.
Rob keep hitting the gym! Eat carnivore/keto and stay young! She is amazing! Is she signing a prenup? I got a BINGO and plan to meet my Filipina in March. Plan is 10 days together and do an online wedding. She agrees to a prenup. My opinion is it’s just a piece of paper we never intend to use. She is 20 with a 3 year old son and I’m 57 with 14 and 16 year old boys. Plan is to try for 2 girls. Rob if I was you I’d just let things happen if you’re not already fixed. If she really desires a baby with you I’d give it to her. Have you considered TRT? I’m clinically low T so investigating it now but I think it plays a role in longevity. And obviously looking young and maintaining muscle mass. My Filipina’s plan is to go and graduate from nursing school then immigrate the family here to the USA. I want to work till I’m 70+ and never slow down anyway. Eventually we will be back in PH. Once we are married I hope she can get a visitor visa easily to come visit when she has time off. It’s going to be a lot of commuting for a few years. You have such a great keeper! Get a ring on her finger! 🙏🙏❤️❤️💍💍
@@FlyMeToThePhilippines say she want to have more kids clearly has a son she need a daughter at lest give her respect and have 1 daughter for her . she would be always love you and their relationship always grow they are family type first.
She is checking in you you are into yr self follow yr wife ideas be humble let your wife pay everything never talk about past relationship don’t look at other girls ever girl want a baby if she loves u settle down make the most of your life with her all way tell true the wife will keep asking questions about yr life so she knows everything is
Man o man...I enjoy your content BUT your age insecurities are extreme! I fear that it will increase as you age and become a mental burden on her. If you love her...which seems real on film...work on your insecurities before you ruin her. It's the Philippines man...RELAX!
