I became a cynic and it's the worst thing I ever did - on being young and jaded

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I became a cynic and it's the worst thing I ever did - on being young and jaded
In this video I wanted to chat a bit about the prevalent culture of cynicism online, and how I - myself - used to have this mentality. I find myself to be not only happier, but more empowered and resilient now that I have a different approach and mindset in regards to my life. I was inspired by the worlds of Rainn Wilson in a podcast interview he did in regards to cynicism, I do not agree with him on everything and don't necessarily agree with everything in this podcast (it does not reflect my viewpoints or personal beliefs) - but I did find it inspiring! You can check it out his personal story by looking up Rich Roll Rainn Wilson interview "We need a spiritual revolution" and skip to the time stamp "foster joy and squash cynicism" at 1 hour 24 minutes in.
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@Cspspack Год назад

I’m a psychotherapist and most of my younger clients (teens and twenties) have such a negative view of the state of the world. They truly believe they have been born in the worst times the world has ever experienced. I think the apocalyptic tone of the media (especially since the early 2000s/post 9/11) has a lot to do with this and it’s a flame fueled by social media. I find it’s causing many people to feel more doomed and helpless than inspired to make at least a little change. They are simply overwhelmed with negativity and try to find control in unhealthy ways.

@CharlotteUnser Год назад

Yes, agree....the media has a great impact on society....Of course we cannot stick our heads in the sand and deny all that surrounds us, BUT....there is much that is good and positive in the world that is not reported....The old adage "Bad news sells' is prominent more now than ever. We have to choose to be aware of the good that is always present and be a source of that goodness individually and collectively. It starts individually with integrity and a mindset that we are all responsible for our actions and our impact on others. A small candle of light can light even the darkest room. (Char)

@olgacvetkova114 Год назад

100% agree

@tiffytattoo2450 Год назад

Maybe it's because we can't even afford to live. That, plus the world burning down with climate crisis, wars on our european doorstep, overtechnologization, corruption and horrible crimes in religious institutions, the rise of nationalist, conservative and fascist politics... The world doesn't feel safe.

@Fandoms4Life Год назад

That's exactly what I'm going through now 😢

@olgacvetkova114 Год назад

@@Fandoms4Life just keep moving forward 🤗🌷🌼🌱🌳

@mscatnipper2359 Год назад

An old Cherokee is teaching his grandson about life. “A fight is going on inside me,” he said to the boy. “It is a terrible fight and it is between two wolves. One is evil - he is anger, envy, sorrow, regret, greed, arrogance, self-pity, guilt, resentment, inferiority, lies, false pride, superiority, and ego.” He continued, “The other is good - he is joy, peace, love, hope, serenity, humility, kindness, benevolence, empathy, generosity, truth, compassion, and faith. The same fight is going on inside you - and inside every other person, too.” The grandson thought about it for a minute and then asked his grandfather, “Which wolf will win?” The old Cherokee simply replied, “The one you feed.”

@coletteg.4548 Год назад

Yes ! My favorite ! I heard this years ago and I told my sons this .

@RaptorReplays Год назад

That was absolutely cringe

@doriseguiluz6653 Год назад

Hermoso!!🙏👌

@racerx4152 Год назад

this reminds me of romans 7 in the bible. this is written for christians.

@thehturt5480 Год назад

Just briliant ❤️

@karmenchristensen9845 Год назад

One of my favorite quotes- “ promote what you love instead of bashing what you hate.” ❤

@mayracaceres3813 Год назад

muy profundas palabras

@MichelleMuck555 Год назад

Admitting that our perspective can be wrong at times shows a certain maturity that requires growth. Compassion is the key element for this growth.

@sonderbain Год назад

Ironically trying to be more "mature" when I was in my late teens led me to be more immature. It was only when I looked back to who I was before that I realized the me I had left behind.

@helenchristopher3412 Год назад

I am a little older lady, but believe me, you are such a blessing to watch. I love your honesty and so love your animals and flowers. Thank you so much. I really appreciate you. One great grandmother

@janismarler3945 Год назад

I'm a grandma too. I am mesmerized by Paola's voice and kind words and demeanor, gorgeous scenery and music. Thank you Paolo. God bless you.

@zila626 Год назад

❤❤❤

@Letters2indigo 11 месяцев назад

I love you

@donnacarraway9182 6 месяцев назад

I’m a little old lady too who lives alone and hopes to become a grandmother someday. I too appreciate Paola and her gentle ways. How fortunate I feel to have found this beautiful channel! 💕

@farinaceaclover Год назад

This really hit home for me. I have to really try hard not to be so cynical. I feel like it's my default position. It's a daily struggle not to let the negativity out there get to me. Your videos really help. Thank you very much for sharing your experience with us. It really means a lot. The field of yellow flowers was stunning!

@guidedbysunshine333 Год назад

Happens to me too. The inability to control certain situations gets so triggering i spiral down into such negativity

@zila626 Год назад

Me too- you're not alone ❤

@ccco8639 Год назад

Im a 57 year old woman, sharing the same corner of the world you are. We live in a uniquely beautiful area. Though you are younger than myself, you're a kindred spirit. I'm going to make a guess that you also love soft breezes & sitting in sunbeams☺️ My ability to see beauty and joy in the simple things around us, has carried me through some hard times. We need more of this, in this chaotic world we live in.

@DaestrumManitz Год назад

Being positive is a choice which we make. Exercising it has many benefits. 😊

@lisadethlefsen4232 Год назад

I find watching your videos makes me feel like I’m talking with an old friend. Makes me feel more calm and happier. Thank you Paola!

@ritagreene8376 Год назад

I feel the same

@HelpMeJesus2 Год назад

What a breath of fresh air, listening and watching: the peace, the quiet, the calm, the reality of what matters. Thank you.

@The-Portland-Daily-Blink Год назад

Cynicism. Oh, dear, you're not the only one. It seems to be our fate, in one way or another. I'm 57 and can't tell you how jaded I am, how cynical, I've become. But I hope you know how refreshing and hopeful your videos are, and how much people enjoy them. You remind me to appreciate the simple things in life and the importance of protecting innocence. It becomes more difficult as you age and get older. But your perspective helps me...

@Venusbabe66 11 месяцев назад

I hear you sister! ❤ I too am 57 and have tried, like Paola, to be more mindful and live in the moment. It takes practice but has been worth it.

@kamalm.mounir1212 Год назад

I don't know exactly why I'm growing addicted to those videos; the scenery, the narrative voice & its rhythm, the background music, the narrative itself & its implied themes... Etc.--a rather exquisite & authentic linguistic experience for non-English speakers. Well-crafted content!

@Krisb292 Год назад

Her voice is intoxicating. I feel inspired just listening to her. ❤

@TheCottageFairy Год назад

Hello!! I hope you are all well 💖please feel free to share your perspectives down below! I'm only speaking for myself and know there are many other ways of looking at things. To be clear I don’t consider myself a cynical person anymore, I like to instead focus my energy on things that make me feel more fulfilled. Putting time in creativity, familial relationships, and passions puts everything into perspective. I find that if I am ever feeling cynical, I remember that by thinking this way I am willingly participating in a negative cultural mindset, and being part of the very thing that made me cynical in the first place 😂 and I personally want to choose hope and joy and foster resilience in the face of hardships and fears, not a bitter ego (this is all my own experience, I’m not saying this applies to you). At least, applying this has helped me feel healthier and happier and re-train my brain to think differently :) maybe it will provoke some ideas in you! Those tiny portable watercolors I was using were gifted to me by a subscriber!! Thank you so much and I hope you got my thank you letter!!

@HelpMeJesus2 Год назад

Omg that was so cool. I was hoping you'd link to that watercolor kit!!

@khadeejadja Год назад

Hi Paola ! Beautiful video, as always. Searching for meanings in everything in our life and finding meaningful connections are signs of someone with Catalysts/Idealists temperament and I can feel and see that in you. So I'm happily supporting you from afar -upon your quest for meanings and living up a meaningful life.

@palab23 Год назад

God Bless you Paola ❤

@sujathaan7225 Год назад

That watercolor kit was awesome.hope you make beautiful paintings.😊😘

@ritaking8827 Год назад

The truth is we only have control over what we do. It’s almost impossible to change someone’s mind on anything BUT, we can inspire those who choose to look, ask, seek. That is beautiful, and the very reason not to become a cynic.

@secretagent86 Год назад

It is heartwarming to me that your channel has reached 1.4 ish million subscribers. you exude calmness and bring tranquility in a rushed world. we can all get cynical at times. personally i am my harshest critic... a bad habit

@AdventureswithAmirah Год назад

I wholeheartedly agree.💕

@MelancholyMoondancer Год назад

We are always our own worst critics.

@KozyFaerie Год назад

I’m at the beginning of a healing process and I was very angry for so long and now I’m just tired and lonely. I had to leave a friend group that I thought had my back and understood me. Now it’s time to heal and it just feels so hard to do so. But it feels good to have channels like your to help guide me through it.

@gracemccoy2874 Год назад

Healing can take a long time. Be gentle with yourself and allow all the feelings to come as they will. You will learn so much about yourself while you heal. 💕

@FinnyC Год назад

I instantly have to click on your videos when I see the notification. Thank you for creating them!

@janinafisher101 Год назад

This piece of art is really lovely. It would make a great surface pattern design - like for wallpaper, or curtains, or a shower curtain! I bet a lot of people would love having some of your art translated into home decor on a larger scale! Very sweet. And welcome to sweet velvety bunny Luna. That field of arnica is absolutely amazing. As someone who loves it for its healing abilities, it is so lovely to see what it looks like. Those lupines were gorgeous too... and oh... to be able to wander with all those beautiful mountains around you! Ahhh...

@rawlyroo5975 Год назад

I adore that the birds singing were your background! This beautiful moment is captured and it is a powerful expression of goodness.

@arenkai Год назад

I struggle with that exact sentiment quite often. My automatic reaction to a lot of things is to be cynical and jaded, but whenever I think back on those moments the only thing that comes to mind is "That's not me." It's so hard to deconstruct my defence mechanisms... But step by step I'll get there.

@deloreslowndes762 Год назад

At the very end, a message I needed to hear....that I can forgive myself and that I can evolve from what I have been. Thank you.

@AdventureswithAmirah Год назад

So true. 💜

@Road2Med Год назад

I was also quite cynical a few years, especially in early university days trying to get into the rat race of medicine. Looking back It's sad to see how I and many people around me viewed the world, but I am glad I am not that same person now. Love these vids:)

@jcasillas78 Год назад

It is easy to fall into this pattern of thinking and not just for young people, I've found myself feelling old and jaded lately. This is a good reminder that we all have control over how we react to the state of the world or circumstances around us. Thank you for this.

@matt_lvl1351 Год назад

It’s so hard to see and admit to our own character flaws, and many people never get to this point of self-introspection in their life, continuing to hurt themselves and/or others. You are obviously someone who went through a huge butterfly transformation in your life, and I find that very inspiring as I left a career of many years that was never my field of choice to pursue more artistic, family, and personal aims in life a year ago. For me I just keep hearing the universe tell me to slow down and wait. Take things as they come. Also, I read your book recently! As an aspiring writer, I very much enjoyed it - both your prose and poetry. You are a wonderful painter, but also a talented writer - enjoy!

@flowergirl7260 Год назад

It's lovely to see your new art and your bunny-angel, Luna. Thanks for sharing your contemplations on your younger self. Cynicism seems encouraged in university and then you somehow have to find your innocence again. Bunnies must help. Painting flowers, too!

@olgacvetkova114 Год назад

Thank you very much, Paola! I've got a difficult week with lots of pain, anger and despair.. Your words, background piano, flowers and little furry friends reminded me that kindness, beauty and harmony truly exist in this world. Your videos are so calming and healing for many sensitive souls struggling to survive in the flow of negativity, criticism and mutual accusations created and stimulated by media. Thank you 🤗🌱🌿🍀🌳🌷🌾🌼🌻

@harrismaher9888 Год назад

Its a age of Gog and Magog ( Ashkenazi European one-eyed Jews) and Masons the followers of False Messiah ( Who will be the king of the world for the short period in the coming soon in Jerusalem). This is why everywhere is going through devastated war all over the world led by imposter Antichrist from Washington DC and other national international agencies like UN, EU, CIA, FBI, Pentagon etc. Only one they are safe those who are truly religious because they are protected by God. Your government and media is totally lie to you and your people. Never believe in them. Please read the following Book : " Jerusalem in the Qur'an " "The International Jews by Henry Ford" "The Protocols of the Elders of Zion"

@felicitygrace5113 Год назад

It blows my mind how introspective you are, how much self awareness you have. It is wonderful to hear you because it helps me reflect on myself too. Oh Luna looks so adorable... my heart skipped a beat! ❤

@DEPARTMENTOFREDUNDANCYDEPT Год назад

Paola, you are a reliable source of peace, beauty, calm, and common sense. Thank you for all you do. I am always uplifted by your videos.

@WildNaturebyElizabeth Год назад

Thank you for your honesty. You help me see faults in myself that I should be aware of and it can help me become a better person. Thank you!❤

@josephstevens9888 Год назад

Such an uplifting video.... yes, life goes on despite setbacks and tragedies like forest fires and death. Never give up hope... life always finds a way to survive and the results are often beautiful.

@Englishroserebecca Год назад

We need more videos from people like Paola. Social media can be so negative. People so angry and aggressive. I love watching her also Kirsten and Joerg. Makes me so relaxed. ❤

@kelseywagner7828 Год назад

Matildas journal and Earth angel gemini are other lovely similar channels 💕💕

@francescawollaston2227 Год назад

Dear Paola, what a beautiful take on life, to wake up to on a Saturday! Congratulations on your gorgeous Luna - she is absolutely beautiful ❤. Your message of being compassionate and loving, especially when others aren’t, is inspiring and so true. We are enough ! Love from Australia xxx

@debbie7116 Год назад

The audio was plenty crisp - it's nice to sit on the porch with you. I think many people go through a cynical stage in their college or early 20s - it's all about finding out how the world really is, studying and learning about it, feeling good about your acquired knowledge, and then - oops - looking harshly at those without it. But then you eventually catch sight of yourself in a mirror, re-evaluate your attitude, and grow into humility and understanding. But most people take at least 5 years longer than you - I know I did!

@pinkroses135 Год назад

That joy and cynicism thing reminds me of the joy of the Lord is my strength verse. Happiness comes and goes but joy is a choice. One I want to make every day.

@sheilavanduynfote5539 Год назад

I feel so blessed to have found your channel on RU-vid, your voice is so soothing and gives me such peace. I have introduced you to my daughter in law, my hairdresser and my daughter. We all have our times at being cynical I believe the world we live in makes it difficult to think positive thoughts. I no longer watch the news because of the hype and nonsense that is so negative to me and I would get so depressed. I now enjoy my spare time reading and enjoying nature ❤ I enjoy the nature in your area so please continue filming outdoors.

@DanielDogeanu Год назад

I'm in that stage of my life right now, and it's horrible! This is why I watch your videos! They bring me hope and a sense of calmness that I don't have in my life right now!

@user-iz4op3eg4n Год назад

This video was much needed today. I found myself extremely cynical and sad/angry toward everyone I encountered. I have made a turnaround, and refuse to not be a light in the dark 💛

@yac2617 Год назад

What a beautiful, inspiring person you are. You have reminded me of the beauty of this world 💕

@user-gw6rx1qn7d Год назад

Thank you for allowing us to join you for a walk through the beautiful countryside. The vibrant colors are sooooo refreshing and uplifting and I love it. 🥰 Thank you for being brave to talk on this subject "cynic thinking'. We need to always check our behavior to be sure that we are striving to love and accept, to give the benefit of that person is being "their" best. Thank you for sharing your new addition, Luna. She most certainly is beautiful.

@jacquelineireland2273 Год назад

May I say I feel you are one of the most authentic spirit on youtube. You do things that make you happy, you tell things that make you uncomfortable, you share a lifestyle that so many admire. If we look closely we can emulate many of your themes and ideas even if we live in a big city highrise. Love your new Luna. She looks like a rex bunny breed. You are like the best friend I never had. I relate to you. Love. Peace. Blessings. From Pennsylvania.

@kaytaddeo4522 Год назад

I absolutely enjoy watching your videos they are a piece of art thank you for being yourself!

@literary1 Год назад

The combination of the images and music in the first part of this video literally brought tears to my eyes, as I found them so beautiful. Thank you for sharing a part of your life with us.

@daedae181 Год назад

I appreciate you sharing this. I too have a negative mindset, I'm trying to be positive,but I do slip back when talking to certain people. It's a practice, but I'm working everyday to be better.

@mch12311969 Год назад

This came at the end of a rather stressful and anxiety inducing week, thank you, Paola!

@northernu.s.a3995 Год назад

I get it. I've become very (what some call) "red-pilled" about life since 2020. Staying positive can be rough.

@animoon_1 Год назад

as a negative person myself too,I also find it that living simple and peaceful life and moving 'slower' makes me less negative and comfortable (that's also why I really love your videos just gives me so much peace and comfort)❤

@Wildflowerafternoons Год назад

When I feel lonely or just down for no particular reason I come here because I feel that you understand. Thank you for lifting us up. Love you artful life.

@coffeeandlakes9749 Год назад

I always come back to Paola's video whenever I feel negative and jealous of others (usually after scrolling through instagram and notice the hustle life my more/differently successful friends). As I slowly begin to appreciate my own life, at its own pace, - suddenly I feel scared of not hustling enough or working harder to be where they (the others) are. Like is it okay to just be where I am and not be as famous/pretty/rich/etc as my friends on IG? Sometimes it's easier to go back to feeling content and grateful as I am but sometimes, it's not as easy.. But then, I come here and re-learn that it is okay to work at my pace. Slowly but never stagnant. Thank you again, Paola

@roblebby3765 Год назад

Thank you Paola for being so transparent and honest in this and all of your videos. I wish we had more of that today and the ability to accept other's opinions even if you disagree with them. As you said, it is much better to strive to make your corner of the world a better place than it is to complain about how bad everything is!

@ankita7766 Год назад

The landscape is utterly beautiful in this video. Thank you so much! Hope you and your family are in the best of health. I can tell you I have a very judgemental attitude towards myself and others (I am not at all proud of this) and make sure to remind myself not to always see negativity. I must say what you revealed about your younger self is quite identical to what I went through. Only now am I beginning to realize how foolish I've been. Thank you very much for sharing it with us! Your artwork is beautiful. I hope to learn how to paint soon😊

@petapendlebury9024 Год назад

Here in the UK one our main TV channels used to end their evening news with a lighthearted or uplifting story to send you to bed with a smile..... sadly they no longer do and I wish they'd bring it back. I still remember the squirrel who could complete a really difficult assault course to get to the bird feeder and the kitten rescue!

@deborahclaypool2349 Год назад

You sound perfect ! Don’t ever let negative comments get to you they are jealous and petty

@chrislysne1046 Год назад

I think as adolescents and young adults , to some extent…we all go through a period of feeling cynical about the world. It’s all part of being human and discovering who we truly are by trying on different identities and masks. I loved the flowers and nature sounds by the way. More outdoor videos, I say!! 👍

@mscatnipper2359 Год назад

I was so enthralled spending time with you in nature and on your porch that I was unaware of any degradation in sound quality. I, too have risen above the earlier chapter of my life spent being hyper critical and judgmental. It is such a freeing feeling to have those attitudes out of my life. In that empty space grew compassion and grace.

@maryhassenfritz4344 2 месяца назад

You are so amazing in all you share…I am 67 years old and have always been ‘different’ from others…I yearn for and completely enjoy being alone! I tend to be a hermit in extremes of weather. I just ordered your hardcover book and I anticipate with delight and joy receiving it in June! I will look forward to receiving it every day! I want to change my style of living to slower, simpler days with using and repurposing items in my life! If I can’t use something …perhaps someone else can… yes… I am listening to your videos from the beginning onward…and you have inspired me! I am learning Slow Stitching…and have ordered items from a shop in London. I await the project and it being a new way to express myself and of gift giving! I will look for vintage fabrics to complete my projects in thrift shops! Thank you and God Bless!

@helenroberts1107 Год назад

Your definitely right. We all need more positivity in the world. I think this would help a lot. I’m always trying to help other people be more positive. Thank you for helping me to look at the beautiful and simple side of life, it reminds me of who I want to be ❤

@rhondabeaman1 Год назад

As always, so comforted by your content.

@sunandstarsgalaxy4801 Год назад

I have started to really look forward to your videos each week! They make me happy to watch, and I love watching you do all your hobbies ❤️

@lynnallen1315 Год назад

I'm very cynical as well. I think I've lived too long and seen too much of the society's underbelly. We just have to keep working on ourselves. One thing that really gives me peace is music and I love the work of Greg Maroney and Marshall Styler as well as Mozart and Chopin.

@margauxpnw Год назад

I know it’s not classical music, but Greg Brown, the granddaddy of folk music, his songs like “Canned Goods” and “Spring Wind” remind me of what really matters. You might enjoy them as well.

@connydm729 Год назад

@@Clau.dia48 Hi, the same here in Belgium, me too i´m more on my own, but with animals.... Think i had to much negative things going on with People.... My whole live i feld better by myself and with animals...,Conny

@barbraallbritton4222 Год назад

So beautiful that field of Arnica in bloom❤ And that forest regenerating after the fire❤ Thank you for sharing such beauty! Blessings and much Aloha from Oregon 🙏💜🌎☮️🌎💜🙏🐾🐾

@deborahclaypool2349 Год назад

You should be so happy that you have a calm peaceful channel and get more views than anyone I watch !!! That tells me people want no chaos in their lives and you provide a respite for people

@justhereprocrastinating Год назад

For a very long time, I viewed cynicism and even depression, as the only correct and possible responses to this world's problems. To realize that the world will never benefit from that was my own personal revolution. In the words of Wendell Berry's "The mad farmer liberation front": "Be joyful, though you have considered all the facts". Joy, that's the bravest answer against opression.

@johndej Год назад

I remember my cynical and angry days all to well I'm afraid. When I was younger, I felt that I could use my voice and energy to push people (former students and family) into where I though they needed go. If they objected, my anger would make an appearance I'm afraid. What I've learned since is that my approach was not appropriate or successful in the long run. In recent years, I've come to terms with the errors of my younger self. I've also learned that my memories were somewhat wrong. Getting feedback from my former students has allowed me to see that I actually had a positive influence on many of them. I am glad that this has happened. Thank you for another thought provoking video! I love the outdoor setting you used too. Have a great week!

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@PhoenixKay1011 Год назад

It feels so good to see someone who can relate and articulate everything so wonderfully thank you 🤍

@peggymurphy6747 Год назад

This was a wonderful and wise message you shared. Thank you for your honesty and vulnerability. And it was great seeing you outside and on the porch. Such incredibly beautiful scenery for us to enjoy!!

@MS-pt2us Год назад

I understand what you are talking about. I used to go through the cynical fase when I was on my studies too. And I didn't realize that I am so negative until a friend once told me. After that I started to pay attention on my thoughts and step by step I changed my mind set. It was about 15 years ago. Recently, I friend bitterly told me: You are always acting like you do not have problems in life. I was astonished. Because that was not true, I as everybody else have a lot of challenges. But I' ve realized that I do not make drama of them. Your videos are beautiful and inspirative as ever❤

@karenf8470 Год назад

Worse is being older and jaded. From the vantage point of age, I related to much of what you had to say, Paola. I still have to work at it but the good news: That implies continuing self-awareness, learning, and growth...regardless of age. Thanks for being willing to share here and touching a resonant chord.

@shirleymcmurtrie7853 Год назад

I'm feeling such overwhelming gratitude for all you've included in this, Paola, including your precious Luna.

@TeacupAndRoses 8 месяцев назад

Hola Paola 💗🌿 Te saludo desde el sur de Chile. I am 48 years old and I feel like this. I am HSP (high sensitivity people) and this "social media world" totally overwhelmed my mind and heart. Almost all there in this world is absolutely bad. It is a very crazy Time in our world. I am feeling exhausted many times... 😢... I'm doing my best to make my part in this world. I have an Instagram account and try to inspire others. My hubby and I have changed our lives from 2 years ago, from the capital city from my country to the countryside. My heart and mind become healthy now, day by day ...

@roselenhart8107 Год назад

I needed to hear this. My goal this year is to work on being humble and to shake off the past hurts and anger and disappointments. All the things that have made me cynical and negative over the years. I was brought up to think that humility meant weakness. After 50 years of believing that, I’m now on a quest to rewire my brain and, seeing videos like this, confirm the accuracy of my quest. Thank you for being open and transparent. ❤

@kotnilaila2443 Год назад

I'm very lucky to come across your channel, it's very inspiring. From Morocco in North Africa

@JBaxter-pi8oj Год назад

It is incredibly hard not to be cynical in these challenging times but you're right, positivity is a choice. It's never been an easy world and so many people wear their hurts as armour. If only we had more understanding people but that is a trend and it is happening. More and more of us are choosing the positive road and support each other through difficulties. Don't ever characterize cynicism as a character flaw though, it was part of your growth process. You are still so young and it's lovely to see such maturity and wisdom. That is a gift of living a conscious, more slow paced life. Thank you for your videos and art. I love your small, mobile art kit. Who makes that?

@Cindyscrossstitch Год назад

No audio issues at all. She reminds me there is good in the world. Beautiful fields of flowers 🌻🌻

@angelahagood3639 Год назад

Thank you for today’s episode. My heart breaks because we have the ability to be social with people on the other side of the planet, yet, we are more angry and less willing to listen. I wish we all could look deeply inside and see our own flaws and prejudices that will, if we allow them, make us feel superior to others. Your channel offers an oasis of thought and refreshment for a weary soul. So blessed by your many gifts and caring nature. Luna is precious! Your artwork is stunning. 🎨🦋💐💕🙌🏻

@elsamere Год назад

Your sweet Aiger, always by your side. There really is nothing better than that. 🧡

@LifewithAlegria Год назад

Loved what you said about being judgemental. We can allow our perceptions to be so easily clouded that we lose the ability to connect with others when we choose to be judgemental. How beautiful that you arrived at a different perspective and are able to share that so openly. You are a blessing. And it was lovely to chat on the porch today. Have a blessed week. 🌸

@catherinem3092 Год назад

One thing I learned from the "smartest" people in my family is that you need to feel superior and cynical to indeed be intelligent. The worst feeling is trying to learn from people who put you down and mock you before teaching you. Hope we can all become more kind.

@Don-ih4st Год назад

You make me feel so calm. Thank you for all you do.

@gabyroldan8151 Год назад

This was such a beautiful message. I can relate completely. Thank you for all you do 🥰

@CristinaFaline Год назад

You uploading videos always brightens my day. I hope you’re doing well. Thank you for being a source of calm for me and so many others. 🌸🌿

@janhhavisarambale7808 Год назад

Needed to hear this ❤

@katiakatia54 Год назад

It's a privilege to be walking so closely to Tasha Tudor. You naturally carry on her spirit.

@jewelsmickey1265 Год назад

Well said! So appreciated!

@LexiSmiles Год назад

Thank you for this video. This is where I am now and I needed to hear this. ❤

@pinkroses135 Год назад

Yes! I love simplicity and repetition. Sometimes you gotta step back and recalibrate from time to time. I consider cynicism, negativity, whatever to be a sign to just be for a minute enjoying the moment so you can get back on your path. ❤

@thucanhngo8548 Год назад

Nature is amazing! The flowers are so beautiful and vibrant. Thank you for sharing these beautiful things with us, Paola!☺

@RF1972. Год назад

Thank you for your transparency ❤

@joyceconnolly1065 Год назад

What a beautiful sharing you gifted us with and I thank you, as introspection isn't always easy. And, FYI, your outdoor audio was perfect. ❤️

@lea_australiannativefaunaconsv Год назад

'Life begins again in the forest' Yes, it's true! I have witnessed devastating forest damage that rocked NSW in Australia a few years ago (quite scary). In spite of that, I watched the bush grow back slowly, steadily, beautifully dense. A thicker bush than before. I love this about nature. Thank you as always for your beautiful video and work involved in getting that out to us to view. Love them. 💖 I appreciate that Paola is humbled by mistaken beliefs she had earlier in life, however the art of being strong enough to admit it and share it with others so others may benefit, for me, it is nothing less than a noble act.

@all.the.pretty.stories Год назад

Your videos are always SUCH a breath of fresh air! Thank you!!

@catherinejustcatherine1778 Год назад

I'm glad your family & Luna found one another. She sounds like a wonderful addition, indeed!

@marciasimmons9983 Год назад

This is a timely post! I’ve been observing the season’s cycles, loving the simplicity of sitting in the woods and moving away from the consistent negative stories in the media world which drain my energy. I love your perspective of promoting more kindness. I share intentions of green woodlands and green pastures full of wild flowers and playful people supporting each other.

@cathylampshire1140 Год назад

Loved the outside setting for the video. The sounds were amazing. Thank you!

@user-vh2di2sh6u Год назад

I am hoping to improve my perception like you have, in order to recognize and appreciate all of the positivity in my life. Thank you.❤

@ragejinraver Год назад

I legitimately stumbled upon this channel just mindlessly scrolling on RU-vid this morning . From the way the videos shot to your voice to the calmness of the forest is pure therapy . Thank you so much Cottage Fairy I'm on my way to recovery because of you and this Channel 😌❤️‍🔥❤️‍🔥❤️‍🔥❤️‍🔥❤️‍🔥❤️‍🔥

@pennygrimes8425 Год назад

Thank you for sharing such beautiful footage and message, Paola 🙏

@debby891 Год назад

Your videos and thoughts on life, your artistic talents and your spirit are all so inspiring. I think being cynical is part of just being human and something we’ve all struggled with at times in the chapters of our lives. Learning about who we are and acknowledging the parts we don’t like just inspire us to grow and learn to adjust. Nunna is absolutely beautiful ❤

@Roleta777 Год назад

I appreciate and love you very much , Paola!! Thanks for sharing all this 🍓🩷

@kimmberlie573 Год назад

Your videos are pure art. So beautifully done. Thank you so much for sharing.

@a_clouded_mind Год назад

Thank you for sharing your insight and honesty, Paola! You inspire me to be more self reflective about my own perspective ❤ I think I too have fallen into the immature feeling of superiority that comes from cynicism before, but I hadn’t realized it until you described it that way.