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I became the woman of my dreams.. this is how. 

Elicia Goguen
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@eliciagoguen
@eliciagoguen 2 года назад
Let me know what you'd like me to talk about next 🥰⬇
@eliciagoguen
@eliciagoguen 2 года назад
@@levelupgorgeous love this!!
@mileyroe4877
@mileyroe4877 2 года назад
Getting over someone you see everyday.
@eliciagoguen
@eliciagoguen 2 года назад
@@rebeccaperry-piper2733 can you elaborate a little bit on this ?!
@1CT1
@1CT1 Год назад
Do you want eternal life? Do you wish to end sorrow and depression in your life? Look no further. Jesus is the answer. Accept Jesus Christ as your Lord and Savior and you will have eternal life and be saved. The evidence that the bible is real and true is out there, do not be deceived by the luxuries of this world, and the fleeting pleasure of sin. Come to the light of God, being righteousness, truth, love, and life. God loved you, Jesus Loved you, and now it is time for you to love them too. John 3:16, Galatians 3:26, Romans 10:9 (Jesus Christ is coming soon! Prophecies are being fulfilled! Don't be left behind! Accept Jesus Christ as your Lord and Savior now while you still can for afterward comes the second death, eternal damnation, death, torment, suffering, hopelessness etc!)
@mileyroe4877
@mileyroe4877 Год назад
@@zara7276 This is a good topic. I'm also interested in this.
@dimpled_skeptic93
@dimpled_skeptic93 Год назад
"I'm not going to seek male validation, but at the same time I know my beauty has power". Girl that shit was HITTING. Never amen'd so hard in my life! Poignant and profound indeed. Subscribed
@eliciagoguen
@eliciagoguen Год назад
OUFFFF 🔥 thank you for being here 😍
@TB-gq5ne
@TB-gq5ne Год назад
No seriously! As soon as I started living that, my life changed so much.
@simranparmar148
@simranparmar148 Год назад
That’s line is exactly what made me sub as well. I see it as more empowering now rather than scared and shy
@annac.5630
@annac.5630 Год назад
I just talked to my therapist about this! I'm also 27 and I recently started to feel like a WOMAN, not a girl anymore. Many things happened to me this year (I got a high paying job, I kind of put myself out there again, I started doing therapy 2x a month). It's hasn't been easy at times, but I'm proud of the person I'm becoming and I'm happy I'm so far from the girl I used to be.
@eliciagoguen
@eliciagoguen Год назад
OMG YES! CONGRATULATIONS BABE😍😍
@ayla8345
@ayla8345 Год назад
I talked to my therapist about this too lol. I’m 25 and I feel a shift happening. I’m starting to feel like a woman. It’s a difficult situation because everyone in my family still sees me as a little girl, and treat me like a little girl, maybe because I’m the youngest. I think It also has a lot to do with the fact that I’m single. I think if I was in a serious relationship or married, it would be easier for them to see me as a woman, not a girl anymore. but I’m starting to finally feel like a woman. It’s a weird transition. I feel sad and confused
@dibamansur4843
@dibamansur4843 Год назад
@@ayla8345 just because you’re not in a relationship doesn’t make you less of a women
@RR-et6zp
@RR-et6zp Год назад
ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-26e_fdBI8ik.html&ab_channel=StaySlickwithKit
@estherbabatunde9955
@estherbabatunde9955 Год назад
Awnnn that's so sweet
@kimayaknight7180
@kimayaknight7180 Год назад
It takes positivity and determination to develop your self and become the person you want. At least I'm happy to be financially free and currently growing a solid retirement plan. It takes a positive and consistency to learn new things, unlearn the old habits ms Important to get a mentor/coach to lead you all the way. It's great to start young too!
@gracedaniels6172
@gracedaniels6172 Год назад
Hello I'm 43 working on my retirement fund too What do you think is the best target for retirement?
@theresamish1746
@theresamish1746 Год назад
Yes a lot of people finds having a coach /financial advisor a luxury
@kimayaknight7180
@kimayaknight7180 Год назад
@@gracedaniels6172 personally I think 1m is the goal to overcome inflation and having them in an inv estment p ortfolio is a perfect plan. I'm half way to my goal 😊
@kimayaknight7180
@kimayaknight7180 Год назад
@@theresamish1746 yeah. Fees and commissions are factors to look at in search for financial advisers. There’s financial experts out there who do not look at their fees but the impact and intrinsic value they bring along to you no matter how little you want to start. I’m glad I had one guide me start my financial journey
@eiraantoinette6793
@eiraantoinette6793 Год назад
I'm trying to read books about finance, budgeting and saving. Looking at having a good financial advisor. Can you recommend?
@irenea.
@irenea. Год назад
At 31 years old and fully recovered from 15 years of eating disorders, what nobody ever told me is that, something to look forward as you get older, is the self confidence and self esteem that you have as you mature, is the most beautiful and empowering feeling you could ever feel. From someone who has had clearly a lot of insecurities, just watch and learn how much you'll end up loving yourself 💖
@eliciagoguen
@eliciagoguen Год назад
Omg YES ❤️❤️❤️
@patriciatroncoso2979
@patriciatroncoso2979 Год назад
How did you over come the eating disorder ?
@gabrielegarcia358
@gabrielegarcia358 Год назад
Definitely! Everybody loves to talk about how "growing up is bad", "getting old sucks" but really it is not what I'm experiencing as the years go by. I get to know myself and be more confident with each year. Growing up and evolving is amazing!
@Amandahugginkizz
@Amandahugginkizz Год назад
I turned 40 the other day and still don't have self confidence or esteem :(
@Dexy.B
@Dexy.B Год назад
@@patriciatroncoso2979 I want to know as well
@racheltruth3822
@racheltruth3822 Год назад
I just turned 28. Im loving this influx of knowledge within my peer group. Late 20s is where it starts to get better. It starts with the mind. 😌
@TT-xz5sy
@TT-xz5sy Год назад
You’re so right, my mind changed so much between the ages of 27-30. Now I’m ready to change spiritually.
@cs7021
@cs7021 Год назад
So true!!
@burntbabies6911
@burntbabies6911 Год назад
Scared to grow up but at the same time can't wait
@gabreannareed7253
@gabreannareed7253 Год назад
Yes! I’m also, taking this year to start my journey to become THAT WOMAN. Stepping into the journey to become the best version of myself in 2023 right before my 30th birthday in October.
@thewarrioroflight2925
@thewarrioroflight2925 Год назад
WHY DO YOU TALK LIKE A KARDASHIAN? YOU ARE ABOUT TO HIT THE WALL... YOUR EYES ARE TOO BIG... AND YOU ARE BEHAVING LIKE A TEENAGER... LEARN HOW TO COOK... YOU WOMAN... WATCH MORE SNEAKO AND ANDREW TATE... SCORPIO QUEEN... NO MAN WILL WANT YOU WITH THAT MASCULINE ENERGY OR BEING NARCISSISTIC... BLACK KYLIE JENNER.. BY YHE WAY I'M GAY... THANKS TO WOMAN LIKE YOU... NOW I EAT A LOT OF YOUR BROTHERS...
@OLatreil
@OLatreil 2 года назад
This was so good. You articulated each change so well. In my journey, I just became a new person and forgot how to be the old me. So I would have a hard time making a list like you did. I went through the same process at your age (I'm 32 now) and I'm glad to see others go through it too. I did take a break from everything like you (men, social media) and ended up finding a good man when I was ready. My current opportunity is to attract a circle of sister friends.
@eliciagoguen
@eliciagoguen 2 года назад
I’m so proud of you 🥰🥰
@1CT1
@1CT1 Год назад
Do you want eternal life? Do you wish to end sorrow and depression in your life? Look no further. Jesus is the answer. Accept Jesus Christ as your Lord and Savior and you will have eternal life and be saved. The evidence that the bible is real and true is out there, do not be deceived by the luxuries of this world, and the fleeting pleasure of sin. Come to the light of God, being righteousness, truth, love, and life. God loved you, Jesus Loved you, and now it is time for you to love them too. John 3:16, Galatians 3:26, Romans 10:9 (Jesus Christ is coming soon! Prophecies are being fulfilled! Don't be left behind! Accept Jesus Christ as your Lord and Savior now while you still can for afterward comes the second death, eternal damnation, death, torment, suffering, hopelessness etc!)
@Called2Lov3Pod
@Called2Lov3Pod Год назад
I’m agreement
@Called2Lov3Pod
@Called2Lov3Pod Год назад
Facts about the hookup culture
@Katrica670
@Katrica670 Год назад
Congrats @Hey Miss Jackson! I remember you from RU-vid about last year or so! I am wishing you success in your sister friend desire! ❤
@Jade-if8wz
@Jade-if8wz Год назад
I feel this way and I’m 19 and my friends literally tease me for not being a hoe and going out and partying and I’m genuinely proud of respecting myself and waiting for when it’s right and doing me until god gives me the right man. I LOVE this video and def will rewatch often bae to help me on my journey ❤
@liltee5791
@liltee5791 Год назад
Keep it up. You're doing good 🧡
@Jade-if8wz
@Jade-if8wz Год назад
@@liltee5791 thank u gorge💞
@sushi3784
@sushi3784 Год назад
reminded me that I'm not the only person who has this mindset.🫶🏼
@konstantinatzo
@konstantinatzo Год назад
same girl💞keep evolving
@kizumekojilee2255
@kizumekojilee2255 Год назад
21 here and trust me, not being like everybody else is empowering.
@Andrea_k86
@Andrea_k86 Год назад
Preach it girl! I'm almost 40 years old & everything your saying is true! Stop people pleasing, judging others, & not taking care of yourself mentally & physically. Life is all about what you put out. Always aim to be your best self.💗
@zeekaokafor6528
@zeekaokafor6528 Год назад
U r so right babe
@eliciagoguen
@eliciagoguen Год назад
😍😍😍
@terryscoffer
@terryscoffer Год назад
I could not agree more
@LLuna-hw2fv
@LLuna-hw2fv Год назад
I find it amazing how she’s so self aware at that age. I feel at that age (27) i was in such an unhappy relationship & knew I needed to make a change and I always felt how she’s explaining but never did the follow through bc I felt I needed to be social and party and be like other 20 something’s were doing. It was a roller coaster ride of emotions lol I’m glad i went thru it bc everyone has their own journey. Everything you have said is correct. & it’s a realization most go through when they become self aware. I’m in my early 30s and I never felt so self aware and confident. So open mentally to just worry about myself and grow. I have spent the most time on my own now. I purposely don’t want to go out to be at peace. & the fact that you’re doing it in your 20s you’re ahead of the game 👏 ❤ good job! & happy belated 🎉
@eliciagoguen
@eliciagoguen Год назад
@@LLuna-hw2fv thank you so much for the love and honesty I’m soooo proud of you ❤️ you’re right! We all have our own journey and it warms my heart that you have so much compassion and love towards yourself 🥰
@cheyenne_ucisd
@cheyenne_ucisd Год назад
I'm 29 right now, and I totally resonate with this video. It's been a ride. I have gotten married, and I am now going through a divorce. I've had much, and I've lost it all. Rock bottom is the foundation upon which I am re-building my life. It takes time (and self-reflection). There's been lots of heartbreak. But as cliché as it sounds, the heartbreak does indeed break you open. I have learned so much about myself, and my desires, and my flaws. I am mature in some aspects, and a wounded child in others. I continue to grow, and it's a privilege to learn about myself in this capacity. There have been many mistakes I've made that I wish I could undo, but life has brought me here to this point in time, to this place. Just as you mentioned, we are all on our own journeys, and though challenging, it is a gift - to be able to witness one's own strength, especially in softness. Enjoyed your video very much. Many blessings to you. (Happy belated birthday, btw!)
@eliciagoguen
@eliciagoguen Год назад
So proud of you, wow ❤️ sending you so much love ❤️
@Passion84GodAlways
@Passion84GodAlways Год назад
🫂🙏🏾
@marissapeters8975
@marissapeters8975 Год назад
You've got this Cheyenne! I got divorced when I was 24 years old and lost everything as well. That was 2.5 years ago and life is not at all what I expected it to be....it's so much better. Continue to hold fast to yourself, desires, softness, and strength and you'll be amazed. Rooting for you
@BabyMango
@BabyMango Год назад
I’m 27 and just went thru a separation from my fiancé. We ended up working it out, but wow did I come out of it TRAUMATIZED lol. Been rebuilding myself and learning more things about myself every day.. I’m now looking at it as a blessing. Hope you are good, sis !
@Passion84GodAlways
@Passion84GodAlways Год назад
@@BabyMango 🫂🙏🏾
@lillyandtheghosts3597
@lillyandtheghosts3597 Год назад
Also, the greatest sex you will have, is with someone u trust and are in love with. I never believed this until I fell in love. I’m 38 and just learning this. Keep doing you girl ur doing amazing
@leafybliss3639
@leafybliss3639 Год назад
It's different for everyone, I am glad you could find yours!
@BabyCakes713
@BabyCakes713 2 года назад
This is real. I also wouldn’t acknowledge all my accomplishments. I too would feel I’m not worthy. It’s crazy, why would hate on yourself right?! I’m proud of all that I have done and I know I have much more to do.
@eliciagoguen
@eliciagoguen 2 года назад
PROUD OF YOU ❤❤
@1CT1
@1CT1 Год назад
Do you want eternal life? Do you wish to end sorrow and depression in your life? Look no further. Jesus is the answer. Accept Jesus Christ as your Lord and Savior and you will have eternal life and be saved. The evidence that the bible is real and true is out there, do not be deceived by the luxuries of this world, and the fleeting pleasure of sin. Come to the light of God, being righteousness, truth, love, and life. God loved you, Jesus Loved you, and now it is time for you to love them too. John 3:16, Galatians 3:26, Romans 10:9 (Jesus Christ is coming soon! Prophecies are being fulfilled! Don't be left behind! Accept Jesus Christ as your Lord and Savior now while you still can for afterward comes the second death, eternal damnation, death, torment, suffering, hopelessness etc!)
@wolfiesasha887
@wolfiesasha887 Год назад
My therapist told me at one of our appointment that even if i would be the president of a country i wouldn't feel good enough..
@BabyCakes713
@BabyCakes713 Год назад
@@wolfiesasha887 and that’s the mentality we need to stop! We’re great. We’re better than that
@wolfiesasha887
@wolfiesasha887 Год назад
@@BabyCakes713 indeed!
@ericaholmes3917
@ericaholmes3917 Год назад
I'm 25 and ngl...my life is kind of a mess. I take full responsibility and am doing everything I can to take control and improve both my life and my inner spirit, but I really hope I end up like you by the time I'm 27
@eliciagoguen
@eliciagoguen Год назад
Honestly, take the time line off of this, I promise you’ll feel better. Focus on what you’ve done so far to improve your life, and continue on that path. That’s literally ALL that matters. It’s absolutely amazing to have goals and look up to others (which I’m not dismissing) BUT please don’t be so hard on yourself for feeling like your life is a mess. You got this!!! Keep going ❤️
@ericaholmes3917
@ericaholmes3917 Год назад
@@eliciagoguen Thank you so much. I will do just that ❤️ Your response really meant a lot to me, so thanks again.
@cocoa8198
@cocoa8198 Год назад
You can do it! ❤
@anishkasharan9952
@anishkasharan9952 Год назад
i'd also add, sometimes the best thing you can do is frgive yourself for not knowing better and then when you do just start making smaller changes towards the person you want to be and eventually you will feel better about whatever it was that broke your heart. As also someone who is turning 25 next month, and kinda getting out and leaving behind a messy situation and then the extreme spiral that followed, i can almost say there's something so humbling about it, its almost freeing. enjoy being this person you are now, cuz she's so strong to break free!!
@sofiachavez8408
@sofiachavez8408 Год назад
PLEASEEEE make a video on outgrowing friendships & not being on that same energy level anymore & how to go about it 🥲💕😫
@estherbabatunde9955
@estherbabatunde9955 Год назад
I second this 💥
@marilynmonraex
@marilynmonraex Год назад
I’m 24 and had a lot of changes in my life recently and this is really hitting home! I need to take responsibility and stop people pleasing
@nadiahudson7370
@nadiahudson7370 Год назад
Thank you. I needed to hear the sister hood part. My unhealthy relationship with my mom has always lead to unhealthy friendships with other women; that contributed to even more feelings of distrust towards women in my life. I have never opened up to sisterhood and it’s worth a shot with the right women.
@katieodonnell2158
@katieodonnell2158 Год назад
I feel this deeply. Sending you love sister
@yzma6142
@yzma6142 Год назад
Feel this SO deeply. My mom always encouraged me to end friendships even though she was more toxic than any friend I’ve had.
@thewarrioroflight2925
@thewarrioroflight2925 Год назад
WHY DO YOU TALK LIKE A KARDASHIAN? YOU ARE ABOUT TO HIT THE WALL... YOUR EYES ARE TOO BIG... AND YOU ARE BEHAVING LIKE A TEENAGER... LEARN HOW TO COOK... YOU WOMAN... WATCH MORE SNEAKO AND ANDREW TATE... SCORPIO QUEEN... NO MAN WILL WANT YOU WITH THAT MASCULINE ENERGY OR BEING NARCISSISTIC... BLACK KYLIE JENNER.. BY THE WAY I'M GAY... THANKS TO WOMAN LIKE YOU... NOW I EAT A LOT OF YOUR BROTHERS...
@nataliesoutlet
@nataliesoutlet Год назад
So happy this was recommended. Loved! New subbie :)
@eliciagoguen
@eliciagoguen Год назад
aww thank you so much 😍
@mvuyiso_buyana
@mvuyiso_buyana Год назад
Same i love her!
@faithrrachael
@faithrrachael Год назад
Same here! I was like “ohp! What’s this 🙇🏻‍♀️”
@carolinevinke5000
@carolinevinke5000 Год назад
Preach girl! Life is truly too short to be insecure, bitter, and not living for things that are important to you. Fantastic video!
@eliciagoguen
@eliciagoguen Год назад
Yes yes yes🥰🥰🥰
@ladyfaye
@ladyfaye 9 месяцев назад
The fact that life just gets better as we get older is something I’m also realizing this year (I’m 27 too❤) we can just keep healing wounds and becoming the women we were meant to be. I used to feel like getting older meant I would lose all of these opportunities and stop living life but it’s literally the opposite.
@sophiaisabelle01
@sophiaisabelle01 2 года назад
Your statements are just straight up impactful and inspiring to a lot of other women. We wish you the best in life. All the blessings to you and your channel.
@eliciagoguen
@eliciagoguen 2 года назад
wow thank you soooo much!!
@1CT1
@1CT1 Год назад
Do you want eternal life? Do you wish to end sorrow and depression in your life? Look no further. Jesus is the answer. Accept Jesus Christ as your Lord and Savior and you will have eternal life and be saved. The evidence that the bible is real and true is out there, do not be deceived by the luxuries of this world, and the fleeting pleasure of sin. Come to the light of God, being righteousness, truth, love, and life. God loved you, Jesus Loved you, and now it is time for you to love them too. John 3:16, Galatians 3:26, Romans 10:9 (Jesus Christ is coming soon! Prophecies are being fulfilled! Don't be left behind! Accept Jesus Christ as your Lord and Savior now while you still can for afterward comes the second death, eternal damnation, death, torment, suffering, hopelessness etc!)
@1984watchr
@1984watchr Год назад
Congrats on all of this wisdom~ I am 38 and I didn't start to reflect on this level until I was over 30. You are ahead of the game and it's so wonderful!
@vanessadial9383
@vanessadial9383 Год назад
Just turned 30 and started therapy and however I found this video and reading all your comments was definitely a God send. Thank you all for being so open and honest~ healing vibes❤
@Lilsweetings
@Lilsweetings Год назад
I turned 26 this year and have been healing from a break up / also sworn off hook up culture because it made me feel so crappy afterward. I’ve taken therapy seriously and am working out more routinely/learning how to REST because I’m always always on. Getting sunshine and listening to my body has saved me in so many ways. Thank you for validating this
@WinyMary
@WinyMary Год назад
What you said about the reaction thing is so important!! I have had ppl try to get a reaction and I started just staying quiet and humble and not reacting and just removing myself from these situation. I am at peace while they are still begging for a reaction. I am happy and healthy and I will continue to elevate myself.
@deeptiprabhu2136
@deeptiprabhu2136 Год назад
I think I might have manifested this. I needed this, thank you. On my journey to become the woman of my dreams, thank you.
@britneyshinault
@britneyshinault Год назад
I just want to let you know that women like you truly guide your younger audience. You feel like the older & wiser sister that we never got to experience 💕
@Sevenofseven27
@Sevenofseven27 Год назад
This video came at perfect timing! I’ll be 22 in a few days and starting this self love journey has been a lot and setting boundaries was never something that was easy for me but I’ve started calling my energy back and taking my power back and it feels damn good! Thank you for your wise words ❤
@1CT1
@1CT1 Год назад
Do you want eternal life? Do you wish to end sorrow and depression in your life? Look no further. Jesus is the answer. Accept Jesus Christ as your Lord and Savior and you will have eternal life and be saved. The evidence that the bible is real and true is out there, do not be deceived by the luxuries of this world, and the fleeting pleasure of sin. Come to the light of God, being righteousness, truth, love, and life. God loved you, Jesus Loved you, and now it is time for you to love them too. John 3:16, Galatians 3:26, Romans 10:9 (Jesus Christ is coming soon! Prophecies are being fulfilled! Don't be left behind! Accept Jesus Christ as your Lord and Savior now while you still can for afterward comes the second death, eternal damnation, death, torment, suffering, hopelessness etc!)
@eliciagoguen
@eliciagoguen Год назад
So proud to hear this ❤️
@nickydaley345
@nickydaley345 Год назад
I love this video, i'll be 27 next month and I also feel the transition from girlhood to womanhood. I'm actually so excited for my 30s.
@phresho32
@phresho32 Год назад
I definitely felt this wholeheartedly ❤ I’m 30 going into my 31st year and I have gone celibate and hookup culture is definitely dead to me
@katiemitchell6064
@katiemitchell6064 Год назад
YES every single one of these changes happened for me between 27 and 30! It's so thrilling to really step in to your power like that- thank you for sharing because this information is so VITAL!
@Aditi-jr9ys
@Aditi-jr9ys Год назад
Oh my god ! I swear on everything that exists I am so fucking grateful i found you , its like talking to my future self . HANDS DOWN . THANKYOU
@eliciagoguen
@eliciagoguen Год назад
Aww omg I LOVE YOU 🥹🥹
@tweedyb569
@tweedyb569 Год назад
good for you girly...I'm happy to see more young women embrace other women and being kinder to themselves and catering to their own needs so that they can be uplifting to the world...so good
@joseyjade
@joseyjade Год назад
Your message hits home for all ages , Im 19 and had to experience growing up quickly when I was younger and recently have been able to give myself grace in being myself . Although Coming into college I find myself threatened because many girls in my age group have not experienced a mentality of self love, authenticity and putting themselves first. I find my mind wondering thinking I have to do the same or Im not good enough. Going to be rewatching this for affirmations and subscribing for a humble reminder to find that grace again and work through confidence in my skin as a woman. ❤. so relieved I found this video !
@mandytiefen9913
@mandytiefen9913 Год назад
WHAT??? My birthday is November 5th. No wonder I always enjoy your content.
@unikavickers3820
@unikavickers3820 Год назад
Just turned 27 last October, ER nurse, single mom and finally stepping into abundant energy. No longer downplaying myself. NEW SUBBIE :)
@unikavickers3820
@unikavickers3820 Месяц назад
One year ago and I’m rewatching this. I love you much! ❤
@jaydab9478
@jaydab9478 Год назад
I spent this entire video saying “PERIOD. as you should. That’s right girl” etc etc lmao I love this for you! Hope you had the time of your life babe!
@eliciagoguen
@eliciagoguen Год назад
Lmao omg you’re the best 😭😭❤️❤️❤️❤️
@toridelight
@toridelight Год назад
This was such a good video! I'm turning 22 in less than a month and I may be more of a girl than a woman to many people, but I agree with literally everything that you said in this video. This felt like older sister advice, THANK YOU!!
@ria8894
@ria8894 Год назад
yes yes yes. I am feeling like this is a new chapter for me. Stepping into womanhood. There's qualities that I admired in other women-idols but truly it is things that are reflections of me as well. In the past I wouldnt allow myself to do all that, to hype myself up, to dress how i feel most confident, to step into my dark femininity and eventually do all that I've been wanting to do because i didnt value my self and my needs enough to do so earlier. But the little girl in me is proud I can step into these qualities and behave the way the woman that I admire, the woman that I am becoming.
@amelieu2734
@amelieu2734 Год назад
Watching this before the year 2022 ends. Coming from a breakup really made me feel lost and tempted to go back to toxic old habits when I am single. Thanks so much for being here and I am so glad I came upon your channel. Hoping to a better year with a stronger feminine self 🎉
@landa3121
@landa3121 Год назад
Omg! I have experienced this! I never understood why "friends" get mad when you don't want to "turn up" let me do me...I have lost many "friendships" because they wanted me to be carbon copies of them
@love184em
@love184em Год назад
I'm 36 yrs old. This is golden 💛. I've learned a few things.
@eliciagoguen
@eliciagoguen Год назад
I’m so happy to hear ❤
@Mindfulmaniii
@Mindfulmaniii Год назад
I'm 29 and definitely loved this video girl. I'm feeling so motivated recently on a holistic especially self care happy evolving level. I would love to join a Girl Group 😉 Thanks for the content!!
@DFEARue
@DFEARue Год назад
omg! yes! I would love to join a girl group. This journey is rough. There is so much I want to achieve and f feel that T don't have that many friends or any at all on that level. it's almost as if I've outgrown them.
@IAmJocelynAnn
@IAmJocelynAnn Год назад
Oh my god. Everything that you mentioned, I’ve been realizing little by little this last year. I thought I was noticing these things for no reason but I realize it’s me stepping into my womanhood! I love all that you said!
@dionnejones3927
@dionnejones3927 Год назад
I am so proud of you learning this at a young age! I’m 45 and this is perfect advice, the same things i tell younger women ❤
@fabersoul
@fabersoul 2 года назад
i just turned 28 on the 4th, very interesting to see someone else's perspective on getting older. I saw this clip of john travolta, hes in his 60s but said in his head time still feels like hes still that same 21 year old. sometimes i still feel like im that 12 year old playing video games, dunno about you but i guess i can relate to him in that sense. time is strange right?
@soleil5401
@soleil5401 Год назад
omg I feel like the same. I am 28 and I love teenie and kids movies, I sometimes love playing board games and video games. but on the other side I love to dress classic and chic and I love fashion and interior 😅 I think every person has two different sides.
@happygitana
@happygitana Год назад
Thrilled your video came up for me. I am about 20yrs your elder feeling proud mom feelings. GOOD FOR YOU! This is so great to hear and see. Unfortunately, so many woman don't experience the awakening you are, even into their 30s, 40s. It is not age that evolves you, it's connecting with self. Sending this to my 20yo,🤞🏾hoping she watches and something you say creates the spark for her (love you mushy). Keep glowing lovely 💙
@eliciagoguen
@eliciagoguen Год назад
Thank you so much 🥹❤️❤️
@Maryah2.0
@Maryah2.0 Год назад
New here. Thank you for this video. I currently find myself in isolation mode. Change my number, change social media name, detach and focus on myself because I have a lot of people around me who only deal with me because of what I can do for them and how fast. I really couldn’t think of anybody outside of my kids who really caress but I can count on both hands who’ve I came through for with money , with support, with anything! I’m tired…
@mitchellskosana6289
@mitchellskosana6289 Год назад
Remember not to isoate yourself from experiences Detaching yourself is great but true detachment is about allowing yourself to experiences situations and not letting them consume or own you. Not saying you should condone toxic behaviour.
@Maryah2.0
@Maryah2.0 Год назад
@@mitchellskosana6289 how do you detach instead of isolating? Because it’s so hard for me to separate the two and also thank you for taking the time for even give me a different perspective. I’m just trying to grow and anything that’ll help me grow mentally and emotionally, I’m down for ❤️
@jas_defbar
@jas_defbar Год назад
This came up in my recommended and of course I clicked because hello I also am working on becoming the woman of my dreams but THEN you said you’re a Scorpio turning 27 and bish me toooo 🍾🥂 everything you mentioned really resonated & I love the gentle but direct delivery of your message!
@mackenziemarie.
@mackenziemarie. Год назад
I saw the title and said yessss
@eliciagoguen
@eliciagoguen Год назад
😍😍😍
@chelseaxoxo784
@chelseaxoxo784 Год назад
I used to be the woman of my dreams; feminine, a goal getter and then I fell into a deep depression. I know I have time as I'm only 19 but gosh this video really came at the perfect time because I've been trying to get back into that rhythm.
@eliciagoguen
@eliciagoguen Год назад
You got this babe❤️
@normalgirl1093
@normalgirl1093 Год назад
Keep intrusive thoughts in check and be your biggest cheerleader! Flip the negative script, u got it boo! I’m in the same boat. Depression is such a hard, deep, and silent battle. I really want change as well. But reading your comment, and me coming to the video at a similar point in my life as u, gave me a boost. We got this, keep trying to be our best every day, and giving ourselves grace 🤍
@Meg-A-Saurus
@Meg-A-Saurus Год назад
I know being 19 legally makes you an adult, but your life hasn't really even began yet. I didn't finally even feel like I was an adult until around 28, and that's because you gain your full cognitive abilities that you definitely do NOT have at 19. Now at 34, I just have began to feel like a real woman, within the past few years. You have all the time in the world to be the woman you want to be, take your time.
@chelseaxoxo784
@chelseaxoxo784 Год назад
@@eliciagoguen ♥️yesss
@chelseaxoxo784
@chelseaxoxo784 Год назад
@@normalgirl1093 We've got this indeed ♥️♥️♥️
@celial.9425
@celial.9425 Год назад
This video sums up what I’ve told myself for the last 8+ months ✨ I’m very grateful right now. I’m new on this channel and excited for the rest ☺️
@Katrica670
@Katrica670 Год назад
@8:28-8:36 yeah a small few times i said, "i'm ...", "i'm filled with so much great luck!" and this "man" who liked me for the last 9 years said, "let people tell you those stuff you should not be saying those stuff." Aka the only compliment about anyone should be the one they get from others! Also, that shows me that what ''ppl' "think" or say is the only important thing! 😱🙄
@lena.x1853
@lena.x1853 Год назад
Omg girl I felt like you . I think that’s the transition we go through from being a girl to be a woman and priorities ourselves
@_zzajmai
@_zzajmai Год назад
Wow!!! Just turned 21 (we share the same birthday), and honestly so happy I stumbled on this video, thank you💕
@sophiatv8031
@sophiatv8031 Год назад
I’m so thankful for finding your channel. Currently I’m in 25 and felt so lost in life and now I’m on my healing journey (mentally and also physically; I lost a lot of weight, super proud of that 😅). I constantly tried to be perfect and please everyone. What I struggled most with was that I compared my life to everyone else’s, I got mad at myself because I wasn’t at the same point in life like them. My friends and people my age start getting married and having kids or travel the whole world and that made me sad and disappointed in myself. I deleted Instagram and it was the best decision ever. I need to focus on myself, my healing journey and creating the life I want to live. I love your videos, please keep going because I feel like I have a big sister now that helps me becoming the best version, the best woman I can be. ❤
@eliciagoguen
@eliciagoguen Год назад
Omg babe.. my heart ❤️ I’m here for you!!! Not going anywhere, we’re all in this together ❤️
@sophiatv8031
@sophiatv8031 Год назад
@@eliciagoguen Thank you ❤️ I cannot wait what the future holds for all of us 🥰
@manilaparis3753
@manilaparis3753 Год назад
This video resonated with me so well, as I just turned 27 this month too (Scorpio sis:)) I’ve really felt this year that I have to put on my “big girl pants” and level myself up in ways that have been different from before! So glad I came across your channel and looking forward to seeing more content from you!
@perfectgal12
@perfectgal12 Год назад
I turned 27 last year and I LOVE becoming my own woman, i feel like i'm entering my feminity era
@fireponyyy
@fireponyyy Год назад
I’m 24 and I’m in a moody place right now, not my most open self. I wasn’t sure if I was going to appreciate another “self journey” video, let alone make it through the whole thing. However, I’m half way through and thoroughly enjoying this sisterly energy, kind of heart heart moment about what it takes to get through to your best self. Acknowledge and move passed some of those little personal obstacles that we put up. I love that this isn’t like straight up advice and encouragement, it’s just a report on the facts of your life lessons as a young woman and it completely resonates. Feeling understood and also learning some things. Thank you💕
@eliciagoguen
@eliciagoguen Год назад
Awww this makes my heart so warm 🥰❤️
@eatingbaklava
@eatingbaklava 2 года назад
you’re like the big sister I never had!!! Love your videos - happy birthday! 🫶🏼🤍
@eliciagoguen
@eliciagoguen 2 года назад
Awww this warms my heart 🥹 thank you babe ❤️
@babyprincess888
@babyprincess888 Год назад
Im 20 i felt everything you said thx so much for helping me understand myself better
@queenofpunt
@queenofpunt Год назад
You're only 20 almost still a teen
@queenofpunt
@queenofpunt Год назад
You can't really relate to us mid/late 20's girls if you're barely in your 20's anyways
@mariahsisneros7572
@mariahsisneros7572 Год назад
your skin is absolutely beautiful number 1; number , im 31 and i appreciate all of your wisdom. when i was 27, i was in such a toxic, unhealthy, abusive relationship AND pregnant with my daughter. now that im trying to heal from my trauma from that relationship, i feel like im on the right path in finding myself, identity, authenticity and femininity.
@eliciagoguen
@eliciagoguen Год назад
Thank you so much and I’m SO proud of you ❤️❤️
@marrietakisaka
@marrietakisaka Год назад
Turning 26 tomorrow (2 Jan 2023) ... Please you're right,late twenties starts with mind reflection then the blessings overflow ,then genuine adulthood friends...nice nice video. Subscribed!
@JNYC212
@JNYC212 Год назад
Your honesty is refreshing 🙌🏽 You're on the right path 😎
@victoriagachihi7424
@victoriagachihi7424 Год назад
Wow! Just wow! I'll be turning 23 soon and I'm in awe👏🌹
@Starr024
@Starr024 Год назад
love this! I just turned 27 last month and I relate to so much you said!
@jordanskyfinding7767
@jordanskyfinding7767 Год назад
Just found your account and I am obsessed. I will be watching a video every morning when I’m getting ready. You hold so much value in your words and who you are, so much positive and balanced energy! I’m so excited to dive into your content and to face some truthssss🙏🏻
@nikko4396
@nikko4396 Год назад
As a 16y im trying to be on my best personality and mindset and trying to reach the 'best version of myself', you are amazing!
@eliciagoguen
@eliciagoguen Год назад
I’m so proud of you omg
@petramalaika4995
@petramalaika4995 2 года назад
This video hits different. You so inspiring and you energy is THE shit! Thank you!!
@eliciagoguen
@eliciagoguen 2 года назад
My heart!!!🥹 thank you so much ❤️
@miaa8644
@miaa8644 2 года назад
Discovered your channel a few days ago n I just wanted to thank you for the authenticity and truth you bring to this platform regarding very real issues for women today, that are often avoided in the name of controversy or discomfort. So thankyou for sharing your wisdom it is so very appreciated 😇😇
@eliciagoguen
@eliciagoguen 2 года назад
Awww wow!!! Thank you so much, you’re so welcome 🥰 thank you for watching !!!
@Katrica670
@Katrica670 Год назад
@10:57-11:07 yes i know what you are talking about! i started doing this too and it could seem like repressing and suppressing feelings, but what i found is that when my brain would stay heavily focused on the issues, then i would stay stagnate, wasting sooo much time in my life, and still have my emotions not resolved aka stagnant. repressed, and suppressed! This new way has been the growth culprit for me! ❤😍😊i also call it re-focus, my sister calls it that too, and now i have a friend that loves to say, 'Drown out the noise!' "If you stop paying attention to the circus it stops performing!'🤣🤣🤣🤣😂
@ricardorides
@ricardorides Год назад
Greetings! Lol i was watching when u mentioned about men watching your vids. 😅 It’s nice and powerful and informative. Glad to see women not looking for validation. Self love is the best thing ever! Cheers from new zealand
@Levitarian
@Levitarian Год назад
Damn, that's literally the best video I've seen in my entire life! Thank you soooo much for sharing these!
@eliciagoguen
@eliciagoguen Год назад
Omg thank you babe!!!
@Mychannel76707
@Mychannel76707 Год назад
This is an amazing video. You hit so many important points. Especially about women sisterhood and not to compete, but to connect, share, uplift each other and learn.
@puffypuff9946
@puffypuff9946 Год назад
I found this while on my way to work. I knew it was time to grow up when I started crying..thank you for this video. I'm 25 I have no idea where I'm at right now but I'm ready to just focus. I totally agree on the inner child part. My negativuty slows me down. I deserve a good life
@eliciagoguen
@eliciagoguen Год назад
Aww omg 🥺 I’m so proud of you, you got this ❤️
@emilyvbr1878
@emilyvbr1878 Год назад
This is so cool because I'm 29 and I've been feeling a similar way over the past year
@uci1111
@uci1111 Год назад
7:07 is true!! when i see a youtuber vlogging in public i’m amazed❤
@zentranquality
@zentranquality Год назад
Uhhh nooo way WE'RE BDAY TWINZZ NOV 5TH BBYYYY. I came across your channel in time of self doubt and brink of spiraling. Thank you for providing a gentle + welcoming home online. I feel so much ease and love watching you
@Orion-ow1op
@Orion-ow1op Год назад
Girl I’m November 4th💛 Scorpio energy
@juicyyasiaa
@juicyyasiaa Год назад
This girl spittin!! Im only twenty but so much has happened to me i the last year and i feel Im in a new era. Im not that woman yet but I’m glad she gave me this advice so i know I’m going on the right path
@mompreneurlife
@mompreneurlife Год назад
❤My mom always said "you look good. now get away from that mirror and go make something of yourself." this is a great video and nice message. by the way, happy 27th!❤
@eliciagoguen
@eliciagoguen Год назад
So sweet 🥹 thank you so much ❤️
@WildFlower_Empress
@WildFlower_Empress Год назад
I am also a 27 year old Scorpio born November 5th ! How awesome . Thank you for such relatable advice . Following ❤
@cmkw9273
@cmkw9273 Год назад
This resonated so much. Appreciated the transparency and the articulation of your words. Needed this moving into the new year. Sending love ♥
@AlohaSissi
@AlohaSissi Год назад
I am 35 and I’m better than ever ❤ thank you for sharing this.
@micahakikomarie
@micahakikomarie Год назад
I seen this right on time, I’m not where I want to b but I feel like God has blessed me through all my challenges. There’s nothing I need to b complaining abt right now there’s always someone out there who has it harder. You spoke beautifully. My bdays nxt month cheers to 28🍸
@simskiara
@simskiara Год назад
Happy birthday fellow Scorpio ♏️! I love your tips and they helped me get through shadow work.
@eliciagoguen
@eliciagoguen Год назад
I’m so glad ❤ thank you lovely!
@anishkasharan9952
@anishkasharan9952 Год назад
it's 2023 and we as the world are raising each other. I love that for us, this is where the strength of socia media lies, learning to human first and then heling everyone else out.
@AizaV333
@AizaV333 Год назад
I love that you’re sharing this information because I have worked on myself these past few years and I’ve implemented all these things myself but it’s good to share because you never know who it’s going to help especially a younger lady who just may be starting out in life and is being influenced by other people all these things are really important and I think it’s important also to do our own shadow work to know why we’re doing these things because we are all individuals, but these things will impact us positively regardless
@Kara-Ellie-Wellness
@Kara-Ellie-Wellness Месяц назад
As someone trying to create more content …the video/photos in public part really spoke to me! Thank you. I need this reminder! 🤍
@aliatianna888
@aliatianna888 Год назад
Soon as you said “Scorpio” I subbed 😍 SCORPIO GANG !! I love this video I’m 25 and learning so much. You are beautiful as hell btw 🖤
@eliciagoguen
@eliciagoguen Год назад
ITS A SISTERHOOD 😭😭 thank you so much babe!! So are you 😍
@gabrielle.j
@gabrielle.j Год назад
I love your maturity. You’re like the big sister I wish I had!! I just turned 24 on the 15, so hello fellow Scorpio queen! New subscriber here 😉
@eliciagoguen
@eliciagoguen Год назад
Awww happy belated babe 🥰 and thank you so much for being here ❤️
@regeniamonàe
@regeniamonàe Год назад
This was so real and transparent thank you so much for the honesty. As a young adult these topic of discussions are necessary.
@eliciagoguen
@eliciagoguen Год назад
You’re so welcome!!!
@Naisy77
@Naisy77 2 года назад
the fact that i have choices and options is all new to me ty for your advice love
@eliciagoguen
@eliciagoguen 2 года назад
You’re some welcome🥰
@MarinaVlogs967
@MarinaVlogs967 Год назад
Subscribe as soon as you said scorpio, I knew I felt your vibe
@eliciagoguen
@eliciagoguen Год назад
Omg love you 😭
@lunagregoria8827
@lunagregoria8827 Год назад
I also turned 27 years old this year and felt that change from girl to woman.
@onealiyah
@onealiyah Год назад
i’ve literally been in a transitional phase since i turned 28 and everything i’ve been going through/healing from i feel like is making me into the best version of me. i love how you express yourself, you are def an inspiration!❤
@Ladyday8508
@Ladyday8508 2 года назад
Thanks for this! Exactly what I needed to hear. Very inspirational and uplifting.
@eliciagoguen
@eliciagoguen 2 года назад
I'm so glad to hear this ☺
@freakilybean
@freakilybean Год назад
I was just laying in bed last night thinking when the hell will I mature 😢 I find myself being mad at myself for being childish I’m only 25 so I mean I got a lot of time and growth ahead of me. Something I don’t want to participate in is gossip. Or talking negatively of people that I don’t like that they do. And just stop being jealous. I feel I’ve come a long way with alot of other self journey. It’s a lot of commitment to really hold your self accountable. But I’m determined to outgrow the gossip and people who make me project my insecurities to others.
@caitlynmurphy1636
@caitlynmurphy1636 Год назад
God this was refreshing to watch. Rare to find women on youtube and Instagram that share my same values
@carabelle5729
@carabelle5729 Год назад
Self awareness and being true to yourself in a nutshell ! Go girl 🎉
@princiapierre7158
@princiapierre7158 Год назад
I just turned 29, Nov 6th, and I can so relate!
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