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I Feel Like I’m On The Edge Of Losing Everything 

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@jvarsall
@jvarsall 2 месяца назад
This is why I save 50% of my income. I lived through the great recession and lost my home and car. Never again.
@Kim-bv3xn
@Kim-bv3xn Месяц назад
saving is important❤
@roadrunner9622
@roadrunner9622 Месяц назад
I admire you for that.
@cutehumor
@cutehumor 2 месяца назад
Dave should have told her to deliver pizzas. If this was a man calling and no job for 8 months, he would yelled at him
@keepontruckin5862
@keepontruckin5862 2 месяца назад
Yup
@alinatamashevich3354
@alinatamashevich3354 2 месяца назад
Yup! Spot on
@hiteshadhikari
@hiteshadhikari 2 месяца назад
Yep, also shamed him for using unemployment Here too dave was like, she is amazing, her HUSBAND DUMPED HER (making him villain)
@Kbearthmover
@Kbearthmover 2 месяца назад
Yap but she is in the wealthy class with an over paying job. Normal rules are for Normal people.
@fabbz94
@fabbz94 2 месяца назад
I agree! Any guy who would call even not working 1 month he will rip you.
@miketheyunggod2534
@miketheyunggod2534 2 месяца назад
She made almost $2M in eight years and have nothing saved?
@Thesussysuscat
@Thesussysuscat 2 месяца назад
And gets child support
@siva47931
@siva47931 2 месяца назад
Who said she has nothing saved? She never mentioned her retirement accounts or equity in her house
@kensmart1976
@kensmart1976 2 месяца назад
Exactly what I was thinking.
@tonytoni1150
@tonytoni1150 2 месяца назад
Lots of trips to Target and Hobby Lobby 😂
@insure4cheap
@insure4cheap 2 месяца назад
@@siva47931because if she actually had money saved she wouldn’t need unemployment to pay her bills. Her story sounds like she was living high on the hog for a very long while and the divorce and lay off took her by surprise. The well went dry ma’am time to go back to work at the local bank 🏦 🤷🏾‍♂️✊🏾
@tkordik
@tkordik 2 месяца назад
If this was a single Father, this whole conversation would have been different: DELIVER PIZZAS! DRIVE UBER! SCRAPE GUM! Once again another double standard
@erikmarchese4290
@erikmarchese4290 2 месяца назад
@@tkordik More Ramsey simping I fear
@roadrunner9622
@roadrunner9622 Месяц назад
Also sell your car and eat rice & beans.
@hansonallie
@hansonallie Месяц назад
Right? I have a single father buddy who’s between jobs & DOES drive Uber; definitely not as magically lucrative as Dave & crew seem to think!🤔
@youtubeguy4539
@youtubeguy4539 Месяц назад
Dave takes it so easy on women.
@MathiasJarlson
@MathiasJarlson 2 месяца назад
$2500 monthly expenses in Dallas. Then complains she’s broke after making 100x that in one year. Shut up lady!!!
@TLA123y6f
@TLA123y6f 2 месяца назад
My thoughts exactly
@DEE-o4v
@DEE-o4v 2 месяца назад
Actually your comment is slightly incorrect....it should be "Shut the fu..k up LADY".......you forgot a major word....
@hollyb6885
@hollyb6885 2 месяца назад
Didn’t she save anything while she was making the big money??
@richprokop5155
@richprokop5155 2 месяца назад
VERY SIMPLE HERE... SHE SPENDS WHAT SHE MAKES... GET A JOB...
@MathiasJarlson
@MathiasJarlson 2 месяца назад
@@richprokop5155 thanks doofus
@VioletEvans-yt2fd
@VioletEvans-yt2fd 2 месяца назад
If a man gave Dave these excuses, he would have flipped out and yelled at him to go get a job at taco bell and drive an Uber and do door dash.
@SamuelTong-y5m
@SamuelTong-y5m 2 месяца назад
Wait a minute. Why make the assumption the husband dumped her? Stats already shows women initiate 70% of the divorce. With college degree and high income, women initiate 90%.
@EverElia
@EverElia 2 месяца назад
I was thinking the same thing. Conclusions are being jumped to without having all the information.
@amireallythatgrumpy6508
@amireallythatgrumpy6508 2 месяца назад
Why get hung up on a detail that is barely relevant?
@lav7161
@lav7161 2 месяца назад
Yeah, that was a huge assumption feom Dave. But if you want to get deep on WHY those numbers are so high with women initiating the divorce, we have to get deep into the reasoning. Simple answer, us guys can't control the other head, leading to relationship problems.
@greg15911
@greg15911 2 месяца назад
​@@lav7161 Women need to satisfy the head
@SamuelTong-y5m
@SamuelTong-y5m 2 месяца назад
@@lav7161 Not true. Younger divorced couples, women have higher affair rate. At around 40's which is when most couple get divorced, the affair rate is similar (15% for men and 11% for women). Passed 50 is when we see higher percentage between the gender. Stats are from institute of family studies. So don't just blame the men. In the mating market, both gender peak at a different time.
@BrianW211
@BrianW211 2 месяца назад
She was divorced 3 years ago. Moving may not even be an option depending on the terms of the divorce.
@barnabusdoyle4930
@barnabusdoyle4930 2 месяца назад
That would depend on the child custody order, the divorce decree would have nothing to do with it. But if the father is in the picture and area, there is absolutely no way she is going to be able to leave the Dallas area with the kids without a big court fight that she would likely lose.
@djpuplex
@djpuplex 2 месяца назад
Especially if the dad was paying $3500 a month in child support.
@gtileo
@gtileo 2 месяца назад
@@djpuplex 3500 between unemployment insurance and a little bit of child support, likely the child support is $1000 a month if that
@djpuplex
@djpuplex 2 месяца назад
@@gtileo Probably higher due to income bracket women seldom marry outside their economic level unless that's why they divorced.
@UsernameUnkwn21
@UsernameUnkwn21 2 месяца назад
Nope, she literally said she didn't WANT to move not that she couldn't bc she didn't want to disrupt her kids from their schools.. bullshit excuse
@Mr.Boring_Man
@Mr.Boring_Man 2 месяца назад
Nearly 250K a year plus child support, which means she fought for full custody (her choice). She's just been financially irresponsible. No savings but all it takes is $4k a month to get by??? Someone is still in denial. Luckily she wasn't a guy because Dave would have bit her head off and being a fit parent would be in question.
@DiTanner1
@DiTanner1 2 месяца назад
My daughter got laid off from her accounts payable position 2 months ago, right when she was due for a raise. Single mom. Very small severance. Everybody was so sad she got laid off. She figured 3 weeks tops, she'd have another job. She had applied to over 200 jobs. Beautiful resume, and nothing. She'd get emails saying they are no longer keeping the position etc. Never spoke to a human. Even called some of the companies. 2 weeks ago her former boss, who'd been staying in touch, asked if she'd found anything yet. She barely missed eviction at that point. A buyer position opened and even though they are in a hiring freeze, needed that position filled, and the CEO and a few other managers, all said they wanted her back. They would teach her. She got hired at less than a dollar more/hr than she was making and starts on sept 9th. Rent is due Monday and it's going to be a rough time again, but at least she got a job.... still with nothing in the applications elsewhere. Job market is really weird for sure right now.
@kendrapratt2098
@kendrapratt2098 2 месяца назад
Happy for her!
@thebigg3416
@thebigg3416 2 месяца назад
And AP Position doesn't make that much either based on my experience. Most companies will keep their posting up to collect candidates even though they don't currently need it.
@thewheeldeal8439
@thewheeldeal8439 2 месяца назад
@@Primitive_Code someone woke up full of vitriol this morning.
@sarelloo
@sarelloo 2 месяца назад
Happy it's working out for her, but that's what the 3-6 month emergency fund is for. Sounds like she barely had one month saved if she was facing eviction after getting laid off only two months ago. A hardy lesson for us all to learn.
@TLA123y6f
@TLA123y6f 2 месяца назад
This is just one example that it's not just drugs, alcohol, mental illness why people can end up on the streets or living in their car. There's LOTS of ways someone can become homeless.
@johnh3819
@johnh3819 2 месяца назад
The white collar job market is horrible right now but everybody from the government to the media keeps denying this fact
@danielpicha630
@danielpicha630 2 месяца назад
That is redundant, they are the same entity.
@lombardo141
@lombardo141 2 месяца назад
They don’t deny anything, you just watch media that focuses on the problem. They cover it all the time. And even if they did what difference does it make 🤷‍♂️
@LyricalTampon
@LyricalTampon 2 месяца назад
It's not lol. I'm getting offers every week.
@Ja50nkAt
@Ja50nkAt 2 месяца назад
This is her own fault, she made 245k but should be living like she only makes 100k instead of doing nothing.
@suen5006
@suen5006 2 месяца назад
@@Ja50nkAt She is able to live on 2500 she said.
@Rodneyevolving
@Rodneyevolving 2 месяца назад
Something in the milk isnt clean. She made way too much money for 8 years, plus 3k per month in childsuport , she should've had a rrally nice saving account. Oh she was getting unemployment until a month ago... dont come here play victim manage your money better , she said her living expenses less than 3k
@GAFB1122
@GAFB1122 2 месяца назад
You don't listen well.
@Kbearthmover
@Kbearthmover 2 месяца назад
She was married she still spending like they making 1mil a year 🙄.
@Rodneyevolving
@Rodneyevolving 2 месяца назад
@@GAFB1122 what did I miss
@dt6750
@dt6750 2 месяца назад
sounds to me like she was misbehaving with $$$!
@sarelloo
@sarelloo 2 месяца назад
She either has no savings, and now that unemployment has run out she's got nothing. OR she's truly panicking and not seeing that she could do almost any white collar work and there's no reason she should "lose everything".
@restandrelaxation4039
@restandrelaxation4039 2 месяца назад
I over think losing my job situations way too much so I made a list of fall back ideas that I keep in my safe. It makes me feel more comfortable knowing I have contingency plans, and all of them would cover my bills and they’re all very realistic.
@scoobie8amg
@scoobie8amg 2 месяца назад
What are some ideas?
@sasukesuite1
@sasukesuite1 2 месяца назад
I wanted to stay close to my family in Virginia, but I decided to start by career by moving to New Mexico for a $75k job. Got an e-mail out of the blue for a $185k job in Colorado. That job ended up having another position open in Virginia and I moved back, still making $185k. My recruiter never would have found me had I stayed in Virginia because they were looking for people near Colorado specifically. Moving changed my life forever. I'd definitely move if i was her if I could make $300k somewhere else. There's a slim to no chance the friends the kids have today will be there forever.
@MrClassicmetal
@MrClassicmetal Месяц назад
And who says the kids have to move with her? Doesn't the father have anything to say about this?
@Yogastrong908
@Yogastrong908 2 месяца назад
Realistically she will probably need to take a salary cut. Moving isn’t an option.
@dwshank
@dwshank 2 месяца назад
Yes, this is the middle-age trap - your career gets you to a certain level, and then the economy churns and they find a cheaper option. I have a couple of friends in a similar situation, they've had to take pay cuts. Not massive, but they're coming to terms with the fact that they probably peaked salary wise a couple of years ago.
@mike-yo8qj
@mike-yo8qj 2 месяца назад
I absolutely agree. She's probably mid-40's if she's been in the area for 25 years. She's aged out of that industry if she hasn't found work in 8 months.
@stitchy_linn
@stitchy_linn 2 месяца назад
​@mike-yo8qj hth do you "age out" of the IT industry? You don't! She is her own worst enemy not wanting to move her kids out of their schools which is understandable. Yet you do what you need to do to maintain your family and keep it in tact. Stop being all wishy washy and do what needs to be done lady. Sorry not sorry.
@Shortballa11
@Shortballa11 2 месяца назад
Why are we assuming "the husband dumped her" and "she is an amazing lady"????
@AuschwitzMyPants
@AuschwitzMyPants 2 месяца назад
Because Dave is a major s1mp and always blames the man for relationship issues. Even though women initiate 8 out of 10 divorces (80%). It’s the women who are breaking up/destroying the families.
@MrClassicmetal
@MrClassicmetal Месяц назад
That's exactly what I was thinking. He's jumping to conclusions here. And also suggesting that she should move with the kids. As if the father is insignificant.
@Shortballa11
@Shortballa11 Месяц назад
@@MrClassicmetal exactly, crazy. Further dividing families
@youtubeguy4539
@youtubeguy4539 Месяц назад
Boomer Dave is insane at times. His daughter even mentions leaving Dallas totally forgetting about the relationship with the dad
@kasession
@kasession 2 месяца назад
She was making $240K, and she didn't have anything set aside for an emergency fund?
@aba1791
@aba1791 2 месяца назад
And she got unemployment for 7 months, prolly 60-70% of her income . Thats a ton.
@TLA123y6f
@TLA123y6f 2 месяца назад
My thoughts exactly
@lawrencefranck9417
@lawrencefranck9417 2 месяца назад
Probably why he left.
@AlorsonDanseX
@AlorsonDanseX 2 месяца назад
☠️ there's no such thing as *a ton* Illiterate one
@Gunitro
@Gunitro 2 месяца назад
I like how Dave immediately assumes the divorce was the dad’s fault in a country where women initiate a majority of the divorces. I also like how the dad pays child support but doesn’t get a say if the kids move farther away. Not only is the borrower slave to the lender, but responsibility without authority = slavery as well.
@MrClassicmetal
@MrClassicmetal Месяц назад
And he also advised her to consider moving _with the kids_ as if the dad is insignificant. 🤔
@scoobie8amg
@scoobie8amg 2 месяца назад
How do you make that much money and not have substantial savings?
@alinatamashevich3354
@alinatamashevich3354 2 месяца назад
Luxury cars/ Luxury vacations
@benallmark9671
@benallmark9671 2 месяца назад
Spoiling the children
@MrClassicmetal
@MrClassicmetal Месяц назад
Big house, cars, expensive restaurants, etc.
@mhodge0890
@mhodge0890 2 месяца назад
Simp Dave back at it again
@flea4061
@flea4061 2 месяца назад
My Dad's office closed. They wanted to relocate him back but he wouldn't move. We lost everything. And then ended back where he came from anyway.
@Jakeakatheone
@Jakeakatheone 2 месяца назад
3500 a month in child support and she cant make it work? Oh boo hoo
@elnoraabduqadir2297
@elnoraabduqadir2297 Месяц назад
I have teenager, and no child support and we spend 3200 a month including rent
@kelseyfhere
@kelseyfhere Месяц назад
She said that she was getting 3500 with unemployment and a little bit of child support. She is no longer getting unemployment, so she is getting significantly less than that now.
@marcosct86
@marcosct86 2 месяца назад
High income, she is looking for a Chad with a higher salary than hers. That's why she divorced her husband.
@MrClassicmetal
@MrClassicmetal Месяц назад
Chad is not interested in a serious relationship with a single mom.
@Uchihawallstreet
@Uchihawallstreet 2 месяца назад
7:00 “Her husband dumped her.”How does he know that? All she said was I got a divorce why is Dave blaming the ex husband? Did I miss something 😅😅
@thinkforyourself9334
@thinkforyourself9334 2 месяца назад
Nope. He is always assuming things.
@AuschwitzMyPants
@AuschwitzMyPants 2 месяца назад
Dave is a major s1mp and always blames the man for relationship issues even though women initiate 80% of divorces. It’s the women who are breaking up/destroying marriages/families.
@stevenmitchell9182
@stevenmitchell9182 2 месяца назад
Single mothers are his cash cow. He has to cater to them.
@rodeleon2875
@rodeleon2875 2 месяца назад
245k salary for 8 years and $3500 month for child support should equal a hell of a nice savings account. and dave throwing out 300k salary in charlotte or atlanta is delusional. 300k salaries are just not being thrown around willy nilly. she will be real lucky to pull down 150k in any of those markets. more like 75 these days. sometimes i just shake my head at these peoples "advice" but still here i am. lol.
@treasurethetime2463
@treasurethetime2463 2 месяца назад
Sometimes there is a disconnect between the normal market and the bumpy road market, particularly in IT, that many people outside of the space miss. It's like the people who say, "you can do anything with a law degree.". They mean well, but their advice may be from a different era or based on ignorance.
@Yogastrong908
@Yogastrong908 2 месяца назад
You’re right on everything but I think she was talking about 3500 for unemployment and child support, not just the child support.
@TwistIsFly
@TwistIsFly 2 месяца назад
M&A is the cream of the crop of the finance world. People start off in this industry making 150k+. There are absolutely jobs in Charolette and Atlanta that would pay M&A salaries of 300k+ Dave is not off point here. I work at a company that frequently buys other companies through M&A activities every year and those fees paid to those firms are outrageous. Edit: I should add that these jobs are usually only gain by being incredibly smart or knowing someone who can get you in. Interest rates have absolutely impacted the amount of activity. I know the company that I work for is usually operating on low debt so they have had more opportunity to buy other companies.
@rodeleon2875
@rodeleon2875 2 месяца назад
@@treasurethetime2463 exactly. i have lived both as an IT guy. going backwards 25% with no benefits in a bumpy road market and feeling lucky to get that. tech right now is entering into that bumpy road from what i see. thankfully i retired but lived through lots of roller coaster rides in the past 45 years.
@karenhardie1132
@karenhardie1132 2 месяца назад
The child support ends when they are 18 too. She will lose all of that.
@Talking.To.America
@Talking.To.America 2 месяца назад
Finding a job in a tough market, especially while trying to keep your family stable, is no small feat.
@alinatamashevich3354
@alinatamashevich3354 2 месяца назад
@johnSmith-uz8nl Go for it
@dnah02
@dnah02 2 месяца назад
When did she say her husband dumped her what if she is here because she asked for a divorce?
@kyungshim6483
@kyungshim6483 2 месяца назад
When an investment banker specializing in M&A calls Dave Ramsey for financial advice. Nough said ...
@anthonya2349
@anthonya2349 2 месяца назад
Excuse me? How did we get out of that "she lived her life for her husband and kids, the husband dumped her". No, really I want to know where he pulled that out of, so what's funny is I never saw him stand up to give him access to where I believe he got it.
@reesercliff
@reesercliff 2 месяца назад
@@anthonya2349 Dave always sides with the woman in divorces sadly
@KathleenMcNe
@KathleenMcNe 2 месяца назад
Dave pulled that tale out of his b*tt.
@pirate254
@pirate254 2 месяца назад
Reverse the genders and Dave tells this caller to stop being lazy and work 6 jobs
@TLA123y6f
@TLA123y6f 2 месяца назад
Dave sees and knows all...........didn't you know that?? His ego gets rather tiresome.
@ronaldlindeman6136
@ronaldlindeman6136 2 месяца назад
Mergers and Acquisitions. That is something that is going to change with the economy.
@poolmilethirty2859
@poolmilethirty2859 2 месяца назад
I totally agree with Ramsey. The kids will survive. Military families move all the time out of necessity to provide for their families. They don't have a choice, and the kids understand.
@terrywest4649
@terrywest4649 2 месяца назад
Kids are resilient and can adapt to new environments, find opportunity and move!!
@BruceCanaday-n9s
@BruceCanaday-n9s 2 месяца назад
Dave made quite a leap ‘her husband dumped her’.
@Truth0516
@Truth0516 26 дней назад
Definitely a cold response….
@melvinfisher643
@melvinfisher643 2 месяца назад
“Where did this lack of confidence come from?” It’s everywhere Dave Ramsey. Open eyes and look around. People are hurting. Unemployment is rising. The cost of everything is continuing to go up.
@whothou
@whothou 2 месяца назад
Listening to stats and news articles is just giving into fear mongering. Who cares about what others are going through? Do what you need to do to stay afloat and you'll realize how much control you had to begin with. Unless your making below poverty wage the price of eggs going up shouldn't impact you. If it is, then you were already living close to your limit to begin with.
@richardhands904
@richardhands904 2 месяца назад
unemployment is actually decreasing.
@Yogastrong908
@Yogastrong908 2 месяца назад
@@richardhands904real unemployment has been over 15% since 2008. Jobs paying what she was making are extremely hard to come by these days.
@alinatamashevich3354
@alinatamashevich3354 2 месяца назад
@@richardhands904 Nope, companies are laying off by the hundreds.
@alinatamashevich3354
@alinatamashevich3354 2 месяца назад
@@richardhands904 BuzzFeed, Lyft, Whole Foods and Deloitte all recently announced layoffs affecting thousands of US workers. They join a growing list of companies cutting back on their workforce this year
@momof2momof2
@momof2momof2 2 месяца назад
All that money smh she should have no money issues.
@napoleonbonaparte7204
@napoleonbonaparte7204 2 месяца назад
Could be Could be...But many people make big money 💰 and spend big money to end up with no money ...😢
@Shortballa11
@Shortballa11 2 месяца назад
8 months out of work would hurt most ppl
@DEE-o4v
@DEE-o4v 2 месяца назад
Exactly....IF any of us made that kind of money...for even a few years....we'd be RICH.
@nealfeatheringill2091
@nealfeatheringill2091 2 месяца назад
What a spoiled brat
@Ravetar101
@Ravetar101 2 месяца назад
imagine a man made this call
@TheGamer065.
@TheGamer065. 2 месяца назад
The job market is also terrible right now. I just had to move towns because I couldn't find any opportunities in my old town
@BigPictureYT
@BigPictureYT 2 месяца назад
What about dad? Is he in Dallas? Could the kids live with him? If so, mom could move to another city for a high paying job and pay dad some child support.
@hiteshadhikari
@hiteshadhikari 2 месяца назад
Women love keeping kids because they are a paycheck to them
@jimmymcgill6778
@jimmymcgill6778 2 месяца назад
A man calls up. Do Uber tonight. Do 6 jobs, working 7 days a weeks.
@aba1791
@aba1791 2 месяца назад
lol, right.
@pirate254
@pirate254 2 месяца назад
Also "she lived her life for her husband and then he dumped her" lmao a man isn't getting that kind of benefit of the doubt
@sh4wnb880
@sh4wnb880 2 месяца назад
A man needs to provide
@Ravetar101
@Ravetar101 2 месяца назад
If a man called this in Dave would eat him alive. Ridiculous how much sympathy this woman got she should be rich
@Primitive_Code
@Primitive_Code 2 месяца назад
@@sh4wnb880 In the 1950's yes.
@worldnomad2301
@worldnomad2301 2 месяца назад
I agree with Rachel, her household expenses are nothing. She could make 60k with the child support and be fine.
@Fishouta
@Fishouta 2 месяца назад
Why did Dave assume she was an analyst? She never said that. She said IT. They simply are not the same thing.
@amythinks
@amythinks 2 месяца назад
Rachel is such a good check on Dave. I love them together.
@benallmark9671
@benallmark9671 2 месяца назад
The small amount of child support she say , how much ? $3500 a month lol. My God woman
@GAFB1122
@GAFB1122 2 месяца назад
UNEMPLOYMENT was most of that numb skull. I received around $2,400 a month in unemployment many years ago, and I didn't earn quite what she earned.
@WindyWalk
@WindyWalk 2 месяца назад
Stephanie finds out after destroying her marriage, that her making cute little PowerPoint presentations is not actually worth $245k a year to companies and she's first to let go in times of economic uncertainty. Shockingly, despite being a strong and smart woman earning a quarter million for 8 years, Stephanie didn't manage to save and invest enough to withdraw $1.5k per month to put toward the $2.5k she's getting from her husband. What an amazing lady!
@adamarcher8359
@adamarcher8359 2 месяца назад
Right? And instead she puts taxpayers on the hook with her 7 months of ‘unemployment’ She could have found a lower paying job and maintained integrity, instead she sat around and complained.
@NightOwl0230
@NightOwl0230 Месяц назад
⁠@@adamarcher8359I did want to inform you that you are incorrect about the unemployment being the taxpayers responsibility. It’s not! Whether the gov misallocates funds, that’s on them. But employers pay additional taxes for their employees and unemployment comes from those funds. Employers pay for those funds, not taxpayers. Your penny didn’t go to her if that’s what you’re concerned about.
@DBS417-cq5di
@DBS417-cq5di Месяц назад
Sounds like this is a great example of an extremely confident/ arrogant women who had a good job and thought she was on top of the world and didn’t need a husband. Look at her now
@TrazimDollare1982
@TrazimDollare1982 2 месяца назад
Dave: Sell Everything Dave: Rice and Beans Beans and Rice.. John: Take a deep breath Ken: I’m out for Lunch…
@JustinCase780
@JustinCase780 2 месяца назад
Rachel: Huge pay cut by not moving...no big deal.
@HOLDXSTEEL
@HOLDXSTEEL 2 месяца назад
Can someone please explain the lunch joke ?
@TrazimDollare1982
@TrazimDollare1982 2 месяца назад
@@JustinCase780 Justin, you are a LEGEND
@SummaGirl1347
@SummaGirl1347 2 месяца назад
You forgot John: "Are you safe?"
@TrazimDollare1982
@TrazimDollare1982 2 месяца назад
@@SummaGirl1347 Hahaha True…I hope you will forgive me 😂
@patriciawarner9680
@patriciawarner9680 2 месяца назад
I totally disagree with Dave. Uprooting children is not desirable. The teenage years are hard enough, why turn them upside down when she has skill sets that are transferable to other fields. She doesn’t have to stay in M&A.
@kbgagt
@kbgagt 2 месяца назад
Not sure why Dave threw out the "The husband dumped her" but ok
@TLA123y6f
@TLA123y6f 2 месяца назад
Because Dave knows and sees all.................he has a bit of an ego issue
@Ja50nkAt
@Ja50nkAt 2 месяца назад
Lower your expectations. Quarter million is an insanely high income, you were in a boom and bust field, it went bust so adjust.
@marcusarelius
@marcusarelius 2 месяца назад
Stepping into who she is? What does that have to do with her salary level and / or reason to move out of state?
@joeriveracomedy
@joeriveracomedy 2 месяца назад
Heaven FORBID the ex husband gets a say where his kids live. Live edit: WHO said she got dumped?
@Fishouta
@Fishouta 2 месяца назад
Right? Maybe she dumped him
@israeliteonlycampkilluhi.o2108
@israeliteonlycampkilluhi.o2108 2 месяца назад
Because America treat the Male like Cr@p and the Female Like a goddess...it's sickening
@mattmasteringer4399
@mattmasteringer4399 2 месяца назад
3500 dollars a month in child support for two kids, 😳. I’m definitely having my kids abroad. This is sickening.
@darrengeorgetown6758
@darrengeorgetown6758 2 месяца назад
It's to fund the scornful ex-wife and her ridiculous lifestyle. Don't get married men
@pjob123
@pjob123 2 месяца назад
Dave, You’ve neglected to think about the father in this situation. Maybe he’s near by and has a great relationship with his kids. Moving could change that. Just saying.
@untouchable360x
@untouchable360x 2 месяца назад
$250k jobs are rare and lots of competition. She needs to take a pay cut or she will be unemployed for a very long time.
@TLA123y6f
@TLA123y6f 2 месяца назад
Good. Maybe she'll be smarter with her $$ next time around
@ongo6408
@ongo6408 2 месяца назад
Where did all her savings go?
@Rodneyevolving
@Rodneyevolving 2 месяца назад
@ongo6408 look at you trying to ask rational common sense questions, lol...
@babakmammadov7421
@babakmammadov7421 2 месяца назад
Rachel Cruz is so beautiful and such a smart lady, The best Ramsey personality after Dave.
@BooozyTheClown
@BooozyTheClown 2 месяца назад
"I don't need no man!" Woops.
@GrandMa-hm5mb
@GrandMa-hm5mb 2 месяца назад
Gosh, I was in a military family. Went to five different schools between 5th and 8th grade. I did NOT do well, nor did my siblings. Dave is wrong. Lots and lots of messed up military kids out there.
@fijaystudio
@fijaystudio 2 месяца назад
She’s older and being replaced by cheaper younger professionals. Simple.
@eldorado1244
@eldorado1244 2 месяца назад
Your assuming the father of the kids are OK with the mom moving them out of state....why was this not brought up?
@Fishouta
@Fishouta 2 месяца назад
Cuz Dave and his daughter are ignorant of that topic.
@johndone8045
@johndone8045 2 месяца назад
Lets say she is not getting offers anywhere near 245k
@missinde0723
@missinde0723 2 месяца назад
SHE may have dumped him!!!! So sexist Dave!!!! She may not be able to move at this time, depending on her state's custody rules!!! In PA if the custodial parent doesn't have the other parent's blessing . . . you ain't moving!!!
@MathiasJarlson
@MathiasJarlson 2 месяца назад
She said 245k THEN 345k. wtf??
@allpraisetothemosthigh7770
@allpraisetothemosthigh7770 Месяц назад
Heard that too. Maybe with her husband it was 345.
@abhishek8587
@abhishek8587 2 месяца назад
The ability to save aggressively is more important than ever now in this economy. Cash (savings) is king!
@USpatriot741776
@USpatriot741776 2 месяца назад
Savings aren't great when inflation is at 20% yoy.
@alinatamashevich3354
@alinatamashevich3354 2 месяца назад
@@USpatriot741776 Being debt free is a must
@amireallythatgrumpy6508
@amireallythatgrumpy6508 2 месяца назад
@@USpatriot741776 It isn't.
@abhishek8587
@abhishek8587 2 месяца назад
@@USpatriot741776 I meant saving money to build a big safety net, and not necessarily keeping money in the savings account. Invest the money with enough diversity, but have enough for such scenarios.
@pirate254
@pirate254 2 месяца назад
If it takes 50k to operate your house and you have made 250k a year for 3 years divorced where is the other 600k? Why do such high earners need unemployment and child support? Also when did Dave hear her say that she lived her life for her husband and then he dumped her??
@Fishouta
@Fishouta 2 месяца назад
All kinds of analyst positions available in dept of Veterans Affairs that are all remote. Analyst positions are one of the most popular types of careers that are being done remotely.
@reaver707
@reaver707 2 месяца назад
"He dumped her?" I don't think she ever said that. Women initiate divorce 80% of the time.
@kendrapratt2098
@kendrapratt2098 2 месяца назад
George would say the kids need jobs! Jk jk😂 I love George. Rachel cracks me up with that coffee cup at the end 😂
@geraldwalker7609
@geraldwalker7609 2 месяца назад
It took till around 5:20 for the "Honey" reference to appear.
@GAFB1122
@GAFB1122 2 месяца назад
Do you blanking people listen. UNEMPLOYMENT and small amount of child support was $3,500. I was on unemployment for 5 months after the corporation I worked for went bankrupt and I was getting around $600 a week, $2,400 a month and I didn't earn quite what this woman earned. So the bulk of the $3,500 was UNEMPLOYMENT and that is temporary, it eventually runs out.
@kbgagt
@kbgagt 2 месяца назад
What happened to her 100k severance
@Scottsmusiccave
@Scottsmusiccave 2 месяца назад
If you listen to this show enough it's money first, family second. Sacrifice your children's childhood for money is the theme of this show. You have to take care of your kids. Obviously if it's poverty or wealth then you should take wealth, but making 150k is more than enough to live a happy healthy life in Dallas
@territ1231
@territ1231 2 месяца назад
I can hardly listen to her and her money problems. What the heck has she done with all her money!!
@Thurgor_Supreme
@Thurgor_Supreme 2 месяца назад
A non-executive making a quarter million a year was laid off? Weird!
@letstalkaboutgermany8288
@letstalkaboutgermany8288 2 месяца назад
I hate when they throw around these code words… what is M and A? And why is it so ridiculously high paid?
@greggpurviance7252
@greggpurviance7252 2 месяца назад
IT is a little tight but there are jobs in Dallas. M&A are tough everywhere
@Thurgor_Supreme
@Thurgor_Supreme 2 месяца назад
So she was making enough money to retire in 8 years, but 8 months of unemployment has her on the verge of disaster? And she says she's financially responsible??
@John3.36
@John3.36 2 месяца назад
Moving is stupid -- splitting them up further away from the father. Ramsey assumed that the father was a villain, and is okay to move to some city to make big bucks. What foolish advice.
@arthurdevrome8925
@arthurdevrome8925 2 месяца назад
I know the feeling
@scratch57
@scratch57 2 месяца назад
She likely didn’t have a good reason to divorce. As it is she is swimming in money. Just another rich-people whining about money call.
@PapaBearDuverge
@PapaBearDuverge Месяц назад
Divorced? Make the move. Take the kids with you. I moved all throughout my childhood and loved it. Made friends everywhere.
@christ3831
@christ3831 2 месяца назад
Kids age 12 and 14 are perfect age to move. They won’t like it, but everyone freshman year is in a new school
@carterwgtx
@carterwgtx Месяц назад
It’s not a tough job market - it’s just a tough job market for people looking for 240k+ a year jobs who won’t move. Sorry ma’am, you should know at these salary levels personal sacrifices are mandatory, especially in a brutal business like financial support jobs.
@SubutaiKai
@SubutaiKai 2 месяца назад
Im getting real sick of these calls where it's a woman and she hasn't worked for 8 MONTHS. That's almost a year! And they're going easy on her. I'll do it for Dave since he doesn't have the backbone, get off your butt lady, stop being emotional! Instead of calling Ramsey to whine, you should be calling places to get a job. No excuses!
@TLA123y6f
@TLA123y6f 2 месяца назад
I have no sympathy for someone who made that much $$ and has no savings.
@Eryn321
@Eryn321 2 месяца назад
Work from Home jobs are the best for that type of market. Find something IT not in Dallas.
@MrJeffinLodi
@MrJeffinLodi 2 месяца назад
It is not the end of the world for kids to change schools. Not having money is much worse....Cmon
@bradycone
@bradycone 2 месяца назад
Moving them across the country away from their dad is a big problem. There is a lot more to it then just changing schools. She needs to get out and start delivering pizzas, as Dave would have told her if it was a man calling.
@MrJeffinLodi
@MrJeffinLodi 2 месяца назад
@@bradycone I appreciate that comment; my only point is that she should not be constrained to a location because of the kids in school
@Star-yk5vk
@Star-yk5vk 2 месяца назад
Dave should have let her share more about her financial situation. He cut her off too soon.
@ICantSpellDawg
@ICantSpellDawg 2 месяца назад
Easy solution. Work a brand new job for 4k a month in an area that you've always wanted to explore WHILE looking for a new job.
@catdancerskaleidoscopeofbo8496
@catdancerskaleidoscopeofbo8496 2 месяца назад
Pride. Doesn't want to take a pay cut. 💔
@Seromontis
@Seromontis 2 месяца назад
I can't believe Rachel cut her hair that short!
@AlphaShadowSphere
@AlphaShadowSphere 2 месяца назад
Ya... Dave was too soft here. She needs to get a job. Idk why she called into the Ramsey show for that.
@mathematician1234
@mathematician1234 2 месяца назад
With that skillset, she could flip from the sell side (investment banking M&A) to the buy side (asset management) and make $100K easily as a starting salary, with lots of upside potential.
@jeffmansfield914
@jeffmansfield914 2 месяца назад
The kids will be out of contact with 99.5% of their high school friends within a couple of years after graduation. Giving up $600k so that they can go vape in the mall parking lot on the weekend while they look at their phones instead of each other is a terrible investment.
@firegirljen
@firegirljen Месяц назад
I run my own business. In 2020 the government essentially shut me down. I didn’t sit around for eight months wondering what I was going to do to put food on the table and take care of myself and my family. I started driving for DoorDash.sorry but there is just no reason why you can’t have a job in two weeks if you really want one
@anibaldamiao
@anibaldamiao 2 месяца назад
Contact every single vc in town
@cyoohoos
@cyoohoos 2 месяца назад
Dave…maybe she dumped the husband? But dave is correct. She has limited herself to M&A in Dallas and, quite frankly,y, salary. I see a pay cut regardless and a move in her future to potentially a different field of work.
@JasonGroom
@JasonGroom 2 месяца назад
If this was a man Dave would have told him to be a man and find a job doing anything, and that there was no excuse to be out of work for 8 months.
@GAFB1122
@GAFB1122 2 месяца назад
Do you people know how unemployment works? Apparently not!! $2,500 + per month would not be uncommon for a high earner.And then the rest would be child support.
@TerryOnDemand
@TerryOnDemand Месяц назад
Why did Dave assume that she can move out of town? Most divorces settlements state that you can not move out of a 50 mile radius without consent from the other parent..
@joelmartinez2278
@joelmartinez2278 2 месяца назад
Wouldn't even know what to do if I had a 200k/yr job. And I'm in California. Maybe a boat, jet ski lol
@jenniferforest5400
@jenniferforest5400 2 месяца назад
Assume she got dumped and assumed it’s ok to move away from dad ok no
@IrishMexican
@IrishMexican 2 месяца назад
How many millions has she made and she feels like she’s about to lose everything? 🤔
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