I Feel Like I’m Parenting My Siblings (How Can I Stop?)

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I Feel Like I’m Parenting My Siblings (How Can I Stop?)
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@rebeccaoprea9917 2 года назад

I can relate to her story . I was the 2nd of 6 kids in 7 years . I was ms. Responsible and moms helper . I got pregnant and married at 17. I too feel the burden of taking care of everyone . My therapist calls me a “saver.” So now I’ve taken on this burden of trying to save others from their troubles wishing someone would’ve saved me . It’s time to start living out loud .

@TheSunshinefee 2 года назад

it is not your job to save others. save yourself and take good care ofyourself

@Cathy-xi8cb 2 года назад

Rebecca: you were used rather than loved. You wanted someone to love you. This isn't hard to understand but it is hard to accept that you were used by the people that said they loved you and all your helping. Sadly, taking care of people will never guarantee their love. Ever. They either love you, or they don't. You were not taught that, and now you are trying to learn how to be an adult.

@rebeccaoprea9917 2 года назад

@@Cathy-xi8cb true . If they include you to use you , they don’t really about you , only about what you can do for them . When someone asks you for help , they’re thinking of themselves, not you .

@alittlepieceofearth 2 года назад

The oldest of six. There are nine years between me and the youngest. I've read that there's a lot of older kids from big families that end up deciding against having kids because they were caretakers of younger siblings while they were growing up. I wouldn't go so far as to place my self in that category. I've never been directly opposed to having children but I have also never felt my life would be meaningless if I didn't have any. I think I just know too much about what it takes to raise a child to romanticize them.

@unhealingwithsandy 2 года назад

Yeah there was 8 in my family. My oldest sibling swore she would never have children after helping raise us all. She got pregnant by surprise when she was much older. If it weren't for the surprise pregnancy she would have never had her only child who is now an adult. BTW she is an excellent mom. Had plenty of practice I guess.

@9liveslisa 2 года назад

Focus on your own family and let them manage their own life. Only give advice if they ask you. Everything will work out the way it is supposed to.

@ntme6506 2 года назад

Buy headlights for your kids and put them on the kids and turn out the lights in the house. Have mom and dad hide with nerf guns.

@belindavandyke8363 2 года назад

I was so glad to finally hear her laugh. I feel so bad that she has no joy in her life. I will pray that she finds it. 😔

@melissazabower339 2 года назад

Our childhood was somewhat traumatic. One parent from each side died and then the two halves combined, and then abuse in the new house. Then after 12 years the two parents left got divorced. Now, 20 years after the divorce, the 4 siblings (2 from each famillt) are closer to each other than we are to either parent. We still talk to our parents, but we'll get together and eat and talk and just hang out, just the 4 of us (or us and our families). Anyway, what she is seeking is possible! And it's good!

@NeuroSeasoned 2 года назад

Disappointed, TBH. DrJohn didn't address her incredibly flat affect (tone of voice) and he just flew by her feelings of worthlessness as if a peppy statement could help her. She needs to be regularly seeing a therapist who can help guide her to work through some generational trauma that by luck of birth order seems to have been funneled onto her from both parents. This won't be fixed by adding one silly party get together per month. (That'll being joy, tho!)

@rebeccaoprea9917 2 года назад

You have an great point . People tend to take on more . And cheap thrills don’t fill . We need to take on less distractions and look more into ourselves . Cause if we don’t deal , we don’t heal .

@Cathy-xi8cb 2 года назад

This is a show. Entertainment. He isn't counseling anyone. He is entertaining us. Hence ads and sponsors.

@dakotasikes6690 Год назад

I feel she screwed herself by having kids . She's not able to step back and breath she's always go go go go Also she sounds like a fixer

@dakotasikes6690 Год назад

I think John needed to call her out on her inserting herself when her mom never asked her to so all this trauma is self inflected

@whatisup3632 2 года назад

8 of us here.

@unhealingwithsandy 2 года назад

Eight in my family. Idk if it's more challenging being the oldest, the middle child, or the youngest.

@whatisup3632 2 года назад

@@unhealingwithsandy I am number 7. I don't deal with them because tired of bring treated like a baby.

@thejakelegion 2 года назад

I'm the middle child of 11 kids spaced 24 years apart. Part of my lot in life has been bridging the gap between the oldest and the youngest. It's not been easy but it's been rewarding. Don't hate us older sibs, Mister! 😅

@whatisup3632 2 года назад

@@thejakelegion then they need to stop treating me like I am 10 years old.

@unhealingwithsandy 2 года назад

@@whatisup3632 I am 7 of 8 too. They don't treat me like the baby. I'm more the black sheep.