Second Chance, I’ve never ONCE thought you were ugly. Of course I’ve been rooting for your weight loss, because I know you will feel better physically and be healthier in general…. how you look is not an issue, your personality is awesome and look at all the friends you have made since starting your life changing life style. Thanks for the honesty and give yourself credit for all you have accomplished.
Corey, Dude stay positive, you have changed a lot my Friend. You were in rough shape when we. Flew you out of the Wilderness, don't listen to the Negative. The EMT
Cory, your authenticity, honesty, and candor never seize to amaze me. Thank you for sharing your experience with all of us. I really think that by sharing your experience it helps others to feel less alone. No one is immune to these feelings and no one can escape bad days where they feel less than in one way or another. Thank you for being you. Can't wait to see where your adventures take you!!
I have felt that many times especially when I'm stressed and not doing the thing I love doing which is hiking. I eat more when I'm not doing what I want to be doing then I feel the same way. Your beauty shines from within and honestly it doesn't matter what size you are, that beauty still shines through. I realize you don't 'feel' it sometimes but other can see it in you. Keep the faith and taking care of yourself. You have so many supporters following you... learn on that like you just did and you'll get through! We've got your back! You are beautiful and you can believe that.
I used to think i was ugly as a young person. Now at age 60, i look at photos of me from the 70s and 80s and realize there was nothing wrong with my looks. You will come to realize the same thing. Love your realness! I understand how you feel.
Cory, I would rather be a person with a beautiful soul than a physically beautiful person. You have a gorgeous soul that draws so many people to you. Please don't ever forget that! Sending love from California!
I'm not a religious viewer but whenever I get a chance I watch your videos.. you are such an inspiration and seem like a great dude your worries are unfounded keep it up brother
As a younger man I always felt unattractive, I now look back at the pictures and realize I wasn't. Now I am an old fat guy and completely don't care how I look. It no longer bothers me. But at your age I could relate.
The older one gets the more we realize that it is not important to chase after people who only care about what we look like to be our friends. That chasing after people at all to be friends is really a waste of time. Either people like you or they do not, if they don’t it’s their own freaking loss, not yours
I so relate! In my twenties, I thought I was fat and ugly. Now, I look back at pictures from those days and think Damn, girl! You were smoking hot! LOL I wish I looked as bad now as I thought I did back then! :D
Cory, I have followed you every since you did the PCT. I have mostly lurked and not commented much. We all at times have those feelings. But Sir, I want you to know you are a creation of the most high God. You are a son of God! You are who you are. Let's break it down..........you are brave, courageous, you have a infectious laugh, you share with many people some of your most intimate feelings, your honest, sincere, caring about others and their feelings. Cory you have a beautiful soul, you shine bright and I assure you your videos help others even if you don't know it. I want to write more but I am at work my break is over so I will go for now.
Cory, this is so normal. Even great beauties deal with days of feeling ugly. Sometimes it just comes from too much introspection and focus on self. By shifting mental gears and thinking of another task or doing something for someone else is a real mood lifter . You know how great that feels. By the way, higher quality vitamins are more readily absorbed whereas the cheaper ones are often those that don’t break down properly in the digestive tract and thus are passed through without getting much value from them. Carry on, you are doin’ great.
When we read a story with no pictures and feel an affinity for, or fall in love with a character, it's not for their physical beauty...it's for who they are. You are a beautiful person. Just recently I came across a fb post that said, "You fall in love with the people who make you love the person you are when you're around them." [read that again] Meanwhile, it's great that you want the best for your body - it's doing it's best for you, too. It's not necessary for it to carry the weight of 'acceptance from whomever' because you've always had what it takes inside to do that. [and at the end of the day, there isn't anyone I know who doesn't have their share of 'hot mess' moments...in fact, I'm having one right now. LOL!]
If you were ugly you wouldn't have had time with little Bee. I know that time has past but little Bee alone proves this point. Plus it's not what's on the outside, it's what's on the inside that counts. But yes, I prefer you with the beard, not because it covers you up but because after PCT it is just you. But bottom line is you do and be what you want.
I haven’t bathed in about ten day,s, period. And I’m full of mosquito bites, so I didn’t want to feed them even more. I think I should take a shower now, but I had to sleep and eat first. So is life.
Awesome ideas. Go for it. Nothing like a freshly caught fried up fish when you are starving. (but) My neighbor is a game warden. He issues citations frequently to people without fishing permits, who are fishing before the opener, or are keeping undersized fish. Hope you can get a permit where you are at. Here in the Sierras we often have to use barb-less hooks as well and trapping has an alternate set of rules. Oh, and face it, you're a handsome guy. But its the highly entertaining journey you are sharing that keeps people coming back to your channel for more....
You're freaking adorable! But I can totally relate to having "ugly" days and being hard on oneself. It's a tough habit to break. Maybe make a rule that every time you have a critical thought about your looks, you have to say one good thing about them? Just a thought!
I was thinking how many people would pay a load of money to be Second Chance for a day or a week. Lots of people I think. How many people would pay to be an ugly person? Not very many. I remember one lady who got excited like a rock star groupie when she heard that Second Chance was about to show up where we were. She wasn't a hiker btw, but mostly all the rest of us were hikers.
Damn, you are my go to guy for inspiration, and making me laugh my big butt off. Walking everyday, Down to an XL from XXX and it's all you're fault! I'll be Naked and Afraid in the Black Rock Desert Aug 28 to Sep 7. Dare to go bare, you only live once.
look hoe far you have come in the last year. you have done so much for yourself and you are fearless! One foot in front of the other just keep living' dude you got this
Lake-swimming definitely counts as a shower. Same with waterfalls, fast creeks, and rivers. Oceans and ponds do not count as showers. If you come out with a salt or scum film, however fine, it's not a shower. But if you come out fresh and clean, even without soap, you're good to count that as a shower! Also, I hear you about feeling ugly. I do too. However, I feel the most beautiful when I'm out hiking, the longer the better. Take good care, my dear. I'd say it gets easier, but it doesn't, necessarily. Sometimes it's better. Sometimes it's worse. Bless.
I think we all have thought that one time or another about ourselves, you're not alone. Love yourself, because there is only ONE of you, you're unique in that, and we all love you.
I am so encouraged, Cory, that while you have these negative feelings about yourself, that you know you are not alone in them, and that they are just feelings, and feelings change, ALL THE TIME, FOR ALL KINDS OF REASONS‼️ We are persons of great value, no matter the day, no matter the feeling, no matter the way we perceive ourselves, in any give moment, that may try to flush our self appraisal down the commode. There are truths about us, and our value and purpose for being here, on this earth, that are so far above these fickle and fleeting feelings. And we need to learn these truths, and hold on to them, when feelings might harm us. Keep on holding on to the truth, Cory. Be happy when feelings line up with the truth, but hold onto the truth when feelings go awry! God bless you with great new insights, wisdom, and experiences to share, darlin❣️❤️🥰
I’m almost 60 now and I remember when I thought I was too fat for my size 5 wedding dress in my twenties among other ridiculous self body loathing bs. OMG who cares. One life. One self. One body. LIVE IT, never mind the rest, including the voice in your head that apparently seems to undermine you.
Second Chance, had the insight, last year I was in pretty good shape and it would take a 10 - 12 mile afternoon hike to get that endorphin rush. This year I’ve gotten out of shape and the last two days I’m getting at endorphin rush after a four mile hike. So being out of shape, I can get that great feeling with 1/3 the effort.
As a fat woman I’ve dealt with body hatred since I was 15 lbs overweight and 19 years old. Decades later I’m much larger but more happy in my own skin. Not perfect, but”this is the body I have today” helps me stay positive. PS when lake swimming I scrub my pits with sand or seaweed for a little extra clean, lol.
Hey it's Butters, for sure I think we all have serious doubts about something in our lives at one point or another. BTW we are doing a big concert in Lander on the 30 with Shane and the kids you met. We would love to see you there. By the way if I'd have known about your 2X shirts I wouldn't have given you that 3X shirt that I gave you.
Vitamins are much more effective if you get them directly from food. Lots and lots of veggies, (nope mashed potatoes don't count) fruits and good meat. A nutrient dense diet will also help your mental health, and you'll have fewer of those "I fell ugly" days 😊
Its so true we all struggle. Society defines beauty our whole lives and its all a false narrative. We are all beautiful no matter what the body looks like. Your incredible spirit and kind heart is what defines beauty/handsome. Stay true
Man, I’m super excited for this! You gotta record your hunting excursions. You’re an amazing person, so who cares what you look like? I’ve just started embracing my body and posting actual current pictures on Facebook. I was too ashamed of gaining weight. I’m so proud of you! I am also excited to see your Jeep tour.
Wanted to listen -- Am having an EXTREMELY upsettin time right now, not heard, at all. Even trying upload an audio recording here and on LinkedIn. I'm not fond of having to communicate with people this way, but it's so crucial for people to be heard. It's normal to feel unattractive sometimes -- we're not supposed to look good all the time :) I think you look great, if you look shitty to yourself sometimes, that's normal, if you feel shitty, that's normal. Thankful for you, Cory! (Every morning I wake up feeling ugly -- no matter how long my hair gets it's this frizzy tangled mess.... but i like to laugh about it :)
Be careful if doing a survival adventure make sure you get a edible plant book or somebody that knows plants in the area..local library can help..stay safe
We talk a lot about that in our ww meetings - being kind to ourselves is much more positive than being mean. Good luck with the fishing - if nothing else, as you say, it's good exercise. And if you're not putting too much pressure on yourself, it might even be fun. Nice to see you feeling more positive!
I think my wife is beautiful too,.. she thinks otherwise. Beauty, isn't just about looks, but about you being you, confident, funny, supportive, etc. Your husband sounds cool dude.
I'm gonna catch a lot of flack for this Cory, but stop whining and start hiking. The best cure for depression is endorphins. You have come so far and inspired so many since that first day on the PCT. Take solace in your achievements, count your blessings and carry on.
It hit me since yesterday that Cory might be resisting an important life transition for men. In 2019, even though he was a full grown man, he was still a Young man, learning, developing even a novice sometimes. Those days are gone. He is now in the beginning part of the next phase. He needs to be the guide, teacher, mentor for others. He does this already, but part of him is trying to hang on to the days of youth. He needs to know that it's ok to let it go, he can still have fun, but you are correct, it's time to be the example for others, and you can't do that when you're whining. I have led many Marines. Some may have thought I was fearless, but to be closer to the truth, my duty to them superceded all my personal issues. I was strong for them because nothing else was even an option. Cory has his viewers. It's not exactly the same, but there are similarities. Even Rudy Reuttiger needed one good chew out session (with tough love).
Seriously, swimming in a lake definitely is bathing!! I know lots of people who won't use soap when showering. I don't see the difference! Swimming in a beautiful lake or stream counts as a bath when you're out in the wild! So there!! hahah. Keep on keeping on. I'm watching. (ya, I have those ugly moments, that's the 'other' person that tries to make you feel like poop. They don't know what they're talking about!
Hey. You're a boss. You look badass and that's it. Good luck with fishing! I have had one lesson in filleting and there is a way to do it where you keep the guts all enclosed and it's much tidier. I think you need a filleting or otherwise bendy knife for that method though.
You are so correct Cory that we are our own. Worst critics when it comes to our looks and our weight. The sad thing is this is also tru of the skinny beautiful people! The rest of us feel like if we were just skinny and beautiful we would love ourselves but it is a pipe dream! They are in the same boat with us! I found as I got older and my thinking got more mature I got much more comfortable with myself and my weight and my looks but the damage from all the negative thinking about it over the years was done and you can’t erase all of that! So the younger you are and can nip it in the bud the better. You are still young and your personality really does shine and it makes you shine! You are so handsome when you are happy and enjoying yourself in your adventures. The happier we are on the inside the more we shine on the outside! I think you should follow your heart with your adventures. I think your Instincts are great when it comes to knowing what you will really enjoy. We really enjoy your videos when we see you just being happy and healthy in what you are doing!
You are one of the most beautiful people I know of. I have learned to love me ! You must do the same. To this day I feel ugly. But check this out...I get over it in a few minutes. I'm outside and doing things like you ( hiking camping kayaking etc.) And to those of you who say taking a bath in the lake don't count...it does ! Lol Cory... everytime you start to have a negative thought about yourself...come up with 5 positive. I will always battle the ugly demons.
We all have days like this. But look at you…..you’re constantly out there doing something and trying. Keep your head up. You are just being hard on yourself. There is no perfect. Look at the Kardashians, they have plastic surgery, make up artist and apps to make them look good. Who cares, it’s about the journey. Love yourself like so many others do.
What if what your thinking of yourself has less to say about how you look and more about how you feel? Losing the weight quick is not a magic pill. You could still feel like crap. Have you considered skipping the vitamins and going to the true source of nutrients? Whole food plant based eating will in a very short time make your body feel good and the wonders it will do for you healthwise would amaze you. You would end up having more energy than you ever knew was possible to continue on your adventure! What ever path you decide, have fun!
Maybe look at it this way...there are some really beautiful people on the outside who are ugly on the inside. Beauty fades and if you have nothing else going for you because you relied on your looks to get you thru life, then the older you get the less you will have to survive later. First off you have the greatest smile, with fantastic dimples, great hair, beautiful lips, and your face has good balance. You don't have protruding ears, a giant nose, or wonky-looking eyes. Do you need to lose weight...sure...but probably 90% of the American population is above their healthy weight, even if by just a few pounds. And you are working on it by doing healthier activities than looking for some non-existent miracle. What's really important is your genuine loving nature, your happy sense of humor, your awareness of others' feelings and everyday needs. I never trust the mirror when I see myself unless it's by accident, but when I see pictures of me is when I really get hyper-critical. I remember feeling fat in my 20's but when I look at old pictures I wish I was that thin now! LOL
Not a "I feel pretty, Oh so pretty, I feel pretty and witty and gay!" day, huh? You'll soon be back to your self. As in, I said to myself, "Self!" www.westsidestory.com/i-feel-pretty I feel pretty Oh so pretty I feel pretty and witty and gay[on Broadway 1957 the word is bright] And I pity Any girl who isn't me today I feel charming Oh so charming It's alarming how charming I feel And so pretty That I hardly can believe I'm real
What river you standing in front of?? It's not a fishing pole, it's a rod, jk..... you should maybe take a stab at fly fishing...... That river looks WAY WAY fishy for trout!! Looks an awful lot like Wyoming!!
You seem to be insanely bothered by your weight. I think you are way overrating hiking as an exercise. You should just make it your lifes mission to go low cal, low fat, high protein and work out on a stationary bike at a home you live in, I don't think you can burn 100 pounds+ doing hiking anymore. I used too but then I saw DaisyHikes. I don't think you will ever be happy unless you bear down and just do whatever it fucking takes to lose that weight but that is my opinion what do I even know? Good luck, you are beautiful on the inside which is what actually matters.
Hiking is great for all things that Cory needs right now. Sitting in a house on stationary bike...are you kicdding me! Nature may not help you lose weight (according to your philosophy) but it does wonders for mental health. I don't want to be mean but your comment isn't really helpful.
