i got top surgery. 

ikr.

O.k c.o.o.l

Lol

For real tho

Y E S

My mood after I wake up from a five and a half hour rest

My mood litterly all the time

xd

That happened to me lol

I know right-

I don't have adds :)

So it happened to just about everyone then?

same.

Ash Hardell omg you so lucky

SO SO SO SO HAPPY FOR YOU!! 💕

Ash Hardell UR MY ROLE MODEL!!

I loved the video, I'm so happy you made it :)

I follow you on Instagram so I got to see some of it! I also have some of my own dysphoria so I tend to shy away from top surgery videos. But I’m super happy for you!

Me tooo

*too

This is funny but they and them are pronouns not a gender

@@jackiesante SO TRUE!! It is defenetly funny but some inncorrect terms.

I dont see whats funny. I believe they stated that they were nonbinary. They dont feel comfy as either gender. Of course its the pronoun isnt a gender but its a more respectful to way describe them for who they are.

I hope you'll be able to one day. Lots of love.

I thought about getting a binder too

Yeah.....I do have a lot of binder ...cause I don't want unwanted boobs but also afraid of surgery............

Hopefully one day you are able to 💗😊

@@yaoifever2379 understandable, surgery is scary. Do what feels right for you, and talk to a professional about your fear. They know what they're doing and they might be able to help you move past it.

I was the same way as ash lol

I feel the same way as Ash rn Oof

@youtube viewer wanna trade lmao

I’m a girl but wanna be flat bc i’m insecure 😂

BRUH AM 10 AND I HAVE A BIG CHEST

Ash if you read this i wanna tell you- you are like my LGBTQ+ Role Model like seriously eeek so excited because of the heart on this comment

Isabela Mata dat cute! Dat cute!

you should be able to spell what you are, dear human*

Who said they were a human?

They a couple??

Lovely they might have been doing it on purpose

@@gakto.1936 yeah? They are married.

ALSO CONGRATS

U LOOK AWESOMEEEEEEE

DODIE!!! HEY HEY HEY 💛

AAAA ITS DODIE ❤️❤️❤️

hey dodie didn't expect to find you here :D also I totally agree with you, Ash looks awesome

And then boom they came back

@@dumbclown I saw!

@@ashniedosmialek3464 😂

I watch this almost every night... dysphoria really has me down rn. This reminds me that it'll be better someday

Me: I'm non binary but this is relatable content.

I just am going to randomly say this. I was born female but am now realizing that I am an enby. I feel comfortable with he/him pronouns but am I not valid if I “look like a girl”.

@@ArtisanAsteroid I’m no pro but I think you’re totally valid just how you are. The LGBTQ+ community has a lot of different classifications. As long as your comfortable with yourself and who you are I think you can totally be “qualified” as enby. Like I’m (almost positive) that I’m trans (I was born female), but I don’t think I’ll ever fully ‘look’ like a male. I’d preferably use they/them or even she/her pronouns so I think it just matters that you’re comfortable. Again, I’m not a pro at this sort of stuff but I hope I helped somewhat (doubt it tho lol). Have a great day anyways!

@@ArtisanAsteroid what you look like has no effect on what you are on the inside! As in, your are 100% valid if you don’t look “androgynous”!

@B N9476me either 😭😭😭

lolololol

What are sweatshirt pronouns

Rainbow Pancakes the depth of this comment knows no bounds lol

LOL

@@HeyThere005 So funny!!!

Noah!! You are awesome:) you and ash need to collab sometime

I know right

I bet you cant wait for yours!

Ily noah!

Ok yes i need the collab!!

Me too

Yay mutilation!

As a fucking what?

@@whocares11222 huh

I also really want top surgery

If they are over 18 and have been fully diagnosed with gender dysphoria it would help them alot to get top surgery

Not the point of ur comment but you’re an amazing parent for educating yourself for your kid btw

Yo did your kid get top surgery yet? (If they are 18)

this just might be the most wholesome comment on all of youtube. you are a kick-ass parent and i hope your kid knows how lucky they are.

Ollie Shrum AWWWWWWW OMG best comment ever

Ash, you are sooooo awesome, amazing and beutiful!

I actually thought so too! :-)

Hi Jamie. You're awesome.

I love ya 🙆🙆❤❤

Oh hi, Jamie

It would be so cool if you did a video with Ash!

Oh my gosh I love you and ash

Awh I'm so happy for you, how's recovery going?

Sorry that society pushed you toward self-mutilation.

*her

​@@user-qjvqfjv Ash actually uses any pronouns, so nice try loser lol

@@user-qjvqfjvwhy? I thought they are non binary.

I did too..

I just got it too

Aston same thing here is was amazing

watched the whole thing

I got a 5 minute ad and I watched the whole thing thats the best thing I‘ve ever seen

FrenchFryGirl I know right I was like “ASH NOOO ITS OK IT WILL BE OK”

Emma Johnson, thank you for clarifying my comment, you're correct. But I believe Hobart was referring to a reply above that said "he/she/it", which is indeed wrong and a horrible thing to say, but that person is just trying to be inflammatory so there's probably very little point in arguing with them.

@@happyfuntime7098 right on Happy. Who goes and gets their camera and brings it in front of a toilet to cry.

Same

YEET THE TEETS

yo same

I just recently found out that I’m gender nonconforming and it’s just so nice to see that it’s OK to get top surgery even if you’re not female to male

uppercaseCHASE1 YESSSS 💞💞💞💞💞

Queen Quenepa what

Queen Quenepa wtf????

Queen Quenepa LOL. Ok. I don't usually comment because there is just no point, but it's so funny how you went on Ash channel to pick on Chase about his own personal self-doubts and stuff and call it misogyny. That's so unrelated, uncalled for, unneeded and inapropriate.

uppercaseCHASE1 this is only my second comment on RU-vid ever but I had to...chase, don’t let what this person says get to you. Clearly, they don’t know you. I thank you for putting yourself out there, even if it means having to deal with comments like this. 💚

XD same, that healing process looked like too much to deal with.

It's all about what's right for you! It's understandable not to want a major surgery. Just be happy and do what feels right

@Merlinian you still have tons of time,if you feel like telling her now we all support and love you. I'm not out the closet yet but I am wanting a binder as soon as I come out.You do you and be happy

@@mritten and the other younglings here, be brave and trust yourself. Your family may be more supportive than you think. (One of my kids is non-binary.) You are valid and loved. Gd bless. 💚

But like the hunching and the way binder stick to you when is hot and how sometimes you feel your chest even more eith binder.....

Max all the yes. My thoughts exactly! They surery made the right decision🎉🎇🤣

Meeeeeeee, English is my first language and I spell things wrong and forget letters 75% of the time

❤

Speak for yourself. That comment represents about 1 1/2% of the planets population. And "Ash”, you made a wrong decision!

@@robert_costello First of all Ash is their name so dont put it in parenthesis. Second they made the right decusions becuase it made them happy. And third, you can have your opinion but please keep it to yourself if you know its rude and/or offensive

Angelicelephant ! She mutilated her body and you expect me to embrace her with open arms? No! The only person that made the right decision, was her doctor. He saw a profit from this. And don’t tell me when to share my opinion, it’s protected by the Second Amendment and there is no such thing as hate speech.

Angelicelephant ! #Trump2020 🇺🇸

Same I almost cried. Such a sweet video, I do fricking happy for them!

I cried! When I saw @uppercaseCHASE1 and Aaron and all the love, I teared up. Ash! You look so amazing and so happy and I'm so happy for you! Fuck the haters, you made the absolute right decision!!

Grace is such a great wife :)

I was going to say, Get Out.. but under the circumstances.. Get Off might be more appropriate.

She said that in the coming out to her mom video

I hope it went really well!!!!

@@sho_ando04 I GOT A HEMATOMA :)

@@jakebrycegifford Oh no!!! Hopefully it's okay soon!!

This actually has me thinking of why I dont feel comfortable as a girl or a boy, I am bisexual but I avoided thoughts any further than that because I didnt want to confuse myself. But now I'm just thinking💀

Careful, proud of your sexual orientation, I just know that surgery is painful.

@@ihavenoname727 But its worth it!

I wanna be flat too..I dont feel comfy in my female body. Maybe not bottom surgery but top YES

The K.C Show!! I am 11 but I know I want to be female and I want to have top surgery and maybe bottom too but I’m afraid that I will be unaccepted by my family

Roly AGAJSKSK ROLY

I thought the exact same thing. The scars look sooo sooo good :-) that doctor is a champ.

Ash is also very much a champ for doing so well at taking care of the scars, and people also sometimes just heal really well. My dad is diabetic and 69 years old and his scars from cardiac bypass surgery not quite 3 years ago are nearly invisible and that’s a really serious surgery with massive incisions

Roly omg roly ilysm your vids are so cool

Their chest wasn't that big to begin with. That's something to keep in mind too.

JEMMA thanks pal!!!

Same!!! It's so nice seeing someone in such a state of true self😊

MercifulBlockhead yeah, I usually don't watch long vlogs all the way through but I was just so emotionally engulfed in Ashe's journey

Same

Jo Hammer hey Jo, you have a very interesting perspective. It sounds like you may have a vision of what a "pure body" looks like, but I'm not sure I would agree with your definition there. People make changes to their bodies all the time, whether it's permanent or temporary, and the purpose in most cases is to boost their own self confidence. That's partially why we get haircuts or nose jobs or braces or top surgery or wear makeup. You may also have a perspective that somehow people who make decisions for themselves are resulting in the degradation of society, I'm a firm believer in protecting the rights of the individual and standing up for people making decisions for themselves about who they are and what they want to be. I'm not sure if you're a collectivist and believe that people should follow social order, whatever it may say to maintain a sense of status quo but it sure does sound like you think in that way. All in all, we carry different perspectives but I would just like to know what your perspective is rooted in? My perspective is in loving yourself for who you are deep down inside, if changing your physical appearance helps you feel more comfortable displaying that and having it align with who you want to be, I'll support a person's right to do it. What is your perspective really rooted in? I don't ask to be sarcastic or rude, I would definitely love to talk to you about this. Maybe we can have a discussion and get a better understanding of each other here.

I think the comparison you draw is a non-comparable one. In the instance of changing your appearance with surgery, you are not putting yourself at risk for long-term potential harm. Anorexia does, it can lead to health issues and more. Would you make the same comparison for someone who gets breast implants or a nose job? You have to compare actions with similar results, to group in all behaviors doesn't help distinguish anything. My position is to support people's decisions to make changes in their life which will increase their well-being without leading to long-term physical harm. You also made the claim that my position is a relative one based on fads, trends, philosophies and a huge growing industry, etc. For that I would just say that you would have to provide evidence that the person is doing it for one of those reasons rather than just asserting it to be so. For example, if someone wants to get their ear lobes stretched out with ear gauges, I would support their right to do so if they feel like it's something they've thought through and want to do it because it will increase their sense of well being. You COULD make the argument that a person may be doing it because it's more fashionable and trendy right now, but that position doesn't really assert any claim because saying someone shouldn't do something because it's fashionable is not an argument.

Kovu is a unicorn Hi Kovu! I agree. It must be really hard to go through with top surgery surrounded by binary trans guys on t and and some nb trans people on t. I'm so happy for them!

Omg it’s kovuuu

How the heck did you describe my entire life in one comment? 😆😅

OMG KOVU!! And you are so right.

Kovu is a unicorn ii

The sweatshirt has evolved into an ash!!

*gotta catch em all*

Echo Gillette love you 😙😙

Echo Gillette OMG HI THERE

Yay!! RU-vid influencer love💟💟 There is hope.

Echo Gillette I got so excited when I saw you in here and supporting Ash! Love you 💖

Echo Gillette sammeeeeee also ily ❤️

Ashton Daniel aaa hello fellow nonbinary

Thank you pal

What’s up my enbys?

Subed

Hear* ;-;

*our

*we’re

Jessica is a Messica What did you do? XD

Obey your parentals

I’m telling on you

MsFaeNicole oh gosh same :( they’re terrible

I’m sorry you have to deal with them regularly! I think the fact that your reaction is empathy really demonstrates an inherent goodness in your heart, I wish you all the best in dealing with your struggles

Hey Alex

Alexander Benson lol same

hey! How did it go? :) Wish you all the best!

How was it?

CONGRATULATIONS to you sending my prayers that you have a speedy recovery and always be proud of your self from New York City ✌

Hope your recovery is going well!

How'd it go? Asking a month after the comment was posted.

Kassandra M my cousin is a cis woman and she is six foot and is quite broad from all the sports she does it’s not that uncommon our advice ( mainly from her since I’m ftm )be careful about heels if you wish to wear them as some will make you look way taller than you actually are when wearing them wedges are good u know the ones with the cork bottoms stilettos with the platforms at the bottom add extra height ( she personally doesn’t like them but it’s everyone’s taste) hope we helped 😊

hugs from out of the closet :3 you can do it girl ! There'll be a day when it feels safe for you , and then it'll feel great to be able to be who you are out loud ^ w ^ and there's thousands of people just like you out there , and right here ^ w ^

I'm not tall but am a cis that sucks at heels: wedges are good and kitten heels are AWESOME because they still can be very cute and feminine or have pointed toes, but will be like, anywhere from 1/2 to 1 1/2 inches. Also, I'm excited for future-you to be the girl you are, as well Kassandra M!

I'm a 18 y/o cis female, 6ft tall with broad shoulders. Haters gonna hate, but who cares?

Come to the Netherlands, here are 6ft women not extraordinary haha

lol same

I just got an ad

@@N-VRIVER oof

Me: *clicks on time* *ad shows* *ad shows of a game where there is a cheater thing* Holy.... (Btw it was like kissing thing lmao)

Gay

I hope it goes well

lapeachMC I was thinking that. So before the surgery because ash still had boob fat...can’t be topless. Now that the fat was removed...ash can proudly be topless.

Alecia Chapin exactly!! Its quite bizarre tbh. And i even know for myself that seeing a more masculine top half of the body is like completely normal, but female boobs are instilled in me as something nsfw and something that should be covered up...

lapeachMC ikr, like I'm not saying I want to run around topless (personally), but why can men's chests be exposed while female boobs can't? I just can't seem to think of an awnser that makes sense

It shows how ridiculous this arbitrary line around boobs vs not boobs is, doesn't it? #freethenipple

Boobs are age restricted, and flat chests are not. So idk... I think it doesn't have to do with the person's gender, just whether they have boobs or not, or whether or not they want to/can show their chest

Good luck! :)

Congrats on surgery my dude

Everything about her is cute *EVERYTHING ABOUT BOTH OF THEM IS CUTE*

Squishy Beano Them not her that’s why they needed top surgery 🤣

@@hikiangelpyon Oh crap that never occurred to me! Thanks for that, I legit forgot about it, sorry again ;-;

Squishy Beano LOL it’s okay IDK a simple mistake especially if your not LGBTQ+ don’t worry.

@@offyourhead @squishy Beano@Squishy Beano

Stephanie R. That was so pure somehow, Ash is just pure in general

YES! Ash is pure with a wonderful personality 💜