I Hate My Husband But I'm Married Anyway | FULL EPISODE | Ricki Lake 

Me to, I’m a baby boomer😂🙏☮🌈

Yes the days were good eh

Handwritten letters are still some of my favorite things.

Absolutely. 💔😢😢.

I still write letters 🥰 I'm in the wrong era! I love dip pen calligraphy too!

And on our phones too, no less. I was 21 and loved these shows, Maury, Sally Jessy, Oprah, Ricki Lake and Jenny Jones. 😂

Same!!! This really is almost unreal 😄😄!

The theme song is so lit.

Born in 86 and this theme song takes me all the way back to the 90's and days where I would be home from school and this would be playing at lunch time while I'd be eating ham sandwiches 😂

​@@VibewiththeleeYa me too. It's so nostalgic. I wish sometimes they would post some music. Some other channels have.

Will never compete with this amazing channel, but Ricki Fan channel does have some music you might enjoy!

My childhood

I so agree hon

Exactly 💯

Unless you don't wanna work like the first person

@@LovePrettyNailsLady-Jay80she is working. Being a stay at home mom is work. She just wants to prioritized her kids

Definitely, my mom says this all the time

And fuel was 78 cents a litre

😂😂😂

😅

My future is bright , I have to wear Shades .

​@@29mickaThat comes out to $2.95 per gallon so that's pretty terrible for back then.

She got married last year,I think?

This is a very idk video

I was so jealous of Ricki’s hair, it was always immaculate!

Yes, none of those stupid hair sprayed 90s fringes. Ricki’s hair was straight and sleek an suited her face. I’d have had her hair.

I'm curious to see if any of their children still talk to them.

Same, I'm curious to see how they are today

I was thinking this also.

A lot of them were actors. Sorry!

I wonder if any of them were harmed or killed by their spouse. That's what I can't understand.

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@@tempesttking5715don’t think they mean it like killed each other I think it means like they did well

I was thinking the same thing!

😂 horrible horrible they all sound so narrow minded !!!

Second couple is more of a preview of Snapped episode

My condolences, I hope bro is doing okay now

Did you side with her story telling as 'we women have to stick together ' or did you figure out that the problem was her!?

Did she ask about me?

It sounded like she was with him just to get to his money, but what do I know?

@Admin-qy4zi well I asked that and she said he was very stingy and controlling with it. He wouldn't give her any or spend any on her. That could be why she divorced him and why she married him. Lol.

Still hot 🖤

And bushy hair!

Oooohhhh I rocked those bad boys!

For real my parents were miserable together and they made me and my sister miserable

But society says and stats show single parent household's are bad. (Sarcasm)

@@swiftkarma4436Single mother households are actually really bad, you need a man “a provider/leader” in the household. This is why the black community is so backwards & have tons have issues.

My parents stayed together. I spent my childhood daydreaming that they were divorced. And my adulthood getting over trauma I witnessed there.

My parents were the same way. As if it was so much better to stay married to each other" for the kids"

Yea she was talking out the side of her neck 🥴

Yea hers was more horrible, she said she had four children paying all the bills😐 I guess her husband was a stay at home dad.

I didn’t understand her comment at all

I think she felt the need to say something because she was jealous of her staying home because she was just waffling for the sake of it.

Very pointless. If the woman want to stay home that's ok because the husband is working.

Right? You hate him, just let her have him

😂😂😂😂

God didn't want you to be in an unhappy marriage with a horrible person that you don't love.

@@claudiatheobald9928 You're so right 🥰I will find my person ❤️

You didn't like him but married him. Two sides to each story.

You CHOSE to marry someone you didn't even like? Then blame God ?! Come off it. God had NOTHING to do with YOUR bad decisions. He gave us free will, and you used it!

@@jacqueline8559 Aww you are triggered 🤦🏾‍♀️😆😆

Same! My husband and I met at age 12 and 14. Dated for 5 years and then were married. We started with nothing. Still my best friend and even more in love. I’m so lucky, blessed, etc.

Then why are you here ?

I said basically the same thing and I know couples like that. I know one couple that continuesly cheat on each other. I had to distance myself from them. Also the kids don't deserve to see the idiots arguing and fighting all the time. Sometimes it's better for the kids if they divorce.

Right. People confuse me

The first couple the wife still loves the husband but he doesn’t love her, but he won’t divorce her afraid she will get all the money… beyond stupid.

@Shazzygirl that's true. You don't always see their true colors until after you say " I do" and they feel like they've caught you.

I agree with stay at home Mums! At least until children are in middle school!

Well bully for you 🙄 You're in the overwhelming MINORITY

They could be doing better today

Divorced and dead 😂

Damn. That's morose!​@@beautifulb7562

Me too😂 I wish they do follow up videos of where they’re now.

​I was literal going to reply "dead or divorced" myself 😂😂 ​@@beautifulb7562

In 2024 mostly divorced or living with cats. Marriage is about duty over pure disney

@@gregorycook5305exactly.

@@gregorycook5305well if not full time overtime I guess, unless you try it don’t you won’t understand

@@gregorycook5305your right it’s not a full time job, full time jobs get a paycheque! If the wife worked there would be more problems

@@gregorycook5305You prob wanna be a woman so bad, that’s our privilege 😊..We get to stay home and watch our kids grow & spend our husbands money, if you pick the right husband..😅

@@gregorycook5305 I have time, plenty of time in my luxury house, vacation homes, my beautiful luxury cars & shopping sprees & just with one kid, I still get to stay at home.. Thanks to my husband” 🤭😁..You mad? I know, I would be too if I were a broke guy.. Gross.. Peasant..

Facts

Lmao

and the 2000s

But why did we all look old?

The best of course

Loved the 60s and 70s.

Remember interest rates in the 80’s? We nearly lost the farm at the time. And look at the hair!!!!! How bushy and overgrown.

I got static back in the days of being a woman and all that fluff about freedom and all. I took care of my kids and worked once they became school age. Work is work whether you get paid or not.

I mean I don’t care what people do but when women choose to do nothing with their life except reproduce and sit at home (and usually my tax dollars pay to raise their kids) and then they whine about how being a mom is “such a hard job”, that’s when I have a problem.

No that's not the point. She is lazy she doesn't wanna work!!!! nothing wrong with stay at home... but being in a loveless relationship because you're too lazy to work. Big difference

@@normajean7241facts

Ricki called doin housewife duties "a slave"

Yup, means divorce. Created when divorce was not that common

You're wrong. It means the parents are split up.

My parents stayed together their whole life, it was horrible, so much drama, so much tension, I would literally have panic attacks because these 2 wouldn't stop fighting. I divorced my husband we never went to court, always co-parenting peacefully, my son never witnessed a fight between us. To this day we have remained civil and friendly with each other . I have his back and he has mine, no romance whatsoever I still visit him, his wife, new baby and my in-laws and we get on great. He was meant to be my friend, not my husband I guess. It's a shame for my son that his parents didn't stay together but imo it's still better that we separated and kept respectful always towards each other and our son our number 1 priority.

​@@sunbeam9222 I commend you both for being able to stay civil. You don't see this nowadays

Double standards

It’s awful that it’s taken so long for people to recognise the seriousness of DV against men. Yes people did laugh it off. And when you think of the difference between male and female self-unaliving to attempt to use YT language, although we know how much harder it can be for men to talk about their problems, I feel haunted when I wonder how many of them were trapped in an abusive marriage or even bumped off by a wife in the days before DNA? When police probably fell for women who could easily appear vulnerable? In fairness a couple of the guys were behaving really badly too, where the women were underplaying how much fear they were feeling for their family and friends (like the guy who threatened to kill the woman’s pastor,) and that was sort of laughed off too. It’s quite triggering (in the literal sense, as in PTSD/CPTSD,) to remind ourselves what living through those times was actually like and the sexism that went both ways - as well as the assumptions, distasteful jokes and narrow mindedness depending on where and how you grew up. I must admit my stomach is in knots after watching this one, the seriousness of what was going on in all the cases on the stage would be considered too dangerous to televise now - they all need to run! I just hope they all broke up after this aired 🙏🏼🙏🏼 It doesn’t take long for this kind of behaviour to escalate to potentially fatal proportions every time a new boundary is broken.

We need one of Derek’s hair battles next to soothe our 90s kid souls 😅🩷

You are the exception to the rule

Yeah, she seemed like SHE was the crazy and violent one. HE needed to get out

​@@LX-kt90rxfor sure because she still wanted to be with her ex

Nah that first lady is a textbook narccist and it sounds like the husband of the second one is too

​@@charliemonroe722YES! the second husband was absolutely very abusive

Everybody a narcissist

Fr 🙄🤣🤣🤣

Ricki Lake might as well be the lawyer. Shes pushing for all guests to split..

But there are women that enjoy being a fulltime stay at home mom, taking care of their home and family fulltime. I did, and never desired a job or career. Although I was out of school 4 yrs and worked while out of school and some while I was married. Until I had a baby.

Well said Sharon!

i am happy to be a stay at home mom. for me it’s a beautiful life and fulfilling. i’m certainly not a doormat. the only time i ever felt like a doormat was when i was working for a toxic manager who was ungrateful and very unkind to us working for her. women need to reframe their mindset and try not to make sweeping judgements about one another. i’m glad that you’re happy to have had a career but i’m also happy to be doing what i do. in absence of a career i am still valuable and intelligent.

When you know, you know. This is super sweet. ❤

❤

It happens more often than we know

That was very valuable insight... she was from a generation that used to just work ish out for the kidz wasnt so selfish... modern day women think everything is about happiness

​@@And1one757 so why she was criticizing Patti 😂

Right, she added nothing to the conversation lol😂

​@@And1one757 how DARE modern women want happiness and a loving relationship! 🙄

The late 80s was still lingering in early 90s. Around 94 is when the 90s started, but that's how every new decade starts...takes a few years for it change out of the previous one.

Yeah I was shocked to hear that too. I’m surprised how she survived that long in that house with 2 kids with a father like that. I had 3 months old few months ago and I would’ve lost my mind with such husband 😂

A lot of men think that way

They still sleeping together 😮😅

Their both even are getting defensive with the audience too to prove they don't hate each other...absolutely ridiculous

Great comment!

Exactly 🙄🤣🤣

Lol whats new....

Rex's points all seemed valid and he sounded ahead of his time.

@@toprightchannel3080 I agree. There’s no reason she should automatically just take everything 🤦🏼‍♀️ Shame on Ricki for saying it like that

​@tahneeyuh3382 half is not everything if she indeed helped to set up the business. Why he never valued that?

Definitely brings back memories!

OMG LOL

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Run away from him for your daughter

True

I can see why. There’s so much man bashing and lack of holding women’s feet to the fire.

Never a fairytale… but do you hate him? Are you as toxic as they are? There is no love between them.

Girl, if you think your marriage is like this then you need to get out. There is absolutely no credit to staying in an abusive situation

Dont listen to these modern feminists. Most modern women are not willing to fight for their marriage. This generation is screwed