"I'm Not Gonna Put My Child Through That Again, This Is Her Last Pageant" | Toddlers & Tiaras 

There was an episode where a 6 month old baby won the whole thing...it was pretty ridiculous, and all of the parents lost their minds 🤣🤣🤣

Rocky Rocks I can’t find the exact video I was thinking of, but it was pretty similar to this (skip to the end) 🤣 ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-_L5cdC5_Iuc.html

Well I mean what the hell is the differnece between them, 20 pounds of make up, fake tans, ugly attitudes, ugly parents, fake faces, fake teeth, and more ! 😂 I mean if they dress as adults why not put them with adults ? This is Sarcastic btw!

Mary's Dance World they have the opportunity to win in their age group, but honestly most of the time the kids win because they’re cuter (and there’s just more of them)

The whole thing is disgusting. Putting children through that should be banned. Their values about what is important in life and are scewed.

Underrated 😂😂

I'd definitely do it for $10,000! I might be embarrassed, but I'm not stupid 😂

Molly Schwartz oh heck- Well at least the five year old won!😂

;D

😂😂

Well it is. So the kids compete in their own age category with appropriate scoring. How you judge the 0-3 year olds is different to how you judge say 4-5 year olds or 6-7 year olds or over 18s. They award prizes for the winners of each division. The final overall prize is for the highest overall score, bearing in mind that the older kids were judged far more harshly so the scores are weighted.

Kids shouldn't even be competing lol this is probably set up anyways

People don’t understand age divisions I guess.

@@starchannel123 well normal pageant like not glitz pageant kids find fun but glitz I agree no kids should be wearing fake hair and eyelashes and loads of makeup but if it’s a natural pageant and the kid wants to do it then I think the kid should be allowed to do it

Well she’s probably not doing glitz pageants I do a pageant every year and there’s usually up to 40 year olds doing it

yes, thats true.

It's a glitz pageant so.....

all of those kids actually tbh those glitz pageants shouldn't be a thing

Agreed!

It’s not just Hailey, it’s all of those little girls. They don’t need makeup to make them “cute.”

Lauren say what? I was shook the moment she came up I thought they was joking 😂😂

That’s crazy lol

Me too lol

The 20 year old has legal rights to that money and can use it on college or university, the child doesn't legally receive the money and they have years to figure out other grants and prizes... There's actually some really good logic

What’s The Deal? I was like whattt?

There are age categories but for grand supreme it’s all the age groups against each other

Alessandra Leigh you clearly don’t understand how pageants work lol

@@enkeliz5250 it's a joke

Lol so true

Thhannnkkk yooouuu!!!!

Exactly, why is a 20 year old even on toddlers and tiaras, let alone competing against children.?.?

@@sundeasvlogs5530 right people are stupid

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Most pageants do have separate age categories. They have supremes for different age groups

Afmedic85 The ultimate grand supreme is for all ages though

When you think about it though. Kids have a clear advantage over adults. I hate pageantry but this show was such a trainwreck that I couldn't look away. Anyhow. Kids that are already naturally beautiful like dolls make your heart thump. But put them in the regalia of glitz pageants and it's hard to not lean towards them. This was just unfortunate that the adult won. Kids don't understand like grown ups do. They'll think they failed because they were bad all together not because they were great and someone else did a little better.

@@SerenaPro That's exactly why they should compete separately. Have pageants for babies and toddlers, pageants for children, some for teens, and then others for adults.

They don't had enough money to give..

Yeah that's really not fair

It's all about the money they can win.

指輪七つの lol

IKR!

At least she decides to stop doing the pageants by the end

You do know that women sexualize little girls to?

It’s not just you

Ikr

No not just you

Once I saw on an episode where there was a grown ass man judging a swimsuit competition and there were 14 months years old to 5 years old,he kept biting his lip,so creepy.

Georgi there are different age groups, she just won the over all prize that anyone can win. It could have easily been a 6th month old winning it

Dear Vlogger ok

machis an actual 6 month old DID win it

@@sev9642 thats.. Shocking.

machis ikr it was one of the years

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Pineapple Paige I was gonna put that.

@@aisha5156 me too

Lol I was gonna comment that

And the difference is that she could decide for herself not like her little sister

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Yeah me too. I feel bad for the girls.

Yep

Yeah it looks like their parents beat them up if the dont win the cash.

I know they never look normal

I know, right!? She is already so beautiful naturally, she doesn't need all this.

It’s not that serious. My mom tells me this when she does my hair and I cry. I have to get through it so that my hair isn’t tangled and ugly I rather go though the pain then my hair looking like a birds nest🤷🏽‍♀️

@@savvii2996 okay but that's necessary hair care. That was a mother having her daughter's eyebrows plucked for an unnecessary pageant. When you're 7 the eyebrows should be least of your concerns.

For real. How can you overlook something so obvious. Poor kid.

I feel like that's the way it is for most pagent kids. Its so sad!!

Yeah and they r like "shes really sensitive" Smh

In the before and after, she looks so much less happy in the after

1000th like

@@angelbridgers8188 She's her sister, coach should not be the first thing that came to mind. Sister should be the first thing

It is sad

@Ophelia Jacques OHHHHHHH NOW THAT IS JUST WRONG.......but I want everyone up here to know that pageants are not like what you see on TV i promise you that..I PROMISE!!!!!!

@@Percy.404 HHHHHHH NOW THAT IS JUST WRONG.......but I want everyone up here to know that pageants are not like what you see on TV I promise you that...I PROMISE!!!!!!

Unlucky 💐 lol

Yeah, I'd be embarrassed to win against babies, even more so mortified if I lost 😅

I think it'd be better if they removed children competing & started at 18+. What lessons are pageants teaching children? That their beauty is the most important thing about them? That they need heavy make-up/fake teeth/fake tan/perfectly coiffed hair to be beautiful? That they need to fake smile to impress adults?

@@Siaori193 ya how can she feel happy and proud and great to win against little kids

Every child was happy

@@laurenplaysroblox7570 No, they were FORCED to ACT happy.

Madison S. Awwwwww no proof?

“If you want to be beautiful you have to feel pain” The devastated and continuing crying? Crying in pain? “Beauty is pain but I still have to take it” The shaking before she went on stage? The fact that her MUM said she’s “not going to put her child through that again” What more proof do you need?

This atmosphere isn't healthy for any child.

unicornalq11 She’s sensitive about that topic because she’s afraid of disappointed from her parents, meaning her confidence is kinda in jeopardy.

Thankfully her mom made the right decision by the end of the video

It's Hailey

right

Yes, but as a coach that isn't your job. What the family needed to do was find a coach who was not a family member.

Ruby Tavera the child should still be encouraged and praised while being told what she needs to do better. For example: “that was great but you need to work on that one part just a little more. Let’s try it again.” I don’t feel like young children, especially pre pubescent/tween girls should be put down and constantly told that they’re not doing good enough. That’s emotionally and mentally damaging to them and can cause lasting mental issues.

@@emmadrinksbleach3246 Yes, I understand that. The thing is, if you go back and watch the clip, she pouted over a correction. You can't always tell them that they are doing good because then they think that they don't need correction. This is just my point of view based on my experience on being taught and teaching routines myself.

I agree with Ruby. What you people don't understand is that there is a difference between feeling worthless from being put down and just being the type of person that can't take constructive criticism. This little girl is clearly the latter, and it's a character flaw. Her sister only informed her of what she was neglecting to do, and she wouldn't believe it because she thinks she can do no wrong. I was the same way when I was little, until I realized that attitude was getting me nowhere.

@@MistyeyedNStarrified i don't agree. The little girl doesn't look like the type that feels that she is the best, and her sister really hurt her feelings.

Exactly. I don't know how you can justify acting like that toward a child. Usually when people do this they don't know better due to their own childhoods, but it's so sad to see. You can just say "wow Hailey, that was great! You know what would make it EVEN better? If you did THIS...you're doing amazing, though!" It's basic psychology...

Preach!

HumanKaleidoscope preach also the adults are more interested in the money then the kid

Some people just don’t understand what sensitive means.

I guess but that was honestly just a brat moment all she told her was that she didn't do it right and she needed to try again and she cried.

That shouldn’t be fair that’s soo mean it’s a kids pageant

the scoring is stricter in the older age categories

I legit thought you were joking this is just sad

Omg my name is katherine too!!

Yeah it's pretty messed up

that literally makes me feel insecure

“Little fat girl” you don’t call anyone that!

I just love how they quoted animal farm, a dystopian masterpiece, and applied it to this show, a dystopian shitshow...

I freaking mad at you all you're worried about is a twenty-year-old competing against 7 year olds have you not thought of what this girl has been through...

Zoey Uh, wait the 20 year old or the 7 year old?

@@aisha5156 7 year old

Zoey Maybe because Hayley and the other girls dread the makeup process and did so many things just to have an experienced 20 year old woman with basic makeup and a white dress win. We all know Hayley’s gone through some rough stuff but we’re just acknowledging the utter stupidity in the idea of a 20 yr old against a 7 yr old.

@@kiaraishere2723 What does that even mean

it was nerves

Nerves

Victoria Moreno it’s anxiety I have that too but once I do it I’m fine

I hate the fact that in comments nobody cares about her and the pressure she felt and all the brow, hair and hurtful beauty things her own mother and sister had done .

Stereotyping gender roles and sexualization of kids smh

green snek o

green snek they were on supernanny I wonder if they were scolded about this at the parents meeting

Ya think

@@winterain17Exactly. Beauty pageants is the only place where grown ass men can gawk at a little girl in a dress, judge them & the parents are okay with this. It's a breeding ground for pedophiles & wrong on so many levels.

It said all ages. Not that it makes it better lol

Gemma Carey xx the frick 😂😂

Caroline Ranieri ??

@@gemmacareyxx2620 she must be really proud winning toddlers.

Anybody who is over the age of 18 should be in the Miss whatever state or country pageants.

Xoxox.catyleya THATS WHAT I SAIDDDDDD😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

Eh

Ukr😉

@@mariahpersamud1117 r/suddenlysexoffender

Lets see 10 years from now lmao

Same. Omg I could feel her pain through the screen... 😭

Gilbert 💕💕

Karen A.S. Yes Gilbert my love

I started to cry, I never want my little girl to feel unloved because she didn't listen to me. I want her to know she's beautiful because of how sweet and caring she is

Same and also this “She wants to be told she’s perfect all the time” No shes wants to be accepted she feels like she isn’t

well no shit

Shruti Railkar I agree, this is child abuse! I want to slap these women!

No shit Sherlock

Shruti Railkar smh I'd go nuts if my daughter at this age walks out the house with all this make up shitttt

Shruti Railkar smh I'd go nuts if my daughter at this age walks out the house with all this make up shitttt

@@user-bo9ho5ht9d same

Facts

Bella Brooks yeah she is probably insecure because she HAS to be perfect

To be fair being a coach for a pageant and a family member should not be an option. That aside, the sister was just doing her job as a coach. If that little girl wanted to win and get far in this, she should suck it up. Also, criticism from family hits different than criticism from a coach/judge. And look at the way she was acting when she was getting all done up, it is clear that it isn't for her. I know it isn't for me because 1. I am ugly as shit and 2. the two times I've gotten my hair done, I wanted to bitch slap someone and I'm grown. Take Dance Moms as an example. The little girl that people either loved or hated worked like a bitch to get her routines perfect. She was her worst critic. As for coaching, depending on the kid, some need that tough love. Although I didn't get far in watching the show because I wanted to uppercut that dance teacher sometimes. She was too extra 90% of the time.

@@rubytavera6591 What a great point of view. I can totally see what you mean.

Thank you. My mom is a bitch.

Haha yeah

Mary Love HAHAHAHA mood

Yeah I was so confused

I thought she was 60 cause it looked like she had wrinkles but then it said 20 lol

Mary Love 1) it was all ages 2) judging is harder for the older age categories

the scoring becomes stricter as the age categories progress- so what they expect of a four year old is different from what they expect of a 15 year old and they are judged accordingly. Which is fair. Then the highest overall score wins.

MsJubjubbird Of course an adult would perform better than a child when they’ve been doing pageants for years. There should be a cut off age. Up to 15. 16 and over can do what they want.

@@emmadrinksbleach3246 That's exactly how they did do it.

Oh my god it’s horrible 😭😭😭😭😭it’s almost as bad as a kid going to practice for a sport omg 😭😭😭I grew up in pageants they’re where I met my friends you guys are so dramatic

Alyssa Bodenhamer stfu

@Alyssa Bodenhamer You still sound like a 7 year old, this is not right. These kids SHOULD be outside, not hearing “beauty is pain” everyday of their life. I feel sorry for you, if you truly did grow up in pageants!

Midnight Twilight and u need to learn how t stop stealing your mommy’s phone

@Taylor waters Some of these kids are forced into pageants at a young age. Besides, these parents are idiots

Wow I hate this TV show

Some of the parents are mean to there kids

zeffie's kitchen that's my friends mom she's actually really nice

Laila & Amani Nobody Said she wasn’t

Laila & Amani what???

aay x tbh she wasn’t that pretty

aay x she looked more like 45 than 20

It's more like what are the children doing there o-O 20 years old is more of an appropriate age rather than a child trying to look 20. Those kids need to be focused on other things rather than trying to get their eyebrows to look a certain way.

aay x ikr

making coin

True lmao

Yessss

But then a lot of the time the kid gets worked harder

Um that 20 year old was forced to do the pageants her whole life tho....

@@user-ci4qq1om4o She's old enough to realise there are other things out there though. Yet she chooses pageants

Because it's easier to compete against a seven year old when you are a grown woman

Jaulistine Sweets you must be fun at parties🙄

Vivian Espinoza Why is that relevant? All he/she did was explain the process. Shut the fuck up.

@@vivianespinoza1549 You're an idiot they were obviously explaining the process since OBVIOUSLY people were confused. Dont be a smart ass

i know you’re right are u an idiot what processs?

The guy jugdes are usually gay

Why not? 🤔

Deepa D'cruz lol kinda odd mate

ik creeepyyyyyy lol

Cuz he can -_-

Animal Farm?!

@@cryingbecausehollowknightd5748 yep

Kensi NoName 😂👌🏼

Pain isn’t beauty beauty is pain

Girl 😂😂😂 I hope you have a safe and wonderful delivery! Congrats on the prince or princess!

Ok I’m dead already. Best wishes 👶

Kensi NoName I’m dead. Good luck with the baby lmao.

She did, did u not watch til the end?

@@salmanella156 She didn't have time to watch for a freakin one second more apparently 😂

She said that was her last pageant

Also she literally said that some childeren are more beautiful than others

@@nisa3612 it is sick and i dont blame her. Who wants to watch kids being abused

Ikr

Ikr

Kat Haha she understand now

You put the sentences in reverse 😂

Then she said that was her last pageant

The comment right before you was the exact same thing

Seriously you'd think she couldve figured this out sooner

I think she might of been scared or shy :/

I did theater and would shake before going on stage lol. It’s not that big of a deal.

Lol that's called being nervous. It's normal to be nervous before going on stage.

😞😞😞

Did she say she was cold?

Ya exactly

They do. This pageant is divided by age divisions and also supreme divisions. The adult contestant only competed against other contestants within her supreme division. Typically, the age/supreme division used by most pageant systems is 16 & Up. Whether a contestant is 16 or 106, she can compete in this division. These contestants are only competing with others within that division. Adult contestants do not compete against 6-7 year old contestants and vice versa. I noticed that a lot of people are confused on this point.

@@m.shanebritton7830 finally someone who understands. they say the age divisions when the kids are competing. they have prizes for certain age groups but the ultimate grande supreme is all ages. and the little thingy at the bottom even says that

Yes. And have ultimate grand supreme titles for each age group as well

@@olivia-mayjohnston783 yeah but they shouldn’t do that. They have to compete with a 20y/o for the $10,000. How is it fair to compete against a 20y/o for $10,000? When they gave ultimate grand supreme it is all ages which means the 20y/o is competing against the toddlers

I agree

Yellow looks so good on black girls

Thats what the fuck I said. When the mom said there was no other competition and I saw the other girls, I was like ummm wrong. Not to get on her child's look but compared to that black girl with that yellow dress,she looked average.

it's African American or Black but you're right

Andrea_dancer I AGREE

I Am Not A Mundane this is so true smh

I suspect that the girl was upset because no one was being positive, only pointing out what was wrong. The mom interprets that as wanting to be told she's perfect. THERE'S A DIFFERENCE!

Ikr

ya gotta do what you gotta so for da money

I know it's terrible

Yeah, that's messed up!

sniper puppy the judging is harder for the older age categories

That's animal farm

Don’t u mean animal farm?

Animalfarm??

Light Yagami animal farm, but yh

That could easily be thought of as 'more *average* than others.'

It's true tho lol

I suddenly had an Animal Farm flashback when I read that comment, jesus 😂

Beauty of others doesn’t necessarily mean absence of your own.

Fr and her baby was NOT the cutest

Moeru Moe everybody is beautiful in their own way and saying that about children is not even funny, just sad

Mackenzie did we watch the same video? That’s why she’s taking her daughter out of beauty pageants! Smh

Truly Broken why put her In it in the first place then 🤔

I just finished reading that book!

That book made me cry because it made me think about segregation and discrimination 😞

Oh yeah we watched the animated movie of that at my school

I mean yes but no. Equal means there can’t be any comparison. There’s only equal or not equal, nothing in between. But there are different degrees of beautiful

Yeah man I love the book lmfao

Donald Lee there’s different age categories and then the big over all prize that anyone can win. Scoring gets stricter as age categories get higher.

stolen comment 🙄

nook bruh like shut up

I know right

I see what you mean but I low key thought it was cute. She thinks her mom knows best and it's sweet from a childs perspective.

Emma And Mae collab well it a. Pageant from 6 to up. But I see what you are saying. She knew she was going to win. Bc she had more experience than he little ones. And that kinda mess up.

Girls only compete against other girls in their own age group. They’re not having the 20 yr old stand up with the 5 yr and comparing them to each other. What they do is, after the pageant is over, they go through the scores to see who had the highest score overall in the whole pageant. That person is supreme.

That’s so true

At least she snapped out of it at the end

@Hazel Fig Not everyone is that egotistical. Some mothers get that, yes, their children are most beautiful to THEM, but they don't expect everyone to feel that way.

I mean it's not like both her mother and sister have established high value on perfection. Wonder where got that idea from

Ally Lomman i love your profile picture, I don’t know how to spell his real name but I know isak but that’s easy

Some children are like that. My student in grade 1 does not like to be corrected.... Even if it's 1 red mark in his book he ll argue...

@Hazel Fig She pouted at being corrected.... I think the lesson here (besides don't enter your kid in a beauty pageant) is don't have a family member as your coach.