I Quit Shopping and It's Changing My Life | Low Buy Challenge

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Hi everyone, here is my first low buy check in! A quick update on what I bought, the challenges and temptations, how I'm spending my time instead. I know it's only been a month, but I feel so far detached from my old consumerist habits. Spending my time reconnecting with the things I love... it's been so amazing thus far. I hope that you guys are doing well on your low buy challenge as well!
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@MalamaLife 3 года назад

How is your low buy year going? :)

@creativecorner4715 3 года назад

Some impulses yet much more better

@sandys6379 3 года назад

Another great and helpful video. Low buy year is going great so far! Only made essential purchases and ordered food in a couple of times. I can totally relate to the relief upon seeing my low credit card bill, this alone is a great motivator! Unsubscribing from retail stores has really helped in cutting down the urge to browse or shop a sale! 🤗 🙏🏽

@aaronhedgesmusic 3 года назад

I’ve already been doing a low buy challenge by accident since I started using YNAB last may. By budgeting for every dollar coming in it is great for planning and helps you think more about spending, since if you want to break from your plan then you have to take the money out of another budget. Ie if you want to buy more clothes maybe you take money out of the budget you saved for vacation

@ashikachand6929 3 года назад

I used to shop to get over my boredom that didn't bring any happiness. I realized enough is enough and your videos motivate me to a low buy. I feel much better and happier. Thank you 😍

@pranitaagrawaljain2411 3 года назад

Low Buy Year is going good so far 😊 Thanks for a helpful video 🙏🏻 only buying the essentials... and I am quite loving this... it’s tough but not impossible so looking forward to continue it successfully... their are few temptations but than I follow 15days wait period 🙏🏻🙏🏻

@bees3897 3 года назад

I thought I didn’t make enough money but I was really just buying so much stuff I don’t need

@MalamaLife 3 года назад

🥰 that's the happiest realization

@Epiphanykendell 7 месяцев назад

Same!

@elizabethconley4996 6 месяцев назад

Absolutely. Recently I took a vacation and it was extreamly eye-opening

@rachiboo14 2 года назад

My tips for low buying include: - Only replace existing items that are worn out - Don’t buy online, only in shops - Only buy when you have an occasion coming up and not just on random days - Buy neutral colours with no patterns - Make a spreadsheet of everything you have in your wardrobe - Buy items that can be worn in both summer and winter

@MalamaLife 2 года назад

Love these tips! thank you for sharing

@TheHawzheen 2 года назад

Thank you

@morwennaforatenner604 2 года назад

Just curious, why buy neutral colours? Is that just a personal taste thing?

@tinaw.9485 2 года назад

@@morwennaforatenner604 I’m guessing she buys neutrals because then everything matches and you can get more outfits from fewer garments.

@camilaslauren 2 года назад

unfortunately i’d rather die than wear only neutral colours with no patterns

@annasamek5179 3 года назад

I stopped buying and started a new hobby instead: learning foreign languages: Spanish and German!

@MalamaLife 3 года назад

Thats so great! It helps me a lot to work on my Spanish too 😊 i don't really have a chance to think about shopping

@janinakaufmann4203 3 года назад

Das ist wirklich eine gute Idee, viel Erfolg! 😊

@sesil0060 3 года назад

Ha me too, im learning Spanish and Korean. Your local library sometimes partner with learning platforms mine has free membership to mango

@paulamarie7723 3 года назад

I am german and I am learning English and Spanish haha :) Learning a language is so beautiful, keep it up :)

@wolfgangk2824 3 года назад

Chinese is more useful than German. Spanish is useful.

@janellebatta4126 3 года назад

I feel the same way! I spent my 20s accumulating stuff and I'm spending my 30s getting rid of it all.

@MalamaLife 3 года назад

Better to realize it now than later 😆

@Sunshine4 3 года назад

Lol, so true

@dominikar-p4876 3 года назад

Same here! Since last year i started getting rid of things i don't need, i goes slowly since I'm not easy on throwing things, rather selling them, or finding a new owner, i also pay way more attention to what i buy, look with a critical eye on items that tempt me, and postpone purchasing, to see if i still want it after some time, even if i risk the thing not being available :)

@marianal.2259 3 года назад

Same here ☝️😓

@laurab4570 3 года назад

Same here! It sucks.

@suzangroves959 3 года назад

I've been doing this for 11 months now and have saved enough money to makeover my bathroom! I'm so shocked!

@MalamaLife 3 года назад

So cool Suzan 🥰 I'm sure it was well worth it

@lo5338 3 года назад

11 months! Well done!

@tessayasmine3673 3 года назад

Wow, enjoy your new space. You deserve this, I’m proud of you!!💗🥳

@RachelLee 2 года назад

thats amazing congrats!

@jillengel4124 3 года назад

I love books and decided to start utilizing the library in 2020. Our library gives you a receipt showing how much money you saved utilizing them vs. buying the books. Saved $988 in 2020.

@MalamaLife 3 года назад

So cool to hear that 🥰 what a cool library!

@gypsierose3611 3 года назад

Lol not even halfway into 2021 and I have saved 3890 dollars using the library

@rachiboo14 2 года назад

If you use a kindle books are wayyy cheaper. I read a lot and only spend about 100 euros a year.

@deborahbain9915 2 года назад

What a great idea

@yjlee8115 3 года назад

I lived a minimalist life for about four years and focusing on getting another degree. Four years later, I am a law graduate and debt free (using the money i usually would use for buying unnecessary stuffs and travelling in getting this degree). I love minimalist life.

@MalamaLife 3 года назад

That is so amazing:) good for you! Happy for you

@bees3897 3 года назад

Congrats! Debt free out of law school is miraculous

@yjlee8115 3 года назад

@@bees3897 It is not easy but it is worth it :D Thank you very much!

@kimquim2803 3 года назад

Can we take a minute to appreciate how charming, composed and happy she is? That's how you know if someone's habits are working or not 🤗

@nicoleonfeels 3 года назад

I feel like this is me too - shopping actually stresses me out sometimes. It’s food/eating out that gets me 😂

@MalamaLife 3 года назад

I am feeling that way too! I don't enjoy the process anymore and feel like it's a waste of my time. Eating out gets me too! haha

@lilacchocolate 3 года назад

Oh that idea of waiting 7 days before buying something sounds like such a good idea! Going to try it ☺️

@MalamaLife 3 года назад

Yes! it's easy enough to make it a habit :) thanks Emma

@saraaguilera939 3 года назад

This habit is amazing. My impulse purchases have declined especially with expensive trendy items.

@charisLUVSmj 3 года назад

I loaded my cart on ASOS, chanced upon this vid, and then decided that I really didnt need all the stuff I was intending to buy at all!! Thanks for this 🌈

@MalamaLife 3 года назад

I'm glad to hear that 😁❤ thanks for watching

@bees3897 3 года назад

@@MalamaLife you’re saving all of our bank accounts and we thank u lol

@MalamaLife 3 года назад

@@bees3897 haha :) aww

@txspacemom765 3 года назад

I don't even have the desire to shop. Even getting groceries, I take my list, in and out and done. My house and life and mind is so much more simple, clean and I have open space.

@MalamaLife 3 года назад

That's so great. I'm actually feeling the same way. I regret wasting so much money in the past.

@thesameCaroline 3 года назад

You are so lucky..

@Keri8198 2 года назад

That’s great. I’m the opposite.

@TermiteVideo 3 года назад

No new clothes this year so far. This is a major achievement for me! Surprising how little I have missed it 😀

@MalamaLife 3 года назад

That is so great! I hope you keep it going. I feel the same. Really surprised that I don't miss it :)

@morro8785 2 года назад

After almost 10 years of NOT buying lovely things for myself and only the very minimum that I needed my soul almost died, because I didn't pay enough attention and celebrating my beauty and feminine side. Now that I started shopping again and bought myself lovely clothes, skirts, tops, jewellery and even a new lipstick again from a french brand I actually love I finally start to thrive again. I'm not going to starve myself or my flat ever again to make everything beautiful.

@tnt01 2 года назад

Balance.

@tianavinciguerra9691 2 года назад

Same, I have felt like the longer I did a low buy.. the more I feel guilty spending any money now that I’m not

@jornspirit Год назад

...maybe its really about balance... I have experienced when I too radically cut something out of my life, that was before part of it, it hurts eventually.. my self-advice is getting conscious and caring about what I do, how I spend my time and money and what I give attention to in my life... when unconscious habits start to become conscious , then what is not needed eventually falls away... peacefully - not in a harsh way... so: be loving with yourself... nothing can replace that xx

@crystaloryan1950 Год назад

Super random and nothing to do with low buying, but what lipstick did you buy!? As someone that loves french brands of make up, I am so curious :)

@beebsblue 3 года назад

Waiting 7 days is a great idea- it’s usually not so appealing after a cool down period. The dopamine hit of an impulse buy is so addictive! Well done so far- you’re doing great and definitely motivating me to keep going! 💖

@MalamaLife 3 года назад

The 7 days really helps me to slow down my purchases :) Thank you so much

@leilebantino4403 3 года назад

I never shopped additional clothes, shoes and makeup for about 3 years now. The new clothes that I have are mostly gifts from my loved ones (surprisingly they know my preferences). If my shoe gets broken I usually go to shoe repair shops and I only buy makeup when my previous one gets empty or expired (mostly consisting of lipbalms and tints only). I think my hoarding habits started when I was addicted to watching haul videos and new trends that I see from other people. There came a time in my life that I got financially broke and had health problems which made me transition to start being mindful in my shopping habits and adopt minimalism. Now I buy things that make better for my health like teas and supplements. I even tell my loved ones that if they want to give me a gift, its better to give me those because it makes me happier. I just recently found your channel and its a gem. Definitely worth subscribing

@MalamaLife 3 года назад

I also was addicted to watching hauls and seeing different travel vloggers. I was living a life that wasn't mine unfortunately! that's so great you switched things up for yourself. I would rather spend my money on food and teas as well :) thanks for subscribing

@claires2096 3 года назад

Last year I started doing a 30 day wait on purchases. I can so easily keep telling myself for a week that I “need” something when it’s just a materialistic want. A month really helps me to be realistic about it. I actually have waited even longer than a month and found myself really appreciating the few things that I wound up buying since implementing this rule because i believe they were worth the wait and actually needed to improve my life.

@MalamaLife 3 года назад

That's so great! I really love the convenience of the 1 click shopping, but not a fan of the instant gratification that we have cultivated as a culture. I want to see if I can wait 30 days too, instead of my one week. thanks for sharing Claire

@AriesMYCookie 3 года назад

I really love this idea!

@michellef4645 3 года назад

I've been low-buying for a few years now, meaning I only purchase the things I truly need, no fast fashion, buying secondhand whenever possible, replacing items only when they're used up, mending things instead of throwing them away. Living like this is so fulfilling and clutter is greatly reduced, which gives me peace of mind! Would love to see a house tour Sophie!

@MalamaLife 3 года назад

I love that Michelle! I am feeling all the benefits from it too. I want to keep going even beyond this year/challenge. House tour coming up :)

@deborahbain9915 2 года назад

Great to mend things

@gingerdad127 3 года назад

I have a rule: never buy online unless it's a necessity. Saved me heaps and reduced impulse buying. Saved a tonne of money...

@MalamaLife 3 года назад

So true. Online shopping always gets me! that's a great rule

@jeffshackelford539 3 года назад

Ouch! I'm a prisoner of amazon.

@anpangal 3 года назад

Online shopping is convenient but so dangerous!!

@danielabelgrade 2 года назад

@@jeffshackelford539 I boycott amazon! Amazon treats very bad the workers.

@OliviaCo 3 года назад

I am getting used to not buying things that I don’t need

@MalamaLife 3 года назад

Yes! Doesn't it feel good? 😊

@EarthyReenz 3 года назад

social media makes it so hard. In 2020, I was spending more than 5 hours on my phone daily (thanks iPhone screentime lol). I could easily do this if I just unsubscribed from every email list and unfollowed everyone 😅

@MalamaLife 3 года назад

I have this same problem. Really tried hard to cut back on excessive social media and this helped with shopping too. Haha I hope you unfollow as much as you need 😁

@flowaaar 3 года назад

@@MalamaLife could you do a video about cutting back on excessive social media use and screen time? I was shocked when I activated and checked my screentime the past weeks 😳 I wish to change that.

@simplyshama 3 года назад

yes! almost everything I've bought in the past year is because I saw it on social media. those ads work!

@bees3897 3 года назад

When my iPhone dies out, I’m getting the light phone. They don’t let any advertisements on there

@MandalaBunnyhome Год назад

"I spent time in my 20s accumulating things and now I spend my 30s trying to get rid of it" this is 100% my story. It started when I got my first apartment and felt like I HAD to fill it up, I bought so many things I didn't even like just to fill the space without realizing how much things would accumulate naturally.

@blancajrodriguez 2 года назад

It’s been 9 months of no shopping for me! It has saved me a lot of money and I realized that I don’t need too much things.

@MalamaLife 2 года назад

🥰 that's so awesome. I'm sure it was eye opening too!

@xlsmsm5925 3 года назад

I cut back on shopping for me, only buying needed things for my boys, and instead decided to invest in college! 🤗 Im starting a new career next week and couldnt be more excited!

@MalamaLife 3 года назад

good for you! that's so awesome 🥰

@jainthorne4136 3 года назад

In 2019 I did an entire no spend/low spend year. It changed my life in so many ways. I completely paid off all my debt. Debt free is the new American dream. My life is focused in other directions and is so much better now. It's been amazing.

@christinasiew3707 2 года назад

This was my first time hearing it phrased as “low buying”. Enjoyed the video, found out I’ve been doing this for the past 2 years (except the eating out part) Definitely the first step would be to unsubscribe those marketing emails and limit social media to reduce targeted ads. Banned myself from buying new makeup and skincare. Not having Amazon prime helps. My brain just gets too lazy to shop nowadays, it baffles me how I used to spend 4 hours at the mall when I was younger. So much truth about decluttering in our 30s! Look forward to more content like this!

@MalamaLife 2 года назад

Oh yeah Amazon prime can be really addictive as well because of the convenience. I'm glad you are doing this as well! ❤ thanks Christina

@rebeccaoprea9917 3 года назад

I’ve learned to put my blinders on when shopping . Have a plan , don’t just browse . That’s what gets us in trouble .

@MalamaLife 3 года назад

Yes! I love it 😊 planning works well for me

@xlasvegan7x 3 года назад

Congrats on your goals..I spent the last six years paying off three income properties. It really is freedom when you see all those obligations disappear.

@lo5338 3 года назад

I've been on my low-buy for 4.5 months, and it's changed me for the better. I feel so much more in control of my life and have saved a lot of money! I don't buy anything fashion or beauty related, except essential replacements. When I feel bored, I do something that's more fulfilling than shopping. The first month wasn't easy but my sense of achievement at having broken my self destructive habit spurs me on.

@MalamaLife 3 года назад

I am definitely feeling that control too :) it feels good. Thank you so much for sharing. Hearing other stories really motivate me as well.

@dianerivamartinez1009 3 года назад

Just deleted all the "shopping" app. 🤣😅😅 this year, i promise not to anymore buy unnecessary stuff. Practicing minimalism in terms of clothing and food.

@MalamaLife 3 года назад

I love it! Yes clothing and food is what I am working on

@TampaTodayRealEstate 3 года назад

The pandemic has made me realized that I do not need as much stuff as I thought I did. It has been wonderful reset and a new beginning. Thank you for your insight.

@MalamaLife 3 года назад

I agree with you! thank you so much for watching 🥰

@WilletteB 3 года назад

I removed apps I tend to overuse. Any app requiring money or displaying advertising was deleted. I deleted fb, ig, twitter, boxed, amazon, and grove. I kept W-M & chewy. I began to declutter my mass of paper, (I'm a work in progress), and with a low buy year in place, I am hopeful this will help me declutter more. Thanks so much for your channel. I'm a new sub since very early today. Blessings! 🙂

@MalamaLife 3 года назад

Paper clutter is one that I have a hard time with! Thank you so much for sharing and for joining the community :)

@jessinman3859 3 года назад

Would love to see a home tour!

@MalamaLife 3 года назад

So soon :) the kitchen and dining is almost done ❤

@licia7151 3 года назад

Yessssssss! 🙌

@SDLaMadrid 3 года назад

such a soft voice, like a feather or a pillow. it's tingly actually.

@MalamaLife 3 года назад

haha aw thank you Shannon 🥰

@gnrosi2029 2 года назад

I feel so calm and comfy when watching your videos. Your voice is so soothing and on top of that your advice is all really well said and motivating. I also love the quality of your videos, the bg music, the visuals, everything. Thank you for all your help and all that you do and simply existing, just wanted to let you know that you are one of my top favorite youtubers and your videos make me happy ((: God bless! ❤❤

@MalamaLife 2 года назад

Such a lovely and kind comment. Thank you so much. It really means a lot ❤😊🙏

@glong2720 3 года назад

I enjoyed this video. You are very wise. I am elder, but looking back, I am so happy to see the new generation not wanting just possessions, but to travel, enjoy life and not spend their entire existance on gathering things and possessions. Life is short. You need to go out and find yourself and enjoy every moment of your life you possibly can. Tomorrow is promised to no one. Your voice is very smooth and enjoyable to listen to.

@MalamaLife 3 года назад

Thank you for sharing your thoughts on this :)

@78jt 3 года назад

Your videos are relaxing to watch, and you have a soothing voice 👍

@MalamaLife 3 года назад

🥰 thank you so much

@mathildeamoussou9902 3 года назад

So good to see. You know when markets reopened the people were running in and I said to myself. Corona gave me the teaching that I don't need all the stuff to be happy . It was an addiction and most waist of money. Today I'm more conscient what to do with my money. Thank you for your content beautiful girl!

@katmuls 3 года назад

Your videos have really altered my mindest to spending. I always think of you and your words when I feel tempted to buy unnecessary items. Thank you, Sophie!

@MalamaLife 3 года назад

haha aww I am so so happy to hear that Katie :)

@andreamarie9526 3 года назад

I have been decluttering for a few years! Happy to say we own furniture, plants, blankets, clothing the stuff that we use and not much else extra! we use our planters as the decor piece or our coffee mug or a candle! its been wonderful! eating out however, well we love to cook at home but there are just so many good eat outs to miss, though we havent during the pandemic but its shown us we CAN make it without eating out now for sure!!!!

@MalamaLife 3 года назад

I also live near by really good restaurants and it's hard to resist sometimes, but you're right! the pandemic helped me to think of new meal ideas at home. Sounds like such a great simple way to decorate :) thanks for sharing

@juairiya4266 3 года назад

After starting my work life as an spoken English teacher and earned a little money by myself; I totally could understand, that, earning money wasn't something that easy. So now I'm truly respect my parents who tired of it. I wanna live a life without waste, even that was a trend for some people. Lots of ❤️.

@MalamaLife 3 года назад

I agree with you 🥰 thank you so much for sharing your story! much love from Maui

@erikarain4279 3 года назад

Low buy year going well, I "shop" my own house and closets, finding treasures I had forgotten about! So much time and money saved already. Plus, developing new healthy habits to fill the void, such as: expanded yoga practice, dietary studies, longer walks, do the floors every day! This is awesome. I only wonder, what took me so long?

@stephrobinson5381 3 года назад

Your platform is one of the best I have come across in a long time (both on RU-vid and Instagram)! I am also decluttering and redesigning how I consume and I already feel so much better for it. It’s a work in progress but even small changes make a huge difference to my life (and mindset)!

@MalamaLife 3 года назад

That's so sweet. thank you so much :) I feel good making these changes as well!

@paromitaszenleadership7229 3 года назад

Your videos are so therapeutic. When I can’t meditate may be because I’m doing some chore at home, I listen to your videos. I feel the same calming effect. I am embarking on this low buy year challenge with you. I got a couple of organisation items as I was decluttering massively last year and continuing. And just one T-shirt replacement. I am feeling very positive about it. Thanks Sofie for the inspiration!

@MalamaLife 3 года назад

That's really sweet 😊 thank you so much! So great you are doing this as well. As you said, it is such a great feeling to be really intentional with our purchases 😊💕

@CarlosFernandez-df7mi 3 года назад

I love how authentic you were in this video! Looking to the sides mentioning something you were not so proud of makes it feel so natural, really good vibes in this video :)

@MalamaLife 3 года назад

Thank you so much Carlos! I'm still trying to work on being completely comfortable in front of the camera, so your comment means a lot to me 🥰

@HawaiiYou88 3 года назад

I’m doing good so far for my low buy challenge this year. I also had a retail therapy problem in the past which caused me a lot of stress bc I had to constantly clean and organize a ridiculous amount of stuff I’ve accumulated over the years. Not sure if I could ever be a minimalist but I’m definitely very mindful of what I buy now. I’m also working on decluttering and doing things I like instead of trying to fill the void in my life by buying unnecessary things. I like to watch other minimalist channels too but yours is my favorite. It’s very helpful, motivating, and relaxing. 💕

@MalamaLife 3 года назад

That's so sweet. Thank you so much 🥰 really appreciate that! I don't know if I would call myself a minimalist, but I am also just mindful too :) trying to find my balance

@kellylaufman9429 Год назад

So glad I watched this , I was feeling sad cuz I had “nothing” to wear . I feel better now I picked out something I haven’t worn in awhile . Reminds me to be great full for what I do have . Being frugal is hard .

@missmegs37 3 года назад

love going on this journey with u! truthfully, my first month low buy wasn't a huge success (though improved) and im not going to beat myself up over it. this month is a new, and im definitely more aware of my triggers and have stopped myself already. the seven day rule is a great one, and just reminding myself of my financial goals is a big one. ty for sharing, sophie!

@MalamaLife 3 года назад

I hope you don't give up and keep going :) it's still only February. I'm sure the financial goals will be a huge motivation for you too

@SB-qn4st 3 года назад

Couldn't agree more with you. So I had this philosophy of not buying things on full price and wait for the sale. When we got these season end sales, I would feel anxious and would want to explore everything because I refrained from shopping during the no-sale period and just shopping something at a discounted price was an outlet. But as I am growing old and maturing, I realise what a flawed approach that was which lead me to buy things unnecessarily just because they were on sale! I now only shop what I need. I add things to my cart and sometimes I have gone months without buying those. That way I only bring things into my life that I really really need. When the sale hits and if those items are discounted, great - but even of they are at normal prices, I buy because I am beyond sure I need those items! Lovely video, like always. Blessings to your new kitchen. May it totally turns out the way your heart desires! ❤️

@MalamaLife 3 года назад

I have a weakness for sales too! even if I didn't need it, I would browse "just in case" there was something there I liked and I could get it at a lower price point. But that's so great you have changed your ways. I really appreciate you sharing and for your lovely comment :)

@classesanytime 3 года назад

You're on the right path girl 😊 Stop impulsive spending and appreciate the little things! 😘

@sonialarrosa6837 3 года назад

I downloaded Sophie’s spending goals PDF and it’s been helping me so far! I started to apply all the methods, and the results after the first month were surprising, actually. I not just stopped to buy random and unnecessary things but also I sold a lot of clothes and items I didn’t need anymore! So now, I am more able to open my budget without fear, save for some hobbies incomes and get house’s wages all settled easier... even giving me space to bigger shopping ideas as fixing my home breakdowns or replace my running low 6 years old iPad to a new one for work and study. Worth it! Thanks Sophie!

@MalamaLife 3 года назад

You are so sweet :) thank you so much Sonia. So cool it is helping you, because it helped me so much. Such a good feeling looking at budget app or bank acct without fear :)

@rebeccaoprea9917 3 года назад

Once we’re in a cycle , it’s hard to get out .

@MalamaLife 3 года назад

So true! It takes immense will power

@Jendelylane 3 года назад

I’m loving 🥰 all these challenges that are going on.so helpful for the collective . It hard for me to shop so I sometimes feel guilty for overspending when I do.

@MalamaLife 3 года назад

I love these low buy and no buy challenges too:) I think it's quite refreshing from all the ads and products we are shown. I hope you join too

@Jendelylane 3 года назад

@@MalamaLife i agree

@StefanieAnna 3 года назад

love the update Sophie. I can't wait to see your reflection at the end of the year, you always have great insights. My "buy nothing new year" is going well and I am realizing how much I can find second hand. I feel so much better about my purchases when I know they are a more sustainable choice, but also higher quality and for less money. It also great because by buying second hand it usually forces me to wait a little while before I can find it and gives me time to contemplate the purchase.

@MalamaLife 3 года назад

That's so great you are choosing second hand first. I am always surprised at the gems I find. I'll definitely do a reflection at the end of the year :) thanks Stefanie

@AliasHSW 3 года назад

Wait 7 days before pulling the purchase trigger is a good thing. Been doing it all my life. It makes me happier with my purchases - knowing that I really will (and do) appreciate it.

@jou5204 3 года назад

I've started a low buy too, because as a student I don't have a lof of money to begin with and I'm trying to save as much money as possible :) in January, I haven't bought anything and so far in February I've only bought a book and a gift for my boyfriend :)

@MalamaLife 3 года назад

That's so great :) I hope you keep it going so you can save

@rizalemi4439 3 года назад

I’m so happy I found this video. I’m gonna try this even though I missed 2 months already 😊 Thank you and btw your voice is so calming 💕

@MalamaLife 3 года назад

Thank you so much 🥰 I hope you try and you can always adjust the rules along the way

@rubyraw8901 3 года назад

your videos are sooo calming ... ps and I must say this, your hair is absolutely heavenly

@melodygardner 3 года назад

You're doing great! Understanding the link between taking control of your attitude towards societal "norms" in re: how much stuff we have and consume versus the amount of personal power and monetary leverage you can have if you don't adhere to those norms is the key to this process. You're literally becoming accountable for your success in life, one smart decision at a time. Trading money for peace of mind during a temporary reno is definitely a good choice if it keeps you sane in the short term. And yes, house tour would be awesome! Have a great day!

@MalamaLife 3 года назад

Thank you so much for this thoughtful comment! I loved what you said about becoming accountable for your success in life. House tour will be up hopefully next week :)

@DearDebt 3 года назад

I love this. Definitely trying my best to be intentional with my spending this year!

@MalamaLife 3 года назад

I hope you do 😊💕

@yoursocialmoth 3 года назад

I moved states recently and that really let me have a great time deciding what I wanted for my new life. I threw out and gave away so much, only taking what I truly wanted and needed. Now my new place feels like me. I lived in my former house for several years and felt overwhelmed by the accumulated stuff. With a clean slate I buy intentionally. When I got settled, I spent about $500 on new clothes that fit the style I'd grown into (basically black leggings and black turtlenecks daily!) I've only work black for years and hadn't bought clothes in the past 2 years. Having a monochromatic "uniform" makes me happy 😊 A lot less time spent thinking about what to wear.

@MalamaLife 3 года назад

Moving is such a good time to evaluate all of our stuff and see what our true essentials are. How exciting you are starting fresh in a new state. I'm glad you found your "uniform" 🥰 hugs from Maui

@8165Pat Год назад

I am 54 years old & have way too many possessions! I stopped buying things about a year ago. I am in process of decluttering my closets, basement & 3rd floor. I noticed about 4 months ago that I have more money now. I am paying off 2 credit cards & some medical co pays from 2 biopsies. I am cancer free! Yay! Thank you for the videos! They are very helpful to the lifestyle I have grown to love living! Blessings to you!

@DoctorKat 3 года назад

This video is so inspiring! I am definitely going to do this! I think the key when it comes to translating this challenge into action is to not see it as privation but more as a freedom. The freedom of choosing what to spend your money on and also on freeing yourself from clutter to have more energy to focus on things that matter to you like creativity, projects and things that actually make you happy. I think this is such a powerful habit

@MalamaLife 3 года назад

I just love what you said. Yes! it's so liberating, not limiting. It's counterintuitive to think that way, but for me, that is exactly how I feel :) thanks for watching

@ukumbini24 3 года назад

Watching this know the morning here.. Thank you

@MalamaLife 3 года назад

Good morning :)

@neitilusikka 3 года назад

I always budget everything in the beginning of a month and pay myself first (investments, savings etc.). I have x amount for groceries, eating out/coffee (more like takeaway) and hobbies in a month. This way I have to think every purchase carefully and rarely I buy something I don't need (or can't retun). In the past 9 months I have been able to triple my networth (which is super exciting and rewarding). I don't feel I have missed out on anything, I do buy stuff for need and I don't need to worry about money. :)

@MalamaLife 3 года назад

Thanks so much for watching :) I really appreciate that! always interested to hear how others handle their finances.

@mehfil_ae_zindagi__ 2 года назад

How therapeutic your voice is ❤❤❤ just love you 😘

@lydiarosebrita4901 Год назад

I've started doing this and have mainly seen my free time dramatically increase, and like you said, being able to think about other things and use my money for long term goals that are very important to me, rather than short term gratification.

@kristaleigh6086 3 года назад

When you said in your 20's you spent time accumulating stuff and now in your 30's you are trying to get rid of it all...OMG I feel that (recently turned 30)! That really puts into perspective the large shift in mindset that I have had over the years! Love your content! And also love that blouse on you and your necklace

@MalamaLife 3 года назад

It is just one of those lessons we learn as we get older :) In a way, I had to make those finance mistakes to learn a lot about the value of money, time and resources. Happy belated and welcome to your 30's 🥰

@collirvctth 3 года назад

January it was low buy for my beauty and self care products but I did spend money on dining out quite a few times. I’m definitely going to focus on cooking at home

@MalamaLife 3 года назад

Me too! Something we can both work on is not eating out too much 😁❤

@markblado4282 3 года назад

This was really an awesome topic Sophie! You did a very very good job in presenting it! We are waiting a week to purchase things that we believe we need. That does work because you either get it and you know you want it, or you decide that you really didn’t need it after all! That’s happened to us more than once. You have a lot of balls in the air, you’re juggling a lot of things, but I have a good feeling that you really know what you’re doing and you’re on the right track! I love your videos, keep up the good work!!

@MalamaLife 3 года назад

Waiting one week is simple enough, but a great way to think carefully about my purchase. Thank you for all your kind words Mark :) I hope you and Gayle had a great valentine's day 🥰

@IreneSimply 3 года назад

I love your aesthetics and your voice is so calming and soothing. I’ve been trying to cut down on my monthly spending, especially on clothing this year and I feel like I’ve been experiencing the same things as you! New subbie!!

@MalamaLife 3 года назад

Thanks so much Irene. Cutting back on clothing really changed my mind about it. Also feels so good to save money right? :D

@thesameCaroline 3 года назад

Your voice is so calming 💕

@MalamaLife 3 года назад

Thank you so much 🥰❤

@alexperoff-investingessent8367 3 года назад

When you said retail therapy and paying for something to just sit in your home, that struck a cord with me. When I was younger, having things (mostly video games) were the thing that have me that dopamine hit. But nowadays I'm just trying to get rid of as much unnecessary things as I can. As you said, you're paying for something to live in your house. I can also relate to how boredom can make us impulsively buy things, for nothing more than entertainment, that can also go with food too. Well, hopefully you won't unsubscribe because I'm not a fashion blogger and won't sell you anything 😂😂. Also, I need to reevaluate my spending in the new married life. Is your husband also doing the no buy challenge? Like!

@MalamaLife 3 года назад

Haha Alex your channel motivates me to invest and become more aware of my finances 😁👍 it definitely helps with my low buy challenge. My husband is the true minimalist and I feel like I am just catching up to him. How exciting for you to start your married life ❤

@micaylab1 3 года назад

I'm almost finished decluttering and reorganizing my bedroom desk and other parts of my bedroom! I'm both So Happy and starting to feel better by not being surrounded by so much stuff in my bedroom.

@MalamaLife 3 года назад

So cool to hear! I declutter a little bit this weekend too. Just doing it at my own pace :) so happy for you that you are starting to feel better away from the clutter

@Zhuntress 3 года назад

Im so so glad i checked youtube while i was bored shopping. This video helped me tremendously. Thank you!

@MalamaLife 3 года назад

So glad that it helped out 🥰 thanks for watching!

@geneviv83 3 года назад

So happy i found your channel.someone who is beautiful with no pressure..☺️

@MalamaLife 3 года назад

Thank you so much 🥰

@writeitdown2013 3 года назад

Great message. Also, love that you're reading jean-paul sartre 🙂

@MalamaLife 3 года назад

Thank you! he is one of my favorites 😊❤

@jamieleach9322 3 года назад

I started my low buy lifestyle when my son didn't file his FAFSA for college and I was going to have to pay his full tuition. I stopped buying clothes, fancy coffees, and other things we didn't need. I also cooked at home as much as possible. Now he has a full tuition PELL Grant and we don't have to scrimp and save, but like you, we've realized that we don't need so many things to be happy. I've enjoyed more hiking, using the library, and being creative with the things I have. I've also started down the minimalism path, which is how I found your channel. I love your approach and the peaceful feeling of your videos. Thank you for sharing your journey. 💜😊 Enjoy Today!

@MalamaLife 3 года назад

Hiking, library and being creative sounds so great :) So much more joy in it than shopping for things in my opinion. thank you for your kind comment. Wishing you the best in your minimalism journey as well

@licia7151 3 года назад

The questions were a lot better! Go you! I didn't feel rushed to read and I didn't have to rewind to see. It was a great amount of time! Thanks! I had a no-buy in January. But I ended up cracking around 20’s but I stopped and continued. So, it was like 26/31 days. That's passing 💁‍♀️ I seen a huge difference and set a budget for myself now. I'm extremely proud of myself.

@MalamaLife 3 года назад

That's great :) Appreciate the feedback. Also, good for you! I hop you continue.

@max3334441 3 года назад

I am so happy i found your channel, I finally found someone who feels exactly as I do and explain it so well 😊, my plan is to move to Taitung, Taiwan to start my slow living in few years 😇

@MalamaLife 3 года назад

Thank you so much 🥰 I really appreciate your support! Taiwan is somewhere I've always wanted to visit. I wish you the best there

@lucieecacho 3 года назад

Hi Sophie. I’m loving your videos. Very high quality, relaxing and inspiring. Thanks for all the work that you do. Yes please give us a house tour soon. Have a wonderful day💖

@MalamaLife 3 года назад

Thank you so much Lucie 💕 really appreciate you watching and commenting. So glad you are enjoying my videos. House tour coming soon :)

@lucieecacho 3 года назад

💗☺️

@travelchoseme 2 года назад

Thank you for making this video. This is the kind of content I need to see more! All of my friends said I was changing because this is the direction I am going in. I just don’t find solace in buying new clothes and shoes anymore. Thank you again.

@MalamaLife 2 года назад

🥰

@blueberriechiiizcake Год назад

Im glad I came across this video of you. I'll definitely be doing this one this 2023 after seeing how much money I spent on clothes this year. 🥰

@elgraciasvlogs8173 3 года назад

Waah! This is a big help for me, "low buy budget" since We are planning to save more for our New Home.

@MalamaLife 3 года назад

That's the perfect time to do it :)

@lauras627 3 года назад

Started Dave Ramsey’s plan! I stopped buy crap! When I get tempted, I add stuff to a cart and leave it there! I unsubscribed to emails and stopped following RU-vidr or Instagramers that shop and coupon shop!

@MalamaLife 3 года назад

Yes! I love your approach. Unsubscribing really worked well for me. Now I don't check my emails for coupons or deals :)

@abegaillacson2573 3 года назад

your voice is so soothing. I've been binge-watching your videos. I hope I can achieve my minimalism goals. Thank you for the videos. :)

@MalamaLife 3 года назад

🙏🥰 thank you so much

@sandupamaudagedara1213 3 года назад

you just start to low buy in your 30s now am gonna do it in my 20s.... Thank you Malama. I discovered your channel 4 days ago. Now I am addicted to your video's. All these videos give something new to learn for me & calm me down instantly. Keep up your good work. Love from Sri Lanka ❤😊💕💖

@Havanah2006 3 года назад

I’m definitely moving into a low buy year (except for plants lol as it was what I wanted to limit myself). I’ve even moved myself into a low buy year by changing my hours at work to save money on petrol and food, as I buy a lot of food with clients during the day as a lot of my hours are on the road. So moving into overnight shifts will literally save me I’m certain over $100 weekly which is crazy because I’m so strict in other areas of my life. Thanks for the inspiration. We need to finish up our kitchen renos (cosmetic) & continue my new garden etc., low buy can definitely help me achieve this for sure x

@MalamaLife 3 года назад

Super inspiring! Love how dedicated you are and changing your life around to make it work ❤ good for you Sani. So cool.

@westcoastsands 3 года назад

I’m doing a NO buy challenge (except for food and gas) and the first month was a challenge. I bought a frame for a certification / license that I just passed in December and I paid for a yoga class this February for $15.00.

@MalamaLife 3 года назад

That's so great! thanks for sharing 🥰 I hope we keep it going for the rest of the year (and beyond )

@jnada101 3 года назад

i love your channel so much

@MalamaLife 3 года назад

Thank you so much💕😊 hugs from Maui

@patricialong7047 3 года назад

Your channel is one of the best I subscribe to. Your content is informative, entertaining, and nicely presented. I truly enjoy the overall vibe. Thank you!

@MalamaLife 3 года назад

That's so sweet. Thank you so much Patricia 🙂

@olviaangulo3058 3 года назад

Yes, I didn't know this was is a challenge. But I am on a no spend 2021. I've been doing better after I unsubscribed to retail emails. Thank you for your beautiful videos.

@MalamaLife 3 года назад

That's so great! I started as a low buy, but now it's more like a No buy for me :) it's great feeling. thanks for watching 🥰

@devasri_ 3 года назад

I only bought things for my upcoming Etsy shop (passion project) and nothing for myself. Money going to better things🙌🏽

@MalamaLife 3 года назад

I love it! Love directing money in the right direction 😁🙌

@marketacomorkova9944 3 года назад

I am following the low buy year thanks to you and so far the first month was not hard at all! I thought I will struggle much more :D I only bought stuff for my parents birthday and I am focusing more on my career, planing holidays when restrictions are lifted and self-development. AND I paid off a bigger amount of my loan! This challenge only makes me feel happier.

@MalamaLife 3 года назад

I bet that feels amazing to see the loan balance go down! good for you 🥰 so happy for you. I love that you are putting your priorities first and challenging yourself. I am so happy I decided to challenge myself too

@maxblack2230 3 года назад

Agree 100%. Would rather enjoy experiences. Things come with responsibility-storage, cleaning, insurance etc and also they’re damn heavy if you have to move them around!

@MalamaLife 3 года назад

Yes! I don't enjoy spending my free time taking care of my stuff :) thanks for watching

@jeanine2437 3 года назад

You are so inspiring!

@MalamaLife 3 года назад

Thank you 💕😊

@SMS-qf1em 3 года назад

Hi Sophie, thank you for inspiring me to relook at my spending habits and started the low buy challenge. I think I did well in January, I managed to avoid shopping mindlessly and I've been keeping track of the things I bought and the amounts spent on them. I have to say the hardest part of doing this challenge is the groceries, eating out and take-outs. I need to work harder on keeping to my budget on that.

@MalamaLife 3 года назад

Yes me too! it is always tempting for us because we live by so many great restaurants. but hopefully we can both work on it.

@ilsev.3656 2 года назад

You've inspired me to do a low buy month or longer again, I spend way too much money on things I don't need. Started today with an inventory of what is in my closet for fall season, making combinations with what I already own instead of running to the store for the newest thing. I also tried on a dress and t-shirt today, but ended up not buying them whereas before I definitely would have. Now I thought, I have so many already, I want to be happy with what I have first and 'shop my own closet'.

@samsarahsabanal4854 2 года назад

The first time that I installed an app store, I really got addicted to it. After 3 days I uninstalled it.. I have detached myself from any social media except youtube because I needed to watch good videos like yours and healthy lifestyle. Well, I am don't have much money but I am totally aware of spending money. But sometimes I got deceive by alcohols because I have the hobby of drinking alone in the house.. But overall having a time alone for myself is something that makes me happy. Thank you for your videos, I have watched your videos since this morning and until now.. I really like that you have a wonderful home, specially that you're near in the ocean. How I wish to have such a wonderful place like yours.