Because they have slept with too many men, nitpicked their habits (rather than being committed to them) and treated them as disposable soerm providers - like a Venti cup from Starbucks: just throw it away when you’ve emptied the canister.
Exactly, he's got to work 18hrs a day 6 days a week,& I bet you sure didn't want that to be a receptionist but a lawyer, but THEY will order food or go out. She won't even cook for him, unless she's also working that much
@@Sikorsky1111 What do you do for your workouts? Asking for a friend (I'm the friend). I absolutely hate it and always wish it's over as soon as I start.
@@sub7se7en Weightlifting, calisthenics(bodyweight exercises for strength), sparring, running etc, I alternate on different days and do something different the next week. I hated it too(still do sometimes) but you get used to it.
@@Sikorsky1111 Damn that's way more than what I do. I'm mainly doing cardio and light weights. I'm way out of shape due to sedentary living. Can't even walk up the stairs without my heart racing. Recognized the issue so now I'm trying to make up for it. I actually don't mind the weight lifting so much. It's not too bad, but the cardio is absolute torture and I think that's what I need the most. I pray Allah makes it easy on us both.
She has a tiktok so probably a high body count, a weed smoking habit, hangovers every weekend, and no dad for this partner to have a father in law to bond with.
That's the why she said she wants him to view her as the prize. That's code for 'he better not have any expectations of me, my career, my life, my date planning, my budget'.
She wants a guys that 1. Works full time 2. Works out, is a foodie and lives a balanced lifestyle (Is ripped, but can eat whatever he wants and isn't in the gym all the time). 3. Parties & travels. 4. Is fun to be around and can take care of her. 5. Can go out late on weeknights for spontaneous dates (that he'll plan). 6. Is so grateful to have her that he feels like he won the lottery. Sounds like she wants a man with a trustfund, 72 hours in his day, and has never been with a woman before. Also, she only wants him for the summer. A man with all that going on, for a temporary fling...
She wants a: - full time working person who also - spends time texting with her - works out regularly - spends time at house watching Netflix - orders food regularly - travels a lot - and most importantly: Lives for her entertainment rather than for his own quality of life.
When did she mention texting? She also said LIKES to travel not travels a lot. Tbh this list is very reasonable because I known lots of women like this
It's not learning to say no so much, it's more like learn to put up a fight that's stronger than hers. Ultimately, she'll back down. Otherwise you're a push over man 😂😂 ....a yes man for all intents and purposes
Yea... that right there, is one of the things that has kept me "carrier" free, despite my body count. As I hear something like that and my thought immediately go to "I like to wake up on strangers' beds" and assesss that she's probably someone I'll catch something from.
@@diesel4338Most of Gen Z is. I'm Gen Z (born in the early 2000s) and I HATE what most of Gen z and HATE that I'm associated with it. It absolutely just DISGUSTS me.
So ya'll can't even do the most basic sht and call women delusional 😂😂 I don't know 1 woman that doesn't do all of these these but it sounds like ya'll are the delusional ones
Imagine.. imagine though… Asking this… of a woman. No PERSON on earth, man nor woman could do this, but if you asked it of a woman, they would all be super upset that you thought they weren’t able.
The Rolling Stones said it best "You can't always get what you want.....but if you try sometimes, you just might get what you need." In this case therapy and a reality check.
Went on a date with a chick who couldn’t stop talking about her disc golf club which is like all dudes. Went nowhere, she was probably divorced from one of them 😂
Work is 10 to 12 hours a day with travel. Workout is another 2 hours. You gotta eat so there is another 90 minutes. I have yet to mow the grass, do laundry, fix cars etc.
And if you're really wealthy you gotta work Saturdays and some Sundays too! Cus you'll have to do accounts budget meetings and taxes on those days. And even if you aren't rich you should spend that time in your side hustle or read books.
Anybody with a ridiculous list like that will never, ever be satisfied, even if she somehow manages to land someone that checks off every box on that list. She is too immature and clueless to even know what she really wants. May God have mercy on any guy that falls into THAT mess.
Technically, I could give her this lifestyle, although I'm very lucky to be able to do that. But not any chance in heck I'd give it to her. My girlfriend is a lot higher quality woman.
I want a car with an extremely powerful engine, but which is super fuel-efficient. It should have room for 6 people inside, but must fit into every parking space in the city. I need a very large loading area, but I want a convertible. It shouldn't have any technical bells and whistles, but it should be self-driving and have LCD TVs on all seats. It should look like a luxury car, but it shouldn't cost anything. Oh yes, I only need it this summer. Why the heck can't I find a suitable car?
@@Zedeeziayup thats a crack dealer or a basketball player and all 12-15 of the basketball players in NY are wifed up or with multiple baby mamas already.
Its literally zero since its way yo specific… and some of the traits are actually opposites. And if somehow this man did exist… ge would 100% be dating exclusively models and famous women
Ideal height for honest surveys finds 5 “11 to be ideal and the most swiped height on a certain dating app is 5 “8. Height isn’t really that important to most women. It is if it is super apparent like 5”5 or 6”9 and even then, many women have no issue dating these types of men with many even preferring giants and smaller men. Even for those with height requirements, many overlook it if the man is simply taller than them or even becomes taller with shoes on or reaches their same height with shoes on. Some 50 plus guys also age very well along with some women.
She wants comic book Batman. A billionaire who's in charge of his business in the daytime and fighting crime at night and somehow has a reputation as a playboy.
Above 6 feet is like 5% of male population, she's dropping them percents faster than I can count. 8 billion people are nothing in the face of those odds.
ALL he gets in return is a woman who makes demands and critiques his behavior and interests. She is looking for this imaginary man, but she should focus on self-awareness, and why so many men are AVOIDING her...
It does NOT make any sense. Does not compute. HOW can a man travel and party at the same time? Perhaps she wants the man to watch Netflix with her after his shift is over.
And how can you do nothing and work out regularly, how can you have a full-time job and still go on late dates during the week, how can you be successful at your job and still stay in during the week? None of that makes any sense.
@@dakz9296its not at the same time. She wants someone who likes to go out travelling, but other times(probably most of the time), likes to chill at home and watch netflix. She basically just described a guy that isnt so lazy that outdoor activites are a no-go, likes to work out and takes his job seriously.
@@slampest Yet also works enough to where he can support both of them, meaning the job he has will consist of at least 48 hours per week with high probability of overtime. Those jobs are not sustainable with a "netflix and chill, laze around on the weekdays" lifestyle.
She wants an impossible Superman "for this summer", I guess by fall she will need someone who magically has 40 hour days to focus on her just to make up for the clouds and rain.
What relationship? Unless you manipulate time or can produce doppelganger it's impossible to do. You can't grind and party and workout and travel and still have time 4 days a week.
@@journeyoflife9159 Traveling AND partying at the same time? Where did she get the idea that this is possible? How can a man travel while working a full time job (unless he has to travel for work)?
@@dakz9296 that's why she is called out xD and he has to workout too like he has to have like 80 hours a day since he also watches TV and rests xD but he will only be a summerfling 😂😂😂 like yeah he might be Superman but that's only worth as a summerfling
"For this summer" == "Even if I land Mr. Perfect Contradictions, I'm inevitably going to be tired of him and looking to cheat with some drug dealer that has more free time to give me attention by early September"
Wow. What the heck is wrong with women these days. I’m 19, and I have the most perfect man ever, and he meets none of her standards. Except the last one. He really does look at me every day like he won the lottery, and I see him the same way. We’re so happy to be married to one another, and I’m so proud of my hard working husband who also manages to stay fit and plan the best dates for us. That woman needs to learn to be content with a man who only makes enough money, only works out to be fit rather than ripped, and only has the time or the money to have date nights that are cups of tea shared at home or walks in the park. A man who loves you and your children more than anything is of far greater value than riches, abs, and weekends away. Poor girl is gonna be unhappy forever if she doesn’t change herself
It’s people in general and it’s always been bad. I was hanging crap on a work mate recently who described his perfect woman as basically a virgin with the bedroom skills of a professional lady of the night, will stay home and care for the house/kids but somehow have a steady income, spend every day at the gym to maintain a perfect body and to top it all off, have no friends or family to distract her. He says I make it sound worse that it is.
@@Pithisius Yes sir, as it should be. Young marriage offers so many benefits, and life is beautiful this way. No wasted fertile years, no heartbreak from years and years of past failed relationships, and our whole life ahead of us to enjoy one another both in the strength of youth and in the grace of age.
@@KaelynRuthMore people are adopting this mindset. You are not alone. I got married to my wife at 27 and even then, people told me it was too early. Our world is broken but people like you can change it.
Her list consists of wanting a man who... -has a job -works out -is a foodie -likes to have fun -balanced lifestyle -likes to party -likes to travel In short, she wants a man who is working, grinding, partying, AND traveling all at the same time. The man has to stay in on Thursday and randomly texts her on a Tuesday. Talk about unrealistic expectations. I blame Instagram for this.
So she is either looking for a content creator reviewing bars/restaurants/clubs that is successful or a drug dealer/trafficker. Most likely the latter as she brings zero to the table.
All of her listed things are easily achievable by the average person on a weekly basis, and for travel on a yearly or seasonal basis. Its not unrealistic
@@owendejong9711 Did you even listen to her? How can you work, grind, travel, relax, work out, eat-out a lot, do absolutely nothing and also spend money on dates with you all at the same time and yet have a balanced lifestyle? That is a choked up lifestyle already, also it seems you missed the part where she said "for the summer", so travelling few times is out of the picture. Also she literally has his weekly schedule planned out for him even tho she hasn't even met him. To expect to find a man who automatically does everything on the list while following your weekly schedule IS unrealistic.
@@elsinaattheworkshop I did watch the video yes, and AM living that lifestyle. Actually my coming weeks are already more full and I would only have time for Netflix on tuesdays. We can take dancing lessons together though I think and just go to the festivals together.
As someone who does this minus the traveling and partying yeah theres very little me time especially when Im currently in a relationship. If I tried to travel or party Id be hella burned out lmao. But I still try my damn best to stay positive and stay motivated. Either way that woman gives me some very intimidating vibes on expectations on the way she just says it like its nothing.
I knew a guy that had a full-time job and worked out. He worked out 2-3 times a week, 2 hours each time but pushed himself in those 2 h. He had a family. He went out to the park with his family on weekends. She can find these guys but she HAS to be a catch. She doesn't look like it.
Lol. I did these things for years. I was told "what? No. Im not getting ready now" when being spontaneous. I was told i was never home from my family specialist mechanical and engineering business. Then i went home earlier, to be told later i wasnt making enough (i was smart enough to keep a separate stash of cash, hoping to surprise her when we started building our house) so i worked from 7am to 5.30pm, went home and helped her with dinner, kids, washing up. After she went to bed, I'd go back to work (lived close) and work till midnight or so. Shower at work and go home. I tried date nights, organising ours boys babysitting etc. I took her on holiday to North Queensland, 2 nights in a resort, camping for 4 days on Fraser Island, then one day back at the resorts sub penthouse. We hadn't holidayed in a few years, so i went all out... as i had listened to what she wanted and looked forward to. I even managed to time it with our best friends to meet up at the resort on the last day/night. SO....... She complained as we drove up because i had camping gear and she thought we were ONLY camping for the entire trip. I didn't want to spoil the surprise, so i just tried to tell her i had it planned. We arrived. She forgot a bag. World ending calamity ensues, even though we are in an apartment above the main street and i hand her hundreds to go buy whatever she forgot and more. Long story...I'll end it with... NEVER, EVER, EVER GET MARRIED OR HAVE KIDS. 😅😅😅😅😅😅
I'm sorry she didn't seem to appreciate you and all you did to try to make her happy. Some people just don't know how good they have it. You deserve better. Being single is ok. You only have yourself to worry about when it comes to being happy.
damn i feel for u, all i can learn from this is never ever go near an ungrateful bi*h, not just relationships but friendships too, i felt unappreciated for a very long time among friends until i switched some people and basically ghosted them, i hope u find true happiness in ur life and never even go near ungrateful people like who u mentioned ❤
People love to complain about modern dating whatever chance they get, but to be completely honest, I have to admit… this man is me. It’s not really that hard to fit this mold, honestly. I don’t know why people are complaining. The only thing I don’t like that much is partying. Well, I like parties, but I don’t like clubs. And there’s no way to know the lottery with this girl because that’s a hypothetical I’d only know if we were dating. But aside from those two iffy things? Literally me. This type of man isn’t rare, it’s just that we have standards. Too bad I moved back home from New York last year. 🤷♂️ Usually… women complaining about how they can’t find men just want attention, though. So I’d probably go on one date with her but something tells me she’s not my type. You know where men like us are? Working on ourselves and meeting people who spend their time off of TikTok and Instagram. Just being real. 🙃
@@shadow_realm47 Yeah… you right. What’s funny is that between the time of me writing this comment and right now is that I met someone. So… hope that gives everyone some hope. :)
