I WAS A MAIL ORDER BRIDE (my experience) 💵 

Why most of such brides are Hairdressers and Nail Technicians ? :)

Your videos are amazing. Did you say $300-$400 a month is enough to “survive” in Russia? Let’s say I know a guy who takes home $10k a month. Hold would life be for said person?

i got scammed by one of these sites once, i even put like $100 on there. It was very obvious that the 'girls' or whoever was talking were simply interested in just keeping you typing as much as possible until your credits dried up. Honestly cam girls have turned out to be more open and real than the 'girls' on that site were.. And yes, if the algo ever catches you looking at one of those sites you can be sure that it will show you all of them, there must be thousands of such sites, it's pretty insane. With even a cursory glance you'll notice that basically all of them are running the same site software with just slightly different themes and colors.

what is your mother's relationship status? will she be my mail order bride? I won't make you call me dad.

I've heard of these type of sites but I javelin not used them.

Oh no!

FloridaYalta did the same, when she got a U.S. citizenship

Well, I hope he had a great honeymoon.

@@james0156 Streamer Alinity did something like this too. Really scummy ladder-climbing-at-anyones-expense type women.

your uncle was Don trump?!

i thought that story was gonna take a way worse turn than it did lmao

😂😂😂

Pussy is pussy right?

LOL

I guess you got you pvssy one way or another.

80% of all American / foreign marriages are successful and when it comes to American / Russian marriages the divorce rate is even less at 14%….. bear in mind that most marriages aren’t your stereotypical (scammy) mail order bride situation, most meet through the real FSU dating circle and are typically age appropriate with the women over 40. They well matched physically and the women are usually highly educated and financially independent…. It’s actually no different to western dating, apart from the travel.

@@MXX265 Sources?

@@taterkaze9428 …. It’s been a few years since I read the 20% statistics (I’ll find it and post later today), but the 14% data come directly from a friend who works in the Russian equivalent of the births, deaths and marriages department in Krasnodar, Southern Russia. It’s actually statistics for Russian marriages to all nationalities who married in Russia before moving abroad to the spouses country.

Although many of such marriages work out, the disasters are the ones that get all the attention. Thus, perceptions get negatively formed.

MMX265 has no data to support the comment----just his/her deep thoughts. @@taterkaze9428

The old fashioned way is the best. Dating agencies only work if both parties are there genuinely signed up because they are lonely and want a relationship. They have their place and some couples need that go between to help. Otherwise you need to do the hard work and communicate with people and then something clicks and you realise it is something more. A marriage has so many stresses money, children, health so picking from a list given to you is a bit of a massive gamble especially if the motives for both parties are not open and clear.

I'm glad you felt the need to share your life story, but how on earth is that even semi-relevant to the video you commented on apart from the word Russian?

@@dc4825 Literally four sentences and does relate somewhat to the content for the video.

Good for you, Happy stories are a rare thing to hear anymore. Congrats!!!

@@dc4825 it was relevant to the video so what is the issue?

You moved from the UK to South Africa? Wow, that's crazy, people would kill for the chance to move the other way around. That country is certainly in a state right now.

If she chose SA (no constant supply of electricity) to Russia (has electricity all the time), it's that probably you are really special person it is worth to suffer for.

I'll take things that never happened for 1500 dollars please!

Hey :) We left UK in 01/2010 when the electricity was still on in South Africa. I'd much rather prefer to live around Saint Petersburg than in ZA (South Africa). My in-laws' house (close to Petergof) don't even have a key for their house. Zero crime. My wife doesn;t want to go back, she says it is too cold. We live Ellisras (Limpopo Province) She loves the 42 Celsius. @@iHorus

jesus christ why would you willingly live in south africa...

Sad to hear you missed out on a woman who knows how to clean.

It could be scammer using someone's else photos and just happens to use the wife of your cleaning guys,.

It's possible. Glad they got nothing from me but time and emotions.@@ZxSpectrumplus

​@@ZxSpectrumplusmost likely she was the scammer

@@Ranthra1 you thought that someone who wants you to send them money actually liked you?? Lmfao

I'm guessing this is Olga Reznikova or Taya

​@@cameronclare2132Really? I was thinking Connor.

@@noco7243 Well Pick Up Artistry was always the original point of Conor's channel so I don't see anyone being surprised by him talking about other ways to get with young pretty women, also Conor has spent most of the time since the Invasion outside of Ukraine, for example now he's in Warsaw.

yeah I was thinking Taya and Olga Reznikova. I was keeping up with their videos before they started doing the mail in bride thing

I don't even know who that is. I was specifically referring to Ukrainian RU-vidrs. @@noco7243

lucky guy, he was... or she's a russian spy

I bet using those site/option will be a lot cheaper then getting divorces x3!

If you really want love , buy an apartment or house. In Russia . You need to show stability and kiss the hand of the mother in law. If you do this it’s possible to get a twenty year junior woman

​@@buddyrojek9417 facts! Wish I would have 20 years ago, & dodged all these feminist bullets

@@jeremyr7147 do it now, some go good at 50

I like to think of myself as a "Reformed bachelor".

Not entirely. It is possible to find legit situations. And very possible to find people that went WAY OVER what was acievable and then yelled scam because the fat poor guy didn't land the super model as a trophy wife. About 90% of so called scam reports are this actually. False claims. Easy to spot a scammer. Send me $. Translation and stuff is an honest business. A girl seeking a husband is hardly going to talk to one person. More like 20. Same as the guy. And there will be agencies out there that pay girls to take pictures and possibly even show up for a video call. With no inention of ever being with anyone. Is this any different then dating here at home where she wants you to take her to the uber expensive restaurant on date 1 and spend $1000 when she already decided she is not really interested in you? Just putting it in perspective. Everyone gets scammed all the time. On or offline. It's no different then anything else. Just an easier way to reach more people. I guarantee you that your own local politician that you voted for is scamming you one hell of a lot more then any other criminal out there. There's an unbelievable chance of that actually. No one gets into politics without the intention of using their office for personal gain. I don't care what the BS story they tell you is. It is Always about the $.

I actually believed they just stole random girls pictures from Instagram and such.

The mail order bride scam predates the internet. Hence _mail_ order.

@@HonoredMuleyes and no There are scam outfits and legit ones. What are they asking you for? Is that reasonable or not? Most guys are going for shit way out of their league. Like lets chase the girl with 1000 guys writing to her and naturally she is picking the best one. You get into that competition and ya it's gonna be tempting for the girl from the poor country to accept gifts. Assuming there is no competition is stupidity 101. And chucking $ at her like crazy is just begging for it. Did you get scammed or did you scam your self? I'm betting about 90% scammed themselves

is she still married to the guy she met on the site ?

what site how i find? i need find

@@GameHEADtime If you did not understand, that was almost 3 decades ago. Everything has changed since then. If you are really serious and have the money, your best bet is to travel there and spend some time there looking. And you are going to need money, flight travel, fees, etc.

@@kevinfisher1345 I think now after 27 years that had I invested the same effort here in America I would have had an equal chance at happiness. After 5- 10 years in America people adapt to America and except for the accent they are not much different than Americans.

@@enriquelaroche5370 Note to self, keep them locked up in the house, LOL!!!

Nobody believes you.

thank u so much for a compliment, agent 🕵🏻‍♂❤

Agent.😂 You're so funny

John Barrett - Are You a Simp?

@@michaelchevreaux7780 Nope. Awww is someone jealous i commented on her video which Agent Nesty loved then replied saying thanks for the compliment? Besides, i'm a member of her channel and you're not so sucks to be you haha🤣🤣🤣

@@johnbarrett4846 Thanks For Confirming It. Enjoy Being a Simp? We Mgtows Know Better.

Sadly after watching this, I am canceling Dream Singles

It's because women aren't looking for love. Once you understand that, you will be much more successful with dating.

Most modern women became soulless gold diggers sadly, it is better die alone than dealing with one of those...

I dont of lack of social skill and approach cold in the streets women and hundreds each year. But no date even they like me. Because I am average and average mens the new ugly. 70% of women world laughed at me, insulted and looked down on me because never never they would date a guy like me lol They would even date old fat pig face men than me. Then i did a experiment and approached girls in the city and everything was fine. MY personality was always fine. Because 30% were nice or even into me but said no i cant overcome the looks. While to others friends or foreigners they think I have lots of girls or affairs :D So new women world is crazy. Now 32 and virgin and empty phone no love no sex not dating life no life to feel like a normal human. I didnt watch the video i will do later. Only money, looks and status is important which they can gain comfort, security or carrer benefits. Only after they feel old with 30 and had much fuckboys the will go for the old ugly men but not me because they only take the naive dumb beta ugly old men who fell into trap of fake love and fake marriage. So my life is now over I lived from 27-32 as the best version of myself and lots of flirty talkings in real offline but now I know better. ITS NOT WORTH IT THE TIME AND ENERGY AND MENTAL HEALTH. Women are not worth it. Its all fake. Now i couldnt finish my university because of 700 rejections offline and feeling bad. At least i chill now without job and chilling at home while bitches work. Revenge and justice. Unfortunately too late for me because i cant start over because no money no diploma no job. But at least I know now the life of others are full of shit and fake relationships and marriages. I SAW THE TRUTH BY TALKING TO WOMEN HOW THEY LIE, CHEAT AND BETRAY AND SUCK THE MONEY OUT FROM OTHERS :D Most women who look for husband because only feeling old with 30 and had 50+ fuckboys in bed still bang here and there while searching for beta simp to only meet for coffee and interviewer and not date testing him as candidate while other guys still get sex from bed to bed then suddenly she becomes pregnant and marries the old ugly guy while she had sex 2 days before with the hot fuckboy :D I dont take garbage. Well at least life is now better more peace and freedom no more women hunting because in the end 100% dont want me even i am looking good clean average and no nerd type or big ear or nose. My friends call me the George Clooney of the average guys so i am decent looking. Still too ugly for women for most of them 70% that they even say it to me or laugh or look down on me. Even sabotage me because they cant stand I was always good in every job or class. But i will get revenge by beeing super rich. I play lottery since 1 year and I almost won 2x times only needing the last 6th number. The day will come where I reject all of them coming to me because of my money and 500k car and telling them to fuck off how ugly she is. I WILL DIE WITH DIGNITY AS VIRGIN BUT AT LEAST WITH THE TRUTH KNOWING HOW WOMEN REALLY ARE

How are the guys being taken advantage of lol they want to order a woman

​@@ggoddkkiller1342well post communist women are definitely modern and are you saying eastern European women don't care about money? If they're on the sites they probably care about money more than the average western woman

@@leahflower9924, they are led to believe that it's a dating site.

Same

man at this point as a regular dude, ur time has passed, accept it.

@@frustationoverloaded5976 Everyone can find love regardless of age. Don't be rude. Maybe not the mail order bride way though! LOL

@@Haderach-b4r i know, but i don't think he has thought of it yet even at 46. Now if he does it he would be very old by the time his kids grow. That's not good for the family. I know this becuz my parents did it. It would be very sad to see ur parents die before u r settled properly, or to not see ur children be self sustaining before u close ur eyes, both ways it's sad.

@@frustationoverloaded5976 He has more time in front of him to build a family than a 20 years old woman. Biology.

It's no different than the 900 numbers back in the old days. Just a place some people go because they think they can't find someone at home or in their conventional ways.

That's all well and good as long as I don't need to get called a moral reprobate for "forcing" them to go there.@@kb25j

Curious , why at some point it did not occur to you that if someone really was interested in you she would not expect you to pay for a continuing friendship with her.

Dude just talk to a woman in your own country. Why does it have to be an Eastern European. So weirdly specific

@@jorgeenchilada because I prefer Slavic women. Specifically.

@@jorgeenchiladaIf you spend any time in Eastern Europe, you'll see the quality of women is extremely high compared to the West. I lived in Ukraine for 6 months and have a Ukrainian woman living with me for the last year. She's 50 years old and still is stunning and knows how to take care of men.

Russians are doing great. Dont believe what you hear even our top government officials lie about Russia & Putin. Russia moves by the hand of God.

100% agree, i have russian friends here and have been over there to. cold country but warm people, and good hosts for there guests. love my russian and ukrainian friends, we are al people and human. politicians should fight there own fights, there would be a lot less of them.

ar..... She never really get in! she did it as a youtube video thingy!

Which Russian soul? The one that's leveling to the ground Ukraine? 😵‍💫

@@christianmusso629 Yes, most Ukranias were brainwashed through the fake "Orange Revolution" which only enriched the oligarchs who now reside in the US, Europe and Israel while Ukranians fight and died to enrich the industrial military industries. Ukranians and Russians are brothers, and eventually they will enjoy peace and prosperity when all the neonazzzies are wiped out.

Most of those sites have a 0% Chance of getting Married.

​@@christianmusso629let's be realistic for a second. Not all ppl living in Russia want this war or support it they just can't do anything about it. Many are brainwashed like religious fanatics that go into a trance when their guru preaches. The Orcs fighting in Ukraine are all hardcore career criminals, drunks and deadhead zombies with no vocation or profession so the fight and die. Sorry Nastya...!

@@christianmusso629 Ukrainians are just a few cultists who hate state and city culture. Kiev junta, consisting of Ukrainian cultists, destroyed Ukraine (set it to failed state) on 21.02.2014 with help of state "elites" of USA (Victoria Nuland had spread the cookies). That is why they hate Russians, who are undisputed majority in Ukraine and who built all the social infrastructure (including economy compared with economy of Germany in 1991). Ukrainians are shelling civil Russians and taking cover behind them in cities - so to say conduct military crimes. That is why bolsheviks represented by Putin ordered not a war against Russians in Ukraine, but a special military operation to get rid of Ukrainian cultists in Ukraine and finally close project "Ukraine" started by global predictor. You have to know that there were no Ukrainians in civil census in Russia in the end of 19th century and that Ukraine was created by global predictor in the beginning of 20th century. Russians deserve to be united and happy. So be it.

It takes about two years for someone in a new language environment to start getting abreast of the language. I noticed this with immigrant children at my school, when I was younger. Sometimes behaviour speaks louder than words, in terms of understanding character.

That man was also paying the "translator", to the tune of $25/hr or more, and the translator was working with the date to extract as much money from the man as possible.

It would be great. He won’t have to listen to her complain.

@@SGTSLACKASS Do not be so sure. The intention will be very clear, even if the words are not.

Language barrier is never an issue in a relationship. Yes, communication is key in a healthy marriage but there are tons of way to express your feelings and whatnot.

Oh a lot are... 😂 wouldnt exist otherwise

Thats the joke

Did it last or are you divorced now?

Yeah, I think that's Owen Wilson! Bwahhahahaha

I'm glad you made the comparison to therapists. They're the same thing. It's literally the exact same scam, con artists preying on desperate people.

@@xinceras-6542 Ehm, no. Therapists are *not* con artists preying on desperate people. Whether you're misinformed and truly believe that or are just full of shit is your call to make, I'll have no say in that.

They really do believe that, at least many of them do. I saw a documentary once where they interviewed men who had wasted thousands of dollars on scams like this, some even going deeply into debt. What she describes is the surface. After that, when men are really hooked, they start asking for money outside of the website supposedly directly to the women. For travel often, to go and meet, but then of course her dad gets sick, and it has to be cancelled. And wait a minute, now that we made up that her dad is sick, that's a great excuse to ask for money for the hospital bills... well, you can probably imagine how it works. Those men were truly devastated, both financially, but also oddly really heartbroken over a woman that's probably not even real.

I dont of lack of social skill and approach cold in the streets women and hundreds each year. But no date even they like me. Because I am average and average mens the new ugly. 70% of women world laughed at me, insulted and looked down on me because never never they would date a guy like me lol They would even date old fat pig face men than me. Then i did a experiment and approached girls in the city and everything was fine. MY personality was always fine. Because 30% were nice or even into me but said no i cant overcome the looks. While to others friends or foreigners they think I have lots of girls or affairs :D So new women world is crazy. Now 32 and virgin and empty phone no love no sex not dating life no life to feel like a normal human. I didnt watch the video i will do later. Only money, looks and status is important which they can gain comfort, security or carrer benefits. Only after they feel old with 30 and had much fuckboys the will go for the old ugly men but not me because they only take the naive dumb beta ugly old men who fell into trap of fake love and fake marriage. So my life is now over I lived from 27-32 as the best version of myself and lots of flirty talkings in real offline but now I know better. ITS NOT WORTH IT THE TIME AND ENERGY AND MENTAL HEALTH. Women are not worth it. Its all fake. Now i couldnt finish my university because of 700 rejections offline and feeling bad. At least i chill now without job and chilling at home while bitches work. Revenge and justice.

married my wife from Ukraine all good no issues. Yes if you try to find a woman 20+ years younger its probably not going to work. But if you keep it within 15 years, treat her well and are serious. It will workout great - most men unfortunately do get taken advantage of and never end up even having a relationship with the woman.

Thank u so much for your support 🥰

Don't be so negative, maybe Ivan IS actually from Saratov.

are we meant to feel sorry for old men trying to wed 'beautiful young women'?? if you're that lonely go for someone your own age who isn't beautiful?

Youth and beauty are the ultimate aphrodesiacs and effectively what the male organism is on Earth to discover. Naturally there are a million ways to exploit the need and desire.

Your story could make an excellent interview. Would you be interested? Hehe

29000???? Are you kidding???

hope I never get that lonely

Sounds like a beautiful love story

Not sure is unmitigated disaster. At least she didn’t reveal the site. Over all hopefully she will be safe. The content was very well done.

😂 but I’m trying my best 😩

Can I be rude and ask what site?

lol

Have you been successful in getting married again since then?

I know that pain. Hope your life is treating you well.

Odd. I know several men who got Filipino wives and without exception they are all happy. Most have been together for well over a decade. I tried it myself. Was a good experience. I hear the statistics on foreigner marriages of this kind are super favorable. Sounds like you just found all the unlucky dudes.

Give him a second chance 🥹❤️

He can keep the ring. @@AgentNesty