I Was A Married Pastor - Until I Fell In Love With A Man | LOVE DON’T JUDGE

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A CHRISTIAN dad-of-four lost his pastor job after falling in love with a younger man in the deep south of America. Eric, 48, began his relationship with Matt, 27, after employing him at his demolition business. But neither man had come out as gay yet and faced judgment from their Bible Belt community. Eric told Truly: “It's not acceptable in [the community], it was difficult.” The couple are now married but when they first met Eric was a pastor with four children. He explained how their local community reacted to the news, “our hometown is mostly conservative, I was immediately dismissed from my post.” The age gap also added to the public backlash, “they think we're just dad and son”, Matt explained. He even had a family member who said, “somebody will kill you.”
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@mardjo595 3 года назад

Daughter: "He's kinda cute" Dad: "He sure is"🧐

@Eanaj9 3 года назад

🤣😂🤣

@danajulien1082 3 года назад

Ikr omg 😂

@dotdashdotdash 3 года назад

pass the sick bucket 🤢

@teresazube 3 года назад

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@teresazube 3 года назад

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@3lttlbrds 3 года назад

The most shocking thing here is he is 48. They don't even look like there is such a big age difference

@RK-su4hs 3 года назад

chey he looks his age I think you mean they look very similar in appearance. Could be related

@babytusk2674 3 года назад

I thought he was 28

@jaeluxe 3 года назад

That’s not great for the 27 yo lol

@RK-su4hs 3 года назад

JaeLUXE u r correct 😂😂

@3lttlbrds 3 года назад

@@jaeluxe 😅

@SymonnePat 2 года назад

I hope the wife has healed, because this is ALOT to handle.

@RYCH3 2 года назад

Ikr, nobody ever thinks about how the wife feels. I hope that he apologized for decieving her and wasting her time. Who cares if you are struggling with your identity? Why fake your love and marry a woman?

@onefoot7 2 года назад

no pun intended

@Chillerveli 2 года назад

Hope she sued

@martinsantos8299 2 года назад

@@Chillerveli Why does she had to sue ? She married him and I'm pretty sure he gave her her share in a divorce decree. That's just life. It would be the same if he had left her for another woman. Everything ended when their marriage got dissolved.

@thestoneytimes9079 2 года назад

I agree with your comment obviously because I don’t wish harm to people unless they deserve it. However this seems more of a dig at the couple than actually caring for the wife. Just my opinion but that’s the energy.

@astralfaeriequeen 3 года назад

"We don't want to offend anyone, but we won't deny who we are." I think that's a concept I can get behind.

@HashslingingSLASHER92 2 года назад

@VV The concept?? Lol

@victoriapopaz5303 Год назад

He doesn’t want to offend anyone but he doesn’t mind offending God WOW

@jameswalker3181 Год назад

@@victoriapopaz5303 Amen sister we Christians are against LGBT clearly

@alex0315 Год назад

@@victoriapopaz5303 A god that is different in different parts of the world? If there were a single god, it would be coming to all races of people, not just a corner of the middle east. Also how do you think the thousands of years of people are gonna be judged when they did not have any Jewish religions? 1 universal god never made any rules for you. Humans did. Just like today humans make the laws in different countries, they write all the stories as well.

@victoriapopaz5303 Год назад

@@jameswalker3181 we pray Lord Jesus shines his light on them to be born again saved 🙏🏽🙏🏽

@bubsilluminated5828 3 года назад

I pray that I never marry a confused man. I would have been devastated. I hope his wife found true love too.

@ptboy18 3 года назад

@Din Ock confused or disingenuous apply to people like this who involve an innocent person into their lives without telling them the truth. Imagine building a whole life and kids with a partner who entered a marriage because he was scared or confused about his sexual orientation. Since you're bisexual, you pretty much can probably marry male or female and build a life. That wasn't the case here.

@JimmiAlli 3 года назад

Yes you may have been devastated but you might also have had four fantastic children. Don’t forget that part.

@psoriasisandpsoriaticarthr5072 3 года назад

Agree but I think he try to unfortunately true love came.. I hope the wife it's find true love also

@missprettyschannel 3 года назад

@@JimmiAlli and would have had 4 fantastic children with someone else either way that really dosen't apply she really wasted so many years with a confused man.🚮

@JimmiAlli 3 года назад

@@missprettyschannel yes, if you treat kids as interchangeable. A true parent realises that each child is unique. You will never have your own kids with a different partner. You must realise that right?

@rahabhenderson2480 3 года назад

I kinda feel bad for his wife they had a whole family..glad hes living his truth but that had to suck for his wife

@O-scar 3 года назад

It also suck for him at one point, don't you think? Edit : guys give me a break

@rahabhenderson2480 3 года назад

@@O-scar yeah but he chose to live how he lived, she probably never expected to break up her life..she said she was a senior when she found out it's a long time married to someone and then boom it's all over now.

@O-scar 3 года назад

@@rahabhenderson2480 who said that? the ex wife? what time stamp?

@xz4409 3 года назад

Its hes choice i dont feel bad for her.

@xyz-hs9ix 3 года назад

@@xz4409 what do you mean you don't feel bad for her? Yeah it must've sucked for him no denying that but it shocks me how little to zero sympathy partner's of closeted people get when their lives must've turned upside down over night. It's not their fault they married the wrong gender.

@newona4313 2 года назад

But if he had left his wife for another WOMAN he would be a monster right? Love how they are turning this guy into a hero… NOT

@stillpril8942 2 года назад

Thank you

@nate2759 2 года назад

@@ShenanigansOnFleek Doesn’t make it okay.

@lunalu552 2 года назад

Yeah. He left his wife and mother of his children for a woman half his age. Terrible. He left his wife and mother of his children for a MAN half his age. Awwww love is beautiful. So happy for him.

@levernedails8423 2 года назад

he was not a confused man he was just taught to disregard his own feelings and put everyone else first he was afraid to be himself because some people in certain lifestyles get murdered or get shunned for being themselves but I wish him and those he loved the best because everyone deserve to be happy

@shantanupatil9062 2 года назад

Thank you for understanding, I'm actually in the same situation ryt now.

@rubysilverburg1937 2 года назад

He was confused.

@iseeyou2810 2 года назад

He didn't care about anyones feelings apart from his own, he used his wife to keep his secrets then discarded her when he found what he was looking for. He is a shamefully mam who no doubt will have his own karma.

@LL_main 2 года назад

@@iseeyou2810 what is he supposed to do it's either fake it or get your life destroyed try to be more understanding of us who are forced into a box and locked in

@cloudyns 2 года назад

@@LL_main You're delusional dude. This guy lives in the U.S.A. No one is going to do anything to this guy. This guy is well off and even if he wasn't he can literally pack his things and move to a different city or state that's more accepting of that lifestyle. People do it daily with little to no money. You people are seriously making excuses for a man that ruined his wife's life. This guy is just a coward. It's 2022 were you guys run rampant shoving your lifestyle down children and everyone. You guys have parades and social media is on your side. So stop with the' oooh woooh poor widdle me im such a widdle victim iz your guisess fault wah'

@crvptrvp 3 года назад

Series: Love don't judge Comments: OH NOW LET ME TELL YOU:

@tarryglover4465 3 года назад

@@austinha11 very

@derrickmann3140 3 года назад

Agreed

@brittneybrisbin744 3 года назад

@@austinha11 Very.

@WhitExNoodlE 2 года назад

Lmao so true! Hahaha it’s shitty but at least you made it funny

@marckid93 2 года назад

We can express our opinions all we want.

@tabbyc3970 3 года назад

I’d like to hear his ex-wife’s point a view. Good for him but I’d be heartbroken if the love of my life came out.

@sourmilkyway 3 года назад

Same thing I was thinking Summer C. Good for them for being in a happy relationship. But what about the wife? She didn't know his truth and had made a family with him all these years.

@ChassityNOubre_88 3 года назад

I was thinking the exact same thing

@Iamblessed12345 3 года назад

swegirlarenotblonde You understand her point. That’s all that matters. You took the time to read it.

@ajl2232 3 года назад

true

@Anna-vl2ni 3 года назад

I think her not being in the interview says alot.

@moglaude 2 года назад

A lot of comments saying ' I feel bad for the wife ' and I do too, it's a heartbreaking life for BOTH of them, him before and her when he came out. But this is exactly why we need to end homophobia as a society. So that people can accept themselves from the start and live their life fully. His wife 'lost years' as he did. Beacuse of internalize intolerance. People deserve to be themselves, so blame it on all of us as a intolerent society.

@womaninthewave 2 года назад

YES. The comment I was looking for. Couldn’t have said it better

@swampwatch 2 года назад

Well stated

@twoshakesofaratsass4748 2 года назад

Actually no. He KNEW he was lying. The wife didn't. He should have stayed single. Instead he wasted someone else's life

@cloudyns 2 года назад

Naw the wife is innocent. Poor her, now her life is completely ruined meanwhile his isn't. What if she's a god-fearing woman who believe in scriptures and that marriage is until death? So she knows getting another partner is fornication. Now she's stuck being single and alone. You're only allowed to re-marry if your partner passes away according to scripture. So if another man gets with her he's doing bad to her husband(she's still bound).

@gardyloo3093 2 года назад

@@cloudyns She's not bound if there was infidelity, and this certainly counts as that.

@drawingqueen4423 3 года назад

I do feel sad for the wife that this happened

@goonn337 2 года назад

why?

@calvinkennedy9863 2 года назад

@@goonn337 because he wasted her time

@goonn337 2 года назад

@@calvinkennedy9863 how did he? he might have loved her at the time

@futuristicvibes2643 2 года назад

@@goonn337 She could have still been happily married to a straight man, but instead married a man who couldn’t be honest with himself or her and wasted years of her life

@goonn337 2 года назад

@@futuristicvibes2643 if you say so

@biddy745 3 года назад

He doesn’t look 48

@LolLol-kq9uc 3 года назад

Dude

@April235E 3 года назад

He looked older when he was younger

@dantan1249 3 года назад

They both look 48

@dotdashdotdash 3 года назад

I wonder how old he was when he discovered his taste for young boys

@pvt.rickert4002 3 года назад

They look good together

@mjforeverlover9 3 года назад

His daughter is very pretty and well spoken young lady 😊

@krystallandress9420 3 года назад

thank you so much ❤️

@cleombangi3081 3 года назад

She is💖💖pretty

@adeelbashir1722 3 года назад

@@cleombangi3081 what she is

@kale7842 3 года назад

She's okay

@cleombangi3081 3 года назад

@@adeelbashir1722 pretty

@danihall3676 2 года назад

Coming from the deep south myself I COMPLETELY understand why you chose to hide, but it is incredibly sad that you had to. With loving kindness I wish you both and your families all the happiness. May you be well and safe and free from suffering. You know there's a saying my folks used to use... Don't go sweeping someone else's porch until yours is clean and even then, clean yours again! Peace my brothers.

@moglaude Год назад

It's so nice to see a comment with nuances and kindness ! 👌🏻

@A.O.T.C 5 месяцев назад

Disgusting. And there will be a very heavy price to pay for thier filfy action.

@Misfit9405 2 года назад

My heart goes out to the ex wife. She waisted precious years on a man who ended up breaking her heart and soul.

@HyouVizer Год назад

Wasnt a waste, they had four kids from it

@adamgoodword7888 Год назад

Thats in our opinion!! Nothing was wasted, and no one said that her heart and soul were broken.

@carolmkele4366 3 года назад

waisted that woman time all these years thinking she got herself a husband,

@KM-oy5yh 3 года назад

💯💯💯

@acepaulo6431 3 года назад

Wasted ;-;

@dejeriyoung9872 3 года назад

@Ms Hurricane Toya way outta pocket

@e-maginne 3 года назад

I’m pretty sure I read this in your voice lol!

@SweetLolitaStocking 3 года назад

Sexuality comes in different stages for some people.

@jyc9767 3 года назад

Keeping your sexuality a secret is fine , it's your decision when to came out but please don't marry someone and lie. The ex wife wasted her precious years hope shell be fine

@trudygreer2491 3 года назад

Those years were no more wasted than if he'd left her for another woman.

@nancybeingnancy3081 3 года назад

@@trudygreer2491 🤨 umm except we aren’t commenting about that on this video, now are we? Stop trying to police someone’s comment with your backhanded remarks. You read like a liberal idiot

@anaksunamoon8618 3 года назад

@@nancybeingnancy3081 👏👏👏👏👏 exactly

@justafanfave228 3 года назад

@@nancybeingnancy3081 Exactly, Nancy! Tell her! I am not conservative but even I see sense in what your are saying. Imagine trying to use whataboutism here. Pathetic!

@levelupmusic9383 3 года назад

It’s not that black and white…you could never possibly understand the inner struggles he faced trying to figure out his own sexuality while trying to also uphold his commitment to his wife. After a while you get tired of living a double life and pick your truth instead…I’m incredibly happy for him. Life moves on, the ex wife will find love again…trust me. She’s fine. And what Trudy Greer said was absolutely correct. It’s the same. Break ups / divorces happen all the time for several reasons…

@riobrasilsambashowssambist1453 3 года назад

5:15 yes he does affect someone's relationship - it affects his wife and their family's entire lives

@zeeo3147 3 года назад

Right

@tracemagace8434 2 года назад

Hey but at least HE is happy

@gloryglory5688 2 года назад

@@tracemagace8434 how do you know everyone’s not happy?

@blackandbeautiful6720 2 года назад

@@gloryglory5688 what

@gloryglory5688 2 года назад

@@blackandbeautiful6720 what

@paz413 3 года назад

Feel bad for anyone being lied to. Having personal issues or not being able to face the truth about yourself does not make it ok to victimize someone else and lie to them. Years of deception to a wife or a husband and kids dealing with their own issues: child/ teenager, school, peers, relationships, prom, drugs, sex... Then a mom/dad coming out and expecting acceptance... Hate to be the kid or the wife/husband!

@infoentertainment5743 Год назад

This person should be slapped on face, having daughter and doing this kind of stupid things. Many ppl repenting from homosexuality and these stupid ppl after having kids doing this things

@leila8701 3 года назад

I feel bad for the wife......

@michealhyatt521 3 года назад

Would you feel the same way if he left her for a woman?

@leila8701 3 года назад

@@michealhyatt521 Hell yeah 🤨 This isn't because of his sexuality.

@michealhyatt521 3 года назад

@Kai Evans Explain?

@michealhyatt521 3 года назад

@Kai Evans Kai, obviously he was attracted to her to some degree at some point, otherwise he would have never married her and had created all of those beautiful children. Sexuality is pretty much a spectrum. For you to say never, pretty much put you in God’s place? I’m not a judge here, I’m just trying to work this out in my mind. By you saying he was never attracted to her diminishes the fact they created creating those beautiful children together. How do you feel condemning their souls by saying they were not born of love?

@FernandoVazquez-ro1nw 3 года назад

Buhu

@alison4316 3 года назад

Lol I wonder how weird daughter felt after she found out the worker she thought was hot was in love with her dad 😆

@toytoy4716 3 года назад

Crazy

@amirmurray9916 3 года назад

Sickk!!!

@patricialeahy1066 3 года назад

😂probably like what???.. Shocked..haha

@Vendicia 3 года назад

That had to be a low blow.

@zacharytice612 2 года назад

At least they have something in common now.

@gardyloo3093 3 года назад

This is a really sad story. Especially for his wife.

@gloryglory5688 2 года назад

It is not, perhaps his wife had an inkling for years & was happy when he found came out, maybe they’re all friends

@hazelrandolph3237 2 года назад

So would you rather he never say anything and just be unhappy his whole entire life just to make his wife happy? No. His wife Can get over it and be happy for him. Not only was Years of her life “wasted” but so was his. I get that this must’ve been upsetting for the wife but I’m so glad he is living his truth and is happy. Couldn’t say the same for most people

@adamgoodword7888 Год назад

How can it be sad for his wife when she is happy and remarried and everyone in their family is stil close? Wow! How naive.

@RickyLima-mk7vi 4 месяца назад

There's nothing sad about being your true self.

@joannekinsella9904 3 года назад

Ugggg and I thought my husband leaving me for another woman was hard.

@ryleereynolds5710 3 года назад

Well at least she could understand why he left for a man because penis. With you that must suck double because he left you for someone with the same parts that function the same so that must suck. Hope you are well now

@joannekinsella9904 3 года назад

@@ryleereynolds5710 thank you. While it still hurts I am doing a lot better and my confidence is improving.

@ryleereynolds5710 3 года назад

@@joannekinsella9904 that’s great girl !! Get you a new boo!

@djholliday4413 2 года назад

See...it can ALWAYS be worse. Prayers & blessings. Sometimes we think a situation destroys us...but God turns it around for good. Next time around, you will meet a TRUSTWORTHY & FAITHFUL partner who deserves you. All the best. 💕

@joannekinsella9904 2 года назад

@@djholliday4413 Awww thank you🥰

@nunyabiz12345 3 года назад

I'm not against it, but I am against lying about who you are & hurting others in the process. It's not fair to his wife.

@dotdashdotdash 3 года назад

Proverbs 29:27 An unjust man is detestable to the righteous, and one whose way is upright is detestable to the wicked.

@NataliaMarquesa 2 года назад

Facts. ROMANS 1: 27 In the same way the men also abandoned natural relations with women and were inflamed with lust for one another. Men committed shameful acts with other men, and received in themselves the due penalty for their error

@pia_mater 2 года назад

That's true but I don't blame him. he didnt choose to be born in such a homophobic place. He lied to protect himself

@crystalyn2855 2 года назад

@@pia_mater he should have moved to San Francisco.

@goonn337 2 года назад

he probably wasn't even married to her when he came out so what are talking about?

@nikkistahr7105 3 года назад

Who else is just here for the comments??

@Stacy_G 3 года назад

Me ngl👀

@imaswarovski7713 3 года назад

Man nikki stahr the comments are kinda making me upset thb a bunch of garbage and rude comments. #hatersGonHate 🤣🤣🤣

@jenniferbrowne4030 3 года назад

He needs deliverance from Yahweh a pastor u were rightly dismissed y live a lie the enemy is a liar n that wat he cuz this man to live. Let me tell u something God is holy b ye holy for I am holy. Whether happy or not God is not happy , u not here to pleas your flesh sir repent God did not put together Adam n Steve he put Adam n eve for a purpose Repent n change for hell is your portion

@neophumo1744 3 года назад

I am😂🤣😂🤣

@jokevandersteen5578 3 года назад

@@jenniferbrowne4030 i agree

@avag1334 3 года назад

Save you some time, literally all the comments are about feeling sorry for his ex wife

@NataliaMarquesa 2 года назад

She deserves all the prayers. She was lied to and lost 15 plus years.

@fla8623 2 года назад

@@NataliaMarquesa the father couldnt leave her since they had children. He was married at 18. Try looking at both sides.

@NataliaMarquesa 2 года назад

@@fla8623 Then he should have not got married. He ruined that lady's life. No both sides. He is wrong.

@fla8623 2 года назад

@@NataliaMarquesa of course he was wrong. He was the only one wrong here.

@minumeyli 2 года назад

everyone is missing the point because most of them are heterosexual or have very accepting family 😐

@nutecolney3320 3 года назад

A Pastor who had never been filled with a Holy Spirit...

@nate2759 2 года назад

It’s too common unfortunately.

@RickyLima-mk7vi 4 месяца назад

He finally woke up and was his true self, Away from the twisted brainwashing sickness called religion, So now he is more pure than any church goer ever.

@eddiesanchez2293 3 года назад

His daughter reminds me of Margot Robbie

@zozaeg 3 года назад

Brooooo.. She does so much!!

@luizasouza16 3 года назад

Also mixed with Alissa Violet

@xyz-hs9ix 3 года назад

Omg now that you've mentioned it! She's so pretty

@einienj3281 3 года назад

She should be a super model! ♥️♥️♥️

@scarlettwitman2028 3 года назад

EinieN J my first reaction was she could be a model , I totally agree with you!

@crazyramus 3 года назад

“He already knew, but now I’m more honest with myself” best quote.

@dotdashdotdash 3 года назад

Yeah he sure is something else

@lrdenn73 3 года назад

He could have been honest with his girlfriend but instead he married her.

@alishajoyner4854 3 года назад

@@lrdenn73 right I hate that part.

@chadarcher84 2 года назад

It's called Satan was whispering lies and false truths into his ears and eventually convinced him he was this way.

@crazyramus 2 года назад

@@chadarcher84 according to you

@angelalalhmangaihsangi7821 3 года назад

You can't be a pastor and live in a homosexual... Period!!!!

@deklerkverwoerd7721 2 года назад

true

@angieangiel2666 2 года назад

That's true but 80 percent of these pastors are fake pastors. There will never be real prophets of the Bible in Jesus time in today's world.

@ladydeanna3775 2 года назад

@@angieangiel2666 he was definitely a fake. I don’t feel sorry for his wife but I feel for the congregation that he was leading.

@RickyLima-mk7vi 4 месяца назад

And he chose the right side, Imagine being another brainless religious freak.

@angelas3883 2 года назад

What? How painful that must have been for the "preacher's" wife.

@coinjeremy8864 2 года назад

I understand what your saying. Think about how he felt for living that long cause that what he was told to do. He was robbed from his life just like she was because of the Christian faith.

@davizshawilliams1787 2 года назад

He could have stayed single and claimed celibacy instead of hiding behind a woman for protection. He's a "preacher". People would have accepted it and touted him as a "strong man of God".

@yams.4308 3 года назад

I wonder what happened to his wife

@jenebadorley1073 3 года назад

I agree with you I was thinking the same thing maybe she doesn't have anything to say 🤔🤔

@yams.4308 3 года назад

Jeneba Dorley Maybe she was one of the people they “stopped talking to”?

@intentionalgreatness 3 года назад

Right. Judging from the title i thought that would be a bigger part of the story.

@jenebadorley1073 3 года назад

@@yams.4308 she was probably betray

@jscomp9529 3 года назад

Doesnt fit in the story

@Sandraebenezer1 3 года назад

I hope his ex wife is okay! Praying for her

@Sandraebenezer1 3 года назад

ASK DOLO absolutely! However your husband leaving you for a man is a little different and affects ones mental health and self esteem on another level imo

@joyseygal7513 3 года назад

Yeah, but just because they end all the time doesn’t make it hurt any less , you know?

@Sandraebenezer1 3 года назад

Joysey Gal exactly!!!

@Sandraebenezer1 3 года назад

ChySyringe I’m not sure what we said that made you seem we’re not worried about ourselves. Wishing someone well is not a bad thing last time I checked.

@AGdawn 3 года назад

@ASK DOLO Have a little empathy. Goodness!

@mimela4726 3 года назад

You can live your life as you please...but what I don't understand is why they insist on being Christian when the Bible is so clear and direct on where it stands with regards to homosexuality.

@dianabeurman364 3 года назад

I don't get it either

@LolatheACS 3 года назад

Because they can?

@jahipalmer8782 3 года назад

One: prayers that the ex-wife is happy and healthy. Two: I love how the subtitles sometimes gave up trying to translate southernism.

@Vendicia 3 года назад

Hah! Love it. 💕

@jocelynelliott5676 3 года назад

His daughters are beautiful!!

@dotdashdotdash 3 года назад

Jocelyn Elliott - I feel sorry for them having such a deceitful “man” as a father. I would have estranged myself from such a person as this.

@DazeyJellyfish 3 года назад

Jake Curtis Dude Shut up! They’re parents get over it. Why are you into their lives so much??

@dotdashdotdash 3 года назад

ChySyringe - Proverbs 29:27 An unjust man is detestable to the righteous, and one whose way is upright is detestable to the wicked.

@Sunny-fs3yd 3 года назад

Jake Curtis I feel sorry for them too! They must be so confused! 😢

@cuda260 2 года назад

@@dotdashdotdash Cool, another random quote picked out of the bible as if it makes any sort of point whatsoever. How tedious is that? Are you sure in your judgement here you are following the bible fully or just the bits you decide apply?

@megangriffith9630 3 года назад

They kind of dress alike and look alike 😂

@dotdashdotdash 3 года назад

megan griffith probably have the same mother, too

@beavisbonce 3 года назад

Jake Curtis idiot

@nightsky3981 3 года назад

It’s weird.

@dotdashdotdash 3 года назад

Night Sky it is creepy as f

@yayahoward1395 3 года назад

Right 😓

@jimcobain4381 3 года назад

The wife was used by him to feel “normal” that’s very selfish. But that’s easy for me to say.

@ishma2100 3 года назад

I know 2 women who left their husbands for females/ lesbian relationships. And even had kids with their husband. Their Family, friends and even a therapist had applaud them for being brave and not denying who they truly are. ( if a man do it 👎🏻: if a woman do the samething 👌🏻,) double standard Society 🤷🏽‍♂️

@virginiaarthur5 2 года назад

Nah they wrong too be who you are but don’t hurt other people

@ishma2100 2 года назад

@Ivan Peixoto done

@cloudyns 2 года назад

It's true, women have it easier, but in my book it doesn'g matter if a man or female does it, if either does, it's wrong.

@RickyLima-mk7vi 4 месяца назад

@@cloudynsyou are wrong

@Austin-lm6iq 3 года назад

21 yeah difference. Homie was legally allowed to drink when other homie was being pushed through the womb 😭

@Steph-lc7hy 3 года назад

🤣🤣🤣

@djholliday4413 2 года назад

Thats not the most disturbing aspect either. I bet many people mistake the young man for the DAUGHTER'S boyfriend. 🤢

@annazaman9657 2 года назад

So?

@kumarvikramaditya9636 2 года назад

@@annazaman9657 so you consent to that?

@myamya9063 2 года назад

@@kumarvikramaditya9636 28 is a full grown adult with a fully developed brain, Its not a weird age gap. Its not like this dude is 19 years old

@npiontek 3 года назад

People don't come out late because they want to hurt others for fun. We need to realise that people suppress feelings out of fear, homophobia (internalised and from others). This causes pain not just for people being too scared to come out but also their former partners who thought their partners were straight. We should work on that.

@7summerbeauty 3 года назад

@Serena Magnolia why don't you start already praying?

@aliencruz6842 Год назад

God bless you guys. We should normalize that the LGBTQIA+ Community can be religious. I hope all you guys the very best. ❤️💛

@caleburias5596 Год назад

Jesus says "No one can serve two masters; for either he will hate the one and love the other," Homosexuality is an abomination to God, and He will judge those who lived in willful sin. All liars, fornicators, idolaters, cowards, thieves, murderers, homosexuals, adulterers, blasphemers will have their part in the lake of fire. However, Jesus Christ can heal us through His blood that He shed His blood for us. Do not be deceived.

@Jojo-vo4cu 5 месяцев назад

@@caleburias5596You're delusional😂

@belindathrasher111 2 года назад

It's called demons

@nate2759 2 года назад

Yes, and they are very real, I have known people to laugh until it happens to them.

@RickyLima-mk7vi 4 месяца назад

Yes you are one

@belindathrasher111 4 месяца назад

@@RickyLima-mk7vi The truth offends thee repent and be baptized

@Lighthouse170 3 года назад

Leads me to beleive he must have been living a lie. You don't just wake up one day and are attracted to the same sex.

@notsureiL 3 года назад

Some people are bi.

@kldc2156 3 года назад

@ Monique people can be bisexual or pansexual, not necessarily being attracted to gender first rather than the person. Things really are not that simple or black and white when it comes to attraction and if your lucky enough, love.

@ryb3198 3 года назад

Duh! He literally said in the video he suppressed his sexuality

@curvyQT1 3 года назад

@@notsureiL OK...so what? You are STILL attracted to men! He knew who he was from the beginning! He should have NEVER strung this woman along!

@nointimidation8610 3 года назад

Talk truth

@megangriffith9630 3 года назад

Why are Christian Pastors the biggest hypocrites?!

@shawnjones7463 3 года назад

The Self hate is real sometimes

@laurahero8778 3 года назад

Christian's are humans too.

@allaboutherterritory 3 года назад

Just cause there Christian don’t make them perfect and they will hide things just like any other human.. But I don’t agree with him living a lie for so long. Be you live how you want... but I Wonder what his ex wife thought about this...

@emtawake2413 3 года назад

Thats lust not love!!! Devil is smart, if you not led by the holyspirit you will fall into the devils trap.....

@dotdashdotdash 3 года назад

Satan focuses his full attention on those who are supposed to be the closest to God. Beasts like this fake holy man make Satan rejoice.

@vanessawells4497 3 года назад

"Nobody's hiding... nobody's keeping a secret or anything"...yeah, okay. This said after your boyfriend spent years of marriage with a woman and two children later. He's been lying for half of his life.

@wil48823 3 года назад

Because society told him that he had to.

@virg0_lem0nade 3 года назад

that's literally the entire point, Vanessa 🤣 he is saying they used to have to hide and keep that part of themself secret, and they did for years, and now society has changed so that it is safe enough for them to not have to keep it a secret now.

@renahindes9813 3 года назад

I believe everyone is born with a cross to bear and to learn from in this life. Sometimes its being different from others, or disabled,or other things.You have both learned true love,honesty,trust,family,and sooo much more. Everyday is a learning experience. All children are blessings,disabled ones are the greatest blessings,they teach us more everyday also.

@scaredyjack3821 3 года назад

Atleast his daughter accepted him, which is awesome...Live your life we only die once.

@sofiaruss8958 3 года назад

What about his wife?

@moralezfamily3047 3 года назад

I'd smash it

@RK-su4hs 3 года назад

Maybe “The truth is rarely heard Most often seen”

@normalperson5000 3 года назад

Moralez Family “it” have some respect

@MattandEric 3 года назад

@@sofiaruss8958 hi Sofia, Eric here for the video. The ex wife is remarried and doing good. Everyone gets along!

@ladyindaroom 3 года назад

I hope he apologized from his heart to his ex-wife. She was his cover up, until he became uncovered. His children love him so much! I love how he apologized to them.

@dotdashdotdash 3 года назад

Satan has you

@joeje1500 3 года назад

@@dotdashdotdash u good bro

@ladyindaroom 3 года назад

@whitegirl333 Where in my comment did I say he can't still be used by the Lord Jesus Christ? I never insinuated that, because it was not in my heart. You are all the way right. Yes the Apostle Paul started off as a Christian persecutor, until his heart was transformed to totally serve Jesus Christ, will all his might.

@ladyindaroom 3 года назад

@@imaswarovski7713 Who is a man hater? Don't lie on me with your words! I'm never a man hater, or hater of anyone! Examine your own heart, and check yourself to see why would you tell such a lie on someone? There's something in your heart that just ain't right.

@rebeccaramos6384 3 года назад

"She was his cover up"...brilliant!, he knew who he was.

@hetokayeptho5021 2 года назад

Hahaha this is why I called myself insane. I should say they are very romantic but I can't stop laughing.

@brittenyevans1101 3 года назад

Sometimes it’s just better to be yourself instead of pretending to be someone your not. I know a lot of people struggle with this, but once your at peace with yourself everything else will fall into place.

@beckyg5830 3 года назад

I’m glad he left his wife still early in life. She can find true love now.

@PHlophe 3 года назад

er they were together for nearly 30 years/

@thestarswillshineagain1824 3 года назад

He commented saying the ex wife is remarried and they all get along

@Grassmpl 3 года назад

That man dies not know Jesus. He needs to repent. His heart is satanic.

@82892869hi 3 года назад

@@Grassmpl repent and accept Allah you nonbeliever, you’ll go to hell if you dont

@krepler 3 года назад

@@82892869hi That's what happens when you don't know and love Jesus. How else will your sin be forgiven? It won't without Jesus!

@sunshinemkay 3 года назад

"Deep South" just took on a whole new meaning.

@itbethatway2 3 года назад

Booooooo you're wrong for that lmao

@dewilew2137 3 года назад

Suni Christiansen you’re so clever 🙄

@StonelesBox 3 года назад

😂😂

@godmadesam 3 года назад

🤣🤣🤣

@nikkistahr7105 3 года назад

😂😂😂😂

@justfunsize 2 года назад

imagine saying “ damn he/she is very cute “ and then BOOOM!!!!!!!! they become your step dad or mom lol

@shitsugane 2 месяца назад

Seeing them pray together is incredible

@meadowgailer5659 3 года назад

They look like brothers

@TheKing0fSting 3 года назад

It's the south, they might be

@dotdashdotdash 3 года назад

I would not be surprised

@curvyQT1 3 года назад

@@TheKing0fSting Plot twist!

@JenFromCa84 3 года назад

Looks like father and son to me lol

@dotdashdotdash 3 года назад

@@JenFromCa84 it's creepy as f but so is a man sodomizing another man

@FRSHDUMBLED0RE 3 года назад

well, well, well, how the turntables...

@Gunmetalpuppy13 3 года назад

-michael scott

@shygirlflygirl 3 года назад

😂😂😂

@brigittemorobise7585 3 года назад

hahaha miiiiiichael

@mya5683 3 года назад

Lol omg stop I can’t even with this comment haha

@kendrakkhalilieh1616 3 года назад

Turntables....?

@ahaduabe8364 3 года назад

dont cheat yourself by saying your relationship with God is stronger now and u know why🙏

@mysticmama_3692 2 года назад

This is a prime example of modern Christians cherry picking which verses to follow out of the Bible, and ignore the ones they don't like. This is why I can't stand organized religion when I comes to modern Christianity. The fact that this pastor could not understand why his church removed him from his post, shows that they understood the Bible much more than he did as a pastor.

@kecola 3 года назад

Here in metro Atlanta, no one would gaf but in a rural town called Maysville that is country as hell, I'm shocked that they're brave enough to be out like that because I'm sure there are plenty of close minded people there.

@jivingdodo 3 года назад

Really brave. It’s people like them and their bravery who, over time, will enlighten the southern states and make them truly Christian and loving to all.

@rebeccaberry9635 3 года назад

Very Brave!!! Happy for there love for one another!!

@dotdashdotdash 3 года назад

Joanna Aked nothing brave about a “man” who lied about his sexuality and married a woman to hide it, then dumped her for a younger man, he’s nothing but a lying hypocritical degenerate who besmirches Jesus

@Deano6571 3 года назад

Jake Curtis please if y’all have nothing nice to say then please don’t say anything at all. There is no need for you to say such things about this man.

@dotdashdotdash 3 года назад

@Jennifer Colon Jesus also said go and sin no more. This man committed sin of lying and now he sins by unnatural fornication with a man. Rest assured he will pay in hell.

@edw8889 3 года назад

I would be scared to live openly in that area

@alexislee6825 3 года назад

@ChristianDruid1313 Clifton so u have a husband and a wife? Like legally? I thought u could only marry one person at a time

@dotdashdotdash 3 года назад

Alexis Lee he’s trolling

@alexislee6825 3 года назад

@@dotdashdotdash honestly ive heard of ppl thats doing the same thing he said hes doing so 🤷🏻‍♀

@robert7879 3 года назад

As you should be

@Grassmpl 3 года назад

He can hide from man but not from God.

@liliwallinger1618 2 года назад

I just love this! wish them all the best

@juliabloomfield8623 2 года назад

This seems extremely selfish to me and the way it is painted is like they want sympathy. I'm glad that he got dismissed as a pastor, it sounds like his wife got the short end of the stick here.

@nate2759 2 года назад

Matthew 7:22-23 1 “Not everyone who says to Me, ‘Lord, Lord,’ shall enter the kingdom of heaven, but he who does the will of My Father in heaven. 22 Many will say to Me in that day, ‘Lord, Lord, have we not prophesied in Your name, cast out demons in Your name, and done many wonders in Your name?’ 23 And then I will declare to them, ‘I never knew you; Depart from Me, you who practice lawlessness!’

@danajulien1082 3 года назад

Meanwhile, I can’t get a text back, so I comment on RU-vid just to get notifications 😑

@-t.whit.-7348 3 года назад

Blahaha haha yadsss!!! So here’s my heyyyy

@danajulien1082 3 года назад

-twhattwhit - 😂😂😂thank you!!!!!

@mariaphares4783 3 года назад

I comment on RU-vid and I don't even get a notification. 😭

@bhumikaj5923 3 года назад

Hello there ☺️

@stickwithlene5906 3 года назад

Awww well here is a text back 4 u ....hey hru i hope all is well...how was your day? I hope many blessings come your way..also did anyone tell u how kool u r cause i think that your freaking awesome!!! Take care

@ruedadi2682 3 года назад

I feel sorry for the wife more,

@ohxyoyxoyxohx6949 3 года назад

Don't worry they said she's remarried and they all get along 😁

@ruedadi2682 3 года назад

Micheal but she’s never going to get the years she was with that man back so it’s still not a happy ending 🙄

@gpt76 3 года назад

You feel sorry for the wife, yet he’s the one caring for the disabled daughter.

@ruedadi2682 3 года назад

@GPT that was probably their arrangement, stop trying to run away from the fact that he wasted this woman’s years

@kplee3455 3 года назад

@@ruedadi2682 people get divorced all the time for more trivial reasons. He was honest with her and that's more than many people in hetero relationships give their spouses when they have feelings for someone else.

@makoa143ify 2 года назад

Dam, i hope my husband never surprises me like that. He wasted his ex wife’s time.

@reginafisher9919 2 года назад

I'm sure they grew spiritually the time they were together and also created some beautiful human beings so I'm not sure anything was wasted, everything happens for a reason I'm sure through the suffering their lives were actually enhanced suffering brings growth spiritual growth that's what we are here on Earth to do in the first place. First Love yourself meaning be totally authentic to who you are second love others that is what Jesus taught us to do not to judge others but to be empathetic and understanding towards them with unconditional love as if you were God. That's what Jesus Christ came here to tell us to do is it not?

@deondaniely973 3 года назад

I thought you supposed to deny the flesh in that faith.

@annettegeoffrey8679 3 года назад

Lmao

@Maria-zc1dx 3 года назад

You are.

@heathercole5972 3 года назад

True

@reyana83 3 года назад

His poor wife...all those years wasted...

@crazydiamond4565 3 года назад

it'salright I wouldn’t consider it wasted. They have beautiful children from their marriage. You have to be who you are. He’s very brave. Life’s too short not to be happy.

@dotdashdotdash 3 года назад

Rabpaynt 62 no it was wasted for her. Marriage vows include “till death do us part”. This man is nothing but a con artist

@crazydiamond4565 3 года назад

Rosebud well said!

@dotdashdotdash 3 года назад

Rosebud you need professional help, you’re beyond my abilities.

@sandramackinnon7277 3 года назад

it'salright those weren’t wasted years . They raised 4 beautiful kids together and then he finally started to live his truth.. what’s wrong with that buddy????

@spaceboogie9333 Год назад

There is no God so he's good

@darthvader7380 2 года назад

At least he’s happy now. Gotta love the way they look into each other’s eyes when they kiss ❤️

@kaytlynw7215 3 года назад

as someone who’s been around Mayesville I’m very surprised they haven’t had any hate crimes against them

@pbmc_ 3 года назад

Hopefully 😅

@trudygreer2491 3 года назад

Plenty around here tho, Sister..

@djholliday4413 2 года назад

The kids have likely suffered more torment and abuse than anyone. This man is completely selfish.

@keithwilson6060 2 года назад

Most (>99%) “hate crimes” are staged by the alleged “victims.”

@AT-ss5nk 2 года назад

@@keithwilson6060 You certainly have 99% empty head

@vintagebleachedblonde4322 3 года назад

These men need to be more honest with themselves and everyone before they go marrying and creating a whole family

@paolagrando5079 2 года назад

Society needs to be less imposing on others about their feelings and these kind of situations wouldn't ever happened.

@djsmith1964 3 года назад

I was once in this situation. I got out "came out" when I was 25. I could no longer keep from being honest.

@michaelgaynor6866 3 года назад

dj smith, Live your Life to the fullest.....I did!

@djsmith1964 3 года назад

@@michaelgaynor6866 Thank you. I do my best. the trouble is others do NOT. I seem to have gleemed the best. Good for you.

@TriciaRP 3 года назад

And go to hell......ok

@trudygreer2491 3 года назад

@@TriciaRP FU... ok

@ananse77 2 года назад

Good for you.

@obiphil8672 2 года назад

What a nice sweet uplifting story. These men beat the odds and made it. I am very envious!

@tiffanyhoward9935 3 года назад

If he fell in love with a 27 year old woman who was hired to help him, y’all would be criticizing him. Oh the hypocrisy!

@cestbonbon5961 3 года назад

Exactly, we live in a sick world. people trying too hard to be accepting and open when they really aren't. I have no problem saying that I'm disgusted by both men.

@onemiller2721 3 года назад

👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

@alishajoyner4854 3 года назад

but most of the comments are not happy with his choice though.

@theresarodriguez1488 3 года назад

He has a 30 yr old daughter, so he became a father at 18 yrs old. That's very young. To young, to much responsibility.

@deirdremorris9234 3 года назад

@Hannah Oliver True. Too young to know yourself yet.

@ptboy18 3 года назад

@Hannah Oliver on top of that having a disabled child at 18. Probably even more pressure to stay together.

@trudygreer2491 3 года назад

@@ptboy18 Yes.. and wasn't it sweet how he introduced her proudly with no mention of it at all

@nickyricardo7034 3 года назад

You spelled too wrong, dear.

@FoundSheep-AN 3 года назад

It was normal, my parents had me at 20 years old and I am 30 too!! Lots of people in my generation have “young” parents.

@_.moilara._ 3 года назад

I'm happy he found somebody that loves him back

@tea7506 2 года назад

Thumbnail: Love don’t Judge People: But we do🤣

@kimanigrey-campbell7976 3 года назад

I thought it said, I was married to a Pastor-until I fell in love with a Man. I was like ummm, a real man.

@TheChickenRiceBowl 3 года назад

😂

@ahmedhaque9293 3 года назад

Lol

@delanoanthony4084 3 года назад

Lmaooo

@thecyclopsofrainbowleaf 3 года назад

I read it like that too 😹

@TheChickenRiceBowl 3 года назад

@@delanoanthony4084 Lol your profile picture matches your comment.

@dewilew2137 3 года назад

I thought sissy was one of the youngest. She’s lovely. ♥️

@zerosleep657 3 года назад

Me too . . Dad and Sissy look younger than their age

@staceylili6703 3 года назад

I couldn’t believe she’s 30. She’s beautiful.

@dewilew2137 3 года назад

It made me happy to see kind and loving comments on this. Y’all are lovely and beautiful too. 🤗❤️❤️

@dotdashdotdash 3 года назад

Sissy takes on a different meaning here.

@user-mc1im1gb4d 3 года назад

@@dotdashdotdash damn you're under every comment

@kaio2212able 3 года назад

How do those lemons taste 🤣🤣🤣

@daphnedaphne1512 2 года назад

Being a pastor you know the truth about word of God, let's the sin be called a sin . Where are you ending. Heaven or hell.

@nate2759 2 года назад

Yes, we are meant to fight against our flesh every day with the word of God, and praying from our hearts.

@IsaiahHollins 3 года назад

"Demolition ad" "Dad worker" sounds like code words

@BlueBaeChai 3 года назад

Idk

@dotdashdotdash 3 года назад

code words for perversions

@Rage_Harder_Then_Relax 3 года назад

@@dotdashdotdash Looks like you really got off on commenting here. You can't help yourself. A bit like playing with yourself...you can't help that either, can you?

@christinahagan1427 3 года назад

Just so everyone knows the ex-wife of the pastor is remarried to a nice man and they all actually get along and see each other frequently. The said thing is the same thing happened to my moms best friend but she found someone else too. People need to be honest in who they are and not be ashamed.

@beaglewithadeagle 28 дней назад

Yay!

@jbavalon3074 3 года назад

When your dad steals your crush

@blackbirdflyyx 2 года назад

People in the comments acting like he deliberately lied to his ex-wife and kids with malicious intent give me a headache. Y’all have no compassion. Yes, it is unfair for them but it was also unfair that he was born into such a homophonic environment. He clearly felt a lot of pressure to conform. He might not even have realised he wasn’t straight until years after he got married because he was so repressed. Life is unfair, but at least he’s living life as an open, honest man and his wife is no longer trapped in an inauthentic marriage. I’m sure she must have felt some resentment but she’s now free to be with someone who can truly give her the love she deserves.

@matheusdeluna1409 3 года назад

Dude this yt channel is something, I get myself shocked everyday.....

@Renee-bk4fl 3 года назад

Same😭😂

@trudygreer2491 3 года назад

Good.. it means you're paying attention.

@gabriellebarry6396 3 года назад

REAL DRED SHOCKS MEE

@djholliday4413 2 года назад

You can see how far down society & the world has fallen.

@njones4864 3 года назад

Poor wife. She will never be the same after this. Too many pieces to the puzzle.

@ajl2232 3 года назад

same

@purpleviolet207 3 года назад

@@ajl2232 Same here.

@dilciaseecharan2146 2 года назад

Those are signs of the last days

@nate2759 2 года назад

@trudyfox938 3 года назад

I feel sorry for the poor ex wife.

@annA-fl8um 3 года назад

Bible never lies not everyone that says to me Lord, Lord shall enter only those that do the will of my father in heaven

@veronicallamas9333 2 года назад

Amen

@kingdomready4798 2 года назад

Thank you, so true. The title Pastor is used so casually today..the Bible has a different standard.

@87alsjth 3 года назад

Oh the comments will be a roller coaster ride.

@Shanzieee 3 года назад

UPPPPPP, DOWNNNNNNNN UPPPPPP DOWNN

@mothersixpack 3 года назад

weeeeeeeeeeeeee

@shire69420 3 года назад

🤢

@RedShadow1986. 3 года назад

🤮

@dotdashdotdash 3 года назад

deservedly so, this is all just so wrong on so many levels, only the Rothschild family will be rejoicing

@300pzl 3 года назад

these people dont know what love is.

@oreo_8433 2 года назад

finally a good episode of this series

@chantaliyah4890 3 года назад

I’m waiting for someone from the Duggar family to come out...

@bmckin2011 3 года назад

I can’t help but think of the wife. Not only did she get betrayed in the biggest way, but she’s seen as “not an ally” if she didn’t support his decision to leave. This guy may be happy, but he had to trample so many to get there. All to say, if you have those feelings, DON’T get married and start a family.

@ramcharge2704 2 года назад

This is so sad for his wife. How deviating it must have been for her.

@trudygreer2491 2 года назад

Do you mean "devastating"? ~I'm sure it was difficult for him as well..

@alexandrahenderson6659 2 года назад

I love this because they represent you can't judge a book by its cover which is like my favorite saying.

@elanab7174 3 года назад

We should all learn not to judge no matter what as Christians🙏

@brandonsm6023 3 года назад

Yeah good Job Cartoon Christian.

@Seanonyoutube 3 года назад

Faithful to the end! Hey miss caps lock boomer, if god doesn’t want people to burn in hell forever and ever, he can just, you know, not burn people forever and ever.

@Seanonyoutube 3 года назад

Manda did you just say something is out of God’s hands? 😱😱

@litze8786 3 года назад

We dont judge but the truth is in God's word it never changes from Generation to Generation his word never alters. It remains the Same for now and forever more. YES we are to Love one another BUT also stand firm in what God says. Dont be deceived.

@litze8786 3 года назад

@Tanya Lynne Amen