I Was Never Aware Of What He Was Doing To Me - Maya’s Story 

That's horrible. I know that shame way too well. It cripples us. I am so sorry you had to go through it. Sending you love. ❤️

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I am so truly sorry for what happened to you. It was not your fault.

I thought a mother is wired to tear to pieces anyone hurting her child. Its called mothers instinct ?

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I’m so sorry to hear this happened to you and that you had to hear such awful comments from people who should have protected you. I pray you have found or find peace because you are so worthy and deserve it ❤

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I was never molested, but, I remember being so disturbed by something my Grandma said to me. Growing up, I was an Usher in our church and we sat in the very back of the church which put us in the direct line of vision for anyone standing at the pulpit. One Sunday, my Grandma asked me to move because she didn't want the Pastor to be distracted by my pretty legs. I was TWELVE, the pastor at the time was in his 40s! Like.. why are they placating a Pedophile? Was he known for looking at little girls?! I wouldn't be shocked, I learned as an adult that the man who occasionally drove the church bus was a convicted child rapist. He drove my cousin and I to a few events when we were between the ages of 11-15. I only learned this a few years ago when said man murdered his wife....a woman I'd known my entire life.

​@@janellejulianajoyMy goodness 🤯🤯 I'm so glad that you never endured anything, but the women who enable these sickos are equally disturbed.

They ruined it for us.

Think about that which is not tolerable. I would get free of the situation. Your life is not ruined. What makes you strong is taking the reins of your life. Your future. Make it of your choosing..

.you get stronger. Courage, trust in self , self belief, and as you get older, there is change. Take back your choices, your life. Bullies take advantage of others too. You owe abusers nothing.

the “biological” shouldn’t even be needed, were talking about a child, one youre raising at that.

Yourself

Yes.

A neighbour Boy ( basket Ball - star) noticed me when no one else did- Groomed AND molested. Decades of Trauma& still counseling! dont give Up!

Survive dear woman - love to fill you up with care.

And take naked photos and sell them on the dark web...these monsters are sick and demonic

@@carolnahigian9518 it is not surprise or weird to say if these actions been done cos he is outsider yet if the father the one should protect his family yet he is ruining that responsible he should take care, it is hurt so much

You just did. You have nothing to be ashamed of. You did nothing wrong, he did. Peace to you.

It's the most uncomfortable thing to do... to tell. I didn't tell either but my brother told for me - we were about 6/7 years old. I remember being absolutely terrified to open my mouth when my mother questioned me. I'm so glad you left your comment. Don't think for one minute that you're not brave, because you are, incredibly brave.

U are, lady.

MI6 could use a woman like you!

​@@Brainergameroffical idiot

No ONE can silence you no matter what they do, peace to you

Oh I’m so sorry for all that you endured. 😢

@@ismaasif4402 Thank you 🙏

@@bernice4599 Thank You 🙏

@@pinkrizo3815 much love and healing energy sent your way🙏

I hope you are comfortable with your body and hating your step father, not yourself❤ stay strong sister 💪

Im so sorry 😢😢😢 praying for you ❤

I hope you can enjoy your life now and put this despicable person out of your mind.

So sorry for all that you endured ☹️😢 🙏

Your mom chose him! She brought him into your life! Of course the abuse would have happened

Yes. Our nation has a proverb "Husband and wife is one satan". It means that people in couple are the same.

Been asking myself the whole time where was mom?!?? So painful for a child to go through all this alone

​@@sheilaabaThe mother knew and was jealous of her daughter she likened it to an affair as opposed to child sexual abuse, the mother is just as vile as the father

How do you know that? Maybe her mother did not know this. That is also possible. If she knew that this happened, she should have tried to help her daughter.

did you let anyone know? If not, why not? Not to blame you, but to understand how these perverts often get away with their crimes

Grateful you shared your load with us that we may help you carry it ❤

I hope that you have much joy ahead of you, despite your past.

​​@@henashaikh3863 "why not tell?" I don't understand why you even ask this, it's because the victim will be beaten, threatened or told their loved ones will die, etc. if they do. Added, there's the risk that none will believe you, or question how can you say horrible things about your granddaddy.

​​@@henashaikh3863 it haping too mee when i was young like 8 (now iam 35) and i never told anybodys and i was asking the same question too my self why i never told but its verry difficult to explain i think your so shocked that you dont realy know what happing and then you tried so hard to forget that your are in deny and you just acted like it never happing

One girl had her dad molest her in front of the school in the car line dropping her off.

As a teacher I’d definitely have reported that

I do this too. My child is a mixed kid in a white school though. I’m just making sure that no one gangs up on her while she’s on the playground. However, I don’t drive up and down the street. Instead I park my car right beside the playground and wave at my child. About 15 other parents do this too because the children play at the playground around 2 hours before the school day is dismissed and everyone is jockeying for one of the first spots in the car pickup line. I wouldn’t find this strange as a teacher

Your Mother was Clueless? Sick family. I'm glad you found true ❤!

​​@@jeanettelebarron3306 I 'm not sure her mother was clueless. Her daughter told us that her Mom didn't have a good relationship and was, did she say "cold" towards her. I believe her Mom was jealous. It's too bad that her Mom didn't leave. She may have been under his control too. In fact probably was. However, she would still possibly become an accomplice because she didn't stop it. So so sad. This poor daughter going through all of this evil. I pray for Jesus to comfort her.

We can't understand because this is just sickening and obviously a deviation that doesn't fit on a healthy and normal person

Don't assume anything . It's her story , not yours .

My father bathed me and I have fond memories. Not every father is the same.

She mentioned it only happened when the mother was not home and that her mother was a cold unfeeling person that she didn't feel safe speaking to

Why do mothers bathe with their sons? Even at the rip age of 7 or 8?

@S02012 they don't...that's super weird

I am so sorry, but happy you are a survivor.

@@kimalonzo3363 Thank You.

That sounds almost identical to my story!!

@@carrieweaver6161 I so sorry to hear that! ❤️

I'm 70 My mom never seemed acknowledge

Don't you think he abused other sisters or even aunts! Was it your mom's father?

Don't ever let your daughter's around him!

Same. sorry to hear this

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It s so rife and wide spread in the churches all over the world ,we can t even trust our nearests and dearests ,or people at schools ,it s the teacher ,father ,priest ,coach ,vicar, police , the trainer ,army officer ,the Bishop,.....who are u going to turn to for help .at least she found a nice family who will protect her and make her happy .

@@muzzabouzza6144 you’re right, imagine you go for help and the very person assigned to your case, police officer is a paedophile himself

But as in this case there are those who know things and ignore them or chose not to pay attention or listen when the kids are struggling or reveal something. There are so many sick people, so little understanding, and so many selfish people who won’t extend themselves or do their job to help a helpless child. And I know from experience that the psychology in abusive families can make it very hard to get any actionable evidence even when you have suspicions.

So true. You want help. You go to your priest because you think that you can trust him. The priest asks you a million questions, and suddenly, you realize that he is getting turned on by talking about it. Then he doesnt let you leave and says, "You gave it to him, so why not give it to me, I can do better."

It's also in Hinduism and Buddhism

There was. If you watch her video by Sean attwood to get whole story. Father had videod abusing her for years after drugging her. Loads of evidence.

@@fleur3986 How do I find this video you mention? I wonder what ever happened to the mother.

Noo noo noo he needs to be put down filthy DEVIL

Such a sick human being

Absolutely vile! 😣😣😣 May this young lady heal. 💛

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That’s awesome you found Jesus. Thank for sharing that 🥰

An evil mum too

So sorry :(

I am so sorry ... I dont want to be rude ... But where was Jesus when all of this was happening ? ? ? Jesus was NOT there for you, did not protect you, did not save you. The truth is that your own strength got you through it -- you saved yourself. Be proud of yourself and dont give the credit to Jesus when you are your own magic.

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True. The mother must have known something at least. These things can’t continue happening if it’s not surrounded by complicit people. It’s so sick.

We have to be cautious though too. I once confronted my friend because her dad went out of his way to make her happy. For example, he’d camp out to get a new release of a movie, book, or device she liked. He was always telling her how pretty she was. He would run his fingers through her hair, hug her, and put his arm on her all the time. My dad is German, and we aren’t touchy people, so it made me uncomfortable. When I asked my friend about her dad, she told a counselor about it, and the counselor called CPS. There was a huge investigation, the dad nearly lost his high profile career, and the parents nearly lost custody. Everything ended up being perfectly normal, he just loved his daughter and was a touchy feely type guy. I’m not saying not to question that behavior. I’m just saying to really speak to the child. Don’t push the idea that something could be happening that they are blocking out, unless the child says they can’t remember chunks of time or blacking out.

no amount of kindness actually makes any abuse better or understandable it ruins whole families for years to come. i feel you’re pain i hope healing and happiness comes into your life like a beautiful rainbow

Yes it's disgusting and I think it's another reason so many so called men carry out their disgusting fantasies if the law and prosecution service were to hand out life sentences for ANY ! Harm done towards a child I think it would stop a good majority of them not all of them because those one to swing

Wow , it's true, but unbelievable, GOD help us all .

So sad to hear that, it is heartbreaking, how much sorrow is hidden behind smiles and happy family pictures..

Birds of a feather flock together.

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So sorry dear u went through hell. Sincerely where's humanity

I genuinely think it was because she was drugged so her body was looser than it would have been if she was sober. This is just skin crawling.

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JESUS BLESS YOU! JESUS KEEP YOU!! JESUS HEAL YOU!!!! JESUS RESTORE YOU!!!! STAY STRONG BEAUTIFUL!!! 🌹 FORGIVE, LET GO, LET GOD HEAL YOU COMPLETELY! 🌹🙏

I know right? There’s something rather strange and confusing about this rendition……..The father is a violent offender who should be locked up for life……something’s wrong with this picture,,,,,..They let him be released after seeing those horrific years of videos?!!!! Sick, patriarchal justice systems!

Meanwhile, a guy who smoked pot is still serving...

I bet they did since she said they had evidence that started around 3 went up to the time he was arrested.

The women these men choose are not random. These men are psychopaths and they seek out narcissistic women (lacking empathy) or submissive, useless women who do nothing. They wouldn't choose a loving woman who protects her kids like a mama bear.

I would probably kill the abuser with my bare hands if someone did it to my child

So sorry 😞

It’s demons. All apart of the enemies plans to destroy us. No other answer. Pure evil. People are just wickedly broken. Generational curses that are needed to be broken. Forgive them. Heal. LET JESUS restore you. Stay strong beLoved 🌹🙏

I was molested by my stepfather for 7 years. The things he did were horrific. The damage he caused will be lifelong. Recovery isn’t easy but necessary. My voice was never heard but it is being heard now. One person at a time. I’m strong enough now and want to share my story to continue bringing awareness. Please choose to fight against molestation/ sex abuse WITH ME!, My fight is just getting started. This fight (for me) is no longer about my abuse, it’s about the society that failed me and my determination to bring awareness. Stop Sexual Abuse

I wonder the same thing. I don't get it. They're just sick.

HE got away w it!!

I was molested by my stepfather for 7 years. The things he did were horrific. The damage he caused will be lifelong. Recovery isn’t easy but necessary. My voice was never heard but it is being heard now. One person at a time. I’m strong enough now and want to share my story to continue bringing awareness. Please choose to fight against molestation/ sex abuse WITH ME!, My fight is just getting started. This fight (for me) is no longer about my abuse, it’s about the society that failed me and my determination to bring awareness. Stop Sexual Abuse