I wasted my teenage years 

I still remember my diary entry for my 20th birthday. It said - I have wasted my teenage years crying over my miseries but I won't let my 20s be the worst years of my life.

I'm 19 right now, and I feel like most people would consider my teenage years a "waste". I spent all my time indoors, reading books and visual novels, watching anime, interacting with people in fandoms online, reading fanfic, I didn't have a single irl friend and never hung out with anyone, skipped all the social events, etc. But honestly? I loved my teenage years. I'll never forget the pure joy of finishing a story I particularly adored, and sharing it with other people who were equally as passionate about it. Those experiences shaped me as a human being and developed my interests in the literature and philosophy I enjoy now, developed my imagination and desire to create stories of my own, and gave me something incredibly precious. I loved indulging my interests to that extent. The only thing I really regret was not studying more. I'm a university student now, have a friend or two I occasionally hang out with and I also go to a few events, but none of it brings me as much joy as sitting alone in my room, and falling in love with a book/game/TV show.

00:06 You can do anything you want by yourself 01:42 Don't be afraid to dress up and be yourself 04:58 Happiness can be found anywhere and through the journey. 06:42 You are beautiful, ignore beauty standards 08:12 Believe in your capabilities and pursue what you want 09:54 Believe in yourself and be on the path of self-belief 11:25 Life is short, so do what makes you happy and be kind to yourself. Thank me later OH SHIT I JUST SAW NOW I HAVE 1.8K LIKES THANKS YALL

as a person who feels guilty for every single thing constantly, i needed to hear this. sometimes i read my diary entries from months ago and realise how better my life would feel if i stopped worrying and beating myself up over the smallest things

I’m 15 and I have no friends so the “doing things by yourself is ok” really helped me, from now on I will try to go to school events even if I’m going alone thank you:)

As a 16yo that feels like I’m waisting my teenage years doing nothing this means a lot. I feel like people my age have so much fun but I stay in my room all day on my phone😕When I grow up I’ll have nothing to look back on. I don’t really leave my house bc I’m very insecure about my looks and I have severe social anxiety ☹️☹️ I’m trying so hard to change but it’s so hard. Via you make me feel like I’m not alone, I literally love you so much girl💜💜thank you🙃🙃I hope your channel grows more, people need to know how amazing you are🫶🏻🫶🏻

Im 14, and I really wish I could do things by myself. My parents are always really paranoid that I might get taken or something just by going on a walk, so I cant go anywhere without someone behind me. It drives me crazy because nobody actually wants to go on walks in my family so I cant go anywhere.

You didn’t waste your teenage years. Look at who you are now, look at the wisdom you’ve gained. Our teenage years are made to be full of mistakes, so that we can learn from them and then shape ourselves into who we are today.

when you said “you dont need a reason to be happy” i started crying and i havent stopped. thank you for those healing words

I am 16 rn and feel like my life upto this point has been a waste. So many points really resonated with me. I genuinely cried watching this😭

I just turned 18 and I have wasted most if not all my teenage life in depression and being a slave to my “parents” . I’m so scared to do what I want right now but I feel like my life needs a turn

I'm 16 a high school student I really don't know how to thank you I needed to hear this. I felt comfortable after watching this vid so grateful to you , thx

I'm 18 now and my teenage years basically consisted of social anxiety. I never really socialized except with 2-3 friends. Just stayed indoors watched tons of yt videos, browsed all kinds of social media platforms, watched anime, read manga, read books, played games, learning programming, ... I enjoyed that time but I still feel like I'm behind other people because of my underdeveloped social skills. I'm determined to not waste my 20s however. I`m going to make sure those will be the happiest time of my life so far

this is my therapy fr 🙏🏻 also I'm gonna add a few of my own - you're allowed to be multiple things at once! you don't have to fit in a box or under one descriptor, you can be everything you want at once because you're a human and you're multifaceted - don't let the fear of being cringe or being judged stop you from having fun (like dancing in public etc) - there's never going to be a "perfect time". if you want to do something, do it now - being yourself and kind will get you further and make you happier than just trying hard to seem cool

''if you cant get over the fear, do it scared''

That “I didn’t deserve to go outside” resonated with me. I always felt like I had to punisch myself, for my grades, for my mental being, for whatever I had going on at that time, which I can’t even name …..

As a 14 year old, this makes me feel motivated and loved. Now that im going into my teenage years, just learning to be myself, dressing how I want to, and doing new things really makes me happy and know that it isn't wrong. Thank you so much, Via, your videos are genuinely helpful ♡

"You dont need to feel guilty for...existing" ❤❤❤that just healed me. i no more need therapy y'all

im turning 14 and im learning to fight my social anxiety and to just say "eff it" cause i wanna enjoy my teenage years not caring baout others and living my life. Its a journey but im slowly getting there. Thanks sm for this video,

Its sooo sweet how some people want others to not make the same mistake they did and want others to be happier, like dude she is so sweet and i needed this to be honest thank you and love you!❤❤

i actually feel bad when i see the phrase "i wasted my teenage years". i was not that confident back to my teenage years. i also did not like to go outside. but there was so much more than that. i liked being alone, learning languages, watching nice things and searching for nice things. i just see that some people call teenage years as smth that you need to use for everything: go party, go outside alone, go make friends and so on and it gives me pressure and i really start thinking like omg did i really miss smth being a teenager? absolutely not. the things i did as a teenager are those things that were right to do being a teenager. not more or not less, just enjoy your time as u prefer and it will never be wasting of time. just never feel shame of doing or not doing smth. thanks for the new videooo

just realized from a quote that said " The way you judge others is also the way you judge yourself" really hits hard

im 14, have no absolutely no friends, and i have been home schooled for a while bc of the experiences i had at school when i was little. this video has definitely made me more motivated, and i think i will try school again. thank you

Wow, it's been a rough day. It's been, a rough week actually, maybe even a rough life. I turned this video on and listened to it while doing my math homework. Life has been feeling incredibly painful and hopeless lately, but after listening to this-the intelligence and genuinity in your words-I smiled. I really smiled, candidly. I connected to pretty much everything that you mentioned and felt a little more understood. I've been working all day but listening to this I actually set my pencil down and smiled. For the first time in a very long time, I'm feeling excited about the life ahead of me. You are so kind to spread this message, I am sure you have helped many struggling young hearts by doing so. I kind of wish I had an older sister like you. I'm turning 16 in one day. This is exactly the advice I needed to hear. Thank you Via.

this hits a lot as someone whose still in high school n has severe body image issues & social anxiety. things will get better for all of us 💓

i'm 25 and this was super helpful lmao i wasted my teenage years and i feel like i'm also wasting my twenties. thank you for encouranging words

I'm eighteen, and I'm so happy that I realized most of these things when I was fifteen, or sixteen. I liked to do things by myself a lot when I was in 10th grade and when I got good friends in 11th and 12th grade, I knew the beauty of friendship too but I could still enjoy going on solo dates or being alone and I always romanticized my life, hell even a cup of coffee could bring me happiness and I documented all of the important moment in my life. I'm so happy that I am evolving to be a person that enjoys the company as well as the loneliness. and I'm turning 19 after two months, so it's gonna be my last teenage yeah but still, life is still here

I take anti depression pills since i was 10, now im 16 and finally started to work on myself after trauma caused by my classmates. I locked myself in a room and haven't seen daylight in 1 year. I was scared. I study in home and I didn't have aby motivation to go for a walk till now. Just wanna say thank you for making me feel better. It's beautiful seein someone so nice to people they dont know

I’m 19 y/o right now and feel like I’ve wasted my teen years focusing on how many friends everyone else had and how much easier it was for everyone else to make friends. This made it hard for me to enjoy doing things by myself but now I’m a sophomore in college and am learning how to enjoy my alone time… I still struggle with the this but your channel has been so helpful for me and has made me feel less alone. Thank you for this video :)

Ive been having some of these issues too but since I watch this video daily in the morning and in the evening I am just a better person I’m more confident I feel like I’m worth it and I just wanna say thank you for doing this❤️

It’s my last year of being a teenager. However, I needed to watch this. Thank you so much! :)

As a 12-year-old who is becoming teenager in October, I'm so glad this video showed up.❤ I don't want to get older and regret not going out, chasing for love all the time, crying over stupid problems. And of course, I know there will be ups and downs, but I don't want my only teenage memories of me crying and staying isolated in my room forever.

At seventeen, I often find myself in solitude, without friends and minimal social activities. It's easy to feel like I might be squandering precious time, yet I'm determined not to succumb to the weight of regret. My aspiration is to step into my twenties with a profound sense of gratitude. I want to cherish the gift of reaching my twenties, understanding that many of my peers might not be as fortunate. This perspective will guide me towards a future free of regrets.

I'm 15 and honestly, thank you so much for this. I wanna be a writer and major in cinema to learn more about movies and hopefully turn one or two of my stories books and live acrion movies/series. I'm studying little by little and already writing my favorite story, and this video just made me so much more confident to pursue my dream I can't even describe it. I didn't know how much I needed to hear such a simple thing like "happiness can be found anywhere, not just accomplished with a goal". You're an earth angel. 💖

I’m 15 and I’ve gotten so used to just being by myself but I still beat myself up for it. Especially now that it’s the summer, I still get ashamed at myself because I WANT to have that experience with friends, and I DO have friends but everything just feels so disconnected and we only speak days at a time if I’m being fr. Thank you for making this video bc I feel like now I can discover myself without having to necessarily rely on others. If we ever do hang out then I’ll cherish that for what it is, but either way I’ll be trying to find out the things I want. Tysm 💗💗💗

as a 19 year old I am mourning my last year of being a teenager. Growing up I was sheltered as a teenager and I wasn’t really allowed to enjoy my early teen years(mainly because I was the eldest child and had more responsibilities to prioritize then to enjoy my teen years) my late teens(17-19) I was severely depressed and I didn’t have the motivation to enjoy those late years I had as a teen. Now I’m doing a little better. I just hope and pray that my 20s I can have more freedom and can enjoy just being young. :)

as a current teenager who is super scared i’ll end up wasting my teenage years and that i won’t be able to break out of my shell until college, this video was seriously helpful and motivating. thank you 💗

this video is like a slap in the face... those things seem obvious but are actually really hard to put in practice... thank you, as a traumatised teenager, this helped me a lot.

i as a teenager was very restricted and wasnt able to things myself. leave my house, walk home with friends, go to friends house, have a job. as an adult i hope to do the things ive always wanted to do.

I feel the same!!!! I never got out of my house, always remained a good daughter for my family and now I feel like I missed so many precious years.

what keeps me sane from realizing that “i wasted my teen years” is that COVID hit when i was 14. However, im 18 now, COVID has subsided… yet it’s hard for me to release myself from the mental shackles and tell myself “it’s okay to live freely. it’s okay to do things that make u happy.” Hearing you tell me these things, made me tear up :,) I’m going to try my best to live my last 2 teen years to the fullest, so I can continue to live life with no regrets! Thank you for this video :,) God bless u, truly

You are like an older sister that gives confidence to all the teenage girls who are insecure about their body and personality. Thank you very much for giving us hope❤❤

Wow you are incredibly well spoken. I just woke up and immediately started off having a bad day but this is switching my day around. This video made me emotional because you seem so genuine and the way you phrased these life lessons really resonated with me. I am 18 and I will follow this advice!! Thank you truly

I feel like this too!!! I was so sad and depressed back then.... And hated being lonely....but now I feel SOLITUD

God, I have been crying so much today because I just feel like everything around me is making me suffer. I have just about started my teen years and I already feel like shit. I have dealt with a lot of mental health issue and am so ready to just be a loving person to myself. If ur reading this, have a lovely day. ❤️

this video is such a source of comfort, i had been feeling overwhelmed the whole day and this just made me realise that the things we worry over so much dont matter in the long run. what does matter is what memories we create and the life that we curate

its nice hearing that im not the only one struggling to go outside by myself, I dont feel like i dont deserve it, im just genuinely scared of all the ppl that are out there. im now realizing that im really just scared of being judged, but im already trying to improve. i cant wait to go out fear-free

I’m not kidding when I say Via’s “you can be by yourself” philosophy has CHANGED MY LIFE in these past couple months. I’m a person who has always forced myself to hang out with people and talk to people all the time even though I’m rather socially anxious, with the hope that one day I’d just “get over it” and start enjoying being around people. I watched one of Via’s other vids about how it’s ok to have no friends, which caused me to realize that maybe what I’ve been doing has not been working, and that it IS an option for one to find real fulfillment spending time alone. Since then, I’ve cut down on the number of people I hang out with and talk to (as well as deleted instagram and lessened my overall use of social media), and started doing things *I* wanted to do, all by myself, which has lead me to finally feel happiness and satisfaction with my life for the first time in YEARS. Like Via says, these things seem so obvious, but the idea of having friends and socializing as the “meaning of life” is so shoved down our throats by society that I didn’t even realize it was possible to find fulfillment within yourself. THANK YOU VIA!!!!

I’m 16 years old. I never really had friends and I was never popular or anything like that, nor did I crave to be. I just always craved connection with other people. For a while, I became really lonely to the point where it pained me everyday. I compared myself to all these people my age having fun with their friend groups and having experiences I never had. But looking back, it doesn’t make sense that I compared myself to them, because even if I got offered those experiences, the kind of life they’re living, I wouldn’t want to take it. Why? Because it’s not meant for me. I don’t actually want to go to parties and do all these crazy things, I like going on quiet walks and having deep conversations with people one-on-one. I don’t enjoy group settings. So I was basically sitting in my room, daydreaming about living the life of other people, a life I didn’t even really want. If you’re going through the same thing, know that your time WILL come. Just try to be open, do your best, strive towards becoming a good person and everything’s gonna be fine. The right people will eventually come along if you’re patient and stay true to who you are and want to be. My environment hasn’t changed that much from a year but I feel completely different towards these types of things, because I stopped looking outwards for validation and stopped waiting for someone to come save me from my loneliness. Okay just one more thing (this is all over the place): What helped me is journaling DAILY. Not only when I’m having a crisis, but also when I was at my happiest. It made me understand how I think and what I want. I also started working on my hobbies and on myself and striving towards my goals, which gave me some sense of purpose. I encourage you to find your sense of purpose, no matter how small and trivial that purpose might seem to other people🤍

this feels like a very warm and genuine older sister advice i’ve always needed and wished for☹️

I LOVE YOU SM. im 14 and i really needed this! you're really well spoken and mature, thank you so much for talking abt this

I turned 13 less than a month ago and I want to make the best of my teenage years. This video is a reminder for me to do what makes me happy and not to give up and care about what others think. Thanks a lot for making this.

Actually can’t thank you enough for this, I’m 17 rn so I needed to hear this so muchhhhhh so so so so sooooo muchhhh. I spend so much time worrying and i really find it hard to just let myself exist without being “productive” so thank you so so much :)

you truly are beautiful not just from outside but from inside also as a 19 year old girl who feels guilty for not doing academically good this video is truly a gem for me emotionally too. when u said its ok to fail it touched my heart😭❤

the line u said "u can chosse the major u want and will be sucessful iin any major if u put all in that " it touchd my heart........i really needed it

Honestly I feel like I can’t relate to these because it wasn’t me stopping myself from getting out- it was my parents. It was always “you’ll get robbed/kidnapped/violated/killed”. I’m 18 in college and I still get this even when friends invite me to study groups. It’s tiring honestly.

i’m 17 less than a month away from 18 and I NEEEEDED this. i relate so soo so hard with the whole feeling guilty for taking up space, like i feel like when i sit in a cafe or when i go out shopping, i’m doing something wrong. this is such a comforting video and i’m definitely gonna be watching this to hype myself up lolol

This was actually so helpful and made me cry at the part where she said "dont feel guilty for existing" i just wanted to say thank you because you made me gain more confidence i want to pursue in art but nobody around me does it by saying "so be the first" you really encougered me .thank you❤

You are so beautiful to me because of how much you've evolved and I appreciate what you are doing for so many people by creating these videos 🥺

I was thinking a few mins ago, how I’m Aro ace but I thought to myself that when I live alone if I’d get lonely, but then I saw this vid and you made me realize it’s good to do things by yourself, I actually love being by myself. Your literally my inspiration thank you! 🌸💗

I am 36 yrs old, and i didnt learn many lessons till late in my current life. Take it from me yall, life doesnt stop or wait for you. Dont be afraid of letting yourselves be happy, I wasted years of my life trying to wait for the perfect time to be happy.

I just turned 16 a week ago and honestly I'm really grateful for all the mistakes I've made cuz I got to learn from them and still now I'm learning more and more about myself. I definitely wasted few years of my teenage crying over things that weren’t in my control, overthinking everything but now I'm just trying to love myself and be the best version of me. I've always been a people pleaser but now I'm learning to get rid of that habit too. I only wanna be myself now instead of trying to please everyone

As a current 20 year old, I felt that I was so hyper independent but I could never do anything by myself. And I’m still trying to do it, especially now that my circle of friends has gotten smaller. So thank you for that 😊 it was the push I need to do things by myself. My goal for the end of the year is to go to a restaurant and eat by myself! One day we’ll get there lol

Last sunday I turned 20. Didn't really had the time to analyse my teen years, but your video made me reflect about it. After highschool, during my last two years of teenagehood, I started dressing more like myself, doing what I enjoy and started being more independent. Of course, I still have lots to improve, I must trust myself more, be open to small and big adventures and appreciate life more. It´s not an easy task, but I feel I'm doing great so far, and that makes me happy. Hope all of us can feel good with ourselves and enjoy our lives on ourown special way :)

Your videos are so raw, it feels so genuine... I really needed to hear someone tell me this because I've always been so self conscious when i'm out alone. Hearing this is so reassuring

The part where you talked about always having to have a purpose while doing things hit home, I've been getting myself to go to coffee shops and window shopping for fun and it hit me that it didn't have any end goal and I ended up not doing anything and feeling shitty for not thinking of something with a purpose. A new area to work on thanks Via ❤

Oh my God! I don't usually comment on videos, but this one in particular, I will! I needed this video so much! It's so liberating to think "We're all human"; "Everything passes"; "We're all going to die one day", because that's how you take risks to achieve your goals! Gratitude 🫶🏻✨✨✨✨✨✨

when I was teenager, I really suffered with the feeling of being left out and just to avoid that feeling, I tried to fit in different groups, who really didn't match my vibe or tried too hard to keep them close to me even when all they did was use me. I remember having groups of friends, who actually became my friends cause I had good grade. Growing up, now as I can see how toxic they were and how it negatively impacted my whole teenage life, I wish I could tell myself that it's okay to be alone and you can enjoy your own company!

omg i really needed to hear this from someone who has been through the same things i'm going through. Tysm, it really did help me

I just turned 14 and this was something I really needed to hear. Thank you Via, I always feel guilty about everything and get so anxious about every stupid thing but this actually helped me so much

i'm turnng 25 in a month, and even though our teenage years seem to be different at all levels, i can say that every word you say is just right. we carry too much carriage from the previous years, relationships (including frendship and what's happening in the family) and experience and we ourselves let those things have an impact on us but not in the positive way. we deserve better and there is nothing bad about thinking this way. we deserve to be happy because we have only one life. take every opportunity to feel the beauty of being yourself. thank you for you wise words. ❤

Girl I’m telling you don’t understand how comforting you are to me 🤍

i love you and i find so much comfort watching your videos cause we're kind of in the same stage at life, but somehow i still learn a lot from you. ❤

your videos seriously help me more than therapy. I feel like my therapist doesn´t know how to give me the actual advice i need or even sometimes she just doesn´t really undertand what i am telling her, which could be kind of sad. But your content resonates so much with me that i realise a lot of things and i feel like getting the courage and certainty of me doing things, i am very insecure about some things and quite introverted too. I just wanted to tell you how much you have helped me within just a few videos to build up more self confidence and inspiration.

"If you keep on going and going and going you will end up somewhere you like". I really needed to hear that .we have to not only keep going but instead we have to keep GOING AND GOING AND GOING even if it hurts🌻. Btw the design here 8:45 is so cute 😊

The moment you said “why does everything I do need to have a purpose or a goal?” made me think a lot. I think this is my biggest trouble to enjoy things just because it makes me happy. I fell like I need to have a purpose on everything, but sometimes the purpose is literally make me happy. And I need to learn to enjoy these moments.

"its okay to fail" i really, REALLY, needed to hear that. hits hard.

I am really happy that someone finally talked about it cause I always thought you don't have the right to have a walk by yourself cause you don't deserve it. I really needed it so much. ❤

"You're born to the right of happiness". I think I needed to hear that. I decided that I deserve happiness too, 2 days ago & here you are telling me that to my face. 💕

2:45 Thank you for this. I feel the same. Everyday, I’m scared of going outside. I study at home, so I don’t really go outside. I think I don’t deserve, it’s “too much fun, too much privilege and I don’t deserve this”

Yeah no I’m 15 and am wasting my life rn. But I’m homeschooled so I don’t really have irl friends, but like I’m having a great time. I know you’re supposed to think about what you do instead of how much fun you have, but I think as long as I’m living a healthy life with people I can talk to, I’m fine with it.

Hearing someone say "You can do it by yourself" was really validating for me. I'm a very introverted person and I have friends but they all live an hour away so it's really hard to do anything with them before planning it days ahead of time. Because of this I don't really do much because I've always been told that you have to be with other people to have fun even though that's just not really how I like to do things. So someone telling me that it's okay to go outside and have fun by myself really changed my mindset.

I’m 20 years old now. And I also feel like I’ve wasted all of my teenage years. Though I was in such a dark place during that time, I’ve been able to have the courage and move on. It was a long dark time & I really wish I told myself those things way earlier! This video definitely was a nice reminder!

'you don't need to suffer to justify anything' that hit so deep!

Just found this video, and it healed my inner child, teen, and current adult self. Thanks so much.❤

Watching this, nearly every summer holidays I spend most of in my room not doing anything with a horrible sleeping pattern. This motivates me to actually clean my room, go on walks, do things I actually want to do. Thank you honestly this was so helpful.

i didn't know i needed to hear some of these things but I really appreciate it . Lots of love and I hope you have a great day today to anyone who sees this

You're like a therapist, a mom, and a counselor who is scolding me for doing nothing fun in my teenage life.. I'ma keep this in my head Via, and actually wish my mom understand. But nevermind, I will not take my another two years of my teenage years go lost, thank you!!!❤

Sis just so comfortably honest with herself it inspires me to be honest with myself Keep being so fearless

I realized this uncomfortable feeling that I've always felt was guilty for being happy and there's no need to feel like this. Thank you for the great advice✨

I litterly sobbed watching this video. It’s like this video opened my eyes. I want to do things I want and not give a damn what others think too. I don’t wanna spend my teenage years just doing nothing being on my phone and being afraid of doing things bc of my anxiety ,I always look back on it and how it sucks. I rlly needed to see this video, thank you. I remember now how I went to the cinema and to a expo for the first time alone, It was amazing.

I turned 19 and I am going through all the thing via is talking about and just hearing her way that I can do it inspires me to go for it so thank you so much via

I can relate to this video on another level!!! I'm 17 years old and I hav all the faers that u specified as u experienced in ur teenage years. I always felt guilty for dressing up good, doing make up, buying things for myself. Generally just doing things I like made me feel guilty so I stopped doing it. I started dressing the way that would not be called attractive and I stopped doing make up. I also feared going out and doing things for myself which is something Im struggling with now. Thank u so much for this video!! As it made me realise I'm not the only one who is going through such fears and thanks for encouraging me to overcome my fears. The way u spoke was so sweet and it sounded like ur my elder sister trying to encourage me.love ya ❤

Im 13 and im INSANELY grateful that videos like this exist to help me better myself already instead of regretting that I didn't enjoy my teenage years later ! Thanks sm Via

I have been building my self-esteem day by day, closely giving attention to my studies, and being grateful, while also having doubts about the stage I'm in now. So hard to carry, but I’m thankful that I recognize my thoughts and feelings together.

I'M 16 YEARS OLD AND I AM AN INTROVERT GIRL😢 AND HAVE NO FRIENDS BUT NOW I THINK HAVING FRIENDS ISN'T NECESSARY YOU CAN DO WHATEVER YOU WANT BY YOURSELF 😃.I AM REALLY REALLY THANKFUL TO YOU FOR SHARING YOUR PAST, GIVING US YOUR ADVICE, AND HELPING US IN OUR LIFE WITH YOUR PAST. YOU DIDN'T JUST KEPT IT BY YOURSELF THINKING "OH THAT WAS MY PAST" BUT INSTEAD YOU'RE SHARING YOUR TEENAGE LIFE AND HELPING US FOR A FUN, INDEPENDENT, AND A MEMORIABLE TEENAGE LIFE TO LIVE THANK YOU VERY MUCH. 😊 BY THE WAY DID SOMEONE SAY YOU THAT YOUR DELUSIONAL ABOUT YOUR BEAUTY IF THEY DID I WOULD SAY THEY WERE TOTALLY JEALOUS OF YOUR BEAUTY. YOU KNOW WHAT YOUR SO PRETTY AND I LOVE YOUR GUMMY SMILE I WISH I HAD ONE TOO.I FOUND MYSELF GETTING ADDICTED TO SEEING YOUR PRETTIEST GUMMY SMILE, SO CUTE.😌 YOU SHOULD ALWAYS KEEP SMILING. AND THANKS FOR THIS VIDEO AND STAY HEALTHY AND SAFE. WAITING FOR MORE INTERESTING CONTENTS LIKE THIS ❤️

I nearly teared up at parts of the video,, it means so much to hear such genuine motivation in a world so negative sometimes

You are so confident!! 2:24 I look up to you for confidence this is the first thing i watch if i am feeling ugly

I'm a teenager and I loved this video so much. You inspire me and I look up to you so it felt like a big sister giving me some advice. Since I'm not an adult yet I don't know if my parents will let me do a lot of things by myself but definitely I'm hoping to do more by the time that I am an adult. Thanks for the video ❤

Once you realize you can do things by yourself and don’t need others, it’s a game changer. Go to the lake and go swimming. Go to the library, get a drink at a cafe, just go for a walk, etc. That was what helped me when I was in a really dark place was making the decision to go out places alone, play music as I go, and dress up even though I wasn’t planning on seeing anyone. It brought me a lot of confidence back