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Identifying the Narcissist | JOE NAVARRO 

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@whatdoyouthink6133
@whatdoyouthink6133 3 месяца назад
There are two kinds of people in this world those who fill your cup and those who drain it. *Joe navarro* This has become my favourite quote Thank you sir
@joenavarrobehaviorexpert
@joenavarrobehaviorexpert 3 месяца назад
It is sad but true
@JillWhitcomb1966
@JillWhitcomb1966 9 месяцев назад
Growing up, I just assumed that my Dad was bossy and controlling. Any complaints we had about his behavior, he'd just say, "Bullsh*t! My Father was a lot tougher on me than I am on you kids!" Now that I'm older, wiser, and have videos like this to help, I see that my Dad was an absolute narcissist. He has been dead now for quite a few years. But even when I was 50 years old and he was 90, he was still trying to bully me, name call, and insult my lifestyle. Toxic doesn't even cover it.
@martivanyo4136
@martivanyo4136 9 месяцев назад
He sounds like a complete piece of s***
@joenavarrobehaviorexpert
@joenavarrobehaviorexpert 9 месяцев назад
I can say i feel your pain because I have felt that from people I have worked with, ut it is especially hard from a parent, the scars long remain. I wish you well
@prabhanjanavramagiri8208
@prabhanjanavramagiri8208 9 месяцев назад
​@@joenavarrobehaviorexpert very and very nice video. Even my father is just like this and has come through many problems due to that.
@MissErinChase
@MissErinChase 9 месяцев назад
"You have no social obligation ever to be victimized" ~~Joe Navarro
@joenavarrobehaviorexpert
@joenavarrobehaviorexpert 9 месяцев назад
Ever
@stephentomasi7105
@stephentomasi7105 2 месяца назад
You've talked about this delicate topic very elegantly, bravo!
@joenavarrobehaviorexpert
@joenavarrobehaviorexpert 2 месяца назад
Thank you kindly! That's very nice of you to comment. I have always placed my focus on those of the victims, those who have suffered under the toxic tentacles of the malignant narcissist. I hope it's helpful.
@brynnleapierce5600
@brynnleapierce5600 2 месяца назад
I’ve had (past tense) the unfortunate experience with one of these creatures in a romantic relationship. A life lesson that served me well only through my gaining knowledge, understanding & the language of who & how these individuals operate. It took a few months to put the pieces of the puzzle together, by dealing with their pervasive patterns of behavior then the rest was self-taught research. I can say with confidence once you realize who & what you're dealing with the most optimal choice is to make a carefully orchestrated plan to exit. I was able to successfully accomplish that goal. I am now better equipped to proceed with caution in dealing with others when it comes to recognizing those traits. Once you have seen it👉 you can't unsee it, experience it & learn by educating yourself in all that comes with understanding the dynamic of the paradigm it helps overall with your human connections the day-to-day.
@martivanyo4136
@martivanyo4136 9 месяцев назад
Thank You Sir for worrying about people, and teaching us 💜
@joenavarrobehaviorexpert
@joenavarrobehaviorexpert 9 месяцев назад
My pleasure
@LiaMyLia978
@LiaMyLia978 2 месяца назад
There’s a running joke that everyone’s ex is a narcissist. People do not realize how serious of a personality disorder it is. It is exasperating and crazy-making to be around. My PSA is unless your ex has a consistent exploitative interpersonal style, than they’re probably just a jerk, not a person with NPD. As a therapist it is so difficult to help them although some modalities like MRT show promise. I am not interested as I was married to someone who has bona fide NPD. Would not recommend divorcing one before kids are grown. They turn vicious when you dare to leave them.
@joenavarrobehaviorexpert
@joenavarrobehaviorexpert 2 месяца назад
Well, I have to agree with you. Narcissist can be very nasty when they are truly on bona fide NPD. That's why I created the checklist in my book Dangerous Personalities. It is a term that is thrown around very casually when what they really mean is just someone who is self-centered as you know is much different than the true narcissistic personality, which tends to be in different, calloused, and devalues others.
@LiaMyLia978
@LiaMyLia978 2 месяца назад
@@joenavarrobehaviorexpert 100%. Will check out your book!
@LizsFitnessLife
@LizsFitnessLife 2 месяца назад
Thank you for this video. I purchased Dangerous Personalities and your ebooks on this/related as it was playing. I especially appreciate your frequent reminders that we have no obligation to be victimized. I will probably NOT be sharing this with my family; it is my mother that I highly suspect - but lack the professional licensure to diagnose - is a narcissist! I had identified all the traits and common behaviors, overtime, but thought of them as individual bad behaviors or decisions on her part, rather than a constellation of traits that are pathognomonic of a narcissist. Having that description is extremely helpful because it provides me the resources to deal with her, as well as letting go the instinct to fighting with her in an effort to improve her behavior or our relationship.
@joenavarrobehaviorexpert
@joenavarrobehaviorexpert 2 месяца назад
Read the book and just go through the checklist. The checklist is based on what people have experienced. It is not a diagnostic tool, but what it does do is validate what you may be experiencing. May I suggest that you do all the checklists because often traits cross over into different personalities and that factors into how long this is sustainable, what the effects will be and how to best deal with them. I wish you well. Let me know what you think when you read it. Please.
@LizsFitnessLife
@LizsFitnessLife 2 месяца назад
@@joenavarrobehaviorexpert I will!
@LizsFitnessLife
@LizsFitnessLife 2 месяца назад
@@joenavarrobehaviorexpert 99… and I gave “no” answers where other explanations or my personal biases might apply (e.g., “Has regularly irritated or upset you,” I’d imagine many daughters have said this of their mothers, although perhaps not persisting into their 40s)
@kralvltavin9173
@kralvltavin9173 4 месяца назад
I think the demographic area will also affect the percentage of narcissists. Some places have higher instances of this dysfunction. Also, these numbers are rapidly rising. I think it's because of the immediate rewards of succeeding using narcissistic tactics in conjuction with the increase of people with victimhood.
@joenavarrobehaviorexpert
@joenavarrobehaviorexpert 4 месяца назад
You are correct. It is much higher among doctors, lawyers, CEOs and in Law Enforcement, unfortunately
@Alfsdatter
@Alfsdatter 9 месяцев назад
Thank you for the reminder. In Norway there is an unofficial memorial day for all the harm that was caused by Anders Breivik. Always looking forward to your videos.
@joenavarrobehaviorexpert
@joenavarrobehaviorexpert 9 месяцев назад
Thank you that means a lot to me
@caro748
@caro748 9 месяцев назад
How is the situation with him staying in prison? Will he actually ever be released as it seamed with the 20 years sentence?
@ThePheonise
@ThePheonise 9 месяцев назад
Hello Joe, I'm so glad to see you back on RU-vid I love this kind of content ! Also, I read your book 3 times "What every body is saying", I'm a "natural reader", I always been able to read people since i'm a teenager as far I can remember, I thought everybody could do that, it was in my early twenties I realize it's kind of a rare skill (thanks to my best friend who told me regular people cannot see what I see), I wanted personnally to say thank you for your work, you helped me a lot to understand it, having a good interpretation, context, establish a baseline, like making a blade shaper I still have a lot to learn, It help me a lot in my life, but most importantly, to help other people, especially those who hide a depression or a sadness, as an empath, it's really important to me to bring something bright to them even if it's a little bit I wish you the best !
@joenavarrobehaviorexpert
@joenavarrobehaviorexpert 9 месяцев назад
Thank you I am like your. I re - reread books all the time and I always gain something new. Last year I read 67 books 4 of which I had read before and I still can't believe I find new information each time. And I take notes. Its crazy. Continue you good journey of knowledge.
@tck3041
@tck3041 9 месяцев назад
My EX partner use to haughtily bluster so self importantly back into the house and say, "Everyone who is not me stop talking". He meant it. He was forever telling me he was special.
@joenavarrobehaviorexpert
@joenavarrobehaviorexpert 9 месяцев назад
Sounds terrible and very narcissistic. Glad you are away from that toxicity now.
@tck3041
@tck3041 9 месяцев назад
@joenavarrobehaviorexpert Thank you. The problem with him was that he charmed everyone, esp women in the outside world. I am alone but at peace. I often used to think it was because he was an only child.
@SilverFoxy207
@SilverFoxy207 9 месяцев назад
Thank You so much for this 💛
@joenavarrobehaviorexpert
@joenavarrobehaviorexpert 9 месяцев назад
You're so welcome!
@kathrynregier_kind1maui
@kathrynregier_kind1maui 9 месяцев назад
Fascinating and very helpful. Thank you!
@joenavarrobehaviorexpert
@joenavarrobehaviorexpert 9 месяцев назад
Glad you enjoyed it!
@beatgreens9530
@beatgreens9530 8 месяцев назад
I am so glad you have a channel now! I have 3 off your books. Dangerous Personalities was my first. It’s a great book, and a great reference. Thanks for sharing your knowledge of these types of people with the rest of us!
@joenavarrobehaviorexpert
@joenavarrobehaviorexpert 8 месяцев назад
My pleasure. I hope you share that knowledge with others
@MaxWithoutPain
@MaxWithoutPain 3 месяца назад
I feel like I'm a Narcissist magnet 🧲 😅
@joenavarrobehaviorexpert
@joenavarrobehaviorexpert 3 месяца назад
It's not you there are just so many out there
@brynnleapierce5600
@brynnleapierce5600 2 месяца назад
They fall into the category of being social predators, they are on the hunt for prey & know exactly who to target.
@joenavarrobehaviorexpert
@joenavarrobehaviorexpert Месяц назад
You are right. They spent as much time and energy on some thing prosocial, but they don't. It's all about them.
@annejohannesson9555
@annejohannesson9555 2 месяца назад
My mother was manipulative and controlling 😢
@joenavarrobehaviorexpert
@joenavarrobehaviorexpert 2 месяца назад
Yes, the narcissist can be very manipulating when they leave you feeling as though you have no control, or that control will be taken from you at some point.
@cherilee2
@cherilee2 9 месяцев назад
Outstanding video
@joenavarrobehaviorexpert
@joenavarrobehaviorexpert 9 месяцев назад
Thank you so much 😀
@mr.commentator2921
@mr.commentator2921 8 месяцев назад
I was expecting you to teach us the technique to identify them through their physical body language. Fan from India. 🙂
@joenavarrobehaviorexpert
@joenavarrobehaviorexpert 8 месяцев назад
You should look at all my video and here: www.jnforensics.com/blog-1
@AlexBartlettTravel
@AlexBartlettTravel 7 месяцев назад
⁠@@joenavarrobehaviorexpertI assume those with NPD don’t have disorder-specific body language tells, Instead having context-specific tells or stimuli-specific tells like everyone else.
@rememberremember5106
@rememberremember5106 9 месяцев назад
Thank you , Mr Navarro, this is brilliant. Listening to you always lights up my life 🎶 ❤ (Now is that song in your head?)
@joenavarrobehaviorexpert
@joenavarrobehaviorexpert 9 месяцев назад
I am honored but ti doesn't go to my head, my mother reared me well - only the recipients matter
@rememberremember5106
@rememberremember5106 9 месяцев назад
@@joenavarrobehaviorexpert I meant the song 🎵 "You light up my life" You show no signs of ego. And thank to your mum ❤
@michaelcampbell8246
@michaelcampbell8246 9 месяцев назад
I'll re-read the book
@joenavarrobehaviorexpert
@joenavarrobehaviorexpert 9 месяцев назад
Great idea, I do it all the time with books I enjoy, I always learn something new
@joaquimhenrique9247
@joaquimhenrique9247 9 месяцев назад
Impressionante,entende muito
@joenavarrobehaviorexpert
@joenavarrobehaviorexpert 9 месяцев назад
Obrigado
@joaquimhenrique9247
@joaquimhenrique9247 9 месяцев назад
@@joenavarrobehaviorexpert 🙏🤝
@raybonecrusher4516
@raybonecrusher4516 20 дней назад
I have run across a you tuber who displays most if not all of the Narcissist's habits. He has picked a victim to destroy and has spent the last 2 years destroying this family he was able to build his followers to 722000 followers who seem to echo his way of doing things, somewhat like the Jim Jones affect. The channel is called What the Hales. He seems to take small items and build them into mountains. Would these actions be normal for a narcissist? Ray
@joenavarrobehaviorexpert
@joenavarrobehaviorexpert 18 дней назад
It is difficult to say without seeing everything that this individual does. It would be interesting to see all his behaviors as they are manifest in the checklist of the book dangerous personalities. But if he's fixating on one individual, then there may be other pathologies at work, including psychopathy, including obsessive disorders and so forth
@clmartin1120
@clmartin1120 Месяц назад
I don’t have a degree in psychology, but if this doesn’t describe a certain presidential candidate from combover to toe, the world as we know it is one giant lie 🫥
@joenavarrobehaviorexpert
@joenavarrobehaviorexpert Месяц назад
Behaviors, the finest, and if the shoe fits
@niteshvashisht5867
@niteshvashisht5867 9 месяцев назад
Greetings from India Mumbai, any tips for recovery sir. I married one but now I am seperated with her. My relationship with lot of people has affected and my overall behaviour also I feel very victimized and hard time trusting. I never want to get married again. But I wanna get my life and be happy with myself. Loneliness sure is adding something to my life to new challenges ahead.
@joenavarrobehaviorexpert
@joenavarrobehaviorexpert 9 месяцев назад
Thank you for your comments and I am sorry you went through so much. Don't give up. There is so much good in life at least now you know what signs to look for to avoid in others. I wish you well, my friend.
@pamelaroyce5285
@pamelaroyce5285 7 месяцев назад
see the RU-vid channel of DoctorRamani, a psychologist who counsels people on the west side of Los Angeles, where there are many people who are narcissists. She specializes in helping people to understand narcissism and to recover from the pain of having been in a relationship with one or more (a parent, a wife or husband, a boss). She helps people understand why they are susceptible to narcissists (are easily spotted by them) so that they know how to resist trying to rescue the narcissists and how to spot one when you meet them. We cannot change them. The only effective defense against them is “no contact.” But if we are stuck with having to deal with them because of broader family obligations or our career, for example, then she offers techniques for coping with them (“gray rock” is one). Watching her channel gave me a lot of healing, courage, and clarity about these manipulative people. One narcissistic relative is being extremely manipulative right now and she has no idea her manipulation is completely ineffective now. I’m free! Good luck.
@tomdrew5608
@tomdrew5608 9 месяцев назад
Hi Joe, Is there a place I can get all of your books at once, and how many are there now? You know, like the Joe Navarro bundle? Refund time is coming, so I'll be able to buy all of'em for my studies... Thank you.
@joenavarrobehaviorexpert
@joenavarrobehaviorexpert 9 месяцев назад
Hi there - yes - please go to www.jnforensics/books and you will see them all. There are now 14. Thank you!
@tomdrew5608
@tomdrew5608 9 месяцев назад
Thank you, Joe. I'll go check it out.@@joenavarrobehaviorexpert
@juliet.2472
@juliet.2472 9 месяцев назад
My mother 🫣
@joenavarrobehaviorexpert
@joenavarrobehaviorexpert 9 месяцев назад
I hope you are in a better place/ I have more to follow next week.
@juliet.2472
@juliet.2472 9 месяцев назад
@@joenavarrobehaviorexpert Thank you! 🙏🏻 I read your book « Dangerous personalities » and it helped me to identify what it was… now how to deal with it on a daily basis is quite challenging! 😔 I will be on the lookout 👀.
@gamesmishra4460
@gamesmishra4460 6 месяцев назад
What if I feel I'm narcissistic and need help....
@joenavarrobehaviorexpert
@joenavarrobehaviorexpert 6 месяцев назад
Then do yourself a favor and seek help from a clinician that specializes in personality disorders
@gamesmishra4460
@gamesmishra4460 6 месяцев назад
@@joenavarrobehaviorexpert that might not be possible with my financial background
@lookingforsea
@lookingforsea 5 месяцев назад
I wonder if Joe is an SLDD (or started out that way and with his diligence sharpened out his way to be where he is now) RU-vid SLDD on RU-vid it is an updated term for codependency. 5 min I thought of Dwaine the Rock Johnson and Marjorie Taylor Greene lol. And most people who listen to hip hop. 7:30 another word or phrase is to spew vitriol either behind your back or overtly. I am not for a police state at all... but I believe as a community we need to be more hard on cracking down on their ability to effect the world... I was thinking about making almost like a reputable database( like how money is reputable so far) or just letting people know in your local community... almost like how criminals have a record... there should be a phycologist version of that... I am ALWAYS saying in my head... if only I could have a certified professional tell for certain who is who... who is the P Narc and who is likely the victim and not let it down to mere fallible myopic speculation and truly truth based... I mean just for the mere closure... so much gaslighting going on... that was my whole life... gaslighting over minimizing rinse and repeat.
@joenavarrobehaviorexpert
@joenavarrobehaviorexpert 5 месяцев назад
Interesting
@rememberremember5106
@rememberremember5106 9 месяцев назад
This sounds like my sister, she could play the victim when it suited her , to get what she wants, to get me in trouble for something I never did/done. She could cry tears at the snap of your fingers then , turn to me with a smug smile once she had achived what she wanted , it was like she was alwats playing a chess game, carefully waiting watching planning to make her move. Could there be a Narcissist the displays all the different Narcissistic traits. Fragile/covert , malignant, +
@joenavarrobehaviorexpert
@joenavarrobehaviorexpert 9 месяцев назад
Good question I will be talking about that in future episodes. In fact many times narcissism can be comorbid with the emotionally unstable (Borderline or Histrionic personality) and that really complicates life for those around them. I wish you well.
@rememberremember5106
@rememberremember5106 9 месяцев назад
@@joenavarrobehaviorexpert thank you, I look forward to that, I'm in the motions of cutting ties with all childhood family members, I'm quite the villan for it, but there's peace ✌ 😊 I love ehat you do Mr Navarro ❤
@eddy2561
@eddy2561 4 месяца назад
Can you say: T R U M P!
@joenavarrobehaviorexpert
@joenavarrobehaviorexpert 4 месяца назад
That s not more me to say. The book this is based on came out in 2014
@pamelabarnett1903
@pamelabarnett1903 3 месяца назад
Did you speak at the Teachers Conference in Mt Vernon , IL in October 1996?
@cinamingrl
@cinamingrl 9 месяцев назад
This sounds exactly like Trump
@joenavarrobehaviorexpert
@joenavarrobehaviorexpert 9 месяцев назад
That's for you and others to decide. The book dangerous personalities was written in 2014.
@_meta_data_9992
@_meta_data_9992 6 месяцев назад
@joenavarrobehaviorexpert
@joenavarrobehaviorexpert 6 месяцев назад
I will take that as a Yes you like it
@_meta_data_9992
@_meta_data_9992 22 дня назад
@@joenavarrobehaviorexpert watching from Belgium, also watching The Behavioral panel, they recommended your book
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