If you're socially awkward this video is for you... 

I usually get anxious in public places and get more of a defensive state and closing aura than being open and relaxed

Bro I'm 27 and just figuring this stuff out, if you can start this early you're basically set.

Great video brother! 18 going on 80 with that kind of wisdom and a slight touch of not giving a f**k helps too 😂

That sounds like a good start, but to actually maneuver through social akwardism, will be to learn your weaknesses socially, and accept there’s just things you can’t change socially. I’ve learned this just by talking to myself, when I get frustrated or in my feelings, it gets harder to stay in topic or say what makes sense or is important. I’ve learnt this in my social observation: if you know you sound stupid talking, then accept it. Back then I use to talk good, but once I dived into songwriting, it messed up my grammar so bad, that I talk lesser than a 12 year old. It’s horrible. Because I feel like mid sentence talking to anyone, I have to use brain muscles to get the words I want to say. And it’s like a 15 second pause before I even get the right words. But I have learnt to accept that and show that vulnerability when conversating too, because that’s just a weakness, in other areas such as dodging and driving, I’m pretty good at compared to people who have a great skill of socially talking. My weakness is talking, but my hand game on technology is superior. And people may have a great time running their mouths and calling in sick for work, but I have a strong work ethic. There’s people that hide behind makeup and can run their mouths all day, and I can run up my own skincare game for oily skin.

This is great advice, but idk it just feels like a learning curve. I really like talking to people once I start talking to them the conversation flows beautifully. The thing is really just don’t know how to approach new people especially those I find attractive. I’d really appreciate some advice. Great video btw.

I like ur energy

I already heard about most of these but completely forgot about them and needed it now more than ever. Thanks a lot for the suscint reminder! Great video

Seriously profound. You’re making some cool content man

Good mind, good perspective. Your humility makes you wise beyond 18, mate.

Value. Keep UP

Thanks for this contribution to society bro. Really needed this.

Woah I like this guy. We are all learning. Thank you

Than you man 👊🏼👊🏼

When you ask questions and people answer, but then they ask you questions, you need to be prepared for what they are going to ask. Otherwise, the social vultures will know you’re masking and you’re uncomfortable socializing. I know there are a bunch of people that love talking about themselves. But they also like hearing crazy or even made up stories. Some people just like asking how your day is, and hear you go off about saying something stupid and funny, and authentic. Person 1: oh how has your day been? Me: oh it’s been awful person 1: how so? Me: I wrecked my car. Person1: what? You wrecked your own car? Me: yeah, a few days ago, I left hair spray in my car during that heat, and the next day I came in, my cup holder in the back seat got badly damaged. Person 1: No! Did it hit anywhere else? Me: I give them my response. Person 1 is laughing and keeps asking me questions.

Thank you this has given me a bigger picture

dope vid!

I have white hair (gray hair) at just 19 ... Bro it just insecure me

Nice vid Zach

Thanks for tips brother

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Keep it up!

im 15 bro, not many real friends cuz even my closest friends like more talking to anyone else than me, when im hanging out with my best friend we are just dry we watch tik tok maybe sometimes start talking and it turnes to arguing, and lets say another not even friend but like a guy my best friend knows walks by my best friend will say like whats up and talk to him for like 10 or more minutes, but he wont speak that much to me even tho we are spending a lot off time together, idk why tho i do listen to him speak, i smile, i ask questions but he just gives me one word answers, anything i say he judges me for it for no reason. Idk why tf is this happening i hate it and than when he asks me to hangout with him when i say no he gets mad bro like whats the point of hanging out if i have to mute myself and watch tik tok. I dont have any other friends, nobody thinks im cool, i have some kind of social anxity i cant talk to girls or look them in the eyes, im stuck watching these videos and not doing any actionable steps. I need help!

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you would look sick with a mustache and a mullet

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