Very helpful man. I feel like I simply was thinking about this sort of thing the other day and then of course this pops up on my RU-vid for you page. Anyways, much love and I appreciate the content man.
I love what you're saying - so much so that I'm willing to overlook the Coca Cola mug that is butting up against my values ;) The Idealistic INFP in particular tends to want to run a marathon before they can jog around the block. It reminds me of the principle in the book Atomic Habits that talks about constant small, incremental changes that eventually lead to mastery. That concept is so much less stressful than demanding performance based perfectionism from yourself.
I've been curious about free will (does it even exist and what does it mean to be "free"?) and decision making lately. I'm also wondering how do people get their beliefs, do they choose them using rationality and logic, is it based on emotions or do the beliefs get settled early on in life mostly? Obviously childhood experiences have to do with the way we perceive reality as well, but people can usually learn and change their perception.
If you want to grow do the opposite Me: Well that seems counter intuitive but I'll try *picks up an addiction to drugs *buys a rope Wait are you sure this'll work?