If you were born in 2004-2010, I genuinely feel sorry for you... 

lmao

There are capable ones as there are uncapable ones, like it is in every field and profession In middle school the career advisor couldn’t go beyond surface level, i left with 0 perspective on how the world works and only got “What school-subjects are you good at? Which ones do you like?” as guidelines from him Hope he didn’t use that too much for students or for himself, creates a very limited view on the world Luckily for me, at college (or high school or uni, don’t know how it translates correctly) I felt not fitting in with the study i chose (business economics) so i knocked at the door of the advisor there She asked me the purpose-questions that everyone nearing their 20s should hear: What fires you up? Where do your thoughts go to when alone? What conversations and topics do you enjoy most? And if not much comes up, it’s the healthy sign that you’re still in the search and should not full-on settle. Who knows what might come across your path in the near future. Give things actively a chance but don’t cave-in to the thought “this is all i’m meant to” Who knows? You probably don’t. No one does. Keep looking, listening. Stay open and curious.

Look bro, she was just doing her job, her job is to match you to a certain career they have embedded already on their computer and entrepreneur/business owner was not on there. I don't blame her one bit to be honest

@@JakPiggott humblest man alive

a very mature response from someone who looks so young

Ik 😢😢

Fr

I got told that.. I ignored it and kept going. There's no need to give up when you're a miracle to be alive. This world has failed me.

lol but yes it foes feel bad.

my parents used to say that all the time when I was young

That woman is the type of teacher everyone needs in their life, I hope she's doing well and by extention you as well :)

@@TheAroSpecWallet Thank you! I really wish her the best as well, and I hope she knows how many lives she's changed by doing the best she could

As an '04 kid and another Vincent, I wanted to pursue music as a career choice. I had my eyes fixed on the Grand Ole Opry and playing my guitars and singing. But my parents always told me to put all that to the side as a hobby only, and to focus on things like engineering or computer programming. I don't give a care about any of that stuff, but I took their word for it. I took AP course classes in the science field, and I was considering doing that kind of stuff. And I felt that, yeah, it's more practical if I become an engineer or a programmer since they make a ton of money each year. And I wanted to become a husband and father (I still do) so I believed that it would be opportune for me to try to test those waters. But I started to have a mental breakdown in my junior and senior years of highschool, and it was due to these bland yet demanding courses that I had no care towards where my struggles came to be. And it wasn't until my awards ceremony a month or so prior to my graduation (Class of '22) where I vented at my parents and told them what I wanted to be, and that it was not in engineering or programming, but in the guitar and singing and music. That's what I wanted to be. And I realized that while I was in choir (Chorale and Chamber) when I sang, when I brought my instruments to school and played during my free time. Even my choir director said one time, "Vincent, you're probably the best guitarist of your age I have ever heard." And that gave me more motivation than anything else. I love music, and I want to pursue it. I'm currently in the US Marine Corps (I can't remember why I chose this, but I'm happy I did, even though I plan to leave after my contract) and I plan to take up some college courses for audio engineering while I'm in. I want to be able to produce music so that I can develop my own music at home. It's definitely a hard task at hand, but it's one I'm willing to take. WAY MORE than mechanical engineering or computer programming. And I don't have my parents to tell me "no" anymore, since I can actually choose. I'm no longer under their auspices, but my own. Advice to kids, follow your dreams. Not to the end of a cliff, but follow them. If it's something you're genuinely passionate about, then do it. Don't let your parents dictate your decision. Don't let your peers dictate your decision. Don't let your superiors dictate your decision. Follow your dreams and your desires. And I mean FOLLOW them, because no one is going to hand it to you. You have to work for it. The more work and labor you put into something you genuinely love, the more that you'll come to know and appreciate the process it takes to get to the top. Godspeed!

Nice

Go vincent go!

Ikrr❤

You should try finding out stuff like that for yourself more, I'm not trying to demean you it's just you can't always rely on other people to come to conclusions for you.

Me giving all my love and energy to this one person for them to give none of it back, sometiems it doesn’t work the way ur dad says it does

That’s one great dad

So wise 😨

Your dad never said that.

@@konnalad It sounds like because someone hasn't said it to you personally, you're assuming for no reason that they didn't hear it from their dad, who you've never met.

If I was a parent and I found out a teacher had said my child would make a fine Walmart greeter, the teacher would be dead and I'd be in prison.

​@@metadragon7500 Real

walmart greeter is diabolical 😭 i’m so sorry

@@metadragon7500 oh yeah she was right there. It was a parent teacher conference lmao

@@DinahAO It's alright lol. If anything it gave me an underdog kind of inspiration. Might've been a slightly unhealthy mentality but by God it got me through that wretched school district.

You are not your own person, you must use your treatment of others as a metric for what sort of person you are.

@@radioactiverenegade Absolutely. Morals are king. Gotta question everything you see and hear. Then decide on what to believe. That’s what we call “The court of public opinion”, and It never folds. As any humans are, we are not infallible. We make mistakes. To be honest, I really feel sorry about the creator in the video getting dragged down by someone this insulting. I really wonder why they are still doing this to others.

Thanks man! I'm honestly struggling with weather i should please other or do what seems right to me and how/if i can do both. We learn from the people around us but it's nice to know that the things you learn don't always have to be the things you are ❤

That's so true❤

This comment is 👏

Perfect is real im perfect and amazing

@@AmberLizzieBow444 *Perfect is real, I'm perfect and amazing.

@@hwdrlkh ah, thank you so much lol , I appreciate it a lot ❤️

You seem very mature for your age, and have a good head on your shoulders. You got this!

2006. Same. We're all indoctrinated by this idea that we need to "contribute to society". I was beat down to suicidal levels until I realized recently I can just... do things for myself. All those "dreams and ambitions" I had were just ways little me made up to try to "contribute something to society", but never things I could see myself enjoy doing. I want to survive and do some things I wanna do and not do some things I don't wanna do. Life is so much less complicated than society makes it out to be.

at first I thought you meant you were 99 years old

@@aurum7695oh I thought that too until I read your comment lol

'94. I knew I wanted to join the airforce at age six, and held that desire until I graduated at 18, when I realized I had no more genuine interest in doing so. I was still fascinated by flight but I was told by everyone that knowing my career path so early was good. Others told me I would change my desire later in life and I wanted to prove them wrong because they seemed empty and unhappy to me. Over the past 11 years since I graduated I've learned thoroughly that it doesn't matter when you discover your drive in life, nor does it matter how quickly you see financial success. The people you choose to have some form of relationship with and how you build those relationships matter. You need parents, friends, siblings, coworkers, spouses, bosses, mentors, etc. but don't get distracred trying to build all these relationships at once. Work with the person you are around when you're around them, prioritize those that pove most beneficial as time passes, move on from those who beat you down or discourage you, and feel free to move place to place or job to job for a few years, even a decade or so. You may find where you want to stay early, or it may take awhile. You may be like me and discover new goals based on who you meet and the experience you gain or you may pursue the same end goal from highschool. As long as you don't get distracred by meaningless idle isolation you will do well. Even when unhappy you will progress, and progression will lead you through hardship and disappointment. Just don't stagnate or withdraw. I lost a few years of progress to that and that meant a few missed opportunities and some time crunches. It's doable if you make the mistakes, just avoid them the best you can. Ultimately though, the only way to stay the course is to focuse on God and trust his word and instructions. I'd be adrift and a failure if I hadn't sought His instruction even when I was failing horribly.

@@goofyrat2938 OHHHH WOW that took me a minute to realize they meant they were born IN '99. I was wondering what kind of 99 year old has a Kaz Miller pfp, they don't really seem like the demographic to play Metal Gear Solid lol

Did you accidentally push anyone down the stairs, perchance?

I feel u

Good way to put it. Being born in 2005 it seems like the good times have gone before we were even able to truly enjoy them and now we have to worry about whatever comes next.

@@Bud55 i think we need more to be present in the moment and make the most of it instead of worrying about future and regretting past. Like setting the future goal and working hard for it while enjoying/romanticising the journey as well. Ig we'll not get burn out so often. I ain't gonna repeat past mistakes anymore

I can relate to this really hard. The last 4-5 years I haven’t been able to enjoy life because I’m constantly worried about what comes next.

I think the same. There's something about living off the grid that entices me.

i feel exactly the same way, i don't feel like I was made to live the same mediocre life as most other people in the world, I'm ambitious and want to accomplish things but it doesn't help when all my peers consistently tell me that's an unrealistic goal and that i have to live the same boring formulaic lives as them

@@tyrannousvoid6020 Something about the idea of living in a cave and waking up to go hunt just sounds epic. Like people view modernity as a necessity, but I genuinely feel like it's more of a burden than a help xD

@@lol-lm9np I will say this, I would rather be broke and living on the streets than to slave my life away to the capitalistic war machine. I've realized my want for money equals independence, but I've only viewed independence through a scope of society, if I withdrew myself of society the scope widens for independence

On a more positive note, we 2006 kids are adults now

Facts brother, loved that quote in my early teenage years haha

If life move fast, stop and look around would make me lose my opportunity because life is moving fast and leave me behind.

If anyone is going to go to college. The only jobs in the future will be the ones within the clergy class aka the enforcers who protect the rich class. Art is dead thanks to AI. These are the engineers building automation, the nurses taking care of "the truthers" in nursing homes, the accountants (don't spend six years for a CPA with no work experience if you go this route, get temp jobs for experience and work your way up) who are bean counters for big companies, the tradesmen building the pod homes, the teachers who produce "human capital", and the police and military who secure the wealth of the ruling class.

Brendan fraser*

Look around,but do so while your moving Create and turn life into your inspiration and ideals

ok

I feel sorry for you. And me.

And me

And me

Yes

It is, indeed, what it is

The signature defense skill: "T'is what t'is."

it is what it is

it it what it it

It's what it's

As a fellow gen Z-er, its interesting to see this unique take on life that doesn't boil down to "follow your dreams no matter the cost". Definitely would like to note your advice.

I don't know if you will ever see this reply, but this comment genuinely made me feel better about how I perceive life and myself in general. So, thanks for that, I'll keep these words to heart.

@RainiiDay7 I'm happy to hear it my friend. Life is big and complicated, and we all have to find how to live it our own way. Some find that scary. Personally, I find it magnificent. As long as you're living your life well, or working toward it at a pace that you can maintain, that's all that matters. There will be plenty of bad days, but even in the darkest moments, as long as you keep walking, one day you'll look up and realize you've found your way out of the woods and will have much to show for it. Never stop, friend, and always try to be nice but never fail to be kind.

@bartoszkowalski6986 Dreams are important, don't get me wrong. But there's much to life and much to love about it that dreams are just a part of. I've been both the head in the clouds dreamer and the cynical realist. I find both mindsets to be wrong on their own. They're two halves that need to temper each other. Dreams give us aspiration, but shouldn't necessarily be ends in themselves, at least not always. If you can't find pleasure in simple things, you might find you'll rarely be happy.

You should try being a life coach my friend ✨️

Wise words!

Damn instead of mother ,thats my aunt who if i remember i always compare to cousin who achieve good thing

@@fallen6060 Something i learnt aswell, is if you know people who you feel are ahead of you, or even know more than you, ask them everything you can to learn more, i have a rly smart friend who makes me look like i know nothing, rather than feel shitty, i learn from him.

your mother is very wise, may she live a long and happy life

You have a W mum bro, I absolutely loved that ❤

Damn I'm sorry for what you went though I'm glad you are going well I wish you the best in life

@@TheKDotCriticAs a fellow autistic man (2008) looking in from Sweden… What the fuck is going on in America? Teachers bullying their students? Disrespecting Esports just because it’s “not normal” I assume? And funneling people toward a specific thing no matter what the person who will live that career, who will live that life has to say about the matter? God damn I’m privileged to only have had to deal with other elementary students bullying me, and middle-high school teens being off putting. I desperately hope that other kids and teens around the world get the treatment that I got, the treatment that they deserve. I hope this behavior of “funneling” people into lives they might not want is immediately cut out of modern society, lest it creates millions of new young adults, who believe that they are at fault for being unhappy with their lives, when the system they followed so well was what led them there instead. Good luck, you better win a major someday for me OP.

@@SilverIV Notic country's are some of the safest schools man I wish I was there

School didn't fail you. You failed yourself.

@@SilverIVAmerica is the only worthwile country from what I'm hearing. Saying you want to be in Esports is like saying you want to be a professional sports player. Except sports gives you physical reward.

You are like a year older than me, and I can't lie as a older brother (I don't know about sisters) you are supposed to think yourself as the older brother figure and just think what is that figure doing wrong, and fix those things, cause for you, you think of yourself as the older sibling figure but for someone else you are one

I forgot I don't have a degree from yappington University

@@Iaintaliveforever I absolutely do try and be the best role model I can for my younger sibling I was just saying it was nice to have that kind of figure to look up to once in a while.

@@RMiD-ut9lzand that gives you the feeling of ease which makes a you a worse older sibling figure, I am not saying don't watch him but don't think of him as a older sibling

@@Iaintaliveforever I’m gonna be honest man you’re coming off as a real piece of shit. Who are you to tell me how or how not to think of people or live my life? Your logic is flimsy at best and I feel genuinely insulted. Before you respond to this or make any other comment on someone’s personal thoughts or opinions I’d advise thinking about how you might make people feel. Just because it’s the internet doesn’t mean you should be an asshole.

Ngl, the timing is graduation season so ur definitely not alone

​@@nickmo.6049Same here.

How in the world . . . This is my first +250 comment

Same lmao. fresh out of high school, heading to college for art next year despite knowing damn well I probably don't want to do art for a job....because, well, I have to study SOMETHING and art is the only thing I even remotely enjoy. Who knows if I'll be able to eat as an adult?

Vienna by Billy Joel

hey, just know that your peers don't know either lol, except the two siblings who want to be doctors but they're super smart lmao. we go into certain fields because we like those, but it doesn't mean we want to work in that, or where. a lot of us are gonna be stuck in studying fields we hate, just because it's the safest path. nobody knows where to go, people change jobs A LOT in their life. do what makes you feel good, not in a procrastinating way but in a way that can help your life, make you feel secure, happy where you're at in life. you should enjoy your life and not be stuck in a job or field you hate because it's safe. DO SOMETHING THAT YOU ENJOY THAT WILL HELP YOUR FUTURE LIFE. like an hobby that could be a job. learning a language that could help you get more jobs.

Couple of things, first off, 2009 was 15 years ago? Jesus Christ I’m old. Second, don’t worry, no one really knows what they want to do. when I was 15 I was convinced that I’d be a palaeontologist (dinosaur scientist)… by time I was 18 I had decided that I really liked cars, I’m a mechanic now… I made the decision to start an apprenticeship on a whim. It’s ok to not have a plan.

If you live in the US I would advise trying to get knowledge on politics cause things are going to get controversial in the next few years. So many people are just blind to what is happening right now it's as if they think politics is some tv show but it's genuinely important and if Trump gets away with a felony we might just have a Civil War over it. Everywhere you look in the system of govt it is riddled with political "favors" which is just plain corruption. It is only made worse by legalization of it through presidential immunity 😭 I don't like how they only gloss over a lot of the contemporary aspects of the government in high school because this is why there are people dumb enough to nominate Trump and Biden which I'm sure most people would agree are old senile men at this point. Not to mention all of the other places of power like congress and supreme court justices. I just feel like people have been desensitized to politics, as if it doesn't influence their day to day life. In fact it's one of the only reasons why we can even function as a society and discuss ideas like gender fluidity; it is a privilege that could be lost if our system of government fails.

Hey dude, fellow 2009 baby here we're gonna pull through just alright, sure we have no great amazing flawless plan and that's okay because life isn't like a choreographed dance it's often an ugly and awkward freestyle, we'll figure it out along the way

I was born in 2005, I turned 19 this year and I just failed every class on my first semester in uni due to mental health issues. I've had depression since I was 9 (happy ten year anniversary of depression to myself!) and never got any real support from my parents regarding it. They both had their own trauma to work through, my grandma was sick and we had to focus on her and my parents were divorced since I was little. I turned out completely dysfunctional, I'd say, but everyone thinks I'm a genius, that I can do anything I want, yet I ant even get out of bed most days when I'm feeling low (which is rather often as of lately, I'm going through some really bad brain fog). I've tried therapy several times with several different psychologists, and at this point, I don't really know what I need to get better, neither do I know what I want. There was a point last year where I felt happiness for the first time in years, but that is all but gone and with how lonely and isolating uni has felt, I don't think I can get back to that anytime soon. I wish I had something uplifting to say, some hope to share, but I've been losing it all as of lately. I mean, it's been ten years, most of my life. How else am I supposed to feel but hopeless? The only thing that keeps me going is the realization that I want to exist. I don't like the way life works, nor how my brain works, but I don't want to die. I don't fear death, it just doesn't feel right, on top of all with how long I've been fighting. So, even if I continue being miserable for another ten years, at least those will be another ten years I kept trying, looking for that happiness I got to feel once after not remembering what it felt like to be happy for 9 years

2009 here and unfortuately, you're correct.

2010 here and yea your right

2008 here. Yeah you right

2009 here and your right

2007 and you are so right, and it is sad, but we can only make the best of what we have to work with now💙🫶🏻

i cant afford ramen.

2006 also and just gonna say hard life starting now lmao But yeah we gotta keep movin

2004. Every single person I have ever cared about is miserable and starving or dead. Plenty of them are dead. The world is terrible unless you're clearly lucky and privileged.

His videos always got me motivated a ton and I’m glad it’s helping others like me and you.

I was born in 2003 and it feels like it's pretty applicable to me too. We aren't that far out of the range though, so we're probably still not that different.

It's pretty weird. I'm 03 and recently graduated with a CS degree, but I have yet to find a job and really don't give a crap about what it is as long as I just have something. I don't have any aspirations or anything, and I totally relate to just feeling like I was pressured to take whatever steps I'm supposed to. It's like I'm at this point where I'm supposed to actually care about what I'm doing and have career goals, but the extent of what I have a plan to do is just work 40 some years until I can retire. You'd think that someone like me who is apparently quite good at what I got a degree in would want to make the most of it, but I can't bring myself to care beyond just doing whatever makes people not be mad at me. Maybe I should have done engineering instead where it's easier to get a job as a person who doesn't care.

This guy gets it. I was born in 2002 too, keep it up, brother. We all have the option to choose to live our best lives every single day. The best is yet to come. And then again.

Fr bro

have u turned 15 yet?

@@vision_lovesgod in aug 8 babe 🎉

​@@SpongeGamezsame

@@SpongeGamez i just wanted to say im older babe i was born in 2009 also lol

honestly a fair reaction

You have made *almost* zero progress which is good

LLLLOLLLLLLLLLLL

LOLLLLLLLLL

Why should we have everything figured out? Like if you don't have a 6 figure salary job by the rime you're out or college you are a freaking disappointment. Don't get me wrong, at one point you have to figure out (coming from someone who knows exactly what they want) what you want to do, but why must you have ALL the answers?

I think we all start somewhere. some people are content in their bad skills. but if you are told your skills are bad, but are proud of them, who cares if they are? they make you happy in the least, and that's what matters most, is it not? so strive for improvement. because once the time comes that people are just as happy with what you make as you are, it feels like perfection. even if that's not really achievable.

To add on to @KeyboardTarantula's reply, I would say it doesn't even matter sometimes if you can't or otherwise don't develop the best skills; I mean look at One, the author of One-Punch Man: his art is notoriously scuffed, but since he is such a good storyteller, people enjoy his comics nonetheless, even getting attached to the art because you could see the effort behind the scraggy edges. You could probably even make a sensational story with crayons and two weeks of art experience if you put your heart into it and made something uncontainable by mere roughness of presentation. This applies to animation too, of course, so if you have that spark of a passion, try to grasp it; see where it takes you-if it fizzles out, it's fine, at least you had fun-but if not, you could shine brighter than the Sun. It would have been a shame to not even try.

It’s honestly refreshing to know there’s people like you nowadays. I also assume that you dont use social media a lot based on what you said.

Dont worry, I got you with the skibidi toilet: en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Skibidi_Toilet (now you can assimilate with the rest of the brainrot kids.)

@@RyanG2004 nah but I do enjoy it when I’m bored

your feelings are irrational

Skibidi toilet isn’t gen Z

Good luck man. Your gonna do great

Born in the same year and had a very similar feeling as you up until last year as well, when I started making changes to learn new habits and hobbies. We got this ❤

Same bruuu I genuinely still don’t know what to do honestly

@@aramcd we in this together man , best of luck

@@delilahispeachyfresh2835 it gets better honestly , you'll eventually figure shit out

woah, the man who made a model version of the Singapore airport 😳

Massively agree man

Howdy airplane art reviewrr man

Good on ya Ice 👍

ICE?!?!?!

Great words! I would suggest you to read "The Subtle art of not giving a f*ck" by mark mansion

@@MUSICVERSEYT i did use that word And i am actually gonna read it after waiting for shipping

I AGREE BROTHER ❤❤

I do not know what you said it’s like the words are jumbled.

@MUSICVERSEYT Yeah my mother has that book, it's good

And what really hurts the most is that you'd think your parents or your own family would support who you are and what you want in life, but they don't. The people you're with every goddamn day before you get to move out don't support you, unless you get unbelievably lucky. I really hate to say it, but for me, the concept of having nice parents is almost... foreign.

True! Honestly what hurst me the most is how some families are really kind but teens are told by social media or bullies or even themselves that what they like or what they want is "wrong" or "useless" and then they never give themselves the chance to share it with their friends and families :(

+amkheartocheart02 I totally feel you on this to some level. If I had the opportunity to stay in Chem class my senior year in high school, my major would have totally been Science. My Forensic Science class is what *inspired* me to take to Chemistry in the first place. I also had Aced my Forensic Science where my dad at the time had paid more attention to what HE wanted for me rather than taking a look at my grades and the courses I actually excelled in. Idk where I found it, but I found my high school transcript somewhere and I literally thought I got a C in Biology, but turns out I got a B in Biology class. History wasn't my strong suit at all, but Science was. But when my dad had me drop Chemistry for a resource class (which I didn't mind, but at the same time, I didn't know how to stand up to him as a 16-17 year old teenager). I would have gone down a Science path/career if he had allowed me/given me the opportunity to do so. I got lost going into community college b/c of it and apart from both my parents wanting me to work a part time job (all this is what factored into me taking 6 yrs. just to get an AA degree). On top that, as I got older, I never pushed myself super hard because I was getting pushed too hard in school more-so by my dad than by my mom tbh, but I'm learning to push myself super hard to be where I want and need to be in my life now in diff. areas of my life. In community college, I started getting interested in creative arts fields like music, writing, etc...but nope basically "wasn't allowed" to take those course until 2019 (more so music than anything else). I would keep telling my parents/family: "Just leave me alone, I'll figure it out," but didn't because they were ALL getting on my case ALL the time not even really allowing me to grow as a person. I think maybe this stemmed from when I was a teen is that I was being pushed to be say a "perfect daughter," that I know that I'm not. No one's perfect...

+amkheartocheart02 Then again, my dad wasn't hard on just me. But he was the type who cared about work. For him it was all about working in life and not taking time to slow down or relax for yourself-so in some way or another, he had put this same pressure on both me and my brother. And idk if it was harder for me for being neurodivergent. He had learned later on in life that life isn't just about work all the time on say a 24/7 basis. Honestly, there are some situations where some people have to work 24/7 for whatever reason, but no one should ever have to feel forced to live their life like that tbh. Honestly, idk how it would impact my future, but if I had an opportunity to go back to some of my past, there would be so many things I'd change. I will admit, I didn't have the best communication in my past, either. But with it feeling like everyone saying "ganging up on me," about my past mistakes like I don't know about = it doesn't feel good and it's why I tell them to leave me alone. My other factor too: One too many friendship losses. They've left my friendship despite me never saying or doing anything to actually hurt them to my knowledge; I think for me it feels like they pushed me away and I've unintnetionally partially pushed some of my own family away from. I don't try to push other ppl away, but since I've been pushed away-this def. factors into a lot of things too. And I totally cared far more about a social life too when I was younger. I have a minimal social life right now and I'm learning different things about myself during this whole time. 1 of my friendship losses made me go thru a very deep depression & it was bad since I ended up making myself physically sick b/c of it.

yep

Lastly, I wasn't even born in 2004. But that's a lot that I went through in/throughout my childhood and I did have a great childhood tbh because I had an amazing best friend and actually had a lot of fun times hanging out with. And I did have another friend, but we didn't hangout too much. What's weird/interesting is that my best friend and neighbor friend didn't like each other for some reason, but then again kids are weird. But the oddest thing is there is a pic of me, my best friend, 1 of our other friends and my neighbor-friend (who was prob. about 3 or so in the picture if not maybe a little younger or older)-were all in the same pic together)-my neighbor/family friend at the time was def. a toddler in the picture. I'm not positive where I have to find/double check the image, but I think me and my best friend were wearing the same style jeans in that picture. I forgot who I asked, but I do remember asking 1 of them why they didn't like each other. I will say little kids are interesting, but I think my neighbor friend might have started getting a little bit upset when I hungout with my best friend more throughout middle school than I had with her at the time. I def. hungout with my neighbor friend from time to time where we were like close, but not close at the same time if that makes any sense.

I'm a small RU-vidr myself, not successful yet. 😢

how does listening to others advice help you?

@@unendingpinelate940 I don't know really, but I think just listing to others gave me a different mindset then what I had

I'm so glad to hear that bro, but I'm just a messenger, you should always give yourself more credit for actually taking action, remember that ❤

@@V4DX i took a few minutes to myself to figure out something regarding that. i dont know why i wrote that. i periodically listen to advice from others while maintaining some agenda to pick apart that advice to see if it applies with my own mentality and i mistook that for me being unable to listen to others without arguing, and i thought i had a big ego for that. thank uouy

Sameee

born in '99 here. more often than not, doing something, anything, is better than doing nothing at all. even if you call it 50/50 odds to just take a shot in the dark, it's still better than the 100% failure rate of inaction! (source: i have done fuckall with my life since graduating and every damn second of it has suuuucked :3)

Can't say the same thing about me

thats so cute omg stop😭 i hope youll find someone for you soon🫶

​@@lxciabobathank you very much for your support❤

Bro you must realise that amount of humbleness you have for accepting her rejection you guys have a great friendship and ik it always remain like that ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️ (am 12 lol)

@@AryanAjiraj-rn4xi we both like to talk to each other so... i agree with you: we have a great friendship

You're very *very* strong for accepting a rejection this easily and your belief of not caring about dating her much but more like caring for her to be generally happy is something I respect a lot for you, I respect her too for actaully being very respectful for your feelings and stays as a friend rather than just leave you like most people you confess to, yall have the best friendship and wish you two the best ♡

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bro u didnt watch it u commented 22 mins ago and the vid was posted 22 mins ago

The videos are still impactful lol

Thank you brother, means more than you think to hear this ❤