Ignoring You? What to Do If He Pulls Away | Dating Advice for Women by Mat Boggs

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@matboggs Год назад

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@limitlesslifefacts Год назад

Any advice to deal or respon to the guy that pulled away, and recently i found out that he went for vacation wt the girl he knew before??

@carecafetips 3 месяца назад

Runners give off feminine energy, not interested, not chasing

@nicky_bee Год назад

"Don't hold yourself accountable for his behaviour" - that's an important lesson

@Livhappy25 Год назад

A man pulls away and you’re telling woman to text asking if he has given up on her and telling him you miss him??? Lol oh my goodness. Woman don’t do that. If a guy disappears let him

@lecannet Год назад

Exactly 💯

@Mercy1- Год назад

Smh at least ask

@lisawhite8718 Год назад

@@Mercy1- maybe if he at least cared in the first place. I mean c'mon. It's very simply respect to give basic communication and investment goes both ways.

@tresnanymoonlight888 Год назад

True. Mirror his action. Periodt

@adamajassey4812 Год назад

Exactly

@taniamiller4572 Год назад

I just say, NEVER CHASE!! You're too good for that. He should be chasing you, and if he's not, he's not good enough for you!! 💖

@glorymaemantua8270 Год назад

Let it be, if a man does not communicate don't chase. A woman knows her worth :) and if he never justify the things he do. Move on and find a man who can meet your standards :).

@lemontea1714 Год назад

Well said!!!! A guy promised yesterday to take me out this afternoon, he overslept and didn’t bother to text me until later in the afternoon because he wanted someone to have dinner with him, & I agreed to the dinner 🤦🏻‍♀️

@debraguzman7984 Год назад

That is so awesome thank you for opening my eyes

@tasrajwani Год назад

I get absolutely bored if a guy pulls away and doesn't respond or stick to what he says he will. It shows me what I have in store in that connection in the future, which is nothing fun or respectful or considerate. So I don't reach out. And they always come back but I have no interest by then. And it allows me to make more space for the more considerate, consistent and feel good guys. I love that.

@mikiwells4572 Год назад

Dating sets the stage for how the relationship will be. It teaches people how to treat you. If he's doing this during the dating process, he will continue. You have to set standards. Stop allowing people to disrespect you and waste your time. Remember, you're worth it! You don't have to tolerate the nonsense. Love yourself and others will love you too! Remember, it's okay to be single. You are not defined by being in a relationship. In society, there's a stigma about single women. As if, something is wrong with you if you're single. We need to lose this mindset. Also, get a life. Like Matt said. Dress up. Go out with friends. Go out on dates even if it's by yourself. But have a good time! Live your best life. The right people will gravitate towards you. That's including the right man. Always remember. Man's rejection is God's protection! Since I've reentered The Dating Game, that's what I've learned. That's what helps me. Maybe it would help someone else.

@domif.b.7657 Год назад

Thank you

@mikiwells4572 Год назад

@@domif.b.7657 You're welcome hun! 😊

@joykennedyhughes6269 Год назад

Great advice. I totally agree with you.

@AntoanetaStancu Год назад

Yeah, what you said helps a lot în reaffirming the truth that we know already but that we, as women, sometimes forget. Thanks! 🤗 You're great and we are great! You're right.

@mariamoawhaisoba8739 Год назад

I like this 👍♥️

@diandrag_ Год назад

Thank you Matt! Best advice ever! This text response worked on my guy. Everything was going great and we were spending a lot of time together then out of no where he pulled back and told me he needed to “figure some things out” in his life. My abandonment wounds came to the surface lol and I asked if we could talk and he told me not yet. Then I sent him a few other texts expressing my frustration that he was ignoring me… got nothing. About two months passed, I was really still confused and frustrated that he hadn’t reached out yet. Even after I had been on some other dates, I still couldn’t shake the feeling. I came across this video and texted him exactly what you said, “ Ok it’s been months…I take it you’ve given up on us??” and he immediately replied! He told me that his life was being uprooted and he needed to move 3 hrs away to take care of his grandfather & he just doesn’t know what he wants right now. He apologized for leaving me in the dark and says he does miss me. With all that being said, It does work ladies!! However, I believe it only worked that well because I was able to step back and focus on myself in the meantime! I pray that everyone reading this gets the clarity they need. It sucks feeling stuck like you can’t move on. Just know if I can do it so can you! My #1 advice is to find you a support system who will listen and validate your feelings you aren’t crazy for needing reassurance.❤️ Edit: Make sure that when he come back that you also have your boundaries! Just because he comes back doesn’t always mean it’s for the right reasons. Guard your heart ladies!

@liudmilaaleagaaguilera8876 Год назад

If they do despite I let them know I'm interested, I follow up once in a loving, respectful, assertive, also playful manner. If he still pulls away, I don't take it personally. I move on, go on with my busy life, and keep dating other guys. I agree with you Mat, there are plenty of amazing guys out there. Whoever wants you will put the effort, communicate, be vulnerable, take you on dates, spend time, respect you and appreciate you😊 Thank you Mat💕

@nighthawk2634 Год назад

Ps Liudmilla.. where are you from. I am Australian. Your smile is awesome! You seem intelligent. Would you like to chat

@nighthawk2634 Год назад

I will treat you as a true gentleman and I like your fun but clever nature 😉

@Uncensored0.1 Год назад

Very true

@bobbiecakanic3518 Год назад

It's more then frustration it's hurting

@baribach8701 Год назад

it's distresses me that too many women self blame especially at the beginning of a relationship

@israelaiesha2531 Год назад

Say that. 😘

@danashine1137 7 месяцев назад

We were conditioned to by society. As young girls were taught that if a woman is single it's her own fault and something must be wrong with her. Good ole patriarchy at work

@annstar2793 Год назад

This kind of thing is why I don’t want to bother with dating. I don’t have time and energy to deal with all the emotional ups and downs. I’m used to being single, and even prefer it a lot of the time.

@tintinpenaredondo6531 Год назад

I don't chase... I will focus on myself as I knew my value and worth.

@talktosteph7636 Год назад

This video is made just for me. I'm truly trying to find myself because, when am in love. I become so vulnerable to fault.

@armtz Год назад

I’m talking to a guy long-distance and not calling as often as I would like. After a day of no communication, he texted me his almost-daily “good morning” text, I texted him “I like it when you send me a text, but I would love it if you call me”. He called me instantly, later that day we FaceTime’d for the very first time!

@Dancediva240 Год назад

You mean you both are in different states or countries?

@gionagrace6279 Год назад

First, let me say...you do not need to be wrapped up in any relationship or chasing a man down like a hunter. It's ok to be alone and living your best life with family and friends and your own quiet alone time and pursuing your own interests and hobbies! That's a beautiful situation,however, I had a few scenarios! I almost always mirror his actions and I find out that is the quickest way to see his interest level. A few times, I reached out first and they waited a day or 2 to respond and we then dated but it didn't last and a few just flat out ghosted. Usually, in my personal experience, when he has pursued me, that is where my LTR s all came from.

@Queenconsciousness311 Год назад

The answer to your question Matt is this, I matched his energy from the beginning. When I realized I was pouring too much because my energy is typically what you see is what you get, I started picking up signs that he wasn't ready. I read his energy. I will always come towards someone with openness and honesty, and when it's not reciprocated I'll match the energy and slowly back away. What is unbelievable is that we're actually friends who grew an attraction for one another so the respect is there. The communication piece is not and I'm all about communication!

@AntoanetaStancu Год назад

Yeah... Pisces, right?? From the sign? 🙂 me, too and.. I am exactly the same, so to speak.

@israelaiesha2531 Год назад

Wow. Same.

@AntoanetaStancu Год назад

@@israelaiesha2531 yeah... ❤🤗 all the love to you all !

@RealAsianBeauty Год назад

Thank you for all the videos you are creating. Always the best ❤

@thevintagebountyhunter1742 Год назад

Matt thank you ,you are the big brother every girl needs out here in the dating world . 😊

@debraglows Год назад

I texted him with “i noticed you didnt answer my call when i called you. I noticed that when i texted you, you said you will call me back later but you didnt. I have no problem with you not calling or texting me but does this explain i should stop talking to you and seeing you?” He answered, “no not at all. I was busy and guess youre busy. I have many things on my head. If i didnt called you back, im sorry. But you should have also reminded me if you truly want us to talk. So whats up?” I got my answer. No need to respond to him.

@aminatabinta3668 Год назад

I'm going through this right now, thanks very much sir

@yurimaperez1145 Год назад

Great advice, thank you for sharing every Saturday 😊

@boertung Год назад

Thanks a lot! This indeed serves me. I have nothing to add but say thanks a lot for your help to saving me time and heading for my goal with more confidence

@michellejayde21 Год назад

I actually said that a few weeks ago.. his response was “you’re thinking too hard” and then proceeded to make me look needy & crazy. 🙄We didn’t go out again. I had really liked him during the 2 1/2 months we dated but’s not after that.

@KG-bliss Год назад

It's beautiful once a woman gets to appreciate who she is... it's beautiful to walk away from junk behavior... I just kept quiet after we spoke we were going to meet and then he sent a message to say he's in a meeting "we will chat" and then never came back... goodbye... simple and easy. I don't think he can explain himself out of this... especially after I told him if we have plans it shouldn't be difficult to get a hold of him. That's that... I just keep focusing on the one I am manifesting... he was very close but he isn't, so, I keep it moving.

@Nicole-zv7ee Год назад

"You're thinking too hard"............run.......I can tell just by that comment, that he is mentally/emotionally abusive.......run, run, run.......

@How.Dare.You. Год назад

This msg is cringey. Better to call or meet than sending such dramatic txt 🙄 if a guy is wishy washy and wants to be casual no right word will change it. I did something similar and told him I feel hes not really interested and I wanted to give this a chance. Hed tell me he is super interested yet his actions showed the opposite. I cut him off and he would come back after months doing the same breadcrumbing bs. Save your dignity, nerves and time and block him for good. Hes clearly frying a bigger fish else where and treating you like a filler and backburner.

@vp5134 Год назад

Absolutely. The truth is men know what they want and if he's lost interest, there's very little you can do to reverse the pulling away...

@Thepowderroomlondon Год назад

Thank you Matt, you’ve come at the right time! ❤

@elifnur5403 Год назад

Well when he ghosted me I did the opposite of what I've been told. I tried to communicate and asked him why he ignored me all of a sudden, because we were very open and communicative with each other, and willing to fix our problems all the time. And now I'm left more damaged with 50 unanswered calls and 20-30 unseen text messages of mine. Please girls, please. Leave him like this, we just feed their ego by trying to communicate with them and begging for an answer or explanation. Move on, move on❤️❤️

@lecannet Год назад

Exactly hun...its so abusive that it's best to play his game n ignore n try hard to forget...😢😔😭

@wilma6235 Год назад

Mine was sick with the flu. So I texted him was he feeling better or need anything after not hearing from him for 4 days. I waited until 4 days and texted something similar. Both times no response. I waited two weeks and texted him I assume no response means you are no longer interested and want me to leave you alone. I wish you the best in life. He read that one but no response. Probably 2 more weeks and he texted me he was ok baby. I texted back a thumbs up. No words. Neither of us have texted since. Ghosting hurts. He could have told me anything and the hurt wouldn’t have been so bad.

@sheikhaazizaalnahyan6575 10 месяцев назад

LESSON FOR all women is NEVER beg for love, Never CHASE MEN .if its not meant to be then let it be

@WJessiM Год назад

Thanks Mat! I love learning from your wisdom.

@shuhuimok3814 Год назад

Great advice ! I like it that Matt focuses on the psychology that women must have in such situations. The techniques won't work if you don't understand the underlying self-empowering and self- respecting psychology.

@sargammehrotra4822 Год назад

I prefer not to poke him anymore. When he cools down, he will be back soon. If he doesn't come, it was not meant to be.

@secretshaman189 Год назад

Thank-you Matt, great advice as usual.

@PushPastParalysis Год назад

I always think I come on too strong as a woman and hold myself accountable. Thank you for reminding me to give myself slack and hold him accountable. The grey areas always trip me up.

@hananm.3746 Год назад

thank you so much Matt for your brilliant video it just touched a spot where I get shy not asking why when long distance

@sophiebjorkman2998 Год назад

Wow this is literally perfect timing. Thank you Matt!

@leezhenqi613 Год назад

Very good advice. Agreed with 100% what u said. Thank you very much

@pinkmaithai6231 Год назад

Thank u. It was very helpful

@donnaferrara521 Год назад

This video was amazing and your so right. 🙂

@botildefadel4699 Год назад

Sometimes a man Will say no i havent given up. But his actions wont match. So remember to take note of his actions Even if he says differently. Maybe he wants to be what you need but just cant be❤️

@lindalin8284 Год назад

Always watch out the actions and not the words

@mariamoawhaisoba8739 Год назад

Heey Mat!.... It's great to hear from you. Thanks for reaching out, I am just learning not to put a man off and this happens to me. 😄 Good for me. He only showed a sign haven't said anything, I know he is going through work related issues , he has met another whom he displayed,no problems life goes on. "Good radiance "...... If only I could find out if he was the same guy who followed up on me under cover throughout last year until I deleted my FB page. Keeping hope alive. 🤷🙋💝

@mariaisabelgonzalez9387 Год назад

I know my value and he either take it or leave it, lol 😆

@sk0616 Год назад

Agree

@PrincessMultiracial Год назад

Idk because women make comments like this all the time on most dating advice videos but then it begs the question as to why you’re even here to begin with 🤨 Women can know their value but don’t lie to yourself that you’ve never been, or currently, caught up with a guy who’s giving mixed signals, and got confused on the perception of “value”. It happens

@Freekoismus Год назад

Thank you Matt! I feel relieved!

@mysugar_haruto2222 Год назад

This is what i need, thankyou Mat ❤️

@Debasmitabhadra466 Год назад

I am going through something like this right now... It has been almost 2 weeks now.. I absolutely gave him space ... But I think it's time for me to ask him about this and if it is not worth it then let's not delay the inevitable.

@meaghanparent8740 Год назад

This video is gold! Much much much needed! Thank you!!!!!

@tetsidoris7368 Год назад

Thank you so much Matt, I know its gonna be fine. Bless you💞

@fullmetalalchemist4562 Год назад

When a man pulls away, you pull your all far away. Whether they lose interest or try to make you chase him by playing games. First one is a dead end. Second one is manipulative. Therefore the reason behind is not important.

@realthing1859 Год назад

Great content. Just in time :)

@namakulaflorence7748 Год назад

Thanks alot for the great show,I'm going through the same at the moment and the only solution I possibly could get was to not text as well so we can be even

@wonhur885 Год назад

Divorce is never the way out, My wife and I have been having issues before I sort out help from a spiritual adviser, i wasn't going to let my marriage of 18years crash.

@wonhur885 Год назад

@Abigail Prewitt well not the orthodox way but i was referred by a friend to a spiritual adviser and healer.

@wonhur885 Год назад

@Abigail Prewitt her name is Shelly Renee White, and she is a great spiritual adviser as well as caster.

@wonhur885 Год назад

@Abigail Prewitt you can look her name up online and you will find all you need.

@auxijessy3942 Год назад

That was a brilliant thought which I would follow

@Flown555 10 месяцев назад

❤️ Totally the right strategies . Thanks Mat 👍

@maahgolaminmoussavi8503 Год назад

Hey Mat. Thank u so much for this video. It was just for meee. So here is my story. We didn't even go on a date. He liked me and gave me green lights at first, then I started to like him back. But things suddenly changed. So I sent him a text that I wanna know him better and see him more so I wanned to know if there's any interests to start a relationship together. He said that he's got personal matters. I still see him at work as we are neighbors, he just works some blocks away but it made me easier to decide what I'm goin to do next. I still like him, but I'm focusing on myself as u said, and started dating other guys. Maybe we will connect in the future, maybe not. Who the hell knows

@midamalait5194 Год назад

This its served me and help this advices of your's Mat, cos dating online its kind wonderfull but at the same time a lot of emotions comes up,this video now it will help me for the upcoming encounter, thank you very much Mat,it helped me a lot .

@celliyeva5362 Год назад

True Am listening to you Matt.

@sheilaabellana2722 Год назад

I realized more..thank you so much sir for sharing this vedeo to make me awake...☺️🙏

@khadlinnewlovearthur964 Год назад

Nice advice

@alohaelle17 Год назад

Aww thank you Matt!

@naivivmaribujoc Год назад

Thank you sir Matt thank you thank you .

@lalacruz6487 Год назад

Thank you for your advice Godbless you always ..❤❤❤

@sarahbright5311 Год назад

Thank you.

@vanaphill2454 Год назад

Let him go

@LuCaMW31 8 месяцев назад

Love this...

@baribach8701 Год назад

Ladies, I don't care if you're 15 or 80. Let the man prove himself. Let the man pursue you. That's why they're called Hunters. Men will climb mountains, swim Rivers, and you do anything to get to the woman they want. If he continues and to be distant from you, he's either not ready for a relationship or He's Just Not That Into You. It's not your fault, unless you slept with him on the first date, or I should say in today's terms, the first time you hung out.

@Meepsavage Год назад

Bari Bach what If he started out chasing /pursuing and I was hesitant and needed time . We’ve only Talked a less than 3 months and I “ended” things a few times . Once I came around and decided I wanted to move forward with him Now he is the one saying he time as he isn’t sure if I will stop Talking to him again. We last spoke Sunday night and I haven’t heard form him Yet . Do I wait a few days and reach back Out or should I just not reach out if he does not contact me ?

@Meepsavage Год назад

**I apologize for the spaces in between my question

@warmtabano9557 Год назад

@@Meepsavage k

@haileypeterson989 Год назад

It's never your fault regardless if you had sex on the first date or not.

@kotone_lovesanime8514 Год назад

My situation is rather complicated. I’m not sure what to do or think at times. All I know is we still talk and he is there to help me when I need it. But barely see other. I get he is going through stuff and so am I; but still.

@kristinavoshall4765 Год назад

I'm so glad I seen this when I did much needed now I know how to handle things I'm going through with someone I'm talking to and know it's okay to go on other dates and not just focus on him I don't think it's going anywhere with him he always has something going on to hear him say it SMH 😡

@lynn-ve2je Год назад

Yes this video help me because I'm going thru this same thing with the person im talk to and thank you for this tips one thing I do when someone pulls away is I would say hey I hope everything ok if you need talk I'm here and I leave it with that but these tips will help me

@tebbupatricia3608 Год назад

Hi please more of this its what am going through

@elyarahmania4146 Год назад

I agree with you! For me, If a man pulls away or doesn't want to respond/communicate for three days or a week so, I totally cut him off I won't beg for his text or anything because I think he doesn't respect someone's time even though he tries to communicate or explain what's going on but remember.. someone who truly love you won't ignore or make you wait for too long for his message. As a woman we should be respect to ourselve. Just my opinion *you can take it or leave it *no hate

@gill426 Год назад

I totally agree with you, good advice! 👍🏻

@ayeshamaso0dbajwa837 Год назад

Luv is not about give n take its the name of giving.

@arishagull3712 11 месяцев назад

Thank you

@amandapirot1022 Год назад

Thank you Mat! Perfectly timed video. This is helpful for dealing with all men in the dating process, but especially with a great guy on the Asperger's spectrum. Went on a 2nd date with a guy last Saturday. He lead me to believe he was very interested by actions. The guy is mature, kind, very smart/educated, and interesting. I wrote him a casual thank you note the following evening and that I had a great time. Didn't get a text for another almost 4 days (he was traveling)! I've been obsessing. I'm realizing it doesn't matter that this guy has a particular set of communication issues. It's about finding out whether he is definitely still interested? And then setting communications standards. (Ironically, he's a corporate healthcare communications executive).

@lynn-ve2je Год назад

Thanks

@l.mariea7672 Год назад

Omg!! You are brilliant and so HEALTHY. My guy is not this healthy, by a long shot. He wants only me and is committed-on HIS effing terms. I may have to leave 😢 And, I am strong enough. And-i haven’t yet given up on us. So….🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼 praying for a miracle…or, to let go

@xxyz321 Год назад

I learned that from “never split the difference” also, lol!

@kobiewazza7225 3 месяца назад

❤thank you

@samanthaclark1547 Год назад

Thank you, does this work if you are in a long distance relationship relationship

@ayeshamaso0dbajwa837 Год назад

Feelings are always particular with the particular person its not a job or duty to be changed once ya really luv then story begins to connecting souls.

@sillonelove 9 месяцев назад

Isn’t it funny that no one said ever “ hey just reading your text now. I don’t really like you like that so I am dating other people. Have a nice life ! 👋 “ 😂

@TrixyGorgeous 6 месяцев назад

True

@ayeshamaso0dbajwa837 Год назад

Continued talking to him

@ahashimi481 Год назад

He said he will call me back four days ago, and he vanished and did not fall through, I kept silence myself until today when I got a text message from him telling me that he misses me and he was not feeling very well. I told him I’m glad he feels better but I didn’t go crazy I didn’t give him no ❤️ or nothing. He texted me a loving phrase from a song I texted him cute face emoji. Pretty much the ball on his court and he should be nice out about it.

@Supergirl-oo5lr Год назад

A man pulls away he can fudge off. His loss!!! Why do we have to do everything in a relationship?

@sheilav5317 Год назад

Seeeeee ya!

@equationinterrelationship01 Год назад

Just do the same, 😉😄, without even asking why... Don' t bother, exactly for the reasons you mentioned and, move on with your own life...!!! When there is TRUST between the couple, pulling back does not really matter that much! Leave them room. On a more professional relation or early stages, of course one needs to be taken accountable for his/her behaviour...! Of course, politness and respect to the expectations of the other is a major characteristic in the relation. If it' s lacking once, most probably it will lack more times, in the future too (red flag) !!!

@vickydenman4581 Год назад

I pull away completely and block. Even though I’m still in love, I put it up into God’s hands and totally work on self-improvement. He has always found a way to come back. It always seems like a miracle, because the last thing that you want is to pull back. Men respect women who walk away.

@bembi8412 6 месяцев назад

I like step no. 3 the most

@ldieter22 Год назад

I needed this today... I am so glade I took the time to watch. I have been intrested in a guy who is almost 12 yrs older than me. The age between us doest bother me. We started the relationahip as co workers witch blossmed into a amazing friendship yes he was in a relationship so i had to cool my jets but as time went on we still were good friends a chat here and there he ened up moving away witch crushed me. I thought that I was loosing my best friend. Time went on and he than became single we started hanging out. It was so easy to be with him but I haf to hide my true feeling becoise he was just getting over the lose of his girlfriend and I understood that. Things were good talked on the phone spent sat or sunday with each other took a trip together than all of a sudden the calls got fewer and fewer. I asked if everything was ok he says yes but work is stressfull. Im like ok understandable I am here if you need to talk. Than a week after my birthday i could feel it in the air he says I cant have a romantic relationship with you right now what why he clams hes talking to another girl who works with him and he has dated in the past. I was shocked, hurt felt used. Do I give him space? Do i send short texts to let him know hey hi ? Im just confused with so many questions. I dont want to loose a friend but I dont wont to feel like i lost my best friend either

@annstar2793 Год назад

I love that we have to turn to a book by a terrorist negotiator to navigate the modern relationship !!! 😂😂😮

@senatus1113 Год назад

I was getting to know this guy at first he would always text me good morning and good night and carry out a conversation through out the day. If he was working and couldn't text he would let me know. Slowly he started communicating less. The first two times I expressed how I felt and stopped communicating. I was silly enough to reach out to him. Same thing happened this third time I didn't explain myself or my feelings and just blocked him 💔 obviously he doesn't feel the same about me. It hurts but at least I didn't invest too much time and energy into him

@paulinendeti9143 Год назад

Matt I was really waiting for you to talk about the second instance after you send the text of have you given up on us? Coz I sent the text and he said he doesn't know then after small chat he said yes he doesn't want a relationship anymore

@ivaneph Год назад

Any advice when he’s the one who broke up with you for shallow reason and now texted you a video he found like forcing not to talk to someone you love is the hardest thing a person can do.

@Concatenate Год назад

Move on.

@juliejohnson497 Год назад

Wish I knew this all in the '60s, 70's and 80's. (So many men, never a wise choice on my part.) Signed, 75 and single.

@dianewentland6004 Год назад

What about for married couples?

@dr.debbiewilliams Год назад

I have not been dating anyone in well over four years. What do you mean? I don't have a love life, nor have I dated in years.

@barbkellen6658 Год назад

Oh boy!! LOL did this hit my situation square on the head!! And confirmed EVERYTHING I did was right. After about a month of VERY sporatic contact weather in text or me driving over there. (We live in a very small town) I would try exhaustingly to get him to respond. He would in very short responses. (I feel to appease me) Then finally after I felt that he probably thought I was bordering on being a bit crazy by the way I'd try to get a hold of him he sent me a text and said all 3 of your points. I told him "you know ALL of this could have been avoided if he would have communicated what he just said when he started feeling this way." and I am thinking that it is totally unfait on his part to act like he is all in and then totally do a 180 and a about-face. and expect me to figure it out!! Then he used on me something that I told him I used when I last dated someone local and there is a chance we'd run into each other. I said to him (my ex) to save on it being awkward "lets keep it amicalable". SOOOO he sends me the said text and then fast forward to that evening I see him out WITH HIS EX-GIRLFRIEND. Do you think he felt the need to send that text because he knew he was going to be going out that night with her and there was a chance I'd be out? I think ABSOLUTELY!! I am so over it!! Yes it hurts like hell. I am getting to old for these games!! LOL Thank you Mat for validating my feelings!!

@raahimahmed2241 Год назад

When my man pulls away I shift my focus and do practical and necessary things in my life

@lindacapek5704 Год назад

what if a guy is from the gym - gives signs as going to the gym at the same time for months, leaves at the same time, stares at each other and finally introduce myself and acted like i don’t exist- why???? we have hardly talked - and now stopped everything… why? what did i do????

@blueturquoisett8448 8 месяцев назад

He has been pulling back so I match his energy the same way, just hang back...

@susanfennell9489 Год назад

I have had this situation - he had to take an unplanned trip to NYC to cover for a sick co-worker and there was a huge amount of responsibility for him. This was after a first fantastic date. He said he would call but did not over a weekend and he is normally very expressive so I sent a text late Monday night and stated I enjoyed our time but now I felt a mixed signal was being sent as he ignored my texts over the weekend and I posed the question “if you were me and you wanted to pursue a relationship what would you do”? He responded 13 hours later that he was under a microscope with his job and needs to fight to keep it. He is there for two weeks then returns to Miami - so I said I did not want to stress him but was here if he did want to text otherwise I looked forward to seeing him when he returns and he stated I was the one light in his life in this current situation. So……we will see

@gill426 Год назад

From an outside perspective, that doesn't sound like it's going anywhere. This stuff happens in patterns and it will repeat. I would back away from that. Take care!

@susanfennell9489 Год назад

Well I would like to break the pattern if that is true

@gill426 Год назад

@@susanfennell9489 Yes but I meant his pattern. That's something only the person can break and it's often pretty tough. Best wishes to you! :)

@susanfennell9489 Год назад

@@gill426 thank you