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Since we're in an inclusive Universe, if you try to exclude the things you don't prefer, you go into resistance. To drop the resistance, simply include it.
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@ritarose1 5 лет назад

I just wanted to comment that this works. I proved it to myself before I even watched this video. I was reading an old journal and realised that this is EXACTLY how I unintentionally manifested a healthy mental state. I was suffering from daily anxiety/OCD/panic attacks 2 years ago. After trying every method I could think of and failing, I went to a psychiatrist to get medicated as a last resort. He told me that the more I fight it, the stronger it gets. This hit me really hard. After I got home with medicine in hand, I decided to let it be for the first time. When I had my next panic attack, I panicked, but instead of double-panicking over the fact that I was having another panic attack, I let it be. I thought, “I will probably have to live with this for the rest of my life. I don’t want it, but I have it. Fine. I give up. I will just find other ways to enjoy my life even with these panic attacks.” I experienced several more panic attacks after that, but they eventually subsided and I stopped getting them. I did not take the medicine. I have been mentally healthy ever since.

@LadyJackson01 4 года назад

Rose Kim omg this is so happening to me right now... I just can’t get over anxiety but I realised that same thing, the more I fight against it it increases and drives me crazy. Now i feel relieved for your comment, i still have some anxiety daily but I’m allowing it to be ok and accepting it. It’s working, slowly but I’m sure I’ll get better.

@thelittlemuffet 3 года назад

Thank you for this, this is very inspiring! 💕

@JD-fx1np 3 года назад

There's a doctor on RU-vid that says the same. Fighting it makes it worse and last longer. The adrenaline subsides in 15 minutes on its own. Sit with it and let it be. Don't try to force anything. EMDR works too. Taking a walk and moving forward and also moving eyes back and forth.

@10kCrows 2 года назад

This is great, I'm happy for you 😊

@35mmonica Год назад

thank you so so much for sharing your experience this helped me. i've struggled with an eating disorder much of my life but beating myself up for giving into it and not being "perfectly recovered" doesn't help. we need to talk more about mental illness and manifesting!

@katherine56631 8 лет назад

What you are teaching here is more valuable than anything I've read or heard before about the law of attraction.

@illuminatingjoy 8 лет назад

Thank you, that means a lot to me ❤

@sarasheis3672 6 лет назад

katherine56631 it’s so true

@rwashin1 6 лет назад

AngelFace I agree so much

@user-ej6rr2km8e 5 лет назад

Same here

@Goldenxo90 5 лет назад

OMG I KNOW!!!! im sooo grateful for your videos Amy

@marshmallowyeeah 8 лет назад

You are not a drop in the ocean. You are the entire ocean in a drop - Rumi

@teksal13 5 лет назад

marshmallowyeeah- Considering all of the human waste and trash that has been dumped into the ocean, I think I'd rather be a drop.

@translator544 4 года назад

Notes: -don’t exclude your resistance, include it. -give permission to react to your resistance and observe it and allow it to change on its own. -make a list of the things that bother you

@cloudywood4197 4 года назад

thanks bunny

@danielagolonka3833 5 лет назад

this is so much better than mental diet. the conception of mental diet made me panic that i should push my resistance aside and immediately replace it with positive thoughts. i felt so guilty. when i watch your videos about accepting and including resistance i feel so much better with myself.

@kamiennykamien9578 Год назад

You're right Daniela! 🐗🎉💃

@ai4184 Год назад

Daniela, this comment is 3 years old but I completely agree with you. These videos saved my mental health. I just feel so much lighter. The "screw the 3-D" and "be mean to your subconscious and make it your bitch!" stuff just didn't appeal to me... this is so much gentler and lovelier :)

@fallingstar245 9 лет назад

Your videos have taught me so much more than what I learned from the Secret or any other experts that I've watched!

@kathklim 2 дня назад

I’m watching this in 2024 and I’m so mind blown

@jc1636 6 лет назад

I watched The Secret ten years ago, and it did change my life. I have, however, been stuck on a few things, and have heard "resistance is bad" forever. You phrased this in a way that finally clicked for me in a big way. Huge thanks!!

@illuminatingjoy 6 лет назад

John Cavanaugh You’re welcome! 😘

@paulgeorge9228 2 года назад

the secret is a movie by who?

@kamiennykamien9578 2 года назад

@@paulgeorge9228 the secret was written by rhonda byrne, so movie also? I have no idea

@paulgeorge9228 Год назад

@@kamiennykamien9578 i just watched it, very inspiring

@corsicanlulu 6 лет назад

so basically its about not repressing any feelings whatsoever, the universe likes honesty? this is life-changing really. thank u

@illuminatingjoy 6 лет назад

Correct. Being honest with how you feel (good or bad) releases resistances and is part of the "allowing" thing we hear so much about in manifesting. It's not so much that the Universe likes honesty, it's that it can give you more of what you want when you are allowing and when we are repressing feelings or in denial of our reality we can move into resistance.

@girigiri2167 3 года назад

Yes ❤️👍 TQ

@biancastephanie8830 6 лет назад

this channel saved my life!!

@Shaina-ab 8 лет назад

I genuinely appreciate that you share all of your incredible knowledge with everyone. It is a joy for me to watch your videos. I am learning many things and doing my best to apply them. Thank you for being such a kind soul. Your approach makes it a lot easier for me to understand how to be a better creator.

@HamiltonSmith4 7 лет назад

Please write this down somewhere.. it's better than just about everything. Book please.

@aamilkeeyankhan 5 лет назад

You are the most realistic Law of Attraction coach since Abraham Hicks. Very relatable and makes it soooo much more easier. To learn and accept your "human-ness"

@Jason92881 6 лет назад

This is such a refreshing perspective on LOA. And also makes sense from a subconscious creation model in that we may be depriving the subconscious mind of valuable information for manifestation when we reject feedback that we don’t want. This feels so free flowing I can feel the manifestations flying in. Thank you love

@illuminatingjoy 6 лет назад

JayStayHip You’re welcome! I agree, manifestations flow easier when we allow all the feedback we get and not just the good stuff.

@ks_swissmiss 3 года назад

So nice to feel things and to have permission to react and then move on!!! XO

@user-ej6rr2km8e 4 года назад

If I was allowed to watch only 1 manifesting video in the world, I would pick this video, hands down. Thank you Amy!

@steppentofortune7934 7 лет назад

this is powerful. your teachings are priceless

@illuminatingjoy 7 лет назад

Thank you :)

@girigiri2167 3 года назад

@@illuminatingjoy 👍❤️ superb 🙏

@dani1741 5 лет назад

This is the second time I've put your advice to use and was able to manifest the exactly what I visualized!!! You're amazing, I gotta say thank you again for existing :)

@imsatindoll 4 месяца назад

Amy you made this video eons ago and it has been game changer. Unfortunately when I first learned consciously manifesting yojr content was introduced to me first but I unfortunately got caught up in loa content that denies resistance with poor results and im talking content that has 100k subs smh. So circled back to your content was all I needed all along to see results I should have gotten 3 years ago smh. Thank you for this content ❤

@trueidentitytime2shine862 4 года назад

Even your old stuff is golden Amy!!! Thx so much!!!

@Carybarnes123 5 лет назад

Excellent, clarity yet again and with confidence, thank you Amy

@Nosey855 5 лет назад

Thank you so much for sharing. Your perspective is amazing, easy to follow and helps ALOT!!

@moonsailoress3434 5 лет назад

Truly enlightening and valuable, this is helping me a lot, Amy. Thanks a lot!

@sagek7949 4 года назад

This was a great discussion. I like how all your videos discuss so many different aspects of the manifestation process and arent repetitive at all. Thank you!

@Vimpertusher 5 лет назад

Thank you Amy! This is so clear!!!! You just sold me my resistance )) There is no option to hit "like button" every time i rewatch your videos, so I'm gonna write comments )))

@Iloveedine 5 лет назад

Thank you for making a playlist about resistant. It’s funny that I wanted to learn more about resistance and how to accept the resistance, but I was resistant to your advice 😂 I watched 2 videos of yours before this one and I was really confused. I didn’t understand. So I accepted that and I decided let’s watch another video which is this one. And this video made it more clear to me about resistance.

@josemiguelnavarrete4686 5 лет назад

This is great knowledge. Super useful. I am going to start including my resistance and frustration instead of resisting or avoiding them. Thank you

@syguzman5739 5 лет назад

Hi, Amy! I just recently discovered you and started watching your videos. I wanted to extend my appreciation for you in the manner you teach manifestation. Everyone else I've watched tells you to "detach from the outcome" or "forget what you desire." One does not detach from what they are trying to manifest because if they didn't want to include the outcome in their life, they wouldn't be TRYING to manifest it in the first place! I appreciate that you recognize the human reaction and emotional desire to want specific outcomes. Humans don't just "forget" things.. (not unless they have alzheimers or something). At least you take into the account natural human responses with your LOA teachings- and I thank you for that! 💗

@imaginei3976 10 лет назад

Great video, Amy!!

@atlassilverbraid 5 лет назад

I wasn't even aware of any of the things you mention previously. Thank you.

@Lezionidicantomilano 6 лет назад

Thank you for this, Amy. It's very useful for me. I am so impatient for a certain thing to manifest and feel so bad about the way I feel. I will make a list right away. Thank you

@missgaegyan 5 лет назад

The best thing I found about your videos is not Resisting the Resistance and simply embrace it to release and " just don't be hard on yourself" 💛💛💛🙏 So greatfull for this RU-vid connection 😇 We all are connected and Universe delivers all things in perfect time 💯😁 Sending out love and light 🌠🙏

@galaxysamsung5439 5 лет назад

OMG ! Big time for me,Hallelujah ! 😁😁 This is why an event I wanted SO MUCH never manifested for 7 mounths,and I stumbled on this video 4 mounths ago,and intuitivly felt this is the answer,but being stabborn -passed it!!! Now when I tryed EVERYTHING ,and got completly exhausted,I Got the point why it wasn't working !!! Thank you !!!

@liquidvelvet 3 года назад

Oh my! This might be one of my biggest points of struggle until now - I somehow tried to not feel and avoid resistance at all costs - in the beginning bc something like "but then you manifest from your fears (and create even more of it!)" and later it morphed into something like "you are not spiritual/focused enough when you give into fear". AND - I judged myself SO MUCH for having doubts and fears at all! It's been nauseating... Thank you so much! 💕

@waterlily1104 4 года назад

I’ve been trying to drop resistance, change limiting beliefs for a while, however the icky feeling would still linger around them. This time, however, I wanted to see whether including negative beliefs would change anything. I’ve started small... I’ve been wanting to spot pink, purple and mint green cars. Purple and pink are not an issue anymore but I’ve always felt resistance towards the mint green ones .😅 This time I included the resistance, accepted it, trusting the law of attraction works and it is totally possible to happen. Only few minutes later, I was watching a youtube video where a mint green pumpkin patch truck showed up on the screen 😱 It was a decoration piece in the vloggers home. I’m ready to step up my game now. Thank you, Amy!!! ✨💫🌟

@LupitaVCoaching 6 дней назад

2024 and you are still relevant. ❤❤❤❤❤

@ancientbloodlineoflight 4 года назад

I was 23 when this was published, I’ve must’ve came across your videos around that time, and here I am again ☺️

@TheFreakyable Год назад

These are timeless ❤️

@mauriciosalina1403 5 лет назад

You are amazing .. thank you and may the universe bless you

@nikolinauvjek6722 5 лет назад

This is pure gold

@arjunmrao4039 3 года назад

Beautiful Video . . _This Lady DESERVES a Million Subscribers , I Feel_ 👍👍👏👌

@masamusic5999 6 лет назад

I really love how you explain:) Thank you:)

@williamgay3 2 года назад

Do you have some fantastic insights… Thank you for sharing!

@yeontanssugadaddy 3 года назад

Something about the audio makes it feel like I'm listening to a magic radio station.

@drsareekakatkuriphysiother5376 7 лет назад

I agree with a part of it....when we actually face negative circumstances it's impossible to think of something else or nice....so it's better to live through the moment and allow the reaction....slowly the reaction subsides. :) And also it's not human to always feel positive about what u want....doubts n insecurities do show up....n u have to be okay with it

@lh3664 5 лет назад

Aha. So there are no "bad" feelings, just let yourself feel. This is haaaard for someone raised never to show or even allow any feeling or expression other than total smiling compliance. Not to self-monitor every emotion that comes up and self-flagellate if it's not "happy joy joy." And the way the Secret was presented way back when, you had to be happy and positive all the time, or no soup for you. Lol But this is what's kept me from manifesting the bigger stuff (belief has always been high), I'll work on it. Thanks! 🙏

@arjunmrao4039 2 года назад

Thank You Dear Amy Madam, Thank You Soo Much 😊✌️ Including Everything 😃👏🏻

@wildflowertarot5418 4 года назад

I’m going to write my list in the morning, thank you so much, I’ll let you know how I go 💝🌟🐱

@melonsoda123 6 лет назад

A couple of unpleasant situations in my life has had me frustrated and quite disappointed. I guess I have to allow myself to feel those things. Thanks.

@mishaagarwal2962 7 лет назад

Such a great video, thank you :)

@elyorange 7 лет назад

Thank you, thank you, THANK YOU! I`ll try to allow myself to react on negative thoughts/doubts, because all I`ve done before - was trying my hardest to "block" them...as if it was possible to make my mind shut up! I hope it helps ;)

@illuminatingjoy 7 лет назад

Yes, allow the negative thoughts as best you can, which means you become non-resistant to them and since what we resist, persists, if you don't resist them, they won't persist! :)

@clairerogerson2153 6 лет назад

I love watching your videos

@nithinjacob2075 5 лет назад

this is really helpful

@garywilson7883 8 лет назад

00:45 THIS is what I always say!

@glennsloss9326 5 лет назад

excellent --We all need a Coach.

@heatherallingham7120 4 года назад

I learned from an Abraham-Hicks talk that being "ornery" IS resistance and keeps you out of alignment, so this is very confusing to me

@swamibubba 9 лет назад

wise words its often about surrender release let go and let be

@MAHABAYOUD 4 года назад

Don't ignore your fear Just face them And they you ll belittle

@daniii8920 5 лет назад

i have a really important question!! im trying to attract a specific person back in my life but i tend to show a lot of resistance because he goes to the same school as me and i have classes with him where i’ve seen him actually flirt with girls in front of me. i feel jealous when i see it but i try to act as if it isn’t there. i accept it. i can be a little obsessive and that’s okay because i just really wanna experience it again. anyways, my question is, where do i go from there? i go though it everyday and i just don’t know what to do, do i accept im jealous and try to feel better? do i just ignore it after a while ??? i’m kind of on a time crunch here and i’m not sure what to do. it’d mean a lot of you got back to me

@alexkoga5943 7 лет назад

Thank you :) maybe you could guide me on a specific experience. I have two jobs I was interviewing for. I was offered a position at the one I wanted less and have not heard back (hopefully just not yet) from the other position. I have until the end of the week to get back to the first place about the offer. But it's not truely the position I want, I would love to be with the other company more. What do I do? How do I include this resistance? I felt like I was on a good track with accepting that I would love this position, but don't necessarily need it because I have the other offer. How would you suggest applying your manifesting techniques? Thank you thank you!!

@Lovindadream 5 лет назад

Thank you!

@SuperDubess 5 лет назад

So it's like looking at the lamp in my living room, the lamp I cannot stand because it collects so much dust, saying well it's there & just because I hate it doesn't mean it's going to magically disappear. I accept it's there and it's going to be there until I got a new lamp that doesn't collect dust. Does that analogy work?

@trishstewart121 Год назад

Makes perfect sense

@inkyjudy1394 4 года назад

Is the idea just to allow yourself to feel and release the resistance, rather than to act on it? Because most times if I’m holding back a thought or a feeling, it’s because I don’t want it to lead to acting out on old/bad behaviors.

@markuziapostol1584 2 года назад

Thank you .

@stephengreico2810 5 лет назад

See, I was under the impression that (take the traffic situation for example)...that your goal is to accept the fact that there is traffic and there’s nothing you can do about it except just wait patiently and tell yourself “hey, it is what it is and I will be out of this eventually so why fight it” So you’re saying be annoyed but with no apologies or judgement on your part? Also, is there a way to manifest while avoiding the negative emotion? For example, an “it is what it is and everything will be OK” approach?

@hannah0golightly 7 лет назад

Thank you

@illuminatingjoy 7 лет назад

You're welcome :)

@jilliansmith8080 4 года назад

I am confused. Someone else was saying to ignore the facts of our reality and continue to shift our focus on what we want. Your saying to see it, embrace it and accept it. If we focus on contrast wouldn't we experience more contrast? I am a bit confused

@coryann9638 5 лет назад

thank you

@saram7614 3 года назад

I feel like x, I reacted like y, but that is all right, I allow it and don't fight it

@randallsampson1473 9 месяцев назад

Permission ...?❤❤❤😊

@paulgeorge9228 2 года назад

can you have resistance with fixing your self concept beliefs?

@GURNOOR.AR7 5 лет назад

Wat if i am trying to manifest something amy ...but im in disbelief somewhere of it happening ...how do i go from disbelief to believing it

@ErikaSanchez-tt1ti 6 лет назад

Amy where are you? We need More videos ? How can I manifest a new job ? 😫 I'm working through resistence. But its hard.😥

@illuminatingjoy 6 лет назад

Erika Sanchez Hi hi! I made a new one this week but I won’t post it until I get home from traveling... so soon!! Thanks for watching my videos ☺️ Imagine being at a new job, know it’s possible that it CAN happen (not that it WILL happen), accept how you currently feel about the situation and get busy with other things when you can.

@ErikaSanchez-tt1ti 6 лет назад

illuminatingjoy thank you very much I will definitely give it a try and expect your video !! 😹😻

@morganh5611 3 года назад

So except the negative emotions? Allow to react?

@stephaniev.4705 7 лет назад

What if something happens that I'm annoyed about, and instead of accepting the annoyance, I say "that's ok, it's not a big deal" and try to move on? Would that be considered resisting? I don't want to give the negative things too much emphasis...but I also don't want to be manifesting wrong!!

@beusda 6 лет назад

the video is unclear she probably means that you cant undo something by resisting it because you are charging the subject what i do is let go anger should help you know and manifest something with urgency, not to be confused with stress and hopelessness..

@beusda 6 лет назад

in a n all inclusive universe, the only trick is to look away and stay focused on what you want

@Vam319 2 года назад

But what about feelings of unworthiness? Do you embrace that as well? I’ve always thought that I have to fight those thoughts to change the belief

@Brielle312 8 месяцев назад

Yes (remember dont exclude it it’s already here) It takes practice and discernment but you also recognize not to IDENTIFY with unworthiness. It sometimes first a feeling not your identity. So this comes up too for me. Hey it happens, no harm, no fowl 🦉 But for now accept “ok I feel unworthy” or “I have this perception of unworthiness” or maybe even “I don’t want to identity with feeling unworthiness but I accept perhaps I do feel that” Sometimes there is strong memory or experience that is associated where statement felt “true” I am unworthy and I identified with it. Then proceed to challenge it. Michael James has this book “feel better no matter what”. He talks about feeling your negative feelings like mental gym workout. And he approaches “what’s good about feeling unworthy?” Well it perhaps my understanding worthiness is expanding. It means I’m being challenged to get clearer what it means to be worthy, it means I’m working self confidence, etc And the interesting thing about this is that it helps you then have more compassion for yourself for when it this come up

@lewisdixon7632 3 года назад

Hi Amy thank you I got it now .but how about number 1you get clear of what you want 2tell why you want it your resistance is the why you wanted 3believe you have it already 4 let it go by saying I am ok if I get this or not because God has something else better for me or I'm ok with or without it please tell me what you think

@illuminatingjoy 3 года назад

2 is believe it’s possible that it CAN happen (don’t bother trying to believe it will happen) And I don’t say “this or something better” to let go. I say “I want it, I don’t need it.” And then I also say “this AND something better” which I explain in this video: ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-52_fn1Tr3PU.html But 4 is really about preferring it (gently wanting it) over needing it. You don’t let go of the desire, just the need for it. But if you like the wording that God has something better planned, use that if it feels good to you. Hope that helps! 🧡

@dancingcloud8557 Месяц назад

What if making the list of things that bother me, just made me want to let go of the manifesting entirely?

@randallsampson1473 9 месяцев назад

Only telĺ what is on your heart..❤❤❤what was it ..?

@marsmars1993 7 лет назад

Amy, I recently came across one of Neville Goddard's manifestation system called revision. One thing I find quite contradictive to your method is the fact he does not embrace the idea of actually accepting your resistance. He works with basically changing your reality in your head by revising all the negative aspects of your life. For example he says one technique is when lying on your bed at the end of the day to make a retrospect of the day that passed and when finding any spot you didn't like, you revise it in your mind to smth you wish had happened instead. And then imagining the following day will be exactly the way you hope it to be. What is your view on that? I know Neville is a real famous mentor and that's why I d like to know how you see all this. Thank you in advance 🙂

@illuminatingjoy 7 лет назад

I would have to see or hear the exact wording before I could comment on that. I'm somewhat familiar with Neville's method and I don't recall what he says about accepting or not accepting resistance. Can you share a link to where you saw/heard this?

@illuminatingjoy 7 лет назад

I just found this and Neville says, "If you take me seriously today, tonight do not let the sun descend upon any vexation of the day. Just look at it, don't deny it, don't duck it, look at it that you may prune it and then reshape it. Take the conversations with your friends today, were they pleasant, were they arguments, no matter what it is, were they negative?" So he says don't deny it and to look at it, which by acknowledging it and letting it be as it is, is the same idea as including it or accepting it. Resisting it is pushing it away, denying it, trying to get rid of it, fighting it, etc... So we are saying the same thing in different words and in slightly different methods. I found that quote here: realneville.com/txt/the_pruning_shears_of_revision.htm

@marsmars1993 7 лет назад

yup, I quite see your point. Thanks a lot! :)

@mewmegaman2872 2 года назад

You look good

@TheSalMaris 4 года назад

I like and believe what you say-- but I'm still trying to wrap my head around the notion that I embrace poverty to become rich.

@annvrabel6517 4 года назад

Just after this video I took a bath and found a dead centipede floating next to me. Resistance! I allowed my resistance. Let the water out. Grabbed a wad of Kleenex to remove it from the drain....it wasn’t there. No way it was small enough to fit thru. But I did kinda laugh at my resistance. I mean of course I resisted. Lol. Anyway it’s gone. Bath time.

@grandeurglory5030 6 лет назад

how can one not resisting creep stalker who try to talk to u

@gloriam8493 5 лет назад

hahahah... sorry I am laughing, ignore him, if u focus on him, get annoyed it triggers him, i usually react but neutral, almost ignorant, without drama or lot of energy

@theoptimist2211 6 лет назад

Why would you resemble agnes vivarelli so much...

@illuminatingjoy 6 лет назад

In what way do I resemble Agnes? Looks? Content? :) Just curious.

@trishataylor2837 6 лет назад

Perhaps in looks a very very little but NOT in content not for me anyway.

@gloriam8493 5 лет назад

@@trishataylor2837 I agree... This girl is much more general, Agnes is almost all about Neville Goddard

@anablablabla 5 лет назад

I think it is because you both are so natural! I Love her and just found your Channel and you both are the ones i can relate to, real People who live what they speak, have the same troubles as we have who are watching these videos and are Open about it. I Love that about you two!

@idreesbaksh2505 5 лет назад

I allow myself to be an idiot I hate myself

@alexkoga5943 7 лет назад

@illuminatingjoy 7 лет назад

To include the resistance means to accept everything exactly as it is (including how you feel)... so to prefer the one job but to accept that you have the offer for another job, accept you may have to decide without knowing if you have the preferred job offer... it's basically saying you are in this situation exactly as it is and you trust you'll be okay no matter what happens or what you decide to do. Resistance is "this SHOULD be different!" But it's not different in this moment so...okay, it should be different, it's not, now what? How can I make the best of this situation?