This is definitely deep level game brother Rom… The game I seem to run into the most from average females is the “I’m a Homebody” game… Average women who own homes especially a detached house run a series of games Game 1. They appear virtuous because they’ll make you believe they don’t go too many places or do much because they’re such a homebody.. so as a man they’ll make you believe that they don’t know a lot of other men or get into foolery with men..lol Game 2. These are also the kind of women who meet men in their daily travels.. they’re the ones in Lowes or Home Depot or male dominated spaces with the leggings or the yoga pants on “flagging” for men to meet as well as perform work around their house for cheap. Game 3. They are also on the look out for men who rent, the reason being is that they want to move you in so as to get additional income into their home.. they’re usually start inquiring about how much you pay in rent & followed by why it would be so much better if y’all just moved in together.. Brothers need to be aware of different levels of game when it comes to average women lol
Women benefit in friendships to. I don't do homegirl relationships. I let them know what it is and what it ain't. They don't necessarily have to want anything sexual from you. They may be using you for your male energy and problem-solving and conversation. Which is like sex to women.
Legit confused so their using you becouse their interacting women enjoy male and women company just bc its one sided i doubt it can be compared to sex or becouse your being a nice guy and a fake friend, besides guys love female validation possible females overdo it to compensate? Sex is still sex to women it rly depends on the overal connection they have with them man, i mean honestly problem solving you can find anywhere and male energy it's still in sex females just not seeking it out asmuch dosent mean they dont enjoy it asmuch bc its out of evolutionary reasons been the males job.
I just had this happen a few days ago. A friend of mine has her sister visiting her. The sister is maybe a 4/10, low side of average. I wasn't interested in her because I can usually grab 7's and 8's. But we were by ourselves for a bit, trying to figure out a coffee maker while she was showing me her coffee grinder. She had this restrained flirtatiousness about her, laughing at my jokes, making a lot eye contact, etc. She just seemed so f--king feminine. Now I can't stop thinking about her.
When a woman choose you she will make sacrifices for you and she will always be concerned about your well being that’s what I call a good investment. Just remember guys anything you invest in has to work for you and not against you That goes for the woman you choose the house you choose the car you choose etc
The GOOD BOOK 📖 says “be as compassionate as a dove, yet as cunning as a serpent🐍.” In other words, the Almighty is saying, “in addition to giving you a heart, I also gave you COMMON SENSE.“
This shits real if your body is tight too, your attractive and have a body. I've had at least two groups of two girls work out near me trying to benchpress. One of them looks at me several times to help them, but I don't because I have seen this often, and I’m not interested. I've seen two girls look at me whisper some shit to the other one, and the next thing I know, they are working out near me. My last one is this girl looks at me all the time, smiles, and waves at me. The same girl I see spots me, and I read out her lips because she is far enough where I cant hear her, and she says, “Oh my god, that’s Mark,” to her friends and turn over and look at me like I got five heads. I never had a conversation with her, and she knew my name. I am unbelievably blessed to have these types of interactions right now in my life. All I can say is body game is a must for all men.
The best game is the ignore you game. Pay attention to that one. She Noticed but she doesn't make it a big deal and really makes you think dang I know she sees me. But she acts just like you're not there. That's the real game. Lol
@@tj7179 That shits rare to see, but it happens too; I wish you the best, brother. Many women have different ways of showing interest; the devil is in the details.
Wow this is a necessary topic about the game that people barely talk about. Indirectness from some women I see In a professional setting: they will NEVER look at you directly or in your eyes, but will be extra jovial and bubbly with people in your vicinity. They will ignore you, but when you finally talk to them, they will be all giggly and friendly to you suddenly. Some will have a good convo and rapport with you one day and the next day, she act like she don't see you lol. Then, you say hi and she's all acting surprised, but you damn well know she saw you lol and she's all hovering til you say something. On that last bit, sometimes, I just want to be friendly. But it's like they want to make me work for a hi and test me lol cmon let's meet halfway I don't know if it's like that just in New York, but some are super subtle with it and won't do much more unless they know you. Obviously it's different in a bar and party setting
this is actually such an insane comment bc you just made me realize thats what happening with me at my job with this one girl. good looks for the insight
They have game. I put it this way a beautiful woman and especially the sexy one's will seduce you. A average woman will try to put game on you. As a men be a counselor and listen to them but keep your eyes open. I always pay attention especially with beautiful sexy woman. 🙂
Deep stuff Rom. I've experienced this before. I've put women in my friend zone too. You're probably the only guy I've heard talk about this or even mention that it's a thing.
You are right. My nieces from 3 would use game on me. At that age they were smart enough to tell me that I am their favourite uncle and they love me so much and before I could count to 3 they ask for what they want.
Yah I'm not going for it. No food dates or helping them with a problem because it's not my problem and there some other guy going to do it. He'll get played and she won't even appreciate that shit . A matter of fact it works against you to help her most of the time.. The only way I'm going to help a woman is if she is investing her time and her money into me and she is an asset to me then maybe here and there I will help her on occasion if I feel like it. If we are in a relationship And we're both contributing to one another then of course I will help out my woman with certain things but not whatever thing because a woman needs to learn how to stand on her own sometimes you don't always wanna be the rescuer let her figure someone of this shit out..
This is a good partner. And the thing is, when you focus on your health and business goals, any woman will feel like she wants to / needs to offer more to be in your space
This video hit the nail on the head. On Friday I was on my way home from central London after some light shopping and I was waiting at the train station for my train. I've seen a group of 4 girls walk past me on the other platform and 2 started choosing, as I stop to look at the display board that shows train arrival times, I receive a tap on the shoulder from one of them that was choosing me and she said 'my friend wanted to talk to you but she's shy' or something like that, I started small talking for a few minutes with the one who approached me and she asked for my number on behalf of her friend... it was a strange experience because it felt indirect. The few times that girls have approached me, it was a bit more direct than that.
I have much better luck with average women. They're less maintainence anyways. So I don't mind. The key to a beautiful woman is to not pay her any mind. And it doesn't always work. It takes time. Humor is the equalizer.
Yo Rom, I do security at the club & this bottle girl out of no where asked me “where you hear last week? It was crazy” knowing damn well I wasn’t there.
At my first job, I had an average girl who used to drop me home everyday, used to talk to me and pick up for work. Had a nickname for her "old lady" (when she tie her hair up she look like an old lady). Then one day I texted her "your a good friend". She said " your so funny". The job let me go and she called me up to see if I was okay. Couple of years later she got married and someone told me that she got married. Text her "congratulations". Never got a reply back but she see the message. Uncle rom, what was up with that, why did she not reply back?
Oh that makes sense, I've just been totally oblivious. Women seem to hate the friend zone I've learned, they try their damn hardest to get out of it too. But the other way around it's completely futile to try and escape the friend zone
Wow! I am amazed how much knowledge you have on the way people think. I will literally be thinking of something and sure enough, I would watch a video of yours, and you would confirm my thoughts. I grew up being abused in every form. I had low self esteem yet, I had changed during my adolescent years but my mindset had not changed. After I had reached a certain age, I started to receive compliments. I consider myself to be a 5 or 6, a 7 at the very most. I wear little to absolutely no make up. No matter how many times I am told by both men and women that I am "beautiful" I will think of every flaw, blemish or imperfection that they probably did not even notice. I am learning to say thank you to compliments, but In my head I still have insecure thoughts.
