Yoh mina I’d be petty if my man were to cheat on me😂🤣🤣🤣😂 I’d remind him every chance I get😂🤣🤣 I’d be that girl, if he drops ama plate I’d just say “yah! It’s because you’re a cheater”😂🤣😂🤣😂 Ok jokes guys, I’d just leave
I completely understand and see everyone's perspective. HOWEVER, cheating should not be one of the factors, criterias, or "requirements" for relationships to be healthy. It's wrong. If boundaries have been communicated from the beginning, why test the strength of your relationship in that way? It's selfish.
True, I feel like this stance would have changed if it were woman who cheated. I only know a handful of men who too back their partners after cheating.
I love matured people like ntate Mokoena, despite his position in ministry, he can admit he made mistakes, that he's no angel... That makes it easier for one to trust him and take his advice.
How TF did she stay with Sipho after he clearly said there’re women prettier than my wife infront of phamb’ kwabantu?! Sembi. There’s no maturity required when it comes to cheating. If he cheats once and you forgive him; he’ll do it again. And if he doesn’t cheat again…you’ll always be in a marriage where you question yourself. Low self esteem is the only reason I can come up with for staying with an unfaithful partner.
Haiibo there's women prettier than me and sexier I know that but it's not my problem because I'm enough I'm sure of who I am and ngizele mina to this world. It just shows how healthy her confidence and mental state is.
@@zuzuTanya-Ncube you’re clearly not enough for your man if he cheats on you because there’re prettier women than you. That’s the problem…he’s rubbing in the reason why he cheated. Her confidence is the pits for staying with a cheating man who blurts out ukuthi his wife is basic and constantly compares her to other women.
I'd have liked to hear Sipho be self aware about what it is WITHIN him that drove him to cheat. All I hear is him blaming external forces - my wife being in Bloomfontein, the single friends I hang around. Well Sipho you have the agency not to be around those friends. He also says the women his friends hang around are "more beautiful than my wife" (what is he thinking saying this?). There's always going to be people who are more beautiful, more this and the other. So his faithfulness is informed by the looks of the women around him? Without Sipho uncovering what WITHIN him caused him to cheat and address THAT, I don't see the marriage having "survived" anything.
“Flirting is cheating even if he’s not responding to it” 🤔 wtf… you can’t be responsible for someone else’s actions, if they flirt with you and you flirt back, then that’ll be cheating
I think with that specific example, she meant that if the partner doesn't stop that person from flirting with them or set clear boundaries then they are cheating by way of them tolerating that person's behaviour.
@@AccordingtoVee she clearly said “even if he’s not responding to it” meaning he’s not entertaining i.e-boundaries… so she probably worded it wrong or meant just what she said
Sipho is so disrespectful, the manner in which he speaks and saying women are prettier than his wife? I wonder how he'd be if the wife was the one who cheated lol....but all the best to the girl.
I love this ❤️ I think the institution of marriage is one with very little understanding and we operate outside of tradition in modern day love and relationships. I think we need this so that we can understand what we are getting ourselves into when we say we want marriage and just to be able to gage whether or not we are operating in a healthy way within these relationships
Am disgusted a man that can say he hangs with better looking woman to a partner is so abusive...what about the woman's confidence...and what does that say about their relationship...this woman needs to love herself and she should know she won't be the right one for the wrong person....this guy has dololo passion for his wife period...if u love some and their qualities the woman or man become unmatched and u only see them...girl there's better out there know ur worth
Hea, that time Sipho isn't even a Prize... He looks so bland! There's dzaddys with money, big boys out there, but your wife chose you, ungrateful bastard!
Great topic, cheating is not okay as the therapist mentioned,and mpho I also feel that if you feel the need to cheat you are definitely not ready for marriage,it's okay to look,but never go as far as making another women feel great ,don't around complimenting, flirting with other women because that's where you open up the cheating chapter,I can't emphasize this further but it's just not right,if you can't stand for it don't expect another person to stand for it,in a simple term,do as you want other's to do unto you
Honestly married or not I would walk away if it happens my partner cheats on me....the trust would be broken and I don't think I would forgive him ever!
@@tendaichauke6706 well yah sure, but that comment was certainly unnecessary. Even if perhaps what he said is true. He’s literally humiliated her on national tv 🥴 -peek her face when he made that comment.
What makes the husband think the woman isn't surrounded by better looking guys 🤔 and I mean guys that know a woman's worth...yerr this guy takes a high value woman and Tries bringing her down to his lane..I don't mess with low value man period...we can marry wrong people should know...she deserves better and looks better enklerk coz his rude she's better looking then him she made him a favor
14:50 I'm not happy with Sipho's response yazi. 🤔 Kahle Kahle Sipho is still capable of cheating. That statement he made about other women being more prettier than his wife is still going to stab deeper into his wife's self esteem. Like what? 😳 Your wife is going to continue to second guess herself. 🤔 Haiyi he is not remorseful 😔
Is this that "Hewethu, a ku look on the bright-side-eki" woman? Great concept...but I feel it could be executed "maturely"... Ntate Mokoena is one of the most respected marriage counsellors, we could learn a lot from him given the chance... The stories and clips chows time...and they add little to no value to the show... I'll be following you guys...I love marriage topics
He calls his wife and says "sweetheart there many beautiful women here, it's like there angels who ran away from heaven" 🤨🤨🤨 Why would you say that to your wife??? Why not just call and say "sweetheart I love you...." Just my opinion.
20:33 😳😳😳 is this guy listening to himself. Now the wife knows that you are only with her because God gave you her, but if it was up to you, you would actually choose your ex. Haiyini Sipho😳😳 What are you doing to this poor girl. 😳😳 You even go as far as saying you know that she loves you and not you saying that you love her. 🤔
Cheating is not the mistake is due to selfishness and lust of the cheater and its a decision of the cheater, There is no an excuse for being unfaithfully to your partner. Dont justify your sin.
