Insecure Bride Feels “Over Shadowed” By Her Sister | Say Yes To The Dress: Big Bliss 

Not necessarily, the world loves a statuesque woman. The main problem she'd have, I think, would be finding long enough clothes, and possibly finding a tall enough partner.

Awww that can be the case at times. We women are so hard on ourselves. In the meantime men with big stomachs look at themselves in the mirror and they say man I look good 😂

I’m 5”11 and daughter 6” we wear 3 or 4 inch heels no problem ! Love walking in a room together and see peoples faces ! We love being tall ! Her sister will not have problems apart from checking when she buys a wedding dress that 4 inches can be added to that style dress !

@@annedalton289 I love that

@@lupechacon-florez7520men also have insecurities. Ask the fat kid in your school, you'd know.

They seem like a close family. She has since lost weight, married someone else, wore a beautiful dress, and has a little boy. This episode is probably 12 years old, or so.

@@L.Spencer WOWWW! That is One HELL of a turn around! Where did you find that please??

@@L.Spencer whoa really??

I can't post links, they get deleted.

@@L.Spencer Thankyou SOO much! And WOWWWWW again ! I found her on there,.She looks SOO Wonderful and Happy! What a great outcome!

It was gorgeous on her!

It was stunning and complimented her body so well.

I LOVED it!!

It was a beautiful dress - and she looked good in it, but you could tell that it wasn't for her.

It will only end when she stops taking crap from that sister and decides to do something for herself once in her life - like losing some pounds

@@fofocavirtuosa She chose not to practice sibling rivalry and competition at that moment even when she was the weight she was. Bravo for her.

Agreed

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I didn't interpret it that way. To me it sounded like they are very close because the bride often asks her sister for fashion advice and so the bride would have a hard time chosing a dress the sister didn't like. That's just a neutral statement. It didn't sound like the sister meant it in such a negative way, at least to me it didn't.

If so he would have ended looking ugly in those cupcake dresses she was set up for

I don't see a problem with it tbh. She wants to look fit. She has insecurity about her body. She wants to look thinner. Family is telling her the cold hard truth. Some dresses make your figure bigger and unflattering. Why wouldn't they tell her if she looks bigger in a dress. It goes for everyone. Family tells you the truth. You can see the end result was perfect for her. Being a bigger girl myslef yes you hear these things often but I would rather be upset if the dress was unflattering and my family didn't tell me the truth and I looked back and regretted it. They were still nice. My family would have straight up said you look fatter in that dress 🤣 Asian families don't hold back 💁🏻‍♀️

But there was truth in those comments. The bride was playing it safe with the "cupcake" dresses mistakenly thinking she was hiding her "faulty" figure when in fact she was enhancing it with all that fabric. The consultant also said she prefers to put the fuller figure prides in more figure hugging dresses so that they could actually see what they REALLY looked like. Alyce had no concept of what she really looked like and she wasn't going to get it in those giant dresses that did make her look bigger. The sister was right and Alyce would not have gotten out of her comfort zone unless she was pushed to see how beautiful her figure really was.

@@pinkheart315 Agree. Heavier than you are really isn't an insult. The bride was the one who kept finding her own faults and trying to hide them and give up on herself. The sister only wanted to find a dress that accentuated her curves, and she was right!

The bride literally told she wanted to hide her problem areas And she felt the most beautiful in the dress with the corset because it remodeled her figure and made her look slimmer so let’s not be hypocrites, the family wants the best for her

If my sister didn't step up and tell me that a dress made me look bigger than I actually was - why is she even there? Her sister did exactly what she needed to do, which was not let her sister get a dress that didn't flatter her sister properly.

Well if the sister wasn't so pushy the bride might have actually developed some faith in her own taste and would have known what would suit her.

@@cyflym11 no kidding

New-to-Kleinfeld's-at-the-time.---She-already-had-three-years'-experience-at-another-bridal-salon.

Exactly

I was thinking that too! It’s a lot of pressure

Exactly! All the negative aspects of her body were said by herself, and not her sister. They just edited it to make the look like the sister was a villain, cutting to her just giving random looks every time the bride said something terrible about herself, and then blamed the sister for it. I actually felt bad for the sister. Imagine your own sister being so openly hostile towards you, because she feels insecure about her own body, and blames you for it!

It’s going to take a lot of work for her to be happy with her body, or for her to lose weight if she wants. She needs to learn not to compare to be happy

Behave ! What a stupid thing to say !

She has put herself down. She could choose to accept and love herself instead of comparing to her sister. Shame on herself and. Not the sister that to push her into more better fitting dresses for her.

@@mariesmith1616 THIS!!!!! It's her insecurities. Her sister just want her to look in her dress. Her sister knows she's insecure about her weight. Her sister didn't want a lot of fabric to make her feel bigger not slimmer.

I bet you that no one was putting her down at all. She was looking at her sister who was thinner or cuter or cuter because she was thinner, does not even matter, besides that she was looking at her sister and decided to take the path of jealousy. Her sister is not her rival. She is her own rival and she chooses that negativity. I am heavier than my sister and my sister is a bit cuter, and I NEVER looked at it like sibling rivalry. I had a problem of extra weight that is MY problem and not my sister’s fault. The fact that the bride had extra weight is HER OWN problem and it her sisters fault. She is the only one making rivalry scenarios in her own head. Her sister is actually nice to tolerate that nonsense

Siblings compare themselves. It's natural.

Well I don’t think it’s “natural” but it’s a thing.😊

@@thomasdoyle9748 yeah, but there is a point where it’s too much. and this is too much. especially with the comments her sister made

Her sister does not have to be blamed for her own insecurities.

I think the worst comments came from the bride. The sister was providing the advice she needed and actually insisted that she wanted. Would you not want to know which dress made your body look better? Be the bride kept on and on about this rivalry that she created in her own mind because of her own insecurities.

I liked that lace, it was so much more flattering than the bright shiny white satin one that she got halfway through trying on. I don't think the shiny fabrics do bigger girls any favours.

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@@cyflym11 I rewatched the episode. The lace dress she chose has such a Victorian sense of elegance, whimsy, and beauty. I honestly don’t think her sister could wear that dress.

Get a grip tv as ts just attention seeking 🤦‍♀️😂! Be yourself and being compared to someone else ain’t a bad thing ! You have your good things and bad things as do your sister and cousins !

I thought A line

What’s her name? Im dying to see

Alyce Meredith, that's it

No need to compare them.

She is pretty in her own way too hit her attitude towards her sister is no good. Her extra weight or insecurities is not her sister’s fault

My sister is the prettier and thinner one than me. I don’t go throwing all my insecurities on her acting like it is her fault. I found the bride to be a pretty crappy sister that needs either therapy or the gym or both.

Awesome! Now go and prosper!

This sister is the opposite to what you saying. The only one downplaying herself was the bride tos be and the sister never saw herself as better or anything like that. All she wished was that her a sister would see herself as the beautiful women she is