Inside The Hospital Mortuary 

What Respect dumbass? When they mess with your loved ones and cutt them to pieces like a butcher does nd they simply don't care about respect at all. Glad that I don't live in the states.

Mortuary

@@lilithaviel534 What?

@@lilithaviel534 exactly 🤷👏

@@lilithaviel534 - Your comment is dumb af. Smh

You're right, as a carer I've seen some Elderly lowly, I do my best to make them comfortable. We chat and make food and medication and shower if needed. I love seeing them happy, I love my job.

@@vikyosa4651 God bless you.

That's very true. I'm an embalmer and funeral director apprentice and I get asked all the time. But it is sad to see a funeral that only has 3 or 4 people there.

@@brandiwestmoreland2415 i had a neighbor who haf no one. I don't know if her only son showed up.

Wow! Reading all of your comments is really heart breaking because automatically I would have assumed that the worse death a person a person had experienced would be someone who has died a tragic death ☹

That's so kind.

Sus

Thank you for all you do Idk if I could do it. You're a blessing for so many. Take care❤

Thank you so much for this.

This implies a female nurse is called a furse

Wasi Rafik amen 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏

Wasi Rafik Amen

Yes in him we trust

Amen we really need to glorify him

Hallelujah!

I remember when my mom passed pulling down that white sheet from her face was the hardest thing ever...☹..miss her so much but just remembering the good memories mayb it will hell writing those things down, she passed in 2003 stil feels like yesterday

So sorry

Sorry for your loss, i’m in the hospital now my dads recovering from a triple bypass surgery thank god he’s ok

@@crownhillsjoey oh woow prayers for you and family at this time he will be fine.x

Dorique Tuwei May be RIP 🙏🏼

Hey, many thanks for the highlighted comment & replies. Stay super superb!

Correction - God almighty is the author of our own life story.

@@yudelleanlisatajirikenyana4519 I get it but I think he means u choose ur path like wat is right or wrong. God won't force u to do the right thing or wrong thing u choose the path u choose to be good or bad in life

Definitely sure.... God is not controlling any Man's life.. You're a custodian OF your life.

I'm looking for work I prepare them for viewings also

@MS 92 what lol

Me me, "you find (sa) Steve Austin funny?" Huh, you will learn one day, that "Respect" of the deceased is number one. It takes a special person who is in right mind, respectfully to the living and dead.

Thank you for sharing a more positive perspective, you’re awesome. 🙌🏼

@@tanyalippre7729 what are you talking about

But it has a hauntingly beautiful element to it

Trust me death is a blessing

i think the thought of it is scary because we, as humans, don’t like the unknown. we always like knowing everything. and with death, we don’t know what it will be like, where we are going. we don’t. i don’t think the death specifically is scary to us. i think it’s the unknown that is.

There is nothing before birth and nothing after death..... your parents give birth to you and you have to live your life

I will ensure to write out a statement of exactly what i want to be done with my remains and make sure it is in my pocket whence i no longer remain on this earth

@NAIJA BOY a big AMEN to that. Even though we know there's a possibility to die if Jesus didn't come while we're still alive, all we need to do is give Him praise until then

Amen

NAIJA BOY amen 🙏🏼

yes indeed If you alive aways say thank you jesus because is not by our own making

Naw... it's all metabolic. No make believe friends necessary.

@@lilithaviel534 Your brand of respect for other's humanity is well known. Execrable creatures.

Reina Arana why death is a natural process

They don’t need anybody but God, it’s only sad to die without Him.

I sat next to the morgue in the hosp on ground floor a cold little room on my own no sound just the sound of drs pounding on my twenty four yr old sons heart So urgent they forgot I was there they never drew the curtAlns I saw and heard everything this was after a double rd accident he even had a tag on leg ready for morgue months later he.pulled through many probs twenty five yrs later

Zero VRvv

I will always be depressed. This job it's can make you appreciate each day of your life.

@@pruddyt8645 still not an easy job

Avis 241 life ain’t easy

Imagine being a trauma surgeon. Split decision in ur hands whether alive or dead.

no, not easy. my son worked in mortuary transport for a short time doing removals from homes, hospitals, and crime scenes. it was hard for him, especially where the elderly or children passed on and assuring their families their deceased loved ones would be well-taken care of or scenes of murders and suicides. he would keep feelings bottled up until alone and let them "rip". i sure many dealing with the dead are the same way as it could easily be their own family members.no shame in venting those feelings when alone. we're all human.

This is improved? Can you really call this a documentary when it was only 8 minutes long?

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This is interesting. e_e

Me too .. watching videos on dying alone, embalming and funerals of different religions etc at 3am ..every day we get closer to death and death ☠️ comes like a thief in the night 🌃..I'm also preparing for death and slowly giving away all my possessions .. our life on earth is indeed transient

I hope you’re well. I know you made this comment 4 years ago but I hope you’re doing better now 2020 was a very difficult year.

Thanks you for your comments. 🙏🙏🙏

Idk why I cried whilst reading this

@@hxfizax , aww, I hope I didn't upset you. I just thought that it was important for people to know how their loved ones are treated when they pass. It is honestly the most humbling experience for a nurse. And in my experience, these last offices are probably the caring and compassionate act that a nurse will carry out in her career. It's really difficult to put it into words.

My grandma passed away oct 4th 2017, I can only hope she was treated as well as you have done.

@@nicholemiles8847 , i believe that she was. I have worked in hospitals as a nurse in Scotland, England and Australia. It was always done the same way in my experience. And every other nurse I did the last offices with, (always minimum 2 nurses) showed the patient the same kind of respect.

Damn Straight.

hell yeah they are

Very true😘

For sure!!!

Also the deathcare workers that handle the bodies when the hospital morgue is done with them ❤️❤️

I'm not afraid of death it wil be a release for me too long a story nearly lost a son twenty two yrs ago took to a room next to morgue saw things a mum should not I said Jesus if u spare him I will put with anything he spared him with. Many probs he's taken my daughter and son since but not for one .min do I blame Jesus I also have so much respect for Allah born in coventry I'm seventy all My true friends are pakistanies or how u spell it saw the kids grow up gone on to be nurses brain surgeons solicitors I love them all home is where the heart is x

@@brendadrumm9708 Peace be on you Brenda. So sorry to hear about what you went through. This life is merely a test, as Allah has stated in our beautiful Quran and that was yours. The only way to find peace is with Allah, everyone will eventually leave you and you with them but Allah always remains, the everlasting. I’m not Asian by the way, I’m a revert, I’m South American. Islam is for everyone :)

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@@Ll_jfdk 8j hi no no

@@Ll_jfdk bip.im Catholic but most of my true neighbours and friends are Muslim families I've lived in same street for 70 yrs they've had all the trials and tribulations like us all but they are a credit I wouldn't live anywhere else I'm blessed x

You said it, you said respect, and respect is number one. Thumbs up to you. So many people don't have the knowledge of knowing the difference.

True

Firhat Anubis I absolutely agree with you 💯! When it comes to death, we are all equal.

Firhat Anubis I guess we don’t really know until we are dead unless someone is religious.

Yes that is right and if you don't believe the existence of GOD then you have more problems because if you're a Religion person you would be conformable to know that your creator is there for you and if you used to remembering him when you were alive and you used to give the needy food and children home and the prisoners hope to be free again you do whatever God wants you to do you won't be regarded as everyone tells us GOD make you save place that you will be with your loved ones again the in heaven and you and your family and friends they will

Firhat, very sobering words❤

Do good so when death comes you have smile on your face and not fear

There is no Allah, it's all a lie, Praise Jesus

@@Lvan455 🙄

New York City Police Department There is only one God, and the prophet Muhammad ( peace be upon him ) is his messenger ! ( “Allah” means God, in Arabic. Don’t be daft.)

Alhumdulilah

AMEN!!!!×

@Fred Wilkerson what did he say about dying he only said thank you God for the gift of life, you are not very smart

@A B C D E F G H I J K M N O P Q R S T U V W X Y Z kind of let me explain jesus aas made human but yet divine so he is basically a human version of God its like this God is water jesus is ice both the same but yet different

Amen

Its Allaah🤗

Gina touched your heart now you are touching others hearts beautiful..

I am grateful that I had the chance to wash and dress my mum's body after she passed away. It helps with grief a lot, like you are doing a proper farewell. I couldn't have the thought of any stranger touching her. I also sat and prayed over her body a whole night and talked to her, and it was like saying my last goodbye, like she was listening. Whereas my dad was prepared for burial at a military hospital and I only could see his body at the funeral service. It just didn't feel right, if that's the right word.

I’m gonna be working in the ER and I know my job is to bag those who pass and I kinda fear it but your words definitely humbled me and make it feel a lot better. So thank you ❤️

@@football_guy9151 please update us how you're doing at the hospital job. It's such a respectful & humbling job to bag bodies after death. Bless you!

I'm a nursing aide for seven years.the most important thing is that you don't take it personally.somethime the system of the hospital is flawed but you happened to be the one standing in front of the customer.they are complaining about the system not you.have a nice day.

amen!

i just watch vid on Japanese capsule hotel, then i got this in my recommendation.

lol

@@proudbluestaterful mn

Muhammad Nur Amin Haissac Every soul shall taste death 💀. And will stand before Allah almighty

@@magnificenttruthseekingque403 . Very true.

Saaad

Maggie Muthoni you think death is sad just want until the grave and judgement day that even more sadder

@@magnificenttruthseekingque403 You said want instead of wait........My nephews funeral tomorrow he was 19 and i can't go to'em i wanna remember him happy...It's sad & bad..Judgement Day will be sad for the wicked..GOD is good & knows who Love him & who don't so no Judgement for me & i don't hate or sin..GOD chose me to know him i'm Godly by the second....I'm Life....🌕

Oh! God pls forgive me my sin ad have mercy upon me ad thanx for de gift of life

Agree.so no point in chasing after power and money with all your effort.learn to aprreciate life by being more compassionate and caring.and don't worry about the future, it might not come.have a nice day.

So true 😢

His soul lives on. The body left behind is nothing more than a shell for this Earthly life. Your dad is gone...... but his spirit is very much alive.

Thanks for your support!

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Hi baby how are you doing now i hope you are really doing good you are awesome looking at you baby makes happy when I look at your picture it is beyond my imagination that a creature like you really exist like a rose you make the garden so beautiful You are a diamond to any man that have eyes to see goodness of a womanhood Baby am Ben easy going person very understandable Am a civil engineer and a contractor I work at so many places like Asia Europe and Africa I love art craft and I write music I like ideal people when I see your picture am impress I want a good woman that understand what real love is all about who will understand me and perfectly be for me So we can build our world strong enough to care for each other I want you to be mine and I hope to hear from you soonest thanks

My lad of twenty four over twenty four yrs ago got knocked down full force by a moter bike as he lay in a coma on a dark rd a car ran over him no hope of Life taken to a room next to the hosp morgue with tag on leg a mangled bit of meat I heard them banging on his heart spleen ripped out nearly every bone broke four hr brain op etc etc put into they called a Glasgow coma for wks told he would never recover and if he did wouldn't walk or talk he did with many probs he's a credit but the biggest heartache to him and me we've lost his elder sister and younger brother since that's cut us to bits x

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Hi baby how are you doing now i hope you are really doing good you are awesome looking at you baby makes happy when I look at your picture it is beyond my imagination that a creature like you really exist like a rose you make the garden so beautiful You are a diamond to any man that have eyes to see goodness of a womanhood Baby am Ben easy going person very understandable Am a civil engineer and a contractor I work at so many places like Asia Europe and Africa I love art craft and I write music I like ideal people when I see your picture am impress I want a good woman that understand what real love is all about who will understand me and perfectly be for me So we can build our world strong enough to care for each other I want you to be mine and I hope to hear from you soonest thanks

Oh yes beautiful said I agree

I totally understand u. I know the pain u are talking bcos my mum died 3 weeks ago on 17th January 2019 and am depressed. I'm watching youtube videos on how one can overcome depression when he/she loses a loved one and I saw this video. Nobody understands the way it feels until it happens to u. Not even my own husband. He is loving and caring but he doesn't know how deep the pain is. He just tells me it's normal thing am going through. I'm weak. I'm depressed. I feel tired all the time. I think about my mum all the time. My heart is paining me. The pain is too much for me. My mum's death is the most painful experience for me in my entire life. I didn't know death was this painful. She didn't say goodbye. She wasn't sick. She woke up in the morning and just complained of tummy ache and just for some minutes, she was gone. I don't know if I will ever get over her death. I'm dying slowly. My strength is all gone.

@@rithanyarko2481 Hi Ritha, I may have a few tips to share with you, just a few general common tips. First of all, I hope you can understand or try putting this thoughts into your mind, death is unavoidable in us human beings. It's a matter on when and how that's all. Death don't just happen to elderly people, it happens to anyone, youngsters, even infants or new born babies. We may feel as seems like the heavenly is so unfair, but ... Sorry to say so, this is the truth, and yes, it hurts. Secondly, try to let go slowly by understanding the big words “what is life?”. From the very beginning, our parents borned us, brought us up to adult, and we started to live our own life by working, making friends, found the right one, got married, formed our own family, bear kids and gave birth to them, and slowly sees them growing, and these all are belong to family meaning. And as us with our spouse growing old day by day, our childrens growing up day by day as well. But, maybe you had forgotten there's another fact, our parents too are growing older and older day by day towards their end of life's journey too. These whole process is understood as “Life”. And no one can able to change it from preventing getting older and avoid death. We are just mortal beings, not gods. Please try to understand and put in this another fact slowly into your mind, have you ever thought that, maybe your mom had lived her life to the fullest and enough ? Averagely a person's life span is between 60 - 80 years old if is a healthy person. Once a person's age had reach up to 60, yes, 60 is the number to be aware of. And from then onwards, anything and anytime could happen. Don't forget, this too include ourselves. Another point to understand is, everyone's life is a planned journey. Also including you or me or your husband or your childrens. It's all planned way before we are born. It is believed that when a fetus had started to formed as a baby, the individual's soul and his or her life are all planned by the heavenly. This include the whole journey of life of everything we are going through, the sweets, the sours & the bitterness ... This is the process of life. Everyday all of us, everyone, young till the elderly ones, the whole world everyone, we are growing older a little by little towards the end of life's journey. Another point of comfort, try to think it in this way ... You should be glad that your mom had lived her life growing with you till now. Thankfully she didn't “gone” while you was still young or as a child. Comparing to someone that is orphan to a mother, or a father or worst both parents, isn't that is more bitter than how you feel now ?? I may not have the “magical” words to comfort you, but with my very own personal experience, I wish to tell you this, please let go, certainly not instantly and everything, but bit by bit, seconds by seconds, minute by minutes, hour by hours, day by days, week by weeks, month by months and year by years ... slowly ... You know why I say this ? Because it's all about “TIME”. Let time slowly fades off your pain. And TIME is actually a medicine. But PLEASE, DO NOT FRAME YOURSELF WITH A LIMITED TIME FOR HEALLING THE PAINS. Framing a time is not a real way to let go, is a very wrong method of denial and lying to own self. For instance myself, okay, I'll share a little about how I gone through. As I mentioned on above's comments, the actual moment I let go and understood and accepting my dad was gone, was on after the 3 days funeral and after the cremation, when I went back home to closed up all the windows, I finally let go myself with a loud and sorrowful cried. I can't really recall for how long I had cried since I was home. It seems I was too crushed down and I did in fact lost some memories, like certain part I have many blanks that I can't remember. Only remember bits and pieces of on and off. I did cried till passed out on my bedroom's floor. And next is I woke up in my dark room as it was already in the evening, and no lights was on. Vividly I remembered I did heard the church's prayers group came and they said prayers and sang psalms downstairs of my home. I remember hearing a sorrowful tune, “Amazing Grace”. And I continued cried again badly. (My mom and sister was attending to the prayer's group) And I again crying in the darkness of my room. Next I forgot again, I guessed I was blacked out again. Until the next day, don't even know what time was that, my cousins came to my room. I must be really dirty, stingky or smelly, they just dragged me to the bathroom no matter how much strength I was trying to fight them off. They sprayed me with cold water and told me to be awake. That was my most “sorrowful bath” .... But at then, I was like what you said “feels like a dead person” but still breathing without any strength to move on, don't feel hungry, thirsty or anything, just like a living dead. Only cried and knocked off on my bed for I don't remember how many days. Until they felt my situation wasn't something they can handled, then one of the day, I remember I was been told (but actually I was been lied to) go in the car with my cousins and my sister that, they told me we are going to my favorite beef noodles restaurant to eat. In actual, I was been drove to a psychiatrist's clinic. Again my “madness” was up, but without having much time, the physiatrist came up to the car and I was been injected . (They pre told my situation to the physiatrist and he was ready with a doze of Prozac, these was later my situation got more better and stabled, I found out). Certainly after that, I felt much more calmed but my mind was just blanked. And that was my first visit to a physiatrist's clinic. Now you see, how much worst my situation was, and at some point I felt like as seem I was acting in a drama, only is that I didn't know how stubborn I was. And since then until now, I'm on certain anti anxiety and depression control meds. But comparing in the beginning all of my meds and with now, honestly, I'm in much more stable and better condition and lesser meds comparing at the beginning. So, another point I can suggest to you is that, if you can't take it anymore, do not neglect yourself, do not beat up yourself, turn for help, a professional's help. Go to a physiatrist. Be honest, be yourself, let it all out to your physiatrist, let him or her knows what you are going through and how you are feeling. Don't hide, no shame to cry, coz it's a normal human thing. Certainly I wasn't asking you to act crying, but just be yourself, this way, let you physiatrist understand why and what happened and who or what type of person you are, so according to his or her evaluation will know how to treat your current situation and with the correct medications. Please remember, do not simply go online and check out certain meds and prescribe by yourself, this certainly will harm yourself more, because we are not the professional, and doesn't mean that you thought you know yourself more so it is like what you think it is. For all you know, in the evaluation of the physiatrist, it may be under different or temporary illment. I hope these tips does provides you some useful information(s). Remember, don't rush yourself, don't frame a time limits on yourself, don't drown in your sorrow, you are not alone in this, in this whole world, billions of people from all corners are also going through the same situation like you are. Certainty, not everyone is the same, some are stronger some are just weak, afterall, we are just humans. Let me tell you what are the most scariest, those who had not shown any emotions, those who doesn't cry, those who are pretending away from the truth. These are the scariest, most dangerous, and the most painful “nuclear bombs” carrier that is anytime going to hell break loose type. So Ritha, please take care of yourself, think and understand for a moment on next what you want to do. I'll talk to you again, just ask what you want to know, I'll try to share with you on about what I know, unless it's something I don't know then I may not be able to help.

@@rithanyarko2481 And second message to you, now I suddenly recalled. In that same year, the first incident was, my doctor cum personal friend (we're very close friends as age are similar, and seems share some similar mentality, so we can clicked well with each other), his mother too passed away after a month later than my dad. She suffered from cancer for 11 years. And the worst part is that, my doctor friend his whole family are in the medical industry, his dad is a doctor, his sister also is a doctor. And they had all the medical supplies at their home for his mother. And they had prolong her illness and lifespan, but at the end, even as doctors, they still couldn't treat her, heal her or prevent her from death. After a month later, the second incident happened. My colleague (another of my close acquaintance at work that we can work together really well and trusted each other and same age as well), his wife passed away of suffering from bone cancer. She had been fighting with her cancer for 3 years. She left him with 2 sons and 1 daughter, youngest is on junior 2nd grade & another on junior 6th grade, eldest is junior high 11th grade. The third incident was, (I actually found out much later after this incident happened and was told by my colleagues), on that same week my dad passed away, one of my sales subordinate too passed away. He was only 24 years old. I didn't know this immediately as I was on 3 months leave. Only after that I resume back to work, my colleagues told me about it. It was a fast one for him, according to his family's description, he came back from work in that evening, told his mom he doesn't want dinner and was very exhausted and heaty / feeling hot on whole body. After his shower and got dressed, just about to go sleep but before, he was laying on the couch and just like fallen asleep, he just died. After the postmodern result, found out that he died of heart attack. So, after reading, do you still feel so bad and feels like dying ?? These incidents was also played a part of my recovery besides the physiatrist's meds. I don't mean to think selfish, I didn't expect these close friends / people's loved ones too in the almost same time of my dad's passing, they too passed away. This made me felt that, yeah .... I'm not alone, my story isn't the worst. Until lately, as you know I'm Chinese, we celebrate Chinese Lunar New Year on 5th February onwards for 15 days. And the most important day is on the eve of CNY, which was on the 4th, the reunion dinner. It means that whole family feast together that dinner meal as a symbol of unite, love, peace, happiness, cherish & prosperity. Just 3 weeks before CNY, a 20 year old college boy was driving home passes a bridge from visiting his friend on the island town and on his way back to his home on the other side of mainland in the dawn of approximately 3:00am, his SUV was hit by another car which the driver of the other car was high on marijuana. His SUV got hit so hard and slammed onto the bridge's divider and felt into the sea. The poor boy's family waited for him to return home as he hasn't for almost 24 hours. Then they lodge a police report, later to had found out that their son's vehicle was involved in the bridge's accident. It took the fire brigade's scooba team 3 days to found the sunken SUV and to pull up. And the boy's body was still intact with safety belts on. He was drowned to death. So, how do you think the boy's family and his parents felt ? Is it acceptable ? How was their CNY gonna be ? Though I do felt sympathy but I do understand another fact, it is his time and he has to go, and no one can ever prevent it from happening. So Ritha, I really mean it, you are not alone. Don't drown into your sorrow. This no one can able to help you, you gotta pull yourself up from the drowning as the first step and then let others help you to go through and cope with it. This first step is your key of you saving yourself from being tired and lending a hand out asking for help. Then others can able to help you out. I hope it's not too difficult for you to understand. It's all optional, your choice, either you want to be help by others or you just want to continuing drowning yourself ...

Alexandria WONG some children lose their parents when they very young, and the pain of seeing someone’s great great grandparents roaming the streets at 90 , Tiers you up all the time no matter how long ago it was. The pain reduces with time but it will never leave you.

@@afrikanqueen2519 Very true, the pains does fade along with TIME, but it doesn't just erase from the memories. And it's subject to individuals, to let go and move on or forever hang on to that painful stage. Letting go doesn't mean to forgetting it, it's like a way consoling your heart to put down that heavy and painful weight. And also looking forward instead of keep looking back on what had happened with knowing no power to change what had happened. Also looking forward is believing when that day comes, for us when passes off this exhausted life on earth, we will see our beloved ones on the other side, the “happy land”.

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Mother and son also

What do you say and do? 🤔

Change n make it right.. the old stand in front of Christ the lord alone so if your grandma still alive and you're alive make it right now that you regret

PRO GAMER Just do the right thing bro! apologize to God ,her and the inner person ...

Never too late to Change..God gives only one chance..Take it or leave it..You get NO chance if you kill someone though..Love Life..

Stop what you say and do..

Hi I had to down vote because death came for me 3 times or more, Thanks G_d, it wasn't my time to go.

@@Gregsmith001 take care.. May God always protect you..

@@cookwithsaireta8693 thank you and may The Creator Grant you/usgood in this life and the next and save us from the chastisement and torment of the fire Amin

@@Gregsmith001 amen.. Take cr honey

Life comes once aswell..One Life....

Respecting the dead is number one, " not everyone who cares for the dead, deserves respect; "there are those who are alive working with our loved ones whom shouldn't be any where near our loved ones." In Jesus name, l pray for protection of the deceased from those not in the right mind.

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Fully agree. I too, assisted my brother with preparing my father's body for burial some 18 years ago. My father lived in a small town where there are no funeral homes, so everything was DIY. We collected his body from the hospital mortuary, washed and dressed him, placed him in a coffin, then took him for a final visit home before going to the cemetery. Throughout this time, we spoke to him as if he was still alive ("Relax a bit, we've got to put a shirt on you"). It wasn't scary at all, and as you said, it gave us closure.

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😂 just dont drive lah! Easy!

@Alana Weaver Thanks. (BTW, I think you meant "peeking.")

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