Inside The Mind Of Ariana Grande (a deep dive) 

right?? that clip was mind boggling that suddenly she’s putting the blame on her parents divorce. If anything wouldn’t that make home wrecking less appealing since you were so “wrecked” about it before? I’m not saying she’s a narcissist at all but she certainly has a lot of those traits of selfishly and ruthlessly taking without considering others and believing her own false image and narrative.

True. As a child of divorced myself, even if i had a crush on a guy, if he got married, he'll automatically turn into an uncle to me 😅

I have a similar drama in my family and instead of "getting over it" we still think this person ruined their life, we definetely dont forgive selectively like she tries to claim people do

@@iWANDER262she wasn’t blaming her parents divorce dawg 😭😭haters always twist what she says😭

Same here😂

I suppose that’s how unhealed trauma can show up. I’m not saying that it’s easy to work through, but work must be done regardless.

Man, the amount of people giving different timelines or debunking I don’t know what to believe. It’s feeling like speculation and personal biases. I can’t really judge if both their marriages were dead in the water and were friends before and decided to date after. Of course, it is a mess if there was an overlap or some kind of sordid affair or emotional infidelity happened. It wasn’t meant to be either or, if all it took was so little for it to crumble. Very, very little to shake this supposed everlasting love in each of their marriages. Seemed they were disengaged and complacent from the jump. Covid lockdown really rattled a lot of couples, huh? Edit: I know Ethan and his wife were hs sweethearts, I never said they got together in Covid, only that covid resulted in many long and short term relationships to disintegrate. To be a home wrecker is very intentional and insidious. To drop seeds of doubt in someone and phase them out of their families lives. To proposition intimacy while they are very much still in a committed relationship. I can’t in good conscience claim that happened because I’m not a fly on the wall. I can speculate, but can’t confirm. There are a hundred variations on how the failure of both their relationships came about and how their new one started up. I can assume their friendship was too close for comfort or a plethora of things, but I can’t confidently assume an overlap.

​​​@@surette2012 there is a 1 version of a timeline, the rest is PR mess. Its clear Lilly thought everything is ok at least up until June 1st so you can easily reject the separation narration and if you do so, there is no "unclear" stuff anymore because separation was something they came up with quickly to minimaze the backlash. + Lilly and Ethan were not a covid relationship and they lasted until the filming, the covid thing can only apply to Ariana. The kid wasnt even 1 yo so for how they could have been separated? Again, the timeline is only unclear to you because of an attempt of damage control and it was clearly enough to gaslight some people. And i dont think that a chance to date an a list pretty singer is "very little" to shake the relationship, especially when you are away from your partner and your relationship is old, every strong chemichal love wears off after 3-4 years. For Ethan it gave him so many press opportunities and looking at the videos where cameras caught him, he really enjoys the attention. Its not the first celebrity affair that began at work.

Maybe she has a deep fear of becoming her mom. If she's the mistress than she's not the one being left.

@@mmgs1148 I mean, I know Ethan and his wife were basically high school sweethearts, I wasn’t saying they got together in Covid lol. Only mentioned that a lot of couples (long and short term) seem to have suffered from the close proximity and isolation from covid and a lot of breakups and domestic abuses statistics had actually risen up in that window of time. I’m sorry, but I don’t care if the biggest star or my dream man who was built in a lab showed up to my door. If I was really in love with my current partner it wouldn’t shake me from my loyalty. Love is a choice for people. They choose to love despite how hard it can be at times, or when those honeymoon feelings fade. The reasons to hold on are built on trust and friendship, as well. Love thrives when your partner needs your affection as much as you need theirs. You simply aren’t in love if being in proximity to someone flashier made it fall apart. It really is a small thing because it is. It’s only considered a big thing if you choose to see value only in fame, status or whatever in love matches. Ethan chose to see Ariana’s presence as more valuable than his partners. *allegedly* Falling out out of love with your partner isn’t just a watershed moment where you are presented with bait or an excuse to stray. I’m just saying that it’s likely both were over it and both relationships were already experiencing a death rattle. It sucks if their partners were truly blindsided and thought things were great and would’ve stayed great, but then their lives would’ve been pretty lies if that happened. if they think they’d still be happily married if these new people didn’t come in their lives I think it’s pretty deflective and naive. I say it’s a dodged bullet that it ended instead of them spending their lifetimes in such a shaky relationship. Complacency and fear keeps a lot of people together when it clearly has overstayed it’s welcome. I wish the concept of eternal love was simple, but it’s not. I salute anyone still passionately in love and on their 50th wedding anniversary, but it’s not exactly a common occurrence. I honestly don’t care of Ariana and SpongeBob last or not. This could just be a rebound thing where they’re licking each others wounds because it is pretty humiliating to have a public divorce or failed relationship. Even more humiliating to be painted loser cheaters. They could break up next month for all I care. My only point is that both their marriages failed likely far before any straying. It’s why people stray in the first place? They are unfulfilled or out of love in their current relationship. It sucks, they should’ve been more communicative with their partners, and they are responsible for any distress they’ve given their exes, but that’s where we’ve landed.

she signed the same NDA, it’s public record

Mind you just a few months before she dumped him this and every other blog was sharing rumors about how abusive and controlling he was!

Exactly, she gagged him from saying a word yet eludes to his misconduct and not her own

She said the same rhing about her ex Jai Brooks

Yeah but she clearly didn’t learn her lesson because she she cheated & left him for Ethan.

Yeah that song is literally you cheated but so did I, and I can do it just like you too!

Ahhhh u are watching SLOAN😊

Both of you are correct, it's good to use multiple sources

that Lilly post is astonishingly revealing, but where did you obtain the piece of evidence that Dalton visited Ariana a weekend before her 30th? the last I’d heard he made an attempt to rekindle their marriage was May, not June of 2023.

​@@blasphemousleafeon5553 his shirtless pictures with ariana name tattooed blew up and those were taken in london supposedly, his friends were in London too because they shared their location on pics so it seems like he traveled with them.

@@mmgs1148 ah, helpful. those details make the start of her relationship with spongebob even more dubious

maybe if the "you and me against the world" dynamic works well enough it will last for some time

She’s probably already cheating. Just keeping it together until both movies are released. I’m sure the studio gave them both a strong “talking to”.

She's probably a narcissist

Did u realize she always calls him a „Boy“ there is defintely a huge power dynamic

I think she probably will hold on more to this relationship to prove herself to the world

It's interesting seeing her comeback from the scandal with a #1 album and song though 👀

​@ScandalousMediaTea i still think it isnt as big as stans want it to be and with a streaming era, we can put songs on loop and even dont listen to pump up our fav

300 %

@@ScandalousMediaTea yeah but also lost a ton of fans, it just made me mad

@@ScandalousMediaTea I think it’s all bot streams. I haven’t heard a single person actually talk about the album.

She’s not allowed to speak of it legally either☠️

​@@d4ngerousw0man But she DOES🧍🏽‍♀️

@@pr3ttyblackbarbie cause she’s a goddess. She deserves to be happy❤️❤️

@@d4ngerousw0man By destroying other people's happiness? Great. She's not a goddess, maybe to you but she's human like everyone else.

@@d4ngerousw0manlol, good one.

She sees love as the honeymoon phase but the most exciting part is gone in a span of 3 to 4 years, you need more than honeymoon phase to maintain a long relationship, because this fuel is short-lasting

@@mmgs1148 I believe she sees love as an emotion rather than a feeling. And emotions are short lived and particularly fickle, not to mention that seeking the excitement of being overwhelmed by emotions is a bit egotistical. She has a very immature view of love.

Exactly. Literally nothing can make up for it and it was just another fling for her. She’s only holding onto him this long to try to prove that they “had to do it” because they have “true love” or some BS.

he's gonna have "no tears left to cry" 😂

You don't know either of the parents - how do you know their relationship wasn't toxic, and he's going to be better off with them split (not that I know otherwise, just saying parents staying together isn't always the best option)? 😕

​​@@trudimclaren4301they literally wanted to have a child together and tried and we're happy when it happened.. he was literally happily married like a week prior they were so freaking happy they both posted everywhere and she even was in a picture holding their baby. Stop being scum and trying to support this person. If you're ignorant and dumb just say that

@@trudimclaren4301 because we’re doing something called deductive reasoning not inductive. Look it up. It might help you make better decisions in your own life if you can understand basic logic ✌️

Women nowadays love to be on the streets rather than staying married

Even relationships with beautiful people can wear off sadly, you still acknowledge that a person is attractive but dont feel anything for them

Yes, she jumped from 1 relationship to another without a break again so the loop continues

she's in a vicious cycle that she can't break from..

Ariana was hardly going to avoid her co star because there was some swifties trying to make a profit selling tickets to see Taylor. They are desperate. They bought 100,000 $ worth of tickets and want to boost Taylor incase there is a surplus. They want to keep attention away from how Taylor spied Kayla Nicole's boyfriend and was going to football games to pursue him. Maybe a business deal to promote the NFL and bring some more wives over to Taylor. They don't care who they harm in the process.

@@rosehip5101 this sounds AI generated because none of that makes any sense

Why does that bother you? Why do you care so much about the lives of people you don’t know?

Why is that? Something happened to him?

​@@bear3s His wife left him for leprechaun D and then painted him as an abuser

That's weird

for me its a way of downplaying the relationship, a covid situationship that many people went through or something

Oh.🫣

Can you give more detail?? What’s gonna happen to her lol

I think Saturn is also referred to "King of Karma" and it shows.. 💀???

Yet you’re still checking for her

EXACTLY in her 3rd house! So we will* find out 😩😭

Oh that's a good analogy!

this is giving too much purity culture narrative for me….. 😩

so what? u a perfect angel that makes no mistakes? ur so stupid im sorry 😂😂

SAME :(

She's an incredible musician with some very... questionable actions for sure

Separate the music from these people that you DO NOT KNOW

@@laylascott6096 you cant separate the music in this case because she refers to dalton and sponge bob in multiple songs on this album, almost all of them.

@@leena75 exactly, there’s no suspending disbelief with her music esp eternal sunshine, which spongianators themselves have interpreted quite literally if their harassment of dalton is anything to go by.

i don’t think she’s head over heels for anyone but her own needs and self. I feel like she struggles with self love and she’s rich enough and more importantly has lots of support from her family that she doesn’t care enough to not be impulsive because her foundation is so stable and strong that she can afford to keep fucking up because she’ll always be okay. I think she only married Dalton out of desperation for whatever reason and probably got bored and found a reason to leave him. Her playing victim reminds me of Taylor Swift..

Nothing is a contradiction. Do you think people break up and marriages end and there are no conflicting feelings? She goes through all of them in the album and still wishes him well, admits to her own co-dependency and therapy etc. Stan Twitter has ruined what music has always been about. Interpretation

@@laylascott6096 she claims he cheated and this is way worse than therapy and co-dependency, also she claims she tried harder in ES because she wanted to resolve her issues and he didnt

They had a cheating thing in their marriage documents included i think (?) Because he somehow got 1,5 mil and if he was only at fault, even the income disproportion would not save him in a setting with no kids

what happens if he breaks the nda?

@@nflixnchillz3189 he would have to pay her money including legal costs, he is a millionaire probably but this much to risk it and he has nothing to gain with it, because her stans already attacked him so he could lose the crumbs of his reputation that are left and also because isnt so public so clearing his name doesnt have the impact for him like it would do for a celebrity.

Right? She is acting as if she feels her fans are stupid. It's insulting.

she used every chance to make herself look good in the past too, outing mac's alleged toxicity to redirect the hate she got for getting with pete and attacking pete after they broke up and he made a joke that wasnt even about her and in this album its the same thing

Right, love me some Ari tea and music 😂☕️

she debuted on Broadway at age 13

Your take is missing information so basic it can be found on Wikipedia. She made her Broadway debut a decade before Ethan did and has longstanding contacts there much bigger than him. The truth is it’s low-paying grunt work for performers who want prestige or cred, which she does not need

nah, she is in her musical theatre era right now so she changed a partner so it fits, her eras are tied with her relationships

She was on Broadway before she did Nickelodeon so….

@@leena75no. She did broadway when she was young. Have you heard of the musical “13”? 😅

She admits to therapy. She does not display characteristics of someone with narcissistic personality disorder. People overuse that buzz word having no idea what it means. She seems like someone with complex ptsd with codependency issues - which she also admits lol. Everybody needs therapy - I promise you

She holds herself accountable and has a lot of guilt , but at the same time, she tries to portray this behavior as a "sassy bad bitch" which is ofc her brand if you listen to this album carefully and some of her vulnerable songs u will realise that self hatred side of hers .

her best album is Thank U, Next

Hope you enjoyed bestie ❤️🥰

@@ScandalousMediaTea always bestie! 🩷

Hope you enjoyed it! ❤️

So now his sister is vouching for his penis? Where?

she did write that and she wrote he cant speak about it legally

A search for page 6 brings up an Atari magazine called Page 6 (subtitled Atari Users Magazine) .

Thank you! I can’t believe someone would think she is a lyrical genius just because two words sound alike. Genius is a word that is far too overused for pop stars these days.

Thank you.

She is a terrible song writer. Best thing about her is her voice...that is it. I give all the credit to Victoria Monet who wrote Ariana's best songs plus the producers who gave her good beats.

@@la6136 Did Victoria Monet write any songs for Taylor Swift?

You mean ethan my sunshine album?

It’s sooo good!

Literallyyyy my favs are eternal sunshine, imperfect for you, ordinary things❤

Damn you got horrible taste in music 🤣

@@LittleMissCherryPie everyone has different tastes! Imagine how boring it would be if EVERYONE likes what you like. Ariana is very healing and relatable for me and her songs are like my comfort/ therapy so you saying that it’s horrible taste has done nothing because I will always love her music and her no matter what.

ahhh i'm honored 🥹🫶🏼🎬

You would not consider what she has done openly as abuse?

@@gangstaberry2496 using the word abuse this casually is why it losing meaning. Unless Ariana is going around throwing jabs and is constantly antagonising Ethan ex wife, then no, she not being abusive. Someone being mean to you or doing something awful to you isn't abuse.

@@tnlkb6115 I would have to politely disagree, I don't think that's how most people would define it

@@gangstaberry2496most people do loosely throw around terms like abuse. She’s definitely a manipulator and pathological liar but abuse? She just seems annoying as hell and not worth dealing with in the long run.

@@iWANDER262 you think cheating is not abusive?

Thanks bestie and we're working on it!❤️🥰 we're gonna give our pop culture lovers what they want!

Wow this comment made my day! Thank you so much, you're so sweet and it's amazing to have the efforts noticed. Watching the channel and reading the blog will surely have you caught up on everything haha 😂❤️ enjoy bestie!!

Thanks bestie! I hope you enjoy this one ❤️

I'm just trying to maintain an objective view to give an unbiased perspective without being too mean or too nice

I have an active dislike for Ariana, and I don't think this video is simping. It's quite objective and critical of her.

@@ScandalousMediaTea I understand not hating. I really appreciate your channel, I just don't want people to give her a pass anymore because of her looks or nice girl act

probably supernatural. i’d be open to a surprise though

update: it’s been leaked that the single is the boy is mine. welp

@@blasphemousleafeon5553 ong where did that leak??? tea tell me

@@user-fe8uq9zp2g reddit which included stills of the alleged new music video with ariana’s face in them

@@blasphemousleafeon5553I really hope not but I think you’re right. I wish it was supernatural

they’re literally scrambling for 1/16th of a bag fabricating this trash

@@lav4629y3Yep. They’re dying to make a penny when Ari has had one of the biggest albums of the year.

No, the boy is mine is an attempt of making similar bop to fantasize, which was written for some tv show

Except she probably didnt even take the ozempic

It’s common for some people to be unable to eat during stressful life events

ewe sound deranged

you sound delulu, maybe get help

Lilly’s exact wording was “not a girl’s girl,” the use of any other terms to label Ariana like homewrecker were utilized by the public after the story came out. And this isn’t necessarily her public persona when it is a reflection of her private actions. To an extent, she IS awful because she made a choice to pursue the man despite his being married with a child, for the sake of her own happiness. She wasn’t clueless. However, she doesn’t always have to be awful if she ever decides to break the pattern of pursuing taken men, learns to value herself and respect the relationships of other women. Seems like a longshot for her, tbh.

@@blasphemousleafeon5553 So admittedly, I'm no expert in Ariana, but that whole discourse sounds weird to me - as if she "persues" and simply just steals men left and right, like the guys don't have say in it. The guy (Ethan?) must not have been happy with his former wife, and the same goes for Arianas recent relationship. So they are two grown ups in unhappy marriages who met each other and fell in love. Happens all the time, even with celebrities. Now, am I saying it is the best look to fall in love with a married man. Nope. But I'm sure not losing sleep over it.

Yeah, it’s okay be an adulteress as long as she has a hit song

@@missalwaysright4081 no, but given the situation , in hollywood almost every celebrity is like that .

She also has an unreleased "he had it coming" how she rejects a man that hit on her but was married lol

@@mmgs1148 haven’t heard it

It’s a very spiritually dark album. And displays the emotional maturity of a teenager

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