Guys here's the deal, become the type of person you'd like to attract. Women instinctively will always go for stability and the man that will give her that, I see guys trying to attract a high valued woman when they haven't develop themselves enough to have that type of girl. Focus on your porpuse goals and trust me you will give off a different type of energy and women notice that everywhere you go. Become the best version of yourself and you will attract many, you'll have options to choose from!
Ie: if you're in college or university, get into shape, have a sensible amount of money to spend, dress well, smell good and get a good haircut, keep yourself well groomed and be confident, have fresh breath all the time. Chew gum, have a confident mouth piece.
@Mike H find your talent and gift and offer it to others, is very simple to do when you have the right mindset. I personally don't know your situation, please reach out for help I'm sure someone will be able to help you offer your talent and gift to the world.
Yes, if you feel insufficient in some area it affects your confidence When you know you have your life together and can support other people because your life isn't full of crises then you exude an attractive level of confidence. Having a stable life helps a lot, but at least knowing that you are successfully dealing with your life challenges also gives you confidence. Basically to develop confidence you need to face and overcome any challenges that you are concerned about ESPECIALLY the ones that you are trying to avoid lol
Yes i stopped trying the pickup shit, although there are some dudes who are legit like James Marshall. but its simple really triple H bro Hangout Have fun Hook up.
True!! As a woman I can verify that if I laugh at your jokes easily, find a way to touch your arm, brush against you, make eye contact and play with my hair, I’m into you. Just talking to a guy does NOT mean I’m into them. I’ve been on first dates and can hold a good conversation with a guy for over an hour- I can hold a conversation with a brick wall!! Guys have often are confused because we had a good conversation yet I didn’t want to see them again- I was just being nice and making the most of our date, it doesn’t mean I felt chemistry or attraction for them.
Marky D Am I supposed to like every guy I date? I don't think so - that's why I have a first date....testing waters. Sounds like you've been dumped a lot in the past. You should work on your social skills.
If you're not interested then what are you looking for? A free meal? Why carry a conversation with someone you're not interested in if you're just "testing" the waters? Women are so deceitful and lack honesty which is what you search for in men. You'll string someone along who may be interested only to hide behind your phone and ghost that person or text em your not interested. Women these days have zero value!
@@Pma686 careful, man. Wouldn’t want you overdosing on those red pills. Clearly you don’t know the difference between a friendly conversation and a romantic interaction. Go read the book
Asking a woman on a date on the spot is so powerful. Fuck, "what's your number" and waiting 4 days to call. The other way is the quickest most confident way to know if you're in or out.
I am usually 99% with Corey on everything and he's taught me lots but I disagree with the "hi, what's your name" and them dont give yours. Makes you seem too childish in their eyes if you dknt also introduce yourself as well, when you introduce yourself it shows your confidence and not to mention many girls I talk to are usually put in there place and very shy and intimidated by me and my looks and they forget to ask your name. Happened to me once and she found me at the gym and said shes been looking for me trying to find out what my name was for 2 months! Never forget to introduce yourself!
Your comment is the reason why Corey is right. She passed the test: she was interested for 2 months, wanting to know your name. The dedication this girl had to wanting to find out gives away the fact that she had interest all along.
Hey Coach Corey, Great newsletters and channel. Currently I'm focusing on personal development and other education. It feels great to be growing and I wanted to thank you for clear information that will truly help, anyone who views it. One thing that amazes me is that I've never looked into learning about relationships unless mine was going wrong. This is the first time in my life that researched beginning or maintaining a relationship before I've gotten into one! It is liberating. ;)
the most complicated is when she is not asking you any questions...that's a bummer. you ask her questions and she goes "uhm", "uh huh" and so on...time to move on.
Don't .. They're just programmed not to get pregnant by a weak douchebag who'll leave her and the baby alone to die... They look closely who to start a relationship with for that reason.. it's wired in their heads.
+The Narcissist's Scapegoat I wonder if this is adaptation of the species type shit...since it's not 10,000 BC there aren't saber tooth tigers roaming around n shit and no metal objects(knives, spears ect.)...a bad ass isn't needed practically so much anymore.
One of my favourite “tests” is to actually give MY number to girls, this way it puts the ball in their court and doesn’t make you look desperate, it gives out a “text me or don’t” attitude, but you got to be okay with not waiting around for that text and just getting on with life
I'm a decent looking guy. Saw a girl that was 25 years younger than me. Real pretty. I chould tell she had at least 2 kids. Just a feeling. She came out to my car while I was pumping gas. We talked. I could tell it was trouble. I think she was suprised that I didn't ask for a number. I walked. I have a rule. No kids. She was real cute. But I knew better. I chould tell. It was no big deal. I just knew. She was looking for a meal ticket. If I would have made a move. I would regret it. No kids. Ever.
Ask her for her name but don't give her your name, if she asks for your name then she has some interest in you. Check the tone of her voice, does she seem disinterested? if so then move on is she playing with her hair, laughing at your jokes, touching your arm, moving closer to you? is she asking personal questions about yourself? these things communicate a high level of interest a great way to end convo: hey I gotta run but i'd like to talk to you more. What's your number? set up a date for drinks for the next night you can touch her too, kino. Is she looking at your lips? If so go for the kiss.
Hello there wow so my waitress was interested in me and my 8 buddies last night at Outback. Just use common sense and you can tell if a girl is into you
Lol this shit worked. I did this for a smoking hot girl and we became inseparable 3 yrs ago after watching this video. However I've made way too many mistakes so it didn't last. But this shit works bro. Just browsing through and remembered this video
It is funny to hear that you can read women, they choose and you have no clue what they are after, they are interested to confidence, money, and a comfy life (security). Their background determines what they look for or avoid due to past trauma in their family. And they also just want to have fun, nothing else.
Online dating is a good choice. However, i still prefer the traditional face to face interaction. I like to be able to be attracted to a girl in person first and to see if it is also mutual. It is hard to see this on virtual dating.
Coach is right- pay attention and let the girl touch you first. Then you can read her. If she’s reaching for your arm and bumping into you, you’re good!! You won’t know if you’re reaching out first.
She was brushing her foot against my leg and laughing at everything I said... after that I wasn’t paying attention to what she was doing due to the drink, but we still hooked up after several hours of chit chat.
Listen, he might sound boring as hell but this guy knows his shit. More than most people on here. He message is far more powerful than his delivery. If u actually listen and you’re not successful, you really aren’t listening.
facebook, they get 100s of messages from men it's hard to stand out unless you have status. face to face, you can make them fall in love with you with your tone of voice and body language and the don't get approached as often as facebook. Which do you think is easier? lol
Ive listened to all this information on audible in 3% man, which I’ve listened to on audible 10 times, and was hoping to hear additional signs a woman is interested. I don’t like posting on fb or ig but I’ll try to get over this
Selfies with beautiful women elevates their status above yours. There is something sad and lonely about having to do that and it would be the opinion of fellow Facebook friends also. I welcome comments on that.
I love watching all of your vidoes. I've read your "3% Man" 3 times. It's a process comprehending and applying everything. I get just a little bit better every day. Thanks Dude. :)
I’ll give out my number to get to know a guy better. Usually within a few days I’ll decide if he’s someone I want to meet or someone I know I’ll never meet due to red flags. The red flags usually pop up quickly!!
not something i would recommend. why not just find someone who's fun to talk to? its just more fun than lying. and besides, if you're up front, then there's nothing to hide. also, women like that are shallow anyway. they wouldn't be worth anyone's time, and they can even be the reason why some actual millionaires become depressed with their love lives.
After scouring your book with highlighters, I tried this approach and she reciprocated and asked my name. She then asked me where I lived. But… Something was off. I later found out she was gay.
Troy Johnson I agree that women want to change men and ‘fix’ them. (Disagree that it’s an ego thing but rather a basic nurturing thing in women I guess) but seeing a potential love interest posting pictures with other girls makes me feel like he’ll cheat on me. The end. It’s a fuck up if you post regularly with other girls to intimidate a girl you’re actually interested in. The reason it’s a bad idea: cheaters and manwhores are too difficult to ‘fix’. And as women we’re told that cheaters never change and thus, no need to pursue the guy that will inevitably break your heart. However, if you post that you’re at a party and there happens to be girls near you, it can serve as a reminder that the guy may not always be available and if you want him he’s not gonna wait forever. Basically, no pictures of just you and a girl. Only group pictures with girls that also include guys. Sorry for the wall of text.
great work Corey, I am presently working on the particular and an actually below rock bottom reality regarding the most tangibly and spiritually indestructible , and most primal cohesion between the Alpha male and Alpha female. It proves without a doubt, that "like attracts like" or " birds of a feather, flock together", all else being non-conducive to healthy, absolutely true relationships. This is only a beginning point, and the rest is always up to us to find the deepest truths within and without our chosen relations. One pair of Alphas, one pair of direct forces, combined to function sensibly and productively in the Real. Thanks Corey. .
i met a woman back in Sept (2016) we live 500 miles apart . I didn't think it was much but she contacted me after the event we attended in September. She contacted me thru email and wanted to stay in touch. Then she came to my town to attend a weekend seminar (Dec2) and wanted to get together. It was a nice 2 day meeting. We started a sort of phone connection thru the holidays. I really like her. I know she likes me. The phone calls are now at least 3 times a week. She was and is going through a divorce. Is there a possible real connection here or does she just need a shoulder to cry on during this difficult time. Our calls are long ,around 3 hrs. She is a professional woman of 53 and I am 58. I wonder if I should be patient (be a friend) and let her get through her divorce and become free form her crazy husband. Then concentrate on moving this relationship to more intimate place
Too bad for other men who met a women like that..so you guys don't lose a woman like me..loyal,real,trustworthy and not after money ..I'm after what's your heart.if you are appealing to my eyes,its a bonus haha....if your a God loving and God-fearing.then yes to me.
6:40 To meet women on FB, the best thing you can do is have a busy, active social life. Take pictures with random hot women in different cities and post them online.
" Low Risk Strategy " doesn't make sense. if she can't give you a straight answer, she's not interested. Why do you want to wait a whole week or more to find out she's really not into you? I like Corey's. Get to it. If she's interested, she'll let you know on the spot. If she's not interested, she'll let you know on the spot. Either way, you didn't waste your time.
Man, I just give them my number and don’t ask for theirs...mitigates the pressure for them, and minimizes the chance that I’m misinterpreting their signals. If they call/text it’s a done deal.
Coach I hope you are able to read this but i want to thank you for the advice about volunteering my name at the start of the introduction it has worked numirous of times thanks again coach I'll be sure to buy the book and read it between 10 and 15 times
Hi Corey I like your videos but I only differ in two things that you just mentioned: first one sometimes if I like I guy personality and he's genuine person and positive were I can benefit myself, I'm not talking about money it could be for example business advise or something constructive I would give my number.Second if I see a man that I feel attract to and I see in his social media, him with many other girls, it automatically turn me off.
Yes! I know....I know....a woman posting on a "man's guide to women" tutorials! It must be a shocker! Haha! And NO! I AM NOT GAY! LMAO! I came across one video through the various uploads and decided to watch a few. I was interested if I actually do certain actions or say certain things when I am attracted to a man. Pose to what is being stated in the video(s). Honestly, I thought back to the times I was attracted to a man and I did give off the subtle signs Coach Corey Wayne talks about. I don't notice it than at the present moment when engaging conversation with the man I like. Guess it's a reaction that is acting from our subconscious level. It's interesting to watch and see how I reflected on how I behaved around men I was attracted to. However, I wanted to respond to the this topic by asking Coach Wayne...would the touching than letting go to see if the woman touches you back is the same thing when two people mirror one another, when in conversation?
how do you get people to stop setting you up with trolls? it's been a real downer for me when I get a call wanting me to meet someone only to find they have nothing I would pick for myself. it's strange that others think I would be flattered when showing up to meet these sad girls.
i play with my hair even if i am not attrated to the guy. the guy said, you are playing with your hair a lot. I said, yes but it doesn't mean I am interested with you.
Corey, if you're about to say goodnight to a woman--and she does NOT remove her eyeglasses, does that mean she does NOT want you to kiss her? What should you do?
So you're thinking that women who wear glasses always take them off before they kiss a guy? That's definitely not the case, especially not for a goodnight kiss. If the signs are there, just go for it. What can you lose?
+Stefan Kreidel That was the question I posed. After asking a woman I work with--I think you are right. Sure wish I had that opinion three or four months ago. Perhaps I made a colossal mistake, back then. Or maybe God was protecting me from an even greater heartbreak. Thanks for your input.
Corey do you do bootcamps? you know like simulate a "relationship" so we can learn about relationships or simulate "dating" so we can learn about dating.
Why are you condoning causal sex? Even with condoms you can get std. lots of ppl have std because the other person didn’t tell them and they were in too big of hurry to sleep with them. Why not wait and see and get to know their character first?
The whole laughing at my jokes thing is not a good indication of interest with me. I'm a very funny guy and I make most people I meet laugh. I could've been a legit comedian. If I wasn't so stage shy. So should I try to hold off on being funny until I find out if she is interested or not?
